Making Relationships Work | Dr. John Gottman | Seattle Rotary Club

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  • Опубліковано 25 січ 2025

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  • @theDanDeleon
    @theDanDeleon 5 років тому +38

    7:52 NOW GIVE ME DEM LYKES

  • @harryaldieny7697
    @harryaldieny7697 5 років тому +52

    John Gottman has got to be included in our schools curricula!

    • @behindcloseddoors2027
      @behindcloseddoors2027 4 роки тому +4

      Absolutely

    • @rhythmandblues_alibi
      @rhythmandblues_alibi Рік тому

      Especially for those from dysfunctional families, it's so difficult and yet important to learn this stuff.

    • @dominiknewfolder2196
      @dominiknewfolder2196 5 місяців тому

      Sure 😂
      Female teachers are the most pathological example for women how to treat man.
      Every woman behaving like a teacher towards a husband creates conflict.
      It's a pathological example for relationships.
      Zero respect, all power and zero responsibility. Typical school teacher

  • @peternorthrup6274
    @peternorthrup6274 5 років тому +60

    Marry your best friend. I did. That was 33 years ago. We never wanted kids. It was always about us. And always remember. She is right. Whatever the problem is. Most of the time it's not that important. I got lucky. And listen.

    • @miriamwebster2169
      @miriamwebster2169 4 роки тому +1

      P

    • @SS-dp7lt
      @SS-dp7lt 2 роки тому +1

      This is cute. I know my soulmate is on his way to me / energetically we are already together. We too shall not have kids.

    • @Myster-Man-Channel
      @Myster-Man-Channel 2 роки тому +5

      Took me twice to find my best friend. My 1st husband was my best enemy, my 2nd husband is my best friend. I am thankful to my 1st husband bc he taught me so much about what I didn't want, that I found what I did.

    • @johnnmusic
      @johnnmusic Рік тому +1

      Have kids. Can’t describe how “worth it” It is.

  • @brandomiranda6703
    @brandomiranda6703 5 років тому +31

    Amazing! Most couples fight about the failure to connect emotionally...so amazingly and terrifyingly true. Nearly seems to predict any fight Ive ever had.

  • @timothyk13
    @timothyk13 3 роки тому +4

    The woman at the beginning has a great radio/narrating voice.

  • @Wiseamphibian87
    @Wiseamphibian87 5 місяців тому

    Love the Older Couple’s love stories 🥰🥰😍😍; makes we wanna cry Happy Tears💯

  • @WishfulFarmers
    @WishfulFarmers 3 роки тому +1

    At 18:00, Dr John G. starts describing successful couples and their, I'd say, humble responses to critical feedback.

  • @davidmossholder3610
    @davidmossholder3610 4 роки тому +3

    This is excellent. So practical. Thanks for posting.

  • @leopoldhuffer1207
    @leopoldhuffer1207 6 років тому +23

    John Gottman has achieved more for couples then anybody else in our time. Thank you, John! It's so wonderful that you did all this research. Study his masterpiece nonfiction book "What makes Love last?" that sums up most of his recommendations.

  • @peterarakkakudypeter9262
    @peterarakkakudypeter9262 3 роки тому +2

    Wonderful speech, Dr: John Gottman thank you

  • @powermarriage9823
    @powermarriage9823 6 років тому +9

    Great research. Dr. Gottman has helped many marriages with his work. Certainly has helped my marriage.

  • @alty07
    @alty07 2 роки тому +2

    I enjoyed this

  • @natalie9884
    @natalie9884 4 роки тому +10

    Husband dead set on divorce and I cannot accept this. I need serious help and need to take action somehow. Feel so helpless.

    • @jaquelineguardado6503
      @jaquelineguardado6503 4 роки тому +6

      I hope these kinds of videos help you & your husband! Sending you love .

    • @natalie9884
      @natalie9884 4 роки тому +4

      Jaqueline Guardado thank you for that! Hope you’re holding up okay as well......💜
      I’ve accepted that I can’t do anything to change his mind.

    • @jaquelineguardado6503
      @jaquelineguardado6503 4 роки тому +4

      Natalie Gaylard sometimes things that we don’t understand are for the better. Stay strong

    • @khushandepatel8252
      @khushandepatel8252 3 роки тому +3

      How are things now between you & husband??

    • @maboo736
      @maboo736 2 роки тому +1

      You’re gorgeous. Let him go…if it’s meant to be he will be fighting to stay

  • @janethomas78
    @janethomas78 6 років тому +11

    People want to be loved. Loved. Connected? Just be honest- LOVED.

  • @orijit
    @orijit 7 років тому +5

    what a brilliant and funny man!!

  • @80zBabee
    @80zBabee 9 років тому +3

    Great seminar

  • @AndreaCairella
    @AndreaCairella 9 років тому +7

    I enjoyed Dr. John Gottman's speech and research about relationships. As a therapist, I admire his strategies to creating healthy and healthy relationships. I would love to interview John and Julie on my radio show on the keys to a happy and healthy marriage. Let me know and we can coordinate a good time to have them on the show.

  • @illmeeillmee9373
    @illmeeillmee9373 4 роки тому +3

    Some ppl are so good at being victims that they attack while being a victim

  • @rhapsodicchimera9768
    @rhapsodicchimera9768 2 роки тому +2

    Anyone know the name of the apps at 27:20?? Wow, this was insightful. It's small things like doing little activities your partner likes just to make them happy and complimenting on the little things that help them feel seen......... KISSING is big, I often need the kissing to be good and often before I can get to the deeper part of relations. I've ended relationships over bad kisses 😅. It was turning me off. Now I feel validated for that lol.

  • @illmeeillmee9373
    @illmeeillmee9373 4 роки тому

    20:33 yess!!!

  • @joshlarsen4123
    @joshlarsen4123 4 роки тому +2

    Wow, this is such an awesome video!!

  • @c.kevinwall3117
    @c.kevinwall3117 5 років тому +4

    So enlightening!

  • @glasshousefuture6836
    @glasshousefuture6836 Рік тому

    I always wondered what happened to Bob 😅

  • @Alettierrr
    @Alettierrr Місяць тому

    very funny

  • @frawldog
    @frawldog 2 роки тому +1

    💜

  • @nv7287
    @nv7287 5 років тому

    29:24 39:38

  • @charliechuck8994
    @charliechuck8994 7 років тому +9

    Wow too late for me

  • @zensvlognotapro
    @zensvlognotapro 3 роки тому +1

    Wow wonderful romantic relationship ❤️.

  • @FierceBelonging
    @FierceBelonging 7 років тому +2

    Overall I really enjoyed his speech but I felt like he got a bit defensive about the "wrong reasons" question and through that and other comments I feel like he doesn't understand childhood trauma

  • @neninhomc
    @neninhomc 7 років тому

    Só to aqui por q a moonkase gostou desse video

  • @jameshendrickson4845
    @jameshendrickson4845 4 роки тому

    No need to dig on the south.