RG Kar case is more probably not just another rape and murder case, the case happened because few administrative people wanted to suppress the victim to cover there nexus
the only fact is rape k liye dono responsible hai girl bhi aur boy bhi log sirf man ko bolte hai but ek man toh biologicaly ladkiyo se hi sexually attract hota hai woh bhi bht kam age se hi aur woh attraction bht strong hota hai most of the men k liye ,log samjh ne ko tayar hi nhi hai ki iss mai dono ki galti hai ladkon ka bhi aur ladkiyon ka bhi example ladkiya ese videos banati hai jisse ladke seduce hoten hai woh chahkar bhi control nhi krte ek time ata hai woh opportunity use krlete hai aur rape hojata hai ,movies,shorts ,reels har jagah sexy(scenes ) videos hote hai ladkiyo ka jyada sexy scenes dikhaya jata hai jisme ladki apne marzi se paiso k liye ese scenes ko accept krti hai krne k liye jisse ladke bhi sochte hai muje bhi krna hai ye sab kam ummar mai unme feelings ane lagte hai aur testosterine level increase hota hai jisse woh outof control hoker sex krne ki koshish krte hai aur rape hojata hai fir woh dar kr murder krdete hai ,isliye life mai dono ko control krna chaiye acche se educate hona chaiye .acche man jo sochte hai aur jinko lagta hai ye kbhi rape ya sex nhi kr sakte hai woh bhi woh sab krte hai jab unka testostorine level high hota hai ek situation mai, mai ek ladka hu toh i can feel these things inside me i researched and i got this reason for rape .so ladkiya socially ladko ko seduce kr rahi hai jiska anjaam hume har waqt najar ata hai porn k wajeh se bhi hota hai .mai kisi ko hurt nhi krna chahta mere ghr pr bhi maa bhen hai so i can understand but the fact is fact
You are missing that point again. This case is not a normal rape case but the rape happened due to the similar reason. Power and domination. See, the fault lies in the roots of gender discrimination.
immense respect for this guy who has the guts to admit that he was treated differently than his sister. it takes a lot to admit such things on such an open platform.
@@kishor.k8092a son is always a KING and a daughter is a PRINCESS. A king rules, a princess is Pawn who can be used easily as per men’s accord. Shaadi Kara do, nhi ye job nhi krna, nhi ye nhi padhna, akele Bahar nhi Jana, Tujhe itna Ladd se bada Kia h is liye hi itni bigad gyi h. A princess is never free 🙂
At 13 i was harassed by an auto driver who used to pick me up from my school. I came to home and cried and told everything to my parents. They told me not to tell this thing to anyone and complained in my school. My parents put unbelievable restrictions on me after that incident. I hate them for doing this to me. I felt like i was the wrong person in the situation but i don't know how because i was wearing full clothes neither i was flirting. As i grew i developed many fears within myself. Now, i talk about that incident to many people especially to young girls and all my friends. I came to know that its such a small thing which happened to many girls and they arent even able to voice it out. Public places are actually not safe for women. I just dont know if at any point of time women would feel safe on this planet
Don't blame your parents, they know the society and people better than you, If they did strict action against auto driver, then it could have create huge problem in future like your marriage, or may be he would try to take revenge because they have nothing to lose. Edit:- Dear Replies! I think you didn't understand my point. I am not saying that her parents are right, but they know that our society and laws and police, are worst in India. Many acid attacks happened just because of revenge, and still police couldn't catch them. Different parents have different thinking but everyone fears for their childrens life. They don't want their daughters to have have problems in future.
This is reality of india sometimes I also scared about my sister I have 9 sister my area is fully Muslim dominated rapes occur every month because rape is allow in islam still buslim people have don't shame due to this reason all of the hindu of my region have migrated to other place but we are still here fear of rape is always occur in mind due to constantly rape occurring in my area alwar mevat rajsthan worse area
he will not show this because he has good obdient audiance who just trust what he says, the title is indias ra** problem but where is the data of other country where i don't see and also in india 60 % of r*** case are false and for personal or other enimity then actual r*** and later when court procceding happen are withdrawn. dont trust this forigen agent he has multiple times showed distorted facts and throghn dirt on india.
@@nareshkumar3526 they didnt do any right things. about marrige she can choose a life partner. There are 5 billion men in entire world. It isnt hard to find one. Also Keeping the deeds unpunished will increase the problem
@@nareshkumar3526that's the mentality we need to change. auto driver ko to pta chal gya na ki uska kuch nhi bigdega aisa krke or shaadi koi har ek ki life a ultimate goal nhi hota jiske liye itni chinta kr rhe ho agar tum apne bachche ki protection nhi kar skte to paida krna jaroori tha kya
I remember one day I saw my little brother who was around 15-16 years old, sitting with a bunch of older guys who were catcalling girls, he was laughing along with them. I felt soo much anger and ashamed, I went home and at first I wanted to tell our dad but then again our dad’s scolding might not create a huge impact on him. The moment he came home I poured ice cold water on his head and asked him if his head is ok or not that he felt it was okay to even sit with those idiots and laugh along with them when they were harassing those girls. He was still confused and that made me even more angry, and I told him that it is NEVER ok to make women uncomfortable or unsafe with your actions or words . I told him I didn’t want to speak to him until he realises his mistake, because I saw him as one those idiots and not my brother. Let’s just say I’ve never seen him do that again, I guess it hit him when his own sister told him that what he did made her uncomfortable even though they were not aimed at her.
Rape is definitely a problem but the biggest problem is how they're treated after being raped. The thought that a woman's life gets completely destroyed after rape is most problematic. It's society's duty to help rape victims adjust in the society and not treat them as outcast.
Yeah that girl if she is sexually abused or harrased she is treated badly by the society, even by her own parents. It's sad but is the social reality so we have to live with that.
@@punyashloka4946 Wrong mentality. Live with that ?? Slavery was once common too but we defeated that. If we accept things as it is then nothing will improve in the society. We need to keep speaking on these issues instead of trying to live life miserably.
@@vivaanburnwal142At the end of the video we saw that first step is school programs them social programs in villages and then more women in media and cinema then more women in work force.
@@kamadotanjiro3118no government must bring act to protect hindus. Tmc rohingya leader sheikh shahjahan tortured 2000 hindu women in sandeshkhali at 12 pm every night took away lands from their hindu husbands. If bjp did not send enforcement directorate, the case could never be revealed.
@@vivaanburnwal142 even the basic things can help like the difference in treatment a boy and a girl receive should change and they both should be treated equally, boys (that includes me too in past) treat girls like some alien beings while boys r given extra privileges bcs they r boys and girls r given a "protective shield" bcs they r girls
Exactly!!!!! I come across many posts specially the meme pages which are highly influential and they turn women to a joke. Not only they do that but also I've seen, these meme pages and posts are highly misogynistic.
Every rape got these layers behind it. 1. Objectification of women in our movies 2. The common role our actresses are offered is to support a man emotionally or to earn his love as her prime goal 3. The iniquitous 'item songs' 4. Men never told to not stare at a woman rather women are told to dress properly 5. Lack of proper sex education 6. Prostitution and pornography 7. Patriarchy causing men to feel superior 8. Alcohol, drugs As long as we don't address all of these collectively, we'll only erupt now and then and won't find a solution.
2 is slightly wrong. In most Bollywood movies it’s the man pursuing the woman and wearing her out or “winning her over” through harassment that’s passed off as romantic and ends in song and dance. But yes, she is seen mostly as an object and an emotional support “sidekick.” The message is if it’s a no, keep trying. In real life, if someone tries that they quickly find out they would not win over the woman. So she is abused, assaulted, raped, and has revenge crimes committed against her like acid attacks, murder, etc. The rest of the points are very true. Lack of sex education and objectification of women that’s supported by media and their peers is a huge thing. As usual, women are told to cover up or have curfew and even in hostels, bars on girls’ hostel window and strict 9 pm curfew usually. Men still rule the world in many places, and women have always had to adjust to it to try to protect themselves.
I would like to add to it as lack of education in general too (not just literacy, but proper education and understanding point of view also), and lack of mental healthcare
I love how almost all the video was in black and white symbolizing the seriousness about the issue. And in the final part it turns into colors symbolizing a ray of hope.
Dear men, From a girl: When you look at a girl , its okay to appreciate her beauty , but you must not do it with your hands , eve-teasing isnt okay either. Just look at her and leave if you absolutely cant bear it. Please dont drink after 6pm...A few women tend to have nightshifts , or perhaps her father/brother/sister is at the hospital and she must go there all alone/Perhaps she went out in the dark for some other reasons , if you are drunk and out of your mind you might end up hearting her. Please dont drink once the daylight is gone Please show off your physical strength by protecting your sisters , not by harassing them...If you protect a woman you become a god for her , otherwise you are simply the cruel product of Kali , a vison of the devil himself. This is coming from your sister , please stay safe , please be rightious , please protect women when they cant do it themselves. Lots of love to all my sisters who might have been through hell Lots of love to all my brothers who are willing to change and change the society
All our inner voices summed up in one comment kudos 👏 🙌 Just my opinion even if u want to drink...don't do anything bad after drinking and stay in your limits....
@@Forever_Carat976 Yeah maybe be around good people , drink at a good friend's house instead of drinking outright on streets near schools/public places all this western nonsense , clubs , pubs and stuff has seriously ruined india...India used to be wonderful
@@Sandwich-h1e How is that related to rapes? and those girls are probably 12 or 13 year olds who believe whatever they see on social media, immature kids with no real knowlegde dont tell me you justify rapes over something like this??
I met a 12 year old boy who told me that Girls are only meant to sit at home, do makeup and make Roti... while boys are meant to work and become sipahi. This thought is deep rooted in all these kids. who is planting this? when will this society change? I hope i see a developed india before i die.
For that you need to remove democracy first. As long as majority of people keep voting these Thugs and landlords you can't expect them to bring a change in the system
@@Jungkook-sl9si manuwadi soch badlene ki jarurat he..Jis desh me sita ko agni pariksha dene padi apne charitra ki..Uss desh me aam ladkio ke charitra ki to dhajiya udai jata he...
@@snehamomlifestyleacha ji Yani jo bhi muh me aye bak do bina sir pair ke bol toh ayse rahi ho mano manusmriti puri padhi Hui hai tumne. Tum logo ki soch bjp ke age badhne se rahi topic hoga kuch bologe aur kuch. Fir baad me bologe ke desh ka kuch nahi hone wala ha tum jyso ke hote hue kaise hoga kuch.
30% Nationalism 60% Socialism 10% Communism makes a better society. But feeling sad for the people and their misogynist behaviour and monotonous attitude towards the development of the nation. At least you identified it my friend.
last year an american vlogger was graped by her two guides,, but it didn't become international news but jub bhi bhenchoo india me kucch hotta purri dunniya ko mauka mill jata hai hamari maarne ka india ki population is more than 2 time of whole europe ... per capita ke hissab se statistics dekhe toh INDIA me bakki desho ke mukable aaise case kum hotte but phir bhi wetern media hame grape capital ki tarah potray karrti hai
the main problem is that the government it just saying "we will do more to protect girls" and do basically nothing and the lack of education about sex and telling your kids about it is considered a touchy subject.
@@CapstoneProjects-rk1be don't know if there's any way left to prevent all this😢😢....in any condition they hv got the guts to do whatever they want without any fear
@@Sln950 india's thinking should change to prevent all this and most imp everyone should atleat study 50% of upsc syllabus for awearness not for alleges false cases with that knwoledge
When I was in eighth grade in my school, a debate started between me and one of my favorite teachers regarding good coordination between males and females. I was saying that men and women should be treated equally in our society so that they do not feel shy and lack of confidence in sharing something in front of the opposite gender or asking for help when needed. This debate continued until my teacher said, "पत्नी का ये मजाल कि बो अपने पति को आंख उठा कर देख ले." Then I realized that I am wasting my time. Now you can understand what kind of mentality even a teacher can have.
I've found that misogynists often struggle to change, and if they do, it's usually thanks to someone who helped them along the way. However, personally, I wouldn't make such efforts because I believe the risk of getting hurt outweighs any potential benefits. Confronting such individuals, regardless of their gender, could result in harm to oneself. That's why I always advise people, especially children, to let go and stay away from them, as they're also likely to commit other crimes. So I hope you are safe and stay safe 😊
@@mianmuhammadiqbal3675Hindi bhi nahin padhna aata kya???😂 Usne likha hai ki “Patni ki itni majal nahin honi chahiye ki voh pati ki aankh mein aankh daal ke dekhe”
Me, I am literally disgusted by how people are protecting and hiding the real person who committed this horrible thing. Shame on such people and the System.
Why aren't media showing this? They are more concerned about how to root discrimination among religions. Spreading hate will never make India the most secular country.
People compare rape to crimes like theft and mugging when they don't work the same way, thefts are mostly done by strangers while rapes are mostly done by people the victims trusts like a relative, friend or family friend.
@@priyadeshpande23 sad for hindu women tortuted in sandeshkhali by tmc leader sheikh shahjahan. 5000 hindu women tortured yet no international outrage. If something happens with 1 muslim women eberybody cries.
@@PoojaMishra93295 No one in their right mind would justify r*pe. It's just that we're saying, don't paint India as the only country where it happens. Just look at the title of the video, 'India's r*pe problem.' Was it really necessary to drag the whole nation into this? Instead of playing the blame game, let's focus on finding solutions.
I dont care if people are pissed over the fact that the 'name' of india is getting ruined because of the publicization of such rape cases. But we have to fix our problems first! We cant avoid or dismiss the situation by saying that it defames india, this is the height of carelessness. Dont care about the foreign nations or their views, the only thing that matters is the safety for all who venture into our homeland, whether it be our sister or a foreigner. We must stand and fight rather than ignore and avoid.
yeah that couple should have been warned by police like they are warned in Pakistan , pakistani police are assigned to each and every foreigner to protect the image of pakistan and its a thing that bothers many backpackers and independant solo vloggers but they dont understand how important it is .
We have this same problem in Pakistan, a lot of people want to brush all the trash under the rug so that it doesn't defame the country. What good does it bring? Instead of addressing the actual problem, people tend to focus on the wrong thing. And I believe such people are directly or indirectly causes of increase in such cases. Wholeheartedly agree with you
I am shocked too see even after him explaining everything thing in detail, people are only arguing about fake rape cases, i mean If the mindset of the people of india is like this, then what can be expected from them?
@@nush8131 so you won't talk about an issue because there's no video on it? Also this video is about fake cases as well. Females actually sound like insecure toddlers, "noouu this is my video about my issues onlyyy 🥺😡😡😫♀️"
@@Kilallfemales I mean it's your country. If you feel no shame, okay. It's not my issue to care. What was I expecting form india anyway, do whatever you want.
@@Kilallfemales Har video mein jab ladkiyo ki baat hoti hain to ek launda hamesha aake "women☕" ker ne lakta Hai. Bache ho ya kya ho? koi mature mindset nhi hai kya? Almost all indian girls can agree many men have catcalled them, touched them without their permission and made disgusting remarks about them, what about that? Please try to be an adult next time and talk about this in a fake rape case without saying "women"☕" all the time. Aise to hum bhi "men☕" comment kar saket hai, hai ki nhi?
Nature ne female ko itna physically weak kyo banaya hai ? Agar mai bolu ki meri research se mai ladkiyo ko male jitna strong bana dunga! To kya females khud agree karengi ?apni body change karne ke liye ? Mera manna ye hai ki hum ladkiyo ko strong banane ke liye unke breast system ko aise manipulate karenge ki vo keval preganant hone ke aur lactation period Tak hi bade honge ! Take unko comfort ho ! Aur unke hips bhee isi samay tak hi wide honge ! Aur baat rhi physical weakness ki ho harmone manipulate se hum unko ladko jaise strength de denge aur periods ko bhee isi samay tak keval limit kar denge ! Ho isse hoga ye ki ladke ladki dono ko same physical strength milegi ! Baat Rahi ladko ki kaam vasna Jo ki bohot hoti hai ! To hum unke liye vaccine ban denge jisse unka hormonal change ho jayenge aur aur ek limited period Tak koi lust mehsus ho nhi karenge ! By this rape problem can be totally solved !
@@neerajkushawaha563 yeahh can never trust these relatives🤢 your friends must be really comfortable with you since they're sharing such deep traumas it's really haunting I hope u maintain their trust and safety🙏
I studied in a co-ed school where everything was segregated. School trips were organized separately for boys and girls, and any interaction between genders was strictly discouraged. This patriarchal tradition continues to be enforced in my old school to this day.
@@arinael It is definitely a problem. School is where you learn morals and ethics, and stopping this unwanted segregation would help improve things to some extent. Most importantly, communication between genders must never be barred at a young age.
As a man I state, if a woman is a victim of sexual abuse, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Report it to the police as soon as possible, so that you can get justice. Please.
Please talk about 2000- 5000 women tortured by tmc leader sheikh shahjahan in sandeshkhali. Our national commission for scheduled caste chairman arun ji told that he had committed crime against women in sandeshkhal
Probably because many womens use such articles for their own benifits.....by doing so they are making the real victim's voice unheard in the court. The court are busy with the fake rape cases and justice is served late or even no justice is served.
he will not show this because he has good obdient audiance who just trust what he says, the title is indias ra** problem but where is the data of other country where i don't see and also in india 60 % of r*** case are false and for personal or other enimity then actual r*** and later when court procceding happen are withdrawn. dont trust this forigen agent he has multiple times showed distorted facts and throghn dirt on india.
"A 'proper' girl wouldn't be out at 9PM" he says. And who died and made you the "hero" and "saviour" to "correct" her? Almost like you didn't have a control over your urges and don't want to take responsibility for it.
Very well said mohak bhai. Rape is a heinous crime & it must be stopped. Iam a mother of 3 boys & i always thought my boys to respect females, iam doing my bit for better tomorrow.
Glad to see , such kind of parents also exist in this nation where today,s parents are rarely have any incentive to enlighten their kids with context of Social awareness, They just leave it on So called Society which to be fair in modern time is just immune :'(
Having worked in peripheral govt hospitals and attending such neglected girls every day, I can conclude for sure that the rape cases we see in India are just the tip of an iceberg, the real number is way more than that. Sometimes 15-16 year old girls will only come with 9 months of pregnancy, and the case would be reported for the first time by the hospital administration. The conditions are pathetic!!
Most importantly, criminals in almost all crimes know That what they are doing is wrong but in r_pe cases criminals thinks of himself as highly moral being or some kind of saviour who is entitled to do what he did. Thanks to the r_pe culture which no one takes seriously and rather try to further inforce it Though jokes, movies, podcasts etc and even justify it.
@@skinhair1484Indian boys - hume sab pata hai , pr fir hum R@pes krenge , kyun ki ladkiya issi k layak hai . Hum sigma male hai . Hum Jo bhi krte hai khulle aam krte hai . Yahi mard ki nishaani hai .
Also a lesson to parents, what goes wrong in their parenting? Their indifference in raising kids based on gender makes a huge impact. Our indian parents raise women to be submissive and raise their son like they're born to rule women with brutality. That's the root of these problems. They should teach both empathy towards eachother, kindness, humanity, how to act like a human instead of looking who is useful for them in old-age. Stop raising your sons like insurance in old-age. Raise them both like individual humans. This solves so many problems we face in this society. Think twice what's going wrong? Where it all started. The seed to these problems.
bilkul correct!!! and sabse pehle .. sabsi choti cheez hai ki koi bhi aadmi ya aurat gaali dena bandd karein and this is applied to both boys and girls.. i am so hurt that when a boy or girl gets angry he or she abuses mom and sis abuses, and that abuses literally means to have x*s with them.. so if we sow seeds of abuses in mind then what will happen when we will grow up??!!
@@stankssmile5865 I don't think they would call themselves men's rights activists. But around 3 months ago they posted a video about a girl who was travelling the world and nothing had ever happened to her. But when she got to India, her husband was beat up and she was gang raped. It's crazy because out of all the countries she had travelled to in the whole world west to east, India was the only country where she had this encounter.
The worst part is those people who dismiss the entire problem without a second thought. "Other countries also have this problem" and a thousand more excuses. The insecurity of our own issues runs deep within many. We just wanna avoid any backlash rather than solving the problem at hand. Until this mentality changes all the problems plaguing India wont go away.
It's about learning what works and what doesn't. This self flaggelation did not get us anywhere 50 years ago and it won't take us anywhere today. I have never seen any country react this way to crimes.
This attitude won't change it will only increase, bcz of the fake cases. As the number of fake cases are rising, genuine ones will not be taken seriously, and people won't support.
@@wasteland3000 That's simply because in other countries people try to find out reason of problem or hide the problem by staying silent ... In our country people don't work to know why crimes happen and simply blame as if blaming country would lead them anywhere we need to solve problem...
I like how the rapists blame the women for wearing revealing clothes and provoking them, but how would they explain the rape of an 8 year old who doesnt even know what sex is? And ive seen countless videos of a girl talking about a certain topic and the immature men in the comment section talking about her cleavage, when it has no relation to the video at all. They think theyre being funny but theyre just proving that they are porn addicted and in reality, theyre pathetic. Not only that, even when a girl was wearing a normal shirt, those men still talked about how heavy chested she was. We are taught that natural things are unnatural. India needs some solid sex ed otherwise the problem will NEVER be solved. Thank you sir, for researching and covering such an important topic. This is called a true influencer :)
i agree if we take a good look at it most women that get raped doesnt always wear sensual clothes it can be a 3 year old kid ... a small school girl in her uniform or also a 60 year old middle age woman in her traditional clothes the problem that people often blame girls to hide the fact that it was fault of the men !
True. In winter I wear full clothes and 2-3 layers of clothing and sometimes a beanie to cover my head/ears, only my face is uncovered and yet some perverts (even uncles) are staring with lusty eyes. I mean what now, what else to do? In summer to not get tan I wear full cotton clothes, socks, gloves and all and cover my face with dupatta, only my eyes are shown in this attire, still, I was harassed. I really don't understand the logic of victim blaming.
I used to study at Aakash coaching centre when I was 14 years old. One day I was relentlessly harrassed by the security guards, who kept laughing at me, telling me to come to them, making disgusting sexual comments about my body and especially my legs. I was dressed from head to toe in very modest clothing (not that it matters). I told my father when I went home and he just shrugged and told me "hota hai". I dropped out from the centre the next year because I felt so ashamed and scared. The people who were meant to be protecting me completely failed me.
@@xbluebirdx i was triggered by his response, as if its completely normal. I didn't made assumptions on you, but rather on the person who you should be idolizing in life. Its good that you are fighting, but your primary protector/supporter failed to take part in your fight.
@@realracing3specter295 I see, I apologise, I misunderstood and thought you were attacking me. I completely agree, unfortunately this is the reality with 99% father's of India. They are completely deadbeat and yet idolised for it. Even today, when I tell my mother or grandparents of how he reacted, they accuse me of being disrespectful and start going on about how hard his life is and how hard he works.
@@xbluebirdx oh, oh, well that sounds tragic. I am sorry for what happened with you. Fortunately my father was not like this, he worked hard most of his life while serving in the army, I have always and always idolized him, he has always supported my family and stood with me and my sister, starting from everyday chores to every mental and moral support. both my parents played an important role in making me and my sister strong. I remember when my sister complained about her incidences in college, my father gave warnings to the guy to take legal actions if something happens to my sister. and since late teens, our bond has grown even stronger. my sister is now 30 and is already a powerful woman, both mentally and financially independent and strong.
for those who think women are weak: a woman is a person who gave birth to you , they go through labour pain, period pain which even men cant handle . most women are nurses which help to save lives and are mentally strong
Animals give birth to their children too, doesn't mean parents are STRONGER. 1- Child is young 2- Child is strong 3- Child belongs to new generation 4- Child Child has superior knowledgeable and information due to studying modern day science The whole argument of "women" being stronger or even more "brave" then a man is a lie and BOGUS.
Tharki ladko se baat karna avoid karo..tum ladkiyo ko jyaada muh chalanewaale ladke pasand h n they play with u and then girls feel ditched...yehi smart ladke physical relationship rakhte h lust k bahaane n innocent ladko ka naam bhi kharaab hota h isse..
I would gladly let the tourism of our country go down if that incentivizes the people in power to make it safer for all women. The safety of our girls is more important than reputation.
PrinceVa-hj4xg toh ab child marriage bhi kare ? 💀 kya bak rahe ho bhai. child marriage choti ladkiyo ke sath hota tha, ladko ke sath nahi. ladke bare hone par hi shaadi kar te the. 💀
PrinceVa-hj4xg kya hormones release? sab ladko ke hormones release hote hai par sab rapists nahi hote, unme mutual understanding aur respect hota hai jo aakal ke boys me nahi hai
KV student from Bangalore here. we have CCTVs in all rooms and corridors, a dedicated team of handpicked students who will complain to the vice principle if a guy and a girl are seen talking alone, two braids with red ribbons mandatory to make us look like a clown because one ponytail is somehow going to give guys a hard on ?? and no nail paint allowed, no jewelry allowed, no khol, if your sunscreen leaves a white imprint on your skin consider yourself dead, you are not allowed to open your collar button at any time. (collar reaches upto the chin and first button is on the neck) and you cannot wax or shave your arms. separate seating rows inside a classroom for boys and girls and we are not allowed to sit with each other. no group project will involve both boys and girls together and you will have to find a same gender person to team up with. i could go on and on forever.
all KVs were the same, the teachers would shame the girls, side with the boys; even the female teachers, which was so sad and disappointing. At that young age, you expect a level of maturity, understanding and possibly any form of mentorship but they were all bullies. I remember talking to a boy in my class about some movie that him and I liked after class(the classes were over and some students were leaving) and we were sitting on different benches too but my Hindi teacher still got mad and made such a big deal about it. I didn't say much but I didn't apologize to her either about anything. The next day, the PT Sir, with whom I had never talked to me in my entire life, came up to me and told me to apologize to her. It just seem so disgusting to imagine that she might have been so pissed that she bitched about it probably in the teacher's room, to a point that another teacher told me to apologize to her. I realized her ego was way too much fragile to be shattered by a 14 year old girl.
my school was not like this, i spent my entire school sitting between 2 girls (1-12th), and we shared everything, from food to all everyday crap and all dirty sexual talks. when we were in final year, it was really disheartening to us when school introduced new dress code, changing from shirt+skirts to salwar-suits for girls of 10-12th, we knew why its being done, and we used to laugh at school for posting such stupid actions to stop easy-sex in school premises. we didnt had sex with each other, but we saw others and knew secret places in school where elder kids used to go for the fun. it was so weird for me to see them in that dress and they complain how suffocated they felt in their legs and breast areas. we used to joke around, if we were in Hawai, we would just stay naked all the time, no clothing boundation like this school, lol. as far as i know, now the school has implemented this dress code to younger girls as well, this explains the mentality of older gen people, new policies are pushing genders further apart. i feel sorry for the kids in my previous school, getting crushed by new patriarchy.
I see people making memes, on rape, and sexual harassment and labelling it as "dark humour". It doesn't tell anything about the kind of humorous personality one has, but the cheap mentality and the lack of education one has been given.
Incles are dangerous n if this mindset don't occur then yes inceldom is the choice taken by many knowledge able man n man who wanna live longer life let us Marriages illegal tab sab problems solve ho jayengi
I'm beginning to lean towards the idea of cheap internet in India being a mistake, degenerate content is now spread as far as it has ever been and it's in the wrong hands, sure it might be "dark humor" for some but as Mohak said, some people take fictional movies and such behaviour as something they should be doing in real life, now we'll have a generation of kids being even more insensitive and degenerate than ever before, the entire dark humor shtick is cancer
The whole idea of "sigma", "alpha", "you don't understand dark humour" etc is illiterate mentality of our teens. It's very easy to shrug off your ill intentions as "joke" or "humour" nowadays and these teens are further aggravated by these sigma alpha movie edits which makes them feel like they have some elevated status, again reels made by same foolish teens.
Both are important and second, why are you connecting religious concepts with crime , I have heard a nice speech by someone " Criminals have no religion"
you do realize this sexual and patriarchal problem on indian subcontinent was intensified due to mughal influence of 600 years ? Bharat was never this bigoted but long rule of mughals this changed ALOT
Society plays an important role, people will stare at you if you talk to a girl, even in some schools they have separate line for girls and boys how can there be sensitivity I had a teacher in 10th grade he said, "the more you try to stop something the more it will happen" He also educate us about sex education, I'm glad I had a teacher like him
he will not show this because he has good obdient audiance who just trust what he says, the title is indias ra** problem but where is the data of other country where i don't see and also in india 60 % of r*** case are false and for personal or other enimity then actual r*** and later when court procceding happen are withdrawn. dont trust this forigen agent he has multiple times showed distorted facts and throghn dirt on india.
he will not show this because he has good obdient audiance who just trust what he says, the title is indias ra** problem but where is the data of other country where i don't see and also in india 60 % of r*** case are false and for personal or other enimity then actual r*** and later when court procceding happen are withdrawn. dont trust this forigen agent he has multiple times showed distorted facts and throghn dirt on india.
I study in kvs Patna I remember that some boys used to sit with girls but only till 2nd grade, but now I am currently in 8th class and girls and boys are made to sit in different rows
Such a great video Mohak, I too have faced the harsh separation b/w girls and boys in schools. In my old school, we were not allowed to talk to a girl in the corridors or even share a tiffin with the girls during lunch. Boys and girls were regularly taken to the principal for talking to girls in corridors and even their parents were asked to come to school. The teachers and principals regularly said ALL GIRLS ARE YOUR SISTERS, and we were made to not even sit close to them, talk about sitting with them. I believe this type of taboo in our society is also a leading cause of such acts of shame. The students are not given sex ed., even teachers fear teaching the reproduction chapters in class. I hope our govt. takes some actions in breaking this taboo in the near future
my school was not like this, i spent my entire school sitting between 2 girls (1-12th), and we 3 shared everything, from food to all everyday crap and all dirty sexual talks. when we were in final year, it was really disheartening to us when school introduced new dress code, changing from shirt+skirts to salwar-suits for girls of 10-12th, we knew why its being done, and we used to laugh at school for posting such stupid actions to stop easy-sex in school premises. we didnt had sex with each other, but we saw others and knew secret places in school where elder kids used to go for the fun. it was so weird for me to see them in that dress and they complain how suffocated they felt in their legs and breast areas. we used to joke around, if we were in Hawai, we would just stay naked all the time, no clothing boundation like this school, lol. also, all teachers were very humble, smart and sane. sex education at school was the best anyone could get without internet (really). fast forward to 10 years later, as far as i know, now the school has implemented this dress code to younger girls as well, this explains the mentality of older gen people, new policies are pushing genders further apart. i feel sorry for the kids in my previous school, getting crushed by new patriarchy.
Nice, you acknowledged you are treated differently than your sister, nice. Not many people will understand this and many will call you simp and all, but you go King.
Every year something horrible happens, n people get violent n say we will protest, we post stories on insta, n then what ... Within few months something like this happens again. Makes one feel hopeless. Today I was going out to get groceries n got scared thinking what if ...
When i was 5 i got harrassed by a phermasist ...in the name of checkup he was touching my private parts i told my family and they said we will change our phermanist and i will contact a new one and then wheh i was about 10 someone i don't remember that clearly did same thing to me and later that day i told this to my mother she said dont go outside after a few years i was about 12 one my uncle did exactly same thing to me but this time i didn't tell anyone because i know they will blame me later on when was 16 in my own sister's wedding i got physically harrassed by a group of people including my own sister's husband i took stand for me but nothing happened they never got any punishment my family said my destiny is bad i think i am the only one who got harnessed by multiple times i am afraid of these people till now they are around me i dont feel safe around them now i am 23 and i am scared to go out to wear any revealing dress even they still visit my house and everytime they comes i got panic attack i dont know what to do i wish someone could help me
Ngl but shame on your mother she didn't took your side like not even scolding the people who are harassing her own daughter i think you should take the stand on your own don't let those people harass you and scold those people don't worry about their age and all juss scold them or even if they try to touch you still u can take help of women's helpline number you'll find it on google. But just don't suffer , it's not good to suffer
I'm so sorry you went through that. Clearly everyone around you failed you as a kid when they should have protected you and stopd up for you. I hope you can feel safe going out and live your life as your full self again someday. Take care 💌
HOPE YOUR SAFE! Know that your brave, your life isn't wasted and you can accomplish much more 💯✨ And shame on such parents and women that can't stand up for the same gender!
My father is a retired school teacher he used to give tution in a NGO where underprivileged students used to come...one child there i think he was in 8th standard he was uninterested in studying so my father asked him why you don't want to study so he said i can't concentrate my mind in studying,i don't kknow why i've no interest in studying, so my father told him to take some break from regular things and observe your surroundings,help your mother doing houseworks,he started laughing and saying housework is not for men it is women's work...so this thinkings are always entertained by society but i am glad than my father directed him to a good path and half of the boys there were not like this boy so there's still hope left.
@@arpan9937 No many kids do it's just your house culture what you are teaching your kids...it's not like forcing your kid to do housework but teaching them step by step how to be independent which many over affectionate and biase Indian parents failed to teach.
@@anweshapahan2921 I disagree. Adults exist to take on responsibilities, so young children shouldn't have to worry about them. I learned to be independent on my own, and I don't think parents should spoon-feed everything to their children. Children are not incompetent, and they can learn from observing their parents. Except for cooking, which requires hands-on experience, children can learn everything they see from their parents. I don't know how you were raised, but your approach seems oppressive to me. Children are not social experiments, regardless of their gender.
Whenever i travelled alone, i would get groped, harassed , catcalled by boys and men. So i decided to get a haircut. I got a boycut. The trouble decreased significantly.
I am a tomboy since I was really young and to this day I don't wanna Change myself! People ask me why, I just tell them I feel good. But lemme tell u the biggest reason, I FEEL COMFORTABLE AND SAFE! Although recently due to my body changes since I am 18, it can be understandable, i still dress like that. Funny how I was always allowed to go outside until late night just bcs of that while my sister wasn't. Yeah that's the reason I don't wanna change, Now all I gotta do is learn martial arts or any defence sports which can help me even if. I am in a feminine attire.
@@kasanasakshi18 totally get you. And I think every girl in India should be taught self defence. Should be a school syllabus or a compulsory part of curriculum. It might save many women
@@kashmeerar In this system, the sports periods are taken by the teachers saying if u play now u will suffer in money/ career aspects. I highly doubt the goverment will ever take a step like that
@@Aurora-bv1ys depending entirely on government is just useless and not fair. We as parents should see to it that our children get such basic skills, for instance swimming, nutrition coaching, self defence etc.
Me being a girl can definitely say that yes this topic is like a very sensitive topic in Indian families... Whenever there's a rape case my mother warns me and say "see that's why you should be careful and shouldn't go outside after 7 pm and all".. They never ever talks about it with my brother.. They should tell him to be respectful and humble to all women and even if a girl is wandering out at 11 pm make her feel safe not uncomfortable by your presence...
India mei log sexually deprieved hai...pehle child marriages hote the ab nhi hote......aur gender segregation dusra sabse bada factor.....iske wajay se opposite gender dehumanise ho jaata hai...
@@PrinceyV-pt1d just because india m log sexually deprived h doesn't justify parents behavior.. Hn maybe in india pehle bht sari practices thi jisse abhi bhi hmari country male dominated h.. But i am just saying ki one generation has to stop these things if we want improvement in society..
@@Aex-ry1pn Rajneesh Jain ne 1971 ke speech hai.....usmein unse pucha tha.....Usse time bollywood grow kar rha tha...country safe tha.... Usse time unhone bola tha....sexual desires mother nature ka sabse bade gift mei se ek hai....isse appreciate karna...isse se sab paida hua.....isse dabaya....toh bahut khatarnak hoga desh ke liye.... Aaj sab kuch sach ho rha hai.......Aaj ke duniya,AI, 3D printing......sab ke baare usse time bola tha jab kisse ko pta bhi nhi tha...
Parents should stop protecting and blaming their daughters saying they should be aware that they are wearing instead they should educate their sons that how to respect and treat a woman like mother and sister It's really sad that half of our country is uneducated due to poverty 😢
It's not just poverty, it's the ignorance in the parents. They think they know enough to "protect" their children, but in reality, they have a lot to learn. So really, it's the haughtiness/arrogance that also plays a part.
Why don't other men think like u too. I'm a guy and I've been trying to explain shit so much but it's such a waste. People don't wanna listen to me and I give up. Idk how our generation is gonna become better in the future
You have my respect. You are good compassionate human being. Ignore this "dynamicmale3919" guy. He's saying dumb sh't in this comment section. For @ttention.
For people who says girls are raped for showing too much skin what about the infant female child???? she was raped for showing too much skin????!!!!!!!!! idk how these type of people have guts to even say this kind of things.
Sadly even the victims of rape seem to accuse themselves, not the criminal, bcz so many comments are mentioning what clothes they wear when it does not matter bcz a person should be able to even walk naked (technically, like, know what I mean I guess) and not be targeted and raped. The sane people would help her to cover, but the filth would use it as an excuse to rape her, going naked does not mean the person want it and many who are VERY much covered also get raped. And like you said infants (EEWWWWW), veryyy horrific, but do not just list the female infants bcz it is OFTEN with males too. So never forget that males are victims too, males need help too, males should not be harrassed either soo.
@Decently.kinkyy Rape can never be justified but we should take actions collectively as a whole. Both men and women should take responsibilities. Only then society will change. We should educate both girls and boys to not sexualize themselves or others in order to achieve a stable society. For example nudity is not promoted for a reason, that is it will make our society unstable.
@@amlanlegend3092 It does justify my statement actually bcz the whole point is that people should be able to walk around naked and not be touched, nor whistled at and so on, that is the whole point. To be decent. Get a clue. Smh.
@@amlanlegend3092 Do not be stupid and do not say the obvious like in the second comment, also I never said people should go naked bcz that is cheap and immoral, clearly I am saying that people should not touch someone without consent whether they have clothes on or not. That is what is called humanity. Basic decency really.
This reminds me of when I went shopping with my mom and two young men (they looked educated) started following us. I noticed them and informed my mom. I was literally shivering, cause it was my first time experiencing something like that. My mom said, "Don't be scared and walk with your head high, those low-lifes can't do sh*t." It really helped me a lot.
I would like to argue that false rape cases are also about controlling the women. As Mohak said, most of the false rape cases are filed by the girl's parents because she ran away & married someone against their will. So in this case, it's about controlling the daughters by their parents.
@@dynamicmale3919 are you serious there could be plenty of reasons we wouldn't know that. Is the family's reputation all that matters, and that justifies making fake rape cases not at all right?
Yes correct. Parents who treat daughters with respect they will not run away. Parents who treat daughter as a burden their. Daughter run away. Simple psychology. Men also files the fake rape case destroyed other men career. Men is enemy of other men
Bhai movie ko movie jesa lo na Animal movie achi thi isliye logo ne dekha naki uske karnamo ke liye ab agr koi movie se inspire hote hain to uska mein kuch nhi kar sakta
@@souljr2346 Tum ho kaun? Tumhe kuch karne ko kaha kisne? Mai tumhe janta bhi nhi. Achi movie kisse kehte hain? Random fights se movie achi nhi hoti. Movie avhi hoti hai ache plot se.
@@The-Cosmosand movies which show the reality to the world are flops, People arent willing to go and watch such type of movies isliye uska ek root cause bol sakte hai
the fact that women are being exploited by their husbands and instead of it being illegal there are straight on jokes about this on social media is horryfying..
@@fighterinmkiwiscience3517 so, when men bring up problems they face, should I bring up rape statistics because “equality”? That’s just crabs in a bucket behaviour. Derailing arguments isn’t meant to promote equality or help for either groups. It’s meant to shut the argument down because “yeah, well others are suffering too, so your problems aren’t that bad.”
@@ASentientBlockofSwissCheese fale rape case and real one are two sides of same coin so discussion about one is incomplete without another. There is no derailing of argument.
Aint now way some people are debating about fake rape cases in the comment to divert attention from the main topic 💀💀💀💀,i dont think,with this 'mindset' as a nation,we can change!
Those are terrific type of males , when it will happen to their sisters or mother's then see their opinion...some men are good and accept it like mohak mangal
@@PriyanshiPriya-tr8qf I know at least a thousand boys they don't have this kind of thinking I don't know what kind of people you are living with, I think your dad is the first male you know, maybe he's the same as you mentioned
i was harassed by a man around his 30s last year. i'm 17 and i was in my school uniform. he touched me and kept making inappropriate remarks. i'm ashamed to say that i couldn't do anything. when i got home and told my mom, she was mad at me because i couldn't stand up for myself, she said i should've slapped him and i think what she said is right, but i was hoping for her to tell me that it wasn't my fault. i truly feel disgusted whenever i think about it. weird incidents with men have happened even when i was a child. i can't even imagine what rape victims feel and go through.
Do not slap him, because if u do he's going to retaliate, a man is biologically much stronger than a woman,physically you cannot win against him, one thing u can do is to immediately distract him with your words while leaving to a crowded place. First up, always stay in a crowded place, don't wander out alone.
Please report the matter to police immediately such ignorance will lead to some other dangerous incidents. Please report the same to police immediately
How to stop this global problem??? In we believe in NCRB data(70% cases to un reported)and multiply india's rape rates by 3 times still it is lower then many European,african nations and USA..... It feels....No one in the world have clue to solve it.... I think No knows the reason....reason....
I hate.. I HATE it when they blame on what girls are wearing. I have heard other people blame the girl who was inappropriately touch for her cloths. Ever since I remember, my father has told me to wear clothes that cover my butt and to not wear sleeveless top of dresses. He has also told me it was not safe for me to go alone even during day time. Instead of people telling girls to change the way dress they should teach BOYS how respect women and to not do such things and teach them the consequences of their actions. Old people say that the mindset of the new generation is bad but they don't realise what is actually bad. My grandparents say that new generation always thing they are right that's why there is lots of problems now, but these people who blame new gens don't think of their own mindset. People say the internet is bad for you but I personally do not believe that as long as you don't get influenced by the bad things. I rely on the internet to get informations like this for my own safety. I learn a lot of things from the internet that has proved to be useful. I argue against my grandparents sometimes because they don't want to accept the change. I have asked to myself, why do people send boys outside and not girls, if there are no boys outside during night then girls can walk freely and safely at night. Why don't they teach boys to not do these things and instead blame it on what the girl was wearing? It's so sick to hear people around me say this. Honestly I can't blame everyone because this is what they were taught to believe when they were children. My grandmother always tells to my cousin that she is too friendly with the boys. Everyone focuses on only blaming the victim not the person who committed the crime. It's so disgusting and outrageous when people take issues like this very lightly and always blame the female especially of what they were wearing. While watching this video i had so much to say but I don't want to comment everything.
After watching this video I realized how differently my parents raised me. I'm also a victim of sexual harassment and it happened in a second that I was unable to voice it out. My dad was there with me when it happened. He hit the guy with his helmet and then others followed suit beating the guy up. Through out the ride home I was conflicted about what happened. It felt like a lapse of memory and judgement. My father complained how I didn't even shout or say anything. My mom sat with me and told me to not be afraid to voice it out, basically said Fuck Society and do what you think is right at that moment. Sure, my parents are very conservative but they taught me the right thing to do. I realized how important sexual education is throughout the years and how its lacking in India and how shrewd believes are holding people by leashes. I decided to talk openly to my little brother. I tell him how much it hurts to have periods or what happens during that, I told him how hard it is to walk in broad daylight but still feel like a prey to men as they stare at me even though I'm not wearing revealing clothes. My brother too believed that girls shouldn't be lewd before but now his views are changing. My mom would scold me for talking these things to a child, a boy at that but I shrug her off because he needs to learn these and to act on it. We can't wait for our parents or society to change , I believe we need to implement on it by our own even though u receive backlashes. Freedom of speech includes talking about sexual violence too and if we dont it causes major trauma. Teach your brothers. I'm not saying this as a feminist or shit, I just wanted to tell that watching documentaries and commenting about change in education, views,blah blah blah wont be changing anything. YOU NEED TO START FROM SOMETHING WITHIN THE GRASP.
Well said¡ i also do the same thing with my little bro sometimes (well not about periods he wont understand cus hes too young, maybe when hes older by a year or 2) but fr i was looking for a comment where someone is actually taking actions rather than just suggesting them in the comments¡ Im seriously thankful and hateful for youtube cus its the place where i learnt to speak up and fight back about such issues and also the same place where issues like SA and molesting have turned a thing for many “content creators “ to make vids on which leads numerous young minds in the wrong direction 😔 we need more *WOMEN* like you and *I* really appreciate you for speaking up about it while also giving your personal experience cus ik its a huge thing to overcome to talk about. Thank you¡ 👏👏
@@SanskritiPawar5678 I educated my brother about this against my parents and i can now proudly say my brother will be the best citizen for the country and will always be ready to protect any women in need. i told him of never be mean to your wife when you get married and always listen to her since she left her house and her parents for you. A women before marriage been a liberal flying kite, never cut her wings and let her roam freely. Taking myself as an example of how would he feel if something like this happen to me? besides i know i don't need to do this since i saw the fire in him when he sees crime or hostile remarks against women.
'Ok' nhi ma'am ,in janab ka kehna h ki saare crime muslims krte h.Inke hisaab se hindu men doodh ke dhule h aur agar kisi hindu mahila par crime hota h tabhi woh galat hai.Mai bhi ek hindu hu aur apka bhai hote hue Mai yeh kehta hoon aise logo se sabse pehle bache rhe.Jai Hind!!
Ye to common he bohot, me larka hu but log mujhe bhi bohot stare krte he, so me just upright face leke chalta hu unko ignore krke but koi zyada dekhe to me bhi dekhta hu, but ha normally glance karna to common he sabme because we r humans but staring is bad
human tendency to do that thing which is not done yet , first no one pressed dislike button then someone thought Why i didn't i press it then he/she pressed it
Main causes- 1) lack of proper education and lack of importance for morals and principles 2) Bad influence of films and social media 3) item dances in films 4) Bad habits like drinks and drugs 5) lack of morality and social responsibility among some people 5 ) lack of severe punishments 6) bad upbringing and irresponsible behaviour at home by the parents .
Even educated people have really cheap thinking. My coaching director in a way blamed women for rape cases that they put fake rape allegations, and there's no fault of poor boy. This comes from a person who is earning in crores in a year. With half of it's student being female students.
Be careful of such people who blame women for rape cases yes there are false allegation that is another crime which cannot be judged and linked to a rape case
Even my teacher has this, he talks about Neet sacrifice and relationship are bad and other stuff of separation in day and texts his students girls in night very disgracefully.
Being a part of this "gen z" I don't waste my time in unnecessary reels or shorts infact I utilise it in informative videos like that of mohak's... hat's off to u bro
Documentry dekhneki logon ki shamata nahi hai. Yeh video sahi hai, yeh dekh ke mere andaaje se 40% logon ke soch mein 10% badlaav ayega, aage jitna badlaav hoga, accha hi hoga. Well done Mohak and team.
Ghanta hoga. Crime karene wala crime karta jayega. The problem is crime and not "Logono ki soch". Yeh sab bakwas karke logonoka time kharab mat karo. over analysis leads to paralysis.
Bro me v criminal mindset wala Banda tha abhi Meri age 17 hi aur suru se hee me females ko s*** ki perspective se dekhta tha. phir mujhe pta Chala ki ye lust ki waje se nhi balki Meri psychological problem hi, mene books padna start kiya bhut research kra aur physcatris se apni sare problem share krne k bad., Now I'm completely fine I've changed my thoughts and views believe me mujhe ye sab krne me 2 to 2.5 years laga
Our men in India needs some serious education about emotional control, mental health, empathy , kindness,boundaries, using common sense which is not so common among them also a subject to be taught in younger age is How to Behave like a Human being. How to think like a Human.
@@littleboygaming366 That is your analogy which is baseless whereas movies have been significant source of information and thus influence its audience. It is a form of mass media. You should do a deeper analysis
I am 25. Till now there had been two instances where I have been inappropriately touched. Both of the incidents happened in a crowded bus. And one male was 70+ old man and another around 45+. I was wearing modest clothes as I live in the rural areas. I narrated the incidents to my mom and she said this happens all the time with all the women and I should ignore it. But, not every man has bad intentions. The guys from my college and workplace behaved respectfully and even helped me during my bad times. EDIT: I see a few comments saying I have to report it to police. But I don't even know the identities of those men, what I will report? I don't even remember their faces clearly because I was too afraid to look at them when I realized what they were doing to me. My only thoughts were of wishing to quickly reach my bus stop or how to avoid their touch in any way possible. And even if I report them to police or social media, I don't have any proof....I didn't take a photo or video of them. In the era where fake cases are on the rise, no one will be convinced that I am telling the truth. And remember it was a crowded bus, they can easily say that it was not their intention, that it was so crowded that accidentally they touched me. Please put yourself in my shoes.
There are 3 incidents where I was falsely accused of molestation, and I was told by police why would the girl lie, the reason of I was accused was my anger hopefully all three times my sister was with me and other witnesses also testified that I wsnt at fault. I have no faith left in Indian judic!ary
When I was 2nd class , my older cousin brother sexually harrassed me and it continued for 2-3 years . I didn't knew what was happening with me and never told anyone because he asked me to never tell anyone . And one day my mother saw it and she said to me 'sharam nhi aati bhai hai vo tera ' and i thought it was my mistake as i have done something terrible and she blamed me and asked me to stay away from him . Ahe never told about it to anyone to maintain the 'peace' in the house .and since then whenever anybody assaulted me in public or made me feel uneasy , i dealt with the person myself and i never told anyone because in my mind , I thought i was the wrong one ..as i grew up i realised that in those 2-3 years what actually happened with me , that i was raped . And i use to cry a lot sometimes .. and i started having anxiety and stress as why this happened and i felt violated . And after 9 years i.e a year ago . I told them that this happened and why they didnt do anything or said anything because i couldn't keep it in and then they yelled at me and my father beat me up and i hand swelled too and he grabbed my neck and said it would have been better if i would die or i would have never been born..and said 'ye to ghar tudwaegi humara , zyada pad likh liya hai isne isiliye' . And they did it infront of my gradma too and she said 'chup rehna nhi to samaj mai kya izzat reh jayegi humari' . It hurts when who gave you birth makes you feel that you are unwanted or it would be better if i would have never been born . They ruined the world for me . Everybody wants to feel protected and loved . I guess it is a distant dream for me to expect this from my parents .i couldn't trust people now. Everthing felt like burden . I ruined my realtionship with my boyfriend. He was the reason i didn't cut my wrist that day . Anyways , he always stayed , loved cared and respected me and chose to stay always . I never said this all outloud except my 3 comfort people .. and if someday i am hurt or in pain , my parents will be the last to know, I'd rather choose a stranger .. because they don't deserve to know ... Someday I hope I will be strong enough to say this all with my real name ❤
Society is a sheep with no brain, it keeps on doing what their parents did and their parents did exactly what they saw their grand parents doing. Today we have social media and can create awareness, back in the days it was too common for people to get violated and remain silent to " save the honor of the family ". Luckily things are changing now. And sorry for your mental trauma that you had to go through I hope that made you a strong woman and you would reflect the same to your children/future children.
my heart goes out to you. remember you aren't to be blamed for whatever that happened. the only people at fault are your cousin, mother, father, grandmother and our crappy society that has caused this mentality in people. it is very strong of you to be able to admit such a vulnerable thing and I hope youre now free from those terrible people in your life and i hope you're independent and on a journey to heal More power to you
I don't care what other people will say or think about me. But I will advice you to be economically independent first and then try to be Powerful. After that show them that they have messed with wrong person. By the way were they your real parents or you are adopted? And why did you leave your BF if he cared for you and tried to help you? He seems a nice guy who loves you. You should never leave him.
Just know that you are not at fault for whatever happed to you. You are brave and strong 💪 i wish and pray for your speedy recovery. Time heals everything, that bright day will arrive when you are completely healed and recovered from your trauma. You deserve love respect and beautiful life ❤
@@VaiShNav51I can't believe you, I'm a male and don't act like there are less cases of rapes and assaults, we need to teach our sons first cuz basic biology, boys are relatively stronger, they can force themselves on the weaker, yet the matter of fact is that everyone should be educated and shouldn't make these cases or commit crimes, also why I'm calling you out is bcuz you are saying "first educate girls" Like in a way that boys aren't doing anything, plz talk with some morals and sense, cuz everyone should be educated
india is india, yeh bhi ek problem hai india me ki log north and south ko alag krte rehte hai without it needing to be... we are indians, on an average sabki similar mentality he hai, south me bhi bhot r*pes hote hai and north me bhi. quit this BS of differentiating north and south and telling everyone that "south is better" take care
You know this is a thing I like about you that you also talked about films and its impact, North Vs South issue as well as telling us why severe punishments are not only solution we have You are different from others Mohak bhai.
Its all about upbringing . Girls ke upbringing mei itna focus kiya hai ki boys ko he bhul gaye . What is upbringing ? Sanskaar, how to speak with people ,how to behave in society Youth aajkal gaali dena ,attitude dena is being cool and modern Hypernationalism is sanskari in today's world Girls are also following the same trend .
@@रक्षा-ढ9जnobody does that. Those who do it, are narcissist. Don't listen to them and ignore them, just cause a few of the apples are rotten doesn't mean we will throw out the entire basket. So just ignore their opinions.
Here after the RG Kar hospital case and literally nothing changed. This country is becoming more and more unsafe every day ,its literally disgusting
i agree with you, i no longer have any hope for this doomed country
RG Kar case is more probably not just another rape and murder case, the case happened because few administrative people wanted to suppress the victim to cover there nexus
Exactly so brutal 🤬🤬🤬🤬
the only fact is rape k liye dono responsible hai girl bhi aur boy bhi log sirf man ko bolte hai but ek man toh biologicaly ladkiyo se hi sexually attract hota hai woh bhi bht kam age se hi aur woh attraction bht strong hota hai most of the men k liye ,log samjh ne ko tayar hi nhi hai ki iss mai dono ki galti hai ladkon ka bhi aur ladkiyon ka bhi example ladkiya ese videos banati hai jisse ladke seduce hoten hai woh chahkar bhi control nhi krte ek time ata hai woh opportunity use krlete hai aur rape hojata hai ,movies,shorts ,reels har jagah sexy(scenes ) videos hote hai ladkiyo ka jyada sexy scenes dikhaya jata hai jisme ladki apne marzi se paiso k liye ese scenes ko accept krti hai krne k liye jisse ladke bhi sochte hai muje bhi krna hai ye sab kam ummar mai unme feelings ane lagte hai aur testosterine level increase hota hai jisse woh outof control hoker sex krne ki koshish krte hai aur rape hojata hai fir woh dar kr murder krdete hai ,isliye life mai dono ko control krna chaiye acche se educate hona chaiye .acche man jo sochte hai aur jinko lagta hai ye kbhi rape ya sex nhi kr sakte hai woh bhi woh sab krte hai jab unka testostorine level high hota hai ek situation mai, mai ek ladka hu toh i can feel these things inside me i researched and i got this reason for rape .so ladkiya socially ladko ko seduce kr rahi hai jiska anjaam hume har waqt najar ata hai porn k wajeh se bhi hota hai .mai kisi ko hurt nhi krna chahta mere ghr pr bhi maa bhen hai so i can understand but the fact is fact
You are missing that point again. This case is not a normal rape case but the rape happened due to the similar reason. Power and domination. See, the fault lies in the roots of gender discrimination.
immense respect for this guy who has the guts to admit that he was treated differently than his sister. it takes a lot to admit such things on such an open platform.
Especially maa bohot jyada discriminate karti hai beta aur beti me ,mere Ghar me to yahi hota hai
@@Darsh_Yadav__2025 aur papa bhi toh karrtey hai.
girls are treated as Princess by fathers wahi bette ko
de thappad de thappad
yeh bhi fact hai par kuch mat bolo gender equality ko thes pahuchegi😂😂@@kishor.k8092
@@kishor.k8092 haa bhai😅😅😂😂
@@kishor.k8092a son is always a KING and a daughter is a PRINCESS. A king rules, a princess is Pawn who can be used easily as per men’s accord. Shaadi Kara do, nhi ye job nhi krna, nhi ye nhi padhna, akele Bahar nhi Jana, Tujhe itna Ladd se bada Kia h is liye hi itni bigad gyi h.
A princess is never free 🙂
At 13 i was harassed by an auto driver who used to pick me up from my school. I came to home and cried and told everything to my parents. They told me not to tell this thing to anyone and complained in my school. My parents put unbelievable restrictions on me after that incident. I hate them for doing this to me. I felt like i was the wrong person in the situation but i don't know how because i was wearing full clothes neither i was flirting. As i grew i developed many fears within myself. Now, i talk about that incident to many people especially to young girls and all my friends. I came to know that its such a small thing which happened to many girls and they arent even able to voice it out. Public places are actually not safe for women. I just dont know if at any point of time women would feel safe on this planet
Don't blame your parents, they know the society and people better than you, If they did strict action against auto driver, then it could have create huge problem in future like your marriage, or may be he would try to take revenge because they have nothing to lose.
Edit:- Dear Replies! I think you didn't understand my point. I am not saying that her parents are right, but they know that our society and laws and police, are worst in India. Many acid attacks happened just because of revenge, and still police couldn't catch them. Different parents have different thinking but everyone fears for their childrens life. They don't want their daughters to have have problems in future.
This is reality of india sometimes I also scared about my sister I have 9 sister my area is fully Muslim dominated rapes occur every month because rape is allow in islam still buslim people have don't shame due to this reason all of the hindu of my region have migrated to other place but we are still here fear of rape is always occur in mind due to constantly rape occurring in my area alwar mevat rajsthan worse area
he will not show this because he has good obdient audiance who just trust what he says,
the title is indias ra** problem but where is the data of other country where i don't see and also in india 60 % of r*** case are false and for personal or other enimity then actual r*** and later when court procceding happen are withdrawn.
dont trust this forigen agent he has multiple times showed distorted facts and throghn dirt on india.
@@nareshkumar3526 they didnt do any right things. about marrige she can choose a life partner. There are 5 billion men in entire world. It isnt hard to find one. Also Keeping the deeds unpunished will increase the problem
@@nareshkumar3526that's the mentality we need to change.
auto driver ko to pta chal gya na ki uska kuch nhi bigdega aisa krke
or shaadi koi har ek ki life a ultimate goal nhi hota jiske liye itni chinta kr rhe ho
agar tum apne bachche ki protection nhi kar skte to paida krna jaroori tha kya
I remember one day I saw my little brother who was around 15-16 years old, sitting with a bunch of older guys who were catcalling girls, he was laughing along with them. I felt soo much anger and ashamed, I went home and at first I wanted to tell our dad but then again our dad’s scolding might not create a huge impact on him. The moment he came home I poured ice cold water on his head and asked him if his head is ok or not that he felt it was okay to even sit with those idiots and laugh along with them when they were harassing those girls. He was still confused and that made me even more angry, and I told him that it is NEVER ok to make women uncomfortable or unsafe with your actions or words . I told him I didn’t want to speak to him until he realises his mistake, because I saw him as one those idiots and not my brother. Let’s just say I’ve never seen him do that again, I guess it hit him when his own sister told him that what he did made her uncomfortable even though they were not aimed at her.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
YOU'RE SUCH A QUEEN SISTER FOR THAT ❤😭😭
@@Jennyc103 PROUD OF BRAVE GIRL
Ask him what he would feel if it's you or your mother are the victims of those harassing jerks. To see if he's still confuse
Alright, this is good work done great. Respect.
Rape is definitely a problem but the biggest problem is how they're treated after being raped.
The thought that a woman's life gets completely destroyed after rape is most problematic.
It's society's duty to help rape victims adjust in the society and not treat them as outcast.
True
Truee.. Shame the villain not the victim.
Yeah that girl if she is sexually abused or harrased she is treated badly by the society, even by her own parents. It's sad but is the social reality so we have to live with that.
No, you do not have to live with terror and injustice, at least not silently.
@@punyashloka4946 Wrong mentality. Live with that ?? Slavery was once common too but we defeated that. If we accept things as it is then nothing will improve in the society. We need to keep speaking on these issues instead of trying to live life miserably.
That's why we need to teach boys from a young age to see girls as humans instead of objects. This is the only way by which we can solve this problem.
How can we do that
@@vivaanburnwal142At the end of the video we saw that first step is school programs them social programs in villages and then more women in media and cinema then more women in work force.
@@kamadotanjiro3118no government must bring act to protect hindus.
Tmc rohingya leader sheikh shahjahan tortured 2000 hindu women in sandeshkhali at 12 pm every night took away lands from their hindu husbands.
If bjp did not send enforcement directorate, the case could never be revealed.
@@suparnamaity284why only hindus?
@@vivaanburnwal142 even the basic things can help like the difference in treatment a boy and a girl receive should change and they both should be treated equally, boys (that includes me too in past) treat girls like some alien beings while boys r given extra privileges bcs they r boys and girls r given a "protective shield" bcs they r girls
The Instagram audience is so immature...their thoughts are the same as r@pist...!
Harsh but true.. Social media is to connect, rather they downgrade everyone
Yes they are trendy like to be extremely raw cruel and they get acknowledged by the likes they get
AND GET AWAY WITH BEING LABELLED AS DARK 🌑 jokes
100% true bro
Exactly!!!!! I come across many posts specially the meme pages which are highly influential and they turn women to a joke. Not only they do that but also I've seen, these meme pages and posts are highly misogynistic.
Ikr
As an indian, i am deeply concerned about racism, mannerless, terrorism, xape, beggars, scamming, inflation ,unemployment and hygiene in India😢
Nhi hoga change kuch bhi and that is a blackpill all of us will have to swallow
+corruption
+reservation
+nepotism
+population growth
+pollution
A movie like ANIMAL became a massive hit....which just shows the mindset of Indians😂
true…
that movie was entertaining, only fools try to imitate film characters!!
these kind of movies should be banned anywhere in the world
Mujhe to Animal ka trailer hi itna bekar laga ki maine movie hi ni dekhi
@@yashwant_6845freedom of expression
Every rape got these layers behind it.
1. Objectification of women in our movies
2. The common role our actresses are offered is to support a man emotionally or to earn his love as her prime goal
3. The iniquitous 'item songs'
4. Men never told to not stare at a woman rather women are told to dress properly
5. Lack of proper sex education
6. Prostitution and pornography
7. Patriarchy causing men to feel superior
8. Alcohol, drugs
As long as we don't address all of these collectively, we'll only erupt now and then and won't find a solution.
You can’t be more accurate, it’s so true.😢
2 is slightly wrong. In most Bollywood movies it’s the man pursuing the woman and wearing her out or “winning her over” through harassment that’s passed off as romantic and ends in song and dance. But yes, she is seen mostly as an object and an emotional support “sidekick.” The message is if it’s a no, keep trying. In real life, if someone tries that they quickly find out they would not win over the woman. So she is abused, assaulted, raped, and has revenge crimes committed against her like acid attacks, murder, etc. The rest of the points are very true. Lack of sex education and objectification of women that’s supported by media and their peers is a huge thing. As usual, women are told to cover up or have curfew and even in hostels, bars on girls’ hostel window and strict 9 pm curfew usually. Men still rule the world in many places, and women have always had to adjust to it to try to protect themselves.
I completely agree with you 👍
I would like to add to it as lack of education in general too (not just literacy, but proper education and understanding point of view also), and lack of mental healthcare
Right but I guess gender segregation in our society is also a major factor in rape cases in India.
I love how almost all the video was in black and white symbolizing the seriousness about the issue. And in the final part it turns into colors symbolizing a ray of hope.
Good observation
Yep
😮
Yes just like Schindler's list or Kota factory. It's the same concept..
@@BabluCLW Life is not black and White , which means no human is either very good or very bad , every human has grey shades of characteristics.
Dear men,
From a girl:
When you look at a girl , its okay to appreciate her beauty , but you must not do it with your hands , eve-teasing isnt okay either.
Just look at her and leave if you absolutely cant bear it.
Please dont drink after 6pm...A few women tend to have nightshifts , or perhaps her father/brother/sister is at the hospital and she must go there all alone/Perhaps she went out in the dark for some other reasons , if you are drunk and out of your mind you might end up hearting her. Please dont drink once the daylight is gone
Please show off your physical strength by protecting your sisters , not by harassing them...If you protect a woman you become a god for her , otherwise you are simply the cruel product of Kali , a vison of the devil himself.
This is coming from your sister , please stay safe , please be rightious , please protect women when they cant do it themselves.
Lots of love to all my sisters who might have been through hell
Lots of love to all my brothers who are willing to change and change the society
All our inner voices summed up in one comment kudos 👏 🙌
Just my opinion even if u want to drink...don't do anything bad after drinking and stay in your limits....
@@Forever_Carat976 Yeah maybe be around good people , drink at a good friend's house instead of drinking outright on streets near schools/public places
all this western nonsense , clubs , pubs and stuff has seriously ruined india...India used to be wonderful
@@Study_X_Together true drink where you can be handled...not where you handle and ruin
@@Sandwich-h1e How is that related to rapes?
and those girls are probably 12 or 13 year olds who believe whatever they see on social media, immature kids with no real knowlegde
dont tell me you justify rapes over something like this??
ghar mei rhne wale introvert boys bhi aise gdhon ke chakkar mei bdnam hotey hai.. Ki ldke aise hi hotey hain.
The way the poor girl was treated in Manipur is extremely shameful. More shameful thing is how government has done nothing about it!!!
Toh rushiya - yukrain ki Wowwrrr to rukwa di na hamare modi ji ne! manipur jaise faltu state ki kisko padi hai, aayega to modi hi na?
@@Masterofmultiversedon’t embarrass yourself here
@@palaksingh1777 Ab tujhe kyun mirchi lagi
@@MasterofmultiverseMan what's wrong with you ? You should seek medical help .
@@subhamprabhu3052 Shut up, are you against hindu rashtra or what?
I met a 12 year old boy who told me that Girls are only meant to sit at home, do makeup and make Roti... while boys are meant to work and become sipahi.
This thought is deep rooted in all these kids. who is planting this? when will this society change? I hope i see a developed india before i die.
For that you need to remove democracy first. As long as majority of people keep voting these Thugs and landlords you can't expect them to bring a change in the system
parents don't know how to do parenting or to rise their children.
Ab bjp jo manuwadi soch rakhti ab to bhul hi jao..Woman empowerment...So woman have to fight for themselves...
@@Jungkook-sl9si manuwadi soch badlene ki jarurat he..Jis desh me sita ko agni pariksha dene padi apne charitra ki..Uss desh me aam ladkio ke charitra ki to dhajiya udai jata he...
@@snehamomlifestyleacha ji
Yani jo bhi muh me aye bak do bina sir pair ke bol toh ayse rahi ho mano manusmriti puri padhi Hui hai tumne.
Tum logo ki soch bjp ke age badhne se rahi topic hoga kuch bologe aur kuch.
Fir baad me bologe ke desh ka kuch nahi hone wala ha tum jyso ke hote hue kaise hoga kuch.
Protect girls ❌
Educate boys ✔️
Edit - Another inhuman brutal incident happened in Kolkata with a doctor
Educate boys and protect girls ✅
Educate boys and girls and protect good mental health 💯.
Sweden US UK me to sab educate hai
Educate both. But boys need more education.
Bring in more money
Well Put Mohak! You are the most underrated UA-camr.
we need to acknowledge the shortcomings our country has. hypernationalism will not take us anywhere
saarr india number oen saaarr
Hypernationalism is ruining india
30% Nationalism
60% Socialism
10% Communism
makes a better society. But feeling sad for the people and their misogynist behaviour and monotonous attitude towards the development of the nation. At least you identified it my friend.
Evolution is faalss saar , daarwin bed 😭 , we have 57 muslim cantry saar , we hev 10 kids saar , phastest growing religion saar@@Aksarallah
last year an american vlogger was graped by her two guides,, but it didn't become international news
but jub bhi bhenchoo india me kucch hotta purri dunniya ko mauka mill jata hai hamari maarne ka
india ki population is more than 2 time of whole europe ... per capita ke hissab se statistics dekhe toh INDIA me bakki desho ke mukable aaise case kum hotte but phir bhi wetern media hame grape capital ki tarah potray karrti hai
the main problem is that the government it just saying "we will do more to protect girls" and do basically nothing and the lack of education about sex and telling your kids about it is considered a touchy subject.
S*x education Dene se kuch nhi hone wala .......
Bro our pm is literally uneducated
What does that tell you about anything 🙄
@@MOON-zp2lewow
@@MOON-zp2le can you please take a look at the difference in rates of rape cases in India before nd after 2014 ☺
our pm has opened many many organizations especially for women!!
Awareness!!
Men involved in rape cases don't even understand that this kind of deed is WRONG! Awareness is sooo much needed
Oh They know it's wrong, but most of them don't give a fuxk, or they justify if it in a sick way.
Yeah,they feel that girl enjoys this act, as the film industry potrays in such a way,thay think its real
Another brutal rape and murder case in govt medical College of Bengal...31 year old second year PG resident😢
Yes
education program is important to avoid rapes
This case is more of an example of suppression of voices by administration
@@CapstoneProjects-rk1be don't know if there's any way left to prevent all this😢😢....in any condition they hv got the guts to do whatever they want without any fear
@@Sln950 india's thinking should change to prevent all this and most imp everyone should atleat study 50% of upsc syllabus for awearness not for alleges false cases with that knwoledge
When I was in eighth grade in my school, a debate started between me and one of my favorite teachers regarding good coordination between males and females. I was saying that men and women should be treated equally in our society so that they do not feel shy and lack of confidence in sharing something in front of the opposite gender or asking for help when needed. This debate continued until my teacher said, "पत्नी का ये मजाल कि बो अपने पति को आंख उठा कर देख ले." Then I realized that I am wasting my time.
Now you can understand what kind of mentality even a teacher can have.
I've found that misogynists often struggle to change, and if they do, it's usually thanks to someone who helped them along the way. However, personally, I wouldn't make such efforts because I believe the risk of getting hurt outweighs any potential benefits. Confronting such individuals, regardless of their gender, could result in harm to oneself. That's why I always advise people, especially children, to let go and stay away from them, as they're also likely to commit other crimes. So I hope you are safe and stay safe 😊
you are a good person
Bhai ye Hindi mein kia likha hy??
@@mianmuhammadiqbal3675Hindi bhi nahin padhna aata kya???😂
Usne likha hai ki “Patni ki itni majal nahin honi chahiye ki voh pati ki aankh mein aankh daal ke dekhe”
@@Rhythm412 I am from Pakistan bro 😁
Please keep up the good work... God bless you.. keep on enlightening us.
Where are the people now who were saying Animal is just a movie and doesn't have anything to do with effect on the audience??
The people who support animal movie will not watch this video
Affect krta h bhai deeply on kids
@@kritika6675 I have watched both
What's wrong with Animal movie? Shouldn't we take revenge for family? Where does it promotes violence against women?
@@Arya_Rajput131 bro you are in wrong hand.
Who is here after the Kolkata incident...😤😔
Me. It was horrible
me
Me
Me
Me, I am literally disgusted by how people are protecting and hiding the real person who committed this horrible thing. Shame on such people and the System.
Why aren't media showing this? They are more concerned about how to root discrimination among religions.
Spreading hate will never make India the most secular country.
Hindu media is causing the spread of evil. Follow something else.
I hate Indian media channels from the bottom of my heart.
@@Smartestofall-10Islam is honestly based. They know how to keep their women in check
Exactly 💯
Leave that, we're too busy to teach women decorum than to raise voice against sexual harassment.
People compare rape to crimes like theft and mugging when they don't work the same way, thefts are mostly done by strangers while rapes are mostly done by people the victims trusts like a relative, friend or family friend.
Also, theft doesn't destroy someone's life
Betrayal by your own relatives
the worst part is that , family will ask you to keep that a secret.
@@priyadeshpande23 sad for hindu women tortuted in sandeshkhali by tmc leader sheikh shahjahan.
5000 hindu women tortured yet no international outrage. If something happens with 1 muslim women eberybody cries.
@@suparnamaity284 To Kathura case mai tumhare hindu ne asifa Bano ka kia tha uska kya?
People who are saying "rape happens in every country India ka naam badnaam kyun kare ho" need a special kind of award.
Baat wese sahi hay in usa 18 indians have been killed
Where's the lie?
I wonder what kind of mindsets they have," Rape har country me hota hai " in normal tone 😢
@@PoojaMishra93295because it is true it happens in every country normal tune mein nahi to kya auto tune mein kahe?
@@PoojaMishra93295 No one in their right mind would justify r*pe. It's just that we're saying, don't paint India as the only country where it happens. Just look at the title of the video, 'India's r*pe problem.' Was it really necessary to drag the whole nation into this? Instead of playing the blame game, let's focus on finding solutions.
And then they say, "why do you need Feminism?"
@@Sandwich-h1e Indian ladko ke kam hi aise hain
@@Sandwich-h1e yhe sab ladko ne hi suru kiya hai
@@sonireddy6696Kya kaam hai indian ladko ke hum indian ladke tum ladkiyo ko maharani banake rakhte hai fir bhi humari koi ijjat nhi hai
@@rohankadam2896 Joke of the century 🙄🙄
@@sonireddy6696😂😂😂😂😂
No wonder movies like Arjun reddy and Animal are popular in this country
You pointed out something very important to this issue! You're right. Jaiso public, waisi movie.
Exactly 💯
movie doesnt show the mentality, we expect different from a movie , thrill and all , we dont go to theater to get " gyaan "
Tryna be alpha male
Mat dekh
I dont care if people are pissed over the fact that the 'name' of india is getting ruined because of the publicization of such rape cases. But we have to fix our problems first! We cant avoid or dismiss the situation by saying that it defames india, this is the height of carelessness. Dont care about the foreign nations or their views, the only thing that matters is the safety for all who venture into our homeland, whether it be our sister or a foreigner. We must stand and fight rather than ignore and avoid.
Completely Agree 🤝😑🙌 Hame pehle apni desh ko dekhna padega
I 100% agree with you.
yeah that couple should have been warned by police like they are warned in Pakistan , pakistani police are assigned to each and every foreigner to protect the image of pakistan and its a thing that bothers many backpackers and independant solo vloggers but they dont understand how important it is .
We have this same problem in Pakistan, a lot of people want to brush all the trash under the rug so that it doesn't defame the country. What good does it bring? Instead of addressing the actual problem, people tend to focus on the wrong thing. And I believe such people are directly or indirectly causes of increase in such cases. Wholeheartedly agree with you
Bro you can write war speeches fr really motivating and inspiring 🛐
I am shocked too see even after him explaining everything thing in detail, people are only arguing about fake rape cases, i mean If the mindset of the people of india is like this, then what can be expected from them?
@@Kilallfemales this video isn't about fake cases? go and make a video about it on your channel.
@@nush8131 so you won't talk about an issue because there's no video on it? Also this video is about fake cases as well. Females actually sound like insecure toddlers,
"noouu this is my video about my issues onlyyy 🥺😡😡😫♀️"
@@Kilallfemales I mean it's your country. If you feel no shame, okay. It's not my issue to care. What was I expecting form india anyway, do whatever you want.
@@Kilallfemales Har video mein jab ladkiyo ki baat hoti hain to ek launda hamesha aake "women☕" ker ne lakta Hai. Bache ho ya kya ho? koi mature mindset nhi hai kya? Almost all indian girls can agree many men have catcalled them, touched them without their permission and made disgusting remarks about them, what about that? Please try to be an adult next time and talk about this in a fake rape case without saying "women"☕" all the time. Aise to hum bhi "men☕" comment kar saket hai, hai ki nhi?
@@Kilallfemales bhai tu toh 69th gender hai, tu konsa baat kar raha hai? 💀
My gender is attack helicopter. Don't come after me.
trust me every girl has a scary story you just haven't asked her
Nature ne female ko itna physically weak kyo banaya hai ?
Agar mai bolu ki meri research se mai ladkiyo ko male jitna strong bana dunga!
To kya females khud agree karengi ?apni body change karne ke liye ?
Mera manna ye hai ki hum ladkiyo ko strong banane ke liye unke breast system ko aise manipulate karenge ki vo keval preganant hone ke aur lactation period Tak hi bade honge !
Take unko comfort ho !
Aur unke hips bhee isi samay tak hi wide honge !
Aur baat rhi physical weakness ki ho harmone manipulate se hum unko ladko jaise strength de denge aur periods ko bhee isi samay tak keval limit kar denge !
Ho isse hoga ye ki ladke ladki dono ko same physical strength milegi !
Baat Rahi ladko ki kaam vasna Jo ki bohot hoti hai !
To hum unke liye vaccine ban denge jisse unka hormonal change ho jayenge aur aur ek limited period Tak koi lust mehsus ho nhi karenge !
By this rape problem can be totally solved !
Na koi puchta hai na hum bta paate hai
True..... My frnds told me about their experiences.... They got physical assaults from their relatives 😢😢
@@Dramadrop1234 ik and the feeling is horrible and terrifying :(
@@neerajkushawaha563 yeahh can never trust these relatives🤢 your friends must be really comfortable with you since they're sharing such deep traumas it's really haunting I hope u maintain their trust and safety🙏
You know, We have failed when people believe that changing names and enforcing religious laws can solve the issues
saying that won't solve the problems we have
nope
@@adityasalunkhe1288Someone will have to say something
Then say, dont type@@Hrst-e7l
@@adityasalunkhe1288I believe that more we talk about it the more it (the system) changes for good
I studied in a co-ed school where everything was segregated. School trips were organized separately for boys and girls, and any interaction between genders was strictly discouraged. This patriarchal tradition continues to be enforced in my old school to this day.
But this is not a problem.
@@arinael no isn't a problem , IT IS ONE OF THE MANY ROOTS OF THE PROBLEM.
@@arinaelyes it is.
@@arinael It is definitely a problem. School is where you learn morals and ethics, and stopping this unwanted segregation would help improve things to some extent. Most importantly, communication between genders must never be barred at a young age.
@@arinael It's a problem. Social skills are as important as literacy.
As a man I state, if a woman is a victim of sexual abuse, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Report it to the police as soon as possible, so that you can get justice. Please.
So true!!!
Womp womp
@@nevrgonagivuup397 Creep alert!
Indian police is useless.
@@nevrgonagivuup397what did you get by doing this? Ban gye cool? tujh jaise logo ki hi baat ho rhi h is video me
The fact that their are people who justify these criminal based on religions .
Right
true
Which religion?
She travelled all place syria Afghanistan where civil war and all kinds if shuts taking place but was safe and then she came to India😢
@@ParasMehandirattaaap bhi the kya saath me ?
@@ParasMehandirattatere mind kona reset krne ki zarurat hai sacchi bta Raha
@@ParasMehandirattabhai thoda mentality change karke reality accept karloge toh kya bura ho jaiga
Luck my dear
It's not the first time she came to India.... In himachal pradesh she faced no issue
And again, nothing will change...
Please talk about 2000- 5000 women tortured by tmc leader sheikh shahjahan in sandeshkhali.
Our national commission for scheduled caste chairman arun ji told that he had committed crime against women in sandeshkhal
@@suparnamaity284because womens from other religions are not womens ? Right ?
@@SohelKhan-tt6vc i will talk about women on my religions first
Why not also about men of our religion convicted of rape
@@Param_Hayaran your goal is to stop rapes or your goal is stop rapes against your community womens only ? I really want to know, kindly reply
Ppl will come after false accusations as if its the biggest no. Meanwhile police doesnt record when women come w actual case. Waah.
😢
Ma’am, you don’t have idea about rural India
Probably because many womens use such articles for their own benifits.....by doing so they are making the real victim's voice unheard in the court. The court are busy with the fake rape cases and justice is served late or even no justice is served.
fake cases arent recorded either . how many guys must be in jail just becuz law sides with women ?
he will not show this because he has good obdient audiance who just trust what he says,
the title is indias ra** problem but where is the data of other country where i don't see and also in india 60 % of r*** case are false and for personal or other enimity then actual r*** and later when court procceding happen are withdrawn.
dont trust this forigen agent he has multiple times showed distorted facts and throghn dirt on india.
"A 'proper' girl wouldn't be out at 9PM" he says.
And who died and made you the "hero" and "saviour" to "correct" her?
Almost like you didn't have a control over your urges and don't want to take responsibility for it.
Rapists are younger, Molesters are older.
What a comment.bravo sister.
Bahot sahi didi
So true
Very True
Fake case karne wali are fatherless
Very well said mohak bhai. Rape is a heinous crime & it must be stopped. Iam a mother of 3 boys & i always thought my boys to respect females, iam doing my bit for better tomorrow.
Glad to see , such kind of parents also exist in this nation where today,s parents are rarely have any incentive to enlighten their kids with context of Social awareness, They just leave it on So called Society which to be fair in modern time is just immune :'(
Wow nice Allah safe you from sins
Thought
Taught
Teach young boys about consent
Having worked in peripheral govt hospitals and attending such neglected girls every day, I can conclude for sure that the rape cases we see in India are just the tip of an iceberg, the real number is way more than that. Sometimes 15-16 year old girls will only come with 9 months of pregnancy, and the case would be reported for the first time by the hospital administration. The conditions are pathetic!!
So it's possible that girls was pregnant by her boyfriend with consent of girl???
According to some report in india most of registered rape cases are false rape cases
Hey, can you please share the more?
Most importantly, criminals in almost all crimes know That what they are doing is wrong but in r_pe cases criminals thinks of himself as highly moral being or some kind of saviour who is entitled to do what he did.
Thanks to the r_pe culture which no one takes seriously and rather try to further inforce it Though jokes, movies, podcasts etc and even justify it.
@@skinhair1484Indian boys - hume sab pata hai , pr fir hum R@pes krenge , kyun ki ladkiya issi k layak hai . Hum sigma male hai . Hum Jo bhi krte hai khulle aam krte hai . Yahi mard ki nishaani hai .
Also a lesson to parents, what goes wrong in their parenting? Their indifference in raising kids based on gender makes a huge impact.
Our indian parents raise women to be submissive and raise their son like they're born to rule women with brutality.
That's the root of these problems.
They should teach both empathy towards eachother, kindness, humanity, how to act like a human instead of looking who is useful for them in old-age.
Stop raising your sons like insurance in old-age. Raise them both like individual humans. This solves so many problems we face in this society. Think twice what's going wrong? Where it all started. The seed to these problems.
bilkul correct!!! and sabse pehle .. sabsi choti cheez hai ki koi bhi aadmi ya aurat gaali dena bandd karein and this is applied to both boys and girls.. i am so hurt that when a boy or girl gets angry he or she abuses mom and sis abuses, and that abuses literally means to have x*s with them.. so if we sow seeds of abuses in mind then what will happen when we will grow up??!!
The victim blaming is actually disgusting. This video was really important! I'm glad you made it, right on time after that Aba and Preach video too
Aba and preach are probably the only men's rights advocates that I can listen to, may I know which video of theirs are you referring to?
@@stankssmile5865 I don't think they would call themselves men's rights activists. But around 3 months ago they posted a video about a girl who was travelling the world and nothing had ever happened to her. But when she got to India, her husband was beat up and she was gang raped. It's crazy because out of all the countries she had travelled to in the whole world west to east, India was the only country where she had this encounter.
Proper Education i.e not just exams or Degree, but in terms of behavior and Thinking will solve a lot of problems in the country
hindu rashtra pehle banate hai ... phir sab theek ho jaayega,
@@DoNotTrustAnATOM lol
@@DoNotTrustAnATOMRSS leader ke statement pe tera Kya kehena hai
@@DoNotTrustAnATOMConservatism would easily skyrocket that way and the idea is just complete bullshit. Keep your dictatorship to your homes.
@@DoNotTrustAnATOMHaa padai likhaid chor kr hindu rastra Banna me lag jaye 😂😂
Education is needed in India on this issue for boys and girls in schools openly
hindu rashtra pehle banate hai ... phir sab theek ho jaayega,
@@DoNotTrustAnATOM Atleast sex slavery isn't allowed in india like Islamic countries
Our sabko respect karo atleast
@@DoNotTrustAnATOM could you educate all of us on how one interferes with the other?
school jaladenge mard log mat bolo.
You can glorify India as much as you want, but the Indian legal system failed women.
It failed everyone except the rich
The legal system failed men more than women
All countries have their issues, they just don't consider it, as much as we do.
The worst part is those people who dismiss the entire problem without a second thought. "Other countries also have this problem" and a thousand more excuses.
The insecurity of our own issues runs deep within many. We just wanna avoid any backlash rather than solving the problem at hand. Until this mentality changes all the problems plaguing India wont go away.
true...they don't even acknowledge the problem
It's about learning what works and what doesn't. This self flaggelation did not get us anywhere 50 years ago and it won't take us anywhere today.
I have never seen any country react this way to crimes.
This attitude won't change it will only increase, bcz of the fake cases.
As the number of fake cases are rising, genuine ones will not be taken seriously, and people won't support.
@@wasteland3000 That's simply because in other countries people try to find out reason of problem or hide the problem by staying silent ...
In our country people don't work to know why crimes happen and simply blame as if blaming country would lead them anywhere we need to solve problem...
@@tharabhai1794 true...🤷♀️we don't have any other option than educating everyone around us regarding these things
I like how the rapists blame the women for wearing revealing clothes and provoking them, but how would they explain the rape of an 8 year old who doesnt even know what sex is?
And ive seen countless videos of a girl talking about a certain topic and the immature men in the comment section talking about her cleavage, when it has no relation to the video at all. They think theyre being funny but theyre just proving that they are porn addicted and in reality, theyre pathetic. Not only that, even when a girl was wearing a normal shirt, those men still talked about how heavy chested she was. We are taught that natural things are unnatural.
India needs some solid sex ed otherwise the problem will NEVER be solved. Thank you sir, for researching and covering such an important topic. This is called a true influencer :)
i agree if we take a good look at it most women that get raped doesnt always wear sensual clothes it can be a 3 year old kid ... a small school girl in her uniform or also a 60 year old middle age woman in her traditional clothes the problem that people often blame girls to hide the fact that it was fault of the men !
clothes has nothing to do with it, that argument is based on correlation not causation
@@shreyassharma8277 i agree!
I wear kurta and trousers...still they stare😂😂
True. In winter I wear full clothes and 2-3 layers of clothing and sometimes a beanie to cover my head/ears, only my face is uncovered and yet some perverts (even uncles) are staring with lusty eyes. I mean what now, what else to do?
In summer to not get tan I wear full cotton clothes, socks, gloves and all and cover my face with dupatta, only my eyes are shown in this attire, still, I was harassed.
I really don't understand the logic of victim blaming.
I used to study at Aakash coaching centre when I was 14 years old. One day I was relentlessly harrassed by the security guards, who kept laughing at me, telling me to come to them, making disgusting sexual comments about my body and especially my legs. I was dressed from head to toe in very modest clothing (not that it matters). I told my father when I went home and he just shrugged and told me "hota hai". I dropped out from the centre the next year because I felt so ashamed and scared. The people who were meant to be protecting me completely failed me.
your fear comes from bad parenting. now you are even more scared, rather than fighting back.
@@realracing3specter295 Literally just shared my story. Where did I say I've stopped fighting back?? Thanks for making up assumptions.
@@xbluebirdx i was triggered by his response, as if its completely normal. I didn't made assumptions on you, but rather on the person who you should be idolizing in life. Its good that you are fighting, but your primary protector/supporter failed to take part in your fight.
@@realracing3specter295 I see, I apologise, I misunderstood and thought you were attacking me. I completely agree, unfortunately this is the reality with 99% father's of India. They are completely deadbeat and yet idolised for it. Even today, when I tell my mother or grandparents of how he reacted, they accuse me of being disrespectful and start going on about how hard his life is and how hard he works.
@@xbluebirdx oh, oh, well that sounds tragic. I am sorry for what happened with you. Fortunately my father was not like this, he worked hard most of his life while serving in the army, I have always and always idolized him, he has always supported my family and stood with me and my sister, starting from everyday chores to every mental and moral support. both my parents played an important role in making me and my sister strong. I remember when my sister complained about her incidences in college, my father gave warnings to the guy to take legal actions if something happens to my sister. and since late teens, our bond has grown even stronger. my sister is now 30 and is already a powerful woman, both mentally and financially independent and strong.
for those who think women are weak: a woman is a person who gave birth to you , they go through labour pain, period pain which even men cant handle . most women are nurses which help to save lives and are mentally strong
Strong hona koi acche baat nhi hai....power aane se hath mei khoon lag jaatahai...weak he better hai....
@@PrinceyV-pt1ddisgusting 🤮
Animals give birth to their children too, doesn't mean parents are STRONGER.
1- Child is young
2- Child is strong
3- Child belongs to new generation
4- Child Child has superior knowledgeable and information due to studying modern day science
The whole argument of "women" being stronger or even more "brave" then a man is a lie and BOGUS.
reminding me of the quote _ if you want to change the future of a country change its education system first
🙂
Japan and Finland have the best educaion systems
Yes we should educate both men and women to stop sexualizing others and also themselves. And focus on growth and development.
Tharki ladko se baat karna avoid karo..tum ladkiyo ko jyaada muh chalanewaale ladke pasand h n they play with u and then girls feel ditched...yehi smart ladke physical relationship rakhte h lust k bahaane n innocent ladko ka naam bhi kharaab hota h isse..
@@Be_happy_3010 Yes but Karma is true so whatever we do has a consequence. We should always take wise decision.
@@amlanlegend3092Karma only works for those who don't have any big connection those who have will just avoid the consequences.
I would gladly let the tourism of our country go down if that incentivizes the people in power to make it safer for all women. The safety of our girls is more important than reputation.
@PrinceVa-hj4xg ham tumhare objects nehi hai ki jab chai hat lagakar chale jao
PrinceVa-hj4xg toh ab child marriage bhi kare ? 💀 kya bak rahe ho bhai.
child marriage choti ladkiyo ke sath hota tha, ladko ke sath nahi. ladke bare hone par hi shaadi kar te the. 💀
PrinceVa-hj4xg kya hormones release? sab ladko ke hormones release hote hai par sab rapists nahi hote, unme mutual understanding aur respect hota hai jo aakal ke boys me nahi hai
Then pay 💰up 3-5 Billion $.
@jashanbirsingh i think my safety and rights to public spaces at all times should be free 🤷♀️
One of your Best Videos!!,
This should be trending
Thank you
12:19 information about
Justice for Kolkata doctor incident 😥
It wont change anything in the long run.
KV student from Bangalore here. we have CCTVs in all rooms and corridors, a dedicated team of handpicked students who will complain to the vice principle if a guy and a girl are seen talking alone, two braids with red ribbons mandatory to make us look like a clown because one ponytail is somehow going to give guys a hard on ?? and no nail paint allowed, no jewelry allowed, no khol, if your sunscreen leaves a white imprint on your skin consider yourself dead, you are not allowed to open your collar button at any time. (collar reaches upto the chin and first button is on the neck) and you cannot wax or shave your arms. separate seating rows inside a classroom for boys and girls and we are not allowed to sit with each other. no group project will involve both boys and girls together and you will have to find a same gender person to team up with. i could go on and on forever.
all KVs were the same, the teachers would shame the girls, side with the boys; even the female teachers, which was so sad and disappointing. At that young age, you expect a level of maturity, understanding and possibly any form of mentorship but they were all bullies. I remember talking to a boy in my class about some movie that him and I liked after class(the classes were over and some students were leaving) and we were sitting on different benches too but my Hindi teacher still got mad and made such a big deal about it. I didn't say much but I didn't apologize to her either about anything. The next day, the PT Sir, with whom I had never talked to me in my entire life, came up to me and told me to apologize to her. It just seem so disgusting to imagine that she might have been so pissed that she bitched about it probably in the teacher's room, to a point that another teacher told me to apologize to her.
I realized her ego was way too much fragile to be shattered by a 14 year old girl.
at this point just make it a boys only and girls only schools. why bother having co-ed?????
@@99eigencharu exactly. india has a huge number of co ed schools but they don't want us to act like we are in a co ed school XD
😟I am horrified. I had no idea it has come to this in India.
my school was not like this, i spent my entire school sitting between 2 girls (1-12th), and we shared everything, from food to all everyday crap and all dirty sexual talks. when we were in final year, it was really disheartening to us when school introduced new dress code, changing from shirt+skirts to salwar-suits for girls of 10-12th, we knew why its being done, and we used to laugh at school for posting such stupid actions to stop easy-sex in school premises. we didnt had sex with each other, but we saw others and knew secret places in school where elder kids used to go for the fun. it was so weird for me to see them in that dress and they complain how suffocated they felt in their legs and breast areas. we used to joke around, if we were in Hawai, we would just stay naked all the time, no clothing boundation like this school, lol.
as far as i know, now the school has implemented this dress code to younger girls as well, this explains the mentality of older gen people, new policies are pushing genders further apart. i feel sorry for the kids in my previous school, getting crushed by new patriarchy.
I see people making memes, on rape, and sexual harassment and labelling it as "dark humour". It doesn't tell anything about the kind of humorous personality one has, but the cheap mentality and the lack of education one has been given.
Incles are dangerous n if this mindset don't occur then yes inceldom is the choice taken by many knowledge able man n man who wanna live longer life let us Marriages illegal tab sab problems solve ho jayengi
This type of humour is laughed off on Instagram which is disgusting
I'm beginning to lean towards the idea of cheap internet in India being a mistake, degenerate content is now spread as far as it has ever been and it's in the wrong hands, sure it might be "dark humor" for some but as Mohak said, some people take fictional movies and such behaviour as something they should be doing in real life, now we'll have a generation of kids being even more insensitive and degenerate than ever before, the entire dark humor shtick is cancer
The whole idea of "sigma", "alpha", "you don't understand dark humour" etc is illiterate mentality of our teens. It's very easy to shrug off your ill intentions as "joke" or "humour" nowadays and these teens are further aggravated by these sigma alpha movie edits which makes them feel like they have some elevated status, again reels made by same foolish teens.
Yeah so true..
Respecting and treating women as equals goes a long way than worshipping female goddesses.
What do you mean?
Both are important and second, why are you connecting religious concepts with crime ,
I have heard a nice speech by someone " Criminals have no religion"
you do realize this sexual and patriarchal problem on indian subcontinent was intensified due to mughal influence of 600 years ? Bharat was never this bigoted but long rule of mughals this changed ALOT
yes follow footsteps of shri ram respect women 🙏🙏
@@dangerousblogger5346because if someone day ur goddess come in form of normal woman who knows she will be safe or not?
and then we have movies like animal...which makes the situation worse for a country like india
And 90% people support this type of movies
Society plays an important role, people will stare at you if you talk to a girl, even in some schools they have separate line for girls and boys how can there be sensitivity
I had a teacher in 10th grade he said, "the more you try to stop something the more it will happen"
He also educate us about sex education, I'm glad I had a teacher like him
Real asl
he will not show this because he has good obdient audiance who just trust what he says,
the title is indias ra** problem but where is the data of other country where i don't see and also in india 60 % of r*** case are false and for personal or other enimity then actual r*** and later when court procceding happen are withdrawn.
dont trust this forigen agent he has multiple times showed distorted facts and throghn dirt on india.
sdf
he will not show this because he has good obdient audiance who just trust what he says,
the title is indias ra** problem but where is the data of other country where i don't see and also in india 60 % of r*** case are false and for personal or other enimity then actual r*** and later when court procceding happen are withdrawn.
dont trust this forigen agent he has multiple times showed distorted facts and throghn dirt on india.
I study in kvs Patna I remember that some boys used to sit with girls but only till 2nd grade, but now I am currently in 8th class and girls and boys are made to sit in different rows
Such a great video Mohak, I too have faced the harsh separation b/w girls and boys in schools. In my old school, we were not allowed to talk to a girl in the corridors or even share a tiffin with the girls during lunch. Boys and girls were regularly taken to the principal for talking to girls in corridors and even their parents were asked to come to school.
The teachers and principals regularly said ALL GIRLS ARE YOUR SISTERS, and we were made to not even sit close to them, talk about sitting with them.
I believe this type of taboo in our society is also a leading cause of such acts of shame. The students are not given sex ed., even teachers fear teaching the reproduction chapters in class.
I hope our govt. takes some actions in breaking this taboo in the near future
This is so ridiculous. Thank you for sharing. India seems to be in another century
my school was not like this, i spent my entire school sitting between 2 girls (1-12th), and we 3 shared everything, from food to all everyday crap and all dirty sexual talks. when we were in final year, it was really disheartening to us when school introduced new dress code, changing from shirt+skirts to salwar-suits for girls of 10-12th, we knew why its being done, and we used to laugh at school for posting such stupid actions to stop easy-sex in school premises. we didnt had sex with each other, but we saw others and knew secret places in school where elder kids used to go for the fun. it was so weird for me to see them in that dress and they complain how suffocated they felt in their legs and breast areas. we used to joke around, if we were in Hawai, we would just stay naked all the time, no clothing boundation like this school, lol.
also, all teachers were very humble, smart and sane. sex education at school was the best anyone could get without internet (really).
fast forward to 10 years later, as far as i know, now the school has implemented this dress code to younger girls as well, this explains the mentality of older gen people, new policies are pushing genders further apart. i feel sorry for the kids in my previous school, getting crushed by new patriarchy.
Same here, I remember talking about JEE exams with my male friend, and suddenly my physics teacher started talking vulgarly to us. Literally eww.
Speaking of govt. taking action we need to vote Rahul Gandhi.
Nice, you acknowledged you are treated differently than your sister, nice. Not many people will understand this and many will call you simp and all, but you go King.
Yes very much true
Even shaming his SIS or Parents is actually SHAMEFUL tbh.
@@dynamicmale3919 His parents should have thought of shame first. You get what you do, this is a boomerang.
@@brokegod5871 The guy who shames parents who brought them is in this world would've been better unborn
@@brokegod5871what y'all talking about his parents? I mean what's the matter?
Anyone after Kolkata doctor R*ape case ? WE have failed.
Every year something horrible happens, n people get violent n say we will protest, we post stories on insta, n then what ... Within few months something like this happens again. Makes one feel hopeless. Today I was going out to get groceries n got scared thinking what if ...
Unless stringent laws are made and implemented no use it will happen daily and we will read it as a news and forget quickly
When i was 5 i got harrassed by a phermasist ...in the name of checkup he was touching my private parts i told my family and they said we will change our phermanist and i will contact a new one and then wheh i was about 10 someone i don't remember that clearly did same thing to me and later that day i told this to my mother she said dont go outside after a few years i was about 12 one my uncle did exactly same thing to me but this time i didn't tell anyone because i know they will blame me later on when was 16 in my own sister's wedding i got physically harrassed by a group of people including my own sister's husband i took stand for me but nothing happened they never got any punishment my family said my destiny is bad i think i am the only one who got harnessed by multiple times i am afraid of these people till now they are around me i dont feel safe around them now i am 23 and i am scared to go out to wear any revealing dress even they still visit my house and everytime they comes i got panic attack i dont know what to do i wish someone could help me
Warn them to not touch again with a smile on your lips ,anger in your eyes
Ngl but shame on your mother she didn't took your side like not even scolding the people who are harassing her own daughter i think you should take the stand on your own don't let those people harass you and scold those people don't worry about their age and all juss scold them or even if they try to touch you still u can take help of women's helpline number you'll find it on google. But just don't suffer , it's not good to suffer
I'm so sorry you went through that. Clearly everyone around you failed you as a kid when they should have protected you and stopd up for you. I hope you can feel safe going out and live your life as your full self again someday. Take care 💌
HOPE YOUR SAFE!
Know that your brave, your life isn't wasted and you can accomplish much more 💯✨
And shame on such parents and women that can't stand up for the same gender!
So your main purpose isn't punishing or stop harassment - YOU JUST WANNA WEAR REVEALING CLOTHES. Shameful LOL
My father is a retired school teacher he used to give tution in a NGO where underprivileged students used to come...one child there i think he was in 8th standard he was uninterested in studying so my father asked him why you don't want to study so he said i can't concentrate my mind in studying,i don't kknow why i've no interest in studying, so my father told him to take some break from regular things and observe your surroundings,help your mother doing houseworks,he started laughing and saying housework is not for men it is women's work...so this thinkings are always entertained by society but i am glad than my father directed him to a good path and half of the boys there were not like this boy so there's still hope left.
No kid wishes to do housework. Especially, a middle-schooler.
Yeah my own brother called me dishwasher he is one year older than me then I fought with him atleast now he washes his own dishes
@@arpan9937 No many kids do it's just your house culture what you are teaching your kids...it's not like forcing your kid to do housework but teaching them step by step how to be independent which many over affectionate and biase Indian parents failed to teach.
@@penice150yearsago here comes an incel
@@anweshapahan2921 I disagree.
Adults exist to take on responsibilities, so young children shouldn't have to worry about them. I learned to be independent on my own, and I don't think parents should spoon-feed everything to their children. Children are not incompetent, and they can learn from observing their parents. Except for cooking, which requires hands-on experience, children can learn everything they see from their parents. I don't know how you were raised, but your approach seems oppressive to me. Children are not social experiments, regardless of their gender.
Whenever i travelled alone, i would get groped, harassed , catcalled by boys and men. So i decided to get a haircut. I got a boycut. The trouble decreased significantly.
💯
I am a tomboy since I was really young and to this day I don't wanna Change myself! People ask me why, I just tell them I feel good. But lemme tell u the biggest reason, I FEEL COMFORTABLE AND SAFE! Although recently due to my body changes since I am 18, it can be understandable, i still dress like that. Funny how I was always allowed to go outside until late night just bcs of that while my sister wasn't. Yeah that's the reason I don't wanna change, Now all I gotta do is learn martial arts or any defence sports which can help me even if. I am in a feminine attire.
@@kasanasakshi18 totally get you. And I think every girl in India should be taught self defence. Should be a school syllabus or a compulsory part of curriculum. It might save many women
@@kashmeerar In this system, the sports periods are taken by the teachers saying if u play now u will suffer in money/ career aspects. I highly doubt the goverment will ever take a step like that
@@Aurora-bv1ys depending entirely on government is just useless and not fair. We as parents should see to it that our children get such basic skills, for instance swimming, nutrition coaching, self defence etc.
Me being a girl can definitely say that yes this topic is like a very sensitive topic in Indian families... Whenever there's a rape case my mother warns me and say "see that's why you should be careful and shouldn't go outside after 7 pm and all".. They never ever talks about it with my brother.. They should tell him to be respectful and humble to all women and even if a girl is wandering out at 11 pm make her feel safe not uncomfortable by your presence...
India mei log sexually deprieved hai...pehle child marriages hote the ab nhi hote......aur gender segregation dusra sabse bada factor.....iske wajay se opposite gender dehumanise ho jaata hai...
@@PrinceyV-pt1d just because india m log sexually deprived h doesn't justify parents behavior.. Hn maybe in india pehle bht sari practices thi jisse abhi bhi hmari country male dominated h.. But i am just saying ki one generation has to stop these things if we want improvement in society..
@@Aex-ry1pn Rajneesh Jain ne 1971 ke speech hai.....usmein unse pucha tha.....Usse time bollywood grow kar rha tha...country safe tha....
Usse time unhone bola tha....sexual desires mother nature ka sabse bade gift mei se ek hai....isse appreciate karna...isse se sab paida hua.....isse dabaya....toh bahut khatarnak hoga desh ke liye....
Aaj sab kuch sach ho rha hai.......Aaj ke duniya,AI, 3D printing......sab ke baare usse time bola tha jab kisse ko pta bhi nhi tha...
Try showing her murder stats and then her, your dad, and your siblings to stay at home too
Depends on where you live. In Southern India where I live, you can find women on the streets even at night.
Parents should stop protecting and blaming their daughters saying they should be aware that they are wearing instead they should educate their sons that how to respect and treat a woman like mother and sister
It's really sad that half of our country is uneducated due to poverty 😢
Right
It's not just poverty, it's the ignorance in the parents. They think they know enough to "protect" their children, but in reality, they have a lot to learn. So really, it's the haughtiness/arrogance that also plays a part.
Sun m ladka hu aur ek baat bolu ladkiyon ko bhi unke papa ko sikhana chahiye ki ladko ke sath kaise behave kare ....
I am a man and I am crying after watching this video. I am so sorry to all women out there, so sorry. Women deserve better.
Why don't other men think like u too. I'm a guy and I've been trying to explain shit so much but it's such a waste. People don't wanna listen to me and I give up. Idk how our generation is gonna become better in the future
As a Man, you're crying over a informative video - bro need to be strong as a MAN
Thank you for being a decent human being.
@@dynamicmale3919 A 17 year old boy won’t understand what I am trying to say.
You have my respect.
You are good compassionate human being. Ignore this "dynamicmale3919" guy.
He's saying dumb sh't in this comment section. For @ttention.
For people who says girls are raped for showing too much skin what about the infant female child???? she was raped for showing too much skin????!!!!!!!!!
idk how these type of people have guts to even say this kind of things.
Sadly even the victims of rape seem to accuse themselves, not the criminal, bcz so many comments are mentioning what clothes they wear when it does not matter bcz a person should be able to even walk naked (technically, like, know what I mean I guess) and not be targeted and raped. The sane people would help her to cover, but the filth would use it as an excuse to rape her, going naked does not mean the person want it and many who are VERY much covered also get raped. And like you said infants (EEWWWWW), veryyy horrific, but do not just list the female infants bcz it is OFTEN with males too.
So never forget that males are victims too, males need help too, males should not be harrassed either soo.
@Decently.kinkyy Rape can never be justified but we should take actions collectively as a whole. Both men and women should take responsibilities. Only then society will change. We should educate both girls and boys to not sexualize themselves or others in order to achieve a stable society. For example nudity is not promoted for a reason, that is it will make our society unstable.
@@amlanlegend3092 It does justify my statement actually bcz the whole point is that people should be able to walk around naked and not be touched, nor whistled at and so on, that is the whole point. To be decent. Get a clue. Smh.
@@amlanlegend3092 Do not be stupid and do not say the obvious like in the second comment, also I never said people should go naked bcz that is cheap and immoral, clearly I am saying that people should not touch someone without consent whether they have clothes on or not. That is what is called humanity. Basic decency really.
@@amlanlegend3092 So? Get it?
This reminds me of when I went shopping with my mom and two young men (they looked educated) started following us. I noticed them and informed my mom. I was literally shivering, cause it was my first time experiencing something like that.
My mom said, "Don't be scared and walk with your head high, those low-lifes can't do sh*t." It really helped me a lot.
😢 exactly same happened to me in my childhood. I felt so disturbed for days.
I would like to argue that false rape cases are also about controlling the women. As Mohak said, most of the false rape cases are filed by the girl's parents because she ran away & married someone against their will. So in this case, it's about controlling the daughters by their parents.
That's not the primary concern here.
Why should a girl run away at first place, thats shame to a family
@@dynamicmale3919 are you serious there could be plenty of reasons we wouldn't know that. Is the family's reputation all that matters, and that justifies making fake rape cases not at all right?
@@Jymi-wc3twjust a randoma sshole
Yes correct. Parents who treat daughters with respect they will not run away. Parents who treat daughter as a burden their. Daughter run away. Simple psychology. Men also files the fake rape case destroyed other men career. Men is enemy of other men
ANIMAL movie becomes Blockbuster. Shows who and what we are. Shame on such bollywood 'Heros' and 'Heroines'
Bhai movie ko movie jesa lo na Animal movie achi thi isliye logo ne dekha naki uske karnamo ke liye ab agr koi movie se inspire hote hain to uska mein kuch nhi kar sakta
@@souljr2346 Tum ho kaun? Tumhe kuch karne ko kaha kisne? Mai tumhe janta bhi nhi. Achi movie kisse kehte hain? Random fights se movie achi nhi hoti. Movie avhi hoti hai ache plot se.
hum lete but many don't @@souljr2346
@@The-Cosmosand movies which show the reality to the world are flops, People arent willing to go and watch such type of movies isliye uska ek root cause bol sakte hai
But such movies sells in India, what's your point ?
the fact that women are being exploited by their husbands and instead of it being illegal there are straight on jokes about this on social media is horryfying..
Today husbands too are harassed by women in a worse way, using the feminist laws of the country
@@Genus-Homo_Species-Sapiens and why are you bringing this up right now?
@@ASentientBlockofSwissCheesebecause he wants equality
@@fighterinmkiwiscience3517 so, when men bring up problems they face, should I bring up rape statistics because “equality”?
That’s just crabs in a bucket behaviour. Derailing arguments isn’t meant to promote equality or help for either groups. It’s meant to shut the argument down because “yeah, well others are suffering too, so your problems aren’t that bad.”
@@ASentientBlockofSwissCheese fale rape case and real one are two sides of same coin so discussion about one is incomplete without another.
There is no derailing of argument.
Aint now way some people are debating about fake rape cases in the comment to divert attention from the main topic 💀💀💀💀,i dont think,with this 'mindset' as a nation,we can change!
Those are terrific type of males , when it will happen to their sisters or mother's then see their opinion...some men are good and accept it like mohak mangal
@RashmiKumari-xf2lf in terms of numbers,the bad ones outweigh the good ones
@@GrimLord-69 I didn't get what u meant
Well someone just took his life due to false cases….. both are problems, but one gets attention one doesnt…….
For every commited crime society blame the criminals while for rape society blame the victims...... saddest part😐
Yeah..sad and bitter truth of our society
@kushaldutta6544 ohhh..yeah...good to see
What are you like 9 or smtn
@@PriyanshiPriya-tr8qf I know at least a thousand boys they don't have this kind of thinking I don't know what kind of people you are living with, I think your dad is the first male you know, maybe he's the same as you mentioned
Stop playing victim card ,,,, scenario is changed now ,, I rarely see a victim is blamed only nowadays..
i was harassed by a man around his 30s last year. i'm 17 and i was in my school uniform. he touched me and kept making inappropriate remarks. i'm ashamed to say that i couldn't do anything. when i got home and told my mom, she was mad at me because i couldn't stand up for myself, she said i should've slapped him and i think what she said is right, but i was hoping for her to tell me that it wasn't my fault. i truly feel disgusted whenever i think about it. weird incidents with men have happened even when i was a child. i can't even imagine what rape victims feel and go through.
God bless ❤ his karma will punish him!!pray hanuman Chaelisa for protection he’s with us
Do not slap him, because if u do he's going to retaliate, a man is biologically much stronger than a woman,physically you cannot win against him, one thing u can do is to immediately distract him with your words while leaving to a crowded place. First up, always stay in a crowded place, don't wander out alone.
Please report the matter to police immediately such ignorance will lead to some other dangerous incidents. Please report the same to police immediately
It’s sad that Sex education and Mental health is so underrated in India
How to stop this global problem???
In we believe in NCRB data(70% cases to un reported)and multiply india's rape rates by 3 times still it is lower then many European,african nations and USA.....
It feels....No one in the world have clue to solve it....
I think No knows the reason....reason....
It is actually a taboo topic especially in India and when anyone even tries to mention it, people will see/judge them as if they committed a crime
Why too go long here when we were in our 10 th 12th grade classes teachers were skip biology reproductive chapters sad but true.
Information 11:23
I hate.. I HATE it when they blame on what girls are wearing. I have heard other people blame the girl who was inappropriately touch for her cloths. Ever since I remember, my father has told me to wear clothes that cover my butt and to not wear sleeveless top of dresses. He has also told me it was not safe for me to go alone even during day time.
Instead of people telling girls to change the way dress they should teach BOYS how respect women and to not do such things and teach them the consequences of their actions.
Old people say that the mindset of the new generation is bad but they don't realise what is actually bad. My grandparents say that new generation always thing they are right that's why there is lots of problems now, but these people who blame new gens don't think of their own mindset.
People say the internet is bad for you but I personally do not believe that as long as you don't get influenced by the bad things. I rely on the internet to get informations like this for my own safety. I learn a lot of things from the internet that has proved to be useful. I argue against my grandparents sometimes because they don't want to accept the change.
I have asked to myself, why do people send boys outside and not girls, if there are no boys outside during night then girls can walk freely and safely at night. Why don't they teach boys to not do these things and instead blame it on what the girl was wearing?
It's so sick to hear people around me say this. Honestly I can't blame everyone because this is what they were taught to believe when they were children.
My grandmother always tells to my cousin that she is too friendly with the boys. Everyone focuses on only blaming the victim not the person who committed the crime.
It's so disgusting and outrageous when people take issues like this very lightly and always blame the female especially of what they were wearing.
While watching this video i had so much to say but I don't want to comment everything.
After watching this video I realized how differently my parents raised me.
I'm also a victim of sexual harassment and it happened in a second that I was unable to voice it out. My dad was there with me when it happened. He hit the guy with his helmet and then others followed suit beating the guy up. Through out the ride home I was conflicted about what happened. It felt like a lapse of memory and judgement. My father complained how I didn't even shout or say anything. My mom sat with me and told me to not be afraid to voice it out, basically said Fuck Society and do what you think is right at that moment. Sure, my parents are very conservative but they taught me the right thing to do. I realized how important sexual education is throughout the years and how its lacking in India and how shrewd believes are holding people by leashes. I decided to talk openly to my little brother. I tell him how much it hurts to have periods or what happens during that, I told him how hard it is to walk in broad daylight but still feel like a prey to men as they stare at me even though I'm not wearing revealing clothes. My brother too believed that girls shouldn't be lewd before but now his views are changing. My mom would scold me for talking these things to a child, a boy at that but I shrug her off because he needs to learn these and to act on it. We can't wait for our parents or society to change , I believe we need to implement on it by our own even though u receive backlashes. Freedom of speech includes talking about sexual violence too and if we dont it causes major trauma. Teach your brothers. I'm not saying this as a feminist or shit, I just wanted to tell that watching documentaries and commenting about change in education, views,blah blah blah wont be changing anything. YOU NEED TO START FROM SOMETHING WITHIN THE GRASP.
You're amazing. I hope you never give up on that mission and continue to spread the message, it's so so important
Well said¡ i also do the same thing with my little bro sometimes (well not about periods he wont understand cus hes too young, maybe when hes older by a year or 2) but fr i was looking for a comment where someone is actually taking actions rather than just suggesting them in the comments¡ Im seriously thankful and hateful for youtube cus its the place where i learnt to speak up and fight back about such issues and also the same place where issues like SA and molesting have turned a thing for many “content creators “ to make vids on which leads numerous young minds in the wrong direction 😔 we need more *WOMEN* like you and *I* really appreciate you for speaking up about it while also giving your personal experience cus ik its a huge thing to overcome to talk about. Thank you¡ 👏👏
Best of luck & God bless you ❤
More power to you sister
@@SanskritiPawar5678 I educated my brother about this against my parents and i can now proudly say my brother will be the best citizen for the country and will always be ready to protect any women in need. i told him of never be mean to your wife when you get married and always listen to her since she left her house and her parents for you. A women before marriage been a liberal flying kite, never cut her wings and let her roam freely. Taking myself as an example of how would he feel if something like this happen to me? besides i know i don't need to do this since i saw the fire in him when he sees crime or hostile remarks against women.
Yes sir
When i go in public
I see people staring very badly
Very uncomfortable....
hindu rashtra pehle banate hai ... phir sab theek ho jaayega,
@@DoNotTrustAnATOM ok
'Ok' nhi ma'am ,in janab ka kehna h ki saare crime muslims krte h.Inke hisaab se hindu men doodh ke dhule h aur agar kisi hindu mahila par crime hota h tabhi woh galat hai.Mai bhi ek hindu hu aur apka bhai hote hue Mai yeh kehta hoon aise logo se sabse pehle bache rhe.Jai Hind!!
Ye to common he bohot, me larka hu but log mujhe bhi bohot stare krte he, so me just upright face leke chalta hu unko ignore krke but koi zyada dekhe to me bhi dekhta hu, but ha normally glance karna to common he sabme because we r humans but staring is bad
@@djdragons69420 I m girl ajeb sa hota h ...baki yes I also ignore
Stay aware from the people who disliked this video 😮
so very true
Pr dikhata kaha h ki dislike button to remove kr diya h
human tendency to do that thing which is not done yet , first no one pressed dislike button then someone thought Why i didn't i press it then he/she pressed it
What dislike button?
so true
Main causes- 1) lack of proper education and lack of importance for morals and principles 2) Bad influence of films and social media 3) item dances in films 4) Bad habits like drinks and drugs 5) lack of morality and social responsibility among some people 5 ) lack of severe punishments 6) bad upbringing and irresponsible behaviour at home by the parents .
Even educated people have really cheap thinking. My coaching director in a way blamed women for rape cases that they put fake rape allegations, and there's no fault of poor boy. This comes from a person who is earning in crores in a year. With half of it's student being female students.
Simple reason your professor watches videos of sigma males too much who wanna deny rape and ..
And think about fake cases only .
Didi real and fake dono cases hote hai
In fake cases ki wajah se real fake cases pending me rehte hai
Be careful of such people who blame women for rape cases yes there are false allegation that is another crime which cannot be judged and linked to a rape case
@@merlin92636 yes...
Even my teacher has this, he talks about Neet sacrifice and relationship are bad and other stuff of separation in day and texts his students girls in night very disgracefully.
Being a part of this "gen z" I don't waste my time in unnecessary reels or shorts infact I utilise it in informative videos like that of mohak's... hat's off to u bro
Watching video essays doesn't make you special. Grow up.
@@ericj199but still he is not watching and wasting time on dirty reels like most of people are doing
@@ericj199but still better than scrolling for hours and hours 💁🏻♀️
It’s a good thing..good to know…👍
Proud!!
Documentry dekhneki logon ki shamata nahi hai. Yeh video sahi hai, yeh dekh ke mere andaaje se 40% logon ke soch mein 10% badlaav ayega, aage jitna badlaav hoga, accha hi hoga. Well done Mohak and team.
Ghanta hoga.
Crime karene wala crime karta jayega.
The problem is crime and not "Logono ki soch".
Yeh sab bakwas karke logonoka time kharab mat karo.
over analysis leads to paralysis.
Bro me v criminal mindset wala Banda tha abhi Meri age 17 hi aur suru se hee me females ko s*** ki perspective se dekhta tha. phir mujhe pta Chala ki ye lust ki waje se nhi balki Meri psychological problem hi, mene books padna start kiya bhut research kra aur physcatris se apni sare problem share krne k bad., Now I'm completely fine I've changed my thoughts and views believe me mujhe ye sab krne me 2 to 2.5 years laga
Our men in India needs some serious education about emotional control, mental health, empathy , kindness,boundaries, using common sense which is not so common among them also a subject to be taught in younger age is How to Behave like a Human being. How to think like a Human.
I will agree with you but women also need some serious education in fake rape cases also
@@EatitORdrinkitOf course, it applies to both.
Sex education and mental health are two topics which are ALWAYS ignored in India.
That is why movies like Animal should not be promoted at all. They influence the minds of young people
Why antiji😂relating animal movie with rape is like man saying women wearing short dress are responsible for all harassment.
@@littleboygaming366 That is your analogy which is baseless whereas movies have been significant source of information and thus influence its audience. It is a form of mass media. You should do a deeper analysis
@@fijun1538 but it doesn't say animal it says all movie like Pathan and jawan.why you only mentioned animal
@@littleboygaming366 I said movies 'like', and thus includes a bunch of them. May please read the lines properly
@@fijun1538 ok than edit from animal to Pathan.otherwise keep quiet like hypocrite.
You deserve Creator Award but Someone robbed it😢😢
No one robed it.. Why didn't u nominate and vote for him
Who won?
@@noxious_maddy creators are no minated by gov
@@noxious_maddyand they will never ever nominate people who speaks the truth
Avi and niyu 😂
I am 25. Till now there had been two instances where I have been inappropriately touched. Both of the incidents happened in a crowded bus. And one male was 70+ old man and another around 45+. I was wearing modest clothes as I live in the rural areas. I narrated the incidents to my mom and she said this happens all the time with all the women and I should ignore it. But, not every man has bad intentions. The guys from my college and workplace behaved respectfully and even helped me during my bad times.
EDIT: I see a few comments saying I have to report it to police. But I don't even know the identities of those men, what I will report? I don't even remember their faces clearly because I was too afraid to look at them when I realized what they were doing to me. My only thoughts were of wishing to quickly reach my bus stop or how to avoid their touch in any way possible. And even if I report them to police or social media, I don't have any proof....I didn't take a photo or video of them. In the era where fake cases are on the rise, no one will be convinced that I am telling the truth. And remember it was a crowded bus, they can easily say that it was not their intention, that it was so crowded that accidentally they touched me. Please put yourself in my shoes.
Ignoring is where it starts getting worse. Agr report hi nhi kroge to wo kal isse bura kisi or ke saath krega...
stay strong girl...💪
two parv*eted girls did the same to me,i was traumatized and could not tell coz girls were laughing
Dear sister , please don't ignore , if nobody listens drop it on social media , people will listen
There are 3 incidents where I was falsely accused of molestation, and I was told by police why would the girl lie, the reason of I was accused was my anger hopefully all three times my sister was with me and other witnesses also testified that I wsnt at fault. I have no faith left in Indian judic!ary
Feeling sad after nirbhaya 2.0 and seeing this after kolkata doctor case feeling sad 😭😭
It is not NIRBHAYA2.0 but NIRBHAYA10000.0 , 10000+ rape deaths have happened since 2012
@@ananb7747 I am a teenager but can understand it 😭
When I was 2nd class , my older cousin brother sexually harrassed me and it continued for 2-3 years . I didn't knew what was happening with me and never told anyone because he asked me to never tell anyone . And one day my mother saw it and she said to me 'sharam nhi aati bhai hai vo tera ' and i thought it was my mistake as i have done something terrible and she blamed me and asked me to stay away from him . Ahe never told about it to anyone to maintain the 'peace' in the house .and since then whenever anybody assaulted me in public or made me feel uneasy , i dealt with the person myself and i never told anyone because in my mind , I thought i was the wrong one ..as i grew up i realised that in those 2-3 years what actually happened with me , that i was raped . And i use to cry a lot sometimes .. and i started having anxiety and stress as why this happened and i felt violated . And after 9 years i.e a year ago . I told them that this happened and why they didnt do anything or said anything because i couldn't keep it in and then they yelled at me and my father beat me up and i hand swelled too and he grabbed my neck and said it would have been better if i would die or i would have never been born..and said 'ye to ghar tudwaegi humara , zyada pad likh liya hai isne isiliye' . And they did it infront of my gradma too and she said 'chup rehna nhi to samaj mai kya izzat reh jayegi humari' . It hurts when who gave you birth makes you feel that you are unwanted or it would be better if i would have never been born . They ruined the world for me . Everybody wants to feel protected and loved . I guess it is a distant dream for me to expect this from my parents .i couldn't trust people now. Everthing felt like burden . I ruined my realtionship with my boyfriend. He was the reason i didn't cut my wrist that day . Anyways , he always stayed , loved cared and respected me and chose to stay always . I never said this all outloud except my 3 comfort people .. and if someday i am hurt or in pain , my parents will be the last to know, I'd rather choose a stranger .. because they don't deserve to know ...
Someday I hope I will be strong enough to say this all with my real name ❤
Society is a sheep with no brain, it keeps on doing what their parents did and their parents did exactly what they saw their grand parents doing. Today we have social media and can create awareness, back in the days it was too common for people to get violated and remain silent to " save the honor of the family ". Luckily things are changing now. And sorry for your mental trauma that you had to go through I hope that made you a strong woman and you would reflect the same to your children/future children.
my heart goes out to you. remember you aren't to be blamed for whatever that happened. the only people at fault are your cousin, mother, father, grandmother and our crappy society that has caused this mentality in people. it is very strong of you to be able to admit such a vulnerable thing and I hope youre now free from those terrible people in your life and i hope you're independent and on a journey to heal
More power to you
I hope ur strong now and please don't remember those words it can hurt u even more, I know its hard to forget but try. We are always with you!!!
I don't care what other people will say or think about me. But I will advice you to be economically independent first and then try to be Powerful.
After that show them that they have messed with wrong person.
By the way were they your real parents or you are adopted?
And why did you leave your BF if he cared for you and tried to help you? He seems a nice guy who loves you. You should never leave him.
Just know that you are not at fault for whatever happed to you. You are brave and strong 💪 i wish and pray for your speedy recovery. Time heals everything, that bright day will arrive when you are completely healed and recovered from your trauma. You deserve love respect and beautiful life ❤
Protect girls no
Educate boys ✅
@@VaiShNav51I can't believe you, I'm a male and don't act like there are less cases of rapes and assaults, we need to teach our sons first cuz basic biology, boys are relatively stronger, they can force themselves on the weaker, yet the matter of fact is that everyone should be educated and shouldn't make these cases or commit crimes, also why I'm calling you out is bcuz you are saying "first educate girls" Like in a way that boys aren't doing anything, plz talk with some morals and sense, cuz everyone should be educated
@@i_identify_as_an_egg, what did they said?
@@CuteBook-bd3np don't remember clearly but yeah they said "teach your girls first" " Don't make fake rape cases"
@@i_identify_as_an_egg They shouldn't,, because that's just as bad as a problem.
Girls ko educate hone ki zarurat hai maximum cases fake hai aurat ko seekhna chahiye mard zaat ki izzat kare
*Indian men especially from Northern part of India has a unique mindset towards women, no one else in the world has*
So what ??
Bro north better h south m dekhoge toh behosh hojaoge
@@rekhadevi-nn6kwthis describes ur mentality
@@rekhadevi-nn6kwand this comment is an example of someone from the north
india is india, yeh bhi ek problem hai india me ki log north and south ko alag krte rehte hai without it needing to be... we are indians, on an average sabki similar mentality he hai, south me bhi bhot r*pes hote hai and north me bhi. quit this BS of differentiating north and south and telling everyone that "south is better"
take care
Shukar hai bagwan ka kuch Knowledgeable sunne ko mila hai mila wo v from the youth of India.... Well done brother...
You know this is a thing I like about you that you also talked about films and its impact, North Vs South issue as well as telling us why severe punishments are not only solution we have
You are different from others Mohak bhai.
7:05 information about
Its all about upbringing .
Girls ke upbringing mei itna focus kiya hai ki boys ko he bhul gaye .
What is upbringing ?
Sanskaar, how to speak with people ,how to behave in society
Youth aajkal gaali dena ,attitude dena is being cool and modern
Hypernationalism is sanskari in today's world
Girls are also following the same trend .
Finally a sensible comment among all these stereotypical people.
True
They use vulgar words in their every sentence
Yes True
TRUE...hum ldko koi kuch sikhta hi nhi h..saari knowledge gyan. Only ldkiyo ke liye h...hum ldko ka kya
Justice for kolkata doctor incident 😢😢
30%, dude thats a high number. men really have to introspect.
why only men you should have used word humans
Problem is ...the men who actually need to introspect will most likely not even see this video.
@@vedantdubey299 "not all men, but somehow always a man"
@@fo_cussed not all fake but somehow most are fake
@@रक्षा-ढ9जnobody does that. Those who do it, are narcissist. Don't listen to them and ignore them, just cause a few of the apples are rotten doesn't mean we will throw out the entire basket. So just ignore their opinions.