I'M CHRISTIAN HE'S MUSLIM..

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 132

  • @lisamarie0520
    @lisamarie0520 Рік тому +79

    This is not a relationship. He chooses women that he “can’t bring home to the family because of religious differences “ so he can get free sex.

  • @trichmomma
    @trichmomma Рік тому +203

    He purposefully chooses women who are unavailable/off limits to him. It allows him to play without the commitment and without being exposed for the creep he is.

  • @AishyMarie
    @AishyMarie Рік тому +179

    Sid is 100% right, he is just takings a piss. The guy doesn’t want anything serious. He’s just using her until he’s ready to marry a Muslim woman. A lot of so call Muslim men do that here in America, which’s why non-Muslim woman needs to respect themselves and not be intimate with Muslim man. If the man is serious he’ll respect you and marry you. Ladies be cautious when you start talking/dating a Muslim man because some will just use you for their enjoyment.

    • @sincerelylavie9960
      @sincerelylavie9960 Рік тому +11

      This right here also happens a lot In the uk 🇬🇧, it’s so sad because some woman even resort to being in the background even after he’s married. Smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @allthingsnieshafi8930
      @allthingsnieshafi8930 Рік тому +5

      The truth I waisted 6 years with a man 9 years older than me who kept telling me he wasn’t ready for marriage. By year 5 he tells me I must convert… I just packed my stuff and left in the when he wasn’t home 😂

  • @jy2044
    @jy2044 Рік тому +120

    Agree with Sid on this one hundred percent! Ladies from whichever faith you practice don't get intimate with any guy unless he's committed to you, otherwise in the end only you will get hurt. Don't let them play you like that, good men are hard to find, but it'll be worth it! Find a man who respects your boundaries and most of all you!!! Don't settle!!! 🙌🏽
    Also, if you're a Muslim or Christian, avoid intimacy until after marriage - follow the faith wholeheartedly, don't just pick and choose whatever suits you. These rules are in place for a reason, be wise guys. God knows us more than we know ourselves.

  • @21972012145525
    @21972012145525 Рік тому +50

    He is literally telling you it’s not going to work out and to find someone else (from uni?! Wtf).
    ...so why aren’t you?
    Also plenty of ways to learn about Islam. This is not it. He is not a good Muslim to learn from. Sid is right-Muslim men shouldn’t be engaging in sex outside of marriage. Run.

  • @elleinfj1998
    @elleinfj1998 Рік тому +47

    That’s what scares me about marriage you see, lots of “Muslim” men do this. fool around with women of other faiths and when they are pressured to marry, they settle down with a TRUE practicing Muslim woman. And unbeknownst to her the guy is a complete imposter.

    • @ye23.
      @ye23. Рік тому +20

      And the parents know and encourage this allowing their boys to do as they please before settling down with a “good innocent girl”. Meanwhile they keep a leash on their daughters

    • @elleinfj1998
      @elleinfj1998 Рік тому +4

      @@ye23. yeah in my humble opinion, I think there’s more good virtuous Muslim women than there’s men, and Allah knows best.

    • @flabbytobaddie
      @flabbytobaddie Рік тому

      I agree with u. It has happened so much.

    • @flabbytobaddie
      @flabbytobaddie Рік тому

      Yessssss girl!!

    • @sana777malik
      @sana777malik Рік тому

      What if a Muslim guy was genuinely in love with the girl of the other faith and had a long 4-5 year relationship (almost like a husband and wife) where all physical things happened but due to family pressure he truly let her go and and is now sincere with his wife who had no past? What should the wife do when she finds out later about this

  • @simsimnoor3664
    @simsimnoor3664 Рік тому +44

    Such a common story nowadays . Hope the girl takes sids advice and finds someone worthy. Xx

  • @lulu8803
    @lulu8803 Рік тому +22

    Run girl RUN!!!

  • @sairanisar2304
    @sairanisar2304 Рік тому +30

    IM SO GLAD YOUR DOING THESE VIDEOS AGAIN, THEY WERE ALWAYS MY FAVOURITE ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @river1304
    @river1304 Рік тому +55

    Putting religion to one side, a woman should never convince a man to be with her. If he’s not willing to fight for her, he’s not the one. Also, he’s getting the goods for free, that’s keeping him around. He’s telling her exactly what his intentions are, she needs to leave.

  • @annemarie5851
    @annemarie5851 Рік тому +27

    He is stringing her along. Move on! :(

  • @xxxmickyxxx3
    @xxxmickyxxx3 Рік тому +19

    I've never known a Christian Muslim relationship work. It always turns sour at the end with one person now actually wanting e.g. their kids to practice only their faith and not both etc. I remember back in my uni days I had a friend who was muslim. We spoke everyday and I could sense he liked me. He would invite to places outside of uni etc. Tbf if I allowed myself I could have deffo seen myself falling for him like that but I didnt. I didnt want to put myself in a situation which I know later down I would regret. So eventually our friendship fizzled out (nothing happened between us) which was sad because he was a good guy but honestly dont put yourself in a position which will be harder down the road and you will be comprising a lot of things you believe in.

    • @aiisonsboo
      @aiisonsboo Рік тому +4

      Don’t agree! My family have Muslim and Christian married couples who have been together for over 10 - 20 years. It’s more about knowing what each other want before settling. Regardless of religion, everyone has things they will compromise on and things that are a no go.

  • @johannaliceaga5936
    @johannaliceaga5936 Рік тому +13

    I hate these situations it’s so pathetic, my advice just don’t get stuck on your feelings and find a man that is willing to be in a full on relationship with you and will potentially marry you, trust me, it happened to me been 10 years together and I super regret it and at the end the love was not worth it

  • @DexterMag-aso
    @DexterMag-aso 7 місяців тому

    Wow, Sid and Dina, your post beautifully reflects the unity that goes beyond differences! It reminds me of the insightful teachings I received from my life coach, Lisa Haisha, during her retreat in the Philippines. Your unique bond as a Christian and a Muslim couple is truly inspiring. Your commitment to understanding and embracing each other's beliefs resonates with the core principles of love and acceptance. Both of you are my true inspiration on the journey to greatness!

  • @cookwithdeedee_
    @cookwithdeedee_ Рік тому +7

    Sid is completely right!!! She is a rebound unfortunately and he’s trying to confuse her but in actual fact, he isn’t going to make her a wife and wants to be selfish and keep her there. If she doesn’t make the call sooner rather than later, she will be quite heartbroken.
    Definitely say “I’m going”.
    He’s got issues and is exploring things with other people for his own reasons. Someone that has told you “I can’t take you back home or to visit my country” - don’t waste your time!
    I also think that everyone is at different stages in their life and she sounds young. Sometimes unfortunately, people experience low points before they truly understand what they won’t accept for their future. There should be a balance even if you’ve got “great chemistry”.
    As Dina & Sid have said - it can’t be about one side of the relationship. Good advice

  • @sincerelylavie9960
    @sincerelylavie9960 Рік тому +34

    I knew a girl who fall for a Muslim man and she actually is a practicing Christian. He used to always try and holla at her with his flash car etc and one day she ended up meeting him up. My girl said he took her to the car park looool imagine he’s 28 and she’s 18. Ax soon as she told me I knew he was just trying to use her. She told me he said he was “divorced” and that he had a kid. I wash smh 🤦🏽‍♀️. What was weird is he always kept on mentioning how beautiful her curly hair was and how she was his type etc. my man never took her on a date, he’d always bail last minute. Esh was sad!! She found out, he was actually STILL married and has another kid and he never planned make her his girl. Ladies love and respect yourself, don’t be booboo the fool ❤️

    • @Johuraldn
      @Johuraldn Рік тому

      What a weirdo 🤣 that’s some male species for you

  • @shaistarizwan3237
    @shaistarizwan3237 Рік тому +2

    Am smiling at Dinas lil song there broo!!! Dayyym 💃🏻

  • @naziaiqbal4240
    @naziaiqbal4240 Рік тому +21

    Men are very clever and can make up stories about why they cant marry you. We can't be intimate before marriage. But for some reason i think hes not serious about any of the women and is just time passing until he gets married, to most likely his familys choice, either a cousin or relatives etc.

  • @baktashg4187
    @baktashg4187 Рік тому +3

    I m with Sid. He is taking advantage but not committing. I do have 2 brothers who were also in relationships with christian and were serious and introduced them to the family. They never made it to the engagement but they were open about it and did not play any games.

  • @hiba7434
    @hiba7434 Рік тому +1

    Dina that hair color suits u so well!!

  • @gizger5196
    @gizger5196 Рік тому +11

    If the guy was in a longterm relationship and never introduced her to his parents I doubt he'll do that with the current relationship. The woman who's written in seems to have very different expectations for the relationship than the guy.
    I wonder if the guy is even opposed to marrying someone non-muslim or if he's just scared of a potential conflict with his family? To me he sounds like he expects resistance from his family and just doesn't want to be bothered. I don't believe someone has to prove their love by going against their family but if someone is ready to separate from somebody he loves because he doesn't want to even try to make his family understand, I'd say he's not worth it.

  • @rimshaazhar9087
    @rimshaazhar9087 Рік тому +1

    Love the colours you guys are wearing 😍

  • @muslimahb2953
    @muslimahb2953 Рік тому +16

    He is a user 100%....

  • @abzyfabzy6055
    @abzyfabzy6055 Рік тому +10

    Is she a practising Christian is she is having sex before marriage? Girl, dump him. First, stop having sex with him. He is using you. See how he reacts when you do stop. If he loves you enough, he'll want to commit, then you can discuss marriage. I get why as a Christian you want to marry a Muslim, it makes sense, some of them are very practising and their religion is similar to Christianity. Despite this, don't change your religion for a man. I have witnessed a similar issue like this, neither were physically intimate because neither agree with that, but he enjoyed the feeling of being in love and getting her undivided attention. He tried to get her to convert but even then said his community wouldn't like the idea of her and it would be difficult. Men and feelings are weird, he's not 100% using you, there may still be feelings when he stops sleeping with you, but see how strong they are. G-d said no sex before marriage for a reason. Just be wary of this situation again. If you're a true Christian, try to look past the temptation of sex (I'm celibate idk how hard this is) because you want to please G-d, men are of this Earth and are only temporary, the soul is forever.

  • @iamqwq
    @iamqwq Рік тому +6

    Wow sid still holding on to his hair 👏🏽

  • @jazzybash1
    @jazzybash1 Рік тому +12

    For Christians, as well sex before marriage is a no go but nowadays a lot of people are lax on that. Anyways, I call bs. The guy seems like he just wanted sex and she is a rebound. Also, the same complexion thing threw me off too. Because I’m like the similar complexion to a lot people in this world, what does that even mean? . Also, I think maybe his culture and/or upbringing was very strict than the way he lives now and bringing her to his family would be a shock maybe and then He would have to let the cat out of the bag that he’s not living how he was raised or maybe he just that guy who will date various different people but later will settle from a Muslima from his culture. I have known some guys like that. It’s kind of like a phase of some sorts. Or he can eventually be that guy you know who will never date within his community. But I think she should break up because this isn’t going to go anywhere seriously.

  • @tannaz1262
    @tannaz1262 Рік тому +4

    She doesn't need to understand his confusion...he will leave her hurt...really hurt! Dont waste your time. Sid is on the money on this one. Keep your standards high

  • @anishahussain8552
    @anishahussain8552 Рік тому +1

    Please can yous make vlogs I'm missing u guys I esp check if your posted or not xxxxx love yous from Newcastle maashallah maashallah lovley couple x ❤️ 💖 💗 ♥️ 💕

  • @josieflores4630
    @josieflores4630 Рік тому +10

    Im catholic and my husband is Muslim. From the beginning I had given him ultimatums and I met his family, this gave me reassurance that this was serious. We were engaged and married within a couple years. If a guy really wants to marry you, he will respect you. Before we got engaged we talked about our future and how it would be when it came to our children and religion… we both agreed that we have differences but we decided to work things out because of love.

    • @leilaan9344
      @leilaan9344 Рік тому +1

      So you would raise your children how??? Catholics are to raise their kids Catholic

    • @josieflores4630
      @josieflores4630 Рік тому

      My son is Muslim

    • @leilaan9344
      @leilaan9344 Рік тому

      @@josieflores4630 so how is that respecting you if it's not respectful of your religion? How are things "worked out" he evidently got what he wanted and you didn't

    • @josieflores4630
      @josieflores4630 Рік тому +3

      @@leilaan9344 like I said, you both need to talk to each other about your future before you even get engaged. We talked about our differences and both agreed on how our children would be raised. This is we agreed on from the beginning. If I wanted my children to be catholic I would not have accepted marriage with him. My husband and I have mutual respect for each other and our decisions. You need to do what works for you and your relationship.

    • @leilaan9344
      @leilaan9344 Рік тому

      @@josieflores4630 this is why interfaith relationships typically don't work, because one person's faith gets pushed over for the other's

  • @hassanahmed9496
    @hassanahmed9496 Рік тому +4

    sid hit the nail on the head!

  • @nourshaheen332
    @nourshaheen332 Рік тому

    Dina I love your top so much. can you please tell me where it’s from?

  • @samryan02
    @samryan02 Рік тому +4

    Wow can we talk about Dina's arms, girllll you got muscles 😍

  • @rosehaidar4386
    @rosehaidar4386 Рік тому +12

    a man who wants you would want to be exclusive, he's definitely not that into her/not that serious about her lol. If he really liked her and wanted her she wouldn't be confused...you KNOW when a guy likes you. He's clearly playing her by keeping her in a situationship until he finds someone he actually wants. Have some self-respect! :P

  • @theepatricia2046
    @theepatricia2046 Рік тому +4

    This is a great channel but, as a woman I'd like to hear MORE of the man's opinion.

  • @bg6358
    @bg6358 Рік тому +2

    Sid and Dina looking great. Sid, tone your hair so it's platinum blonde

  • @muslimahb2953
    @muslimahb2953 Рік тому +11

    Im with sid on this

  • @muslimahb2953
    @muslimahb2953 Рік тому +7

    100% she is a rebound for him. So sad.

  • @lenayahoti
    @lenayahoti Рік тому +4

    Shes not a true Christian and he's not a true muslim. Neither religion promote sex before marriage. And at least in Christianity, being unequally yoked is taught and often mentioned when being in relationship with those who don't share your faith, be it muslim, jew (unless they're a messianic jew then its a little easier), atheist, agnostic etc. Being with anyone who is not a Christian is not promoted or encouraged because if you can compromise on your faith, what else will you compromise on. What else will you sacrifice from your religion in the name of love for this person. God first always. He has parameters for a reason. It's not hard to follow when you truly are for him. I find it hard to believe that a household with differing faiths will work as well. It's not impossible but if you're truly devoted to the faith you claim to be or identify with, why would you risk your children to follow another religion that you don't necessarily agree with. If you truly believe that the religion you follow is the right one and the one that will lead to salvation and eternity with God, why be in a relationship with someone who doesn't agree. Faith is not something easily wavered. That goes for both parties by the way. Again, not impossible seeing as my stepdad was brought up Rastafari, more so agnostic and then after being in a relationship with my mum, became a Christian. It honestly sounds like he's using her to get what he wants which is sexual gratification without being held accountable because if he did the same with a muslim girl, unless she also wasn't serious about her religion, he would be forced to marry her because not only is he dishonouring his religion, hes dishonouring her. And it's very clear he doesn't want to be serious in any aspect besides being caught out by his family for fornicating outside of marriage and in my opinion, a grown man. She also doesn't seem to know her religion or be serious about it. She likely just inherited the title of Christian from her family and hasn't taken the time to truly get to know Jesus and the message of the Christian faith for herself. When she does that, then she can consider researching other religions and coming to a conclusion on her own, hopefully with God guiding her in the right direction. But she needs to grow up as well as take more responsibility for the fleshly decisions shes making as well. It's disappointing on all fronts

  • @beardedninjah7982
    @beardedninjah7982 Рік тому +7

    Did figured it out. Responding as if it's his daughter or sister. He's using you as a rebound or he's wanting his cake and eating it too. Or he's a flake or any sort any colour
    Dina cracking me up with song lines and quotes. Bangger. But I got one better.
    "If you don't see me in ya future, then leave me in your past, I'll move forward and you can watch my a££"
    😅😅😅😅

  • @maz4488
    @maz4488 Рік тому +4

    He’s using her for sex, no other way around it. He has literally told you it’s not gonna work, listen to him.

  • @NathalieTravelMuse
    @NathalieTravelMuse Рік тому +1

    This guy is totally just messing around and making excuses to keep this woman interested in sleeping with him. I don't even think she needs to make an ultimatum because the answer is already there in big bright letters: MOVE ON. If someone is not saying/acting like a HELL YES, then the answer is always no.

  • @Mueue
    @Mueue Рік тому +6

    I feel like the roles were reversed today. Dina your on the guys side for once lol. I kept agreeing with you then sid would make his point. It’s definitely all on perspective like you mentioned.

  • @vanillaflavour6162
    @vanillaflavour6162 Рік тому +8

    Some men like to go for more "exotic " women so they try to date outside his race or whatever kind of curiosity

  • @saajidarawat3970
    @saajidarawat3970 Рік тому +3

    What's going on with Dina's biceps 💪

  • @susuti90
    @susuti90 Рік тому

    Waiting for new Video !!!!

  • @rezhinomar2062
    @rezhinomar2062 Рік тому +5

    Sorry Dina but you are a bit off in your points in this case😅 everything sid said is point on and exactly what this manipulative so called Muslim is doing

  • @aleksandragluchowska1334
    @aleksandragluchowska1334 Рік тому

    Assalamu Alaikum , I love your blouse Dina !

  • @user-ep6nf7fb5x
    @user-ep6nf7fb5x 8 місяців тому

    Love You Guys ❤❤❤ A💎A

  • @misbahailia3345
    @misbahailia3345 6 місяців тому +1

    Dina i love you, but you need to stop interrupting.
    Sid is showing the woman that she needs to love/respect herself Masha'Allah.
    Lets face it, a male knows a male.
    When theres a question regarding guy asking about a girl, thats when we need your perspective.

  • @reneerasul3347
    @reneerasul3347 Рік тому +3

    Listen to Sid... period.

  • @RanneH3
    @RanneH3 Рік тому +3

    He is taking advantage of her and having good time and fun but he is not serious at all because he'll be with a Muslim girl that passes to his family. Stop wasting your time with him. I feel so sorry for her and angry at him

  • @SKRsoul
    @SKRsoul Рік тому

    First! Love you ❤

  • @muslimahb2953
    @muslimahb2953 Рік тому +18

    I don't like this guy. But I hope this girl converts and ends up marrying an amazing muslim man that deserves her ♥︎♥︎♥︎

  • @mnwaha6026
    @mnwaha6026 Рік тому +1

    Guys 😢

  • @user-se8so5hb9g
    @user-se8so5hb9g Рік тому +5

    But clearly there not practising what ever religion they are, they're in a sexual relationship. His using you, move on.

  • @0SincerelyDae0
    @0SincerelyDae0 Рік тому +2

    Hey girl who reached out, leave.

  • @jayjaytr1849
    @jayjaytr1849 Рік тому

    Dina looking as beautiful as ever

  • @nabati8903
    @nabati8903 Рік тому +11

    Noooooo Dina what’s up with you girlie? The past two videos have been ..... You sound so naive 😭

  • @mjkingofmusic
    @mjkingofmusic Рік тому +2

    I agree with everything Sid says. It's funny though, Sid comes with some important & smart points and while he's about to talk about it, Dina interrupts him everytime just to talk about the thing Sid was trying to talk about. Let the man speak for more than 10 seconds, Dina.

  • @RubyRim
    @RubyRim Рік тому +5

    My man sounds african and my people tend to do this a lot! They mess with non Muslim for the seggs and then go home to marry their "people"
    Sis needs to leave this dude and stop wasting her time.

  • @susuti90
    @susuti90 8 місяців тому

    Hey why u dont do any Videos !???!! 😡😡😡😤😤😤😤

  • @RanneH3
    @RanneH3 Рік тому +3

    Exactly like sifld said. I'm going because you re not taking us seriously. Stop this sadly ending Movie and sinario

    • @RanneH3
      @RanneH3 Рік тому

      He cannot have fun with a Muslim girl because she would not except his way of handling things

  • @husssain140
    @husssain140 Рік тому +1

    Lol sid is so funny

  • @reneyah3754
    @reneyah3754 Рік тому

    No one mess with Dina, I mean look at her arms

  • @rmssa113
    @rmssa113 Рік тому

    So I'm from Saudi Arabia, and I have a BIG feeling he is from Saudi or the gulf 😂😒

  • @alexg8327
    @alexg8327 Рік тому +1

    Omg… GET OUT girlfriend! He does not see you as a long term partner and nothing you do will change that. Save yourself and move on. He just makes excuse after excuse.

  • @user-bm7xo7di3b
    @user-bm7xo7di3b Рік тому +2

    كنت اتابعك لما كنتي محجبه ، ربي يهدينا ويهديك ان شاء الله

  • @meezursrule
    @meezursrule Рік тому

    I'm with Sid on this.
    He has commitment issues. Take him at his word - he is too unsure about this. His family seem to influence him heavily and are likely to reject anyone who does not fit their cultural expectations.
    Move on! This guy has too many issues!

  • @S4FX
    @S4FX Рік тому

    She should give him a ultimatum marry or leave end off

  • @sarasaeed1025
    @sarasaeed1025 Рік тому

    dina's ripped!

  • @piqueny8872
    @piqueny8872 11 місяців тому

    Know of a Muslim guy who married a non practicing Christian gf
    They only reason he’s still with her cuz his mom provides him with his religious obligations food during Ramadan/ Eid Ect the gf is used for her body and she knows it
    Take full advantage of his weakness
    Belittle to her once mom os gone the relationship will be over

  • @mrs.shanahan6087
    @mrs.shanahan6087 Рік тому +1

    I feel he's taking the mick...and the sex. EXCUSES. He (and she) needs to get his priorities and his life straight. #TeamSid

  • @mohmoudahmed4531
    @mohmoudahmed4531 Рік тому +1

    You are both Muslims Alhamdulillah 🇪🇬💖🇧🇩🇪🇬🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

  • @salwaahussain6772
    @salwaahussain6772 Рік тому +6

    Assalamualaikum sister and brother. You said that a Christian and Muslim can get married it's wrong. The ahlaa kitaab used to do that. It's not hadith what you said. Nowadays we don't have a religion who is close to Islam

    • @muaazahp
      @muaazahp Рік тому +1

      She said if they’re religious. It’s allowed for a Muslim man to marry a Christian women who’s religious

  • @Johuraldn
    @Johuraldn Рік тому +1

    Muslim men are allowed to be with a Jew or Christian women tho

    • @drasc1470
      @drasc1470 Рік тому

      Not a christian woman who believe in the trinity

    • @Johuraldn
      @Johuraldn Рік тому

      @@drasc1470 Yes in Islam a Muslim man can marry the people of the book lol but he has to enure that his kids become muslim :)

  • @bekind3063
    @bekind3063 Рік тому

    😂❤❤❤

  • @nazjeff6371
    @nazjeff6371 Рік тому

    What's crazy subhsnallah is that when women take off there after wearing it, they actually look worse. Walahi. There is a certain beauty about wearing a hijab that makes you distinct. No they just look like everyone else.

  • @iqrazab3625
    @iqrazab3625 Рік тому +1

    The guy is the 🚩

  • @nimsshk7
    @nimsshk7 Рік тому +1

    Hes defo using you.l

  • @moonhijab6824
    @moonhijab6824 Рік тому

    🙌🙌😂😂

  • @louiserichardson8305
    @louiserichardson8305 Рік тому

    🅿🆁🅾🅼🅾🆂🅼 🤷

  • @bluebellcrushedvelvet
    @bluebellcrushedvelvet 10 місяців тому

    As a jewish person, I'm actually rather SHOCKED to hear from sid that muslims actually CAN marry a PRACTICING jewish person???
    Like wtf??? I'm shooketh 😱😱😱😱😵😵