I used to feel like if I let go of the pain, I'd have nothing left. The pain of losing them was the only connection to them I had. I've changed my thoughts, but I remember how much I needed that pain.
Omg I've been thinking the same thing if I stop thinking about them or if I step out of the pain then it is over bc that's all that I have of them but I'm working on all of that
I had to give up being a "nice Christian." I kept forgiving, forgiving, forgiving, and they kept rejecting, rejecting, rejecting. I had to come to the point of saying NO MORE to the NEED to keep sending my love 'out there'.... No more. Hell no. And much stronger words than these. Turn to myself, start taking care of my health. Losing weight. Joining a gym. Starting to run. Ran two marathons in my 60s, having only begun to run in my late 50's. And I'm only just beginning. It is nothing less than changing my inner identity from depressed, to warrior. Thank you Natalie.
This is exactly where I am at ! I deserve to feel happy not to get him but because I DESERVE IT I know that I deserve to be happy and to have self love because I am me I deserve it period
Thank you Natalie! Me and my girlfriend broke up on September 15th. We been together for almost 4 years. I’ve truly been obsessing on getting her back and it’s driving me insane. I’m going to stop obsessing over her and truly work on myself only. Thank you for your advice. I truly believe in all what you said in this video will come true. I believe things will work out the way they are suppose to without me forcing anything. 🙏🏾
I'm struggling so hard with blaming myself and my anxious attachment style and fear of abandonment for the breakup, and though I did play a huge part in it at the end of the day a relationship is 2 parties and if he really cared and wanted to be with me he would've tried harder to make it work.
I learned a few years ago that when I became good with whether someone wanted to leave or stay; I noticed more ladies were interested in me. I also learned it isn’t selfish to consider your wants and needs . It’s self respect which is attractive.
What you have said in this video is exactly what has happened to me when I was younger, in my early 20's. I had been dating girls that would break up with me in the end and i felt worthless. I have recently broken up with my girlfriend after 2 and a half year of being together, and i feel like i'm back in my 20"s again. I'm 48 on Wednesday 26th July. It feels like history is repeating itself.
I claim this video, you are so right Natalie, when you feel enough is enough it makes you put all the focus on yourself, i choose to fill my own cup up, thank you ❤
Absolutely Natalie. I have pulled my energy back and focusing myself. I have gone through abandonment trauma as I entered my teenage years. Now my ex man keeps coming back around now, but i have realised that I need to have bigger boundaries, as I easily fall back when he goes cold. I am healing and I am working on loving myself and my life again and doing better, because yes it’s enough. If there anything else I can do to maintain this boundary with him? PS - I love these new colours you’re wearing now… 💗
To you and butterfly goddess keep telling the story of how you want to be how you want to be seen and how you want to see them! And stick to boundaries! It says so much about your worth xxxx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Thank you Natalie… I am doing this, even when anxiety hits, I remind myself of how amazing I am. We sometimes forget we are, because our focus is on the man. I’m not going back, I tried many times with him because he was the most wonderful man in the past, but now I’m done. I’m detaching and letting go because I deserve to be in a loving relationship… thank you for your love and reminders Natalie… 💗
@@rockymountains3704 You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who is so sure that it’s you he wants. He may have been the most wonderful man, but you have to accept he isn’t anymore. I’m blocking my ex man, because he doesn’t deserve to have access to me, just when he feels like it. It’s hard, but now I’m putting myself first. It took me months to get here. I used to wonder why this happened, if I wasn’t good enough etc etc. and still have my moments, but you know what… sometimes you need to think f it, I know my value. It’ll be hard, but train your mind as Natalie says with a new story and you and I, we will be ok. 💗 I’m sending you so much love.
"Enough" was enough. I went all in on myself because I had no other choice. Been 2-3 weeks and I feel GREAT! I lover her, I want her but I don't need her!!!!
there are lots and lots of motivational spiritual talkings videos etc but yours my dear, are the most realistic and touching ones. thank you for sharing and your efforts.. means world to me
I honestly did struggle for a long while with people that I wanted not wanting to be in my life but now I can gladly say that I really don't care it's me first!!
I've let my sp go. He deeply and truly loved me but couldn't be consistent toward me because of my old past beliefs. So I let him go 2 months ago and I've been feeling way better since then. My beliefs about love and my lover have already changed for the better❤🙏🏻 I know I'm going to attract the great love that I deserve and desire. I'm so glad I watched this video. And I love you ❤
What i love about ur style is how u repeat and emphasize key words back to back. It s smart and needed because as we are comprehending new concepts ..we cud not hear them. Or if we ve heard them our whole life we still may not yet connect w them. Meanings hsvent landed since we are in old beliefs and have trouble relating.
Wow. Towards the end of the video instead of crying and being insecure I kept saying I am irreplaceable and he can not find anyone else better than me. On minute 13 of the video, he texted me after 11 days no contact.
I choose me! I claim this video of self improvement for ME not for him and I release him this is all about me and how I feel and it was not my fault. I choose to SHINE as I should. My energy is going into me. I go all in on me for the next few weeks to be that person who is NOT fearful of life or FEARFUL of loss because this Fear I DO NOT claim. I choose and prioritise me and live an incredible life and raise myself on that pedestal. I choose to release my childhood traumas. I choose to have a life where my cup is over spilling. I choose to glow and lose that old girl I used to be I choose ME!
This what she say is fuking truth, believe guys, she really honest, more then that if you think you come out from that hell jail and now you can live life free the way you like ❤
Thank you. It's been about 4 weeks now since the break up. I didn't know her for long, but it really threw me. I couldn't believe it. I'm returning to your videos when the anxiety returns. The positive sign is the bursts of anxiety are reducing intensity and becoming more intermittent. I have my affirmations and self love plan in place and am doing it everyday. Thank you again.
Hi Natalie...it's me ..the Italian guy from NY..lol. I will set up another coaching session with you soon... I agree if they want to leave let them go but what if I was the one who messed up... and then they left? How do I forgive myself for messing up
Lol! Couldn’t keep quiet till Tuesday? Lol only joking beautiful. You didn’t mess up. We are all doing the best with the tools we have. Now you know what to do.….forgive yourself if you need too but know you’re and we are all doing our best and its time to learn and grow within to love - to return to love ❤️
About a month ago I was fired from my job due to cutbacks following the Insufferable war here. I'm still in mourning. Angry and wants to go back. I wonder if the amazing things you teach can also work in a workplace? I do think there is an opening for a return considering the nature of the place (media). Besides, you are charming and really put me in a good mood and encourage me in these difficult days :) Thank you
I'm a former foster youth and have been struggling with self-love. My wife walked out of my life and I had to learn that it was ok. Right now we are unsure about us, but the Childhood trauma is something I need to heal from.
I was too needy and rushed in, but only after she reciprocated and matched me in kind. We said the L words and then she bailed in the relationship. Its been abtwrrible two weeks since she dumped me. But im working on releasing it all. I love her and want to make it work and be healthy but im in the state of I dont "need" her.
Hi Natalie, I have done so much work on myself in the last 5 months.... I lost 30lbs and won 4th place in my first fitness competition and I'm currently travelling through thailand by myself and happier than I've ever been in my life. Yet I still struggle wanting my sp. I am magnetic to everyone else. I can manifest everything I desire. What am I missing?
I don’t have traumas or wounds from my childhood I have wounds from my ex wife. Her judgment and avoidant personality made it difficult to no feel rejected and condemned because I wasn’t on the same Protestant belief as her . What my problem is, Is how does one not understand unconditional love and know how to appreciate a good man?
If we're manifesting for them to come back but maintaining no contact and getting on with our lives, does this still count as sending needy energy out?
Luv your work Natalie! Thanks 🙏 A bit of a catch22... So how do i live in the wish fullfilled & disconnect energetically from my SP at the same time? I accept my SP does not reciprocate my love & im ok with that, theres plenty of fish in the sea & the only person that needs to luv me, is me. I'm doing what you mentioned... self luv, self concept, meditation, exercise, diet etc. 1) But I still have feelings for them. So everytime they come to mind I gently acknowledge it with luv & let it go. A part of me is annoyed because I don't want to luv someone that doesn't love me & choose me. Im happy to move on but I wish I had a switch to turn off the feelings. 2) When I try to move on, manifest a new love or my future relationship, every time I do scripting, or meditation, or living in the wish fulfilled etc. I start imagining my SP because the feelings wont go away🤦♀️ I'm stuck in limbo.
I just decided to choose me and accept whatever happens if he comes back he comes back if he doesn't he doesn't. I'll be fin either way I was good before him and I'll be fine after him
I'm curious in the letting go stage, do you not at that time live in the end (ie living as if you are with them again, creating scenes w feeling states)... is there a progression where you must not do any "live in the end" feelings with them in order to fully let them go? I get confused on that.
hi natalie! thank you for this video. something you said makes me wonder: how can a person "accept is over and done" at the same time they "live in the end"? dont those two things kind of contradict each other? its two different feelings. how to have both feelings? is letting go enough so a person can take them off their head? or if one stops "living in the end" that will keep them from returning some day? 🙏🌹
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop im grateful for your reply. too bad for me it doesnt answer what i asked and leaves me with even more questions about it... regardless im grateful for the acknowledgment 🙏
It does if you allow yourself to sit with it . I do my best to answer you all. I really do. I spend a lot of time on replying. If you’re not happy with the response then I’m sorry about that.if you need more then I offer coaching and that is available for everyone xx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop i never said i was not happy. im sorry you misunderstood and took it that way. i actually said i was grateful. once again, thank you and for taking the time to acknowledge each and every one of us.
Hi, what happens if you feel their energy while your trying to accept and heal, when suddenly you feel sadden and depressed when your focusing 100 percent on something else?
Your negative mindset has taken you over with a thought 💭 and you need to recognise it and catch the thought to revise it so you don’t feel so depressed but learn from that thought
I am going through the same thing with abandonment and my husband left Friday morning for work and I haven't seen him since. I've been taking anxiety medicine for it.
I choose to let go. I choose God. I choose myself. I choose to not be needy anymore. I've been watching these videos for weeks now, but I keep trying all this stuff out of my own neediness to get her back, and Ive been so needy that Ive noticed Im even pushing other people in my life away who werent even going anywhere in the first place, and I see it now. I've spent so much energy, time, and $$ just to get nothing back, and now I'm finally getting it.. I'm worth more than this. Everything I've done for her and forgiven her for only proves how awesome I am, and if she don't want awesome, fine..bc I want awesome, so why wouldn't I choose me first?
Hi Natalie, Thank you for this. I have been in no contact for 9 weeks after he broke up with me 2 months before our wedding. I am living my life, taking care of my health, healing my childhood traumas through courses and therapy and somatic healing, building my business, meeting new people, doing things that never imagined to do and a whole lot more. But my question is sometime I feel so much pain that I cry up to the point that my chest and my back is hurting, sometimes I think about him more than I want to. Does it mean all my work is in vain and the energy I am sending is negative? Thank you for answering my question, I am grateful for all you do. Kris
This is the second time he's broke up with me over the last 5 years through his depression which seems to be same thing again bit like deja vu. This happened only a few weeks ago so I'm in the process of self healing right now and trying to watch my engery ❤
What if I screwed up and am trying to make it all right/back after year? We live distant from each other, no common friends etc...and I would really do anything...
I did push him away and then i grovelled once. he said there is someone else now. i have gone into no contact. Still think about it. its not about my worth after i ruined things its about how long it took me to find one person with potential.
She left the house and left me with the three kids 1 isn't even mine, she knows I want to fix the issue but she told me she is done and that person isn't hear anymore and the love is gone. I know the root of the problem was me pushing her away by not communicating and being highly aggressive when being question. Granted I accepted her flaws wish she would see mine and accept I don't want her to forgive those past things just wish she sees I am changing, but she is so walled off that she is completely hostile when triggered but with saying she is going to file the divorce but I still want to reconcile you have a solution for this
Always a lesson! The pain caused by being dumped if overwhelming is due to childhood abandonment. The treatment of of people when experienced negatively will be due to childhood experiences. When you finally get dumped by someone that is not treating you right, defo see it as a win from the u inverse having your back and pulling you by the scruff of your neck outta there! And when it does it is saying please don’t do this again! Instead learn to love you it’s so much easier long term xxxx
That was the crazy part that it was great but I was ready for the next level and I thought he was to. We left narcissist marriages. I know I won’t beg because I am older and begging only makes them treat you worse if they take you back. As much as it hurts I know that time heals. I will see him the end of this month for a sales meeting that’s mandatory. I have lost weight, taken care of myself and shopped for nice clothing. He became strange after his brother died. I think it triggered something and they went through being bounced around by family members because mom was a drug addict and his father had many women. Anyway I wish him the best because I would love the universe to bring a special someone for me
I used to feel like if I let go of the pain, I'd have nothing left. The pain of losing them was the only connection to them I had. I've changed my thoughts, but I remember how much I needed that pain.
Sending you big hugs xxx
Omg I've been thinking the same thing if I stop thinking about them or if I step out of the pain then it is over bc that's all that I have of them but I'm working on all of that
Wow. So profound! ❤
I had to give up being a "nice Christian." I kept forgiving, forgiving, forgiving, and they kept rejecting, rejecting, rejecting. I had to come to the point of saying NO MORE to the NEED to keep sending my love 'out there'.... No more. Hell no. And much stronger words than these. Turn to myself, start taking care of my health. Losing weight. Joining a gym. Starting to run. Ran two marathons in my 60s, having only begun to run in my late 50's. And I'm only just beginning. It is nothing less than changing my inner identity from depressed, to warrior. Thank you Natalie.
fear is the path to the darkside, fear leads to anger, Anger leads to hate, Hate leads to suffering, let go of all that you fear to lose
Suffering is a good thing it builds character
This is exactly where I am at ! I deserve to feel happy not to get him but because I DESERVE IT I know that I deserve to be happy and to have self love because I am me I deserve it period
Thank you Natalie! Me and my girlfriend broke up on September 15th. We been together for almost 4 years. I’ve truly been obsessing on getting her back and it’s driving me insane. I’m going to stop obsessing over her and truly work on myself only. Thank you for your advice. I truly believe in all what you said in this video will come true. I believe things will work out the way they are suppose to without me forcing anything. 🙏🏾
I'm struggling so hard with blaming myself and my anxious attachment style and fear of abandonment for the breakup, and though I did play a huge part in it at the end of the day a relationship is 2 parties and if he really cared and wanted to be with me he would've tried harder to make it work.
You have the power of choice! Choose you and fall in love with you now xxxx
When they left the hardest work to do upon oneself is to get ride of the suffering. The suffering within deep inside the heart.
I learned a few years ago that when I became good with whether someone wanted to leave or stay; I noticed more ladies were interested in me.
I also learned it isn’t selfish to consider your wants and needs . It’s self respect which is attractive.
Totally!
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop ❤️
Thank you for such an eye opening video , when self worth is something is lacking rock bottom is not far away! You are helping so much ❤
I choose ME!! Magnetic, safe, loving, overflowing, open... I CHOOSE! ❤
What you have said in this video is exactly what has happened to me when I was younger, in my early 20's. I had been dating girls that would break up with me in the end and i felt worthless. I have recently broken up with my girlfriend after 2 and a half year of being together, and i feel like i'm back in my 20"s again. I'm 48 on Wednesday 26th July. It feels like history is repeating itself.
I’m sorry this is happening and if you’re recognising a pattern then maybe it’s time to look at why this is happening for you? Xxx❤️
I Thank God I FOUND this video. I needed this today
I hope you are doing ok
I claim this video, you are so right Natalie, when you feel enough is enough it makes you put all the focus on yourself, i choose to fill my own cup up, thank you ❤
Absolutely Natalie. I have pulled my energy back and focusing myself. I have gone through abandonment trauma as I entered my teenage years. Now my ex man keeps coming back around now, but i have realised that I need to have bigger boundaries, as I easily fall back when he goes cold. I am healing and I am working on loving myself and my life again and doing better, because yes it’s enough. If there anything else I can do to maintain this boundary with him?
PS - I love these new colours you’re wearing now… 💗
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Butterfly goddess, I am in the exact same boat as you and have the exact same question.
To you and butterfly goddess keep telling the story of how you want to be how you want to be seen and how you want to see them! And stick to boundaries! It says so much about your worth xxxx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop Thank you Natalie… I am doing this, even when anxiety hits, I remind myself of how amazing I am. We sometimes forget we are, because our focus is on the man. I’m not going back, I tried many times with him because he was the most wonderful man in the past, but now I’m done. I’m detaching and letting go because I deserve to be in a loving relationship… thank you for your love and reminders Natalie… 💗
@@rockymountains3704 You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who is so sure that it’s you he wants. He may have been the most wonderful man, but you have to accept he isn’t anymore. I’m blocking my ex man, because he doesn’t deserve to have access to me, just when he feels like it. It’s hard, but now I’m putting myself first. It took me months to get here. I used to wonder why this happened, if I wasn’t good enough etc etc. and still have my moments, but you know what… sometimes you need to think f it, I know my value. It’ll be hard, but train your mind as Natalie says with a new story and you and I, we will be ok. 💗 I’m sending you so much love.
I choose and prioritise me, i choose and feel secure in a loving relationship.
I choose to live my best life starting at this very moment. Thank you for your expertise advice. ❤️
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"Enough" was enough. I went all in on myself because I had no other choice. Been 2-3 weeks and I feel GREAT! I lover her, I want her but I don't need her!!!!
Amazing ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
there are lots and lots of motivational spiritual talkings videos etc but yours my dear, are the most realistic and touching ones. thank you for sharing and your efforts.. means world to me
Wow thank you so much ❤️
I honestly did struggle for a long while with people that I wanted not wanting to be in my life but now I can gladly say that I really don't care it's me first!!
You mean - they’ll be back once I no longer need them? Well, so why should they be back? What for?
True ...u receive what you are,not what you want
I choose to release my childhood trauma, I choose to put me on a pedestal, I choose me ❤❤
Preach ❤. I'm ready to let go and work on myself ❤❤❤
That's what I want for myself and she never seemed to see my true worth. I'm letting go and pouring into myself.
Yesssssss
Natalie! “Im somebody!” has got me giggling!
I've let my sp go. He deeply and truly loved me but couldn't be consistent toward me because of my old past beliefs. So I let him go 2 months ago and I've been feeling way better since then. My beliefs about love and my lover have already changed for the better❤🙏🏻
I know I'm going to attract the great love that I deserve and desire.
I'm so glad I watched this video. And I love you ❤
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Deeply and truly loved you? Wtf are you talking about ? You Sounding a bit narcissistic and stupid
What i love about ur style is how u repeat and emphasize key words back to back. It s smart and needed because as we are comprehending new concepts ..we cud not hear them. Or if we ve heard them our whole life we still may not yet connect w them. Meanings hsvent landed since we are in old beliefs and have trouble relating.
I feel I push people away. My vibration is really high, and maybe they don't know how to handle that
Change that story
I AM VALUABLE AND WORTHY. I DESERVE A HIGH VALUABLE SOULMATE ❤❤❤
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I’m definitely Team Natalie! There’s some other coaches which are pretty fine but Nat always hammers it down right on point.
Thank you
Thank you 😊
Same here
Buietyful words of wisdom from a Buietyful women. God bless you and your work.
I chose to be magnetic and magnificent 👍🏻❤️🙏
I really like your message, the cadence of the delivery and of course your accent.
All very helpful & soothing.
BRAVO!
Well done.
Thank you ❤️
This is the most amazing content I heard for a while as a Divine Feminine. Thank you my dear
Wow, thank you xxxx
Wow. Towards the end of the video instead of crying and being insecure I kept saying I am irreplaceable and he can not find anyone else better than me. On minute 13 of the video, he texted me after 11 days no contact.
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Thank you so much I definitely needed this. Going through a break up now and trying to heal from it ❤️
Sending you lots of love ❤️
Nice weather! It’s 98 degrees here!
I choose me! I claim this video of self improvement for ME not for him and I release him this is all about me and how I feel and it was not my fault. I choose to SHINE as I should. My energy is going into me. I go all in on me for the next few weeks to be that person who is NOT fearful of life or FEARFUL of loss because this Fear I DO NOT claim.
I choose and prioritise me and live an incredible life and raise myself on that pedestal. I choose to release my childhood traumas. I choose to have a life where my cup is over spilling. I choose to glow and lose that old girl I used to be I choose ME!
INCREDIBLE XXXX
This what she say is fuking truth, believe guys, she really honest, more then that if you think you come out from that hell jail and now you can live life free the way you like ❤
Thank you Natalie
Thank you. It's been about 4 weeks now since the break up. I didn't know her for long, but it really threw me. I couldn't believe it. I'm returning to your videos when the anxiety returns. The positive sign is the bursts of anxiety are reducing intensity and becoming more intermittent. I have my affirmations and self love plan in place and am doing it everyday. Thank you again.
THANKS. You're believable and you help me so much!!
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Hi Natalie...it's me ..the Italian guy from NY..lol. I will set up another coaching session with you soon... I agree if they want to leave let them go but what if I was the one who messed up... and then they left? How do I forgive myself for messing up
Lol! Couldn’t keep quiet till Tuesday? Lol only joking beautiful. You didn’t mess up. We are all doing the best with the tools we have. Now you know what to do.….forgive yourself if you need too but know you’re and we are all doing our best and its time to learn and grow within to love - to return to love ❤️
Natalie, you are gorgeous and stunning. It’s hard to think that a man wouldn’t choose to be with you or would treat you poorly. You are beautiful. 😊
Thank you. Xxxx
About a month ago I was fired from my job due to cutbacks following the Insufferable
war here. I'm still in mourning. Angry and wants to go back. I wonder if the amazing things you teach can also work in a workplace? I do think there is an opening for a return considering the nature of the place (media). Besides, you are charming and really put me in a good mood and encourage me in these difficult days :) Thank you
It’s all the same process for anything lovely. What if this happened for something better for you? Maybe think that way too xx
Thank you ❤you totally right @@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop
You're a great speaker.
Thank you 🙏
I'm a former foster youth and have been struggling with self-love. My wife walked out of my life and I had to learn that it was ok. Right now we are unsure about us, but the Childhood trauma is something I need to heal from.
I was too needy and rushed in, but only after she reciprocated and matched me in kind. We said the L words and then she bailed in the relationship. Its been abtwrrible two weeks since she dumped me. But im working on releasing it all. I love her and want to make it work and be healthy but im in the state of I dont "need" her.
Thank you Nat……… I’ll get there one day😊
Keep moving in the direction your headed beautiful one
I love the UK. I miss it and I know I'll return soon.
I choose and prioritise myself. Thankyou ❤
Hi Natalie, I have done so much work on myself in the last 5 months.... I lost 30lbs and won 4th place in my first fitness competition and I'm currently travelling through thailand by myself and happier than I've ever been in my life. Yet I still struggle wanting my sp. I am magnetic to everyone else. I can manifest everything I desire. What am I missing?
Why don’t you get a session with me and we can look at it in more detail lovely. Links below video! Enjoy your travels xxxx
Thanks Natalie. My Ex left me for someone else, relationship lasted 4 years, She left me. Now im having a hard time with so much pain.
It’s not always easy! But it’s time to focus on you! I offer so many solutions for that too lovely so take a look xxx below video
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDropthanks natalie. Feeling more better now watching your videos
Thank you so much for everything you give us..
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I choose to become magnetic and attractive
I don’t have traumas or wounds from my childhood
I have wounds from my ex wife. Her judgment and avoidant personality made it difficult to no feel rejected and condemned because I wasn’t on the same Protestant belief as her .
What my problem is,
Is how does one not understand unconditional love and know how to appreciate a good man?
I’m here within the first hour!! Yay!! Love your videos 🎉
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That pink looks so beautiful on you Natalie!
Thank you! Xxx
I claim this video!!!!!
If we're manifesting for them to come back but maintaining no contact and getting on with our lives, does this still count as sending needy energy out?
Thank You so much, you are such a lovely spirit.❤
Luv your work Natalie! Thanks 🙏 A bit of a catch22... So how do i live in the wish fullfilled & disconnect energetically from my SP at the same time? I accept my SP does not reciprocate my love & im ok with that, theres plenty of fish in the sea & the only person that needs to luv me, is me. I'm doing what you mentioned... self luv, self concept, meditation, exercise, diet etc. 1) But I still have feelings for them. So everytime they come to mind I gently acknowledge it with luv & let it go. A part of me is annoyed because I don't want to luv someone that doesn't love me & choose me. Im happy to move on but I wish I had a switch to turn off the feelings. 2) When I try to move on, manifest a new love or my future relationship, every time I do scripting, or meditation, or living in the wish fulfilled etc. I start imagining my SP because the feelings wont go away🤦♀️ I'm stuck in limbo.
Make a decision that’s your power. And go with that! With faith
I claim, my soul wants the best for me.
Thank you.. thank you.. thank you.. thank you so much.. I need healing now... Thank you so much..
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Loved your video ❤
I just decided to choose me and accept whatever happens if he comes back he comes back if he doesn't he doesn't. I'll be fin either way I was good before him and I'll be fine after him
I'm curious in the letting go stage, do you not at that time live in the end (ie living as if you are with them again, creating scenes w feeling states)... is there a progression where you must not do any "live in the end" feelings with them in order to fully let them go? I get confused on that.
It’s energy!
I love you , thanks so much
hi natalie! thank you for this video. something you said makes me wonder: how can a person "accept is over and done" at the same time they "live in the end"? dont those two things kind of contradict each other? its two different feelings. how to have both feelings? is letting go enough so a person can take them off their head? or if one stops "living in the end" that will keep them from returning some day? 🙏🌹
As I did. Just without the need xx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop im grateful for your reply. too bad for me it doesnt answer what i asked and leaves me with even more questions about it... regardless im grateful for the acknowledgment 🙏
It does if you allow yourself to sit with it . I do my best to answer you all. I really do. I spend a lot of time on replying. If you’re not happy with the response then I’m sorry about that.if you need more then I offer coaching and that is available for everyone xx
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop i never said i was not happy. im sorry you misunderstood and took it that way. i actually said i was grateful. once again, thank you and for taking the time to acknowledge each and every one of us.
You’re welcome lovely
Thank you, sounds like great information. My intention is to work on myself. If they come back so be it.
Hi, what happens if you feel their energy while your trying to accept and heal, when suddenly you feel sadden and depressed when your focusing 100 percent on something else?
Your negative mindset has taken you over with a thought 💭 and you need to recognise it and catch the thought to revise it so you don’t feel so depressed but learn from that thought
I claim this video
I am going through the same thing with abandonment and my husband left Friday morning for work and I haven't seen him since. I've been taking anxiety medicine for it.
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You are an amazing person… thank u ❤
Thank you 🙏
I choose to let go. I choose God. I choose myself. I choose to not be needy anymore. I've been watching these videos for weeks now, but I keep trying all this stuff out of my own neediness to get her back, and Ive been so needy that Ive noticed Im even pushing other people in my life away who werent even going anywhere in the first place, and I see it now. I've spent so much energy, time, and $$ just to get nothing back, and now I'm finally getting it.. I'm worth more than this. Everything I've done for her and forgiven her for only proves how awesome I am, and if she don't want awesome, fine..bc I want awesome, so why wouldn't I choose me first?
Thank you Natalie
Thank you Ms. Natalie
Thanks a lot! I will try it! ❤
Thank you
Me too. She is amazing
Your voice is so beautiful,your words full of emotions. Thank you❤❤❤
Hi Natalie,
Thank you for this. I have been in no contact for 9 weeks after he broke up with me 2 months before our wedding. I am living my life, taking care of my health, healing my childhood traumas through courses and therapy and somatic healing, building my business, meeting new people, doing things that never imagined to do and a whole lot more. But my question is sometime I feel so much pain that I cry up to the point that my chest and my back is hurting, sometimes I think about him more than I want to. Does it mean all my work is in vain and the energy I am sending is negative?
Thank you for answering my question, I am grateful for all you do. Kris
You need a self love practice to heal
Lovely xxxx
Wow! Loving this video... thank you!
Thank you 🙏
How do I pull my energy back like how do I stop thinking about it or attaching to the idea of getting them back
He went out and never came home. Do I pack his stuff? Omg
I choose me!!!!!!!! ❤❤❤ thank you
Love your videos ❤
Thank you 🙏
I needed to hear this today
I love your name ❤️
@@NatalieDanceAsthePenniesDrop jeje 🥰 same to you! Your videos resonate so much with me at this moment of my journey ✨ I appreciate what you share!
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This is the second time he's broke up with me over the last 5 years through his depression which seems to be same thing again bit like deja vu. This happened only a few weeks ago so I'm in the process of self healing right now and trying to watch my engery ❤
wow! so helpful
What if I screwed up and am trying to make it all right/back after year? We live distant from each other, no common friends etc...and I would really do anything...
Circumstances don’t matter
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I really want him back, but don't necessarily NEED him. Is that any different? I'm not obsessing, i just think of him daily
Well done. Thanks
Thank You Natalie for this inspiring video ❤
V welcome xxx
I choose and prioritise me
I did push him away and then i grovelled once. he said there is someone else now. i have gone into no contact. Still think about it. its not about my worth after i ruined things its about how long it took me to find one person with potential.
Forgive yourself and keep loving you xx
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Love this!!! Claiming this end❤❤❤❤
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She left the house and left me with the three kids 1 isn't even mine, she knows I want to fix the issue but she told me she is done and that person isn't hear anymore and the love is gone. I know the root of the problem was me pushing her away by not communicating and being highly aggressive when being question. Granted I accepted her flaws wish she would see mine and accept I don't want her to forgive those past things just wish she sees I am changing, but she is so walled off that she is completely hostile when triggered but with saying she is going to file the divorce but I still want to reconcile you have a solution for this
Focus on the story of what you want! Get some time with me. Link below the video to my coaching solutions xx
@natalie how do I book onto one of your courses
Have a look at the link below the video it’s my website. It’s where all of my coaching solutions can be found xx
When we are dumped, it is a gift from the Universe to make ourselves the best version of us. Inside and outside ❤
Always a lesson! The pain caused by being dumped if overwhelming is due to childhood abandonment. The treatment of of people when experienced negatively will be due to childhood experiences. When you finally get dumped by someone that is not treating you right, defo see it as a win from the u inverse having your back and pulling you by the scruff of your neck outta there! And when it does it is saying please don’t do this again! Instead learn to love you it’s so much easier long term xxxx
That was the crazy part that it was great but I was ready for the next level and I thought he was to. We left narcissist marriages. I know I won’t beg because I am older and begging only makes them treat you worse if they take you back. As much as it hurts I know that time heals. I will see him the end of this month for a sales meeting that’s mandatory. I have lost weight, taken care of myself and shopped for nice clothing. He became strange after his brother died. I think it triggered something and they went through being bounced around by family members because mom was a drug addict and his father had many women. Anyway I wish him the best because I would love the universe to bring a special someone for me