How to Deal With Toxic People? Boss vs Employee | Esha | Hassan Raza

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  • Опубліковано 26 жов 2024

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  • @zunairjaved3067
    @zunairjaved3067 2 роки тому +7

    Considering the culture in local offices, it was great to see someone actually speaking about such issues. Amazingly described. Hope to see more from you!

  • @gamingworld7212
    @gamingworld7212 2 роки тому +2

    Nut Shell of 28 minutes
    1. Don't be afraid speak up.
    2. Give Shut Up call where it requires.
    3. Mental health is the most important. Don't sacrifice your self esteem.
    Excellent presentation from the lady side.

  • @taimoorkhan6974
    @taimoorkhan6974 2 роки тому +3

    This was quite an informative video. Ms. Eesha explained not only workplace bullying but also bullying in general. And the way she related it to day to day issues was very well done. Mental health is of utmost importance, and like she said, “we need to respect ourselves first”. A job well done. Looking forward to more informative videos like this.

  • @asimrashid7416
    @asimrashid7416 2 роки тому +8

    In my experience, HR does not play the role of a mediator. They work for management and do what they desire. I've witnessed bullying first hand and have witnessed HR fail miserably to paly an active and objective role. Companies now give fancy titles to HR people e.g. HR Business Partner where as these poor souls practically work as personnel officers or coordinators whose role, traditionally, was to hire/fire people at the behest of the management.

    • @sagam6442
      @sagam6442 2 роки тому

      Absolutely right. HR works for management and directors.

  • @abc123xyz48
    @abc123xyz48 2 роки тому +5

    Shukar h kisi ny is topic p baat ki .
    School / universities / workplace hr jaga p .
    Is p Kam hona chahiye , it's essential.
    Or please spread awareness 🔥🔥🔥

    • @peptalkpakistan
      @peptalkpakistan 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you sania sister, Hassan Raza

    • @peptalkpakistan
      @peptalkpakistan 2 роки тому

      @Chitral Thoughts Thank you

    • @abc123xyz48
      @abc123xyz48 2 роки тому +1

      @@peptalkpakistan idr mental health p koi Kam e nhi krta , kia faida education ka , toxic people ruin others life , career and mental health .
      Agr ik person b mentally sick h tu vo kia damage dy skta society ko , u can't control it .
      Or agr esa person authority / power holder ho tu kia khny .
      Am university student and my age is 22 . I took stand for myself against bullying .
      JOINT FAMILY system ko e dekh Lyn , relatives and social circle , agr koi developing mindset ka ho , tu ya log kia hasher krty ,
      Leadership leadership bht krty sb log , pr agr koi stand ly tu kesy kesy problems face krna party , khuda ki pannah .
      Jo sucide krty hn ,apni life khtm kr dety hn , inki is halat k ximadar yhi log hn mentally sick log .
      Appreciated and a lot of thanks to this foundation .
      May Allah Pak bless you Sir Qasam Ali Shah . 🙏🙏

    • @peptalkpakistan
      @peptalkpakistan 2 роки тому +1

      @@abc123xyz48 Sister we will do that IA. Hassan Raza

    • @abc123xyz48
      @abc123xyz48 2 роки тому +2

      @@peptalkpakistan I hope next video in issues p hi ho
      1) Manipulation
      2) bullying
      3) Abuse
      4) Narcissistic hold
      5) Control freaks
      6) Mental peace
      7) psychological health
      8) Work ethics .
      ........
      Is c Bhala hoga youth ka 🌼

  • @rightviewsurdu
    @rightviewsurdu 2 роки тому +1

    🌹،الله تعالیٰ آپ کو اچهی صحت, خوشحالی، سلامتی اور ایمان کامل عطا فرمائے❤️
    ،آمین یا رب العالمین🌹❤️

  • @smshafiquekhan6806
    @smshafiquekhan6806 2 роки тому +1

    Very nice guidance in such a young age. God bless u

  • @taha6090
    @taha6090 2 роки тому

    Really great inspiration and fruitfull conversation ... Very good and knowledge seeking conversation ...👍👍👍

  • @DreamistWorld
    @DreamistWorld 2 роки тому

    She has done great 👍 ✅

  • @hassanraza5771
    @hassanraza5771 2 роки тому +1

    Jazak Allah❤😍

  • @PkFoodx
    @PkFoodx 2 роки тому +2

    ma sha Allah

  • @bintehawa753
    @bintehawa753 2 роки тому

    Very Heart touching story.May Allah give us hadyat Ameen😑😶

  • @meditationrelaxing2143
    @meditationrelaxing2143 2 роки тому

    بہت آعلی

  • @admingroup9566
    @admingroup9566 2 роки тому

    Thank's for sharing this important Topic

  • @enlightenedsouls.4544
    @enlightenedsouls.4544 2 роки тому

    Fantastic conversation............

  • @cybersechub2281
    @cybersechub2281 2 роки тому

    Good topic and discussion, thank you

  • @aqsajoyo5715
    @aqsajoyo5715 2 роки тому +1

    Masha allah very nice

  • @Hakamali685
    @Hakamali685 2 роки тому +1

    Great

  • @robinahussain8153
    @robinahussain8153 2 роки тому

    Very informative for me.need this.

  • @naddiaakbar6
    @naddiaakbar6 2 роки тому +1

    Maasha Allah😍
    excellent

  • @azeemulhaq5596
    @azeemulhaq5596 2 роки тому

    Absolutely true reality

  • @nm6823
    @nm6823 2 роки тому +1

    Very good information Miss Esha but the anchor person is also asked good questions he should also be appreciated because most of the videos are not very effective because of anchor persons

  • @studyiqpakistan311
    @studyiqpakistan311 2 роки тому

    bhai its really a short discussion.. please do another session on workplace bullying in details.

  • @fareehakhan2484
    @fareehakhan2484 2 роки тому

    Masha Allah 😍

  • @fromaroundtheworld4190
    @fromaroundtheworld4190 2 роки тому

    Thnk you sir to brought a differnt topic

  • @fromaroundtheworld4190
    @fromaroundtheworld4190 2 роки тому +4

    same happened with me on wrkplace i decided to quit to keep my mental peace.

    • @abc123xyz48
      @abc123xyz48 2 роки тому

      Mental health should priority .

  • @Muskraoo
    @Muskraoo 2 роки тому

    Want to see more well done 😊

  • @MG-rm4xy
    @MG-rm4xy 2 роки тому +1

    what should we do as a student and place where teacher or the uni management is dominating. even he is the head of the dep.

  • @sumairakiduniya7976
    @sumairakiduniya7976 2 роки тому +1

    Nice

  • @yasirkareem360
    @yasirkareem360 2 роки тому

    In the companies HR is only work for Management and Director. i am not talking aboit all companies HR. but 90 pervent hr is working for Management and Director they dont have care about anyone bullying and insults in a room or publicaly.

  • @Iblametubahsaan
    @Iblametubahsaan 2 роки тому

    Good One | Raza Sb.

  • @humamalik5281
    @humamalik5281 2 роки тому +2

    Mein London mein hoon asda mein kaam karti thi 5 saal bhoot acha guzra,ab phichlay 2 saal si itna kharab manager aya upar tak report kya sab aik jese niklay khuch nehin howa ur akhir mujgay job si resign karna para.

    • @astutebooy1390
      @astutebooy1390 2 роки тому +1

      I am CA Finalist in Pakistan, my 15 years career has been ruined due to office politics and bad managers.

    • @peptalkpakistan
      @peptalkpakistan 2 роки тому

      Aww ok

  • @GardeningwithJavedIqbal
    @GardeningwithJavedIqbal 2 роки тому

    Very useful

  • @gulsherbudhani3206
    @gulsherbudhani3206 2 роки тому

    excellent video

  • @umairmalik4338
    @umairmalik4338 2 роки тому

    Excellent

  • @sabbermehar9258
    @sabbermehar9258 2 роки тому

    Only kashm ali sha best

  • @mudassirmahmood9035
    @mudassirmahmood9035 Рік тому

    Why HR not give warning signs or any notice or ask questions to Line Managers who always bulling their sub ordinates?...at the end employee quit.

  • @pelicanhd
    @pelicanhd 2 роки тому +1

    people don't compromise your mental health for these private jobs the companies don't give a fuck about you and neither should you about them at most they can only terminate your contract any bully can't do more then that .Employees are like tissue papers in these companies used and thrown in dustbin don't bother to report any bully to management they won't do shit about it but you must give a proper shut up call in meeting in front of every one so that the bully tastes his own medicine they might terminate your job for that but 1 company is not the end of the world .Feel very sad for the girl Esha talked about a couple of years back i was also in the same situation but then a couple of proper shut up calls in my desi punjabi anger did the job and after that no one tried to act bossy with me and i also didn't changed my behavior it is what it is you hire me for development not for motivational speaking and you pay me pennies don't expect silicon valley performance IT IS WHAT IT IS DEAL WITH IT OR TERMINATE MY JOB AND GET SOME ONE ELSE BUT NO FUCKING DISRESPECT

  • @rajanuman1994
    @rajanuman1994 2 роки тому

    Exactly this what has happened with me

  • @artncraftwithdureeshahwar9927
    @artncraftwithdureeshahwar9927 2 роки тому

    Leg pulling by subordinates and colleagues at rorkplace per bhi baat karain

  • @yasirkareem360
    @yasirkareem360 2 роки тому

    We need to meet miss esha. how can we please tell us.

  • @securitynsurveillanceyoune6429
    @securitynsurveillanceyoune6429 2 роки тому

    Tremendous

  • @Allbest6565
    @Allbest6565 2 роки тому +1

    And me apny department me sary kaam kar leti hu.aur apny manager k.kaam.b kar leti hu.shayad wo esi liye mujhy job chorny nahi dety.but mujhy es cheez ka.tu pata b nahi tha

    • @abc123xyz48
      @abc123xyz48 2 роки тому

      Jb jago Tb hi sawera ☀️

  • @Shazaant
    @Shazaant 2 роки тому +1

    good

    • @Shazaant
      @Shazaant 2 роки тому

      @Chitral Thoughts ویلکم۔ جیتے رہو

  • @sobiabaloch2357
    @sobiabaloch2357 2 роки тому

    Top org hv top most bullying and politics at its lowest level

  • @sobiabaloch2357
    @sobiabaloch2357 2 роки тому +2

    Senior management is least interested in code and ethics.

  • @Allbest6565
    @Allbest6565 2 роки тому

    Sir .me pechly 5 saal sy apni first job par bulling bear kar rahi hu.and now i am mentally and physical distrub k ab tu elaaj karwa karwa kar b faraq nahi parr raha.And mujhy nahi pata tha k nulling kia hoti hey.mery manager mujhy emotionally bull.karty hein.amd me ney jab jab resign.karna chaha tu un.ka.behaviour suddnly change hu jata hey.bcz he know k me un.k sath emotionaly attache hu.un.wo es ka buhat ziyada faida utha chuky hein.plz tell me k.mey kia.karo?

    • @peptalkpakistan
      @peptalkpakistan 2 роки тому

      Awww very sad to know sis

    • @abc123xyz48
      @abc123xyz48 2 роки тому

      Attach your heart and get heart disease 💚

  • @chuffgangfree
    @chuffgangfree 2 роки тому

    Assalam o alikom mugy kaam seekhna hy kukih mn needy hn Bchon ky ley so guide me please

  • @astutebooy1390
    @astutebooy1390 2 роки тому

    Takkay k log ni hoty yeh offices main baithay 9 to 5 walay nokar robot

  • @sobiabaloch2357
    @sobiabaloch2357 2 роки тому

    Defence org employees can't go to any platform

  • @growplants6677
    @growplants6677 2 роки тому +1

    Very nice 👍 approach kindly share email of miss esha or fb

  • @fizixphysics
    @fizixphysics Рік тому

    The weakest will go to the wall. So keep the man at hand.use the policy of tit for tat.

  • @aqilababo2249
    @aqilababo2249 2 роки тому

    Sir please we want to meet

  • @malikali007officiall
    @malikali007officiall 2 роки тому

    Good