Signs of TOXIC People and How To Deal Them - Qasim Ali Shah

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ہر انسان کو زندگی میں TOXIC People ملتے رہتے ہیں جو ان کی ترقی کی راہ میں بڑی رکاوٹ بنتے ہیں۔ ہم TOXIC People کو کیسے پہچان سکتے ہیں۔ جانیے اس ویڈیو میں ایسے لوگوں کی نشانیاں۔
Qasim Ali Shah is not just a Motivational Speaker but an enthusiastic doer. He followed his passions and proved his self a Successful Entrepreneur, Inspiring Teacher, Best-Selling Author, Philanthropist and a Transformational Trainer.
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[@shireensadia9604]

Each of us become toxic at some stage of life , we need to introspect ourself continuously rather than to do it for others.
May ALLAH guide us to become as HE loves.

[@domesticlifepk8224]

Ye sach he king kisi na kisi stage pr har koi toxic hpta he life mn

[@ambreenmaqsood340]

ameen sum ameen ya Rabbul Alameen

[@Rajab25161]

Exactly

[@ShahZeBPk]

جو بھائی نماز نہیں پڑھتا اس سے گزارش ہے کہ نماز پڑھا کریں اللہ کا عذاب بہت سخت ہے تمام بھائی نماز کی پابندی کریں۔کہو ان شاءاللہ🤲

[@umairkhan2448]

قاسم صاحب كم ہی لیکچر ڈیلیور کرین ۔ عزت برقرار رہتی ہے ۔

[@JC--SADIABILAL]

Inshallah ❤ thank you for asking

[@AwaisRana-i7n]

InshaAllah

[@aspirantsana]

In Sha Allah 💫

[@musa8332]

Inshallah

[@afsanasultan3111]

I honestly have no words to express my gratitude for your kind information. I would simply say that, "alhamdulillah!"

[@bw2806]

Alhamdulillah.

[@bw2806]

Please Allah ka zikr capital letters say kia karain. Allah har momin ko maaf karay.

[@faheemhind]

Shukriya. ❤️. ALLAH aise logon par Fazl Farmayein.

[@prophysician8688]

My proud full class fellow Mr. Honorable Qasim Ali Shah you are absolutely right but unfortunately many people are toxic in a large number... Keep up guiding the people...You are in right direction .
From: Your college class fellow ..

[@wings598]

Deep penetration to subject
Dil se salaam sir......

[@phoolahmed8064]

Write write write aap bilkul thik keh rahay hain jazakALLAH for the explain

[@myworkinshaallah2155]

Aoa،mashallah Allah pak apko trki dy Apka lecture son kr boring nhi hoti blky mza ata h keyon k apki mesaly hsany wali hoti hy Jo AP msal dety Hy osy bat bohat jldi smaj mean ajati Hy mery kheyal mean AP ek molvi Sy ziyada gahri bat krty Hy Jo sidi Dil mean or jati h Allah oak sehat wali zendagi dy ameeeeeen

[@Buntyscakebox]

100% durust Sir
Aisa lga jesey ap ne Meri aap beti suna di ho. Men ne ye sb baten khud bardasht ki hen us waqt samajh b nahi thi.. Boht suffer Kiya, now I simply avoid n ignore. There's no other way out.

[@hajragoharwarraich5111]

Sir you are too good and absolutely right.
I'm experiencing this kind of person in my life from last 27 years. 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥

[@businesselves6332]

Sorry :( I know it's so difficult when you have one closely tied to you

[@Motivate.yourselfff]

And i am experiencing from 9 years .or abb bass ho gayi hai

[@hajragoharwarraich5111]

@@Motivate.yourselfff definitely insaan ki himmat jawab da jaati ha

[@hassaanahmed1069]

I m experiencing from 17 years...koi حل ni😢

[@hajragoharwarraich5111]

@@hassaanahmed1069 😣😣😣
If possible EXIT

[@shahidatahir891]

Aoa sir .
Allah pak apko bohhht taraqqi dy . dil happy hogya ap ka ye lecture sun kr .

[@cartoonsfun567]

Very good Sir,
Buhut Ala .. Briefinhg di hai toxic person per .. Exactly aise hi hotey hain....

[@misbahuddin6958]

It's Very Common thing nowadays in our society.Even I see these things in Educated people...Very Important topic.

[@tanviralavi9947]

Masha Allah very good 👍

[@BinYamin-z9t]

God bless you all great topic you people discussed sir IAM one of the big toxic man all over the world❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@strangetourist8209]

Kia banda h yr zbrdst MashAllah bht hi zbrdst baten kri hn yr 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@peermuhammadwaseemaajiz9052]

BEST speaker in Pakistan.MashaAllah sha G

[@multidiy9893]

I watched this video , believe me Sir my husband is really toxic person. He never understand what I want. I have 3 children, I can't end my marriage.

[@farzanasamin5014]

Same haalat mery ...

[@mumin1115]

Same here

[@Sarimlooters]

Same

[@usmanali-by6dd]

Same here

[@Deadshot271]

Same here but m taking divorce now

[@ayeshafaran786]

Such a motivated video is this! I got some peace after watching this as I was crying a lot. I've bind in such a relationship if one person is toxic and always he warned me to be separated after some irrelevant discussion and these all signs are exist in him as qasim Shah mentioned above. I'm scared and worried as well, how should I deal with him please guide me

[@ninookhan8035]

My own siblings are toxic and really having hard time because of them. May Allah help me and others as well.

[@Bokhari786]

I cherished your work

[@nuzhatkhan3530]

Jazak Allah soooooo beautiful .Thank you so much .you know everything. Soooooo true .soooooo genius. So wise so intelligent .full of wisdom .Allah bless you .

[@Adrashkhan]

Qasim Sir Masha Allah bohat Achi vedio thi.

[@aqsanuml8125]

1000% true... 😢 Bht mushkil hota h lkn

[@reazgul6328]

So true all about Toxic people what ever you say sir👍
Allah bless you sir 😊

[@letstalkhealer]

We must start understanding importance of mental health.

[@anilaafzaal276]

Is terah k logon k sath insan sari zindagi guzar dieta hy pr samgh nahi ati k kya masala hy

[@newyorkdesimom183]

Very true, sb kch exact btaya

[@dresing___2950]

Zazakallah qasim bhai

[@iclam614]

Bilkul sahe kehtay Hain ap

[@Rajab25161]

We r living in toxistan
We do have some of these signs , but dealing with them to become better

[@khurramkhankhankhurram4176]

Crow wali misal bilkul Right h sir gharo mein saas bahu mein b toxic wali bt hoti h

[@kainatsaleh9077]

Bilkul aisa hi hota hai

[@merigolda.b3423]

Baaz waqt aap esy logo ko naa bahir nikaal sakty hain life sy aur na ignoor kar sakty hain kyonky aap in py depend karty hain

[@abidamehmood7947]

Kmal hy sir👍

[@syedafarnaza6345]

Zabardast lecture

[@fire-marine2020]

Good job

[@MaazAshraf-yc9gc]

Shukria apka bohat bohat me apney teacher se bezar hn sari energy khtm hojati he inkey agey dil krta he prhna chorh dn ...

[@YusufKhan-ip5wf]

Very useful thanks sir

[@atherjafri3396]

Great,. Qasim bhai.

[@shabuji313]

It is not necessary toxic persons r liars .They r mostly truthful ppl

[@ahmedbhatti9723]

Thank you sir .

[@4178yasar]

Unfortunately we have too many people like this in the Pakistani community

[@dillawrkhan9243]

Thank you

[@firdousjawed8580]

Qasim bhai mere bhai toxic hn ye saari qualities un mojud hn aur last 15 years se wo hamarey sath they uno ne hum behno aur ami ko bhi nafsyati kardya tha bt hume samaj nai aati thi une kese handle karen bt last one year se ye hum se door ho gaye ab hum apni healing ker rahe khud ko theek ker rahe Allah ka karam he bht behtari aye he

[@saniasarfraz5077]

So sad, Allah apko ajr dy

[@saniasarfraz5077]

Mery liy b dua kre

[@abdullahsdiary3591]

On of my colleagues is very toxic she always said that she's my best friend. But in fact she always used me and very mean.

[@saeedsaeedahmed6428]

Shah Sahab Assalam u Alaikum wa Rahmatullah wa Barakatuhu ,

[@shahsaghir5012]

Sir you are great

[@fizzaali6967]

They make question your Sanity is ka matlab yeh hai k yeh ap ko pagal qrar detay hain .. Toxic logo ko jb confront kia jaey to wo ap ko he psycho bol detay hain...😂 That's so true

[@csasmr146]

Haha true

[@UmerAbbas-e7o]

Looking smart❤😊

[@QasimAliShahOfficial]

Thanks

[@aaishfatima306]

Sir toxic sy bchny ka ak he treka hy jo apny btya k insy dostance jtna zda hga utne zindge sukon sy guzry ge

[@shmyoga6823]

Best lecture,,👍

[@amamahnaqvi5224]

AOA sir toxic person ko asaan sa samjha den please.

[@mehndidesignshairstyles7980]

Well said

[@Mahlaqaubed123]

agar wo toxic person sirif doosro ko toxic smjhy phir????
wo apni islah kis tarha karan
because man ny bht sy log dekhy han jo khud toxic hoty han or kabhi islah ko positive nahi lety

[@nidaowais7268]

Sir apki vdo ksi hd tk mri zndgi bdlny m khushi bhrny m km aygi plz sir i wanna talk u

[@multanitiger2140]

Sir u are right

[@محمدیحیییحیی-ب5ب]

Plz batay k kesy rhy esy bndy k sath

[@zakirabegum137]

Amazing 🤣 jawab nahi

[@tasawerkhanam7125]

Agar husband toxic ho to kia karen

[@farinanadeem8768]

Ager husband toxic ho to wife k pass kya options reh jaatey hain?except divorce

[@tipusaddamparacha1101]

Jitna sir Qasim Ali shah ksi k baray ma btaty hn k kis tra rahain ...kin sy bchna ha ..etc..is trA to bnda confused ho jata ha q k is trA to hmari filtration ma Bot zyada bndy nkl jyn gy or hm judgemental bn jyn gy hadd sy zyada

[@sarfrazashraf5912]

Qasim can you Make a video on bipolar?

[@habianoor9602]

Assalamo Alaikum
Sir seerah hmain kia sikhati hai practical way main....in logun sy deal karny ka??... Toxic already sffereing with mental and physical pain......and u also mentioned that tbeir current situation is being led by some worst past....leting them alone may cause them more depressed disappoint or may b lead to sucide....so leting them alone is seems a harsh solution based on western perspective i guess........Rather our religion perspectiv will be different ....every human is imp......if Allah swt never leaves His slave in any situation then why should we??.. ۔..would u plz add some religios perspective in this regard!!!!and thanks alot to speak on this topic.....quit worthy topic MA SHA ALLAH!!

[@LeonaDevelopers]

Agr kisi ko spouse hi toxic mil jaye to kia kiaa jaye? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@KhattakN-cj5if]

In se darna nahi chaye

[@محمدیحیییحیی-ب5ب]

Aoa agr ap k husband ya wife hain or bachy b hain to Kya krna chahy

[@shafayibrahim964]

Haan g plz btaen

[@sameramahmood2281]

sir I am listening this lecture again . Caz my life partner have most of these habitats.
now stuck Caz of daughter marriage proposal he feels all negatives in the next family. where as our daughter (who is a lecturer) insist to arrange the marriage. but he is very anger don't want to accept.

[@saifullah03438383083]

Sir need technical solution not philosophical
Ignoring him/her giving short time etc.

[@KhattakN-cj5if]

Shukarguzar nahi hote

[@reebnaeem1634]

Bohtt alllaww sir👍✅😭

[@ahmadummar5109]

Asallamalkum bhai is se bachena sasural mein kya karein plz batayein sucj bhol te ho

[@Motivate.yourselfff]

Kisi ko andaza hai ke aisa toxic banda apnay bachon ke sath theke hota hai ke nahin?

[@tahabaloch5281]

Esa Banda kisi ka saga ni hota sivae apni zaat k

[@heenamemon06]

Aisa bunda sirf apni marzi ka hota kisi ka nhi hota.

[@dresing___2950]

👍👍👍👍👍

[@rasberryshomecooking]

Kia mother beton bahuon ke sath aisay ho sakti hai!

[@shaheenaslam9872]

Ap k sir ka clinic kahan ha ar un ka kia nam ha

[@MuhammadAbdullah-wm7nd]

My mother in law is so much toxic lady .in k bachy b in se tang haan . Kya kr skty na hud mr skty na Kuch kr akty

[@uzmakhan4254]

sir in my class i have this toxic girl who use to be my friend but i broke up with her cuz she was not a trustworthy women, now she is trying to degrade me infront of whole class through backstabbing. today i had a fight with her, cuz she spread some very bad romours about me, and she got embarrased as hell and went out of class. sir if you can plz guide me what should i do to get rid of her.

[@altafspeaks890]

1st comment

[@maheenfatima9003]

Mery husband toxic hen exit to ho nahi sakty

[@sohasaeed2832]

Sir mein bhi aapki class attend karna chahti houn plzzzzz address send kigyega

[@domesticlifepk8224]

اور ایسا بھی ہوتا ہے کہ کوئی اچھا بھلا بندا ایسے انسان کی ہمدردی کرتے کرتے خود بھی toxicہو جاتا ہے؟اس کی بیچارگی کو سچ جان کر اس کی باتوں میں آجاتا ہے

[@aalishajanat1830]

Signs of a toxic person
1: Blamers, play the blame game
2: Take revenge on the wrong person.
3: Small Paradigm.
4: Never admit mistake.
5: Sometimes dishonest.
6: they invalidate your feeling
7: bad listener, pretend to listen
8: they question your sanity
9: not puntual
10: extreame criminal tendency
11: they are psychopaths.
Desi nishaniya
1: They are energy suckers
Bina baat kiye bhi apki energy suck kr lete hain.
2: aura and energy negative.
3: doubts paida kr dein ge ap mein.
4: symmetry ni hogi.
5: aggrestion
6: ragra lgany mein expert.
Solutions
1: Delete a person if possible.
2: Learn to avoid.
3: limited talk with them
4: Ignore them
Eagle hain agr to crow k level pe akr ap b crow ni ban jaen.
Psychologist ki energy damage ho jati hai cases se.
Energy change/neutral krne k liye namaz, tahajud, physical activity, travel krna...

[@ilmaqureshi5768]

Jazakallah

[@aqsabashir1778]

Well said

[@mubeenahmad52]

Maire baray Bhai ki tamam nishaniyan yahi hain is leye usko choray huye aj 7 sal hogay hain mazeed 50 sal tak us k nazdeek nai jaunga

[@energeticlazy2474]

husband ho to kia krain

[@krasheekha]

Jazak Allahu khairan Qaseerah for the above comment

[@achibatain8]

ہمارا المیہ یہ ہے کہ خود بھی کچھ کرنا نہیں چاہتے اور نہ کرسکتے ہیں اور دوسروں کو بھی آرام سے جینے نہیں دیتے۔

[@mrsf6278]

Thanx a lot Shah sb, may Allah bless u

[@atherjafri3396]

dua hay allah Hidayat dy...ameen

[@sanji546]

Seriously

[@primeurdustories6157]

میں صدق دل سے اقرار کرتا ہوں اور یقینی حلف اٹھاتا ھوں کہ حضرت محمد مصطفی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم خاتم النبین ہیں اور اللہ تعالی کے آخری نبی اور رسول ھیں اب قیامت تک کوئی نیا نبی نہیں آئے گا۔
اور جو کوئی بھی نبوت کا دعوی کرے گا وہ کافر، زندیق، مرتد ہوگا۔
اس حلف نامہ کو کاپی کرکے مختلف گروپس میں بھیجیں تاکہ تحفظ عقیدہ ختم نبوت میں ہمارا بھی حصہ ہو۔

[@achibatain8]

اگر زندگی میں آگے بڑھنا ہے تو بہرے ہو جاؤ کیونکہ بعض لوگوں کی باتیں مایوسی میں اضافہ کر دیتی ہے۔

[@abdullahstarc2168]

Very good

[@muhammadarib2296]

Dil jeet liya ap k ilfazo ny

[@abdullahstarc2168]

@@muhammadarib2296 I like your comint

[@allthetime1237]

Nice comment

[@young_wolf009]

Copy by Qasim Ali shah 💝💝✌️✌️

[@zohraimam6597]

رویوں کو discuss کرنے سے بہتر ہے responsibilities کو discuss کیا جائے کیا خیال ہے ؟

[@tariqsaqib99]

سر : اللہ آپکو لمبی عمر عطا فرمائے۔ آپ نے تو میری زندگی ہی بدل دی۔ آپکی باتوں میں بہت جادوئی اثر ہے۔

[@krasheekha]

Toxic people defend themselves and have controling attributes, take credit for their actions, very good at lying. Plays Victim are two faced people, they are good at seeking sympathy, k mera to koi nahi hai, kuch acha nahi lagta.
Are Highly or overly judgemental.
They are not givers but are takers as if it is their right.
They always blame you for even their mistakes.
They will retaliate from the wrong person.

[@saimasikander562]

Thats very true

[@monakokab4561]

Absolutely perfect description ,

[@saihamkhan7989]

Sometimes it's so difficult to remove such people from you life as they won't leave you they'll disturb the peace of your mind constantly all you can do is to pray and ask ALLAH to remove them from your life

[@nidawahid1642]

Well said,especially in a married life and top of that when you have 2 children who suppose to need you in their lives.this situation happens to anyone despite of gender,

[@Nothing-r5u]

​@@nidawahid1642aur tab b jab wo apki mother ho

[@Countryballs_in__.the_nutshell]

یا اللہ ھم سب کے والدین کو عمر دراز عطا فرمائے۔ آمین ثمہ آمین۔.

[@saraq4277]

Unfortunately my husband is like that , when ever I complain anything ,he said there is no problem and rapidly heat up n yelled shouted and blame me makes dramas every time.

[@HuzaifaKhan-iy5qj]

Mera father b aesa he hy dua kryn asy logo k shar sy Allah bachaey.😢

[@rehanaahmed499]

Same

[@saimaadnan2450]

Same here

[@Sarimlooters]

My husband is same...

[@afsheenrehman3023]

Leave him!

[@mariasaeed9910]

سر سادہ الفاظ میں نا شکرے ہوتے ہیں ، نیگیٹو اپرچ کے حامل ہوتے ہیں۔

[@MujahidBangash]

Bohat Khub !! Kahtay hain *Sanp 🐍 ya Bichoo* kay Zaher ka ilaj hai lakin Negative Insan ka koi ilajj *Nahi* .
*In ko Apni Life say Delet karein* .

[@tahabaloch5281]

👍

[@basharatmsts]

لَّآ إِلَٰهَ إِلَّآ أَنتَ سُبْحَٰنَكَ إِنِّى كُنتُ مِنَ ٱلظَّٰلِمِينَ

[@zoobi1300]

Wow sir....u really highlighted the points of toxic. I met such person who sucked my energy...gave me constant anxiety...wanted to marry me...but Allah saved me... alhamdulillah 😊❤️

[@Motivate.yourselfff]

Per mai bach na sakii:(

[@tahabaloch5281]

@@Motivate.yourselfff me b

[@minahil6123]

Alhamdulillah me b bach gae mje lga tha k PYAR tha wo or me brdsht krte ja rhe. the itne salo se or mne shadi se bcha lia khd ko q k me mently bht dstrb the us insan ki wja se .. beshak ALLAH is the best planner …jo hta ha ache k lie hta ha

[@Sunshine-ei3zj]

@@Motivate.yourselfff Same here ☹️

[@tlplover1889]

@@Motivate.yourselfff same to me wo ulty mujhe ilzam lgaty hain k tum sb kharab karti ho

[@binterauf6155]

Sir ji psychology ki zuban mein is ko narcissism kehtey hain

[@sadiaali6178]

Mera Shohr ha Toxic ...🤕🤕🤕
Kyaa kron ..

[@iramfarrukh925]

Mera b😢😢😢😢

[@sadiaali6178]

@@iramfarrukh925
Bss sabr hi ha 🤕🤕

[@afreenzeba1991]

Very informative session but I'm emotional after seeing this.we cannot easly throw the life some persons and even cant ignore if u r dependent on them.

[@exploreyourself2084]

V much right,

[@fizakhalid1556]

Qasim ali shah sahab agr ksi k ghar ma aise log hon to unko kaisy deal kr skty?mother agr aisi hon to??

[@saniaatif2247]

May Allah make us positve n neutral

[@saraadam5000]

Exit, avoid or have boundaries ( no discussion or personal) keep contact professional and short ( so ignore).