My Family Abandoned Me

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  • Опубліковано 7 вер 2024
  • starting this channel to speak about things i'm going through. hopefully to help myself and maybe some others along the way. i have a lot to share.
    my family abandoned me after i was in a bad car crash... that wasn't my fault.
    main channel: / @carlagraceservedio
    subscribe: / @carlagoestotherapy
    instagram: / carlagraceservedio
    my business: cgscosmetics.com/
    the discord server: / discord
    tiktok: / bostonmanor
    music i make:
    spotify - spotify.link/e...
    apple music - / carla-grace-servedio
    youtube - / carla grace - topic
    patreon: / carlaservedio

КОМЕНТАРІ • 14

  • @kalynhumphrey2249
    @kalynhumphrey2249 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for sharing. Unfortunately a lot of us were raised by parents that are so narrow minded. Good job! Keep pushing to do the things YOU want !! You are strong keep going!! 🎉

  • @mercyy11771
    @mercyy11771 4 місяці тому +1

    I just wanted to say that I'm proud of you! You don't even realise how strong you are! Everything happens for a reason and I'm sure that you'll look back someday and be so proud of yourself for how far you've come! Best of luck with your music career!❤️

  • @kalynhumphrey2249
    @kalynhumphrey2249 4 місяці тому +1

    I’m really sorry your parents don’t see the magic in you. You’re doing great 😊

  • @Ms.tito2
    @Ms.tito2 4 місяці тому

    Hi! I’m also a 21 year old girl and I feel your story, although our story’s are not exactly the same I do find similarities in it and I just wanted to say that it’s so easy for parents to think of their children as extensions of themselves instead of individual people. And of course as their child we want to make them proud but also their expectations should not be your burden to carry. It’s unhealthy to live through your child and I’m so sorry you are experiencing that too.
    At the same time I admire that you are choosing your own path despite what other people think, even your own parents. When we start choosing what is best for ourselves other people around will start to judge and try to tell you how you should do things but when that happens it’s best to truly stick to yourself and what’s best for you.
    My dad also took money from me and we currently aren’t on speaking terms and I’m also pretty much on my own atm so I completely understand that gut feeling you can’t really put words to how it feels
    And it’s also easy to look at other people our age and not understand why we can’t have what other kids do with their parents. But it truly makes us stronger and you aren’t alone in this there are people that also understand and care!
    With the car accident have you tried to look into disability with your state? Also food stamps and Medicare! If not I do recommend it even if it’s not a lot of money it is helpful!
    I also think you should put out your music.. you have stuff over the past 2 months don’t hold back on yourself promote it like crazy too!!! This video popped up on my feed randomly but I personally don’t believe in coincidences, everything happens for a reason
    Mac Miller said “if you have a creative mind your gonna doubt a lot of things that’s all completely normal insecurity is all completely normal especially with your own work cause it’s an extension of yourself you gotta start being cool with letting people get to know you on a deeper level.” And by you posting such a vulnerable video it’s a really good start! Don’t let time hold you back either. All you really have in life is yourself. But the people that truly stick by you along the way are your true family as family is what you make it!
    Sending much love!

    • @carlagoestotherapy
      @carlagoestotherapy  4 місяці тому +1

      i’ve never had anyone write a comment like this to me in my entire life, thank you for taking so much time to write that out for me. it means a lot and in a weird way it does make me feel like i’m not alone, you’re not alone either. 💖 i’m excited to keep making videos here. i hope it’s able to help others in this way. much love

  • @thomasdoherty1434
    @thomasdoherty1434 Місяць тому

    💪👸👍YOUR AMAZING KEEP BEING YOU YOUR CLASS

  • @laraparks7018
    @laraparks7018 11 днів тому

    Let the rejection be your muse and turn lemons into lemonade PLEASE 🙏 XO ❤️ WRITE, HONE YOUR CRAFT, NO ONE CAN TAKE IT FROM YOU
    And process your dilemma through artist expression

  • @kalynhumphrey2249
    @kalynhumphrey2249 4 місяці тому

    It sounds like cutting off your family will be ideal. I had to do this recently - best decision I ever made. My family did not like to see me happy. .. it sounds like they don’t like when you’re happy. …
    And…. You will remember when your down who profited,l on you.
    My dad is a narcissist.
    I would RUN.. if you survived being raised by a narcissist.
    You can survive this your strong 💪🏼 I know it sucks…

  • @thomasdoherty1434
    @thomasdoherty1434 Місяць тому

    💞🤗

  • @jonathantv2024
    @jonathantv2024 3 місяці тому

    Hi i am Jonathan
    My family have to the the same. I feel so terrible sin i am nowherer in peru without unable to go back to brasil, that's where i came from. I gonna be on the streets few more days because i dont have id and do not have money to take an id..
    I happens the same to me. Since i came here to show electronic music... Flstudio... So. I simpatize you..i its been one week from my last savings "meal" asked to embassy for help and they just simple say write to brasil and someone would contact you to see ur situation... Contact me where lol. Follow ur dreams but u need to have friends or somebody to support u if u fall. I do not have. Nobody.

    • @carlagoestotherapy
      @carlagoestotherapy  3 місяці тому +1

      you’re right, you do need friends and family to support you if you fail - we don’t have these, so we just cannot fail. please send me to your electronic music. I would love to listen to it. ♥️

    • @jonathantv2024
      @jonathantv2024 3 місяці тому

      @@carlagoestotherapy :-) i need to upload since i didnt share to anyone. Just the dj valery from Argentina. My girl friend that showed me fruityloops and teach me the basics things... Them i learned more than her "with pirate plugins" yeah we poor. And she basically got crazy how fast and good i became.. for me was the best gif. Too her happy. Thanks to her.... Lots of hours and daysss and lot of weeeeed. . . U know most hilarious thing, was a call from some disco club. . . I say to mee dam.n how can i.mix my own music.. was a terrible presentation. My music is very unmixable with the other tracks lol but i was cool.

  • @kalynhumphrey2249
    @kalynhumphrey2249 4 місяці тому +1

    God has a plan for you take one day at a time. ❤️‍🩹 I’m so sorry…