Getting nosebleeds twice a week after getting beaten up by racist kids [Part 2] | K-DOC
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Ismail's family from Iran -- Ismail and his wife's daughters came to Korea first, and they settled down later. We thought Ismail would be patriarchal, but he's quite the opposite! Find out about their life in Korea.
All edits and translations done by Eunjae Lee.
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이웃집 찰스 [My neighbor Charles]
[이란 이스마일] Air Date: 2022. 3. 22
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Korea seems to be very developed in terms of technology and infrastructure. But in terms of social norms and structures, they still seem to be an underdeveloped country. In terms of social equality, women rights etc. This can be interlinked to how fast the country developed in the last 30 years.
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Their social norms got stuck in the Joseon era
It is true that Korea is conservative in perception of foreigners compared to economic development. This is because Korean society has grown so fast that it is classified as an advanced country by the IMF in less than 40 years after the Korean War in 1953. The generation that grew Korea over the past 40 years has only worked. Unfortunately, Korean national conservatism was greatly influenced by the older generation. But now the younger generation is very free from nationalism.
And Korea ranked 11th in the world and first in Asia in the 2020 U.N. Gender Equality Index. It is a country where feminism has been popular for a long time. It is a country where only women's voices are strongly spread through feminism, media, and political education. If Korea was a country with strong gender discrimination, it would not have been possible. There is hatred and discrimination in every country. There are many difficulties that women face in Korea, too. The problem is that Korea is a country where not only women but also men are discriminated against. Currently, 90 percent of South Korean men are forced to serve in the military. Military salaries were around 10 percent of the minimum wage until recently. More than 100 people die in the military every year. A lot of men get hurt in the army. But there is not much national compensation. The suicide rate of men in Korea is about three times higher than that of women. Korean men always receive more labor, more industrial accidents, and less social consideration because they are asked to be economical and masculine. In addition, Korean men must satisfy women's demanding desires to marry. Currently, the marriage rate in Korea continues to decline, and the birth rate is the lowest in the world. (0.81) Of course, the male suicide rate is among the highest in the world. Again, Korea is not a perfect country. Female problems also exist. However, there are many male problems as well. Korean feminists are influential in politics, education, and the media. Korean feminists always talk about women's problems.
Many foreigners misunderstand Korea. Korea is Asia's No. 1 country in the gender equality index, and women are one of the safest countries in the world. But no one cares about discrimination against men. I know the ideals that you have about feminism. But Korean feminism has too many problems. It's not an ideology for everyone, it's been a long time since it's only an ideology for a particular feminist. Feminism is now one of the biggest social problems in Korea.
To be honest, Western developed countries flourished for 200 years through colonial and industrial revolutions. However, Korea became an advanced country only 40 years after the Korean War. Korea had neither colonies nor underground resources. It is funny that developed Western countries, which have grown leisurely, evaluate Korea as if they were looking down. And in general, the situation in Korea is much better compared to the level at which Asians are discriminated against in Europe. At least in Korea, there are few cases of openly beating or swearing at other races. Students bullying or bullying is a characteristic of teenagers not only in Korea but also in any country. It's the trait of immature children to bully because they're different from themselves
@@lily7001 South Korea is in their position right now because of the help they received from Western powers during the Korean War. Had the westerners not intervened, there would only be one Korea under Kim Il-sung and his family. Backwards and isolated from the world. Am not saying this to glorify the west since i am from asia too, but it's just the facts. No matter how much people accept or deny it.
I'm glad they have this show. Coz S.Korea need to be open with biracial Koreans. Kpop and Kdrama are widely accepted in other foreign countries. It should be the same or at least meet halfway. Thanks to this program for opening it's doors to biracial Koreans and other foreigners in S.Korea.
@Hi H South Korea is not the only Asian country that didn't colonize or enslave people in the Middle East, South Asia or Africa. Few countries in Asia were involved in enslavement, conquering, or colonizing, with the exception of Japan and a couple others. I do agree that most Western countries have had centuries to grow and develop, and that chance should be given to younger countries too. However, because South Korea has a significant consumer base in racially diverse countries snd thus depends on them financially and socially, it's something they should take greater effort to understand.
If dramas can weave the story into the plot but that is not going to happen anytime soon. There is too much pride placed on the pure blood thing but there is a particular African country which has almost 99% homogeneity, much higher than korea but people dont talk about it. Too much misplaced pride in ephemeral stuff in a globalised world.
@@ddot6963 I don't think people talk about countries in Africa that have 99% homogeneity in this context because those same countries are barely involved on the same level as South Korea in a global industry. South Korea has a consumer base all over the world, and because they depend so heavily on foreigners to support their TV, cosmetics, and music industry, it only makes sense that they work on accepting those same people who fill their pockets.
Naah. Let Korea stay the way it is. Don't want it to become a degenerate society like the west. Who the hell are you to ask them to change? If you want those things, go to the west. No need to impose your bs on them.
@@ddot6963 I don’t think africa is as advanced as South Korea… And foreigners would prefer to move to a more advanced country than a thirld world one:
I remember a young black man going on a Korean show, voicing his concerns about being black in Korea and getting treated awfully but the hosts(Korean Ofc) made excuses and brushed him off. It’s good to see these guys now taking the girls seriously about racism but I still wish Korea listened to black peoples struggles.
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100% of both. I'm gonna borrow that one, wish I had had a teacher like that 😭
It's so inspiring.
It is lovely . Because I am
Not half of a person 💁🏻♀️🇭🇰🇨🇺. I am Asian and Latina both are me . I wish I had teachers like that as a teen
She's right, every Iranian I've known, through work , has been amazing, polite and kind. But also my experience as a teacher in South Korea was also very positive. Maybe I was lucky. I have very fond memories of South Korea. Those girls are so lovely, educated, well behaved, intelligent, respectful. A tribute to their parents. The best of both worlds.
aryans really do work hard unlike most europeans and americans who tend to be a lil lazier.
I work for a world-renowned hospital in the US, and one of the most exciting things about my job is the diversity that we have with so many cultures. Cultures. I find it is very exciting to make new friends and learn about their cultures. My life is much better having so many friends to share so many different ways of living and experiencing life. My husband has always said there's a great big world out there. You just have to go explore it.
Being a Korean national myself but living in the US, I really believe Koreans are very opinionated and closed minded for the most part. With that said, there has been some changes for the good since tourism has brought a lot of people from different countries and Koreans needed to be more open to different cultures. Without the change, tourism would not have flourished the way it has.
You are right. I thought South Koreans are very kind and open-minded until I watch this show. I always wanted to visit S. Korea and Japan. I admired Koreans and Japaneses' culture as well. But I am scared to come and visit there now because of their perceptions on foreigners. I don't want to be discriminiated from the countries I admired.
@@chocopie7890 no matter where you live there will always be instances that are bad. Every country has prejudices and unfortunately racism. I hope you do get a chance to visit both countries because I believe that you will be safe. We enjoy visiting both for the food and experiencing cultures that are different. Don’t let this video jade you from visiting.
@@teesong6801 i lived in korea for almost 3 yrs. except for bullying and dui they’re racist as well. I visited 10 countries as of now and korea is the most racist for me. Most foreigners that i met in korea have the same story every time. I even experienced being refused of service. The worst part is my teacher friend were her students called her south east asian b*tch.
Progressions takes time, and you don't have to comparing it to US.
US ain't any better.
@@chocopie7890Did you not see the customers at the coffee shop? Most Koreans are not racist.
Our next door neighbor was from Iran, when I was a child. He was the nicest man ever. His wife was American and their youngest daughter was my friend.
I can totally feel what the girl and her expats friends feel. I’m german and turkish and nether of these countries I feel like I fit 100% but that’s ok. Because if we all would be the same, the world would be boring. I grew up with friends from many cultures and I love learning from them.
It's sad to see close minded people to treat you with disrespect just because of your looks/race/age/genre etc..
i travel to korea a lot and i always tell people that korea is a good place to travel but not a good place to migrate to.
Why?
Aww, I'm so glad the mother mentioned how much Iranians love foreigners! We really do, guests are already considered "special gifts from god", foreign people/ tourists are even more special to Iranians! You'll be treated like royalty and people will keep offering you free stuff 😂😂 Of course there are ignorant racists everywhere but for the most part Iran is a very welcoming country! :)
except when your go abroad,,than your will become a devil of a racist.and does not respect other people in that particular country,even when they are $$king nice towards you.ungrateful ahmed
Iran has always had a special place in my heart. I want to visit someday!
Are they welcoming toward black people too? Guenine question
@@nenokedoken885 Yeah, I’m black actually :) Ive been to other middle eastern countries. The Middle East is not like America or Europe, there are plenty of black middle easterners so it’s perfectly fine, you won’t experience discrimination
@@marshmallow7640 Please don't lie to these people like this. Anti-blackness is global and the middle east can be and is very anti-black/racist towards black folks. I know cause i am black/African and have been to a few middle eastern countries. Though i live in a western country and the Iranians i have come across have been some of the kindest people i've ever met, please keep in mind that they are young, progressive and also live in the west. So yes, though i don't doubt that you can have wonderful experiences in the middle east as a black person, i want my people to be vigilant and very aware of the fact that there's mass anti-blackness and racism in that region.
I love this show and the honesty they allow the guests to express. This show is sure to expand awareness to those who are ignorant to these issues.
I always watch travel vlogs in Iran and the people there are very warm and welcoming.There was one blogger that ranks Iran as one of the friendliest nicest countries to visit.
Yeah Iranians are super friendly people
But for women to travel alone in Iran, I don't know if you can do it now?? I tried to go there about 15 years ago and as a woman I was told I am not allowed to travel inside Iran alone. If I was a man, I could have done it. Maybe it is different now?? Ironically I ended up going to Israel cause there it was no problem for a woman to travel alone using public transportation or walking alone in the night etc. I am Finnish, but I speak English, so even language was not a problem there. But it would be nice to know, if travelling alone as a (forgein) woman is possible in Iran now!?
For who tho? It’s nice to visit for what demographic of people?
@@kpt002 I've seen some women solo travellers that have gone to Iran and have said that it was nice and people were welcoming, that it wasn't like some people paint the country to be. Of course as any other place you have to be careful, but I think it is possible to go
@@kpt002 ofcourse you can travel there alone but it's a must to be careful everywhere you go including Iran :) and believe me you won't regret going there!
5:37 I understand her very well, I was born in Dominican Republic and live there until the age of 8. My family moved to the United States and I get treated like a foreigner in both countries.
Im mixed race South African living in China, i love this show and this episode was excellent! Thankyou for your thoughtfulness and gentle hosts 💐
Wow! His drinks look absolutely delicious! I would frequent his cafe often! May he have many blessings and great prosperity in the coming future!
I really like what her teacher said to her about what country she belongs to.
I think it is better for Korean society to talk about the issue of discrimination against foreigners on airwaves like this. This is because a truly corrupt society cannot broadcast such a problem.
as an immigrant living in Korea I'll make sure to raise my kids to be fighters to deal with any bully/racist. The time of being on the receiving end is over.
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i had a japanese classmate in iran , she was mixed persian and japanese with asian features and appearance and she found so many friends and was loved since the first day , no one treated her like a foreigner.
Yes, thats why you treat afghans so well.
Thank you I hope when my daughter grow up they stop asking her where I’m she is from when she can actually only speak Korean
God bless you for keeping on with that advocacy on your show! There's something very twisted with expecting to have your people treated well when they go to other countries, but taking it as such a normal thing for foreigners to be treated as sub par in your own country. Kudos for expanding and deeping people's understanding.
Honestly, yes. TV shows like these need to exist a lot more. Keeping that conservative views is making Korea a living hell, not only for foreigners, but for your own people, either half or full korean, it's still your people.
Really, they love foreigners in Iran 🇮🇷?
...So true about what you are. I would never identify as half & half. It's 💯 & 💯❗️
Yes ❤ , and Iranian teachers are the best
@@TmO2O21Respect
I’m Korean Iraqi so this is so cool to see similar family dynamic
As an Iranian i can confirm the last bit we absolutely love foreigners and racism is very rare because Iran (persia) has always welcomed people with different ethnicities or cultures ext.✌️🇮🇷
Such as Zoroastrians, Kurds and non-Muslims.
Not sure when this was filmed, but I'm shocked how low his prices are. Nowadays, it's impossible to find an Americano under 4,000 won, and he sells it for 2,000 won.
One of my favorite families ❤
6:02 Iranian teachers are so kind 🥺 100%
Love the Dad's attractive cafe; I would also be a regular customer, even if he didn't open/hold the door for me.
i once read an article that said koreans view "belonging" in korea as defined by blood. its called "danil minjok". a homogenous nation of ethnically identical people living in solidarity. and it stems from japanese colonialism because koreans believed that building a stronger nationalistic sense of identity would bring them strength, and then reinforced after the war. however, its contradictory, because its not really even about blood. if it was, north koreans and koreans living in china would not face discrimination. rather, its a perceived sense of blood unity, but built upon the idea that one race is one culture and one nation. thus, if you are from another nation, or a perceived outsider, you don't "really" belong.
even orphans don't belong because they were cut off from their family line, and thus, their bloodline as well. however, it is noteable that koreans from abroad and korean adoptees can reclaim their citizenship and become dual citizens solely because of this bloodline thing. even if you're mixed i believe. as long as one parent still has their korean citizenship, you can reclaim it. meanwhile, migrants from all around asia can't even naturalize despite living in korea far longer than most korean diaspora.
now i want to visit Iran
He is true Persian cultured man.
I can say with absolute certainty that Iranians are wonderful people. They're so full of love and joy. For example, when you walk on the streets and talk to food vendors, the hospitality they show brightens your whole day. Korea, on the other hand, as a brown Asian, I've had too many unpleasant experiences to fully appreciate the country. I continue to admire its culture from afar bc getting too close has resulted in nothing but heartbreak.
that's typical, you're generalizing whole people. You can have rude people in Iran too who are harsh to foreigners. No one is a saint.
@@NoctLightCloud This is so true. As a Finnish person (born an raised in Finland) who has lived and travelled around in Europe, Middle East, East-Africa and East-Asia I can say, that everywhere you go, you can find friendly people and then those who are less friendly. For looking different - blondish, blue eyes - I was most harassed in Tanzania (daily shouted at, men asking for sex etc.), but at the same time I lived with a local family, who took me in as just any memeber of their family, soon forgot my different looks and I have nothing but good things to say about them (I lived with them in all 6 months). Pure love to share our ordinary daily lives together. 15 years ago I wanted to travel alone to Iran, but atleast then it was not possible because travelling alone as a woman was not acceptable inside Iran. If I was a man, I could have gone. I don't know if it is different now. So I don't think you can find a place where everyone is accepting to everyone and no prejudice exists..
@@kpt002 you are very VERY brave to travel alone as a woman.
@@NoctLightCloud Or foolish.
I loved the teacher's response to her asking where does she belong if she's biracial.
I love this show …
When i saw the mom i knew she lived in an other country. I guessed that her makeup seems a bit arabic / middle east ( since iran is not an arabic country)
Very nice family. I am Persian but grew up in the US. I feel like the girls not only are accepted being half Korean, but we have people that look part Asian as a part of our background. So they are not so “different”.
I'm american-spaniard wen i lived in Spain and went to school there they bullied me cuz i was from America and when i came to America and I went to school there i was bullied cuz i was a Spaniard . I cried a lot there was times i didn't want to go to school at all but in Spain it was a little easier cuz i lived in a small town and i had my best friend but in America it was a little harder.
how someone with the same race would get " racial" discrimination for? this boy got beaten up for being a foreigner.not a different race,thus hes case was xenophobia.or .fears of foreigners.....and not cos he was of different race,when he can pass up as a korean.....uzbekistan,chinese,japanese from singapore.malaysia wherever here are easterner asia..he would fit in
you never know what people are thinking tbh, plus that shouldn't give them the excuse to beat him up when he didn't even do anything to begin with.
@@alxyx_h 🙄🙄MY ANSWER TO THE STATEMENT RELATED TO THIS CASE,HASN'T GOT ANYTHING TO DO WITH "WRONG OR RIGHT" FOR I NEVER SAID THAT IT WAS OK.TO DISCRIMINATE .IN NON WAYS SHAPE OR FORM..
I JUST CORRECTED,THE TERM DISCRIMINATION BASED ON RACES' AND NATIONALITIES OR XENOPHOBY.WHICH ARE 2 DIFFERENT STUFFS...
SOME DISCRIMINATE BASED ON RACES,AND OTHERS..BOTH..EITHER BECAUSE YOU ARE FROM ANOTHER COUNTRY.//REGION OR GOT ANOTHER SKIN COLOR..LOOKS ETC
@@alxyx_h what you think express ahmed
do not therefore think something and write or say another
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Asians are a very diverse race. I think they have the most variation compared to all other races. So some Asians might see different ethnicities almost like separate races.
@@chiiix33 stop being stupid ahhhhhhhhhh
and an egocentric arab ahhhhh
since when asians got....red hair,very light eye,except afghanistan.due to the white russian contribution to the gene pool?
stop being idiot ahhh my god
europe are the most diverse
all sort of skin/eyes and hair tone
doh!!
They are absolutely beautiful lady’s 😉😉👍👍
I LOVE THIS SHOW!! We ALL just want to LIVE!! When, where and how is COMPLETELY YOUR BUSINESS!! NOT harming anyone!! Just let people BE🌺
I always love this show #allcelebrities
Just one thing I want to say, not sure about other countries, but the UK has a diverse population that consider people from different backgrounds, ethnicity, disability and so much more. We have the equality and diversity act here in the UK and almost every course I have been on, it is hammered into my head. Some countries like the UK embrace people from other cultures. :) In that sense, I would always say if someone considers starting a business, look at the UK. Well worth it.
I’m from the uk and now I’m living in Korea , as good as the uk is in terms of diversity it’s also becoming the uk’s biggest problem aside from the rising crime rate. Diversity is great but politically correctness is taking over society and it’s becoming overly sensitive. Living in Korea reminds of the uk in 2000s where people are less socially sensitive but there is a lot less awareness on things such as mental health, I think both countries need a balance in between
Does anybody know where their cafe is? I would like to visit one day and support their business. My apartment is in Itaewon, not sure which area their cafe is though.
Even in school we made international students part of our daily lives. Bdays, Bfs, lunch, dinners, class projects... We never let them be alone even though they wanna be with their countrymen. Indian prefer diversity over the same old group n that what makes us among the most loved Asian community. Its shocking for us to see closed people who dont include others bcuz it wouldn't occur in our minds. I'm introvert but I've had international boyfriends n watnot. Not including anyone, not sitting beside anyone bcuz they are not wearing brands or perfume too strong never occurs to me. So ya.. People need to open up more. Not just give excuses.
Japanese worker are very good quality maker.They have quality control for every item they make.Clean and flawless.
Does anyone know where that coffee shop is located?
I get nosebleeds when I see them cuz they are so beautiful 😂
Foreigners are welcomed in my country but if they say something bad about us everyone's gonna fight 😂 we all agree our country is going down, but only we can bully ourselves okay
Persians are the nicest people out there
Meanwhile bts goes to the white house to say stop hating asians ☠️ while back home they don't dare to say the same back home
They say the same everywhere.. What are you talking about?!
This country grew way too fast for its mentality. It’s like they’re still living in a time when nobody knew that a Korea was.
Hmm, it's possible. Korea used to be a backwater for all of history.
I'm not surprised Iranians are nice. In India, the Iranian community (Parsis) are very successful, even in the movie industry. I used to live in los angles, USA and there were many Iranian immigrants there. My hair stylist was an iranian lady, and she was very warm. Amazing people.
Actually, Koreans are also friendly if you make them laugh and feel comfortable. That's my impression. But yes i think Koreans are not used to foreigners.
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notice how the tittle says "kids" people really be out here thinking the younger generation is more open but naww infact id say there worse becasue they know better but choose to be shit. while the older generation might sound ignorant but are generally very intrested and opean to learning
Come to USA I will want to marry one of them!
Omg thats awful
Haha the mc don’t even get angry listening to the story. Crazy, they approved the bullying act.
Why do I feel like this show is messed up. They sit here and critique the lives of foreigners? Lmao
where do you see that they are critizing? genuinely asking.
It's multi-cultural propaganda to get Koreans to accept it in Korea.
no matter where you go there's going to be discrimination/racism/feeling like an outsider/isolating feelings.
Koreans are pretty discriminatory against their own people just as Americans are pretty racist/discriminatory towards other Americans.
it's all about what you decide to do in this situations that will determine your future and outlook!
#MahsaAmini
Koreans are nice and most koreans are ok. My observation based on few years residency is simple. Most are from blue collar background and like most places globally, there can be some ignorance within blue collar workers and progeny due to lack of exposure to well myriad things.
The typical exonerating statement in korea for the parochialism is that Korea has been colonised for far too long etc. I recently learnt that Vietnam was colonised for about 1000 years by the Chinese. Scholars can disprove this but Vietnamese smile a lot and are open.
Gov and media in my view is not raising awareness as much as they ought to. Chinese people for example are no longer rowdy as they used to be about 10 years ago when I encountered them at airport terminals with folks rushing through queues and stuff. Change came via Chinese gov infomercials etc
Korea had a colonial experience of 35 years in the early 20th century, but it was less than a generation.
All previous dynasties had preserved independent political systems and cultures.
That man has lived in Uzbekistan for 19 years, so isn't the violence he experienced at school in Uzbekistan? Is Uzbek hostile to foreigners?