I am not with my older wife for money, this is true love. She submits and I lead | Lynn Ngugi Show
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- Опубліковано 7 сер 2024
- When 46 year Old Judy met 31 year old Mesesi, she knew her love life had just begin. Today they are engaged and ready to start a family together. The mother of three is confident she has finally found the love of her life
On the other hand, her Fiance Mesesi says he has no mummy issues and neither is he using Judy for her money
Here is the story behind their age gap relationship as brought to you by Lynn Ngugi
Thank you so much Ayo Mesesi and Judy Lesta fro sharing your story with us:)
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Happy weekend team LNN,
What is your take home from today's show?
Love is love ama?
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Thank you so much for watching, really appreciate the love and support:)
Kabisa Love ni love buana
Tutajua lini kama umechukuliwa...lini,lynn ngugi??
I do love you Lynn when come back from Gulm I must visit you keep knowing that ..love you Lynn the way you bundle things
Please Lynn it's my request, invite pastor Elizabeth mokoro to make us understand about age when it comes to marriage,,
Lynn you are such a blessing 🙌 to many 💖 🙏 ❤ keep up the good work 👏
Am 34 with 2 kids..this gives me hope that one day I will meet the love of my life.can I hear 🙏 Amen
At 32 a mother of two,hope is beckoning.
BIG AMEEEEEEEEN ❤❤
You are toooo your my dear. Oga urudi Soko. Children will grow and one day leave think about yourself too. It's easier for your kids to get used to a new one now rather than later
Iam here dear
I am 48 and I have kids but not married yet
Deep down every woman is a little girl who just wants to be loved and to find her Prince Charming ❤
Very true
True that
🥰
But not a younger man, just get a man of your age or abit older
@@brigidnabwire1019 😅😅
I am Miriam from NYC. I am now 77 years old, because of genetics I do not look y age. I don"t wear makeup of dress stylish. Being a Muslim woman I am humble and dress modestly, yet younger men are always attracted to me. I have had several marriage proposals. I am now married to a 42 year man from another culture. We met online and are happily married.
This guy is not the usual 31 year old. He is so mature, eloquent, intelligent, brave , respectful, a leader . You can tell from the conversation and body language. They look pretty good together
Kabisa 👍👌
But mama anakaa fiftys
@@neliciouswairimu she is beautiful and wonderful in the eyes of God and that's all that matters, not if she looks fifties, besides the jamaa acknowledges she's beautiful too, everything else any of us says is just our opinions and inconsequential, that's it.
@@neliciouswairimu Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Her husband says she’s beautiful and he sees beauty in her. For your information, she’s 46 and not many in 40s or even 50 looks as beautiful and glowing as this lady. She’s looks younger than her age, wewe ni wivu ina ku blind . Have you tried to think how you will look at 40s or 50???
@@jmtestifies Thanks for putting that across to Nelicious Wairimu. The lady guest has kept herself well. So beautiful too.
Thank you so much Lynn for having us,I really enjoyed interacting with you and your crew,I do appreciate your support, may Our good LORD continue to lead and bless you...
Can you mentor young people ?
You're beautiful gal🤗
Weee oooh my dear congratulations sweetie
Beutiful dia wow may God bless your marriage
So pretty Judy may God bless your unión. Your hubby is Also handsome
The way he looks at her....wow MashaAllah...she is blushing even due to attraction..may you love each other forever ❤️ receiving all praises from him while she is 46 it's amazing,she deserves this
I am listening to this interview as the mother of 2 unmarried adult men. Oh Lord give me the strength to let them have their way.This couple is so mature and beautiful.
May God hear your prayers
It’s not hard …just let them be themselves and trust their judgement…🤷♀️
Pray for them that God's will prevails in their lives and not for them to have their way . That is if you are christian
Let the boys go to church or mosque whichever their religion is, they will be automated to make the right adult decisions. Trust me.
@@nahambohilma8598 Ameen
The older they are the more peace we find as men.
Ain't nothing wrong dating or marrying older women as long as LOVE is real
The first thing l do whenever l meet a Kenyan, l always ask them if they follow Lynn Ngugi and when they say no, l always tell them how amazing you are and how I’m so proud of you despite being a Zimbabwean. I love you a lot and I feel your impact everywhere
Awwww❤❤❤
Truly humbled Judith:)
Made my day
Invite her in zimbabwe to do an interview.
@@LynnNgugi please check your email Lynn have been trying to reach out to you.kindly
Maita basa🙏🏾🙏🏾
Awww that's so kind of you Judith 💕
I read somewhere that God doesn't work with our calendar,God's time is always the best
Your body will naturally feel calm around the right partner - trust it.
MY TAKE HOME IS I WILL GIVE MYSELF ANOTHER CHANCE.AFTER 9 YRS OF BEING SINGLE AND NO RELATIONSHIP AND ALWAYS CARING FOR OTHERS ITS TIME TO CARE FOR MYSELF🌹 WORKING IN SAUDI ARABIA HAS HELPED ME TO HEAL AND THINK ABOUT MY LIFE.GOD BLESS THIS COUPLE AND LNN TEAM🌹🙏🏾
Me to now ten yrs single mum of two..I want start again.give love second chance 💕💕💕
Good luck to you
Wish you all the happiness and yes it's time to take care of yourself.💖✨✨✨
Hey stella
@@janewambui1919 come let's give it a try
Aki Lynn si nakupenda,ukinitaja huwa nafeel poa hata sai nishasahau kama Niko job till 2pm 😂❤❤❤❤I LOVE YOU LYNN
Lynn, am a Ugandan. I love you. Sincerely on a serious note, I should start praying for you. You are a blessing to many.
Please do ,we always for from the word go...this channel is ordained
She is a blessing. Am a silent follower. I always get overwhelmed. Yes here in Uganda, we have journalists but Lynn is really God sent.
I like that it time for and me🌹🌹🌹🌹
Am a Ugandan too... Lynn is our best 💪 always praying for her
Hey ...Ugs in the house
1. If you find that you have no money today, it means that there is something you did not do yesterday(in the past)
2. If you found me a millionaire, make me a billionaire
3. It's not love that makes a Marriage work/last; it's knowledge!
4. It doesn't matter what people around you say; what matters is the understanding you build from the commitment you make to each other.
Truly a gem, so many nuggets of wisdom from this lovely couple. Thanks for sharing. ❤🙏
Kupendwa ndio tunataka sasa plus quality sex . Many of us tuko stuck Kwa virtuous woman ....tumefunguka wanawake... Great couple jibambeni.❤️❤️❤️❤️
Ukweli
It's good that we begin to normalise relationships like this.we have to outgrow stereotypes
Abomination so this guy would even sleep with his mother and call it love
Yaassss
Well said
Hiyo hapana!
@@Emmanuel967-c2m Why?
Every marriage will go through this stages..."1. Dream 2. Drama 3. Dilemma 4. Discovery: invest in knowledge and a mentor 5.Depth"... Pst Sue Munene. Many marriages are founded on Dreams and sometimes that may not sustain or go for long because when reality hits then many are not ready for it. In these case, When we only see the dream and not ready to deal with the past which may bring drama then we are not ready for it. We may say age is just but a number but if one is not ready to handle the other stages then you are in for a serious Hardwork for it to work. I hope we are not setting a precedent for the future generation. May God help and reveal to them His Will and Purpose as he so desires.
I saw this from pastor and Mrs twa twa ...I'm learning alot .
The precedent is set the wrong way.Reminds me of the Nigerian actor Regina Daniels who married Ned Nwoko an elderly fake business man as a third wife while her own mother Rita Daniels married a young man half her age.Guess what happens during family meetings.🥱.
I think we should first accept our generation and stop always saying that we are doing everything for the next generation this has become almost as an excuse coz we have failed to put our own generation and we are already putting everything on the next generation and this has been repeatedly done coz even the generations that passed also used to say we are doing all this for the next generation and that's why we are not seeing much change positively coz we have to live for our generation not the next one.
@noah many Kenyan women are in dilemma stage where the man is always right . We are shut down with mwanamke mpumbavu hubomoa ndoa yake na mikono yake. Yet it's obvious unajenga na wanaume wanaharibu !!! So many in this category are looking for the dream to enjoy be appreciated and feel worthy. Be genuinely apologized to! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@sherahm.inspires9969 😂😂😂😂 kuna wa kujenga na wakumbomoa😂😂😂😂 you’re right
Love is not everything in a relationship. That's what life has taught me
Love is all respects and commitment ❤️❤️❤️have learnt alot this Feb ❤️❤️❤️
Actually its nothing
Love brings people together. Character is what holds a relationship
@@rosemaryrosy7836 wow💯💯
What I have learned is that love is nothing in a relationship,but commitment and submission is everything.
I will never judge someone based on sexuality , religion , marriage and weight people are fighting deep battles be nice ....
Age is just a number. Let love reign! I bless this couple.
Amen
This lady looks so calm...the way she communicate n talks about the hubby is amazing...the guy got a very precious thing
Not husband yet.....fiance
I don't know what I can tell my son if he comes home with a woman the age of his mother saying he plans to marry her.
@@georgegg1079 his mother was 15 when she had him?
@@georgegg1079 age of his mother ? Wacha wazimu.
@@tonyirimu 😂
Ave been a single mum for 9yrs and this last holiday my daughter opened up to me the urge she has for a daddy ... Weeee, "Lynn "I was shocked,she sent me a voicenote and she really broke down telling me that she wants a dad,a sister or a brother for the first time she shared her thoughts with me, she is 11yrsnow, though am in gulf hoping to be home and God helps me give her a family.....
🌹🙏🏾
From your mouth to God's ears.. sending lots of love to you and your daughter 🤍🤍
Kumbe iam not alone twende nyuma ya hema tulilie hapo tukitoka gulf
Yees.
My grandson , 8 yrs old asks his mom for the same. MAY THE LORD PROVIDE.AMEN
So we’re many. Me single for 13yrs. Now 🤔my girl 14 yrs she asked me if she shall
Be alone forever 😫🥴
Yes Judy, there's nothing to hide when love is popping 🍾❤👏👏👏
This show Lynn is has opened my eyes ,I thought I'm done with love,I met a PST older than me n nilikuwa nimelenga a young man younger than me I chossed the older one tho we met on Medea,n I wasn't in Kenya,he went and met my kids done the intro between his kids n mine,later i was called by a lady asking me what I'm doing with her husband,she called me names n i i was innocent, asking him he told me he was just after peace, he wasted my time two yrs in relationship ignoring pple knowing I got someone,I thank God I talked to my kids n they understood me , n I give up on love ,waa hii imeni encourage, thanks Lynn Ngugi God bless you,more love from here gulf,team strong pitieni hapa na likes
Wow, Judy is beautiful....in the true sense of the word. To crown that beauty, she's intelligent, eloquent, she's quite controlled. She spoke the language of God......"Give myself a second chance in love." She's prayerful and I'm sure she knows that we serve a God of second chance. Gal, take that chance with Mesesi. All the best in your future life.
Some marriages with age mates end up in pain, betrayal, violence and depression besides the worst. If someone can bring you lasting peace and stability the better for you. We cannot live in misery all our lives yet there's no rehearsal . Live happy and go to heaven happy
You are right Ednah🤍
Haiya! Mapenzi wewe? lemmi grab my coffee. I wish them all the best.
#LoveAlwaysWins
#HappinessIsVital
#GodAboveAll
awwww.......the maturity with this guy is on another level despite their age gap.....they are looking so beautiful together
excitement not maturity..the chicken will come home to roost
@@sacredscripturespot 😂😂
Don't be confused by what you see on camera. This is just love excitements.
Age is just a number but that guy is very maturity enough like me
Young people in this country think God was stupid when he created Adam fast and Eve later.......This was for some great significance.
Love is not rude; love is not proud; love keeps no record of wrong; love does not envy; love is not self seeking
Honestly one has to give credit where its due. Lynn you always tell people to receive their 💐. This time around please receive your own bouquet 💐 🙏🏾. You have done an incredible job with this episode💯. Your interviewing skills are a notch higher💥. It really flowed with no awkard moments bearing in mind "love" interviews may not be easy. Well done darling 👏🏾 💝🥳. You are truly a star🌟 . Keep up with the amazing work you do💓
Kindly are you married?
@@ostineewoi2649 😁
A
Lynn's interview skills are top notch. Good job.
Thank you❤❤
@@LynnNgugi you are the best And the best.
True Rose. Non- judgemental and calm.
💯
Yeah sure,she is a genius in her art 🔥🔥🔥
Aki people here are like... Love is sweet, age is just a number, you botb look amazing... Mimi naona pretence and a generation of this young man stopped... Generation inamalizwa watu kama wamenyaza. (talking as a mother who has a son)
Seriously, nowadays you find young men are not ready to face frustrations from ladies their age,since most are set for sugar babes and wababas
I think people are just happy at how the two are vibing. Its so rare nowadays to see that [without it being ati mtu amechukua bwana/bibi ya mwingine] when people see it, no matter the age difference, people just celebrate it.
Its all about peace of mind and where your heart finds true love ...everywhere you go kuna majukumu
I was scrolling for this comment. Personally I am happy for them, but it is his choice.
I just love this conservation. Very encouraging for us older women with kids. Hugs to you all
Wenye waliwatomba wako wapi kanuthia? 😂😂
I’m a 50 year old woman with 3 kids. I’m attracting men who are 10,16,15 years younger than me
Awesome interview Lynn. Beautiful couple. May God continue to bless, keep and guide your relationship. I see the love and respect they have for each other. Sending you love from Jamaica 🇯🇲 ❤
The wife looks so young it's hard to know her age. This couple is love goals❤
Not True but love is real
Just bcoz anamwagiliwa na a young man
Nope, she really looks her age
@@josephinemulama6338 wueh..utaongea hivyo.
@@josephinemulama6338 meaning? this your language na no balance chaiii
I dont want to lie am 40 and a single mother of three children how do i settle for 25 yr old in the name of am in love and happy no no no this is a no tukubali tukatae Adam came first and when God saw he needed a companion he created eve for him,wamama tuwache kunyemelea watoto wa wenzenu,a mad man dancing naked in the market is only funny wen he isnt your relative
Wueh...sigefikilia hivi
This is the comment was looking for all down scrolling.....As a mother I wouldn't date a man who is almost the age of my daughters,Age might just be a number but in the same case this is not the way things should be.....to me I say NO
Dear My kids🥰 I pray you never fall into this.
# Wishing the lovers the best.
I totally agree its not the matter of love, people shld be considerate of other people''s
children, oooh in the name of love they are turning our society to something else. for a mother's the feeling that experience is horrible.
What has surprised me is that the man's parents are ok with this. Hii ni tabia gani surely Kenya tunafanya. Nimekataa.
Yeah to second you a woman was created from the man's rib which means the man must be older than the woman
I love it when both of them says I will always choose u,,,,,Love really is a beautiful thing while u have the right person
The moment pple will stop caring about what the society is saying about them,that is when they will start living their life to the fullest. At the end of the day it's is your happiness.May God bless this two love birds 🙏
Love is a beautiful thing ,,this lady must had admired to get this devotional love ,,all the best🥰
In any relationship, happiness is the goal , so long as there's peace and respect 💯👏
Yes kasweetie wa Lynn ts true
I know what you mean... however,
Happiness should not be the ultimate goal of marriage, but rather unity is. Unity requires the daily decision to love. Unity is part of the “working” at our marriage. It is the constant striving to achieve oneness.
Why there are so many people divorcing especially in the west is when they stop being "happy" or "inlove", they quit.
You can't be dependent on anyone to make you happy.... too much pressure.
That's true but huyu kijana akitaka mtoto jamani 46yrs hata nguvu iko and the risks.
The sincerity and honesty from this two is something you can die to have, the eloquence with the guy is just on another level,for sure God works with our decisions and choices
This is beautiful,i never considered dated a younger man as an option but after seeing this I will reconsider😁.After all age is just a number, it must not be a barrier to experience true love.The wisdom these 2 posses is amazing.
May God continue to bless their union and continue to love each other,do you and the rest is noise.
They are adorable.... the story is sweet to listen 😆
We ntafutie mtu huko Israel kwanza 😛
@@juliawangui777 😆😆😆 taja age set
This guy seems so mature and from his eyes it's clear that he is deeply in love with her....age is just but a number so be happy with the one who completes you.
Love this. Treat a woman well she submits naturally. You are very right.
I love the way he is looking at her and affirming her.
Uko wapi tuanzishe uhusiano wetu?
Alaaaaaaaaa 😩🤦🏿♂️🤣🤣🤣🤣
And this rship will last...God does things
Love is sweet when you get the right person ❤️
That's it
Sure
Sure
True
💯💯
Congratulations 👏 Judy don't mind the haters you deserve happiness ❤
I was the talk of the town I was married to my 10 years younger than me husband now 17 years down the line. No retreat no turning back 💏
This is best than those lazy ladies breaking homes
Wish young ladies can embrace in love than sleeping around with married men
Good piece Lyn
Exactly, those ones are lazy ,don't want to work on anything
Like nyamu
@@bigg1091 I consider them soo heartless
Married men should stop cheating on their wives too🤷♀️
It's an eye opener to many on many quarters. Hope the couple will get more advices from a marriage/ relationship cancelllor going forward.
I'm blown away with the love these couples. And this give me hope that one day I'll get the live of my life. Actually I was that person who finds it so difficult to getting in to another relationship for the 3rd time with kids aged 23,18 and 6 . My prayer is one day God will locate my true Love .
Life surely begins at 40 ❤️❤️❤️....Lynn lots of love from 🇹🇿
While a shared experience of trauma can create a strong connection between two people, it's important that both partners FIRST prioritize their own individual healing and seek support from mental health professionals as needed BEFORE JUMPING into a new relationship while carrying the baggage of the past relationship with them, lest it turn out to be a case of "trauma bonding" (i.e., for lack of a better word)
I concur 100%
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They went for counselling
Yes Trauma bonding is very common. I mean everyone has their own way of healing from past relationships and counselling is amazing but may not be for everyone. It's simply important to heal I totally agree.
Waaaah! That's the best love story I've ever heard. Congratulations 🎉. 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕 Mesesi, any bale remaining yawa??.... Lynn Jaber thank you always🎉🎉🎉🎉
The guy is very intelligent and romantic! Wishing them all the best ❤️
Let's have the same conversation 3 years from now
This has really encouraged me,God bless this beautiful couple.
I always look forward to watch your interviews Lynn. I am here commenting and i havnt even started watching yet 😄
He has a mind of a man that every woman would wish to have ,,God shld keep them together forever
This guy is just an epitome of intelligency wow... atleast he is proving that age is just but a number...may you love each other forever...so beautiful 😍😍😍
Been single for 9years and still pushing, guess I have to wait to get to 40 and start life:)
Don't worry sis God akakupa wako
Lets wait for our time...
This lady oozes peace while the guy is very friendly. Im more like her
True love wins,,love is a beautiful thing 😍 Thanks Lynn for always bringing us the best .I love you ❤️
This is encouraging especially to single mum's out there. God bless the union
That moment you ask "does true love exist"...and you see these two lovebirds telling their story.
This is beautiful! May God continue to bless your relationship. Keep telling your story; it's a testament of HOPE, LOVE, HEALING that needs to be told over and over.
Love from Zim🇿🇼
I believe you don't realize when u fall in love but True love Iko but getting it's not easy, cherish what u have.
Eeh when this Judy speaks she is soo calm. What a gift. This man is blessed
Don't deceive yourself, let them settle down together and reality will dawn. An older woman cannot respect a much younger man for a husband. There will never be peace for thet boy in this union. He is too young for that woman
@brigidnabwire1019 you will.be fine. Get healing and learn that not every body is moving arround with wounds. You are stuck up with negativity who says they are allover the place and not settled. Seems your definition of settling is written in your own doctionary. The world needs less of your kind.i pray and hope you get healed from your own childhood traumas, and hopefully you too will one day find true love
@@brigidnabwire1019 I agree..It sounds like a very heavy infatuation..His eyes will open up…
Being loved is most incredible. Sisi we are having our age mates kiburi ndio imejaa
I don't think so..sisi we are agemates na tuko tu sawa...
Adi I really loosed the appetite of being loved I don't think if I will give a second chance
Love is the most beautiful feeling on earth, submission comes automatically from a woman when she is loved and appreciated and when she is truly in love,it just flows through her veins flawlessly.
Automatically. Periodt.
Exactly,a man always knows whether it's game time or work time when it comes to women.I applaud this man for speaking the truth & the Chemistry is obvious.Let people find their peace while you pray to attain yours
Am glad I tuned on juz in time for this encouragement. Good morning Lynn
Same case here my dear
Ooo I love their reasoning and especially this Jamaa is so mature. That has made my day ❤️
I went to School with Walter and I'm proud of him. He use to sing very well.
A man who happens to be young and a woman who happens to bi ln love ❤️. God's greatest gift. This is so beautiful.
This is the best interview i have watch in this year 💗💗 love is beautiful when you are with the right person who can appreciate you
Wooiii Lynnn,this is owesome,you guys are just amazing...loved that part when she said'am just a woman who happened to love a man who is younger.'
My time is coming soon in Jesus name. Amen
Its not surprising to me at all. After I turned 30, all the men who wanted me were much younger. Especially after I had my daughter, young men were always asking me out. To this day, young men are always chasing me. Most of them don't even know me, so they're not after my money. Unfortunately, I prefer older men since I like feeling young 😆 🤣
They go for you because to them they see you as matured compared to women in their age bracket. Younger women ni visirani tu na wanaume huchoka na wao
Even though personally I can't be in a relationship with a man who's age is below my mine, I still believe that Love is Love.
And if it is ok for a full grown man to be with a woman half or less his age, then Nobody should judge a woman for taking the same path.
Happiness or true Love is not easy to find. But when you do find it in someone special, then you have arrived at your Happy Place where you belong.
True love comes when you are not actually looking out for it
I agree with you 😂 how we met na my man acha tu!! Imagine nko kwa balcony just busking during corona time I wasn't going to job but we were half paid and I was living alone so nlkua kwa balcony na yy pia alikua kwa balcony a different apartment, so he greated me and he was like can I come we busk together I didn't answer but he definitely came and thats how we became friends we started cooking supper together and eating together having fun together together and boom 1yr down we became one and blessed with a bby gal! Na c ati nlkua single na pia yy hakua single but how one forgot their r/tionship ata sijui hadi akachange line😂 I agree with ur comment
Love is blind. Love is gift. If two loves each other, it doesn't matter the age. God's bless them.
Love is intentional not blind. Infatuation is blind.
@@ednahchirchir1924 Kongoi
Amen 🙏💕
This is so similar to Esther and Guardian Angel's story.......I'm smiling as I watch this their story is beautiful
This serenity woow I salute the couple for going beyond the norm nice nice God bless God bless you lynn
Asingle mum of 2 in my 30's i had given up on love but after watching this am gonna give it atry👌I wish them them all the best🙏🏼❤
Yooh, this is one of its own kind. May God help them to stick together and keep the loving glowing.
Me at 21 dating a 36 year old.. Best relationship ever. Love is love age is a number
Wow,💖💖
I love the wisdom in this relationship. May God see you through guys. Lots of love from UG.
Wow! I loved this interview. My take away from this interview; maturity doesn't come with an age. This guy is full of wisdom and complements his wisdom. Wishing them all the best in life
It's the way he is looking at her🥰🥰
Wuuueh
On time as always..... Thanks Lynn 🥰
Willie i know him personally a very humble man i would say
Good job
Love is a beautiful thing when you find the right person
Congratulations Lynn we are learning more through this channel ..May God bless you ..And for the couples love is sweet when you meet the right person..Wish you all the best in the journey of marriage.Congratulations❤️
Love the couple. That's true love.
Watu wa "hi Lynn" today is your day to shine 😂
Yes AGE IS JUST A NUMBER, sometimes, I said sometimes, yes sometimes LOVE WINS
Only time will tell
Happiness can't be measured with wealth but out of the heart and truth.... love is honesty!!!- being understanding ... maturity and just being their for the person you call a friend!!
This young man is so 💯. He is so mature, he speaks so well. They are blessed to have found each other.
Age is only a number! Enjoy life❤️❤️ I’m in love with her hairstyle- I’m stealing that right next week 🤣🤣