Homeless Family in a Small Hotel Room with Their 4 Kids and One on the Way.

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  • Emily and her husband live in a hotel near St Louis with their 4 kids and another one on the way. When we walked in Emily was giving her son a "time out" by sending him to the bathroom. There is no other room. There is no privacy. My heart broke while visiting with Emily and her children. You can feel the nonstop stress this young mother must experience.
    Emily's husband lost his job. They then bounced around family until their car broke down and they ended up at this hotel. That was almost a year ago.
    Living in weekly rate hotels often becomes a strap. It's $1,000 a month to live there, which is often just most people's paycheck. Emily's husband is now back working and they have been lucky enough to save up some money, yet with an eviction on their record - finding a house or apartment to rent can be challenging.
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  • @djeeee911
    @djeeee911 4 роки тому +74

    A guy who worked every single days just to feed his family has nothing to learn and deserves the best respect in the world.

    • @Iworkwithnitwits
      @Iworkwithnitwits 4 роки тому +3

      Yes, there are a lot of men out there who would do anything to feed their children and keep a roof over their head even if it means staying in a motel. God bless him.

    • @yulyasevelova769
      @yulyasevelova769 3 роки тому

      The husband and father of the family needs affordable housing, it would help a lot. Some evictions can be expunged, like retaliatory eviction.

  • @missmadelinesadventures3278
    @missmadelinesadventures3278 4 роки тому +173

    The kids are soooo happy. You can tell she's a good mom. He runs out of his bathroom timeout saying " I'm free! I'm free!" Laughing:) 💜💜💜

    • @debraashley8831
      @debraashley8831 4 роки тому +15

      I was thinking the same - the kids are happy. This will soon be a distant memory the kids will recall, fondly.

    • @Calverts399
      @Calverts399 4 роки тому +6

      To the kids its just a long vacation. The little ones are too little to even remember and they look happy, well fed and looked after. Thats more than most kids have.

    • @rainbowkitten8990
      @rainbowkitten8990 3 роки тому +4

      @@Calverts399 Yes exactly, they all look very well kept 😊

    • @yulyasevelova769
      @yulyasevelova769 3 роки тому +3

      @@Calverts399 Oh yes !! They're a good family that fell on hard times. But, with most motel kids, they were born into poor and dysfunctional families. Their future is a grim one, without intervention.

  • @ingeborgm6147
    @ingeborgm6147 4 роки тому +55

    Four children...living in this situation and they have a fifth child? No words......I am sorry, no words!

    • @leahingraham5509
      @leahingraham5509 Місяць тому

      Really judgemental. They have fallen on hard times. I'm a mom of 5 and one on the way and never have been in this situation until now. My husband was on between jobs to long and the cost of living caused us to get way behind. Things happen

  • @supersman2000
    @supersman2000 6 років тому +644

    The husband is working Give the man some credit.

    • @p_valentines1046
      @p_valentines1046 4 роки тому +20

      No one gonna do that cuz that what should men do and that what should women do at least if she have a baby's

    • @jrewing6478
      @jrewing6478 4 роки тому +35

      I would go on birth control...

    • @kbivuvycvyvuct5738
      @kbivuvycvyvuct5738 4 роки тому +3

      steamed buns619 stfu

    • @nenektua8713
      @nenektua8713 4 роки тому +2

      Well, it not one of agenda, and people will not give a pity, so NO

    • @voicelessglottalfricative6567
      @voicelessglottalfricative6567 4 роки тому +10

      @T C Hes working hard though

  • @guillermogouldburn763
    @guillermogouldburn763 7 років тому +159

    Look how the baby girl becomes aware of her mother's crying and then comes to her to comfort her.

    • @tmusa2002
      @tmusa2002 3 роки тому +1

      And that is shameful. These kids should not have to watch their mom cry.

    • @mickeymousey1239
      @mickeymousey1239 3 роки тому +6

      @@tmusa2002 why not? its a real life emotion, better to teach them its ok to have feelings than to say no and they end up on drugs later ?

    • @tmusa2002
      @tmusa2002 3 роки тому

      @@mickeymousey1239 Those kids have been through enough. They were put in the video for the dramatic effect it creates.

  • @clc-gl4jn
    @clc-gl4jn 4 роки тому +194

    I hope I don’t sound insensitive, she’s better off in a hotel than on the street. She is doing better than many other people in a spot that is not ideal. I pray she gets her family in a more comfortable and safe spot!

    • @yungkim5834
      @yungkim5834 4 роки тому +3

      besamemucho5 facts

    • @clc-gl4jn
      @clc-gl4jn 4 роки тому +4

      James 2:17
      So faith also, if it have not works, is dead in itself.
      Prayer works. You need to put prayer into action for it to be fruitful of blessings which is God’s Will...

    • @THE-NC2
      @THE-NC2 4 роки тому +1

      besamemucho5 hmmm...it’s rude, but it’s true

    • @Iworkwithnitwits
      @Iworkwithnitwits 4 роки тому +1

      Yes, there are families in vans and cars now.

    • @clc-gl4jn
      @clc-gl4jn 4 роки тому +1

      Iworkwithnitwits - Yes indeed. Some under bridges even!

  • @greato80
    @greato80 6 років тому +441

    Hey, be thankful you have four walls and a roof and place to go bathroom n shower. All that is a true blessing. Kids are safe. Hope everything works out.

    • @olonzoammonsjr7042
      @olonzoammonsjr7042 5 років тому +12

      Yes ❤

    • @univuniveral9713
      @univuniveral9713 4 роки тому +20

      That is just what I wanted to say, then I saw your comment and decided not to repeat it. Some people just have a victim mentality. When it rains they complain, when the sun shines, the complain. There are MANY people who have to sleep outside and cannot even brush their teeth. And who is responsible for her housing?

    • @mikasayeriho9835
      @mikasayeriho9835 4 роки тому +4

      Sad

    • @Om999-
      @Om999- 4 роки тому +8

      @@univuniveral9713 fuck off

    • @Om999-
      @Om999- 4 роки тому +19

      So what she should do laugh? With 4 kids in small room with uncertain future. Something is wrong with you

  • @GodofWarChuka
    @GodofWarChuka 5 років тому +282

    I feel bad for most people If they fall on hard times. But why keep having kids if you can’t afford it?

    • @asadalee3819
      @asadalee3819 4 роки тому +14

      It's her choice. Kids looks precious

    • @Katherine-so7ye
      @Katherine-so7ye 4 роки тому +67

      I’ll be the one to say it like it is. Bumming off the government. You can claim up to 2K$ a year for child benefit in the US so they could potentially be getting 166$ a month from the government, per child . I don’t know their case so I can’t say that they do it for this purpose but a lot of homeless or poor families do . I think she’s selfish . She already HAS children that need her to be out their working ,not forcing her husband to have to work overtime bc she wants to bring yet another child into the world that she has no means whatsoever to properly take care of. Do you think she’s planning for their futures? Setting them up for success?

    • @scottdawsie9948
      @scottdawsie9948 4 роки тому +80

      @@asadalee3819 Beautiful children indeed, However having kids with no financial plan is irresponsible.

    • @asadalee3819
      @asadalee3819 4 роки тому +6

      @@scottdawsie9948 Allah will help her. Allah also helped her when the baby was her mother's belly.

    • @deannasoriano2771
      @deannasoriano2771 4 роки тому +16

      Food stamps and welfare

  • @mixedbeautifult1098
    @mixedbeautifult1098 9 років тому +882

    I'm sorry I feel for this family but I have to agree that if your struggling why bring more children into the picture. BIRTH CONTROL.

    • @taylormarie4461
      @taylormarie4461 7 років тому +34

      And it's FREE !!!! (Birth cont)

    • @stephanieinthewild2678
      @stephanieinthewild2678 7 років тому +94

      Sith'ari Azithoth , she had four damn children already. I don't think her bloodline ending. But to get pregnant after kicked out of families house which technically is homeless already. Then in hotel and giving birth to fifth baby!!!! That's just discusting mistakes.

    • @scottwalker8786
      @scottwalker8786 7 років тому +6

      They're doing fine, in africa its normal for women to have 8 or 9 children even if they cant feed more than one. At least her kids are getting fed.

    • @kabukisyneri296
      @kabukisyneri296 6 років тому +41

      I've got a better idea. DON'T HAVE SEX.

    • @oneiceb5974
      @oneiceb5974 6 років тому +7

      I agree.

  • @dreadrea3265
    @dreadrea3265 6 років тому +148

    I love how her biggest daughter keeps coming around when her mommy cries, awwwe!

    • @ritajimmie3361
      @ritajimmie3361 4 роки тому +3

      Same here

    • @joebanana4697
      @joebanana4697 4 роки тому +3

      Yup,me too..

    • @tmusa2002
      @tmusa2002 3 роки тому +4

      I do not love that. A child should not have to console her mother during an interview like this. The children were videotaped and used for a dramatic effect. 😢😢 Poor babies have been through enough. Bless them all.

    • @yulyasevelova769
      @yulyasevelova769 3 роки тому +3

      Such is the case, for most homeless people,Drea Drea. There's no family home to go to if you need to go home. In this Neoliberal service economy we've been subjected to for 40, years now, lots of people are forced to move back with their parents. Adults with their own lives had to back to something that maybe isn't too good. Back in the 60's and 70's, you could leave home young and get your own place and have a job, go to community college ( free)and have hope for a real future. Not anymore ! More housing that's affordable is the only answer for families like the above.Good people. I hope they escape into affordable housing soon. And the politicians had better bring back the good jobs and manufacturing,or else............

    • @JuCarlos-ex8ip
      @JuCarlos-ex8ip 2 роки тому +2

      Me too unfortunately 😔

  • @teresah.6696
    @teresah.6696 4 роки тому +34

    This was videotaped about five years ago so let's hope the family is doing much better, mom and dad are still together and stopped having babies, five kids is enough.

    • @unklecorky2181
      @unklecorky2181 4 роки тому +13

      she prob has another 6 kids by now

    • @eoinoconnell185
      @eoinoconnell185 3 роки тому +2

      @@unklecorky2181 Sad. But my 1st thought too.
      Invisible People is a fascinating series.
      But I find myself having little sympathy for most of the people interviewed.
      Too many are in their predicament because of purposeful, yet destructive life choices.
      Homeless with 4 kids and a 5th on the way.
      'Frustrated anger' is the best way I can describe my emotions to this.
      Both parents need to look into getting sterilized. Ridiculous behavior.

  • @BossQueen
    @BossQueen 6 років тому +8

    Almost 10 years strong. Thank you mark for being an angel. And everyone that helps you. God bless all.

  • @jojobee42
    @jojobee42 7 років тому +241

    4 kids is enough for her to handle in their situation... Why a 5th one? I don't understand why people in situations like this end up getting pregnant..... They should be smarter and more careful than that.

    • @lovepower4899
      @lovepower4899 6 років тому +6

      why is it her fault? Why did he impregnate her?

    • @ОнуфрийНечепуренко
      @ОнуфрийНечепуренко 6 років тому +5

      The answer is simple: no male is able to have an abortion.

    • @lovepower4899
      @lovepower4899 6 років тому +17

      men can wear condoms and get vasectomies. birth prevention isn't a woman's job, dont be a sexist dumbass.

    • @ennovy232
      @ennovy232 6 років тому +28

      Because if she wants to keep fucking . She should have protected , herself . I have no pity for ignorant people like this .

    • @rosannamiranda4620
      @rosannamiranda4620 4 роки тому +1

      True

  • @BiggMomma84
    @BiggMomma84 4 роки тому +112

    That's crazy to get pregnant again but you already have 4 kids in a hotel

    • @djeeee911
      @djeeee911 4 роки тому +7

      Don't judge, your mother was pregnant, she kept you and now we have to read your comments. Maybe one on these kids will help on of yours on day.

    • @BiggMomma84
      @BiggMomma84 4 роки тому +27

      @@djeeee911 who said I was judging,that's dumb af to keep having babies and you live In a hotel I said what I said

    • @uan5182
      @uan5182 3 роки тому +17

      @@BiggMomma84 i dont like judging, but you are right on this one! I agree! Its really, really crazy that they are keep making babies and they dont have their own home. I dont understand that.

    • @prezimeime4887
      @prezimeime4887 3 роки тому +3

      @@BiggMomma84 tootaly i agreed with you .

    • @vanessakrugman2781
      @vanessakrugman2781 3 роки тому +4

      She is ridiculous

  • @GuitarType01
    @GuitarType01 10 років тому +431

    Why do people have more kids than they can afford to care for, specially in those situations. It's hurtful.

    • @PatriotafVenise
      @PatriotafVenise 6 років тому +7

      C-los M stfu you act like you’re paying for her bills FOH

    • @williamblair3610
      @williamblair3610 5 років тому +14

      To get that check

    • @jackiebaker2664
      @jackiebaker2664 5 років тому +23

      They have more kids hoping the government keeps taking care of them

    • @Bricktown982
      @Bricktown982 5 років тому +14

      and one on the way...

    • @damien1781
      @damien1781 5 років тому +23

      exactly close your fucking legs

  • @ThatHungryAfricanChild
    @ThatHungryAfricanChild 6 років тому +176

    supporting one kid scares my wallet how do you get 4 and not freak out

    • @themadgod1830
      @themadgod1830 3 роки тому +3

      @Nathan Super I mean with all the cash he's saving by not having 5 kids I'd say his wallet is pretty obese 😁

    • @Illisil
      @Illisil 3 роки тому

      Four and one on the way...

    • @michaeltoney2277
      @michaeltoney2277 3 роки тому +3

      People had large families back in the day because they helped provide/ pay for the farm.
      Nowadays large families are just not economically viable.
      I don’t really understand what this family is thinking or if there is some religious belief playing a role.

    • @williamkelly5689
      @williamkelly5689 3 роки тому +1

      Gubment cheese

    • @ronymorales3527
      @ronymorales3527 3 роки тому

      @@michaeltoney2277 now on to support 2 kids is not easy
      But god always look after us
      But having 5 kids
      Ufffffff
      I hope they find a better way to keep going

  • @sweetpeas8782
    @sweetpeas8782 7 років тому +355

    So she says there's just one room, so no privacy but she gets pregnant! With four kids in a hotel room... Clever!

    • @BlueberryFundip
      @BlueberryFundip 6 років тому +87

      Sweet Peas they did it when they went to bed or just in the shower lol. Either way it was retarded to get pregnant again

    • @amyd3047
      @amyd3047 4 роки тому +42

      I agree! It's hard to feel sorry for some ppl when they do nothing to help the situation but do things that are just for pleasure, knowing what the out come could possibly be!!

    • @amyangell2378
      @amyangell2378 4 роки тому +3

      Her kids are like 4 and up , and they have only been homeless a year so

    • @Nicole-fb6fr
      @Nicole-fb6fr 4 роки тому +24

      I know seriously!!! This is another reason why abortion and contraception should be universally free!

    • @jenniferrsmith2012
      @jenniferrsmith2012 4 роки тому +1

      Kids go to school.

  • @hungamek
    @hungamek 4 роки тому +94

    She is in a hotel room for 1 year. And a baby is on the way. Guys where is the responsibilty? Why those kids have to pay parents wrong decisions?

    • @charliemayers4145
      @charliemayers4145 4 роки тому +10

      Oh please shut up

    • @trufflebutter9137
      @trufflebutter9137 4 роки тому +20

      @Joseph Henderson As long as who supports them? They have 4 kids, why would she not protect herself from getting pregnant again? It's stupid on her part.

    • @user-uf7ve4sr4r
      @user-uf7ve4sr4r 4 роки тому +1

      @PPG 29 you must not be able to support your children.

    • @nikkiroark8685
      @nikkiroark8685 4 роки тому +3

      The Parents have saved $3000 to move and he works. You People need to stop.

    • @wedatokyo1967
      @wedatokyo1967 4 роки тому +2

      I do agree with that my ex boyfriends sister moved in with him his mom and us and they got pregnant again and this house is so freaking crowded she got pregnant again while staying here and I feel like she did it purposely she has no GED none of them have a driver's license they only income they have is her husband's disability check like I guess they are just going to keep all four of themselves in one bedroom it's insane and her first baby isn't even a year old yet

  • @suzanazanas318
    @suzanazanas318 9 років тому +31

    I understand the pain, especially when you get kicked out by yr family's homes. Been there... rejection is a painful experience. At the end of it all, find my experience to be a blessing. Coz when GOD put me there, I got to to know my parents, my sisters n other relatives a li'l bit 'better'. They said it's hard to find friends who will cry with you. But along my journey, it proved that it was my friends who helped me got back on my feet again.

  • @MN-gg5qk
    @MN-gg5qk 4 роки тому +9

    Such a tough situation to be in. As she says, it turns into a cycle, it’s so hard to break it. I hope she’ll get out of it soon. Been there myself, and it’s not fun. Though I’m sure it’s better than being on the streets. May God bless her and her family. I pray for everyone in that situation. Especially now through Covid. Love and light to all reading this message.

  • @sambarnes3887
    @sambarnes3887 3 роки тому +9

    I hope they are okay now with a beautiful home ❤️ What a wonderful family ❤️ They deserve only the best ❤️

  • @kaybee1025
    @kaybee1025 3 роки тому +4

    Nothing can beat kids laughter 😊
    He came out screaming "I am free"🤩

  • @alihamud6410
    @alihamud6410 6 років тому +17

    This kind of story makes you focus your job very well.

  • @amyd3047
    @amyd3047 4 роки тому +9

    I live in motel 6 for 3 years now and pay 1250.00 a month! My fiance passed away in Jan from double pneumonia, so now it's just me and my cat. It's very hard, and she's right, it is a vicious circle that u can't get out of! But some ppl need to stop doing things to pleasure themselves without protecting the situation from getting 7 times worse!! I do NOT feel sorry for those ppl!

  • @steelwheels327
    @steelwheels327 6 років тому +90

    I feel for her, but another child certainly isn't the answer .Bad decisions make matters even worse.

    • @lemonhead1256
      @lemonhead1256 3 роки тому +4

      birth control is likely unavailable to her financially

    • @yulyasevelova769
      @yulyasevelova769 3 роки тому +3

      @@lemonhead1256 I know it's expensive. I do wonder, why isn't it free in America ? There's so many unwanted kids out there, and abortion is beyond many people's budgets. The wife does seem like a good woman though.

    • @lemonhead1256
      @lemonhead1256 3 роки тому +3

      @@yulyasevelova769 it isn't free because america has wrapped up 1/6th of its GDP in healthcare businesses who jack up prices on ppl without insurance. birth control is harder to find bc of a fundementalist christain movement that doesn't believe in birth control

    • @yulyasevelova769
      @yulyasevelova769 3 роки тому +3

      I agree completely. The Hyde Amendment did make all things related to birth control harder. It makes Medicaid payments for abortions illegal-- one must pay about $500 for one. Do many don't even have $400 set aside for emergencies. Yet Medicaid will pay for births. Did it pay for this wife's births, or was it private insurance ?? Luckily these children at least we're not born to abusive parents ! That happens too often to begin with.

    • @catiedobbs3254
      @catiedobbs3254 2 роки тому +1

      @@yulyasevelova769 so murdering your precious child is the answer no thanks

  • @becomingchanner361
    @becomingchanner361 8 років тому +480

    Why did she get pregnant again 😕

    • @maxbrockner5842
      @maxbrockner5842 7 років тому +37

      Becoming Channer more 🚼 babies daddies= more welfare programs, EBT raises.

    • @lovepower4899
      @lovepower4899 6 років тому +62

      always blame the woman. Why did he impregnate her?

    • @Paul-ft9dn
      @Paul-ft9dn 6 років тому +63

      why did she allow him to have unprotected sex with her? the woman is the one who gets pregnant. man is also responsible but the woman at least equally.

    • @charlesbrown9213
      @charlesbrown9213 6 років тому +28

      Leslie, it's HER body, HER choice.... That's what the feminists say.
      Time for involuntary removal of her uterus.

    • @bearythebear69
      @bearythebear69 6 років тому +14

      Becoming Channer because she’s stupid

  • @senju2024
    @senju2024 4 роки тому +72

    I would rather work all day everyday then being stuck in one room with 4 screaming kids. But that is just me.

    • @unklecorky2181
      @unklecorky2181 4 роки тому +15

      Well good thing you are working since people like you are the ones paying for her kids at the end of the day

  • @sahpem4425
    @sahpem4425 4 роки тому +11

    I’m sorry, mama. I hope you all got out of this situation. 🙏🏼

  • @potatochip780
    @potatochip780 4 роки тому +66

    It's so irresponsible to keep having kids when you can't even afford the ones you already have. Not getting pregnant is one of the easiest things in the world.

    • @rickbrown6557
      @rickbrown6557 2 роки тому +8

      When you have no home and still poppin out kids...it's time to rethink!

    • @kathyclark8274
      @kathyclark8274 2 роки тому +2

      Afraid I must agree w/ this.

    • @alisonj9533
      @alisonj9533 2 роки тому

      God help people like you too with no understanding

    • @keyla5034
      @keyla5034 2 роки тому

      No actually honey it’s not when you have no medical

    • @rickbrown6557
      @rickbrown6557 2 роки тому

      @@keyla5034 nice butt...

  • @debbiepotter6413
    @debbiepotter6413 5 років тому +63

    Take the kids to the playground, get rid of some of that energy!

    • @H0WIE
      @H0WIE 4 роки тому +4

      oh right because you know she’s definitely not doing that.

    • @ArchaicStigma
      @ArchaicStigma 4 роки тому

      @@H0WIE She probably isn't there likely isn't a park nearby

    • @ella-bt8hp
      @ella-bt8hp 4 роки тому +2

      She clearly does, two of her kids were ill with fever the day before so theyd had time off school. And it looked to be evening time aswell.

  • @MalenasBazaArte
    @MalenasBazaArte 7 років тому +28

    That guy is a super hero, he works and still manages to come "home" to get his wife pregnant? Where can I find them to bring some "BIRTH CONTROL PILLS?".

  • @sammulhare302
    @sammulhare302 7 років тому +50

    God willing they got out of this.

  • @dmgood02
    @dmgood02 7 років тому +95

    So if she knows it's difficult, then why bring another child in this world. You can get out, having kids makes it hard, but you can do it.

  • @brielleanyez7113
    @brielleanyez7113 5 років тому +35

    This is why I got my tubes tied after my second, because that's all my husband and I can afford with both of us working. There is no way in this day and age anyone can afford 5 kids. It's extremely irresponsible.

    • @ghg76vhfyg11
      @ghg76vhfyg11 3 роки тому +1

      Or 6

    • @ghg76vhfyg11
      @ghg76vhfyg11 3 роки тому +1

      20 kids

    • @Imanmohamed750
      @Imanmohamed750 3 роки тому

      Have faith in GOD

    • @kathyclark8274
      @kathyclark8274 2 роки тому

      The world is way over populated as it is and the earth's resources are rapidly being depleted.
      I'm a fan of ZERO pop growth.

  • @suesheification
    @suesheification 5 років тому +37

    Vasectomy

  • @cindyweir9645
    @cindyweir9645 6 років тому +19

    Hope this family found a proper home.

  • @edjouvladimirovich4920
    @edjouvladimirovich4920 6 років тому +35

    No sympathy. You have not one, not two, not three, but four kids and another on the way...WTF! People like these don't care how much they cost the taxpayer through entitlement program handouts. My heart pumps piss for them!

    • @ennovy232
      @ennovy232 6 років тому +3

      I agree with you 100%

    • @ek2137
      @ek2137 4 роки тому +1

      @Edjou what would your sympathy buy her and her family anyway? Not a GD thing, so STFU a-hole.

    • @danixnikki
      @danixnikki 4 роки тому +1

      Well you're trash

  • @joel-em3et
    @joel-em3et Рік тому +1

    Discipline those brats!!!!!! And knocked up with another!!!!! Brilliant lady!!!!!
    If I ever acted out like that as a kid I would have been beaten into oblivia!!!

  • @JesusSanchez-gs7ov
    @JesusSanchez-gs7ov 7 років тому +101

    don't have kids if u cant afford them

    • @basilleavesandhoneybees483
      @basilleavesandhoneybees483 4 роки тому +8

      Angela Drake He is right about his comment though. The world needs to be more responsible with procreation!

    • @rosannamiranda4620
      @rosannamiranda4620 4 роки тому +2

      True

    • @deborahpearl1330
      @deborahpearl1330 4 роки тому +1

      True

    • @coasteyscoasteys
      @coasteyscoasteys 4 роки тому

      @I I
      5 kids should be average. If you don't breed you die out

    • @ultragoldcoin8780
      @ultragoldcoin8780 4 роки тому

      @@coasteyscoasteys this day and age, you don't even need 2 kids, just one because that one will survive because of advances in technology, safer environment etc. I agree with you, personally, I'll be having 5-8 kids and I'll be financially ready to have that many kids if you can. I wouldn't have 5 kids if I didn't have enough money to raise even one or two kids though.

  • @terrimichaels3018
    @terrimichaels3018 5 років тому +59

    Children are worth having just listen to their laughter thank heavens they have a hardworking father prayers for a happy future

    • @pipo0o223
      @pipo0o223 4 роки тому +3

      @Darcy yeah let's kill the kids because they are inconvenient for the situation 😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈

    • @pipo0o223
      @pipo0o223 4 роки тому +2

      @Darcy homeless people won't really have the spare money to buy condoms or for safe sex, which means that they will get pregnant so when you say ''stop having kids when you can’t afford them'' it only means one thing to kill the baby. so we are the ones who are talking to the damn wall ignorant walls.

    • @voicelessglottalfricative6567
      @voicelessglottalfricative6567 4 роки тому +2

      @Darcy this was a nice comment and you had to come in like "FUCK YOU STUPID CONSERVATIVE!!!" like, can you shut the fuck up? is liking kids a "caveman conservative" thing? if you support women having kids or women who do have kids it makes you a "caveman conservative"

    • @clintonthurman5784
      @clintonthurman5784 4 роки тому +1

      Ashley your right like wait till your more established it’s really simple

    • @barbaravyse660
      @barbaravyse660 4 роки тому

      The poor man is gonna drop dead of stress

  • @ThoughtGaze
    @ThoughtGaze 7 років тому +28

    i've been there before. but she was divorced from our dead beat dad, she was on her own with 4 boys. i dont know how but she made it out.

  • @Caponapo
    @Caponapo 4 роки тому +4

    Everytime I see their children knowing they're homeless too just makes me so sad.

  • @etiennedegaulle3817
    @etiennedegaulle3817 7 років тому +45

    5 kids is an express ticket to abject poverty.

  • @skysoldier1127
    @skysoldier1127 Рік тому +1

    My biggest argument in the entire debate about poverty and what should be done, is that I rarely see anyone hold themselves accountable and accept that their systemically poor choices led to their situations it seems to always be someone else's fault, bad luck etc..

  • @Looneytune
    @Looneytune 4 роки тому +12

    Over a year homeless with 3 or 4 kids and 1 on the way. That's says actually everything about her sense for responsibility. How can u dare to get pregnant when u basically homeless?!

  • @sweettrinilife2095
    @sweettrinilife2095 4 роки тому +8

    You are homeless with 4 kids but bringing another into the world I am only sorry for the kids birth control is free .

  • @thaisevangelista4854
    @thaisevangelista4854 4 роки тому +4

    I don't think the purpose of this channel is to judge people. People in this situation needs support, they don't need malicious judgement.

  • @plabitasarmabeautyandfamil9056
    @plabitasarmabeautyandfamil9056 4 роки тому +1

    I pray that the whole family will always together

  • @ashleybosvik3031
    @ashleybosvik3031 4 роки тому +20

    Anybody can get down on their luck, at least her husband is working

  • @omegaone65
    @omegaone65 5 років тому +91

    Self-inflicted misery

    • @eoinoconnell185
      @eoinoconnell185 3 роки тому +2

      100%
      So many of the interviewees in this series suffer from the same 'ailment'.
      It's hard to have sympathy when people are self-destructive.

  • @rickyparker4552
    @rickyparker4552 6 років тому +123

    stop having kids!!!!

    • @lovepower4899
      @lovepower4899 6 років тому +2

      why are you blaming the woman? Why did he impregnate her?

    • @leighcincilus3294
      @leighcincilus3294 6 років тому +1

      For all u people to stop having children u do not know how long she has been pregnant for if she for pregnant when.things were good it is not.irresponsible things happen if u do not.Have nice things to say do not.say anything

    • @nadiahakimm
      @nadiahakimm 6 років тому

      It is non of your fucking business for shaming them into wanting a family.

    • @alishadawn6636
      @alishadawn6636 5 років тому +1

      Ricky Parker agree

  • @billhong4216
    @billhong4216 4 роки тому +2

    God bless you, Emily. Maybe by now, as I write, you're already out of the hotel into your home. Lovely children you have. Children are always happy as long as they're not hungry. Do bring them up safe and good.

  • @turmat01
    @turmat01 7 років тому +65

    "I have no home and 4 kids. Hey, let's make a 5th child!"
    When people don't even want to help themselves... what can you do... The fake tears don't work on me...

    • @olonzoammonsjr7042
      @olonzoammonsjr7042 5 років тому +5

      Stop saying fake tears they are real please show some respect

    • @silver10188
      @silver10188 4 роки тому

      none of ur business

    • @brucelee-gb9rr
      @brucelee-gb9rr 4 роки тому

      Angela Many people are simplely not organized to do what is right for them.

    • @shaylove3583
      @shaylove3583 4 роки тому

      Stop judging for God take away what you have

    • @turmat01
      @turmat01 4 роки тому

      @@shaylove3583 there is no god XD

  • @suzilindblad5207
    @suzilindblad5207 2 роки тому +1

    I have a good feeling things are going to get better for them. They are both pulling together in hard times, and those are the one who eventually pull through💗

  • @phongnguyen007
    @phongnguyen007 4 роки тому +8

    Well, the Man still Strong enough to pull his family out.

    • @guysview
      @guysview 4 роки тому +1

      But not smart enough to go to Dr Snip. Sheesh.

  • @myraselby9947
    @myraselby9947 Рік тому +1

    I wish this couple and kids the very best, not cool to judge ppl!

    • @misterm5325
      @misterm5325 Рік тому

      I made my judgement. Case closed! Feeling very cool at the moment.

  • @amyangell2378
    @amyangell2378 4 роки тому +6

    I lived like this 3 months and then we got out cause it is hell with 3 kids , thank god my father in law helped us get an apartment ...I never had any more kids and now were in a house 😄💗 thank god . That was 7 years ago ....

  • @Love2TravelAway
    @Love2TravelAway 6 років тому +163

    It's not easy but still making kids, I dont get it.......why dig a bigger hole if she has no education or money

    • @manicirishmonday
      @manicirishmonday 6 років тому +16

      because if you accidentally get pregnant we all don't feel like ripping a small fetus apart

    • @jackiebaker6586
      @jackiebaker6586 5 років тому +15

      These people have more kids for more free shit

    • @MC-kz1mo
      @MC-kz1mo 4 роки тому +19

      Its called birth control and iud to prevent pregnancy. Its called irresponsible & selfish!

    • @huckit9430
      @huckit9430 4 роки тому +2

      Love2TravelAway doing it for money

    • @aidankhaos7687
      @aidankhaos7687 4 роки тому +13

      manicirishmonday There’s contraceptives. Also better to abort if you have to then this. Pro lifers are only pro life until the babies are born. Then they don’t give a fuck. Bunch of bullshit

  • @MJSinger10
    @MJSinger10 5 років тому +3

    I AGREE about them being irresponsible for having another child while the four they already had were not being provided for as well as they could have been. BUT THIS VIDEO IS FROM 2014 FOLKS! Chastising her now isn't going to change anything, and for all we know there might be 6 or 7 kids by now. I just hope they're well loved and never hungry or mistreated. 😔😔😔

  • @mentallynk
    @mentallynk 7 років тому +17

    This is so heartbreaking but I completely understand once you have a eviction you can't rent anywhere even if you make over 50,000 a year

    • @blobbyblob2573
      @blobbyblob2573 6 років тому +3

      Cheryl Pinder even on 50,000 a year we didn’t make 5 babies

    • @davidsimpson5882
      @davidsimpson5882 4 роки тому +1

      Sal m 120,000 and I struggled to raise 3 boys would have had more but could not afford to and didn’t want them to go with out! Common sense.

    • @KJ3113
      @KJ3113 3 роки тому

      Then where do you live?

    • @tmusa2002
      @tmusa2002 3 роки тому +1

      Do some online searching. Housing is not a problem in the Midwest or south as long as you stay out of the trendy areas.

  • @teebzr5975
    @teebzr5975 4 роки тому +9

    Stop having kids, be more responsible.

  • @anonymousanonymous4238
    @anonymousanonymous4238 4 роки тому +4

    I just wanted to say thanks for the video. I don't have much but it makes me grateful for what I have. I am not homeless, I just don't make much. I am in a better place than these people were.

  • @allthingselderly
    @allthingselderly 3 роки тому +3

    Beautiful family. I hope all goes well for them.

  • @heidiperet7087
    @heidiperet7087 4 роки тому +16

    STOP having children that you can't afford!!

  • @pioneerprepper2048
    @pioneerprepper2048 4 роки тому +12

    I never considered living in a hotel homeless.
    Edited to add: this comment came more from pain than judgement. I lived in a hotel for 3 years when I was younger and had never considered myself homeless at the time. It was a shock to me that I had in fact been homeless not a way to down grade how difficult this woman's life was.

    • @kristingallo2158
      @kristingallo2158 4 роки тому +1

      Right and they've lived there a year.

    • @MsWindWaveSea
      @MsWindWaveSea 4 роки тому +2

      She is lucky, can have 4 kids and a place to live

    • @mickeymousey1239
      @mickeymousey1239 3 роки тому +1

      exactly they are not homeless

    • @mickeymousey1239
      @mickeymousey1239 3 роки тому +1

      but a welfare hotel is not the same as an apt and its supposed to be temporary

    • @yulyasevelova769
      @yulyasevelova769 3 роки тому +1

      @@mickeymousey1239 I hear that ! Even a nice hotel is STILL just a hotel. No substitute for an apartment or a house,lol.

  • @ArifHussain-yn5sf
    @ArifHussain-yn5sf 4 роки тому +2

    Please don't crying. Very sad situation for homeless people.This is beautiful family.In 21st century homeless people very sad.

  • @vegas9440
    @vegas9440 4 роки тому +8

    Birth control is free, especially if you are low/no income. This is so sad

    • @bottomsupbarmaid1987
      @bottomsupbarmaid1987 2 роки тому

      Seriously. There is no way this family isn’t approved for state medical, that fully covers everything including birth control and more. I can’t stand the whole “can’t afford birth control “ excuse, it’s an old one that needs to retire.

  • @adrianalove3155
    @adrianalove3155 4 роки тому +1

    Lived at a motel with my parents and brothers too, hope this family is living better now.

  • @roseharvey2664
    @roseharvey2664 4 роки тому +3

    People can be so judgemental. It's not like they are living it. Plus, they are really trying to get out and live in better conditions. But it's not easy once people have slipped. They are working and saving, good luck to them.
    It's expensive being poor.

  • @tiffanykitty28
    @tiffanykitty28 5 років тому +2

    It's so crazy how everyone passed such harsh judgment on this family especially the mother, maybe her birth control failed? Maybe her husband lost his job after she became pregnant? Her children are clean happy laughing and the father sounds like a hard working man. Families fall on hard times all you can do is make the best of them, and get back up. Shes not on drugs she didn't dump her children at a children's home and they dont look in any danger! I know this video is old but I pray they are doing well and her baby was born healthy and strong.

  • @Roobah
    @Roobah 6 років тому +13

    Amazing kids haven't driven her insane yet. Husband making just over $2000/mo with a family of 7 isn't enough support. Excepting this place being WAY small for such a large family, at least they don't have any utility bills to pay -- the one advantage of a weekly motel rental. It would be better to find one similar priced that had continental breakfast daily. Best thing for them is to keep saving. Should be able to get into a HUD house purchase after the bankruptcy has been closed a year, probably easier than renting another place.

  • @altertheskyy1
    @altertheskyy1 6 років тому +75

    Why would you get pregnant for the 5th time when you're already homeless.... come on have some common sense

    • @cch8170
      @cch8170 4 роки тому

      It’s sad women’s rights are limited and education concerning birth control is censored or falsified to prevent it, then ignorant people like you do nothing to help & shame the victims in a pathetic attempt at superiority. This woman is doing everything she can with her husband to regain a humane lifestyle & that is nothing short of admirable.

  • @gypsya1915
    @gypsya1915 4 роки тому +5

    So you decide to have another child?!????? Cmon!!!

  • @MoneySavingVideos
    @MoneySavingVideos Рік тому +2

    They should invest in condoms.

  • @Fredmullegun
    @Fredmullegun 4 роки тому +7

    How did she get knocked up living in a single room with 4 kids? ewww

  • @bloomthrive9179
    @bloomthrive9179 4 роки тому +1

    Their littlest one must be around 5 now. Hope they have a lovely place of their own. Beautiful family🦋 Prayed for you all, I know it has been a long time since this video but hope all of well with you all!!!

  • @redhorizon7225
    @redhorizon7225 7 років тому +13

    how on earth is this even legal? what kind of life are those kids supposed to live? the government needs to help this should not be allowed by law! i cant believe this is happening in usa.

    • @cooliipie
      @cooliipie 7 років тому

      red horizon
      it's not

  • @NatashaTapps
    @NatashaTapps 4 роки тому +1

    Wow this is really sad 4 kids one on the way ..she's overwhelming already how is she's going to manage ...poor her she's so young with so much to handle 😓 I hope that they will make it...no one deserve to struggle like this in life...I'm wishing her only the best to come ...god bless this family 🙏🏻🤗❣️

  • @teresamichele4747
    @teresamichele4747 6 років тому +5

    So many judgmental comments ridiculous! I do feel sad for this family and hope things get better soon for theme! No one is perfect people make mistakes but shouldn’t judge others like that!

    • @1984marykay
      @1984marykay 3 роки тому +4

      Having unprotected sex is a poor decision, not a mistake. Clearly with 4 kids she is quite fertile n knows this. Its very irresponsible of her to have gotten pregnant. Having already lived in a motel with 4 kids for a year she was quite aware of her situation yet chose to bring another poor child into the world for my, and others tax dollars to feed, clothe n pay for medical. Be smart.

  • @paulinebeck4269
    @paulinebeck4269 3 роки тому +2

    1 child per person. Solves a lot of problems.

    • @lucianewell6084
      @lucianewell6084 3 місяці тому

      I have one child and it's tough...Rent is high

  • @pameciauknyga157
    @pameciauknyga157 3 роки тому +3

    such a beautiful family!

  • @sheenagriffith2635
    @sheenagriffith2635 Рік тому

    Beautiful family. I know it's looks dark but I wish you guys a much better life ahead of you. I will say a prayer for you.

  • @maritzagonzalez1374
    @maritzagonzalez1374 7 років тому +28

    she says her husband works 7 days a week and there's no privacy, then how in the world did she got pregnant, with so many people in the room.

    • @wade2bosh
      @wade2bosh 6 років тому +2

      send the kids to neigbors or in the car

    • @Rocket9944
      @Rocket9944 6 років тому +1

      maritza gonzalez Shower.

    • @Rocket9944
      @Rocket9944 6 років тому +1

      ARNGcandy , Why do you Call them trash? Because they don't live in a big house, at least they're still together and that's the most important no matter the size of the living conditions!

    • @karliyah8178
      @karliyah8178 6 років тому +1

      ARNGcandy that’s really disrespectful if they want to have sex then that’s there problem it shouldn’t concern you

  • @Nellie_Helsa
    @Nellie_Helsa 6 років тому

    I am so sorry your family is going through this! The bright side is you guys have hope and you are not on the street! Our prayers are with you😔

  • @odeliaantana7086
    @odeliaantana7086 4 роки тому +7

    I pray this family gets a lovely home in Jesus name ❤️

    • @Dennis-yb7jw
      @Dennis-yb7jw Рік тому

      They do have a home. It's called a hotel. They are houseless not homeless

  • @Darfanatior
    @Darfanatior 3 роки тому +1

    Beautiful family ❤️
    Hope they are thriving now.

  • @franklawing3168
    @franklawing3168 5 років тому +166

    You two need to find another hobby.

    • @ulissesarmendariz9942
      @ulissesarmendariz9942 4 роки тому +8

      Lmao

    • @lisagaedike741
      @lisagaedike741 4 роки тому +7

      You are blaming the individual? They are clearly trying. It’s the system that is keeping them down not their “hobby”

    • @LucaBrasi0
      @LucaBrasi0 4 роки тому +2

      @T C Amen.

    • @straightjacketmusic1474
      @straightjacketmusic1474 4 роки тому +9

      Lisa Gaedike yeah, the system should pay for everyone having kids irresponsibly. Lmao. Okay.

    • @lisagaedike741
      @lisagaedike741 4 роки тому +1

      T C lol im not expecting anyone to pay for me but I also realize that capitalism is designed to exploit people, and that not everyone has a choice when they fall pregnant didn’t come to your mind? Like you don’t know their life or how they came about being pregnant yet again. For being so clearly a capitalist libertarian you mind other people’s business pretty hard. Isn’t the whole idea you do your own business and don’t get involved in other people’s stuff?

  • @up-uw4op
    @up-uw4op Рік тому +1

    Now its $2000 a month for a hotel at a minimum and landlords require at least $3k a month income to rent.

  • @sandracanez4793
    @sandracanez4793 4 роки тому +13

    Why do they keep getting pregnant when they know they dont have a place to live i dont get it but i wish them the Best.

  • @janetturner6771
    @janetturner6771 3 роки тому

    Prayers for this dear family !!
    They should be able to get more help.
    The dad is doing all her can !!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @treymarrs6860
    @treymarrs6860 4 роки тому +8

    And u know taxpayers are flipping part of the bill.

  • @markbrown5117
    @markbrown5117 4 роки тому +2

    Yikes 5 kiddos. Much love to her her husband and children.

  • @thegingerd9119
    @thegingerd9119 7 років тому +43

    Your Homeless and been there for 1 year, & Pregnant! Really U shouldn't have been having sex to get pregnant when your living in a small space with your children.

  • @regeroko8409
    @regeroko8409 4 роки тому

    Everyone needs to stop judging her!! It's easy to tell her not to have kids if your not living her life! Birth control can be hard to come by if your strapped for cash and it is also not always 100% effective. Also, if they only have one vehicle because their car got repossessed it only means that she is now stuck watching the kids instead of paying for daycare for all four of them. I actually commend her for trying to keep it all together in the midst of all the turmoil. It takes a great amount of strength, courage, love, compassion and understanding to follow your husband through "Thick and Thin- for better or for worse!" Many cowardice people would have left their partner, the father of their children due to the financial struggle looking for a way out.... But not her.. she stuck it through... Being a good wifey, tending to her husband's and children's needs.. doing the best with the little they have. In those situations even applying for assistance is a hard tasks with a disconnected cell phone due to non-payment and no babysitter. Yes, it's hard but LOVE is greater! And God can supply All needs according to His riches in glory, even when your in a rut.

  • @1977TA
    @1977TA 2 роки тому +7

    Gotta put a stop to the breeding when you already have too many kids and you’re homeless. The more mouths she and her husband make the more difficult this situation becomes for them.
    I’m currently at the end of the eviction rope getting ready so spend my last night the apartment I’ve had since 2009. In a few hours I will be officially homeless. Fortunately I don’t have any kids.
    I still have a job but with the eviction on my record it’s going to be virtually impossible to get into another apartment. On the bright side I’m going to look at room for rent tomorrow.

  • @ritaturner9906
    @ritaturner9906 4 роки тому +1

    God Bless her and her family!

  • @vegvixxxen829
    @vegvixxxen829 7 років тому +24

    why would u want to subject your children to this.. how does having more kids help the situation omg. stop relying on other ppl. that's horrible

  • @selvarajkannan9923
    @selvarajkannan9923 2 роки тому

    A setting Sun is not a symbol of an end rather it symbolises a new in fresh beginning that is God’s love 💅.My heart prompts me the right feelings about validate your family and I sweat while watching this video.Thank Q for sharing your talent.

  • @kevindaniel8854
    @kevindaniel8854 4 роки тому +3

    I've lived in a hotel during a tough time. It's a hard time while looking for housing because living in a hotel/motel is more expensive than renting. Which she is just mentioning it now.

  • @scarlettviolet5899
    @scarlettviolet5899 4 роки тому +1

    It's hard... I know first hand,I was homeless for three years in a motel with three kids... I met my husband and because of him I now have a great home and a good life...