Should never cheat on your wife with someone that dumped you and went to marry someone else. A person that didn’t choose you in your darkest days doesn’t deserve you in your good days.
You must think you're such a hero for "saving" your marriage. Don't think that loving your wife as an after thought is redemption for your evil, unfaithful ways. People like you and your ex don't deserve love because you have no idea what it is. Your ex will NEVER have a good and happy life, women like that, nws lub siab ces xav rawv qhov rhuav lwm tus lub neej xwb
Your ex played and got you right where she wanted. Groveling at her hands and feeling miserable with her. She straight up selfish from the get go. You knew it yourself that if she really loved you she would have waited until you can marry her. I feel bad for your wife and kids, there is a reason the past stays in the past. Someone who really love you will NEVER drag you down with them.
That's why i always believe that the ex-gf is the most powerful bc she has the ability to ruin your marriage if your husband still loves, misses, and yearns for her. I absolutely hates it.
As a therapist it’s a breach to accept clients you have bias or prejudice towards ei. Family members, friends and ESPECIALLY exes!!! You should know this, this is one of the first things they teach you.
You shouldn’t have taken her as a patient because that’s a conflict of interest. Not only that, but telling us what she said and what happened during the therapy session is unethical and against HIPPA violation.
Wouldn't matter if she does or doesn't. Even if she managed to find out she'll not divorce him or leave him. She's a Hmong woman and these women are too desperate for a man that they'll put up with the lies, cheating and abused. She'll never leave them for it's better to stayed with her abuser than being a divorcee. If she's a smart woman she'll kicked him to the curb. But you know the old saying goes folks always want what they didn't have and tried to reclaimed what's lost expecting glory and undying love which isn't gonna be the same. Hello, lots of time gone by, people changed. Your ex just selfish and only out to destroyed your marriage because she feels no shame and played the guilt and victim card on you. You being a counselor truly sucks. You shouldn't be entrusted with that degree.
As a professional, you should not have accepted her as a client. As a man, as a human, you should have stopped the sessions as soon as you started having feelings. I HOPE your wife hears this and leaves you and tells your work. There's no excuse for what you did. It's clear as day...selfishness. Cheating behind her back means you are okay deceiving her, which is not love.
Remember that she is the one who choose to leave you in your moment of darkness. If she loved you as much as she can tell sweet lies, she would have waited for you. Sometimes Heaven remove people from our lives because they are not good for us. She’s using you and you are actively destroying your marriages. How she cheated with you is how she will cheat on you.
Brother aws, cas yuav ruam ua luaj, nws tsuas xav siv koj xwb os. Yog nws hlub Koj tiag li nws hais, ces nws yeej tos Koj thaum pib lawm, nco qab ntshoov tias ib tus neeg zoo tiag yeej yuav tsis ntxeev siab rau nws tus txij tus nkawd. Kev plam ces tabtom yuav los rau koj ib yam li koj tau ua zias lawm tsis pub koj tus pojniam paub os
I feel so sorry for the wife. Marrying someone who is unfaithful is the worst and knowing the husband loves his ex more is so hurtful. Commuting adultery for any reason is not okay. You don’t respect or love your spouse enough for you to be able to cheat.
Just because you couldn't afford a head downy, doesn't mean she can leave. She left you in the first place because she doesn't love you. If a person really loves you, rich or poor, she will stay or wait. This kind of person is not worth it.
As I’m listening to this story, the guy just threw away his diamond and picked up a rock that once was used to hit him. The only person I feel sympathy for is the wife, loving and living with him cluelessly during his affair. Omg, I’m pained with the wife, UNACCEPTABLE! To the owner of this story, no kind words or thoughts for you, especially you’re someone with a high education and helps people through these kind of situations too, you’re messed up!!!
Thank you for sharing your deepest love for all viewers to learn from for not to go through with it as you did. YoU found the courage to stay with your wife. No body is perfect. You are a spiritually being in human experienced.
Shame on you dude. I feel sorry for your wife, I hope she finds out sooner or later. You’ll never find happiness if you don’t appreciate what you already have.
Omg, this is sad. He's not an honest person to his wife or himself.. he don't deserve his, wife. What if that was his wife that cheated on him. This man don't deserve a good women
Exactly. His guilt made him tell this story. I hope his wife finds her old love and gets with him to see if this man forgives her for missing out on the love of her life and than comes back to pretend to love him too.
I can’t believe you cheated on your wife. No matter how innocent you claim your love to be, you sinned by cheating on your wife. There’s no excuse. One day… when your wife finds out and leaves you, you’ll miss her 10 fold more than you’ve ever missed your ex gf. Your karma is coming for you
Can't believe you kept falling for her. She cheated on her husband by kept calling your name. That is the one thing hmong men can't stand. While she is Im a relationship, she continues to cheat with you, even the Night before her wedding Can't believe this doesn't gross you out
Tos nws tus txiv tsis hlub los twb vim ib txwm tsis yog pojniam txim txiaj ne. Yov mus yuav txiv zaum ob los txeem rov qa lub cev tsis qab tsis huv mus rau tus txiv thib ob dua thiab ces thov kom koj zaj neej txhob yog zaj qub os lov. Yog tus txiv neej yov yuav koj es nws rov mus nrog lawv tus pojniam pw ua zaug kawg tag mam los yuav koj no koj paub koj puas xav hlub xav yuav niag txiv neej ntawd?
Why would he be grossed out, he was just comforting his clients. He wouldn’t care, it’s just another cookie. He’s now having May announce here that that ex client need to meet him at the park or hotel; he misses her cookie.
Another Dr. Drama. I'm deeply entertained by our educated Hmong. This highly unprofessional, zero ethics guy who's about to lose his license wants more of old the flame and is hoping that May would convey his desires to the vulnerable victim so she'll contact him for more one night stands. After all, if she's the one calling him, he's in the clear, right? What a coward. No wonder she left him for another guy in the first place. That was the right decision. He didn't deserve her. No balls. Which man with balls would go to the girl he loves and says, I'm too poor so can't marry you? A man with balls would go to her with a proposal and say, "i love you and i promise that I'll marry you in three years time. Wait for me to finish my education." No woman would turn that proposal down, esp if she does love him. Hope this woman eventually turns on him and make him lose his license, which would be his karma for taking advantage of a client who is mentally unwell due to massive stress.
@@ytv1610 haha have you heard of all the doctors who all cheat on each other with their BIL and SIL in the same house???? Education isn’t a key to morals and values. When the person has the temptation and gives in that’s who they are no matter how educated they are.
Kuv nkag siab tus txiv neej no vim luag yuam siab ua zoo rau yus es ntxuav nws txoj kev txhaum los yeej nyuaj kawg li yuav yus nkag siab tej yam nyuaj li no mas yuav yog yus mag ob yam tib si thiaj nkag siab
Where was your ethical obligation to yourself and your profession? This dual relationship should have been prevented when you received and reviewed her chart. This is completely illegal and against all rules of counseling. You should hope that your exgf does not ever report you to your board. Even if she consented to a sexual relationship with you, it was during a time where she was very vulnerable AND you guys had history together. WOW. Go back to read your code of conduct and ethical obligations. Cas koj yuav tau luag tuaj qhia koj zaj story os ntuj aw.
Ib leeg muaj ib zaj neej neeg yog thaum mloog tas lawm qhov twg zoo ces khaws cias ua kev kawm xwb sawv daws txhob thuam tus neeg ua nws muaj lub neej tu siab dhaus los mog
That guilt you have for what you did will eat away at you. This guy should have never done what he did! There’s a reason you and your ex love did not work out. Unfortunately things that you do in the dark will ultimately come out in unexpected ways.
5555 Muab hais txiv neej tseem qhia os Tiam si poj niam ceg npog mus txog hnub tuag os Koj yeej hais yog maj tiam si tsi hais poj niam lo txiv lo yeej muaj tug phem tug zoo... Tiam ua neej nyob nyias muaj nyias txoj kev tu siab mog Tug txiv piv tsi tau koj, koj piv tsi tau nws vim koj txoj tsi thooj nws koj tsi thooj nws os lov
Yeej muaj 1 co txiv leej tub daisiab tshaj plaws!! Yog leej twg tau hlub g tau yuav ces xav muab nws nyiav ciaj os lawv!! Vim dua rhe 1 Nplooj siab hlub!!!! Txawm li cas los hlub tus tuav ntawm tes ntxo ntawm ncauj thiaj yog qhov tiag2 nawb 1 tsoom nkauj muam nraug nus!!!!
The starting of this story already showing you as a therapist violated the code of ethics by boundary crossing. Better be careful there or you will lose your license!
Life a a Hmong fantasy drama. Temptations… emotional feelings where u can not stop and focus is dangerous. That’s why ppl make so many mistakes. All these life lessons but still never learn. Smh…
In the mental health profession, a clinician cannot see clients who they know. He allowed his emotions to take over and committed crimes against his clients. That's a felony. He better hope and pray that his ex keep the secret sealed. And his wife doesn't find out. He would lose every thing and possibly face felony charges. His work would be sued for breaking policy against clients.
May koj laj neej neeg no Ua rau kuv tig mus rau lub sij sawm kuv 16 Xyoo nyob roob tauj pav kheb pam naus os Cas tig tsis tau lub caij ntawm lawm na Ua tsaug
Tus poj nrauj ntawv xav los ua kom koj lub neej puas xwb, kom koj nrauj koj poj niam xwb..es nws los yuav koj tab sis koj ho tso tsis tau koj poj niam es nws thiaj li ua ib siab lawm xwb...
Qhov ko yos qhov txiv neej siab phem toj tshaj plawg Yos koj tug poj niam rov ntsib nws tus qub hluag nraug es li koj ua ko rau koj tshe yuav tuag sawv ntsug li os
Nkawv no muaj kev txhaum yaj, txhaum yeeb, thiab tseem txhaum laj fai num tib si. Saum neej tej zaum dim txim vim neej tsis paub. Nruab yeeb, ces tsuam tob mam txiav xwb ncaj lawm-
Luag twb tsis hlub yus es luag thiaj mus yuav lwm tus lawm yog li ntawv koj tseem rov hlub nws thiab ces koj yeej tsis yog ib tus neeg tseem ceeb dabsi, ua cas koj ho tsis hlub koj tus poj niam.
Why that EX wanna come back into his life? Ain’t she stressing cos her life is falling apart cos her hub cheated on her? Do she even think what his wife would feel? These two are perfect for each other
She purposely seek him out and he never loved his wife, just settled to be married. If he truly love his wife, he would never try to engage with her again. Hope they can end up together so the wife can be free.
Agreed... !! That would be a true clinical therapist standard practices. The ACA code of ethics should apply at all time. He is not professional enough. He is not a true Therapist. He had just committed a felony. He needs to turn his license in and go seek help.
Txiv neej feem coob yeej hlub, nco thiab khuv xim tu g hlub g yuav lawv xwb os, (koj coj li no rau koj tu poj niam ho lwm tus sab tov lo kuj nco khuv xim koj koj tu poj niam yam g pub lawv tu poj niam paub thiab) txiv neej hmoob yeej g sawm zoo
I have no pity for this guy and his ex-gf. If they both loved each other so much, why didn’t they continue dating until the time was right. Doesn’t matter if it takes 5yrs or 10yrs to save up, you hold on to each other. If she was a good woman, she would not had gotten involved with old flames while he is still married. She is no differ from her ex-husband.
I believe your job profession is or similar to a MHC. It is unethical to accept her as a client as it is considered interest of conflict. Somewhat you knew it could be her, but once it was confirmed, you continued to provided therapy for her. What you failed to do in a job affected your personal life significantly. Your job is to treat her, not exacerbated the situation. I hope you have learned from your mistake as I truly feel sorry for your wife. If you truly love your wife, you’d do the right thing by being honest and telling her. What she decides afterwards is her right.
He ain't gonna tell his wife now that his ex is married. He knew that if he told his wife of what happened she would have left him 110%. He probably just gonna keep his mouth shut...until she divorces again or something happen to his wife. So SAD!!
Tsis yog os cov ua ntse tsis mas thiaj xav li ko xwb os kuv mas tsis zoo li ko ib sim neej nawb nws yog tus lim hiam thiab tus dhau lawm xwb mas tseev nws zoo nkauj nawb nws yog quav lawm xwb koj yuav tsum hlub koj tus poj niam tshaj plaws mas kom nws thiaj haj yam khuv xim koj nawb thaub nawb ho koj tseem yuam kev thiab ces tag lau mus noj quav es txhob noj mov lawm os yawg..
Should never cheat on your wife with someone that dumped you and went to marry someone else. A person that didn’t choose you in your darkest days doesn’t deserve you in your good days.
Right on… Very true!
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This story proves man falls easily into temptation…
More like a woman is too easy to conquer.
Tus pour niam dev thiab tus txiv tsev dev thiab maux dev siab npem tiag tag
It’s disappointing to hear this!
You must think you're such a hero for "saving" your marriage. Don't think that loving your wife as an after thought is redemption for your evil, unfaithful ways. People like you and your ex don't deserve love because you have no idea what it is. Your ex will NEVER have a good and happy life, women like that, nws lub siab ces xav rawv qhov rhuav lwm tus lub neej xwb
I have no sympathy or empathy towards people in stories like this where there's cheating involved. The only person I feel sorry for is his wife.
Your ex played and got you right where she wanted. Groveling at her hands and feeling miserable with her. She straight up selfish from the get go. You knew it yourself that if she really loved you she would have waited until you can marry her. I feel bad for your wife and kids, there is a reason the past stays in the past. Someone who really love you will NEVER drag you down with them.
Txoj kev tu siab ntawm ib tug poj niam ua tus txiv tseem nco qub hluas nkauj nim tsis paub tias txim txom npaum cas os😢😢
That's why i always believe that the ex-gf is the most powerful bc she has the ability to ruin your marriage if your husband still loves, misses, and yearns for her. I absolutely hates it.
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As a therapist it’s a breach to accept clients you have bias or prejudice towards ei. Family members, friends and ESPECIALLY exes!!! You should know this, this is one of the first things they teach you.
You shouldn’t have taken her as a patient because that’s a conflict of interest. Not only that, but telling us what she said and what happened during the therapy session is unethical and against HIPPA violation.
I hope his wife listens to May stories so she hear this cuz I’m sure she definitely will know it’s her husband that was cheating…
Yep, can't wait for the wife's reply.
Wouldn't matter if she does or doesn't. Even if she managed to find out she'll not divorce him or leave him. She's a Hmong woman and these women are too desperate for a man that they'll put up with the lies, cheating and abused. She'll never leave them for it's better to stayed with her abuser than being a divorcee. If she's a smart woman she'll kicked him to the curb. But you know the old saying goes folks always want what they didn't have and tried to reclaimed what's lost expecting glory and undying love which isn't gonna be the same. Hello, lots of time gone by, people changed. Your ex just selfish and only out to destroyed your marriage because she feels no shame and played the guilt and victim card on you. You being a counselor truly sucks. You shouldn't be entrusted with that degree.
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As a professional, you should not have accepted her as a client. As a man, as a human, you should have stopped the sessions as soon as you started having feelings. I HOPE your wife hears this and leaves you and tells your work. There's no excuse for what you did. It's clear as day...selfishness. Cheating behind her back means you are okay deceiving her, which is not love.
Agreed 💯
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 I strongly agree with you!!
Yup. Conflict of interest.
I agree!
I hope this doctor read this. He’s still Hmong which means hmong people are not professional enough.
Remember that she is the one who choose to leave you in your moment of darkness. If she loved you as much as she can tell sweet lies, she would have waited for you. Sometimes Heaven remove people from our lives because they are not good for us. She’s using you and you are actively destroying your marriages. How she cheated with you is how she will cheat on you.
Yuav npam laus thaub koj nas!! God is watching!!
Brother aws, cas yuav ruam ua luaj, nws tsuas xav siv koj xwb os. Yog nws hlub Koj tiag li nws hais, ces nws yeej tos Koj thaum pib lawm, nco qab ntshoov tias ib tus neeg zoo tiag yeej yuav tsis ntxeev siab rau nws tus txij tus nkawd. Kev plam ces tabtom yuav los rau koj ib yam li koj tau ua zias lawm tsis pub koj tus pojniam paub os
Koj lub siab lim hiam heev li os
Ladies, beware when your husband is showering you with gifts, you know what that means!!
For realz; when he’s being extra, it’s because he has been eating out.
Laughed and like. Yog kawg yom.
......Not all true
Neb txojkev hlub tshua tsis sib tau mob siab heev li o...tabsis tseem mob tus niam tsev ruam2 tom tsev tshaj.
yog tshaj plaws
I feel so sorry for the wife. Marrying someone who is unfaithful is the worst and knowing the husband loves his ex more is so hurtful. Commuting adultery for any reason is not okay. You don’t respect or love your spouse enough for you to be able to cheat.
Just because you couldn't afford a head downy, doesn't mean she can leave. She left you in the first place because she doesn't love you. If a person really loves you, rich or poor, she will stay or wait. This kind of person is not worth it.
As I’m listening to this story, the guy just threw away his diamond and picked up a rock that once was used to hit him. The only person I feel sympathy for is the wife, loving and living with him cluelessly during his affair. Omg, I’m pained with the wife, UNACCEPTABLE! To the owner of this story, no kind words or thoughts for you, especially you’re someone with a high education and helps people through these kind of situations too, you’re messed up!!!
Thank you for sharing your deepest love for all viewers to learn from for not to go through with it as you did. YoU found the courage to stay with your wife. No body is perfect. You are a spiritually being in human experienced.
Shame on you dude. I feel sorry for your wife, I hope she finds out sooner or later. You’ll never find happiness if you don’t appreciate what you already have.
Omg, this is sad. He's not an honest person to his wife or himself.. he don't deserve his, wife. What if that was his wife that cheated on him. This man don't deserve a good women
Exactly. His guilt made him tell this story. I hope his wife finds her old love and gets with him to see if this man forgives her for missing out on the love of her life and than comes back to pretend to love him too.
I can’t believe you cheated on your wife. No matter how innocent you claim your love to be, you sinned by cheating on your wife. There’s no excuse. One day… when your wife finds out and leaves you, you’ll miss her 10 fold more than you’ve ever missed your ex gf. Your karma is coming for you
If a spouse is unhappy in a marriage they have every right to walk away. It's their body, their choice right?
Exactly! What goes around comes around.
Hey sweet heart you looking good how about meand you get together and hang out.
Of course the ex is blameless right? She hasn't provoked him right?
@@anasiangirly if you're not happy in your marriage, end it. Don't cheat.
Can't believe you kept falling for her. She cheated on her husband by kept calling your name. That is the one thing hmong men can't stand. While she is Im a relationship, she continues to cheat with you, even the Night before her wedding
Can't believe this doesn't gross you out
Tos nws tus txiv tsis hlub los twb vim ib txwm tsis yog pojniam txim txiaj ne. Yov mus yuav txiv zaum ob los txeem rov qa lub cev tsis qab tsis huv mus rau tus txiv thib ob dua thiab ces thov kom koj zaj neej txhob yog zaj qub os lov. Yog tus txiv neej yov yuav koj es nws rov mus nrog lawv tus pojniam pw ua zaug kawg tag mam los yuav koj no koj paub koj puas xav hlub xav yuav niag txiv neej ntawd?
Why would he be grossed out, he was just comforting his clients. He wouldn’t care, it’s just another cookie. He’s now having May announce here that that ex client need to meet him at the park or hotel; he misses her cookie.
Conflict of interest, unethical and unprofessional. You should be fired.
Will said!
Yep!
I feel sorry for your wife. Yog nws paub ntshe nws yauv tu siab heev
Koj mas tseem2 dr nyuab siab lau
yog kawg, nkaws txoj kev hlub mas nyuab siab tiag hod>>>
Hlub tug niam tsev tshaj
OMG…retro old flame 🔥…you two weren’t met to be together from the beginning, bro 😎!
She chose another man and her life didn't go right for her so now she wants you to ua chaw tiag taw until she finds someone new
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Very sad for your wife. You should e kept it professional and be faithful to your wife smh
Ab ntuj aw
Zaj dab neeg no hai tau tu kuv siab tshaj plwas li os tub mi nus aww 😭😭😭😭
Another Dr. Drama. I'm deeply entertained by our educated Hmong. This highly unprofessional, zero ethics guy who's about to lose his license wants more of old the flame and is hoping that May would convey his desires to the vulnerable victim so she'll contact him for more one night stands. After all, if she's the one calling him, he's in the clear, right? What a coward. No wonder she left him for another guy in the first place. That was the right decision. He didn't deserve her. No balls. Which man with balls would go to the girl he loves and says, I'm too poor so can't marry you? A man with balls would go to her with a proposal and say, "i love you and i promise that I'll marry you in three years time. Wait for me to finish my education." No woman would turn that proposal down, esp if she does love him. Hope this woman eventually turns on him and make him lose his license, which would be his karma for taking advantage of a client who is mentally unwell due to massive stress.
He's not a doctor. You give him too much credits. I would hope a doctor would uphold higher ethics.
@@ytv1610 I highly doubt it. So many Hmong drs with baby wives out there.
@@ytv1610 haha have you heard of all the doctors who all cheat on each other with their BIL and SIL in the same house???? Education isn’t a key to morals and values. When the person has the temptation and gives in that’s who they are no matter how educated they are.
she couldn't wait for you. she's only back with you because her marriage didn't workout. it's time you wake up now
Ntuj aw tus txiv neej uas zoo tshaj plaws ces kawg li no lawm xwb os cov sisters aw.
Kuv nkag siab tus txiv neej no vim luag yuam siab ua zoo rau yus es ntxuav nws txoj kev txhaum los yeej nyuaj kawg li yuav yus nkag siab tej yam nyuaj li no mas yuav yog yus mag ob yam tib si thiaj nkag siab
Kwv tij hmoob koj zaj neej neeg no más yuav laus zoo lis kuv zaj thiab os ntuj aws.
Cas yuav zoo lis no os mog...
Bruhhhh hmong men aint shiiii
I guess you feel so guilty you have to share your sins to see if you can redeem yourself. Cheater lub siab phem.
Good job brother
I hope your wife hears your story for betraying her.
thov kom muaj ib tus txiv neej mus tham nws tus poj niam koj tsim nyog qhov koj ua phem nawj
Siab txiv neej Sayao pob?tsis siab txiv néej Sony.
she's going to go be a good wife but after she uses you
I can’t stand married women cheating with another married man. If your man is in that line of job check him! Lol it might be your husband
Women like that are dogs-maum dlev xwb nas sister.
Txiv neej mas siab phem tshaj,
Thov txhob cua qub kiav roj tsam mob plab. Ua 1 siab thiaj g kho siab tshaj!!
nrog kj tus poj niam tu siab ua luaj
Where was your ethical obligation to yourself and your profession? This dual relationship should have been prevented when you received and reviewed her chart. This is completely illegal and against all rules of counseling. You should hope that your exgf does not ever report you to your board. Even if she consented to a sexual relationship with you, it was during a time where she was very vulnerable AND you guys had history together. WOW. Go back to read your code of conduct and ethical obligations.
Cas koj yuav tau luag tuaj qhia koj zaj story os ntuj aw.
Tus txiv neej siab tiag tiag ua miv yai roj
Ib leeg muaj ib zaj neej neeg yog thaum mloog tas lawm qhov twg zoo ces khaws cias ua kev kawm xwb sawv daws txhob thuam tus neeg ua nws muaj lub neej tu siab dhaus los mog
Tu siab tag sim, khum xim tus neeg uas yus plam. Lwm tiam tso mam los hlub koj dua
That guilt you have for what you did will eat away at you. This guy should have never done what he did! There’s a reason you and your ex love did not work out. Unfortunately things that you do in the dark will ultimately come out in unexpected ways.
Cov dev li tus txiv neej no tsis muaj kev tu siab os..
5555
Muab hais txiv neej tseem qhia os
Tiam si poj niam ceg npog mus txog hnub tuag os
Koj yeej hais yog maj tiam si tsi hais poj niam lo txiv lo yeej muaj tug phem tug zoo...
Tiam ua neej nyob nyias muaj nyias txoj kev tu siab mog
Tug txiv piv tsi tau koj, koj piv tsi tau nws vim koj txoj tsi thooj nws koj tsi thooj nws os lov
Kv nrog kj tus niam tsev tu siab v
Yeej muaj 1 co txiv leej tub daisiab tshaj plaws!! Yog leej twg tau hlub g tau yuav ces xav muab nws nyiav ciaj os lawv!! Vim dua rhe 1 Nplooj siab hlub!!!!
Txawm li cas los hlub tus tuav ntawm tes ntxo ntawm ncauj thiaj yog qhov tiag2 nawb 1 tsoom nkauj muam nraug nus!!!!
This should be a movie…sad
The starting of this story already showing you as a therapist violated the code of ethics by boundary crossing. Better be careful there or you will lose your license!
I was thinking the same.
OMG!! What a liar and a cheater!! Feel disgusted and sorry for the wife! 😡
Zoo lawm os qhov kj tseem ua zoo rau kj tus niam tsev ruam22 os
Life a a Hmong fantasy drama. Temptations… emotional feelings where u can not stop and focus is dangerous. That’s why ppl make so many mistakes. All these life lessons but still never learn. Smh…
Tsi tau nyob ua ke thiaj sib nco xwb yog rov sib tau ces paub siab lawm ces miv thiab dev xwb os thaub
Aub niag txiv dev no mas xiam tshaj plaws, thov kom koj tus poj niam lub koj laig mus nawb xiam tiag tiag
In the mental health profession, a clinician cannot see clients who they know. He allowed his emotions to take over and committed crimes against his clients. That's a felony. He better hope and pray that his ex keep the secret sealed. And his wife doesn't find out. He would lose every thing and possibly face felony charges. His work would be sued for breaking policy against clients.
He knew that. That’s why he transferred her to someone else but in the same office.
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@@maivue284 but he didn't do it right away. It was much much later.
@@maivue284 go do your research about clients and mental health clinician sexual relationships. Is it legal or not then come back and respond again.
HE LIED! He shared your issues with the world on this channel. 😆🤣😂😹
Is there not a conflict of interest on this guys job? OMG I can’t even finish this story. What a dog ! What a dog!!!
May koj laj neej neeg no Ua rau kuv tig mus rau lub sij sawm kuv 16 Xyoo nyob roob tauj pav kheb pam naus os
Cas tig tsis tau lub caij ntawm lawm na
Ua tsaug
Maybe you need to go see a therapist.
Leej twg yog tus siab phem ces tus ntawv yog tus neej tsis zoo thiab khuv xim hlub tus yus tau tus ntawv yog yus tus
Tus poj nrauj ntawv xav los ua kom koj lub neej puas xwb, kom koj nrauj koj poj niam xwb..es nws los yuav koj tab sis koj ho tso tsis tau koj poj niam es nws thiaj li ua ib siab lawm xwb...
Qhov ko yos qhov txiv neej siab phem toj tshaj plawg
Yos koj tug poj niam rov ntsib nws tus qub hluag nraug es li koj ua ko rau koj tshe yuav tuag sawv ntsug li os
Kuv tus txiv dev siab phem li koj kiag
Mloog tau kho siab khuav xb o
Yig kawg yog ib txog kev hlub tus siab kawg yod!!!!!
สงสารคนที่เป็นเมีย ถ้ามารู้ทีหลังจะเสียใจขนาดไหน🙁แต่ก็ยังดีที่ยังเห็นเมียสำคัญ
ntuj aw tug poj niam nó mà niag txiv tsi paub swb og yog paub yeej tsi yuav .ntxim ntxub dhau lm
Iol...you just told us.. client-confidential?
Nkawv no muaj kev txhaum yaj, txhaum yeeb, thiab tseem txhaum laj fai num tib si. Saum neej tej zaum dim txim vim neej tsis paub. Nruab yeeb, ces tsuam tob mam txiav xwb ncaj lawm-
Luag twb tsis hlub yus es luag thiaj mus yuav lwm tus lawm yog li ntawv koj tseem rov hlub nws thiab ces koj yeej tsis yog ib tus neeg tseem ceeb dabsi, ua cas koj ho tsis hlub koj tus poj niam.
I feel sorry for your wife.
Tus pog no nws yeej xav ua txhua yam ua kom koj txhob tso tau nws tseg xwb.
Neb yog dev xwb os ob nyiag tsiaj
Tu niam tsev aw ca koj tu txiv nim puag koj nco lwm tu ca kuv yuav pab koj mob siab ua luaj li
Why that EX wanna come back into his life? Ain’t she stressing cos her life is falling apart cos her hub cheated on her? Do she even think what his wife would feel? These two are perfect for each other
She purposely seek him out and he never loved his wife, just settled to be married. If he truly love his wife, he would never try to engage with her again. Hope they can end up together so the wife can be free.
Broken heart but cannot tell the wife. 😂
I am a clinical therapist for mental health , we are not, absolutely not able shared confidentiality of the client even if name are not mentioned
Agreed... !! That would be a true clinical therapist standard practices. The ACA code of ethics should apply at all time.
He is not professional enough. He is not a true Therapist. He had just committed a felony.
He needs to turn his license in and go seek help.
This lady was trying to get you again…
Poj niam liam tshaj txivneej ntau npaug tabsis txivneeg tsi hais txog pojniam kev liam xwb.
Wait, you just said you won’t share anything that was discussed during the therapy session, but you just told it here.
There was no name mentioned…still confidential
Txiv dev thiab Maum dev thov kom koj pojniam paub txog koj thiab koj tus Maum dev
I know the feeling, once upon a time ago…..
Txiv neej feem coob yeej hlub, nco thiab khuv xim tu g hlub g yuav lawv xwb os, (koj coj li no rau koj tu poj niam ho lwm tus sab tov lo kuj nco khuv xim koj koj tu poj niam yam g pub lawv tu poj niam paub thiab) txiv neej hmoob yeej g sawm zoo
I was rooting for you! 😡
Tus tsev koj Zan neeg no ces koj tus niam hnov kawg nws hloov siab thiab mob siab xwb lauv
Now ur wife knows… cause you revealed your job.
Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj tus txiv tsev kj ma siab phem tiag2
I have no pity for this guy and his ex-gf. If they both loved each other so much, why didn’t they continue dating until the time was right. Doesn’t matter if it takes 5yrs or 10yrs to save up, you hold on to each other. If she was a good woman, she would not had gotten involved with old flames while he is still married. She is no differ from her ex-husband.
Kj ua kj tes hauj lwm g ncaj ncees,
I believe your job profession is or similar to a MHC. It is unethical to accept her as a client as it is considered interest of conflict. Somewhat you knew it could be her, but once it was confirmed, you continued to provided therapy for her. What you failed to do in a job affected your personal life significantly. Your job is to treat her, not exacerbated the situation. I hope you have learned from your mistake as I truly feel sorry for your wife. If you truly love your wife, you’d do the right thing by being honest and telling her. What she decides afterwards is her right.
He ain't gonna tell his wife now that his ex is married. He knew that if he told his wife of what happened she would have left him 110%. He probably just gonna keep his mouth shut...until she divorces again or something happen to his wife. So SAD!!
Tsis yog os cov ua ntse tsis mas thiaj xav li ko xwb os kuv mas tsis zoo li ko ib sim neej nawb nws yog tus lim hiam thiab tus dhau lawm xwb mas tseev nws zoo nkauj nawb nws yog quav lawm xwb koj yuav tsum hlub koj tus poj niam tshaj plaws mas kom nws thiaj haj yam khuv xim koj nawb thaub nawb ho koj tseem yuam kev thiab ces tag lau mus noj quav es txhob noj mov lawm os yawg..