Pls do more on 8th house… like series of planets in 8th house? Like i feel like u have so MUCH of knowledge about 8th house as a placement more than other ppl on youtube who claim to ‘understand’ 8th house with things that are stereotypical and honestly so surface level. You made me feel so understood❤️
Thanks for helping me understand myself more 🙏I’m truly grateful 🥰 north node 8th house. I’ll have to do some research but just wanted to let you know I can pass on messages and communicate with people who have passed. I use this gift very wisely ❤️❤️🧚♀️
Another excellent video! So glad I found your channel. I love how knowledgeable you are. I'm a Virgo sun with 5 planets and 4 asteroids in the 8th house. I've always had a passion for psychology. In the beginning I was afraid because I didn't understand how to work with this energy. But through intensive research, I've discovered just how much good I can do with it. I find my true calling to be spiritual counseling and healing.
Wow this actually helped me understand myself a lot more. I have my IC in scorpio along with mars, mercury, saturn & ceres in aries 8th house. Thank you so much for this video!!! 💛
So there's a couple of things that you said in this video that as an eighth houser or myself, who has Mars, Saturn retrograde, and Pluto retrograde in Scorpio that I want to comment on. Also I am going to be talking about sex, because in this video you brought it up, so I'm assuming it will not bother you because it is relevant to the context of this video. I also will be using some of my personal experiences as an example (without going into two much explicit detail of course), but I'm only doing this, because I can only speak from my own experience.Years ago I did this very same thing, and let's say I got a lot of backlash for something that I didn't deserve. 1. I think you said it in this video but I'm not sure, but what never made any sense to me is when an astrologer says that you're supposed to NOT use this energy for sex, but use this SEXual energy to expanding your career. You cannot use SEXual energy to expand your career at the office, it is SEXual energy intended for sex. I'm sorry, but when I find a woman, I will just say "attractive", my first thoughts are not "oh great, let's use this feeling to help get a promotion at my work" 2. Manipulation and Seduction are two different things, manipulation involves a trick, seduction is letting a person know that you want something (or just them), and they decide on their own free will if they want it to. But when you say for 8 housers not to use it in a lower manner, to me it almost sounds like you're saying not to use it in like a fifth house manner, where it's more like wham bam thank you ma'am, and within that context I would agree, that would be fifth house sex not eight, and beside the fifth house came before the 8th, so in a way you could say it is lower than the 8th. I look at sex as a tool for healing, in a lot of ways I have encountered a lot of women who have been emotionally and psychologically damaged by other men. A few of these women, through the act of sex with me, had a few of them feeling that not every man out there is out to hurt them. The reason for this, is because the trauma came externally from other people, so internally they were overly protective from trusting or feeling open to another person, but when the external environment changed, basically I came in, I showed them on a subconscious level that not everybody was there to hurt them, that is the true purpose of eighth House sex, its transformation. But I also learn we have to be careful with people who need healing, because in my experience instead of loving the person who is healing you, they dish out their pain that was caused by another person on to you. Then we maybe the ones who later need the healing. In other ways, being the 8th houser, with all that sexual energy and magnetism, makes your partner feel extremely special when you desire them. Because subconsciously they feel, that if somebody that powerful wants them, that must say something about themselves. That's one way it can be healing psychologically. But in order for all this to work, there has to be boundaries between you and your partner and the outside world, without those boundaries it doesn't feel special no does it? But there's a reason why us eight housers (at least the ones who are on the same page as I am, using this energy for a soul connection) don't give this to just anybody, because many times like myself, we ourselves went through a lot of psychological and emotional pain so that we would understand what healing even meant in the first place. To give it to somebody, who was there only to take and not SHARE the experience, is not good for us. What also makes us seductive and magnetized, is a lot of people want it, but can't have it. I also must add, that we ourselves desire this kind of connection, but I think it's rare that we find it. I would like to hear your thoughts on the things I just said, but I'll leave that up to you if you choose to respond.
Yes! I agree with pretty much everything you said. The only additional thing I will add is sexual energy can be used for manifestion and magnetizing things toward yourself, it is your creative energy. That is why people who are highly aware of this don’t give it away to everyone and anyone ~ like you said. So it’s not a matter of NOT engaging in sex itself but being mindful of what you do with this energy. Like you said as well. Absolutely it can be incredibly healing. Sexual energy, healing energy & spiritual energy are all closely connected. The sacral chakra, where your sexuality is, is also where your emotions are stored, including emotional traumas, the pleasure centre in life in general, your ability to be creative and to manifest as well. All of this is sexual energy. We live in a time where people have detached mind-body-spirit but it’s all connected. You need to have all three working together especially in relationships. It’s why hook-up culture does not work. Interestingly enough! I made a video on sexual energy siphoning on the earth plane earlier this week and will be posting it next week. I’m not sure why you’ve received backlash in the past ~ people these days are unable to share their own perspectives on things and have a discussion. We are all unique and have our own views and no one has the ultimate truth.
@@barbarajsc I agree the hookup culture doesn't work. I know what I'm about to say has nothing to do with eighth House or Scorpio, but I am an aquarius Moon/ Venus Aquarius 11th houser. The words I hear being thrown around about Aquarius anything are things like polygamy, being a player, not committing etc etc. Now all that might be the case in some cases it doesn't necessarily mean that. It could just literally mean having a lot of options, and in fact having options could mean that maybe at one time you pursued someone and they were not interested only for later on to be interested. By that time you've already tried so many times, and now you have people who want to get to know you because they had a change of heart. Having options doesn't mean you're a player and it doesn't mean you're into polygamy, nor does this mean you're just trying to "hook up". Because some of those options aren't even good, some of those options are probably complete nightmares, but the Universe/God gave you those options for a reason. Sometimes those options are there just to observe you and learn, some of these options you will have an actual connection with. Sometimes it's because Free Will gets in the way, especially when those options know that you have all these options and are afraid to approach you because somehow they think you probably have a girlfriend already or are talking to someone but are not, it's so they never come to talk to you, and it's probably because those options you have are afraid all for the same reasons. Also about that detached in love thing..... Not entirely true, sometimes it's just because of maturity. Saying someone is detached, is in some cases implying that the person was supposed to be attached in the first place. But maybe it's because our souls (Aquarius people) already know how this world works, unlike a cancer or a Scorpio who may believe that there is only one person that should ever be with them for their entire life. An aquarius person knows this isn't always the truth, so it's easier for us just to accept that with grace even if like myself, are still looking for the one. I will definitely watch your video when you decide to release it!. As far as why I got backlash for talking about sex on a video that a woman named Tina was talking about it on, I don't remember everything I said but for the most part it was all respectful. I only took one guess that when I was talking about something she said, like that with a person who doesn't know how sexual we can be, I said something on the lines of "yes, and its when I get to the bedroom that is when I hit him with a big surprise" . I don't know if she thought I was referring to my you know what, as the "big surprise" but this is why I hate typing and I like talking to people with my voice because text can often be misunderstood. And I absolutely hate miscommunication and misunderstanding She even froze up because of it, and was going to release a video on Aquarius Moon, but didn't I'm guessing because she knew I might comment on it (because of it being my sign). I talked to a woman named Meredith and I explained to her what I meant, word got around to Tina and from my understanding the misunderstanding was cleared up. But then when Meredith responded in one of her videos and said something like "let's keep the conversation PG here okay" I knew she was referring to me. I never spoke to Tina or anyone else about it who are in "that group", but I could not understand considering that the video was indeed about sex and for my memory she did mention things that weren't exactly PG, so why was I receiving so much hate again?. I agree a thousand percent about people being able to express their viewpoints, there's a lot of things in the New age community that I absolutely detest, but I love having a civil debate for both parties to get to the truth. I also know that viewpoints in a person's character can be two different things, I could disagree with a new ager completely, yet find a mutual connection another areas of life.Also I know I'm not right all the time, I would be full of shit if I did. I'm just confident in what I have to say, but I have been proven wrong before, even things I believed years ago I no longer believe today.
Thank you, Cancer sin, mars and mercury in yhe 8H. Working on digging myself out of debt.
This video is pure Gold ❤❤❤
Oh no..I’m always plotting.
Me, my mom, and my dad all have 8th house stelliums. I can see your description in all of us.
Pls do more on 8th house… like series of planets in 8th house? Like i feel like u have so MUCH of knowledge about 8th house as a placement more than other ppl on youtube who claim to ‘understand’ 8th house with things that are stereotypical and honestly so surface level. You made me feel so understood❤️
9:35 Also, usually when I hear “Sexual energy”, I automatically think, “Portal(s)”.
8th house sun and merc aries
Thanks for helping me understand myself more 🙏I’m truly grateful 🥰 north node 8th house. I’ll have to do some research but just wanted to let you know I can pass on messages and communicate with people who have passed. I use this gift very wisely ❤️❤️🧚♀️
I have Neptune here 💞
Another excellent video! So glad I found your channel. I love how knowledgeable you are. I'm a Virgo sun with 5 planets and 4 asteroids in the 8th house. I've always had a passion for psychology. In the beginning I was afraid because I didn't understand how to work with this energy. But through intensive research, I've discovered just how much good I can do with it. I find my true calling to be spiritual counseling and healing.
Thank you !! 😊♥️♥️
Wow this actually helped me understand myself a lot more. I have my IC in scorpio along with mars, mercury, saturn & ceres in aries 8th house. Thank you so much for this video!!! 💛
Aries sun and mercury in 8th houseee
Lol I have Gemini 8th (with Jupiter). Someone just told me I talk alot which is WAY different from my childhood (quiet, reserved).
Mars in scorpio 8th house 😋
So there's a couple of things that you said in this video that as an eighth houser or myself, who has Mars, Saturn retrograde, and Pluto retrograde in Scorpio that I want to comment on. Also I am going to be talking about sex, because in this video you brought it up, so I'm assuming it will not bother you because it is relevant to the context of this video. I also will be using some of my personal experiences as an example (without going into two much explicit detail of course), but I'm only doing this, because I can only speak from my own experience.Years ago I did this very same thing, and let's say I got a lot of backlash for something that I didn't deserve.
1. I think you said it in this video but I'm not sure, but what never made any sense to me is when an astrologer says that you're supposed to NOT use this energy for sex, but use this SEXual energy to expanding your career. You cannot use SEXual energy to expand your career at the office, it is SEXual energy intended for sex. I'm sorry, but when I find a woman, I will just say "attractive", my first thoughts are not "oh great, let's use this feeling to help get a promotion at my work"
2. Manipulation and Seduction are two different things, manipulation involves a trick, seduction is letting a person know that you want something (or just them), and they decide on their own free will if they want it to. But when you say for 8 housers not to use it in a lower manner, to me it almost sounds like you're saying not to use it in like a fifth house manner, where it's more like wham bam thank you ma'am, and within that context I would agree, that would be fifth house sex not eight, and beside the fifth house came before the 8th, so in a way you could say it is lower than the 8th.
I look at sex as a tool for healing, in a lot of ways I have encountered a lot of women who have been emotionally and psychologically damaged by other men. A few of these women,
through the act of sex with me, had a few of them feeling that not every man out there is out to hurt them. The reason for this, is because the trauma came externally from other people, so internally they were overly protective from trusting or feeling open to another person, but when the external environment changed, basically I came in, I showed them on a subconscious level that not everybody was there to hurt them, that is the true purpose of eighth House sex, its transformation. But I also learn we have to be careful with people who need healing, because in my experience instead of loving the person who is healing you, they dish out their pain that was caused by another person on to you. Then we maybe the ones who later need the healing.
In other ways, being the 8th houser, with all that sexual energy and magnetism, makes your partner feel extremely special when you desire them. Because subconsciously they feel, that if somebody that powerful wants them, that must say something about themselves. That's one way it can be healing psychologically. But in order for all this to work, there has to be boundaries between you and your partner and the outside world, without those boundaries it doesn't feel special no does it?
But there's a reason why us eight housers (at least the ones who are on the same page as I am, using this energy for a soul connection) don't give this to just anybody, because many times like myself, we ourselves went through a lot of psychological and emotional pain so that we would understand what healing even meant in the first place. To give it to somebody, who was there only to take and not SHARE the experience, is not good for us. What also makes us seductive and magnetized, is a lot of people want it, but can't have it. I also must add, that we ourselves desire this kind of connection, but I think it's rare that we find it.
I would like to hear your thoughts on the things I just said, but I'll leave that up to you if you choose to respond.
Yes! I agree with pretty much everything you said.
The only additional thing I will add is sexual energy can be used for manifestion and magnetizing things toward yourself, it is your creative energy. That is why people who are highly aware of this don’t give it away to everyone and anyone ~ like you said.
So it’s not a matter of NOT engaging in sex itself but being mindful of what you do with this energy. Like you said as well. Absolutely it can be incredibly healing.
Sexual energy, healing energy & spiritual energy are all closely connected.
The sacral chakra, where your sexuality is, is also where your emotions are stored, including emotional traumas, the pleasure centre in life in general, your ability to be creative and to manifest as well. All of this is sexual energy.
We live in a time where people have detached mind-body-spirit but it’s all connected. You need to have all three working together especially in relationships. It’s why hook-up culture does not work.
Interestingly enough! I made a video on sexual energy siphoning on the earth plane earlier this week and will be posting it next week.
I’m not sure why you’ve received backlash in the past ~ people these days are unable to share their own perspectives on things and have a discussion. We are all unique and have our own views and no one has the ultimate truth.
@@barbarajsc I agree the hookup culture doesn't work. I know what I'm about to say has nothing to do with eighth House or Scorpio, but I am an aquarius Moon/ Venus Aquarius 11th houser. The words I hear being thrown around about Aquarius anything are things like polygamy, being a player, not committing etc etc. Now all that might be the case in some cases it doesn't necessarily mean that.
It could just literally mean having a lot of options, and in fact having options could mean that maybe at one time you pursued someone and they were not interested only for later on to be interested. By that time you've already tried so many times, and now you have people who want to get to know you because they had a change of heart. Having options doesn't mean you're a player and it doesn't mean you're into polygamy, nor does this mean you're just trying to "hook up". Because some of those options aren't even good, some of those options are probably complete nightmares, but the Universe/God gave you those options for a reason. Sometimes those options are there just to observe you and learn, some of these options you will have an actual connection with. Sometimes it's because Free Will gets in the way, especially when those options know that you have all these options and are afraid to approach you because somehow they think you probably have a girlfriend already or are talking to someone but are not, it's so they never come to talk to you, and it's probably because those options you have are afraid all for the same reasons.
Also about that detached in love thing..... Not entirely true, sometimes it's just because of maturity. Saying someone is detached, is in some cases implying that the person was supposed to be attached in the first place. But maybe it's because our souls (Aquarius people) already know how this world works, unlike a cancer or a Scorpio who may believe that there is only one person that should ever be with them for their entire life. An aquarius person knows this isn't always the truth, so it's easier for us just to accept that with grace even if like myself, are still looking for the one.
I will definitely watch your video when you decide to release it!.
As far as why I got backlash for talking about sex on a video that a woman named Tina was talking about it on, I don't remember everything I said but for the most part it was all respectful. I only took one guess that when I was talking about something she said, like that with a person who doesn't know how sexual we can be, I said something on the lines of "yes, and its when I get to the bedroom that is when I hit him with a big surprise" . I don't know if she thought I was referring to my you know what, as the "big surprise" but this is why I hate typing and I like talking to people with my voice because text can often be misunderstood. And I absolutely hate miscommunication and misunderstanding
She even froze up because of it, and was going to release a video on Aquarius Moon, but didn't I'm guessing because she knew I might comment on it (because of it being my sign). I talked to a woman named Meredith and I explained to her what I meant, word got around to Tina and from my understanding the misunderstanding was cleared up. But then when Meredith responded in one of her videos and said something like "let's keep the conversation PG here okay" I knew she was referring to me. I never spoke to Tina or anyone else about it who are in "that group", but I could not understand considering that the video was indeed about sex and for my memory she did mention things that weren't exactly PG, so why was I receiving so much hate again?.
I agree a thousand percent about people being able to express their viewpoints, there's a lot of things in the New age community that I absolutely detest, but I love having a civil debate for both parties to get to the truth. I also know that viewpoints in a person's character can be two different things, I could disagree with a new ager completely, yet find a mutual connection another areas of life.Also I know I'm not right all the time, I would be full of shit if I did. I'm just confident in what I have to say, but I have been proven wrong before, even things I believed years ago I no longer believe today.