I just got to say Tony Gaskins is completely right. I would not be here on his page if GOD had not lead me to his page. Im on the path of righteousness and so I seek to learn about personal growth. Before meeting God I never would've seeked for his page. Lemme tell you it hit me hard when he said God gave woman to soften a man's heart. I didn't meet my creator until my break-up of for 4Yr relationship. Really listen to Tony, he not lying. His teaching has helped my life tremendously. Aye, Thank you Tony for all that you do. There are Men listening, I know it ain't much. But sometimes god leaves the 99 to get the ONE. GOD BLESS YOU now!
I pray that you become closer to Christ in Jesus name. Take one moment at a time, don't be discouraged, and don't give up in Jesus name. Remove all of the distractions that are in your life. They are only there to be a hindrance and burden to you. God loves you, and so do I.
Cassandra Tart: Yes, was once told, "your smart a$$ mouth gonna get you in trouble." Over my shoulder, I yelled back..."a hit dog gon holla." 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️💨💨 "Coach Francesca"
A loyal Muslim follower here, Thank you so much for doing what you're doing Tony! Your message and the value of women you preach is exactly what Islam teaches. I've gotten many of my friends and family hooked to your videos because we can relate entirely!
I'm a man brother I have to give you props for these videos like you myself I learned and I was broken but it was my own fault but I have daughters and things so I appreciate what you putting out I tell them things but your videos will help them also so keep what you doing it's a blessing brother
That's the thing also. A man has daughter's, sister's, mother's and you can't try to be a shoulder to cry on for them when your not that man. I had my daughter's dad wanting to talk to a guy who she was pregnant by and he was in his face telling him what he better do and not do for my daughter and the baby. But he was never there and did nothing
We have got to listen. Watch all of these videos over and over until they get into your spirit! They all tell you to love yourself , be good to yourself and to stop being DESPERATE! Thank you Tony Gaskins. Again!
Man cant trick me now, after being hurt by my sons father. I wish I had known my power then and been more confident. Now I have no problem letting men go. Ladies I met 3 men in one week they were gone by next week lol. 2 only wanted to text here and there and the other only wanted to hang. They were shocked when I block them and still see them in person and wave with a smile. I know my worth and have created a life I love. I glow differently now and my only concern is honoring God with my purpose. This took time, I've been ghosted, asked for one night stands, or met men with no intentions. I love myself too much now to go back. My ex doesnt even bother me anymore with his grown boy tactics. He even hides his other women when he knows Im coming around. Smh, ladies be weary of men that wont introduce you to the to their child's mother. Hes probably lying about her being crazy.
Omg you sound like me. I have been the exact same way especially when I meet a man and is not consistent or shows lack of interest. I cut them off immedately and do not look back. I loved your comment
Men do what we allow them to. If you run a man off with your standards, GOOD!!! 🏃🏽🙌🏾 I'm patiently waiting for GOD to call Tony to go a minute past that hour mark! 🙏🏽🙇🏾♀️
Having a voice these men gets mad 😡 because they use to getting what they want . My ex got mad months ago n then want me to do relationships stuff . I’m like excuse me wherever you been all these months that’s where you need to be n focus on not here. So he tells me I’m DRAMA because i won’t allow him to used me anymore . In this 19 you been gone n I know you sleeping everywhere stay there n away from me BIG FACTS
Men don’t listen!! They have to be shown!!!! They will only do what we allow!! It’s time to take responsibility ladies!!! It’s so much easier said than done, but we’re shaping the future regardless of our age!!! We must set new standards for these grown boys and get them up to grown men!!! QUEENS UNITE!!! WE NEED TO WORK TOGETHER INSTEAD OF AGAINST EACH OTHER!!! 🔺DON’T BE A SIDE CHICK🔺STAY OFF YOUR BACK🔺LOVE YOURSELF🔺KNOW YOUR WORTH🔺WE ALL ARE WORTHY OF TRUE LOVE BUT IT BEGINS WITHIN US FIRST🔺WE NEED TO KNOW OUR POWER AND USE IT 🙏🏼THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR HELPING ALL OF US WITH ALL OF YOUR GEMS DAILY TONY 💎 Because of you I have gained the strength and courage to leave an 11 yr long toxic miserable relationship and I have 3 kids was a stay at home mom and had nothing to my name and I’m rebuilding from the ground up, but I feel so much better and as hard as it’s been...it’s so worth it and my life is continuing to improve!!! It’s truly a liberating feeling that words can’t not describe👑
My ex always got mad when I told him how I felt. I guess I was suppose to be quiet and keep my feelings to myself so he could do whatever he wanted. I promise you don't see how silly stuff is until you've been through it and grown. I still have work to do. I need to heal
@@denisedean8503 I believe. I mean I could sense that men are different but I did not know how extreme it was. They treat you well one day and completely flip the script. They drive you crazy and then call you CRAZY 🤦🏾♀️. Us women truly need to listen to Tony. What a blessing he truly is. He's tryna to save us from the chaos.
This is a word today. People only do what you allow for them to do. Do not give anyone that much power over your life. Get in the WORD!!!....fast, pray, and exercise to find that true balance. You need to rejuvenate your mind, body, and spirit daily. This phrase was not made for nothing, it's TRUE. Brother Tony is the truth!!!! Listen, listen listen linda!!!!
Unfortunately many of us have been dysfunctional. A lot of us became codependent. Due to not being taught how to have boundaries, and not being taught to set standards. Many people do everything and anything because society and the world teach them in order to be loved and accepted. You have to give all of you no matter what. With the help of the Lord, counseling, and men/women to minister to us about these things. We can become better. Even if you NEVER gave money to a man. Out of brokenness and being misguided chances are you gave him way more then you should have as an attempt for him to love you. Let's be better. So we can help others become better. Wisdom, knowledge, and discernment is not given to us so we can tear each other down. God gives it to us so we can lead others in the right direction, and pray for others as well. Many are hurt and broken. You will never believe what some people have been through. So pray for everyone, and pray again. Prayer changes things. Not our mouth and negative opinions.
Yes! Please please listen to Tony. If I would've known what he's teaching in my 20s...I wouldn't be 42 single successful yet dating ALL OVER AGAIN. it's work... Trust.
It was God led that I found your page 9 months ago. This is my second time commenting on your page. Before I could say anything I needed to first listen, learn and understand the wisdom that God has given you and your wife. Deep in my heart, I know what you are telling each one of us is the unequivocal truth. I understand that God put you in this position to help save lives. Continue on the purpose that God has for you and your family. Praying that everything you touch will reap 100 fold.
Some Christians want to have their cake and eat it too. They want to live without following God's word, but invoke him whenever they are in trouble. Really pathetic sometimes!
@@Glamrocs You dodged a bullet darling that's his loss. I had a church player on the praise team play me to the left after 3 days once he saw I wasn't a thot
Thank you so much Tony! I was raised in a dysfunctional family, my mum was being cheated and married to a gay. I never knew what NORMAL was. All I saw was, my mum begging for approval when she was supposed to leave the toxic relationship. Your videos gave insight about how a "Real Man" is. Thank you so much for educating me on my self worth and helping me find my purpose.
When he said; “My Wife’s baby daddy is GOD, how am I gonna compete with that!?” That part took me out!!!! 🤣🤣💀🙌🏾 love these videos. All facts. Purchased my copy of A woman’s influence! 💙
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯 So On Point. I know a lady personally who gave a guy over 20K and she was sending his so called son $ too. She also sold her house and everything in it that she worked so hard for most of her life, thinking she was gonna move with him. Nope ...!!!!!! He got all he can get out of her. Now she’s out of $, a home and all of the beautiful things that was inside. She’s not talking to her family and friends at this point Out of shame, heart break.Its so sad. Be Blessed🙏🏾💜
I’m one of those Muslims that’s a loyal listener. 💚☺️ I’m currently implementing your teaches and it’s helping me tremendously in the dating world. I appreciate the path I traveled even more now because the lessons were necessary. Thank you Tony Gaskins for all that you do.
The only thing a man understands is when you walk away for good. If he makes the decision to change and the relationship works out, that's awesome! But if you've given multiple chances and you realize that this is his character, and he doesn't want to change, then cut him off for good. They only recognize it when you are serious about what you say you will do and follow through.
Whew! I've never been to this extent of my freely financing of a man but I've been here before. A fool I used to be, but God has delivered me from this mindset. Thanks Tony, a much needed message. Thanks sister Sherrie for lending your husband to the world for us to be blessed.
I wanna be sat down too, but I’m also a Christian. I’m not into any scamming. So until God is ready to send me my companion and provider, I’ll just keep working on the three B’s and serving the Lord. 😁
The reason there is a whole lot of Baby Mama's is because women have to stop sleeping with men without protecting themselves from pregnancy especially when you consent to have sex without a condom! It is not solely the man's responsibility.
I hope God sends me a man like you. Be bless by God, you and your beautiful wife and kids. You allow God to work through yourself. You are a real help. Thank you.
YOU are so right when it comes to Christian. I have relatives that I can't talk to because they are so judgmental. I'm Christian but I don't understand the majority. It's like they can't see what they are doing ..
I really love how you explain things. It sticks in my head! Idk how you do it but thank you. Your words are needed and inspirational. I actually saw an angel number when your video popped up and something told me to scroll back up to video and watch. Must have been for me.
Tony always speaks nothing but the truth! He's giving you women the game plan with no fluff! I myself as a man, have met countless of women who would try to buy my love! I personally am not for sale,and it always shows the insecurities in those particular women! My sisters be strong, stay on your throne and allow us (men) to upgrade your crown and your palace! Never the opposite! It's okay to help your King, but leave the pawns alone!
One of my favorite scriptures is in Psalm 23:6 and it’s talking about loyal love pursuing me all the day’s of my life. I like to of course apply this in all areas of my life but especially in relationships with men. I’ve noticed that when I’ve upheld my standards based on my Bible trained conscious, it will truly show a mans intent. What’s for me will pursue me no matter the barriers. I’ve noticed that if God Is blessing me ain’t nothin I can do if he really wants to bless me. If the situation looks almost nearly impossible but it keeps pursuing, to me that’s a blessing Gods trying to give. I’ve been trying to take more notice in my life what loyal love is pursuing me and then proceed in that direction. If I have to constantly chase for it, then it’s not for me. Thank you Tony for your insight. I enjoy your videos
Tony, thank you for speaking on such a relevant and prevalent topic, especially among women. The take away for me in the video is at the time 07:41 min, when Tony describes to the tee, where most women are found, which is at the TWO ENDS OF THE SPECTRUM. 1. On one end of the spectrum, there are women who are passive, submissive, and will do anything to keep a man. 2. On the other end of the spectrum, there are women who are just fed up with men and plain crazy. 3. The middle part where only a few women are found are the Centered Women. Therefore, be aware that both ends of the spectrum are extreme and toxic. I also feel that subconsciously men know and recognize when they meet a woman from the two ends of the spectrum. The longer a woman stays at these two ends of the spectrum, the longer and harder it is for her to get to the Centre. Therefore, a woman must be vigilant, to take the time to identify, where on the spectrum she is, in the first place. She must examine herself and put the self-work to organically strive to being the Centered Woman. This takes time, patience, courage, strength and faith in God. In my opinion, this single handedly could resolve a lot of dilemmas in relationships & dating for women today.
Such a great message. It feels like I keep advancing with every video as it pertains to my healing. It makes me want to be a better woman with so much new knowledge. Thank you so much . GOD bless you, for using you to send us this message ✊🏾
What women ask you to tell men...that’s a tall order Tony! What you describe is such a fairy tale. Women have to live in realty. Acceptance is the key. It’s about what you are willing to accept from a man. Your standards dictate what you will or won’t accept. Have realistic standards and expectations.
I can watch this video a million times, he drop gems every ten seconds. women pls SHARE on all your platforms, I only happen to come across TG by someone sharing his vid on insta!! Thank God I did.
You're right lol..I remember back in the early 90s my guy cousin who was in his 20s at the time picked us up from Maryland in his Mitsubishi Diamante and drove us to Miami in record time I was a kid at the time and scared outta my mind how fast he was going..this took me back lolol..love your videos
That is so true what Tony Gaskins said about treating customer service in the right manner. There is no reason you should talk down to a security guard, a cleaner, the man who mows your lawn ....that's serious. When you ill-treat your own mother...the woman who bought you into the world and who's paps you sucked....that is a big red flag that you use to charge a bull. I'm running fast and looking for the exit. 🇹🇹👏👍
Tony I really appreciate you, your wife, and transparency. The fact that you are willing to reach and teach us to make us better let's me know that your wife's heart is truly at the core. Your mentioning of Ephesians 5:25, "husbands love your wives as CHRIST loved the church." And Genesis 2:24, "Therefore, a man shall leave his mother and father and cleave unto his wife." Both scriptures spoke volumes to me because I stand on these scriptures for my life. I pray that GOD continues to bless you and your wife 1000 fold for honoring, respecting, and providing for your parents. Thank you for loving CHRIST enough to allow us to reap the benefits. I absolutely adored this video. GOD Bless you and your family!
These are indeed facts Tony. We as women simply cannot put majority of blame on men. We as women have to have and keep our standards and be responsible for part in relationships and hold not only the men but ourselves accountable. Thanks for prepping us for this! Y'all be blessed!
AMEN and CONFIRMATION for embodying Self-Love and allowing the Good Lord Jesus to ordain your Union with the man who is solely destined for you (without desperation)! 🙏🏼 As always, we appreciate your insight Honorary Pastor Gaskin! Blessings to you and your family! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I came across one of your video a week ago because I went through a break up. I watched the video and became interested and began to watch a video every day. I thank God for placing this calling on your life. You have blessed me tremendously and I would like to sow into you.Please send me the info I need to sow a seed because you have blessed me.
i never leave your videos without something to take back an work on in my life!! i appreciate these videos we need this! this was everything! this needs to be on tv !
Thanks for this message! 💯 Learning and laughing you w/ Mr. G on how you say these women sound! 🤣 Truth be told its the best, I look forward to hearing you mimic them...🤣😂😅 "ohhh Tony,..." (with a Stank face) I LOVE IT🤣😂🙏😝🤓
Thank you for all you do, Tony. Your videos are beyond helpful. It's crazy but I I recently came to the realization that my ENTIRE life has been absorbed with toxic relationships. I know better now, so I can do better. I'm still blessed. Happy to be alone and waiting on God!
I would like to be in a relationship. But I refuse to settle. Been there and done that. When I meet a man and he isnt give me his all nor is consistent. Then I cut his behind off. I find that explaining does nothing and is a waste of time. I have weeded out so many men in the past few years.
Yeah a lot of women see the term “female” as derogatory because it can refer to any animal or species or mammal that’s a female and not a Woman, which is strictly for humans.
That is so true. And from my experience, every single time a man refer to a woman as "female", it is followed by something negative about that woman. It is almost as if the word female has quietly evolved to the soft version of the B word. You never hear men describe women they respect as a "female"; you hear terms such a queen, woman, and lady. Just my observation, and I know that Tony means no harm. He just needs to keep up with the evolution of slang terms :)...
Tenesha Jackson I agree with you 100%. I’m almost 50 so I have seen this evolution first hand. I come from an era where it was nothing to call a woman a “B” (especially in the era of gansta rap). But eventually men started to get checked about using the B word. So it was as if they took “one step up” in using the word female, however it was with that same disdain and disrespect.
Yes, this is very true. Men are not stupid, they know how to be sly while being politically correct. Bit*h is female dog & heifer is female cow so when “female” is used it’s usually to demean our humanity on the sly. We are biologically female, but we are human. I understand why it’s not a big deal to others though.
This is a on time Word!!!!! Thank you 🙏🏾. Continue to do this exactly the way God designed you to do it and don’t change a single thing unless HE tells you to. It impacts whoever HE means for it to impact. Some people are shopping for a word that will condone ineffective behavior and when it doesn’t tickle their ears they get frustrated, let’em keep shopping. Keep up the good work!!!
Tony you spirited! I was desperate for help/friendship only, not even companionship (shizer) & role model for my son! Right! pure evil exists, low levels of consciousness & pathological manipulator/liars, prayer to all of them to get grace, to all women to thrive & be blessed by God's help ☺
Mr Gaskins, you are a good looking person but your inside beauty is incredible, shining from inside out. Your videos, time , lessons, teachings and heart you give in your work , that is priceless. Danke..💖
Boy, Tony don't be playing about the duration of these videos! They never go past 1:00:00! Not 1:00:01, and definitely not 1:00:02...1:00:00!! Love the messages brother!
I am so blessed and honored to be a female and that God made me one. Please Tony, don't stop using our God given gender assignments, because of a few broken. Thank you for what you do.
Tony, I listen to all of your videos. A lot of the titles don't even apply to me, but just hearing a strong faithful man of God speak is doing wonders for my life. Listening to you has given me focus and hope and strength to wait on whoever God has for me.
They know what they want the problem is theres so much of a variety of it that they dont feel the need to invest. They see it as, " why work hard for this good woman (or man) when loose keisha and Lisa or simpy samuel or dum dante' gonna be easier to get what I want.
The secret to swimming is not being afraid of the water. Women have to stop being afraid to lose a man to have a successful relationship.
“What women have got to understand is you got all the power, but the thing about it is, men know that you don’t know your power.” TG
I just got to say Tony Gaskins is completely right. I would not be here on his page if GOD had not lead me to his page. Im on the path of righteousness and so I seek to learn about personal growth. Before meeting God I never would've seeked for his page. Lemme tell you it hit me hard when he said God gave woman to soften a man's heart. I didn't meet my creator until my break-up of for 4Yr relationship. Really listen to Tony, he not lying. His teaching has helped my life tremendously. Aye, Thank you Tony for all that you do. There are Men listening, I know it ain't much. But sometimes god leaves the 99 to get the ONE. GOD BLESS YOU now!
I pray that you become closer to Christ in Jesus name. Take one moment at a time, don't be discouraged, and don't give up in Jesus name. Remove all of the distractions that are in your life. They are only there to be a hindrance and burden to you. God loves you, and so do I.
@@ladennayoung2939 Thank You very much for the encouragement my dear sister. God bless you🙏
Ok, I heard this. I heard everything you said boo. Much love 💕💜💜
Nelson Gil that’s what’s up✊🏾
Good to see a gentleman on this page that is not afraid to seek other's guidance. Blessings to you my King! 🙋🏾♀️
Called a guy out, he told me that I know too much...LOL run forest run.....🏃🏃🏃😂😆😂
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Sounds like he doesn't know enough! Tuh Bye boy lol😎
Cassandra Tart: Yes, was once told, "your smart a$$ mouth gonna get you in trouble." Over my shoulder, I yelled back..."a hit dog gon holla." 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️💨💨 "Coach Francesca"
Well done!
And on point!
Some women need to call out these disrespectful grown ass boys! 🇬🇧💞
@@soothingtemples9393 🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣 “If you ever try me, you’ll never see me again. PLAY WIT IT.” That play with it took me out 😂😂💀💀💀😂
In ebonics, it's play wit it :)
As a woman I don’t feel it’s my place to give a man money... especially if I’m not married.
Exactly
I agree. I feel the same way.
Man, forget Netflix. I would rather binge on Tony’s videos because I’m learning!
A loyal Muslim follower here, Thank you so much for doing what you're doing Tony! Your message and the value of women you preach is exactly what Islam teaches. I've gotten many of my friends and family hooked to your videos because we can relate entirely!
Masha’Allah!
I'm a man brother I have to give you props for these videos like you myself I learned and I was broken but it was my own fault but I have daughters and things so I appreciate what you putting out I tell them things but your videos will help them also so keep what you doing it's a blessing brother
That's the thing also. A man has daughter's, sister's, mother's and you can't try to be a shoulder to cry on for them when your not that man. I had my daughter's dad wanting to talk to a guy who she was pregnant by and he was in his face telling him what he better do and not do for my daughter and the baby. But he was never there and did nothing
We have got to listen. Watch all of these videos over and over until they get into your spirit! They all tell you to love yourself , be good to yourself and to stop being DESPERATE! Thank you Tony Gaskins. Again!
I am doing that lately loving me first and anyone else after this guy right here taught me alot in 3mths especially block and delete😂😂😂
@GoldLoveee Girl, keep on keepin on!!! You got this!💜💜💜
@@louiseottley4995 BE THE HEAD OF THE BLOCK MINISTRY😂😂😂😂
God bless you
It really does as a 27 yr old woman I am learning now in my late 20s
Just a reminder ladies to stay off our back! No ring, no peach cobbler 🤣
And no microphone
Man cant trick me now, after being hurt by my sons father. I wish I had known my power then and been more confident. Now I have no problem letting men go. Ladies I met 3 men in one week they were gone by next week lol. 2 only wanted to text here and there and the other only wanted to hang. They were shocked when I block them and still see them in person and wave with a smile. I know my worth and have created a life I love. I glow differently now and my only concern is honoring God with my purpose. This took time, I've been ghosted, asked for one night stands, or met men with no intentions. I love myself too much now to go back. My ex doesnt even bother me anymore with his grown boy tactics. He even hides his other women when he knows Im coming around. Smh, ladies be weary of men that wont introduce you to the to their child's mother. Hes probably lying about her being crazy.
Omg you sound like me. I have been the exact same way especially when I meet a man and is not consistent or shows lack of interest. I cut them off immedately and do not look back. I loved your comment
Men do what we allow them to. If you run a man off with your standards, GOOD!!! 🏃🏽🙌🏾 I'm patiently waiting for GOD to call Tony to go a minute past that hour mark! 🙏🏽🙇🏾♀️
When men finally realize.."A happy wife equals to a happy life."
That part!
Amen🙌🤷🏽♀️
Having a voice these men gets mad 😡 because they use to getting what they want . My ex got mad months ago n then want me to do relationships stuff . I’m like excuse me wherever you been all these months that’s where you need to be n focus on not here. So he tells me I’m DRAMA because i won’t allow him to used me anymore . In this 19 you been gone n I know you sleeping everywhere stay there n away from me BIG FACTS
@GoldLoveee you said a mouthful.
Men don’t listen!! They have to be shown!!!! They will only do what we allow!! It’s time to take responsibility ladies!!! It’s so much easier said than done, but we’re shaping the future regardless of our age!!! We must set new standards for these grown boys and get them up to grown men!!! QUEENS UNITE!!! WE NEED TO WORK TOGETHER INSTEAD OF AGAINST EACH OTHER!!! 🔺DON’T BE A SIDE CHICK🔺STAY OFF YOUR BACK🔺LOVE YOURSELF🔺KNOW YOUR WORTH🔺WE ALL ARE WORTHY OF TRUE LOVE BUT IT BEGINS WITHIN US FIRST🔺WE NEED TO KNOW OUR POWER AND USE IT 🙏🏼THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR HELPING ALL OF US WITH ALL OF YOUR GEMS DAILY TONY 💎 Because of you I have gained the strength and courage to leave an 11 yr long toxic miserable relationship and I have 3 kids was a stay at home mom and had nothing to my name and I’m rebuilding from the ground up, but I feel so much better and as hard as it’s been...it’s so worth it and my life is continuing to improve!!! It’s truly a liberating feeling that words can’t not describe👑
My ex always got mad when I told him how I felt. I guess I was suppose to be quiet and keep my feelings to myself so he could do whatever he wanted. I promise you don't see how silly stuff is until you've been through it and grown. I still have work to do. I need to heal
My Ex told me I was to opinionated and outspoken being disrespectful so he cheated on me and got caught he's been Dismissed.
@@denisedean8503 I believe. I mean I could sense that men are different but I did not know how extreme it was. They treat you well one day and completely flip the script. They drive you crazy and then call you CRAZY 🤦🏾♀️. Us women truly need to listen to Tony. What a blessing he truly is. He's tryna to save us from the chaos.
This is a word today. People only do what you allow for them to do. Do not give anyone that much power over your life. Get in the WORD!!!....fast, pray, and exercise to find that true balance. You need to rejuvenate your mind, body, and spirit daily. This phrase was not made for nothing, it's TRUE. Brother Tony is the truth!!!! Listen, listen listen linda!!!!
I DO NOT give men money. I don't even loan my brother money. No boyfriend either.
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Not even your brother, Sis????
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It's serious out here
Right on💯💯
My money is my money. Period.
About that, because if you thought of your brother or sister giving you money, they wouldn't.
Unfortunately many of us have been dysfunctional. A lot of us became codependent. Due to not being taught how to have boundaries, and not being taught to set standards. Many people do everything and anything because society and the world teach them in order to be loved and accepted. You have to give all of you no matter what. With the help of the Lord, counseling, and men/women to minister to us about these things. We can become better. Even if you NEVER gave money to a man. Out of brokenness and being misguided chances are you gave him way more then you should have as an attempt for him to love you. Let's be better. So we can help others become better. Wisdom, knowledge, and discernment is not given to us so we can tear each other down. God gives it to us so we can lead others in the right direction, and pray for others as well. Many are hurt and broken. You will never believe what some people have been through. So pray for everyone, and pray again. Prayer changes things. Not our mouth and negative opinions.
Amen. So true.
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT!MAY2021
Amen
I don’t think he knows how funny his facial expressions and little side comments are 😂😂😂
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Yes! Please please listen to Tony. If I would've known what he's teaching in my 20s...I wouldn't be 42 single successful yet dating ALL OVER AGAIN. it's work... Trust.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 God bless you
I'm here at 49.
@@CaramelKissez right back at you!
See that's that bs that's why call women like me what you want.. where's her friend sis never cuz this how it always ends up 🤷🤗😠👀
🙋🏽♀️Here at 44!Waiting on God
It was God led that I found your page 9 months ago. This is my second time commenting on your page. Before I could say anything I needed to first listen, learn and understand the wisdom that God has given you and your wife. Deep in my heart, I know what you are telling each one of us is the unequivocal truth. I understand that God put you in this position to help save lives. Continue on the purpose that God has for you and your family. Praying that everything you touch will reap 100 fold.
That's such a kind comment Kiana, he is definitely doing the Lords work and helping us all to be the best versions of ourselves. Blessings to you sis❤
dominica180 Thank you so much Dominica. May God continue to bless you as well!!!
Housewives of Atlanta. It was Phaedra and Apollo. She was a lawyer and had a funeral home for a business. He went to jail. They were a mess.
Don’t get bought by a man. Wise words Tony. Get your OWN money 💰 straight.
Tell the truth Tony. People don’t want to hear the truth. Say it again for the people in the back 🗣🗣🗣
Some Christians want to have their cake and eat it too. They want to live without following God's word, but invoke him whenever they are in trouble. Really pathetic sometimes!
Sounds like my ex he wanted a Christian women but a Christian women willing to sin just to keep a man . NOT ME ✌🏾 I called him out he ghosted.
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You dodged a bullet darling that's his loss. I had a church player on the praise team play me to the left after 3 days once he saw I wasn't a thot
Those are worse ..christian man want to be served they've this entitlement & want woman to addition for love
Michelle McDonald I did and I know a drummer who’s always getting sex from gullible desperate women in the churches
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I believe it, we have the power to stay celibate
Thank you so much Tony! I was raised in a dysfunctional family, my mum was being cheated and married to a gay. I never knew what NORMAL was. All I saw was, my mum begging for approval when she was supposed to leave the toxic relationship. Your videos gave insight about how a "Real Man" is. Thank you so much for educating me on my self worth and helping me find my purpose.
God bless you🖤
Women these days who give men money call it BUILDING with your man. That’s not your husband you’re only building his bank account.
Or helping him have his other girl Keisha look like something paying for her frontal weaves.
I agree.
When he said; “My Wife’s baby daddy is GOD, how am I gonna compete with that!?” That part took me out!!!! 🤣🤣💀🙌🏾 love these videos. All facts. Purchased my copy of A woman’s influence! 💙
Your videos are so helpful especially getting out of a 23 year marriage due to abuse. Thank you
You have a whole gift! This can’t be measured or calculated.A authentic gift! No fluff or commercialization!
I haven’t even listened yet but I know I need to hear whatever gems you’re about to bless us with💎💎💎
Yyyyyaaaassss! God bless you 🙏🏽
Same! Let’s get to it. 🤛🏻
Girl me too!!
😃Me too. I click like before I even watch.
Same here
This video got me cracking up. My wife baby daddy is God 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯 So On Point. I know a lady personally who gave a guy over 20K and she was sending his so called son $ too. She also sold her house and everything in it that she worked so hard for most of her life, thinking she was gonna move with him. Nope ...!!!!!! He got all he can get out of her. Now she’s out of $, a home and all of the beautiful things that was inside. She’s not talking to her family and friends at this point Out of shame, heart break.Its so sad. Be Blessed🙏🏾💜
I hope she recovers soon 💜
So sorry to hear this! Very sad!
Wow 🥺
Jesus, I pray for a speedy healing. If she doesn't know the Lord I pray that she gets to know Him
Wow. Prayers
I like how you most of the time you reference something in the Bible to get your point across.✝️❤️
I’m one of those Muslims that’s a loyal listener. 💚☺️ I’m currently implementing your teaches and it’s helping me tremendously in the dating world. I appreciate the path I traveled even more now because the lessons were necessary. Thank you Tony Gaskins for all that you do.
That body clock! Dead stare. Lol⌚⌚⌚⌚⌚⏰
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The only thing a man understands is when you walk away for good. If he makes the decision to change and the relationship works out, that's awesome! But if you've given multiple chances and you realize that this is his character, and he doesn't want to change, then cut him off for good. They only recognize it when you are serious about what you say you will do and follow through.
Whew! I've never been to this extent of my freely financing of a man but I've been here before. A fool I used to be, but God has delivered me from this mindset. Thanks Tony, a much needed message. Thanks sister Sherrie for lending your husband to the world for us to be blessed.
“Calm down playboy”😂😂😂😂😂
No need to be desperate for LOVE
when so many want to know what it feels like to be loved by you!!🥰 I'm just saying tony😁
Coming in for the read of the morning. 😂😂
I love hearing a man with sense talk...I’m always listening whatever the topic may be.
I wanna be sat down too, but I’m also a Christian. I’m not into any scamming. So until God is ready to send me my companion and provider, I’ll just keep working on the three B’s and serving the Lord. 😁
The reason there is a whole lot of Baby Mama's is because women have to stop sleeping with men without protecting themselves from pregnancy especially when you consent to have sex without a condom! It is not solely the man's responsibility.
......the title is enough 🙌
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Facts
@Tony please don’t forget to do a video on the topic of distancing from your negative spirit parents. 46:00 marker
I work in Banking fraud and see it all the time. Please stop giving these men money.
I never do that
I hope God sends me a man like you. Be bless by God, you and your beautiful wife and kids. You allow God to work through yourself. You are a real help. Thank you.
YOU are so right when it comes to Christian. I have relatives that I can't talk to because they are so judgmental. I'm Christian but I don't understand the majority. It's like they can't see what they are doing ..
I really love how you explain things. It sticks in my head! Idk how you do it but thank you. Your words are needed and inspirational. I actually saw an angel number when your video popped up and something told me to scroll back up to video and watch. Must have been for me.
Tony always speaks nothing but the truth! He's giving you women the game plan with no fluff! I myself as a man, have met countless of women who would try to buy my love! I personally am not for sale,and it always shows the insecurities in those particular women! My sisters be strong, stay on your throne and allow us (men) to upgrade your crown and your palace! Never the opposite! It's okay to help your King, but leave the pawns alone!
You are absolutely right...I was ALL The Afraids that you mentioned...Paid for it then times over....
Good morning good sir....I haven’t even listened yet but I know I need whatever you’re about to bless us with. Thank you in advance!!!
So blessed to still have both of your parents!
One of my favorite scriptures is in Psalm 23:6 and it’s talking about loyal love pursuing me all the day’s of my life. I like to of course apply this in all areas of my life but especially in relationships with men. I’ve noticed that when I’ve upheld my standards based on my Bible trained conscious, it will truly show a mans intent. What’s for me will pursue me no matter the barriers. I’ve noticed that if God Is blessing me ain’t nothin I can do if he really wants to bless me. If the situation looks almost nearly impossible but it keeps pursuing, to me that’s a blessing Gods trying to give. I’ve been trying to take more notice in my life what loyal love is pursuing me and then proceed in that direction. If I have to constantly chase for it, then it’s not for me. Thank you Tony for your insight. I enjoy your videos
Tony, thank you for speaking on such a relevant and prevalent topic, especially among women. The take away for me in the video is at the time 07:41 min, when Tony describes to the tee, where most women are found, which is at the TWO ENDS OF THE SPECTRUM.
1. On one end of the spectrum, there are women who are passive, submissive, and will do anything to keep a man.
2. On the other end of the spectrum, there are women who are just fed up with men and plain crazy.
3. The middle part where only a few women are found are the Centered Women.
Therefore, be aware that both ends of the spectrum are extreme and toxic. I also feel that subconsciously men know and recognize when they meet a woman from the two ends of the spectrum. The longer a woman stays at these two ends of the spectrum, the longer and harder it is for her to get to the Centre. Therefore, a woman must be vigilant, to take the time to identify, where on the spectrum she is, in the first place. She must examine herself and put the self-work to organically strive to being the Centered Woman. This takes time, patience, courage, strength and faith in God.
In my opinion, this single handedly could resolve a lot of dilemmas in relationships & dating for women today.
Such a great message. It feels like I keep advancing with every video as it pertains to my healing. It makes me want to be a better woman with so much new knowledge. Thank you so much . GOD bless you, for using you to send us this message ✊🏾
Be blessed, this was right on time.
Just subscribe to your channel 🙏🏾
God bless you🙏🏽
What women ask you to tell men...that’s a tall order Tony! What you describe is such a fairy tale. Women have to live in realty. Acceptance is the key. It’s about what you are willing to accept from a man. Your standards dictate what you will or won’t accept. Have realistic standards and expectations.
‘Calm down playboy’, haha! Tony! You hit it out of the park, a’gainnnn!!
I can watch this video a million times, he drop gems every ten seconds.
women pls SHARE on all your platforms, I only happen to come across TG by someone sharing his vid on insta!! Thank God I did.
You're right lol..I remember back in the early 90s my guy cousin who was in his 20s at the time picked us up from Maryland in his Mitsubishi Diamante and drove us to Miami in record time I was a kid at the time and scared outta my mind how fast he was going..this took me back lolol..love your videos
That is so true what Tony Gaskins said about treating customer service in the right manner.
There is no reason you should talk down to a security guard, a cleaner, the man who mows your lawn ....that's serious.
When you ill-treat your own mother...the woman who bought you into the world and who's paps you sucked....that is a big red flag that you use to charge a bull.
I'm running fast and looking for the exit.
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"If you ever try me again, it will be the last time you see me" T.G
Tony came with the fire today! God bless your ministry Sir
Easy one of my favorite video. Packed with gems! May god continue to bless you and your family.
Crazy he got married while in prison to another woman Apollo a mess.
The woman he married was desperate too!
Whoever call you a scam is bonkers. Sending you positive thoughts and energy now and always ..
A Woman's Influence is a great read so far. I can hardly put it down. Thanks Tony and Shari for this wonderful read!!!
Hi Tony! Thank you for helping get through my healing process.
Tonnyyyyy Good Mornin’. Here early for class
A man has to be solid with GOD! Amen. TG
AMEN! SO RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! MAY2021
Tony I really appreciate you, your wife, and transparency. The fact that you are willing to reach and teach us to make us better let's me know that your wife's heart is truly at the core. Your mentioning of Ephesians 5:25, "husbands love your wives as CHRIST loved the church." And Genesis 2:24, "Therefore, a man shall leave his mother and father and cleave unto his wife." Both scriptures spoke volumes to me because I stand on these scriptures for my life. I pray that GOD continues to bless you and your wife 1000 fold for honoring, respecting, and providing for your parents. Thank you for loving CHRIST enough to allow us to reap the benefits. I absolutely adored this video. GOD Bless you and your family!
These are indeed facts Tony. We as women simply cannot put majority of blame on men. We as women have to have and keep our standards and be responsible for part in relationships and hold not only the men but ourselves accountable. Thanks for prepping us for this! Y'all be blessed!
AMEN and CONFIRMATION for embodying Self-Love and allowing the Good Lord Jesus to ordain your Union with the man who is solely destined for you (without desperation)! 🙏🏼 As always, we appreciate your insight Honorary Pastor Gaskin! Blessings to you and your family! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I came across one of your video a week ago because I went through a break up. I watched the video and became interested and began to watch a video every day. I thank God for placing this calling on your life. You have blessed me tremendously and I would like to sow into you.Please send me the info I need to sow a seed because you have blessed me.
Mr Gaskins said, say it with wisdom and with your chest. Point blank periaaaad!
i never leave your videos without something to take back an work on in my life!! i appreciate these videos we need this! this was everything! this needs to be on tv !
Ha! Tony, you didn’t even say “God ain’t called me past a hour yet.” Just “...I got to go.” 😂
Let go and let GOD then it will come with BLESSINGS and PEACE
Thanks for this message! 💯
Learning and laughing you w/ Mr. G on how you say these women sound! 🤣 Truth be told its the best, I look forward to hearing you mimic them...🤣😂😅 "ohhh Tony,..." (with a Stank face)
I LOVE IT🤣😂🙏😝🤓
Thank you for all you do, Tony. Your videos are beyond helpful. It's crazy but I I recently came to the realization that my ENTIRE life has been absorbed with toxic relationships. I know better now, so I can do better. I'm still blessed. Happy to be alone and waiting on God!
Ohhhhh Myyyyy goodness.
Confirmation
Had to call them out and if they run...Run On...LOL YES YES YES
I would like to be in a relationship. But I refuse to settle. Been there and done that. When I meet a man and he isnt give me his all nor is consistent. Then I cut his behind off. I find that explaining does nothing and is a waste of time. I have weeded out so many men in the past few years.
Yeah a lot of women see the term “female” as derogatory because it can refer to any animal or species or mammal that’s a female and not a Woman, which is strictly for humans.
It's also used in the prison system, so corrections officers and former inmates use the term. It is horribly derogatory.
LBC Ulrica not true and it’s not that deep . I say females
That is so true. And from my experience, every single time a man refer to a woman as "female", it is followed by something negative about that woman. It is almost as if the word female has quietly evolved to the soft version of the B word. You never hear men describe women they respect as a "female"; you hear terms such a queen, woman, and lady. Just my observation, and I know that Tony means no harm. He just needs to keep up with the evolution of slang terms :)...
Tenesha Jackson I agree with you 100%. I’m almost 50 so I have seen this evolution first hand. I come from an era where it was nothing to call a woman a “B” (especially in the era of gansta rap). But eventually men started to get checked about using the B word. So it was as if they took “one step up” in using the word female, however it was with that same disdain and disrespect.
Yes, this is very true. Men are not stupid, they know how to be sly while being politically correct. Bit*h is female dog & heifer is female cow so when “female” is used it’s usually to demean our humanity on the sly. We are biologically female, but we are human. I understand why it’s not a big deal to others though.
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Amen!!
Is he a reflection of Christ?
This is good..Tony😇
“ He upside down 😂 he tryna look good for OUT THERE but at home sleeping next to the rats n cheese in his apt. “ 😩
This is a on time Word!!!!! Thank you 🙏🏾. Continue to do this exactly the way God designed you to do it and don’t change a single thing unless HE tells you to. It impacts whoever HE means for it to impact. Some people are shopping for a word that will condone ineffective behavior and when it doesn’t tickle their ears they get frustrated, let’em keep shopping. Keep up the good work!!!
Tony you spirited! I was desperate for help/friendship only, not even companionship (shizer) & role model for my son! Right! pure evil exists, low levels of consciousness & pathological manipulator/liars, prayer to all of them to get grace, to all women to thrive & be blessed by God's help ☺
Talking to me is talking to the men, that's how I see it because I am the influence 💖
Mr Gaskins, you are a good looking person but your inside beauty is incredible, shining from inside out. Your videos, time , lessons, teachings and heart you give in your work , that is priceless. Danke..💖
thank you thank you always for your messages! 💎 💎 💎’s
Boy, Tony don't be playing about the duration of these videos! They never go past 1:00:00! Not 1:00:01, and definitely not 1:00:02...1:00:00!! Love the messages brother!
I am so blessed and honored to be a female and that God made me one. Please Tony, don't stop using our God given gender assignments, because of a few broken. Thank you for what you do.
You better break it down Sir! Be Blessed 🙏🏾💜
He created them male and female, and blessed them and called them Mankind in the day they were created.
Genesis 5:2
Exactly
Tony, I listen to all of your videos. A lot of the titles don't even apply to me, but just hearing a strong faithful man of God speak is doing wonders for my life. Listening to you has given me focus and hope and strength to wait on whoever God has for me.
“Oh, all of them cheated?” 😂😂
It's true Tony💯 Hard date nowadays🙄😔😒,People be playing games. Don't know what that want..
They know what they want the problem is theres so much of a variety of it that they dont feel the need to invest.
They see it as, " why work hard for this good woman (or man) when loose keisha and Lisa or simpy samuel or dum dante' gonna be easier to get what I want.