Unveiling the Golden Pairs: ESTP & ISTJ

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  • Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
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    CS Joseph Discusses Golden Pair ESTP & ISTJ in this previously unreleased lecture series featuring the Golden Pairs, enjoy!

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  • @Christie1127
    @Christie1127 10 годин тому +1

    My grandparents were this golden pair. ESTP woman with an ISTJ man. They were together for 55 years since they were teenagers. My grandmother worked in the parts department at a dealership while my grandfather was the account. ❤

  • @galaxydoxx4326
    @galaxydoxx4326 День тому +7

    golden pair lecture ❌
    erotic storytelling ✅
    (if you have seen the uncut version)

  • @leneah1976
    @leneah1976 День тому +4

    Well worth the wait, this hits a homerun!💗

  • @jamilifontenele6171
    @jamilifontenele6171 День тому +7

    to the istjs: just because you CAN endure stuff with endless patience and resilience (e.g. waiting for 10y for someone who went to fuck around like the example he gives) does NOT mean you should.
    In fact, it is best if you don't. Endurance to this extent does not do any good. It just creates a big warm bubble of familiar confort that makes you weak and became a doormat to people around you.
    Templars can take a lot of advantage of our endurance and you can be abused A LOT. Estps abuse by physical force and Enfjs by emotional force. It might leave you drained, broken and in a deep rut with no one to "save you" out of it.
    Learn your value. Learn how to create, enforce boundaries and standards. We teach people how to treat us.

    • @chriskozak7356
      @chriskozak7356 День тому +3

      As an outside observer as an INFJ, ISTJs seem to do really well with ISTPs. Fe pessimistic and Fi optimistic are always good pairings.

    • @ishami5004
      @ishami5004 День тому

      @@chriskozak7356 they would have no love

    • @neuAsa-c1t
      @neuAsa-c1t День тому

      @ishami5004 sounds like it. But I keep reading what istp think about other types and seems to be positive with istj. Both sides can work together and gain trust result love. Istp think subconsciously like enfj while istj like enfp. I see enfp and enfj understand with each other. Rare for me to see enfp hate or dislike enfj.

    • @carlurbananimals
      @carlurbananimals День тому +1

      you miss the point it takes 10 years to notice, but with the mbti it happens rapidly, also i wouldnt date that sort of estp the sort of estp you are talking of loves the estj and entp and intp, i would date an estp with a healthy si nemesis, that can submit to enfjs and istps when need be, just look at wwe the loudmouth chris jericho hates cody rhodes guts to the point cody had to change companies

  • @mungbeanzz
    @mungbeanzz День тому +6

    Hi, I am an ISFP and my best friend is an ISTJ. I would love to see a video explaining the nuances and social compatibility between the two types.

    • @supremegentleman4276
      @supremegentleman4276 День тому +5

      Te parent teaches Te inferior how to aspire. Fi hero gives Fi child additional morals and principles to apply. Ne inferior gives Ni child the freedom to choose the adventure. Se parent gives Si hero a good experience and Si hero is loyal to Se parent. Se nemesis takes care of Si critic to give it a good experience. Ti critic tells Te inferior the truth. Fe nemesis takes care of Fi child’s feelings.
      Off the top of my head

    • @jenniferfronius895
      @jenniferfronius895 День тому +3

      That sounds very compatible 😳 my best friend's also an Istj and I am an Isfp and I have never felt as free and as safe and as authentic as with my best friend. I love it still

    • @supremegentleman4276
      @supremegentleman4276 День тому +1

      @@jenniferfronius895 I’m glad! Your friend sounds like an ideal example of an ISTJ.

  • @Walid_002
    @Walid_002 День тому +3

    Gifts my ass lol, I've been with an ESTP and he was so cheap, I was the one showering him with gifts and attention.

    • @neuAsa-c1t
      @neuAsa-c1t День тому +2

      When I see some examples of estp and istj, i think just pure misunderstanding. Se vs si clash on quickly.

  • @rajunaidu7751
    @rajunaidu7751 День тому +2

    The golden pair is INTJ being alpha

  • @errolthompson4204
    @errolthompson4204 День тому +3

    Is it really Possible for an INFJ-ISTJ Relationship? I know for a certain I'm an INFJ UD/SF which I'm constantly tapping into my ESTP Subconscious all the time and get burnt out fast. I've attracted a few Philosopher Types particularly this one ISTJ girl because of how giving I was and caring towards her if this is possible I'll just F*ck it, we balls with guns blazing. If not then... It is what it is.

    • @nemesis27
      @nemesis27 День тому +1

      Super ego types trigger each other too much

    • @hamidousy5460
      @hamidousy5460 День тому

      Are they compatible? Yes. But it's not very common.

    • @chriskozak7356
      @chriskozak7356 День тому

      @errolthompson4204 from personal experience, I think high Ni can overwhelm high Si, and it leads to too many misunderstandings. NJs go with NPs. SPs with SJs

    • @robbybarraza7609
      @robbybarraza7609 День тому

      Your Se inferior will burn out and her Fi child is too shallow for Fe parent

  • @Zolivioli
    @Zolivioli 23 години тому

    “Panties will drop. They literally drop. Anyway 🧐 that concludes season 14…” -C.S. Joseph

  • @benceberes5663
    @benceberes5663 День тому +1

    Is there a bronze pair season?

  • @Ishrat368
    @Ishrat368 День тому +1

    Love the way you talk 😂 so entertaining

    • @neuAsa-c1t
      @neuAsa-c1t День тому

      Ikr.. no music to distracted your brain. Not boring at all.

  • @neuAsa-c1t
    @neuAsa-c1t День тому

    No offense. But. It's not like INFP can't read ISTJ. It takes time when doing it alone and tend to keep it inside their mind. Gather more informations and re-examination past memories. Analytical mindset for INFP is similar way like INTP. Not want to misjudged. It takes longer time because INFP isn't INFJ. Still make ISTJ angry for INFP slow thinker and disorganized. But tend to follow ISTJ. With ESTP, maybe gets difficulty because ISTJ not want to change or being Si dom. It's too drastic. Same with ESTP and INFJ. Both act like mentor. But their approach not the same. Fast vs slowly but sure must change. They demanding progress. That's how I see INFJ. But maybe not for ISTJ with Si-Te. May takes longer time. Also, this ISTJ habit annoys me too. They like to immediately focus on grammar/words and correcting people in the same way as ESTJ. While INFP may need to take time and understanding each words by themselves or with someone in private.

  • @maupeccin
    @maupeccin День тому

    That was great! I am still not sure if I am an estp, I don't feel that aloha or extroverted, but this resounds a lot with me.
    I'd love to know more about the bronze pair, w with infp.

  • @nurai8590
    @nurai8590 21 годину тому

    Joseph you should correct the test page. it’s still saying that the test is 6 questions but it’s not the case for the new version of the test.
    Also I hardly wanna double check my type and my Octogram😣😣😣
    I think I’m an uduf type

    • @nurai8590
      @nurai8590 21 годину тому

      "I haven't watched the video, but I just wanted to make a note on the current video published. There's a high chance this message will be seen."

  • @girlblogger3524
    @girlblogger3524 День тому +1

    when estp sees intp - they tend to kind of feel sorry for them immediately lol - not sure why that is

    • @nemesis27
      @nemesis27 День тому +1

      Because INTPs are weak af

    • @benceberes5663
      @benceberes5663 День тому +1

      It's the supervisor relationship - ESTP having INTP's hero function as parent function, and their trickster function as the hero. This makes them naturally critical which is amplified by the general nature of ESTP. INTP-s should in theory have a similar reaction to ENFP-s which in my experience is kinda true.

    • @chriskozak7356
      @chriskozak7356 День тому

      @girlblogger3524 Funnily enough, that's how I feel as an INFJ towards ESFJs. Naturally, Templars are a bit critical towards Crusaders anyway- I think perceptuallly they see them as weak- which isn't always the case.
      Also, Soul and Body temple clash pretty hard

    • @idiotslife8508
      @idiotslife8508 День тому

      chriskozak7356
      Examples? I really can't think of body temple having conflict with soul temple, although chase has said why. My mind can't understand that.

  • @girlblogger3524
    @girlblogger3524 День тому +1

    trump and melania

    • @bampoe8670
      @bampoe8670 День тому +6

      I think trumps an entj

  • @myusername3162
    @myusername3162 День тому

    What is the personality type of Naruto Uzumaki in your opinion?

    • @Scarecrow1410
      @Scarecrow1410 День тому +3

      CSJ has him typed as an INFJ and Sasuke as an ENTP. They may both seem like they’re their golden pairs early on when in actuality they’re both stuck in their shadow.

    • @myusername3162
      @myusername3162 День тому

      @@Scarecrow1410 okay cool, yea I definitely thought naruto was an infj. But I kinda think that sasuke is an infp rather than an entp , what do you think? Also thanks for responding to me with that information about narutos personality type.

    • @alexandraramirez9681
      @alexandraramirez9681 День тому

      Enfp

    • @nemesis27
      @nemesis27 День тому

      ​@@Scarecrow1410ENTP-INFJ is not a golden pair

    • @hamidousy5460
      @hamidousy5460 День тому

      ​@@Scarecrow1410Actually, Naruto became subconscious focused overtime. Naruto and Sasuke are both UD in their octogram.