Facts! Lots of people talking about catching feelings as a weakness and if you catching some then you lose. The recent people I been catching feelings for been showing me it wasn't safe for me to do so with them. Most people don't know how to deal with vulnerabilities
Because women make it hard to have a personal conversation. Yall are easily offended by things you shouldn't be offended by, jump to conclusions, and hate rejection. If this consistently happens then you are the problem and haven't made it comfortable for the man or your man to open up to you
Yeah except for most people aren't really that tolerant or accepting of other people's feelings hell and a lot of them are also not aware of their own and yes to know one surprise most of these people are female. Are we really going to sit here and pretend like women don't live at their emotional convenience to a very shallow degree for most of their lives😂😂😂😂😂😂
Not always. Remember, men can always carry on sexually with a woman they will never be with romantically. They can also just look at someone and almost fall in love too.
I think these are some really enlightened younger adults. That gives me hope for the gen y,z, etc. etc. As a man, a black man, having a place where I can decompress and relax physically and mentally helps my sanity. Having my beastie, my wife there to support me even if it's just staying out the way, but being ready to be there for me is great for my soul. I pray all of you can find this kind of love.
The real question is why are you out here sharing your body, creating soul ties with someone that you are not in a relationship with? If you truly establish the relationship your feelings will always be considered.
It can go even deeper than just a relationship because I’m really starting to believe that it’s saved & sacred for marriage. We have no business creating soul ties with people without a deeper level of commitment.
I’m late to the party but on time for ALL OF TRIPP’S GEMS!!! Really the whole panel but he just stands out the most to me!! His responses are coming from a place of REALNESS AND LIFE LESSONS!!! People be thinking you that your best education on life comes from someone like Granny or Great Aunt. Everyone on earth live life differently and travel differently in a way that you can learn something from anyone no matter their AGE!!!! Listening to this panel proves that!!! PHENOMENAL PANEL👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💕💕💕
Yeah except for most people aren't really that tolerant or accepting of other people's feelings hell and a lot of them are also not aware of their own and yes to know one surprise most of these people are female. Are we really going to sit here and pretend like women don't live at their emotional convenience to a very shallow degree for most of their lives😂😂😂😂😂😂
I told my “now” husband 12 years ago when we started just f’in around, as soon as one of us “catch feelings even a little bit, let’s be honest and talk about it and see where we go from there. If that happens. He lasted about a week. 😊
Im dealing with someone now like this - he doesn't want me and that's ok. I would be so happy to be friends but he doesn't want me as that either. It's his choice but I would have never ever laid someone who was that cold to me - ever- I'm on the fence about relationships and marriage but I know for a fact this isn't want I wanted . I'm just going to work on doing me and loving life. What ever makes him happy I hope he finds, and it's HARD letting this one go for some reason
There is one caveat. If you both agree from the jump that it’s just sex. Then you have to be adult enough to accept that; however, If it’s a casual fling that evolves this video applies 💯
@@taiharris5236 see, now THIS is sisterhood!!! I thank you for sharing this much appreciated information. Manifesting our first date. Let's remember I said this Tuesday, March 19, 2024 7:00 EST 😜
How about the sleeping with people stop until there is a marriage taken place. Work on the marriage like it’s the best and last romantic relationship you are going to have. Best to chose wisely, seek Jesus first.
A woman will let a man be around her children but guard her PIN number to her debit card from him. Let that sink in, she cares more about her money than her children. If y'all don't trust one another, then why are you exchanging bodily fluids?
A man will demand submission and the trust that requires from a woman, but won’t share his PIN number with her or discuss his salary. Let that sink in, he expects her to trust him with her safety(and by extension, her LIFE), but he won’t trust her with info about his money. If y’all don’t trust women, why do you expect us to trust you?
You can express what you once needed at that time to each other that made you both better at that time , in the past it doesn't mean you want them back in the present time . The message is appreciated 🌞
Omg im glad somebody's with a mic said it ive been saying this for years ... YEARS!!!. Alot of things this world i cant get with. I think thats why i kick by myself.. im always like. What happened??!!
Broooo Don't miss Tripp is his new name. Having full blown sex with someone and scared to ask a question. We have made sex too common of a thing that the communication is the weird part
I agree I would sit around my partner Nd not say a word 😂 What does that mean 🥴 Am I a closed off person or are they. Then would yap for hours and hours with others 😂😂 What is that called 🤔
Too much Double speak. In one hand he preaches emotional vulnerability with one another, but turns around and paints this mind-movie scenario where a consistent physical relationship has been established i.e. “fucking on a regular basis” (which requires GREAT vulnerability) which ideally for women is rewarded with the SAFETY of exclusivity but he makes sure to point out that this is ‘not necessarily a girlfriend or we’re not trying to take it to the next level’….. but questions about further intention, i.e.: “what are we fixing to do?” What else is there to do if not be exclusive???? So much for feeling safe🙃
I cannot appreciate their work enough... But at the end of the day it's not working... it's the same conversations over and over and over and over and over and over...
TRIPP hits us with truth ONE MO' TIME!!
🎯🎯🎯
Facts! Lots of people talking about catching feelings as a weakness and if you catching some then you lose. The recent people I been catching feelings for been showing me it wasn't safe for me to do so with them. Most people don't know how to deal with vulnerabilities
Fact I.its not safe to be that honest with them
Thank you Tripp!! I totally agree, if I am sleeping with you I should be able to have personal conversations with you about my feelings.
Women on avg have ALWAYS said this, it’s men that have been against it 😂
@@laurencameron3150 True 😂
Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯
Because women make it hard to have a personal conversation. Yall are easily offended by things you shouldn't be offended by, jump to conclusions, and hate rejection. If this consistently happens then you are the problem and haven't made it comfortable for the man or your man to open up to you
Yeah except for most people aren't really that tolerant or accepting of other people's feelings hell and a lot of them are also not aware of their own and yes to know one surprise most of these people are female. Are we really going to sit here and pretend like women don't live at their emotional convenience to a very shallow degree for most of their lives😂😂😂😂😂😂
Folks will really have they face in between someone’s legs and can’t say two meaningful things to that person.
Thank u soo much❤
These men got us out here thinking we crazy 😢
FACTS
STINKY FACE FACTS
Mane I could just sit and listen to Tripp ALL DAY!!!! He’s Soooo Knowledgeable👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾!!!!
After a while, you will catch feelings
Facts ❤❤❤
It’s inevitable!
Period.
Not always. Remember, men can always carry on sexually with a woman they will never be with romantically. They can also just look at someone and almost fall in love too.
I think these are some really enlightened younger adults. That gives me hope for the gen y,z, etc. etc. As a man, a black man, having a place where I can decompress and relax physically and mentally helps my sanity. Having my beastie, my wife there to support me even if it's just staying out the way, but being ready to be there for me is great for my soul. I pray all of you can find this kind of love.
This man is young but has a lot of wisdom about hisself and I agree with what he said we are all human and has feelings and should feel safe sharing
The real question is why are you out here sharing your body, creating soul ties with someone that you are not in a relationship with? If you truly establish the relationship your feelings will always be considered.
💯💯💯💯
Thank you,
Someone who’s not lulled to sleep by smooth talking & hot takes.
It can go even deeper than just a relationship because I’m really starting to believe that it’s saved & sacred for marriage. We have no business creating soul ties with people without a deeper level of commitment.
The "slow 🔥 🔥 🔥 burn" in love is highly underrated.
I’m late to the party but on time for ALL OF TRIPP’S GEMS!!! Really the whole panel but he just stands out the most to me!! His responses are coming from a place of REALNESS AND LIFE LESSONS!!! People be thinking you that your best education on life comes from someone like Granny or Great Aunt. Everyone on earth live life differently and travel differently in a way that you can learn something from anyone no matter their AGE!!!! Listening to this panel proves that!!! PHENOMENAL PANEL👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💕💕💕
Exactly! I can't do it....I need to be able to talk to whomever I'm with PERIOD!
So hard core & brutally honest to the 🎯 🤴🏽👏🏾🙏🏾🏆
Round of applause for this man. ❤
💯 conversations need to feel your soul. Unless your talking about the weather or asking for the time...
I love this man! ❤️
This is the Absolute Truth!!!!
Tripp said, what he SAID!!
Yeah except for most people aren't really that tolerant or accepting of other people's feelings hell and a lot of them are also not aware of their own and yes to know one surprise most of these people are female. Are we really going to sit here and pretend like women don't live at their emotional convenience to a very shallow degree for most of their lives😂😂😂😂😂😂
I told my “now” husband 12 years ago when we started just f’in around, as soon as one of us “catch feelings even a little bit, let’s be honest and talk about it and see where we go from there. If that happens. He lasted about a week. 😊
Im dealing with someone now like this - he doesn't want me and that's ok. I would be so happy to be friends but he doesn't want me as that either. It's his choice but I would have never ever laid someone who was that cold to me - ever- I'm on the fence about relationships and marriage but I know for a fact this isn't want I wanted . I'm just going to work on doing me and loving life. What ever makes him happy I hope he finds, and it's HARD letting this one go for some reason
I totally agree with him 💯
Amen
I wonder if he's an Aquarius he's tooooooo fkn real and down to earth !!!! ❤❤❤
Tripp don’t miss 🎯
I think the love and feelings should come before anything physical occurs.
It's not about feelings it's about boundaries and expectations.
Just don't flip the script after you shared your feelings
Absolutely! I like this dude
There is one caveat. If you both agree from the jump that it’s just sex. Then you have to be adult enough to accept that; however, If it’s a casual fling that evolves this video applies 💯
Thank you. I say it all the time. Me feelings are me & I may as well be dead without them
As a man we do what this man says her walls will forever look at you differently
Thank you!!😊...finally someone with sense
You got to have something in common that keeps the relationship together facts 🌞 Amen
Fire response. Yes.
Is Tripp single??????????????? Asking for a friend
He is. He does After Dark Q&As on his live where he mentioned months ago that he's single and had recently ended a long-term relationship
@@taiharris5236 see, now THIS is sisterhood!!! I thank you for sharing this much appreciated information. Manifesting our first date. Let's remember I said this Tuesday, March 19, 2024 7:00 EST 😜
How should one respond when the other person (normally the man) avoid those deep conversations?
I’d say respond by not Fkin wit him no more. He not it Sis!
Omg u sooo right
ILL SAY IT EVERYDAY..TRIPP NEEDS HIS OWN SHOW
Tripp speak!!!!...💯✌🏾
#TRIPP SAY IT AGAIN 🎯🔥💯🖤
❤now thats standing on. Buiness brother period
Ĥe realy helps me realize my flaws
I got like 2 ppl I feel like I have that convo w/ and 1 of em I can't stand cuz they've put alot of stress on the other
Facts ❤💯💯
Facts ‼️🖤
How about the sleeping with people stop until there is a marriage taken place. Work on the marriage like it’s the best and last romantic relationship you are going to have. Best to chose wisely, seek Jesus first.
😲😲 That's for sure is the real deals!!!!
Amem 🙏😊
He actually deserves the fan pages that dudes made for Kevin Samuels.
A woman will let a man be around her children but guard her PIN number to her debit card from him.
Let that sink in, she cares more about her money than her children.
If y'all don't trust one another, then why are you exchanging bodily fluids?
A man will demand submission and the trust that requires from a woman, but won’t share his PIN number with her or discuss his salary.
Let that sink in, he expects her to trust him with her safety(and by extension, her LIFE), but he won’t trust her with info about his money.
If y’all don’t trust women, why do you expect us to trust you?
@@mizkomunikation9478 I'm missing your point; what does your comment have to do with what I stated?
Not an attack, just trying to see the correlation?
You can express what you once needed at that time to each other that made you both better at that time , in the past it doesn't mean you want them back in the present time . The message is appreciated 🌞
That because ATTRACTION and nothing else. That's why.
Tripp! ❤
That part I don’t understand why people already know I like real people
Say it again!!😊
This man is FACTS
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🎉🎉
True. Can I like you just to like you.
Having kids with em & all smh 🤯 people are really lost
I❤Trip!!!
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Yes 😊
Listen to God ln Your gut
About people
Oo wee I have done that! Won't do that EVER again! 💯
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Omg im glad somebody's with a mic said it ive been saying this for years ... YEARS!!!. Alot of things this world i cant get with. I think thats why i kick by myself.. im always like. What happened??!!
Broooo Don't miss Tripp is his new name.
Having full blown sex with someone and scared to ask a question. We have made sex too common of a thing that the communication is the weird part
Caint eem talk... aint it a fool?
#facts
Out the park again
King
Right ✅️
#Facts. I co-sign ✍🏾 this message 110%!
All facts!
I know that's right.
Damn. Thank you.
This!!
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🗣🗣
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I’m confused if you’re asking what are we doing here but you don’t want to be gf/bf… so why even bring it up? Why even allow yourself to get closer?
I agree I would sit around my partner Nd not say a word 😂 What does that mean 🥴 Am I a closed off person or are they. Then would yap for hours and hours with others 😂😂 What is that called 🤔
Too much Double speak.
In one hand he preaches emotional vulnerability with one another, but turns around and paints this mind-movie scenario where a consistent physical relationship has been established i.e. “fucking on a regular basis” (which requires GREAT vulnerability) which ideally for women is rewarded with the SAFETY of exclusivity but he makes sure to point out that this is ‘not necessarily a girlfriend or we’re not trying to take it to the next level’….. but questions about further intention, i.e.: “what are we fixing to do?”
What else is there to do if not be exclusive????
So much for feeling safe🙃
Church
I cannot appreciate their work enough... But at the end of the day it's not working... it's the same conversations over and over and over and over and over and over...
Why you let people that close you can't have a discussion with? Because they switch up
#CHURCH
100%
SofT
Real Talk Plain Simple Facts 💯 Respect The Code:🚨😱🫨😲🤔🫡😍💯🥷
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