My Father Treats Me Like S*it, Always Bullies Me, and Never Shies Away from Saying I'm Worthless,...

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024

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  • @angelch5852
    @angelch5852 Місяць тому +250

    Story 2: OP is in her right to forgive her father, but is very telling that he needed a literal self-harm note to reflect on his behavior. He's not sorry, but the reality of the situation hit him hard. If his daughter died, it'd be on him. If he remained oblivious this, he would have never apologized. Just something to think about.

    • @LunaP1
      @LunaP1 Місяць тому +17

      This comment exactly. It's pure narcissism and apathy.

    • @user-df5wy4vd8k
      @user-df5wy4vd8k 21 день тому

      Yup, it's still all about him.

    • @thiccredgyal3404
      @thiccredgyal3404 19 днів тому

      It's because he doesn't want to look bad

  • @merykhan97
    @merykhan97 Місяць тому +358

    Story 2: I hope the dad knows he destroyed his daughter in every possible way. Nothing he does now changes his past.

    • @sashwing7726
      @sashwing7726 Місяць тому +27

      Yeah nothing makes sense the father's logic seem to be was I really that bad and I was always proud of you

    • @Lastandfinalunicorn
      @Lastandfinalunicorn Місяць тому +5

      Literally all of these stories are written by AI, so don't cry yourself to sleep

    • @Xtreme-qk5qg
      @Xtreme-qk5qg Місяць тому +37

      ​@@Lastandfinalunicorn actually it's just an AI voice. The stories are written by actual people. There's an entire subreddit for this sort of schtick.

    • @Lastandfinalunicorn
      @Lastandfinalunicorn Місяць тому

      @Xtreme-qk5qg no, sweetie. These are AI too. You can easily get multiple AI to write specific stories just like these. I even do it for college on ChatGPT.

    • @Catherine.Dorian.
      @Catherine.Dorian. Місяць тому +8

      @@Lastandfinalunicornyou can tell the ones written by AI, they use most of the same buzzwords and it’s not written like a normal person but a creative writing assignment

  • @QrincessQri
    @QrincessQri Місяць тому +97

    Story 2 hits so close to home. I befriended a shy girl named Sarah in 6th grade who became like a sister to me. Despite being shy she always made a habit to greet everyone with a warm smile, and with kindness even if they didn’t deserve it from her. Her father however was a massive POS and verbally and mentally abused her daily for most of her life while treating her siblings and half siblings lovingly. Shortly after we started our senior year she had a mental breakdown and took her own life. She had written personal notes for a select few people (myself included, occasionally reread mine and just cry for hours while holding it), and then left a public goodbye note on social media. In her public note she called out a few people for their bullying and abusive behavior but her father was the main person in her post. This man so thoroughly destroyed his own daughter that she took her own life. Yes, some other people also helped push her to this decision but he was the main perpetrator. Turns out she was the product of an affair and not his biological daughter. This monster took all that anger of his wife cheating on him and becoming pregnant with her AP’s baby out on innocent child that had ZERO control over how they were conceived. Some people are just so freaking immature and have zero business being parents or step parents. Like this bastard easily could’ve left his wife to raise her AP’s baby on her own. HE made the conscious decision to stay with her, and help raise the baby… all while doing the world’s worst job with it.
    My friend would’ve turned 29 this past May, and I miss her more and more each day. She was my platonic soulmate without a doubt.

    • @dusklight7907
      @dusklight7907 Місяць тому +10

      What happened to the father after she made her post and everything? I need to hear about this pos's karma after reading this. I'm so sorry for what she went through

    • @paragsaini7284
      @paragsaini7284 Місяць тому +1

      Sorry to hear this 😢

  • @joyhahn2572
    @joyhahn2572 Місяць тому +93

    second story: your father mentally *abused* you your whole life and you think its your fault you had a mental breakdown, and he let you believe that? I am crying right now you poor thing.

  • @ElfabatheWitch
    @ElfabatheWitch Місяць тому +108

    2nd story broke my heart. I wish OP learned why her father treated her so badly.

    • @LunaP1
      @LunaP1 Місяць тому +32

      Sounds like dad was narcissistic, and seeing her writing about her self-harm was what woke him up. He screwed up. He knew he screwed up and knew that if he didn't fix it, he'd lose everything.

    • @nataliereeves3594
      @nataliereeves3594 Місяць тому +7

      He sounds like a sexist who doesn't think a daughter can do anything.

    • @emperorconstantinexipalaio4121
      @emperorconstantinexipalaio4121 Місяць тому +1

      @@nataliereeves3594That doesn’t make sense though given his criticisms of her were suggesting she wasn’t working hard enough and that she was failing to meet expectations. If he thought his daughter couldn’t do anything, he wouldn’t have unrealistically high expectations to begin with, no?
      My guess is that this story is based in another country or culture where this behavior towards children, perhaps the oldest or daughters, is viewed as normal and acceptable.

  • @thousandyardgavri2785
    @thousandyardgavri2785 Місяць тому +97

    I wouldn't forgive my father. Im gonna rebel if I were op and blame it on him.. it made me feel sick how he treated her

    • @THELTX427VA
      @THELTX427VA Місяць тому +1

      doing somthing like that wont bring you any joy or satisfaction... it will only lead you down a darker path

    • @irochristodoulou6505
      @irochristodoulou6505 Місяць тому +6

      ​@@THELTX427VANah.

    • @helenaprudenciado4388
      @helenaprudenciado4388 Місяць тому +1

      You know, forming a rock band or a biker gang that helps with a purpose would be a better rebellion.

  • @Spacemanct
    @Spacemanct Місяць тому +150

    Ahh, the old I won't file assault charges because I don't want to ruin the person who assaulted me life. She will absolutely change for the better and never do something like that again.

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 Місяць тому +16

      I really despise those sort of stories. “I’m a victim, but rather than do something about it when I could, I don’t want to because I’d rather be a long suffering martyr. I don’t want to go to the police because they won’t do anything anyway. I don’t want to do the practical thing but want others to bail me out as a result.”

    • @XllllllollllllX
      @XllllllollllllX Місяць тому

      Fr bruh ​@@princessmarlena1359

    • @RequiemPoete
      @RequiemPoete Місяць тому +12

      TBF these people tend to be so beaten down that they self sabatoge.​@princessmarlena1359

    • @taylorhoge4378
      @taylorhoge4378 Місяць тому +4

      I've heard about that abuse literally alters the brainwaves of the victm. They literally can't think straight enough to know they can escape or even begin to figure out how. So the cycle continues, its awful.

    • @taylorhoge4378
      @taylorhoge4378 Місяць тому +2

      I've heard about that abuse literally alters the brainwaves of the victm. They literally can't think straight enough to know they can escape or even begin to figure out how. So the cycle continues, its awful.

  • @AskCorey
    @AskCorey Місяць тому +61

    I hope the dad knows he destroyed his daughter in every possible way 😒

  • @lynettephillip2412
    @lynettephillip2412 Місяць тому +20

    Parents don't understand that they have the ability to curse their children.

  • @goodnightmyprince6734
    @goodnightmyprince6734 Місяць тому +61

    Poor op in the second story

  • @Midgetbear-nk1fe
    @Midgetbear-nk1fe Місяць тому +11

    Story 2 is like a 101 guide to being a bad parent

  • @beelzebub1938
    @beelzebub1938 Місяць тому +12

    #2 It's sad how it took her father almost losing her to even acknowledge her. I hope she's able get help and get her mental health under control.

  • @maryangeldeleon5315
    @maryangeldeleon5315 Місяць тому +35

    Story 3: Gaslight. Gatekeep. Girlboss.

    • @kirby-luvr
      @kirby-luvr Місяць тому +5

      I loved this OP so much she's my hero

  • @amyyaku5022
    @amyyaku5022 Місяць тому +6

    S2: The dad doesn't care even after reading the note. Abusive parents know exactly how they treat their kids and don't care. They don't see kids as their own people but extensions of themselves and they only act guilty if they either get caught or their victim tries to self delete. There's also the sad reality of people pretending to care about mental illness until stuff like this happens. People go from caring to disgusted and ostracize you when you've finally had enough and breakdown. The irony is if they actually cared from the beginning none of this would've happened.

  • @Nicholem718-1
    @Nicholem718-1 Місяць тому +11

    Story 3: OP is a rock star. 🤩

  • @KiraCornell-ic8bh
    @KiraCornell-ic8bh Місяць тому +8

    Story 2 went from kinda going good to straight up crazy

    • @fatrat3428
      @fatrat3428 Місяць тому

      second party feels very ai generated in a way

  • @SyndroOmCani
    @SyndroOmCani Місяць тому +8

    Story 2: father destroyed his daughter for life. She may have CPTSD instead of if those diagnosis.

  • @hanma6480
    @hanma6480 Місяць тому +51

    so op dad destroy her life and just say sorry smh

  • @Mop222
    @Mop222 Місяць тому +32

    There was a big gap between getting better in the second story and the knife incident. What happened? I had become hooked into these stories, but Ai sucks.

    • @LadyBern
      @LadyBern Місяць тому +7

      Yeah up until the dad found the letter it was semi believable but Dad finds the note that could be seen as a sue E slide note and he doesn't panic thinking op is going to self delete (I hate that I have to write like this so my post won't be deleted!).
      Then jump to knife incident and psych ward stay where they are so awesome they almost escaped told in the most emotionless way. And I don't mean the reader, none of the OP's feelings are being told that leads up to the mental breakdown it just happens. Sounds like a tween angst fanfiction.
      If you're going to blow smoke up my back end at least do it right.

  • @boneymeroney2674
    @boneymeroney2674 Місяць тому +14

    My house hounds are all HOWLING. 😂

  • @lastofadyingbreed4850
    @lastofadyingbreed4850 Місяць тому +47

    As a survivor of CSA, a 10 year old SA'ing another 10 year old is pretty hard to believe and no one immediately called BS only feds into her delusions
    Edit: of course, I believe that a child can SA a child as this is what happened to me, I doubt the story because of her ever changing details

    • @sliqyplayz8072
      @sliqyplayz8072 Місяць тому +13

      I also feel like it’s pretty weird that all of the sudden 30 years later she has PTSD from seeing bad stuff from volunteering, but then she switches her story and says it’s because she got SA’ed like I feel like that isn’t just something that just pops into your mind randomly 30 years after it happens.

    • @sliqyplayz8072
      @sliqyplayz8072 Місяць тому +4

      Also this is also coming from somebody who isn’t afraid to lie about abuse just to evade the law

    • @grubsgrave
      @grubsgrave Місяць тому +10

      Children can SA other children, most of the time it's learnt behaviour from being sa'd themselves.

    • @lastofadyingbreed4850
      @lastofadyingbreed4850 Місяць тому +3

      @@grubsgrave no I believe they can as mine was child on child, the doubt is in her changing story

    • @grubsgrave
      @grubsgrave Місяць тому +3

      @lastofadyingbreed4850 It is common for victims to not get the details 100% correct even when writing, memory fog, and misremembering happens.

  • @Mehhh_was_here
    @Mehhh_was_here Місяць тому +4

    1st story... for every asshooole of the story there are always those who enables them...sigh

  • @lonewanderer8743
    @lonewanderer8743 Місяць тому +2

    last story with the obsessiveness the ex is displaying sounds like she's playing a dangerous game with someone who's clearly unhinged. This is how you end up on the ID channel.

  • @silverwinterwolf2064
    @silverwinterwolf2064 Місяць тому +3

    Story 2: That father isn't upset that OP is commiting self hard, he just doesn't want he OP telling the rest of his family, if he was sorry, he wouldnt have done any of what he did.

  • @saundrahuff5870
    @saundrahuff5870 Місяць тому +7

    First story. See? I tell people I have cptsd. I also tell people so they know if I feel triggered, I’ll get up and walk away, or if I’m triggered bad, they need to leave.

  • @jondoty-cd3kr
    @jondoty-cd3kr Місяць тому +4

    2nd op deserves better and I hope she gets it.😢

    • @nataliereeves3594
      @nataliereeves3594 Місяць тому +4

      Why did the mom never put a stop to this behaviour? Did she think it was OK as long as he didn't treat her badly?

    • @kitsumekat
      @kitsumekat Місяць тому +1

      ​@@nataliereeves3594Some mothers are like that. They would rather the target take the hit instead of them.
      It takes them years to realize that they end up losing out later on.

  • @StaresAtYouInContempt
    @StaresAtYouInContempt Місяць тому +2

    Story 3: that ladies and gentlemen is how you make a stalker and someone who wants to kill you.

  • @hennigadient4265
    @hennigadient4265 Місяць тому

    As someone that isn't able to work anymore bc of mental illness and stuggeled all my life with selfharm and ending thoughts this story maid me tear up... why it needed that much for the father to realize his behavior?! why the kid needs to gain back their trust?! why does the mother doesn't see her stuggel, and isnt ashamed for not seeing it all that time?! it is the job o the parents to explain it to the other kids! to protect her of the other people in place! they know how bad she is and they let her alone again? it breaks my heart😭 she needs help! and not the pressure to "gain" them back! ( sorry for bad english)

  • @Brit626
    @Brit626 Місяць тому

    Story two is heartbreaking.

  • @denisebrathwaite8259
    @denisebrathwaite8259 Місяць тому +7

    Read the one with the inlaws trying to get rid of the triplets

  • @LODintheshadows
    @LODintheshadows Місяць тому +1

    3rd story, like all his excuses genuinley sick, but the 2nd one stands out to me. "I was busy with work and decided to sort it all out before coming to visit you, that's why I didn't say anything to you and blocked you on everything". Feel blocking partner in everything basically means you have 0 real interest in them

  • @LODintheshadows
    @LODintheshadows Місяць тому +1

    Story 2, well that last update feels like it came out of left field

  • @Killahbee168
    @Killahbee168 Місяць тому

    Playing with somebody with true attentions heart can be very deadly

  • @thepriorstone4064
    @thepriorstone4064 Місяць тому

    Story 2: well. That escalated quickly

  • @hennigadient4265
    @hennigadient4265 Місяць тому

    second note: I see everyone is shocked about the ending of story 2. But this is how it goes... she was suvering for long and a sorry doesnt fix it. She exploded!

  • @sambrown2322
    @sambrown2322 Місяць тому

    Second story is where the dad has narcissist and misogynist written all over him

  • @monkeymanpc
    @monkeymanpc 23 дні тому

    Story 3: girl was part of a roster, that’s really all it was.

  • @taminostam9912
    @taminostam9912 Місяць тому

    if you haven't posted consistently and ask for true but nice advice... why go to Reddit? i mean they stand by you if you need advice but most if not all Redditors don't mince words. they tell you straight up and i admire that

  • @saden1274
    @saden1274 Місяць тому +3

    Thats the worst minecraft gameplay ive ever seen

  • @mudshovel289
    @mudshovel289 16 днів тому

    Oh my god, at least make the stories realistic.

  • @Wizard_money
    @Wizard_money Місяць тому

    Du yu kno da wae

  • @Emil_LLscpfan
    @Emil_LLscpfan Місяць тому +10

    Day 226 of commenting to help secretvoices

    • @SecretVoices25
      @SecretVoices25  Місяць тому +1

      Day 226 of thank you for your support❤️❤️❤️