A great instinct, but I think this is beyond the domain of a psychologist at this point. She needs a psychiatrist, this isn't "talk through your problems". This is more "Your brain is chemically imbalanced or severely damaged and you need to be on strong medication" territory. There's insecurity and projection, then there's complete insanity. There is a clinical diagnosis here which needs to be established. That's not to say a psychologist has no utility in unpacking the story, but this is a job for the ol' prescription pad, if not a rubber room, lol. This is purely speculation, but I'm gonna take a stab at guessing how this started, even there we lack any supportive evidence (a.k.a. I'm going to talk out of my ass, lol). I'll bet the ex-friend who had a crush on OP probably included OP during the disclosure of his "list" of former partners to his present girlfriend, probably because he was insecure about that list being a little short. He lived far away from them, so there's nobody to fact-check this with, he was able to make up a bullshit story he thought couldn't be disproven. He lied to make himself seem like he was more romantically or sexually experienced, like women found him more desirable, etc. It's just a common thing insecure men do, they "pad the numbers". I don't know why, I don't see the logic in it, and I think most women would prefer a partner with a lower "body-count". But it happens often. So Ms. Nutjob is under the impression OP is a former lover, fueled by her boyfriend's B.S. story. They get into town, and his story about his past doesn't mesh up with what she actually sees. His story simply doesn't line up with reality. So crazy girl assumes a cover-up... people must have a reason for staying tight-lipped about their past "relationship". They must be hiding their friend's affair. Crazy girl is herself desperately insecure, and this intrusive thought takes up residence in her brain, and now she can't silence it. She doesn't know who to trust, so she trusts no one. OP's kid kind of looks like her boyfriend, so she starts playing "connect the dots" like Parkinson's patient on a rollercoaster, and a wildly distorted picture begins to take shape, lol. Beneath all the crazy, there has to be some chain of causality that led to this specific delusion. I'm making a guess at what that might be, it could be something else. But there is some thread to follow that took them all here. That's where a psychologist may be able to lend some insight or understanding. But her actions in response to this are still not even remotely rational, even under such a presumption. She's not right in the head, and likely needs to be on a strict diet of anti-psychotics and sedatives for a while. If Benzos don't help, copper-jacketed lead does, and she's getting dangerously close to that threshold.
I'm certain that ex friend has been feeding those ideas to his GF. Note at at that reunion he kept trying to bring up with situation with OP while also trasing ehr husband, and kept implying that the kid was his, he's the source of his GF's delusions. This didn't come from no where, he's been feeding her those ideas
@@IzzyPR2010 and you believe that these delusions are just falling out of the sky or do you think they did something and whether or not the kid is his, he has a reason to suspect the kid may be his?
@@HomeDefender30 Look at his conversions with his friends, it obvious he's been making this up because he wants to break up OP's marriage. His comments trashing OP's husband and acting like he needs to rescue her from him. Also did you not catch the part about how OP and her husband were in another state when the child was conceived. It's his plan and his GF is a stupid pawn. He's been telling his GF these stories to get her to try to help in to breaking up the marriage so he can then try to get OP for himself, there's more evidence of that then there is for your claims that something much have happened between OP and that dude.
Story 1: "We don't know why you're so worried." The woman became convinced a random child was an affair baby all because her boyfriend had a crush on OP and she has no idea how genetics work. That kind of Mental Gymnastics can be scary.
Tell your family if they want someone to care for your mom that anyone in your family should care for your mom. And leave you your husband and your baby alone.
They actually think OP should leave her TODDLER SON for her ADULT MOTHER??? Her child is more important than her mom. Either the relatives can help or shut up
Last story, OP needs to report that transplant coordinator for unprofessional conduct, her behavior is crossing a line. Once she was told no the first time that should have been the end of it.
Story 1, the crazed ex friend wants to try and break you up from your husband so he can try to slide himself on in there. So he is using his girlfriend. That's why he's not shutting her down. But OP needs to tell her, that if her boyfriend is cheating on you, why the hell you sill with him. Story 2, she needs to cut out the toxic family. She would be so much happier. Those people would never drop their life to help you. The wellbeing of your family that you made comes before your mom who has refused to compromised. You can also tell the family A-hole who are telling you to abandoned your family to pay you the current pay with health benefits from their pockets because that what family do. So tell them they need to do their part in this "family" scheme and pay out of their pockets for any and all bills.
and offering to have that woman in your house?? that is putting your kid, husband, and yourself at risk. think she'd honor 'no brother in house'? she never has ever done that. don't believe that.
Story #1 I don't know what the mental GF's problem is, but I figure the ex-friend's problem is that he is extremely obsessed and unhinged over OP and thus are using this as a way to ruin OP's marriage in hopes to somehow get together with OP in the most unhinged way possible that only works in his head.😱 It's most probably that his "crush" have grown into something unhealthy and along with OP's giving birth to 2 healthy kids along with a third child coming is not helping this at all.😱 Regardless of what the problem is with the ex-friend and GF is that both are a threat towards OP and her family's health and safety, I really hope that there are good news saying they are arrested for defamation, harassment and whatever else that they are planning to do to get their way!! 🙏🍀
Story 2 your family wants to throw you under the buss they don’t want to take care of her so they want you to give up your life. What they are suggesting are delusional give up your job your son your husband? Are they even listening to themselves
1) I didn’t see this so I’m just curious. With your former friend has there ever been any kind of sexuality activity between you or Him? Because the last time I checked, the only way the child could be here is if you two actually had sex. It seems to me that they are both operating on a less than full deck and should not to be taken lightly
I mean, the kid was conceived in a different country than the loser. I think his only goal is to ruin OP'd Marriage and swoop in to get her after everything burns down. Not like I haven't heard of people thinking like this. I heard a story where a woman was fully convinced she could get a man to divorce his wife for her. He never did, and was very clear he was not interested.
I don’t know… she never pushed back on “the kid could be his” with a “we never had relations”…. Leads me to believe her and him had a thing, and even though the kid probably isn’t his, it’s probably close enough to the conception that he isn’t 100% sure and wants to know.
@@FeMalePajama yeah… there is a big huge gaping hole in her story that “I had sex with my friend and now he thinks my baby is his….” Fills in just perfectly.
first story: these people need psychological help. they made up a whole affair in their heads then tried to materialize it. this is some insane shit
A great instinct, but I think this is beyond the domain of a psychologist at this point.
She needs a psychiatrist, this isn't "talk through your problems". This is more "Your brain is chemically imbalanced or severely damaged and you need to be on strong medication" territory.
There's insecurity and projection, then there's complete insanity. There is a clinical diagnosis here which needs to be established. That's not to say a psychologist has no utility in unpacking the story, but this is a job for the ol' prescription pad, if not a rubber room, lol.
This is purely speculation, but I'm gonna take a stab at guessing how this started, even there we lack any supportive evidence (a.k.a. I'm going to talk out of my ass, lol).
I'll bet the ex-friend who had a crush on OP probably included OP during the disclosure of his "list" of former partners to his present girlfriend, probably because he was insecure about that list being a little short. He lived far away from them, so there's nobody to fact-check this with, he was able to make up a bullshit story he thought couldn't be disproven. He lied to make himself seem like he was more romantically or sexually experienced, like women found him more desirable, etc.
It's just a common thing insecure men do, they "pad the numbers". I don't know why, I don't see the logic in it, and I think most women would prefer a partner with a lower "body-count". But it happens often.
So Ms. Nutjob is under the impression OP is a former lover, fueled by her boyfriend's B.S. story. They get into town, and his story about his past doesn't mesh up with what she actually sees. His story simply doesn't line up with reality. So crazy girl assumes a cover-up... people must have a reason for staying tight-lipped about their past "relationship". They must be hiding their friend's affair.
Crazy girl is herself desperately insecure, and this intrusive thought takes up residence in her brain, and now she can't silence it. She doesn't know who to trust, so she trusts no one. OP's kid kind of looks like her boyfriend, so she starts playing "connect the dots" like Parkinson's patient on a rollercoaster, and a wildly distorted picture begins to take shape, lol.
Beneath all the crazy, there has to be some chain of causality that led to this specific delusion. I'm making a guess at what that might be, it could be something else. But there is some thread to follow that took them all here. That's where a psychologist may be able to lend some insight or understanding. But her actions in response to this are still not even remotely rational, even under such a presumption. She's not right in the head, and likely needs to be on a strict diet of anti-psychotics and sedatives for a while.
If Benzos don't help, copper-jacketed lead does, and she's getting dangerously close to that threshold.
I'm certain that ex friend has been feeding those ideas to his GF. Note at at that reunion he kept trying to bring up with situation with OP while also trasing ehr husband, and kept implying that the kid was his, he's the source of his GF's delusions. This didn't come from no where, he's been feeding her those ideas
@@IzzyPR2010 and you believe that these delusions are just falling out of the sky or do you think they did something and whether or not the kid is his, he has a reason to suspect the kid may be his?
@@HomeDefender30 Look at his conversions with his friends, it obvious he's been making this up because he wants to break up OP's marriage. His comments trashing OP's husband and acting like he needs to rescue her from him. Also did you not catch the part about how OP and her husband were in another state when the child was conceived. It's his plan and his GF is a stupid pawn. He's been telling his GF these stories to get her to try to help in to breaking up the marriage so he can then try to get OP for himself, there's more evidence of that then there is for your claims that something much have happened between OP and that dude.
Story 1: "We don't know why you're so worried." The woman became convinced a random child was an affair baby all because her boyfriend had a crush on OP and she has no idea how genetics work. That kind of Mental Gymnastics can be scary.
She is infertile they are babysnatchers.
Those kind of people have psychotic breaks and murder kids, that's why it's scary. Like the lawyer said it can really go from 0-100 real quick.
Tell your family if they want someone to care for your mom that anyone in your family should care for your mom. And leave you your husband and your baby alone.
They actually think OP should leave her TODDLER SON for her ADULT MOTHER???
Her child is more important than her mom. Either the relatives can help or shut up
Op needs to just walk away from mom, brother, and the flying monkeys. You can't help people who don't want help.
Last story, OP needs to report that transplant coordinator for unprofessional conduct, her behavior is crossing a line. Once she was told no the first time that should have been the end of it.
Your brother needs to go to jail and throw away the keys.
This is higher form of delusional
25:25 sudden unaliving of someone's pet llamas in Minecraft was rather disturbing.
Second story: you can't please people like that, because what they really want is control over you.
You deserve happiness and all the best in the world to come stay safe and take care of yourself.
I can't believe the nerve of some people-stay strong and protect your family from this insanity 💥
Story 1, the crazed ex friend wants to try and break you up from your husband so he can try to slide himself on in there. So he is using his girlfriend. That's why he's not shutting her down. But OP needs to tell her, that if her boyfriend is cheating on you, why the hell you sill with him.
Story 2, she needs to cut out the toxic family. She would be so much happier. Those people would never drop their life to help you. The wellbeing of your family that you made comes before your mom who has refused to compromised. You can also tell the family A-hole who are telling you to abandoned your family to pay you the current pay with health benefits from their pockets because that what family do. So tell them they need to do their part in this "family" scheme and pay out of their pockets for any and all bills.
and offering to have that woman in your house?? that is putting your kid, husband, and yourself at risk. think she'd honor 'no brother in house'? she never has ever done that. don't believe that.
Story #1
I don't know what the mental GF's problem is, but I figure the ex-friend's problem is that he is extremely obsessed and unhinged over OP and thus are using this as a way to ruin OP's marriage in hopes to somehow get together with OP in the most unhinged way possible that only works in his head.😱
It's most probably that his "crush" have grown into something unhealthy and along with OP's giving birth to 2 healthy kids along with a third child coming is not helping this at all.😱
Regardless of what the problem is with the ex-friend and GF is that both are a threat towards OP and her family's health and safety, I really hope that there are good news saying they are arrested for defamation, harassment and whatever else that they are planning to do to get their way!! 🙏🍀
It might be good for you to go no contact with your family.
Thanks!
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
Story 2 your family wants to throw you under the buss they don’t want to take care of her so they want you to give up your life. What they are suggesting are delusional give up your job your son your husband? Are they even listening to themselves
Why wasn't she arrested 🤔
Go no contact with mom brother family and get new phone numbers you and your husband and get that toxic life out of yours.
Theres 2 more updates on Reddit
1) I didn’t see this so I’m just curious. With your former friend has there ever been any kind of sexuality activity between you or Him? Because the last time I checked, the only way the child could be here is if you two actually had sex. It seems to me that they are both operating on a less than full deck and should not to be taken lightly
I mean, the kid was conceived in a different country than the loser. I think his only goal is to ruin OP'd Marriage and swoop in to get her after everything burns down. Not like I haven't heard of people thinking like this. I heard a story where a woman was fully convinced she could get a man to divorce his wife for her. He never did, and was very clear he was not interested.
I don’t know… she never pushed back on “the kid could be his” with a “we never had relations”…. Leads me to believe her and him had a thing, and even though the kid probably isn’t his, it’s probably close enough to the conception that he isn’t 100% sure and wants to know.
@@HomeDefender30 that’s what I was thinking 🤔
@@FeMalePajama yeah… there is a big huge gaping hole in her story that “I had sex with my friend and now he thinks my baby is his….” Fills in just perfectly.
@@HomeDefender30 The kid is 3 and was conceived when OP was out of the country.
S3: "Due to my mental health, it is not a good idea. I do not handle death well, and please do not ask again."