Relationship Problems? This Marriage Advice Saved My Relationship & Will Change Your Life
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- Опубліковано 29 чер 2024
- Relationship problems? There’s good news. These revolutionary marriage counseling techniques can save your marriage and improve every relationship in your life.
Relationship experts and married couple Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt are here to help. In this episode, they share the marriage counseling and relationship advice they’ve taught to thousands of couples through individual counseling and workshops. These techniques will not only lead to better, healthier relationships - they can heal the world.
Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt are partners in life and work. Together, they have written over 10 books of marriage advice, including three New York Times bestsellers, and the mega-hit “Getting The Love You Want.” Harville and Helen co-created Imago Relationship Therapy. Harville is a couple’s therapist, educator, and clinical trainer with over 40 years of experience. He’s been on The Oprah Winfrey Show 18 times. Helen was installed in the Women’s Hall Of Fame for her leadership in the global women’s movement. Not only have they been married for 30 years, but they also know how to save marriages and help couples build the relationship of their dreams based on mutual respect and deeper communication.
Bickering with your partner and endless fights with your colleagues isn’t just a sign of one unhealthy relationship. It's a problem with our culture.
Negative relationships have HUGE long-term impacts on society…
* 100% of people in a negative relationship have a greater risk of cardiac death.
* People in broken marriages are 60% less productive.
* Negativity in relationships is one of the contributing factors to at least nine major social issues - everything from substance addiction to violence and crime.
EVERYONE needs to watch this incredible interview and learn these life-changing - and surprisingly simple - communication techniques that’ll transform your relationships and your life.
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Need a relationship adjustment? Use these quick links to catch the highlights:
7:58 - The 3-step dialogue process that’ll work magic in your relationship.
17:39 - Why learning to talk about a problem actually solves the problem.
25:14 - The simple (but not easy!) path to success in a relationship.
28:25 - Where good relationships go wrong & how to get back on track.
37:35 - How to create a “conscious partnership” - and why it matters.
41:11 - The powerful mindset shift that’ll change your relationship overnight.
43:25 - Why negative relationships are literally killing you, and how to stop it.
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Thanks for the video may God bless you more. I was also facing a marital abuse in my marriage and I thank God that everything is settled.
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In the act of the very first moments they start speaking you get the entire summation: “do you want to start?” /“ You coined the term”…mutual respect
Dear Mary try to make key points summary for those language hearing difficult ❤
"I just love that I'm married to this man..." Awww melts my heart!
Marie is such a good listener. So nice to have a host that lets the guest talk without trying to be the guest.
I love that, when you invited guests to have an interview, they must speak, Marie was so professional and like you said a good listener
That's well said. Gary Vee, for example, constantly interrupts his guests. I like his content, but I don't like the fact that he interrupts all the time. Sometimes, he goes even as far as telling he just wants to talk.
When you have something to tell and explain in detail, it often takes quite a lot of effort to gather your thoughts and present them in the best way possible. If your interviewer constantly interrupts you, you certainly feel threatened and try to rush out all of your thoughts. It's just a bad dynamic. Marie also shows she's been listening and done her homework.
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Such a good skill
Prior to this video, i was reading my bible and fell upon 2 corinthians 12 concentrating on the verses on love. I prayed to Elohim asking to learn how to love. And this notifcation came up. This has renewed me. Thank you.
This is beautiful and is a proof that God is guiding your life. Thank you for sharing.
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Emokiriemi Abednego : if you had done Imago, this may not have happened ;)
There is so much marriage advice out there! The problem is you need two people willing to work on it and be committed to getting better. One cannot change a marriage. If you're married to someone who will not commit to getting better at communicating and making the marriage better, you either suck it up or leave...
Ildiko Olga Markovsky so true. It’s need two sides
True! Hopefully both can agree to try and see what happens.
Wise words
No. This is a structural solution if from very young age we are taught about relationship and marriage. Our parents stay in their mariage because from a very young age they were taught about marriage and everyone role.
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Hi Marie,
Always enjoy your interviews, and this one in particular. We have been holding "Getting The Love You Want" workshops in NYC for the last 5 years and owe so much to the work of Harville & Helen. We too would not be where we are had it not been for bringing the Imago Dialogue into our lives. Wonder and curiosity now are our relationship foundation. We are always humbled by the transformation of a couple that can become vulnerable and learn to hold space for each other over the course of a weekend. Thank you for sharing this video and all that you do to share your path.
Much love and respect,
Christine Petrik & David Green
Married 20 years and we’ve never been happier bc of this work
Dear Marie,
I love to see how emotional you get while talking about what helped your relationship. It's so clear how thankful you are for this and it makes me happy to see your true colors through this conversation. Please stay as you are, you're an awesome person! ❤
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Oh my gosh this quote: "you do the best you can... while I'm gonna be myself" This really hit me hard. Isn't this what we often do in the relationship?
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Ohhh I love that fact they give each other that chance to talk with love and respect
I've been reading Harville and Helen for many, many years. Helen is SO darling--just love her! The Imago dialog is magical and common sense. My husband came to our relationship with a ton of relationship work behind him. Even so, using Imago dialoguing with one another was transformative. We've gotten lax about this lately so thank you so much for featuring Harville and Helen on your show--their work has been critical in our marriage. I always felt defensive and in counseling, this was pointed out to me. Using Imago has helped me to let go of the feeling of defensiveness and for my husband to adjust his more hard-line attitude and perceptions. We really do all want to be known ... as Helen says, understood. This long interview was amazing-thank you Marie!!
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I NEEDED this today and you posted it today! Truly a miracle. Thank you.
I love how Marie is such a good listener. Great message from you three. Love it.
I clicked on this video and then thought ugh alright let's SPEEE IT X2 and then I listened. I haven't practiced their method but it makes me feel safe already. I am glad i didn't x2 it. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.
Fabulous episode! Marie is such a great host- I love the way she listens 😍😍
Wonderful advice! Man…..the tears I shed watching this. 😄 I kept stopping the video to clean up the momentum, then come back to this compelling conversation. I’ll begin to put these ideas into practice immediately. Thanks. 🤗 Living without judgement is a gift to yourself, everything and everyone else. I found it easier after I realized that Peace meant I didn’t need to know what would happen next. 💜
I LOVE the question "is there more about that"...that just changes the dynamic and nature of the conversation.
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After passing and taking driver's license, still accidents occur, it's because rules are not followed, same can happen in life also, distraction, lust, etc. To become a human is discipline and work in progress till death. But still sensiticing makes life little better.
Less accidents happen when you read the book....🤷🏽♀️ so I guess that was the point of her analogy
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Not only marriage. The conversation tactics work in any relationship.
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THIS IS THE MOST PRATICAL WEDDING COUNSELLING I HAVE SEEN EVER
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Kudos to you Marie for being a great interviewer and allowing your guests to speak freely. I am a therapist who works with women in struggling marriage / long term relationships and the piece that really hit home for me was "the healthy couple is the upriver connection that prevents downriver cleanup" - so, so true! Thanks for this video I am sure it is extremely impactful for so many!
I came out of a controlling marriage last year (25 years) and am determined if I ever date again I will have a different relationship. I have loved this video and have been furiously taking notes!!! Thank you for sharing their amazing expertise!!
Very Respectfully With All Due Respect Good Gods Day, Since God Is The Authority Of All Scriptural Marriage Let Us See What The Authority Himself Has Commanded Concerning Marriage and Divorce, Let All Be Enlightened By The Heavenly Fathers Commands About Marriage,
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DIVORCE IS SCRIPTURALLY NEVER EVER APPROVED BY GOD, NEVER!
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*MATTHEW 5:31-32 NKJV*
“Furthermore it has been said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.
*LUKE 16:18 NKJV*
18 “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery.
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*1 CORINTHIANS 7:10-16 NKJV*
10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband.
11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her.
13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him.
14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy.
15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace.
16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
*1 CORINTHIANS 7:39 NKJV*
39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
*MALACHI **2:16** NKJV*
16 "For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence," Says the Lord of hosts. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.
*MATTHEW 19:1-9 NKJV*
Jesus' Teaching on Divorce
19 1 Now it came to pass, when Jesus had finished these sayings, that He departed from Galilee and came to the region of Judea beyond the Jordan.
2 And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there.
3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?"
4 And He answered and said to them, "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning 'made them male and female,'
5 and said, 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'?
6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."
7 They said to Him, "Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?" 8 He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.
9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery."
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These Scriptures apply to
1. a male and female marriage only
2. those who are married to their very first spouse
☆Only a spouse that is deceased from the one living spouse is Scripturally allowed to remarry, no one else is allowed to be remarried according to Scripture
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God does not Scripturally authorize nor does God even acknowledge 2nd-second 3rd-third and 4th-fourth spouses
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Religion is a dead thing. Spirituality is alive.
All religion boils down to “because it says right here.” Dead words on a dead page.
Spirituality is connecting with Creator in your heart and being able to discern truth or lies read on any page with Great Spirit.
Your “religion” is nothing but words you swallow whole whether they make a lick of sense or not. There’s no connection to Creator ~ just connection to words/rules on a dead page written by dead men.
@@juneelle370 What reason do you attribute to the seventh day sabbath of the fourth commandment KJV that Jesus created and kept? I like Exodus 31:12-18.
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Being present is the solution, not figuring out a solution
Im sad that My wife and I have never verbalized that we both deserve to feel safe when coming together in our interactions. I mentioned this tonight and her face lit up a smile that should have been from the get go 7 years ago when we married. We are on the verge of her leaving the marriage but she still loves me and our 2 lol daughters.
*sigh* I hope blessings of peace and love to every marriage reading this!
How are you now?
@@yildadiquez7744 I'm constantly changing my view on whether trying to hang on to the slightest bits of hope that this marriage can be saved but she's sure she's happy with her new partner (whom she moved in with while we are still married).
I think it's time to tear this thing down and mourn the death of that marriage. currently she's back in the picture wanting to co-parent after her 7 month "honeymoon" phase with mr new guy. . we'll see how things go. I'm trying to work on myself and give myself the proper time to feel all these feelings that need proper dealing with. God has been my only source of peace and that's been the one and only loyal friend since the get go. Thanks for asking!
Joshua Mancilla damn so she moved in a month after you commented... life is really tough sometimes but
you seem like a genuine person with good intentions. Working on yourself while strengthening your spirituality is the best thing you can do for yourself and your family. Mourning is such a good word to describe the end of a marriage. Do you find yourself in love with her? Co parenting to me is the best option for the girls if parents aren’t together...it’s a big lesson to put yourself aside for the girls...I am on a similar boat, in the sense of I have one foot in our 12 years old marriage and one foot out, we also have 2 girls but there is no one else. He is my best friend and an amazing man. Im just tired of the cycles we get into...have this gut feeling sometimes that not all relationships are here to last a lifetime, including ours. Just don’t want to make such an important decision without being sure.
@@yildadiquez7744 I'm both glad I'm not alone in this but sad that others have to go through this hellish experience.
Do you mind me asking what cycle you seem to be struggling with?
Joshua Mancilla the cycle of me wanting to leave because he isn’t in tune with himself...so if he is feeling bad he won’t admit it but will take it on me, for those periods there is a literal wall that I can’t get through...when he feels better after dumping all his negativity into me, a lot of times for several days...my cup is empty. I’m just kind of done with this...he is trying really hard, he is amazing honestly but I don’t have a the same desire to put work into the relationship...I’m tired.
Unfortunately, if you are with an abusive person, it's best to unlock that door and get off the train, and RUN as fast as you can! Don't waste a second trying to "fix" that relationship
They are absolutely amazing! The message behind their work is so important and timely. Thank you so much for sharing this.
This is such an amazing episode and I see it changing the world. Being present to each other is the solution, not figuring out a solution. That was a big take away.
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Thank you for doing this interview, Marie, wow, I learned so much.
So glad I finally found this. Excellent info and conversation. Thank you!
‘ voice without echo dies ..’ love is 💕
‘Being present with each other is the solution...’ 💕
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I love this! ✨💛✨ I have three pages of notes. Can't wait to start applying it in my relationship.
Yessssss shift from judgement to curiosity with everything!
I am finally finishing listening this video and I am so pleased about the work you two have done.
Thank you UA-cam for these videos I need to better myself for myself and my wife.
Probably the most profound interview to date Marie - thank you so much for sharing.
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As a graduate of Abilene Christian University in the late 70’s I was required to take a course entitled, “Family Relations” before being eligible for a diploma. I have always been thankful for that class. I give it major credit for helping my husband and I build and maintain a happy home and marriage partnership filled with love and laughter, despite all the tragedies life can show you along the way. It’s been my belief all along that if these skills were to be taught in schools across the world we would all live more satisfying lives.
You get what you expect. Pay closer attention to what you were really expecting, not what you tell everyone else you’re expecting. It’s surprising how often what we say doesn’t match what we feel, and it’s more productive to feel it with conviction. Expect to have a successful relationship and you’ll try harder, because losing that sparkling creature isn’t an option, is it?
And hey…..it’s all about how much you love and respect yourself. Be kinder to you. Watch those words, and try to use more loving ones when you talk to yourself. 💜🤗💜 Give laughter a try. Challenge yourself to laugh as often as an average 6 year old, about 300 times a day. 😄
Love and a strong partnership in life are one of the most valuable things in this crazy world and if you are lucky enough to find that, FIGHT FOR IT!
Great it's true we do leave relationships because we feel judged and not safe. Being curious, loving and a good listener is so important. Now I can see why I had breakups and I didn't feel happy or safe in a relationship.
This work is amazing. They are gifts to humankind.
So beautiful and sweet! I appreciate this so much.
Love this!!!! I am eager for more :) "voice without echo dies."
I wrote it down in my journal:)
Harvell, I so appreciate your capacity to handle....shame....without going into competion or resistance.
Thankx so much Marie!!!! Gr8 tips👌 Truely loved it
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His face at 27:04! Lol...such a great couple and great info!
The biggest thing for me that he said that stays in my mind and it really fits my marriage it's when they said fix yourself and I'm going to be who I am
Thanks for this, Marie 💞
WONDERFUL Interview …. This is So Good…. Some of the Best insight and truth I’ve heard in years… there is beauty in this too, it’s safety it’s not always the solutions it’s the safety in being present, to be understood……being present solves the problem, it’s learning to live with safety connection, safety without judgment….. let go of all negativity, I thou, to learn to serve, universal energies, taking care of the in between… a beautiful flow…. This is filled with so much to be used…thank you!!! writing notes, will re- watch….Thank you for sharing this… Grateful……
Awesome, going to set up a workshop between my family and friends
Wow, this was so good! I am sharing with numerous people including family, friends, and community leaders. Thank you for sharing their amazing work. I will be watching again and trying to implement their techniques in my own marriage.
Thank you for your precious video.
love this conversation/interview. What can be more importen than have good relationship.?
Thank you for this amazing interview! My husband and I found imago for our own marriage after 10 years and it transformed our relationship and lives. We are so passionate we become certified imago educators. Thank you Harville and Helen for being my hero’s ❤
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So happy to come across your channel, This was so helpful to me. In just one day I am speaking to my husband differently and he's actually listening. He has no idea where I'm coming from. I really want to get started with Harville and Helen. I will listen to more of their videos. I wonder if there are any of their programs near the Orlando area. Thank you for your lovely UA-cam channel.
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Your best interview yet.
Hi Marie,
I stumbled upon this video on Relationship Problems, and I must say it's a must-watch for anyone struggling in their relationship. The advice shared in this video is practical, relatable, and backed by personal experience. It's refreshing to see an honest and open conversation about common relationship issues. I'm grateful for this video as it has given me some valuable insights on how to overcome challenges and improve my communication with my partner. Highly recommend it to anyone looking to strengthen their relationship.
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Shifting from judgement to curiosity ......well said, well said.
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The thing I learned that captured me the most with this powerful couple is allowing the other to talk more and asking for permission for it to be ok to talk. I personally find myself always trying to make sense of her "movie" without actually listening to what it is that she is trying to tell me.
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He 💯 about the "tone" of problems. I've voiced this several times.
Voice without echo dies. Wow
I listen to this it’s exactly what I’m going through .
Excellent......thanks to you all !!!!!!
Loved this episode! This couple is so cute!
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I'm not married yet, but here I am preparing myself
Most of the time we are happy with each other, and sometimes we have our differences,
I couldn’t stop listening to both of you, I want to hear you both more then any Netflix now
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Loved the video, so downloaded some of their books the other night and my partner and I read it together. Agreed we are going to try the exercises. So happy! After 9 years in our relationship, but only now deciding to make the marriage our priority in life.
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Marie...now I know why you are so familiar. I worked with your mom in the service industry in the 80's....I am so old now, and you are so beautiful.
Incredible episode ! Great advices . Thank you❤
Thank YOU for being here, Rose! We appreciate you watching 💖
The best advice I can think of that I wish i'd thought of when young is to take an accredited basic psychology course. It will help you to understand yourself and what YOU need first, and also help you pick out those who are putting on an act - which most men and women do at first, and some can keep it up until after marriage a couple of years along the line. Still, there will be tells and a basic psychology course will help you spot important things you might otherwise not notice or may dismiss.
It will also help you in many other areas of your life such as with family, friends, bosses, colleagues, neighbours, children.
This is a great marriage counseling. Divorce has become a new issue in today's world. What should we do to keep the family strong?
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wow!! I would never think of culture being a problem.
That poor man. She would be so difficult as she is thinking she is better than he is coming from ‘high society’ and judgmental and critical of him while trying to change him as she believes she knows best.
Omg there is so much great content I know, but I am having such a difficult time following both of them!! I wonder if you, could summarize their strategies in another show?… the ones that you and your husband used. I really would appreciate the content!
Thanks for the video may God bless you more. I was also facing a marital abuse in my marriage and I thank God that everything is settled.
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Mannn that felt so good to hear what everyone shared ❤️🙏
I totally agree that these skills should be taught in school. "Emotional intelligence" is so important in getting along with others and in building strong family ties and healthy friendships and working relationships.
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Wow. Beautiful advises
This is amazing. I'm single and learning so much from this before I get married
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This seems truly amazing to me. I was raised by a single mother & essentially not being taught about relationships in any traditional sense. These concepts are really how I feel I was/am, naturally. My grandmother once said to me as a youngster "as long as you act with good will in your heart everything will work out ok". That seems to be what I've held on to. Mostly learning as I went, which looking back (even thru any torment) I've been pretty thankful. However, because others HAVE been taught/not taught in various ways and now we all have varied maladapted behaviors, this is where bigger problems happen, right? For example with me, whether it was for being too honest or too accepting, I was either misunderstood &/or taken advantage of. This then caused some maladaptive behaviors in effort to protect myself by keeping parts of me hidden. Or attempting/asking too many questions which would make me appear insecure or as if I were trying to hard. And so on. You may get the picture so I'll leave it at that for now. I don't feel as though I've changed much other than being a but less trusting.
Long story short, I agree that THIS could help humanity get back on track if implemented. Versions if needing variance in as far as appropriateness is concerned could be developed to be beneficial depending on the kind of relationships (business, personal, etc.). Wholeheartedly agree that we need eachother & quite honestly feel best when I am "doing" for others. There is probably a fine line between healthy & unhealthy codependency. And perhaps that is what I am still trying to balance.
I will be watching this again. Thank you.
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Truly God is good . The Bible encorsetes us to slow to speak and swift to hear 👂 it’s so powerful. Bible says tongue is a deadly poison nothing can tame . Book of James 5 . Negativity is everywhere . I’ve been struggling . And I prayed to learn how to communicate and this is an answer to my prayers .
21:42 was so cute and loving 🥰 I hope my husband will do this with me.
How do you become one of the people who can teach this? It was AWESOME! It offered so much hope that I desperately needed.
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This is really really good.
I read your one of your original books that that that'll about about family relationships and how they predict other relationships. I tried to find therapy for this but couldn't find it.
I love a lot of the points mentioned here.. on listening, repeating back, mirroring, and compassionate understanding of two people and the space between and how interconnected relationships are with everything... But like I said, ever since she mentioned "she was high society and he wasn't and she had to fix him.." I felt like they (Marie & Helen) we're kinda laughing at him and if you know Alison Armstrong's work, that's emasculating and kind of cruel too... I felt bad for the guy. He handled it like a champ though and continued to show his intelligence and even complimented his wife. I imagine if he publicly shared his wife's short comings or what bothered him about her in public she would be be so tolerating or accepting.
*she would not be so tolerating or accepting
I did notice that... one more thing she said about he taking credit of other people’s work, he crossing his legs after some topics.. people need to not hurt people!
I didn't understand it that way. I think when she said that she was talking about how wrong she was about her mindset in judging him and trying to change him, instead of accepting him wholeheartedly and not nitpicking about unimportant things. And about herself thinking again wrongly that her husband is the one who needed "fixing" at the therapist's.
LOVE IT!!!thank you!!!
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Great episode, Marie! Just watch this lady's enthusiasm at 30:00. I think I got some ideas for a future animation for my channel :)
Thank you for this Marie ! Ossum info will definately pin up some of the ossum points on fridge / bathroom mirror to remind myself to start paying more attention to all i just learnt !!!! Won't let it be another paper in my paper pile. Good one about the drivers licence... Thank you for your help and helping so many others
Hmmm. I have to try this mirroring thing:)
Interesting take. Don't know if it will work in all settings though. i.e. relationships where there has been abuse, cheating, etc.
Great companionship.. amazing
This was excellent, I’m preparing for marriage here in Dallas… I have a lot to learn. Thank you
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No one goes to Dr Sheyi for a love spell and comes back disappointed..
.. I can testify and vouch for him that
he made my marriage the sweetest.... Thanks so much Dr Sheyi 🔮💖
The Imago process is awesome. I've picked up some of these pieces from different places, but I love how this is all put together. Super powerful!
Thank you!!
🥺 thank you.
Helen mentioned how she wanted to change Hartville while dating him that's so common to want to judge and make someone into your mold. I had a BF and parent's who needed to let me know I needed to uphold their upper standards I never felt safe in that environment.I always felt beneath their upper crust but the thing I learned is you can learn alot by actually listening and not pre judging . So their program really works.
Who down voted this?!?! Craziness, this was really healing and beautiful. ❤
Really Healing and beautiful indeed...
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It was very nice to hear this because Iam try to get back my relationship with my ex-husband. Thank you for sharing this information. May God bless you.
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I agree 100% that marriage licenses should be earned like driver licenses. It's amazing that governments marry people within a few minutes knowing divorces are far more time and financially consuming. So many people need pre-marriage counseling and therapy before entering into a marriage.
30:50 pm. tears of gratitude.
Love this
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