If Exes Were 100% Honest | Split Decision
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0:00 intro
0:40 I miss having sex with my ex
4:20 My family and friends thought I could do better
6:38 I cheated on my ex
8:35 Since our separation, I've slept with someone who is better in bed
10:29 I never fully trusted my ex when we were together
13:40 I recently cried thinking about my ex
15:19 I loved my ex more than they loved me
21:08 I made significant sacrifices in our relationship that went unnoticed and unappreciated
28:21 I wish my ex and I were still together
31:10 I believed we would spend the rest of our lives together
33:33 My ex has a quality that will be really hard to find in someone else
36:16 "Will you take me back?" - Розваги
Ngl the host is so good at getting them to spill lmao
Yes!! Such a supportive instigator 🤣🤣
“so what did he not do around the house🤔”
Why would anyone lie about that in the first place? Seems like a silly to ngl about
😂😂
It's almost like they won't get paid unless they answer all questions (I was an this show before, it's in our contract)
The lady who cheated is constantly blaming her cheating on different love languages and it's driving me crazy. the answer to ur needs not being met would be communicating and try to fix it or break up. not cheating. the answer is never cheating. she is making her situation look so tragic but she probably broke this dudes ability to trust longtherm with her careless actions.
And then she said how she thought of getting back together because she's 30 and wants a family/kids soon 🤢🤢🗑
For real, like love languages is a huge think sometimes some people cant give physical love to somebody and maybe the other partner is craving that. So communication is so important and i feel like if you ever feel like expectations are never met is better to break up than to choose to cheat.
@@nala6846she wanted to have a hoe phase it seems
@@nala6846Yep. I cheated on you, broke your heart, and being the first gf ruined your trust, I'm sorry but it was actually cause of love languages you see that I slept with your friend. My mouth doesn't work so I got my legs to instead. Now that's cleared, shall we start a family?
i understand her fully, and i'm sorry for her feeling that way
Dane after realising he’s not getting a second chance he just decided to be pure chaotic 😂
😂
childish behaviour
I don't think so, his early criticisms were very much on point.
I think he was just holding back from the beginning because he still had a little bit of hope since he loved her more. But clearly he had enough and just decided to stop being gracious with her behavior.
the fact that still to this day she doesnt see him moving thousands of miles so she can stay by her family id have been chaotic way before.
Jen just found out about love languages so that’s her explanation for everything 🤣
If your girl "best friend" is texting you to come cuddle, she ain't your best friend dog.
there was definitely something going on even if he didn't cheat. Crazy to make her feel crazy for seeing that.
I feel something was going on between him and his girl bsf but he didn't want to disclose it.
Yeah he was trying to gaslight so hard. Okay saying the things she did wrong but had an excuse for everything she mentioned.
@@ichgeheunter he’s only telling half the story clearly. His best friend girl friend didn’t just randomly decide to start flirting with him out of nowhere
@@ichgeheunter if you need me to spell it out for you, he clearly let her think about this stuff for a long time and it’s literally why in the video she has trust issues about him. Not telling your partner the truth and dangling the thought you cheated on them/was flirting or doing whatever behind their backs is messed up.
Rae and Mia are full of drama, like I don’t even know who’s the most toxic between the two
I felt like Mia was completely the toxic one
MIA
@@hope-ej1qd but also Rae making Mia's wishes about Rae's own issues and comparing them and saying nothing Mia could ever experience compares to her experiences is toxic af
I couldn’t decide either I’m just happy they broke up 💀
Nobody in this video should have been in a relationship
Difference in love language is NOT an excuse to cheat
The possibility of love language is 90% of the time different with people around me, that doesn't made them a cheater. She wanted to cheat so she did and now she just had to give lame excuses.
she wasnt saying its an excuse, she kept saying it was her biggest regret. she only explained why she did cause the host asked
Priscilla and Victor break my heart in a way. The fact that he went from pursuer to not-relationship-person screams avoidantly attached, which probably made her anxious? Pure speculation ofc. Both seem so genuine and caring and wonderful.
Luna looks like a tired babysitter who just wants to give Dane back to his mom
well she can't because he moved from Florida to Alabama for her
@@PostWarKidsthis is an amazing comment
sobbing
She deserves much better 😭
Women
Jen was straight up ripping My's heart out and eating it in front of him. I feel so bad for the guy.
Me toooo!!! He better NOT go back to her. He can do so much better
i so so hope he finds someone bc he seems so genuine and full of affection to give
she dont deserve another chance, you can tell she desperate now cuz she's older.
It’s better for him on the long run she and the poly chick are extremely toxic like they were fr trying to gaslight their ex on camera🤣🤣 she have the audacity to claim it was due to a difference in love languages🤣 we all know she would’ve continued cheating if she wasn’t caught and if they got back together she will also cheat🗿
She sounds so selfish and amature
Jennifer literally smiled and was holding in her smile when My was talking about how he cried over her. Please don’t take her back My, she doesn’t deserve you at all.
The guy has almost no experience with women. He clearly wants her back. And that's a shame.
That girl is toxic.
She's the reason *"The Red Pill"* exist.
you do realize some people smile or laugh when uncomfortable yes? she’s literally in front of strangers and a camera which will be posted to millions, i don’t think she expected him to go so deep in these discussions..
@@FrankAsagiso a girl awkwardly laughing in an uncomfortable situation is the reason you males are violently misogynistic?
I truly admire Priscilla's ability to be so open-hearted and honest. I can only dream of having this courage level after a painful breakup. Love her
Cry about it than
Priscilla is a catch. And so are you.
My, PLEASE don't take Jen back. She doesn't deserve you. There are literally millions of women out there who will respect you like she NEVER has.
fr, she just wants to get back with him as she's getting older and it's probably harder to find single men who are family oriented now that she wants a family. She can have that, sure, but she doesn't deserve to have it with him.
theres literally even examples in the video of better women, i.e. priscila
"There are literally millions of women out there who will respect you like she NEVER has."
You DEFINITELY don't understand how hard dating is for men. Especially minority men.
@@williamspears1627, as if it isn’t hard for women 😒.
@@williamspears1627dating in general is EXTREMELY hard now a days. People don’t know how to keep healthy relationships/friendships anymore. Yes, it’s easier for women to get laid than men. However exclusively dating someone and both being loyal and respectful is rare. Seems like people are just quick to replace you as soon as there’s one disagreement and that’s going for friendships as well.
The lesbian drama never disappoints bro
the way I skipped all their scenes
@@user-lr1jf7jc5t literally missed on sm tea
“imagine not being able to top someone you love 🥺” im dead😭
That's what happens when two women are together. Drama drama drama 😂
@@athens9867stop complaining and go make them some sandwiches 🤡
Rae has such gaslighter energy. How did Mia “always get what she wanted” sexually if they were both tops but Rae never bottomed but Mia would to please Rae? Not wanting to be strapped is a perfectly valid boundary. Also they completed invalidated any personal feelings Mia may have about her own sexuality and gender just because rae had their own.
Yeah you can tell she would just make her feel bad for anything
Rae is so mean, she's using the fact to she needs to tell the truth to be mean
and also how she said Mia could never feel as intensely as her at 27:18
it was incredibly ironic that she invalidated mias feelings after mia said she did a lot of emotional labor!!! case in point!!!!!!
It doesn't sound like gaslighting...It just sounds like a major disagreement. Stop throwing that word around. Yeesh.
falling for someone and having them just decide they’re done with the relationship is my biggest dating fear
Get ova it..live your life
@@rla8713 i am lmao fears are normal 🤦🏻♀️
better than getting cheated on
@@filtrations they’re both terrible in their own ways 🤷🏻♀️
Sadly it does happen, however you will forget about it, if it does happen to you and you'll be stronger as well. It's a risk I took and I found my soon to be husband🙂
priscilla seemed like such a genuinely sweet person. she will definitely find somebody that wants to be in a long term relationship with her someday
She seems so wholesome.
Priscilla hit me up
Absolutely. Also very beautiful.
Can I ship Priscilla and My ?
Jen only wants My back because she wants a family and realized how good he was for her
exactly!! he better not take her back
I think it's a practicality thing for her and it's understandable, but I think finding someone who is what she wants, speaks her love language, and would be a great father, would be a better person for her.
She doesn't deserve him. Cheaters never quit. She'd do it again if she had the chance and I hope she never gets that future she wants.
@@corablah9809 I feel like she just wanted to experience something different. And now that everything else failed in life for her she’s treating My like he’s the last resort for her desires.
How does she expect to have back after she said that she found someone better in bed than My. I appreciate the honesty but they should move on from eachother.
Rae just completely shut down Mia on the intimacy thing. Like even if there was pain on their end there was still pain on her end too. Her sacrifices and feelings shouldn't be compared to yours in a battle, it's not a competition. You don't win the pain game.
Rae is the type of person that is very confused (as she openly admitted) and is very hard to please. She said that their sex life isn't great but yet when asked if they had better sex after the breakup, she stood on no! She needs some therapy..
@@richieluckenbill1590they both need therapy lol. They sound so toxic
My favorite part about this is when a couple is arguing, how everyone else just stands there awkwardly😂🫨
Jen's reasons for cheating are so bizarre, I got second hand embarrassment
I didn't like her, Dane and Mia
@@isabelb.203I didn't like Luna
What did Dane do??
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428He's cheater and creepy
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428he's playing the victim
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428 tbh all of them are kinda toxic
I can feel the eggshells Luna is constantly trying to tip toe around; how carefully she tries to manage his anger. He gives major gaslighting vibes
seriously
HUGE gaslighter
@@Thankyouverymuchfriendhow? Name one thing? She even looks depressed and hurt when he doesn't want her back, yet somehow she was scared of him? She came on a show to air their dirty laundry yet she is frightened?
You don't even know what gaslighter means.
What you did was not like his long hair and think she is pretty, that's the extent of your analysis of him.
It looks more like Luna is the gaslighter gurl, she doesn’t want to acknowledge her own mistakes and keeps playing the victim like he’s only in the wrong, common he moved because he wanted to? Gurl be fr
@@dorianleakey It’s so obvious, you probably can’t see it cause you’re drawing parallels between him and you and you don’t like what you’re seeing.
Luna seemed really quiet around Dane like others have said, it seemed like she was stepping on eggshells and having to be careful of what she said…
You are 100% correct!! She just wanted to take Dane, her treat, out to L.A to have fun and make cool memories. Luna was reminded why they weren’t a couple anymore 😢
he can twist things to appear as you see in the comments.
That's usually what happens in traumatic relationships.. It tends to shut people up about what to say.. Selfish of me, but I was really hoping Luna would give us more information on some of the comments on what Dane said, and that she looked like she was going to comment on some of the stuff but retracted from answering.. Maybe it was me being selfish as to me wanting to know how she can get the courage to come forward like that in her defense against her ex but she wasn't very talkative.
She probably couldn't disclose too much cause the details were privy
Ppl say that she was on eggshells but she seemed emotionally shut off and not forthcoming
28:08 My heart broke when Mia breathed a sigh of relief after Rae agreed with her. You can see how desperate she was to hear those words and its so sad, to me at least, even though she was sort of at fault, sort of.
Rae seems like a gaslighter and like finally she's being acknowledged for a second.
I wish they asked the “I wish my ex and I were still together” question in the beginning WITHOUT the couples turning around and then after all the questions and have them turn around. Would be interesting to see who changes/why
TRUE
they need to apply this on future episode!
That's great!!
They'd see it in the video after though. It's recorded
wait why tho
Wishing Priscilla and Victor the best whether it's separate or together. Both extremely mature and stellar communication, exes or partners.
I thought he kind of sucked
@@J-tt1luwhy
@@J-tt1lu why do you think that?
@@nadiasmith8752 I mean
He literally wasted her time and her love for 2 years and saying he doesn't really feel like he belongs in a relationship.
Like I would be livid&I would never speak to him again if I were her but I guess that's where her "niceness" comes into play&how she's still all buddy buddy with him.
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428 I agree with you and I would be livid too. I think she definitely should move and she gives off the vibe that she would still want to be in a relationship. He’s probably feeding off of that by still befriending her so he can still have access to her.
Dane straight up went passive at the end with the qualities question. His way of answering questions were geared one way until he realized he wasn't going to get his way, then the switch happened.
It's because he heard honest answers from her that she no longer wants him
The body language and articulation of Luna and Dane tells me everything I need to know about who is genuine and who isn’t.
go on...
Explain please 😊
I’m autistic, please help, I’m not picking up on it
please inform
lol, ok, so Dane is the toxic one, and lane is not, cause she looks like she is walking on eggshells.
@@pietandersen6120
Honestly I'm so glad Victor told Priscilla that he was done. So many people stay with spouses who openly show they're not interested in the relationship anymore out of fear of being alone.
Shes very pretty and seems kind. She could definitely find someone worth it.
Tbh, I'm the type to be with anybody for the rest of my life if it means not being alone, even if they treat me poorly or something. Definitely the other person would have to leave me.
@@user-sf9gs2pg1b damn bro you could do better
@@user-sf9gs2pg1bFix that.. Go out and have more experiences
@@user-sf9gs2pg1b you should work on that
Interesting that Dane moved into the offensive once he realized there was no chance for him to get back with Luna
And he did absolutely right. You don't need to sugar coat things when you clearly see that someone doesn't want you. Imagine expecting people to be sweet fakers just to please others. Good for him
Not once he realized there was no chance. But when he realized that she thought of him that less
She sounds hurt and not taking dane's side but she is COLD to him
He's toxic af. His own behavior is the reason she doesn't want him anymore. I wonder which personality disorder he has, because he very clearly has one.
@@The_BigBafter how he's treated her ofcourse she's going to be hurt. He was COLD to her not her to him. Hypocrites
Pricilla wants Victor's approval SO BAD, I feel for her. I think she should find someone that gives as much as she does. She just seems super sweet and Victor is indifferent.
I'm glad to hear the open discourse with Mia and Rae around their sexuality. So often, the emotions and thoughts of the partner that is with someone who is trying to figure out their identity is ignored or downplayed as not as important and i think that's unfair. I still don't think Rae understands that her journey wasn't the only one that mattered and that it isn't more important than anyone else's journey.
Mia and Rae should not even be just friends honestly 😂 That friendship is a dumpster fire.
Rae resents Mia so bad. Mia is shady for not telling her other partner about Rae tho. They said they were 19 when they dated so I wonder how long it’s been since.
fr lol
@@Sul516 i mean if that partner specifically asked to not be informed though that's respecting boundaries... I'm not poly, so idk
@@Sul516 What a surprise lmao a poly relationship with trust issues.. Never saw that one coming 🤣🤣
@@dafdafadfadfadfdazxcxzfaf8506
Lmaooo
I think Jen mentioned love languages like 300 times as an excuse for EVERYTHING even in the middle of luna and danes conversation?????
Fr like why did she feel the need to but in the conversation
She wasn’t butting in, she was just giving her opinion/two cents. It’s not that deep, chill
@@pinchetii6555 "she was just giving her opinion" nobody asked for her opinion and the nature of the video should've made it clear that it was butting in by giving it
@@pinchetii6555 Love languages are complete nonsense anyway. It's so obvious how desperately she was clinging to the concept to try and make her cheating make sense in her mind.
was she spreading disease
Glad Luna got away from that manchild who excuses weaponized incompetence
absolutely her fault for choosing him lmao i dont feel bad one bit
@@steezsteezsteezah it’s always the women’s fault. 😂
@@steezsteezsteezgood for you dude
You can tell that Dane was the type to make Luna feel absolutely crazy “for no reason” when it’s the little, snide comments and smirks. He’s gaslighting her and everyone else and it’s clear as day. The fact that he didn’t clean up after himself was probably the straw that broke the camels back.
Ah yes, the ol’ don’t do any housework until your partner starts to nag you and then act like they’re the villain because they don’t want to be your maid anymore.
Yuppp. Honestly I'm suspicious af of any guy who says his wife or girlfriend "nags" him.. My ex used to say the same when I would try to bring up the night before when he was being drunk and crazy af
That is legit embarrassing. Maybe she didn't break up because of the cuddle text or his constant victim attitude and holding things he's done over her head, but not cleaning should be a huge deal breaker.
he gives manipulative/gas-lighty vibes
I would’ve agreed with you however the only thing that made me defend him slightly was him feeling depression. It’s hard to do things if that’s what’s going on… however I don’t want to assume that like I know that to be 100% true…and that he’s not just being lazy out of choice
i mean sometimes you have different standards, one partner might find leaving dishes for 1 day acceptable while the other doesn't. shes forcing him to live up to her standards and nagging him when he doesn't. Made worse by him feeling depressed.
Jen didn't deserve My, he was the best boyfriend he could be and Jen met that half heartedly
but if she didn't feel fully satisfied in the relationship, then obviously he wasn't "the best boyfriend" for HER.
@@ieevuxnigga what
@@ieevuxso she should’ve just broken up with him instead of cheating lol
nobody is perfect. gotta remember its her first time living life too.
@@revostepify from my understanding they were teenagers & teenagers do stupid shit in relationships, so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
My and Priscilla could make a great couple😂😂I see no drama, they seem genuine and affectionate, and both invested in a relationship
My might not be adventurous enough for her tbh.
I personally believe Dane was the major contribute to their breakup. Even if you just listen to what he is saying in this video, you hear him interrupting her when it is her turn to speak, his body language is honestly terrifying, and he keeps trying to turn it against her and say she was nagging when she just wanted him to stop using sadness about moving away as an excuse to not pick up after yourself. He felt that he sacrificed for the relationship by moving? Well I'm sorry, but that is nothing compared to what she did for the relationship. Her voice is staying calm while he is getting agitated and that indicative of anger issues. He was just overall toxic and I hope she's better off without him.
You nailed it honey!!! Luna Drew is my child, she is an extremely honest human ((: She made too many attempts to forgive Dane until she didn’t anymore 😢
His body language was terrifying? Wha?
He said himself he was the primary cause.
Terrifying ? Get a grip.
Is it me or did Dane become saltier, and saltier throughout the entire video? Lol
YUP he said there wasn’t a quality he couldn’t find in anyone else like you just wanted her back 10 mins ago 💀💀
@@frmapletrees Can't blame him for not continuing to stroke her ego when she was dismissive towards him throughout the entire video.
Wasn't this about being honest
@@lexilexia5097 well yeah it is, but it’s just an observation throughout the vid lol
Yes. It's hilarious how he came there to make up but once he saw she wasn't willing to put up with his childish garbage he got salty like "I didn't wanna get back with her anyway".
Props to the ex couples for having the courage to come up here and do this!
fr
Bills are due lol
literally. I could never lol
And embarrass themselves for our entertainment 🍿
I think they get paid, tbh I'd do it for money lmao
LUNA DESERVES BETTER🗣 I fully recognize that zoned out look she has when Dane talks, that she knows the truth, but doesn't want to speak up and get him mad.
dane is the kind of person you run away from. he probably lied about cheating too. narcistic vampire gaslighting and lying even now.
Yeah I found out he cheated on me after this lol
@@lunaledlow6945hope you're doing well, we all saw through his act
@@lunaledlow6945girl i'm glad you're out of there!!!!
@@lunaledlow6945 YO WHAT 💀 this tea is too hot lol
@@lunaledlow6945hes a loser and he couldnt measure up cause youre beautiful and better than him and he knows that.
when priscilla talked about how victor made her feel safe in big crowds with the gesture he’d do, i actually teared up. it’s something so small but means so much
me too like why did i get emotional 😭
Literally same like ugh they would be such a sweet couple!!
@@TheAlixAmanda some of the best couples can't be a couple
You want to be handled like a … doll?
thoughts: victor and priscilla are so unproblematic and both seem like genuine and great people. i feel bad for priscilla because she is sooooo sweet and she rlly thought it was gonna be endgame, but on the other hand, i’m glad victor expressed his feelings so honestly. they are much mature people and i wish them the best :)
I don't know about saying Victor is "unproblematic"
He literally broke up with her simply because "he doesn't feel like being in a relationship anymore" after wasting her time&love for 2 years despite him saying that she treated him amazingly&all that
I don't know,if Priscilla was my sister or friend, I would hate him so much 😂
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428yeah but that’s just how he genuinely felt, its better that they broke up before the relationship turned sour
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428but what would have been the alternative? Stay with her out of pity? That would’ve been the problematic thing to do to me personally…
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428we praise women for leaving 20 year long marriages with kids because they wanted " to explore themselves" but are shitting on a dude who respectfully broke up with his 2 year gf and helped her date other people?
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428Would you rather break up with somebody because they cheated on you or because they lost interest?? Losing interest/attraction in a relationship is something you can’t control.
The way Rae completely disqualifies and just casts aside Mia's feelings and/or experience, shocking. Of course you were going through something horrible, that maybe we don't understand or understand how horrible it feels. But that doesn't mean you can just compare it to what the other person is feeling/experiencing and say: mine is worse, so it trumps yours, so that's that.
I've been a Luna before.... and I'm so glad she got out! But even staying in contact and doing this show together is still too close for comfort. Girl, block his azz forever
Me too. I feel so scared for her still being in contact with him.
@@cl4zadudes a real creep
Luna made a sweet escape, even the way Dane would constantly talk over her when she was giving answers
He didn't talk over her. What are you talking about?
@@dorianleakey24:47 theres 1 example
@@sofaloaf. hmm, you make it sound like silencing her, but with the editing and how she responds it seems more conversational.
@@sofaloaf."1 example" but then , the judge above you used the word "constantly" 🤔
She talked over him too. You don't always need to take the side of the pretty girl.
Dane is insanely selfish and manipulative. Dude not picking up after himself was probably the last straw
@@soandso5058my guy, I’ve seen so many of ur comments replying to people talking about Dane, why u so defensive 😂 they both were on the wrong, including him. Relax brudda
@@soandso5058 but what do you need explained? having a partner that doesn’t do simple things to run the household would be beyond frustrating. as for the manipulation if you can’t see through his comments and the smirking idk what to tell you
bro they way he says he stop trying but also says he gave more love
there's different levels of cleanliness... Luna could be with someone crazier on the cleaning aspect and annoy her. it's about compatibility, you can't change your partner.
It sounded like he needed to be "told" to do very simple things, like picking up after himself (something you'd expect a child to pick up on). She knew if she didn't ask it wouldn't get done, and he resented her for asking. @@smashmusique
I feel like though Dane may have felt overlooked or underappreciated in his and Luna's relationship, Luna constantly felt the burden of trying to please him while taking care of them both. This stress could've been the reason for her overlooking what he considered sacrifices or efforts he made just because so little was being done from him and so much needed to be done for them both.
This was perfect mix of intimate, spilling, sweet and class. I hope jubilee keeps that balance if they do this again. Thanks to all the ex couples. Like me I think the audience could see some of our own relationships in what they were saying.
Priscila looks like the sweetest person ever
Looks are deceiving. Important lesson to learn
@@illsaveuintime bro he litterly said at the end she was the nicest person he knew
Yeah plus she's into BDSM
@@illsaveuintime bro
fr she has a beautiful smile
it is beyond me how men like Dane manage to end up with absolutely beautiful and sweet girls like Luna and still have the audacity to act the way they do...
its the sterotype that comes into play
Act what way? People are crazy in how they interpret this, the only thing he does wrong objectively is not tidy up.
cuz all men are born with the audacity inside of them x
You're judging too much. They definitely both had issues. She glossed over him moving states like it meant nothing.
@@Gazelle871 Not just glossed over, claimed it didnt count, what she did counted, even though no examples were given, his was what he chose to do. She is quite narcisistic, he is a slob round the house.
Dane started off so nice (still liked her) and then clearly became completely disinterersted in her and stoic towards the end which was a crazy turnaround
I never realized how complicated relationships can get.
Mia and Rae are so messy😭
I love it 😂
we love a good queer couple that fit the stereotype 😅😅😅
They’re so toxic lol they would’ve been a cute couple but their personalities just don’t match unfortunately.
stay straight kids ❤
Rae acting like a victim the whole time
If exes were honest many of us would still be in relationships.
🧢 I would of made da bx cry
Bruh fr
Or you would've broken up way sooner instead of dragging things out
No
Or never dated
This entire video, I was focused on the conversations from My and Jen. I've been cheated on before so for Jen to casually say that she has better sex and had more intimacy than what My provided shows that she was never in it for him in the first place. She just needed someone that could fill the emotional part of the relationship.
If Jen didn't get caught by My's and her mutual friend, most likely she would have continued on. Big props to their mutual friend for letting My know that she got cheated on too.
"She was my first and I tought she'd be my last" Damn, that actually hurt me
I can appreciate the idea of "love languages", but sometimes I feel people use them to justify not meeting their partners needs or compromising when they can. Relationships take work and understanding how your partner feels and what they need and finding a way to make that happen that still preserves your needs.
These comnunucation and compromise issues will still exist even when you meet someone with the same "love language". There is no ideal soulmate that can just read your mind and needs all the same things as you.
@AmiriHipHop Obviously. That's why I explicitly said I can appreciate the idea and that SOMETIMES I feel people use it the way I described. In this video one couple mentioned how one person didn't express their love/affection verbally and it made the other feel unloved and it was chalked up to "love languages" being different, which that mindset may have contributed to why she cheated.
There are obviously times where compromise isn't possible and certain needs just can't be met by the other person and that's ok. Not every person will be compatible, but even when you are generally compatible it still requires work and compromise to meet all needs.
Exactly having different love languages isn’t an excuse to completely neglect the needs of ur partner
definitely, also ppl keep talking about their home/ family growing up. I wanted to hear them not just mention it, but also try to explain how those experiences played a role in their relationships.
You ate!!!
Love this perspective
Dane honestly gives “loser skater boy who can’t hit it” vibes.
Ya. He looks like his “band” plays at a coffee shop in Seattle. And when they are done he goes behind the counter for his shift.
I'm so glad I'm not the only one one who is reading him as that as well. 🤣
@@raimeyewens7518why are you so negative dawg? Lighten up a lil
He just gives dirty vibes.
Imagine looking at someone and immediately judging em, calling em loser and dirty. Yall really the most self aware ppl huh😂 yalls physical appearance must definitely be perfect huh
How did Dane even pull Luna lol
Dane is classic manipulator and gaslighter. People like that are the worst to deal with and hurts the most to love.
To many men. The bare minimum should be praised and they are ONLY nice when trying to get what they want, but the moment you catch them at there core and question the switch up they make you feel crazy for realizing they aren’t genuinely safe men, they want what these want and will do what it takes as long as it’s “easy”
@@malki2768 so fricken true dude!!! Bro woke up and decided to spit FACTS
@@malki2768 I almost feel like, if males or anyone who does this would just admit what they're doing could be possibly wrong or try to communicate, things would be so much better.
Priscillia's growth to a no at the end would have taken so much more work than people would expect - PROUD OF YOU
No
I feel so bad for My. I hope he finds someone who shows him why him and his ex never worked out. He deserves a happy ever after 🥺
Why? Because she's a garden tool and belongs to the streets
It's because he's in America. He just needs to get a passport to his home country and I bet you he can he replace any EX in a second. He won't even know what a heartbreak is anymore. Those traditional women are on a different level on making their lover feel like a king.
@@MrMassdcreepyeah cause American women are their own person and live their own life with their own standards INSTEAD of giving up their whole life and mothering their husbands every single need like a child. Women are individuals of their own.
@@subwayanime5wynne840”their own lives”. That’s why 70% of divorces are by women who upend their family’s lives: children, husband and all. Just because they want to “live their own lives”. No concept of sacrifice, responsibility and integrity.
In the end I just noticed the body language when the exes sat together, luna sits like "when this going to end", Jen leaning away from My, meaning she really does'nt consider getting back, in the other hand Priscilla leaning toward her ex, she's still not ver with him. so interesting
priscilla deserves an amazing partner 😭 shes so sweet!
If I ever hear the words "love language" again I'm gonna scream 😱 🙄🤦🏼♀️
I luuuuuuve youuuuu 😂
sammeeeee
Jen got annoying with that
frrrrr
Why? 😅 What's so bad about that phrase?
Dane is 100% the broke boyfriend energy from the guy on TikTok.
But didn't you hear? He 'felt just as dedicated' to the goals even though she was the employed one and just 'nagged him' all day. 🙄
You mean the one that got her a job working with him
He had to get her a job, tf you talking about
Broke? The dude moved to Alabama AND FOUND WORK FOR BOTH OF THEM in Alabama. He has flaws, sure, but he can admit it, and she "doesn't want to get into an argument" when looking at the mirror. His look and demeanor gave that vibe until you hear their stories. Never judge a book by its cover.
but he found both of them jobs……. so how is he broke?
Look at Jubilee finding mature adults who are able to have some very mature viewpoints in this video! I'm in shock over how well everyone was able to acknowledge their trauma/circumstances and apply that to their decisions.
Rae keeps getting on my nerves tbh. She kept playing the victim and when Mia very clearly explained that she felt like she couldn't be herself 100%, Rea couldn't even understand that. I can see how Rae has an attitude and it just kinda felt like she kept blaming Mia for the differences between each other.
People who cheat are just rotten to the core😂 incredible how she tries to justify it
Mr wonderful glad to see you
She didn’t justify it
Seriously where did she justify it.
@@Zwird I think by "how she tries to justify it" they mean when Jen said that My just wasnt speaking her "love language" and meeting her needs. How you take what she said depends on the person
She didn’t try to justify it, just gave an explanation
this was so fun yet uncomfortable to watch… please do more of these!!
You should go on the next one
Lol u so messy
Yes please!!!
Priscilla is so wholesome. I love her.
there was a lot of drama between Rae and Mia but the way that Rae invalidated Mia’s feelings just REALLY threw me off. She def could’ve reworded her words better to communicate it healthier, but to downplay Mia’s feelings?? Especially as her first time ever doing that with a woman + all the emotional stuff with that type of relationship and doing it for the first time. So personally I think Rae is worse in the relationship
Rae is saying that Mia’s emotional labor isn’t valid at 27:14 is actually terrible wow
I ageee! That was the most shocking thing in the entire video. The speach beat all Dane’s gaslighting attempts uff
@@joannalee8525I'm a bit curious where people see actually gaslighting with Dane?
Like it seems like he admits he is lazy he didn't clean (even if he disputes that it was necessary). He also seems like a stereotypical useless stoner archetype as well as coming of pretty immature but in my opinion those red flags aren't enough to say he must've been gaslighting about the things they disagreed about.
Am I missing something?
@@PJ-oe6euI feel the same
Why? Bro if someone doesnt want you to go down on them either respect it or leave. BOUNDARIES?? Mias crying about not being able to go down on her bfr 😂😂
@@PJ-oe6eu At one point he corrects Luna saying 'that's how it was' to 'in *your* head that's how it was' which is textbook gaslighting. Insisting that it never happened and making the other person doubt themselves. It's really shitty when you don't feel heard and your partner isn't willing to even entertain that they may have actually messed up and hurt you.
My you deserve so much better than Jen. She cheated on you and tried to make weak excuses. Point blank, there is no valid reason or excuse to cheat. It hurts my heart seeing My stand on "yes" to wanting to get back together. He could find someone so much better if he moved on. He derseves someone loyal and who repsects and understands his way of showing love.
I was so sad about him choosing "yes" too. She made a mistake in cheating on him, and now wants him back because she realizes the grass wasn't greener. She's terrible. If she wanted to start a family with him, she had her chance.
I mean he did mention he wishes there was a "maybe" choice to stand on. He seems like he would love to be with her deep down but he knows its not wise to. Doesn't mean he doesn't want it, just means he has PHENOMENAL self control.
Agreed
Dane's vague and flakey answers, especially to the prompt about making sacrifices, just give off huge red flags.
He's the kind of guy to keep balances and cheques, weaponise his incompetence, and appears to argue for the same of arguing... the dude cannot for the life of him take responsibility. Pure petulance.
BAM!! Nailed that assessment 😊
28:05 I cannot imagine giving someone a well reasoned and thoughtful explanation as to why I feel the way that I do then ask them if that makes sense only for them to respond will a flat no… I’D LOSE MY MIND
Dane is really immature... not sharing household chores properly is such a typical "blind spot" for many men... they get sooo defensive because they have to actually do their fair share.
Isn't the issue also not being direct and proactive about it? If he really doesn't care then he doesn't. That opens up possibilities. Either in sitting down and discussing how he can compensate for that issue, e.g him fixing stuff and doing things of equal effort/amount that she might hate doing/will never have to do. Or them splitting the chores or doing them together.
I never really understood why couples see chores as an individual task that is a competition. Do the dishes together and have a nice chat meanwhile. Or fold the laundry together, that makes it much less boring anyway. Or if you want to compete, both clean a room, the fastest getting a dinner cooked by the other.
Find a way that works for you where you can feel appreciated for your effort. He may get a bj in sexy lingerie if he does the chores during the week, she may get a massage or whatever she wants. Of course it is better if that happens organically, but if that fails, it won't be the worst if they put out a ruleset like 5x doing x will be that reward.
However all of this necessitates actually communicating and not being shy to say what you really feel while trying to compromise
@@denidale4701 wtf are u even saying
I hope it was an eye opener for him
He didn't even do half of the financial obligations. So she did 90% of the household and 75% of the financial. That's just too much.
@@gingerlee726 yeah, but he's playing "butt hurt"...
With Rea and Mia - Just because someone their problems or challenges are tougher than others does not mean they are less valid or the sacrifice less important
bruh mia is entitled af what are you talking about. she was horrible and selfish and had the audacity to claim sex was "emotional labor" like girl you have no idea what that term means
@@psychomike2235sex is absolutely an emotional experience. if you are performing sex solely for your partner and not getting joy how is that not emotional labor
@@psychomike2235 I think Mia just wanted sex a lot and didnt get it the way she wanted
@@psychomike2235both Rae and mia are entitled tbh
@@Zimburtledurdles Nah. Mia tried to actually pull the "emotional labor" card with her 0.0 EQ. She fulfilled a lot of stereotypes. Not surprised the one filling the male role in the social dynamics got taken to the cleaners. Probably why that demographic has the highest divorce rate, by a wide margin.
I told my partner i loved her 2 weeks into our relationship, we've been together since 2012 and now shes my wife
This really just proves how much importance communication has between the two people
I lowkey just feel like Luna had standards for herself LOL
Yup, realized she could do much much better.
She stood on business
She is not as nice as she seems
@@asmodeus8848What do you even mean 😂
@@ha231She acts like a narcissist. Dresses like one too
dane is the personification of the victim complex ex bf that spins the story every 4.5 seconds ahhhhhh i feel u girlie
She literally refuses to be accountable and there's still comments defending her, you people are toxic and need help, stop validating people's shitty behavior
Real💯
@soandso5058 it was revealed to me in a dream by an archangel
these are video comments just like anyone else its my opinion lmao
@@sprmssvblckhl☠️
@soandso5058 Yeah, an opinion based on how they act lmao. Of course we don’t know the entire story-we’re all just responding to what we see here. That’s fair~
Dane was making me laugh so hard with his gaslighting smiley laugh lmaooooooo
I hope the Asian guy reads this. DO NOT get back with her. Once a cheater always a cheater is the truest statement. Just bc you’re getting older and had love does not mean you won’t find it again. Please do not get back with her.
priscilla is the spot of light in this video. I hope she finds someone who loves and values her and treats her to her value for the rest of her life.
She and my seem like a perfect couple tbh xD
OMG NO to JEN. There is no excuse for cheating. Plus, the way that she was talking about the relationship feels like she's going to do it again. She only wants you back because she's getting older and she's getting less attention that she did.
luna is so relateable omg...so many men in my life have done the same thing of storming away during arguments and leaving you alone for extended periods of time and its usually because they cant handle showing their emotions to people. my bf used to do it but hes matured a lot since we talked about it, but my dad also does it, ive had exes do it, even uncles and other friends exes too. my one friends ex in particular did it pretty much any argument they ever had. idk if that was the case with this dane guy but it seems to be a common thread w a lot of men specifically
I was going to make a comment about a mental disability, however that would be inaccurate as this whole common thing with men in particular could be from something in their genetic makeup which in particular what makes them males.. I know in a bunch of other species of animals there's very common things in specific genders in those species that make some of those specific genders the way the are.
Why is no one talking about how radically honest Rae and Mia are about their sex life? Poor Mia just didn't wanna bottom. What a queer struggle
Luna 100% deserves someone better than Dane. That dude just gives off bad vibes.
@@soandso5058Better than what? A hot girlfriend who makes all the money, pays the rent, and cleans up after him? He deserves what he puts out 🤗
@@soandso5058 you're literally saying this under every comment about one of the girls deserving better and saying their ex partner deserved better instead. dane did NOT deserve better, he literally won the lottery with luna, she's great. he won't do better
@@Sixgirlssthey're probably some weirdo incel
@@soandso5058 careful ill start to believe that youre dane..
@@tessaelto1472Except she didn't id1ot. She's mid, and he was working and got them the jobs in the first place, goof.
dane is such a manipulator 😭 he’s constantly gaslighting her
It's the "in your mind, that's the way it was" for me 💀
@@baromi1025 no bc i would’ve walked out of that place😭🤣
@@kyndallhaney7212 Girl, same 😭 I don't know how she could stay there with a straight face the whole time... I swear every time he spoke my mind chose violence, and he's not even my ex.
Finally some smart comment ❤
@@baromi1025 lets not reach to violence. Its too extreme
Luna is so gorgeous and seems so nice, a girl that went with a guy she gave a chance to and he ruined it. He got lucky and he messed it up
Luna seems so sweet, it's infuriating listening to Dane continuously interrupt her and invalidate everything she says
Off topic: But can I just say that Jubilee does more for casual Asian representation than any other media? So refreshing.
Are they not an asian teams for most of them? Correct me if I'm wrong.
Interesting, I just noticed that 😊
You mean Chinese?
@@mamindersingh8181idk if youre trying to imply that they only feature Chinese people? The host here has a Japanese name and I think the host for the middle ground videos is Indian. They clearly have asian representation within their team and in the people they feature....its a bit exagerative to say its only Chinese
@mamindersingh8181 Chinese?? Where lol? FFS there are 2 Filipino people in this video lol.
That come cuddle with dane and Luna was hilarious. the way he said "yeah I think she was doing it on purpose *giggle*" and "that's my story... true story *giggle*"
Well, it's what you would do if it was true also.
@@dorianleakey Dane, I swear this is you lol. Why you under every comment caping for that guy?
@@lahie16I was about to say the same thing! And swear this guy is dane
@@lahie16 there's another commenter "soandso" who I believe is prob Dane. Guy probably has multiple YT accounts
@haboo6077 Luna revealed somewhere in this comment section that Dane cheated with multiple girls including Ms. Come Cuddle
Dane really needs to grow up he's like a high schooler who gets high in his parents basement all day
Never get back with someone who cheated on you. They are just going to do it again