If Age Gap Couples Were 100% Honest | Split Decision

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  • @lolerene3776
    @lolerene3776 11 місяців тому +17255

    We need to start a support group for people that have watched this episode 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @OohLa118
      @OohLa118 11 місяців тому +303

      This comment 😭

    • @Bobab0y
      @Bobab0y 11 місяців тому +794

      bruh fr like i’m struggling getting though the first 5 min. this is wild

    • @birthdaycakey2893
      @birthdaycakey2893 11 місяців тому

      fr like what is this help 😭@@Bobab0y

    • @nancysindani9696
      @nancysindani9696 11 місяців тому +34

      forealll!

    • @K177a
      @K177a 11 місяців тому +15

      Lmao

  • @napoet_02
    @napoet_02 11 місяців тому +12138

    Him saying he wanted to be a slave was INSANE 😭😭😭😭 done set us back 100 years

    • @arizzc
      @arizzc 11 місяців тому +444

      I WAS LIKE WTH 😭

    • @Austinflwrz
      @Austinflwrz 11 місяців тому +353

      Massa’s wife home alone what happened to secrets??

    • @musaazi87
      @musaazi87 11 місяців тому +340

      Its a humiliation kink

    • @escupetube
      @escupetube 11 місяців тому +96

      ..... obviously he is not refering to that

    • @plaugecentury2337
      @plaugecentury2337 11 місяців тому +361

      GIRL I WAS GASPING. And the cherry on top was that her kids were racist and called him the n word as if she didn’t raise them😭

  • @indigolash4650
    @indigolash4650 11 місяців тому +6239

    I feel like two older gay men are literally gonna be best friends after this😭

    • @alexajose-nixon6028
      @alexajose-nixon6028 11 місяців тому +273

      them connecting over olivia newton john😭😭😭

    • @Airbender1802
      @Airbender1802 10 місяців тому +155

      Also they look the same 😭

    • @rt20089
      @rt20089 9 місяців тому +28

      One of the couples have a channel named out loud and they're so freaking adorable.The video really didn’t do them justice

    • @serpent3nvy
      @serpent3nvy 9 місяців тому +23

      they all should become friends after this.

    • @TheeDezaray
      @TheeDezaray 9 місяців тому +8

      more than that lol

  • @lora753sofi
    @lora753sofi Рік тому +13669

    I'm a minute and a half in and it's already a tough one to watch

    • @user-soon300
      @user-soon300 Рік тому +116

      That's me❤ it's really tough to watch I don't feel it's deserve...

    • @Roseskatrina
      @Roseskatrina Рік тому +825

      Some of the info they’re sharing no one could ever get out of me 💀

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 Рік тому +549

      @@Roseskatrina “I like to be a slave…” 🚪🚶🏽‍♂️

    • @KJ75678
      @KJ75678 Рік тому +134

      @@itsnatemate7697THIS ‼️😭😭 IM LIKE OH???!

    • @lora753sofi
      @lora753sofi Рік тому +112

      Okay i finished the video actually it was very touching

  • @lailaes802
    @lailaes802 Рік тому +5905

    Talia and her husband seem the most normal and aren't talking much and I think it's because their age gap isn't that huge

    • @Ceerads
      @Ceerads 11 місяців тому +374

      And Alejandro looked young.

    • @xxintixx4638
      @xxintixx4638 11 місяців тому +219

      Yeah they look normal

    • @tonyofhousestark1511
      @tonyofhousestark1511 11 місяців тому +316

      They look normal because this kind of relationship is much more commonly seen than the others, also they have the smallest age gap.

    • @pasc8699
      @pasc8699 11 місяців тому +196

      He’s the only one that doesn’t look like he’s trying to look young. Talia also seems mature compared to the other young people

    • @ekleiman4043
      @ekleiman4043 11 місяців тому +27

      I was thinking that too, but it also seems as though everyone else is more out spoken or were asked more questions. Like when one of them would be on no or yes and the other was on the opposite, they weren't asked about. They were talked to sometimes, but I'm almost done with the video and haven't heard much of them.

  • @Sillygoose24
    @Sillygoose24 8 місяців тому +709

    The couple where the younger guy said he wouldn't want to have children because he doesnt want his kids to lose a dad so young is SO valid.
    I'm 25, i lost my both my birth parents. (i never really had a connection to them) but knowing my adoptive parents who are in their mid 80's might make it only another 5 years, is devastating.
    Its so hard seeing your parents go through the last stages of life and knowing they will most likely never meet my future children, or be there when i am married, or even just have somewhere to go home to.

    • @Littlewulff
      @Littlewulff 5 місяців тому +9

      So true, but at the same time, consider the kids who don’t get to have parents at all. I think if I were a foster kid needing stability, I’d rather have two nice dads for 15 or 20 years than never having that at all. Anyone who has a different experience, I’m open to hearing it but knowing the alternative for some kids is NO parents…

    • @Jen-5595
      @Jen-5595 2 місяці тому +1

      It's the only unselfish person in this group for sure...

  • @alexwambugu8228
    @alexwambugu8228 11 місяців тому +6399

    “I want to be a slave” is insane
    “ massa wife is home alone” is senile

  • @ElliottOrSomething
    @ElliottOrSomething Рік тому +3030

    tbh i wouldn’t be able to tell an age difference between talia and alejandro 🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @TheLovesnowangel
      @TheLovesnowangel Рік тому +303

      I think it's because they have the least age gap. Or she just has aged pretty bad and he aged pretty well

    • @freddieking441
      @freddieking441 11 місяців тому +4

      💯

    • @mel-ed3yw
      @mel-ed3yw 11 місяців тому +3

      my thoughts exactly

    • @RosaGarcia-zd8zm
      @RosaGarcia-zd8zm 11 місяців тому +26

      Talia se ve mayor y alejandro muy joven

    • @shannon3525
      @shannon3525 11 місяців тому +3

      Same

  • @notkenziedotorg3736
    @notkenziedotorg3736 5 місяців тому +1426

    Is no one gonna talk about how half of Cheryl’s hair is straight?😭😭😭💀

    • @yuiitodoro7791
      @yuiitodoro7791 4 місяці тому +2

      Lol

    • @beautybyashhhx
      @beautybyashhhx 4 місяці тому +59

      Production did her dirty

    • @embananasplit2935
      @embananasplit2935 4 місяці тому +26

      It’s an 00s inspired style, just poorly executed lol

    • @rebeldiamond601
      @rebeldiamond601 3 місяці тому +16

      I noticed that too and tried so hard to ignore it😂😂😂

    • @polaris7346
      @polaris7346 3 місяці тому +36

      she said, “the back of my head is NONE of my business!”

  • @seymagurbuz2066
    @seymagurbuz2066 Рік тому +4039

    -"what will i be in 40 years?"
    -"dust" 💀💀💀

  • @leeloodallas959
    @leeloodallas959 Рік тому +4013

    Cheryl must have has a rough life cuz she says she’s 63 but she looks at least 80. Wow.

    • @sierracuacuas2931
      @sierracuacuas2931 Рік тому +640

      I think drugs were involved

    • @CBCRadioGirl
      @CBCRadioGirl 11 місяців тому +694

      Her Instagram bio openly says she struggles with an eating disorder, so. Some other commenters have mentioned she's talked about addiction on TikTok, but can't confirm that because I don't use it. Whatever the case, not surprising. She mentions being in abusive relationships in the past, and who knows what else she's dealt with. Hopefully she's doing as well as she can these days.

    • @xenondoro8573
      @xenondoro8573 11 місяців тому +56

      Don't do drugs

    • @kikitam00
      @kikitam00 11 місяців тому +118

      Sun damage from being a surfer

    • @rosebeelow7159
      @rosebeelow7159 11 місяців тому +120

      She says it was mostly from being a surfer but she’s also said that yes she had a very hard life

  • @bryannab07
    @bryannab07 5 місяців тому +514

    bro the “we met in my dorm” to “i wanna be a slave “ idk if i can finish this 💀

    • @Petsmenagerie
      @Petsmenagerie 2 місяці тому

      The slave thing isn’t surprising. That is a huge kink in the kink community.

    • @magnoliah6476
      @magnoliah6476 2 місяці тому +5

      same, ive made it just after 8 minutes and yeah im not gonna make it.

  • @narutardandproud7568
    @narutardandproud7568 Рік тому +6322

    Couples of opposite political views would be cool to have on the show

    • @vivacev
      @vivacev Рік тому +167

      I would like that too. I was a bit surprised when one of the couples said they don't talk about politics in order to not have to disagree.

    • @Bluntgirly
      @Bluntgirly Рік тому +93

      I'm so tired of the political videos, let's get new topics

    • @myas.6485
      @myas.6485 Рік тому +218

      It feels so gross that people date people with different political ideologies. So many of their opinions are about basic human rights

    • @Flesh_Wizard
      @Flesh_Wizard 11 місяців тому +5

      Or put em in an arena and let em duke it out

    • @daviddinoger
      @daviddinoger 11 місяців тому

      ​@@myas.6485lol

  • @PurposefulLivingwithNdem
    @PurposefulLivingwithNdem 11 місяців тому +2616

    Going into sex questions to start makes the age gap look like it's sex only. Starting with emotional questions would have been more beneficial, in my opinion. You can do better jubilee!

    • @Rnue
      @Rnue 11 місяців тому +82

      Yeah. Ick tactics.

    • @dadoniks1184
      @dadoniks1184 11 місяців тому

      They always start off with sex in order to grab attention

    • @NikkiBudders
      @NikkiBudders 11 місяців тому +63

      I can easily see it as baiting viewers, lessening nerves of the people with a comedic question, or just wanting to get a big viewer question answered so they can move on to deeper subjects. Maybe it's a mix of all 3. I don't really fault Jubilee for it. That's just what pleases the algorithm and exploring viewers. You don't begin by asking hard questions, it's too jarring.

    • @TheKidd98
      @TheKidd98 10 місяців тому +6

      Dont worry that literally that all these vids are like

    • @tmuto5119
      @tmuto5119 9 місяців тому +15

      I mean u can extremely easily tell they all have an emotional connection. Ppl were crying for each other and showing how much they love each other.
      Feel like it’s the base standard, like obvsly ppl in relationships love each other regardless of age. So sex life is a bigger talking point bc that’s one of the things that makes their relationships sm different to typical ones.

  • @iluv.snails
    @iluv.snails 9 місяців тому +190

    Jeff seems like such a sweet guy! The way he immediately comforted Cheryl warms my heart 😊

  • @ashleyredsheep
    @ashleyredsheep Рік тому +5930

    Not really a strong choice to start broaching this controversial subject with the sex life but... maybe that's just me. As someone who supports healthy age gap couples, I would think the emotional connection is what you'd want to lead with.

    • @annieelle9070
      @annieelle9070 Рік тому +521

      yeah i feel you, kinda feels like a fetishized take when there's a lot more nuance than that

    • @qualiangelica
      @qualiangelica Рік тому +32

      Agreed.

    • @jato2942
      @jato2942 Рік тому +42

      Sure but at the same time sex is one of, if not the most important thing in relationships.

    • @ashleyredsheep
      @ashleyredsheep Рік тому +197

      @@jato2942 Personally I strongly disagree with that, but that's a matter of opinion.

    • @jato2942
      @jato2942 Рік тому +23

      @@ashleyredsheepYOU can disagree, but that makes you the minority

  • @nadiajupiter8340
    @nadiajupiter8340 11 місяців тому +3143

    I would love to see a video on couples with a size difference being a plus size women with a skinny husband it isn’t easy I’d love to hear about other peoples experiences

    • @GroundedSolidarity
      @GroundedSolidarity 11 місяців тому +43

      Meh

    • @eugenetswong
      @eugenetswong 11 місяців тому +67

      It makes more sense to create an episode, when the woman is healthy or skinny, and the guy is obese. Society tends to show more support for obese women, and women, who want to leave relationships.

    • @AWallflowergirl
      @AWallflowergirl 11 місяців тому +7

      Yes that's a great idea

    • @yomnaaa7397
      @yomnaaa7397 11 місяців тому +119

      ​@@eugenetswongI think it's the opposite? I don't know where you live but here you can be a morbidly obese male actor portrayed as a love interest, but you can't be even overweight woman in the same position, I think what you interept as "society support" is more of society pity or over correction

    • @bean4435
      @bean4435 11 місяців тому +58

      @@yomnaaa7397 some men want to be victimized so bad they straight up lie lol..!

  • @kaylamoriarty4352
    @kaylamoriarty4352 11 місяців тому +1740

    I’m a bit disturbed by the comments “we met in my dorm room” “it was my first time” like WHAT

    • @SarunaSari-cc9tc
      @SarunaSari-cc9tc 9 місяців тому +112

      he was 16 when they met😭😭😭😭

    • @sarah456832
      @sarah456832 6 місяців тому +8

      That was my first thought too!!!

    • @leckmich5452
      @leckmich5452 5 місяців тому +15

      @@SarunaSari-cc9tc oh no

    • @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721
      @aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 5 місяців тому +11

      ​@SarunaSari-cc9tc no. 17 when you graduate college or 18 of your bday falls late in the year.

    • @maurartsy2916
      @maurartsy2916 4 місяці тому +25

      Most were groomed

  • @wh0refortwd
    @wh0refortwd Рік тому +1195

    why did nobody help her with her hair😭mf could’ve let her know half of it was straight

    • @lorenmphelan1893
      @lorenmphelan1893 10 місяців тому +142

      Thank youuuu I was looking for this comment. Her hair was bothering me so much.

    • @alexistutera2404
      @alexistutera2404 7 місяців тому +30

      i’m rolling 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @marijaskvorc6293
      @marijaskvorc6293 7 місяців тому +45

      Come onnn, she just goes by the saying: If you can't see it, it doesn't exist 😂

    • @enmanley
      @enmanley 7 місяців тому +21

      DEADASSSSS I brought me back to middle school dances, and refusing to let my mom help me with my hair 😭😭😭

    • @chelsmeister
      @chelsmeister 6 місяців тому +6

      Lowkey loved her hair. It's a look. She rocked it haha

  • @lebogangngcobo3096
    @lebogangngcobo3096 11 місяців тому +3169

    Tre being 22 is crazy😭

    • @djkwells2168
      @djkwells2168 7 місяців тому +178

      Yea! They were together for 6 years 😅 and he talks about them hanging out in his dorm

    • @amelie4813
      @amelie4813 7 місяців тому +96

      ​@@djkwells2168 HE WAS 17???????

    • @djkwells2168
      @djkwells2168 7 місяців тому +84

      @@amelie4813 something like that crazy how they didn’t even try and cover it up but that is terrible

    • @sope2882
      @sope2882 7 місяців тому +29

      @@djkwells2168 how would Tre be in college at 16/17? Can you add the timestamp for when they said they were together for 6 years because I don't remember hearing that.

    • @HeavenlyJLove
      @HeavenlyJLove 7 місяців тому +42

      @@djkwells2168it’s jon and brian who’ve been together 6 years

  • @martagustafsson5749
    @martagustafsson5749 8 місяців тому +283

    My heart broke when Cheryl talked about her kids not approving of her husband and when she said that she can't visit her grandchildren. To have your kids acting like that towards you and your partner that for once is making you happy and are taking care of you when all the past ones were abusive must be horrible

    • @shelbygray2214
      @shelbygray2214 7 місяців тому +28

      To choose your kid over a guy and stick with him, if family doesn't approve don't go for him, she could of dated younger, she choose him over seeing them

    • @martagustafsson5749
      @martagustafsson5749 7 місяців тому +33

      @@shelbygray2214 she said they were racist towards him and sometimes family don't approve for the wrong reasons. She shouldn't just lay flat and oblige just because her family don't approve if they have a shitty reason for not liking him, she definitely should stay if that's the case

    • @imdva
      @imdva 7 місяців тому

      @@shelbygray2214 wtf is wrong with you? her family called him slurs multiple times and are clearly racist. thats the one thing i sympathized with them on.

    • @Samiscool114
      @Samiscool114 6 місяців тому

      @@martagustafsson5749you have no idea if that is actually true there is probably a whole lot more to it

    • @msadeyes
      @msadeyes 5 місяців тому +30

      She said she has 7 kids and doesn’t speak to 6, something is off if you don’t speak to 6/7 of your kids

  • @QueensNYgirlie1988
    @QueensNYgirlie1988 Рік тому +4250

    Hats off to Cheryl's one child who isn't a raging racist 👏

    • @Ceerads
      @Ceerads 11 місяців тому +488

      I did wonder how her kids could’ve grown up to be racists. One usually learns that from one’s parents. But one’s community has a big influence, too, so that could’ve been what helped develop that hatred in them.

    • @hazykuriboh222
      @hazykuriboh222 11 місяців тому +517

      ​@Ceerads it sounds like her ex husband's were pretty bad and abusive so I wouldn't doubt their father is a raging racist if he's capable of abuse and SA

    • @xenondoro8573
      @xenondoro8573 11 місяців тому +55

      ​@@Ceerads Y'all are wild af. Children are fully capable of knowing their gender, having hormones and cutting off body parts but in everything else it's the parents where the kids got it from. Make it make sense.

    • @pluto-kl5od
      @pluto-kl5od 11 місяців тому +137

      @@xenondoro8573 what?

    • @AndSoWeLaughed
      @AndSoWeLaughed 11 місяців тому +78

      yes lets praise the absolute bare minimum. woohoo.

  • @NovaRambo4427
    @NovaRambo4427 Рік тому +3419

    I think it only becomes an issue when you *exclusively* desire people far older/younger than you (like 30 *ONLY* dating 19). If you just so happen to fall in love with an older/younger person then I don't think it's a big deal... as long as you are happy (and power dynamics are equal/ there's no manipulation).

    • @justinwilson9848
      @justinwilson9848 Рік тому +5

      Might not be for the people who know it but people who don't just jump to whatever they feel

    • @MindfulAttraction2.0
      @MindfulAttraction2.0 Рік тому +68

      To exclude them manipulation to relationships that have large age gap is a little agist. Every type of relationship has manipulation, coercion and downright toxicity. The age, as long as it's legal, is not the difference, it's the level of maturity, attachment, styles, and intentions between both parties. We love to judge people's preferences for some reason. We're obsessed by it. As long as it's legal, it's none of my or your business. I for one prefer people my own age. But I'm not going to be judging somebody who prefers somebody younger as long as it's legal.

    • @rseestella2296
      @rseestella2296 Рік тому +109

      ⁠​⁠@@MindfulAttraction2.0Interesting that you say that after you just commented on a video saying that children consenting to sex with adults is insane. There are no MAJOR changes going on in the brain from 17-19 where a child just clicks and becomes equipped with everything they need to be an adult. Teenagers 13-19 do not have the life experience to be “mature” enough to be in a relationship with a fully grown adult. 9 times of 10 if they do, it’s from traumatic experience that’s making them think it’s okay to date fully grown adults who are attracted to the idea of grooming them. A child who hasn’t had the experience to know when to walk out of a toxic relationship or know when a relationship is toxic is the difference. Legal or not, if you are attracted to the idea of being able to manipulate someone because they are coming from a place of naivety , that is weird.

    • @johannesmattsson9900
      @johannesmattsson9900 Рік тому +94

      ​@@MindfulAttraction2.0Just because it's legal doesn't mean it's moral, people exclusively going after those much younger than them is often predatory and going after people who haven't had the chance to mature fully.

    • @liv-w2o
      @liv-w2o Рік тому +44

      @@MindfulAttraction2.0legal doesn’t equal moral lmao
      also “ageism” doesn’t exist when talking ab this subject.

  • @Morg100
    @Morg100 11 місяців тому +505

    Am I the only one who thinks Tre looks 35?? 22 is crazy!!!!

    • @PrettyOmnificent333
      @PrettyOmnificent333 7 місяців тому +3

      your not.

    • @PanoramicView-o5p
      @PanoramicView-o5p 4 місяці тому +2

      Agreed there’s no way

    • @ItsHowdy
      @ItsHowdy 3 місяці тому

      it’s the hair color

    • @Morg100
      @Morg100 3 місяці тому

      @@ItsHowdy I’ve seen him with black hair on his TikTok page. He still looks older lol.

  • @Yosefiel
    @Yosefiel Рік тому +3073

    Wow Jubilee. First subject is sex? Given the sensitive subject, you could've gone a different route. And the guy was graphic at that... Just wow!

    • @STRING246
      @STRING246 Рік тому +186

      Was disappointed that this was the direction of this as well

    • @jinhub2175
      @jinhub2175 Рік тому +137

      Why is the topic of sex problematic for you?

    • @voyance4elle
      @voyance4elle Рік тому +81

      I think it was a great fun icebreaker :)

    • @jato2942
      @jato2942 Рік тому

      Normal people don’t care. Only you religious people and actual children

    • @kateryna-ostapenko
      @kateryna-ostapenko Рік тому +197

      ​@@jinhub2175 i don't think they find the topic problematic in general. Just the fact that they started with that may send the wrong message. I personally feel similarly about hypersexualization in LGBT community. If people have a prejudice towards a certain sexuality, I think it's better to showcase the romantic side of it at first to show that it's a whole relationship rather than a fetish. For instance I'm bi and many people jump straight to the topic of threesomes when they find out.

  • @itsssandrearenee
    @itsssandrearenee Рік тому +2183

    Quran was so defensive about so many of the topics.... from knowing about their relationship; them meeting when he was 16, both of them having SA trauma, and her family issues... I feel like deep down, he feels it is wrong and knows just he fell into a weird relationship when he was so young and broken. He has a big heart and he feels bad for Cheryl and doesn't want to leave her because she'll be alone. That's my analysis.

    • @OfficialWikipedia
      @OfficialWikipedia 11 місяців тому +64

      When did he say he was 16 when they met?

    • @somerandomblkgirl
      @somerandomblkgirl 11 місяців тому

      @@OfficialWikipedia the information is public information on social media (specifically TikTok) there are many videos about it. Hope that helps.

    • @_sadaf_
      @_sadaf_ 11 місяців тому +376

      I still don't get the whole concept behind their marriage,
      Their relationship is the weirdest one among them.

    • @MoonMoonTM
      @MoonMoonTM 11 місяців тому +341

      @@OfficialWikipedia They did an interview a few years back. He was 16 and working for her son which is how they met. They became "friends" for 8 years and then started dating.

    • @Freetheebees
      @Freetheebees 11 місяців тому +88

      Wow you made up that “analysis” based on how you perceived him by a few questions? Which btw he didnt seem at all regretful.. Maybe you’re the one that thinks its wrong so you think he does? Weird thought process lady.

  • @Kissesfromrory
    @Kissesfromrory 7 місяців тому +119

    Usually I hate ads but I needed a break from this in the lelo thing

  • @mariasarik4269
    @mariasarik4269 Рік тому +7004

    imagine dating someone that was 30 when you were born

    • @believeume122
      @believeume122 Рік тому +512

      This is what I think of everytime someone says they have a huge age gap

    • @BooksToAshes
      @BooksToAshes Рік тому +363

      I always found an age gap way too much if the person could have been your parent (or worse, grandparent...)

    • @jinhub2175
      @jinhub2175 Рік тому +45

      Ew

    • @tortellinicat
      @tortellinicat Рік тому +163

      I mean you could even apply that to smaller gaps. My partner is just 5 years older than me and when we think about it, I was in elementary when they were in high school which is weird. I was 13 when they were 18 and that's weird. But we didn't meet then, we met as adults.. so it's normal. But idk I also am just not put off by the idea of dating someone even 20+ years older than me. We're adults, if the dynamic works, it works.

    • @prestonmatthews725
      @prestonmatthews725 Рік тому +6

      Oh Lord

  • @macngeeseyt6029
    @macngeeseyt6029 Рік тому +3872

    There is a reason people consider it wierd.

    • @allme1000
      @allme1000 Рік тому +3

      Fr tho especially cherry she groomed that lil boy and made him into her lil slave just like she did back in her day smh 😒

    • @ashtinpeaks9972
      @ashtinpeaks9972 Рік тому +154

      Yea, I would say when it gets to 20 it starts getting a bit odd in my opinion. Most the relationships i have seen in my life has been within 10 years of age. I have seen married couples have problems with age difference of 20 years as well just due to retirement and other factors. Each their own, but it is odd for majority of people

    • @WubbyPunch
      @WubbyPunch Рік тому +101

      It’s more important in straight relationships where kids could be involved for sure. But yeah generally the wider the gap the weirder. And the gayer the couple the less weird to be honest lol.

    • @jinhub2175
      @jinhub2175 Рік тому +20

      ​@@WubbyPunch lmao you're not wrong tho

    • @MrLuffyoo
      @MrLuffyoo Рік тому +29

      ⁠@@ashtinpeaks9972it's rare, but it's noone else business except for the people living the relationship. Why do people feel the need to judge others ?

  • @dozyrozypozy
    @dozyrozypozy 5 місяців тому +155

    "i wanna be a slave" stand up my brother, ur free😂

    • @Petsmenagerie
      @Petsmenagerie 2 місяці тому

      That is a legit kink. Him being black ain’t got nothing to do with it.

  • @mikaapichatsakol530
    @mikaapichatsakol530 11 місяців тому +1222

    Alejandro and Talia are not controversial enough for this experiment lol

    • @manifestingsanctuary
      @manifestingsanctuary 9 місяців тому +32

      They're just the least open

    • @hannahgates2994
      @hannahgates2994 8 місяців тому +24

      @@manifestingsanctuary which isn’t necessarily a bad thing 🤷‍♀️

    • @manifestingsanctuary
      @manifestingsanctuary 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@hannahgates2994 Of course, just doesn't mean they're less controversial if all was aired out in the open.

    • @parrisnia72
      @parrisnia72 7 місяців тому +28

      I honestly wouldn't even think they were an age gap couple if I saw them out and about. I mean close up, he does look older than her, but I never would have guessed there was 16 years between them

    • @Niya.B649
      @Niya.B649 6 місяців тому

      ​@@parrisnia72 Agree!

  • @marmarino2070
    @marmarino2070 11 місяців тому +1030

    Jeff and Brian should become besties, they were totally vibing! Wish all the best to all the couples!

    • @archiraxx
      @archiraxx 4 місяці тому +11

      People like you are incredible for being able to go trough the first 5 minutes and still root for all the couples 💀

  • @charityrobbins5152
    @charityrobbins5152 11 місяців тому +128

    Talia and Alejandro never got the chance to talk in this vid. 😂

    • @Cherrykins
      @Cherrykins 5 місяців тому +22

      they probably didn't have very many opinions worth putting in the video, they're the most "normal" of all the couples

  • @HappyDia01
    @HappyDia01 Рік тому +2947

    The casual discussion about Daddy and Coach and all these other weird pedophilic fantasies was too much for me. You can’t tell me it’s not borderline predatory to be in such a large age gap when you are openly talking about being interested in those types of things.

    • @kanyebutdarker8152
      @kanyebutdarker8152 Рік тому +2

      So two consenting adults in a relationship is pedophilic?

    • @woahwhat7321
      @woahwhat7321 Рік тому +255

      Very odd and very off

    • @AZ-ji3zl
      @AZ-ji3zl Рік тому +318

      Also the fact that he’s dated other older men too… jon has issues if he’s consciously only going for older men

    • @voyance4elle
      @voyance4elle Рік тому +181

      that's silly everybody has kinks and phantasies. There is nothing weird about that.

    • @AlzMarioWolfe
      @AlzMarioWolfe Рік тому

      It’s giving mega diet pedophilia to me, like they know they can get away with it because it’s legal but they still totally fantasize about it

  • @ivysrainbow6735
    @ivysrainbow6735 Рік тому +1821

    I hope Cheryl is ok, something is going on with her we can all see it but I hope I’m wrong.

    • @stephanie.420
      @stephanie.420 Рік тому +693

      Meth bb. I’m actually not judging though I used to be addicted to heroin lol

    • @uaibix
      @uaibix Рік тому +67

      something for sure

    • @stephen1922
      @stephen1922 Рік тому +504

      She’s tweaking for sure 😂 can’t stop moving

    • @raimeyewens7518
      @raimeyewens7518 Рік тому +1

      @@stephanie.420she does seem methed up

    • @TheLovesnowangel
      @TheLovesnowangel Рік тому +3

      I honestly think they're both on drugs. She's just into it more

  • @WhoAmI2YouNow
    @WhoAmI2YouNow 6 місяців тому +48

    I get the feeling that Cheryl uses some kind of medication.. the way she moves etc.. I hope she is okay

  • @Scribbby
    @Scribbby 11 місяців тому +769

    You can tell that both Jeff and Tre are an emotionally intellectual couple. They're able to effectively communicate their feelings towards one another and it's a characteristic that allows a relationship to go far.

    • @giulia6344
      @giulia6344 9 місяців тому +24

      Brian and Jon seemed even more mature to me. But yeah they were fine too.

  • @prismen5535
    @prismen5535 11 місяців тому +652

    the:
    "where will i be in 40 years-", "dust"
    was wild asf

  • @Cyberrpuke
    @Cyberrpuke 11 місяців тому +248

    congratulations jubilee you officially created the hardest watch on youtube

  • @Heyguhh
    @Heyguhh 11 місяців тому +1475

    Having a slavery kink is wild and vile asf🤦🏾‍♀️
    (Yes im kink shaming)

    • @artofjoy4418
      @artofjoy4418 11 місяців тому +86

      Exactly!! No sir!!!

    • @pasc8699
      @pasc8699 11 місяців тому +106

      I feel like it’s a humiliation kink rather than a slavery kink but he doesn’t understand that yet

    • @sd7785
      @sd7785 11 місяців тому +46

      It's very common, and this mentality is what keeps people feeling intense shame about kinks for years. It does nothing but hurt those individuals. Nothing has been gained

    • @Cheray_
      @Cheray_ 11 місяців тому +30

      You'd think massa's kids name-calling would turn him on🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @sd7785
      @sd7785 11 місяців тому +10

      @@Cheray_ That's a vile thing to say

  • @Marie70707070
    @Marie70707070 11 місяців тому +495

    I love the host of this show. He's very open and sensitive. Just a very likeable person :)

    • @robynblondie1132
      @robynblondie1132 10 місяців тому +8

      This!

    • @gigi-ph8zd
      @gigi-ph8zd 7 місяців тому +17

      i agree you could totally tell he made them 100% comfortable

    • @shoutaaizawa1068
      @shoutaaizawa1068 4 місяці тому +1

      it's almost like his job is on the line

  • @madlibs4
    @madlibs4 7 місяців тому +10

    This makes me miss the love of my life who was 42 years older than me and died in 2020. It takes a special type of person to be in an age gap relationship. The confidence, comfortably, and fun energy between these partners is a special kind of connection. There’s no judgement. You embrace your differences. It’s pure love, and every moment is precious. Everything was a fun adventure to us. We were always laughing and could joke with each other without ever taking anything personally. I’ve never felt as free with anyone as I did with him, and it’s such an amazing learning experience to be with someone from a different era. There’s so much mutual respect, and the ability to not care about what anyone else thinks is so powerful. No relationship in my life has ever compared.

  • @ms.borzynski2195
    @ms.borzynski2195 Рік тому +817

    Crazy I’m seeing this after watching someone react to Quran and Cheryl. They’re kind of popular on TikTok and they met when Quran was only 16 and Cheryl was like 53 😬😬 I don’t think there’s anything wrong with an age gap but how could you be with someone you knew when they were underage. Kind of icky if you ask me

    • @anothertitan5543
      @anothertitan5543 11 місяців тому +136

      Yeah no thats definitely grooming ://

    • @a_83567
      @a_83567 11 місяців тому +62

      @@anothertitan5543 And in this video he has said some things that imply they got together when he was a minor but I’ll leave that alone.

    • @wiseguy240Winston
      @wiseguy240Winston 11 місяців тому +19

      Then u think there's something wrong with the age gap....
      CAUSE THERE IS 😂

    • @ms.borzynski2195
      @ms.borzynski2195 11 місяців тому +38

      @@wiseguy240Winston not necessarily because if they met when he’s 30 and she’s 67 like yes that’s a big age difference but he’s be 30 and a grown adult with a fully developed brain you know? So it’s not really the age difference but their actual ages currently if that makes sense? Kind of the same idea of like a senior dating a freshman in high school. It’s only 4 years but the developmental difference is huge but later in life 4 years is nothing

    • @v4l3nt1n30
      @v4l3nt1n30 11 місяців тому +3

      fr, like sum there was def planned 😨

  • @jess6558
    @jess6558 Рік тому +1135

    Omg everyone just said “let’s over share!”

    • @HB-ey2dk
      @HB-ey2dk Рік тому +122

      Like... WAY overshare wtf 😂

    • @ufohoh
      @ufohoh Рік тому +1

      The black guy having a slave kink is crazy 💀

    • @soanyways5167
      @soanyways5167 Рік тому +7

      Fr

    • @Anny-me9ny
      @Anny-me9ny Рік тому +17

      Would you not rather them be honest ?

    • @raimeyewens7518
      @raimeyewens7518 Рік тому +1

      @@Anny-me9nyyou can be honest without saying we like to shove our arms up each other’s bums and then urinate on each other.

  • @enmanley
    @enmanley 7 місяців тому +11

    This is the most honest I’ve ever seen a collective group be in these videos

    • @gracewong957
      @gracewong957 3 місяці тому

      maybe to honest i did not need to hear abt the p!ss k!nk

  • @MrNicoleCherie
    @MrNicoleCherie Рік тому +1087

    Please talk about the emotional connections more than sex. Plus in queer culture age gaps are extremely common and we feel more comfortable talking about sex because we have to explore it more. This episode would come off shocking cause the way you guys entered into the conversation. Its taboo! Dont make it more so by aaking weird questions! Interview age gap couples and ask what questions they feel are most relevant to their relationships.

    • @microwave8931
      @microwave8931 Рік тому +62

      It's gross. Across all sexualities, it's predatory. Unless if they're like 30 and 40

    • @raimeyewens7518
      @raimeyewens7518 Рік тому +2

      That would have been better than fisting and pissing. I don’t care what consenting adults do in the privacy of their own homes. I just don’t care to hear about it.

    • @carlbonara602
      @carlbonara602 Рік тому +31

      They did. It looks like they asked the "shocking" questions first because they want to get it out of the way before going into the more emotional/deeper stuff.

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 Рік тому +1

      It’s extremely common cause ped0s/older men think it’s okay to groom younger gay men and having night stands with them because “oh I was in the closet for decades…” 🙄

    • @Freetheebees
      @Freetheebees 11 місяців тому +6

      Did you finish the video ?

  • @KJ75678
    @KJ75678 Рік тому +396

    Grandpa ….to 17 grandchildren …at 26….. someone help 😭

  • @BlueTechBite
    @BlueTechBite 9 місяців тому +43

    Jubilee needs to pay for my therapy session.

  • @TheNewLooter
    @TheNewLooter Рік тому +1286

    I don't know what's worse, blud's slavery kink or the necromancy

  • @TheRockerX
    @TheRockerX Рік тому +196

    1:14 my jaw was on the floor when Quran started talking about ejaculating all over Cheryl 😲😲

  • @pallaszina
    @pallaszina 5 місяців тому +7

    I wish everyone the best. My heart melted when Brian hugged Cheryl to console her. It's nobody's business but their own.

  • @MoonMoonTM
    @MoonMoonTM Рік тому +634

    There is no way the lady in the thumbnail is only 64.
    Edit: She met him when he was 16 and was "friends" with him. 🤢

    • @itstheboyaj
      @itstheboyaj Рік тому +20

      All hail Queen Cheryl

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 Рік тому +41

      @@itstheboyajShe gonna end up like Queen Elizabeth 💅🏽

    • @kitcowool
      @kitcowool Рік тому +1

      That’s what abuse, raising 7 kids after two failed marriages and terrible life decisions will do.

    • @ラファエル-i3q
      @ラファエル-i3q Рік тому +100

      I thought she was at least 80!

    • @AllThatJuice-
      @AllThatJuice- Рік тому +55

      Meth

  • @shaymazardoub7506
    @shaymazardoub7506 Рік тому +991

    My jaw literally dropped When Jon said "Dust"💀

    • @jeangenie1240
      @jeangenie1240 Рік тому +89

      They have an excellent rapport, that's just typical of their humour.

    • @dani09eveline
      @dani09eveline Рік тому +3

      I clown my age gap ex like that too. He always would act like I don’t know dhit because I’m young but I was never that young

    • @denisesiddon317
      @denisesiddon317 11 місяців тому +2

      I called my older ex when I was with him dinosaur as a joke that was acceptable but dust is a bit too far

    • @xenondoro8573
      @xenondoro8573 11 місяців тому +19

      ​@@denisesiddon317 It's up to them to decide what is too much. That's a lame roast in gay circles anyway.

    • @khozamasechaba
      @khozamasechaba 11 місяців тому +1

      I perished 😭😭😭

  • @Julie_875
    @Julie_875 3 дні тому +1

    I feel so bad for Cheryl and the grandkids situation. Why can't they just accept that she is happy? It's just so saddening.

  • @VictoriaHatzson
    @VictoriaHatzson 11 місяців тому +626

    “We anchored our love on our mutual abuse” YIKES!that even SOUNDS unhealthy, you shouldn’t wonder if it is, from the moment that thought entered your head to the point it exited your mouth you should have been able to realise how wrong it sounds!

    • @floflo8164
      @floflo8164 11 місяців тому +45

      i really don't think so. like they said, when u've gone through something like that in your life, it's much harder to find people who really understand you. they can sympathize, sure, but they can't fully step in your shoes, and they shouldn't have to either. as long as both individuals are in their healing journey, it makes for a healthy relationship. speaking as someone who's gone through abuse as well, i personally don't want my partner to pity me or see me as some broken lamb or to feel like a burden in any regard. being with, even just talking to people who've gone through similar things, it's a very different and significant type of understanding

    • @birdmandoesnthavediabetes4009
      @birdmandoesnthavediabetes4009 11 місяців тому +11

      ​@@floflo8164exactly, and I'm sure they were able to establish a much deeper connection on other things after bonding over trauma.

    • @RockinLoud360
      @RockinLoud360 11 місяців тому +7

      You're reaching

    • @smileprincess6834
      @smileprincess6834 11 місяців тому +12

      We all anchor our love based on mutual things, whether be it hobbies, careers, whatever...just because theirs was their experiences of abuse doesn't mean they can't love or see each other beyond that. It just means it drew them closer to one another, like any other mutual thing people can share and they grew from there. It's really not "Yikes" nor unhealthy. Their relationship isn't based around only those experiences, it doesn't revolve around that...that would be unhealthy.

    • @manifestingsanctuary
      @manifestingsanctuary 9 місяців тому +4

      I think you're confusing trauma bonding with what they explained. It's not the same thing. This shared past experience allows them deeper empathy between one another; it is a positive them.

  • @SpongebobSquarepants-gz1jj
    @SpongebobSquarepants-gz1jj Рік тому +86

    Idc ab the age gap it's just that Sheryl met quaren when he was 16..

  • @imnotgonnasay3612
    @imnotgonnasay3612 7 місяців тому +12

    After laughing along with the rest of the internet about Cheryl and Quaran's relationship, I researched age-gap relationships and found this video on Jubilee. Watching the interaction between these two makes me feel ashamed for judging what looks to be a very genuine and happy couple. I hope they continue their life of happiness and love!

    • @ArtiyaFuwape
      @ArtiyaFuwape 4 місяці тому +4

      I mean they met when he was 16 and he was her employee or something. Nothing nice about that. She is a predator and he is a victim.

    • @imnotgonnasay3612
      @imnotgonnasay3612 4 місяці тому +1

      @@ArtiyaFuwape It's best to do your due diligence before judging. Where they are from, age of consent is 16.

  • @alukeom3815
    @alukeom3815 Рік тому +822

    Not Cheryl showing up only curling the front half of her head 😂

    • @meryemk3531
      @meryemk3531 Рік тому +86

      If she keeps talking too much her mouth gon fall down 😭😭😭

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 Рік тому +28

      @@meryemk3531Gonna be like them cartoons with the jaw all the way down 😭💀

    • @_sadaf_
      @_sadaf_ Рік тому +24

      She would have probably forgotten, she's aging 🙂😭💀

    • @racheltang9985
      @racheltang9985 Рік тому +1

      Hahaha

    • @Oumaima500
      @Oumaima500 Рік тому +11

      I literally can’t stop laughing about this 😭😭😂

  • @analuizapassos4678
    @analuizapassos4678 11 місяців тому +1338

    The last couple, of 16 years difference, is the only one that isn't cringe

    • @HippiePajon
      @HippiePajon 11 місяців тому +48

      It's less "different" one yeah. But hey love is love 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @Ghxstgvrl
      @Ghxstgvrl 11 місяців тому +51

      What exactly is cringe about the other couples? I’m genuinely curious because I didn’t perceive them that way.

    • @RyanCooper-r9n
      @RyanCooper-r9n 11 місяців тому +15

      What's cringe about the other's?

    • @RyanCooper-r9n
      @RyanCooper-r9n 11 місяців тому +4

      ​@@GhxstgvrlI'm curious as well.

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 11 місяців тому +82

      @@Ghxstgvrl
      1. The white and black gay couple started with a student that just got into college and a guy that is equivalent to the age of a father that just sent their kid to college. Don’t know why you’re that age and hooking up with youngsters 🤢
      2. This one I don’t see anything wrong, still weird to date someone 40 years older but whatever
      3. This relationship started when he was a MINOR and she was “friends” with him

  • @DanielFreakinAwesome2
    @DanielFreakinAwesome2 5 місяців тому +24

    Bro Cheryl crawled out of the crypt for this one

  • @hj5520
    @hj5520 Рік тому +256

    Quran and Cheryl “anchoring their love” and “bonding” over abuse and trauma makes too much sense… that’s not very healthy. Also did Cheryl only curl her hair in the front??

    • @UpsNdownZZZ
      @UpsNdownZZZ 11 місяців тому

      Yes, that shows that's she's whacked.

    • @catheriinee3358
      @catheriinee3358 11 місяців тому +13

      CREASING AT THE HAIR

    • @RadiantRiv
      @RadiantRiv 9 місяців тому +8

      It’s called ‘trauma bond’

    • @manifestingsanctuary
      @manifestingsanctuary 9 місяців тому +6

      Judging people on youtube like they're on trial in the town square prob isn't healthy either.

    • @Ms.marinn
      @Ms.marinn 8 місяців тому +1

      I’ve been searching for this comment I, I thought I was the only one😂

  • @icey_joy208
    @icey_joy208 11 місяців тому +71

    The amount of times I had to pause to process what I’m hearing is crazy

    • @angelcare5969
      @angelcare5969 5 місяців тому

      Fuuuuk the best comment ever 😂😂😂😂 I'm dieing

  • @Busaio
    @Busaio Рік тому +580

    Cheryl and Quran's relationship gives me the ick.

    • @femafull
      @femafull Рік тому +18

      same

    • @Randomcommenter90
      @Randomcommenter90 8 місяців тому +5

      You're such a hater. It's so sad, too, because they get enough criticism... and for what? Two ADULTS choosing to be together who seemingly have a healthy, beautiful relationship. Yet there's always someone trying to rain on their parade ☹️. GIVE THEM A BREAK!

    • @panzerchad
      @panzerchad 8 місяців тому +5

      @@Randomcommenter90 bro definitely likes GILFs

    • @anna4338
      @anna4338 7 місяців тому +7

      ​@@Randomcommenter90My biggest problem is that they met when he was 16

    • @Randomcommenter90
      @Randomcommenter90 7 місяців тому

      @@anna4338 as long as they weren’t together then it doesn’t matter if they’re together now.

  • @ahhhhh5849
    @ahhhhh5849 11 місяців тому +1009

    Public sex is degenerate. Don't involve strangers into your sex life... absolute sickos.

    • @ahhhhh5849
      @ahhhhh5849 11 місяців тому +1

      @@BuzziePitch 4:25

    • @ahhhhh5849
      @ahhhhh5849 11 місяців тому +68

      @@BuzziePitch He legit says they do it in parks but go off ig

    • @BuzziePitch
      @BuzziePitch 11 місяців тому +34

      @@ahhhhh5849 welp i missed that for sure and now side with you

    • @v0idk1tty
      @v0idk1tty 11 місяців тому +32

      I've done it where it was dark in the middle of the night and no one was around. I wasn't involving others (besides my partner) but we were still in public

    • @SpookyPookster
      @SpookyPookster 11 місяців тому +56

      Parks?! I freak hope dude means like forests and trails not swings and slides parks...

  • @billymartinez2613
    @billymartinez2613 11 місяців тому +17

    at the start of watching this i didn’t know how far i would watch because it is a little weird but the more i watch the more sympathy i have especially the wanting family part and not being able to because of age and cheryl’s kids not approving we shouldn’t judge at first sight we should try to understand people first this video was great and more eye opening they’re happy and that’s all that matters

    • @file.zip.
      @file.zip. 8 місяців тому

      horrible run on sentence

    • @billymartinez2613
      @billymartinez2613 8 місяців тому +1

      @@file.zip. did i ask? no it has nothing to do with the topic go watch some writing video instead

  • @NRV0
    @NRV0 Рік тому +437

    I'm sorry but I can't really support someone in their 20s dating someone who 60+. Just feels to wrong to me.

    • @SpringAngel1
      @SpringAngel1 Рік тому +68

      Trust me, they’ll be OK without your support

    • @girlplease2452
      @girlplease2452 Рік тому +110

      @@SpringAngel1she met him when he was a minor and waited till he was 18 so….

    • @alexisoshea1692
      @alexisoshea1692 11 місяців тому +2

      Do you want to explore why that is?

    • @diyaa14159
      @diyaa14159 4 місяці тому +3

      I know!! we don't need to normalise everything!

  • @georgenep1082
    @georgenep1082 11 місяців тому +171

    These are all adults but as a mother the age gap is so hard to understand.

  • @martialartsnerd7673
    @martialartsnerd7673 10 місяців тому +13

    "You can't hurt me if I don't read it" I love that.

  • @XDsymphony
    @XDsymphony Рік тому +363

    A couple in my grandma’s retirement community have a 25 age gap. The husband is 105 and the wife is 80 they are the cutest couple ever.

    • @SQUELCH-zj7il
      @SQUELCH-zj7il 11 місяців тому +207

      At those aged, it doesn't matter anymore 😭

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 11 місяців тому +3

      🤣

    • @Cheray_
      @Cheray_ 11 місяців тому +32

      With age the gap seems to lessen for sure!

    • @immanuelcunt7296
      @immanuelcunt7296 11 місяців тому +15

      ​@@SQUELCH-zj7ilyeah but the point is they were 25 and 50 at some point

    • @giulia6344
      @giulia6344 9 місяців тому +1

      Omg you go granps 😂

  • @samschwinn9614
    @samschwinn9614 11 місяців тому +30

    When he said he wanna be a slave 🤦‍♂️

  • @juliehousley1972
    @juliehousley1972 11 місяців тому +325

    Cheryl taking that boys virginity is so sad. Like age gaps to an extent arent a problem, I don’t have much of a issue but it does feel very predatory with that specific couple,he was young and didn’t know anything else

    • @RadiantRiv
      @RadiantRiv 9 місяців тому +28

      At age 25 your frontal cortext is fully developed, anything under that age is super iffy since you don’t have the maturity to deal with these issues

    • @anna4338
      @anna4338 7 місяців тому +46

      ​@@RadiantRiv they met when he was 16

    • @buhahahaha8363
      @buhahahaha8363 6 місяців тому +18

      @@anna4338 really?? that’s wild

    • @dimitrakazazo5394
      @dimitrakazazo5394 5 місяців тому +19

      I still struggle to believe their relationship is real ... I've tried my best to not judge but their relationship and dynamic really looks odd .

    • @Cherrykins
      @Cherrykins 5 місяців тому +5

      @@dimitrakazazo5394idk all those apologies to his people about what his fantasy was seemed so genuine 😭 crazy to say already but even crazier to say something like that fr

  • @sarruh
    @sarruh Рік тому +168

    the slave kink is WILD 💀

    • @sntt3404
      @sntt3404 2 місяці тому

      slave/master is not that uncommon or wild

  • @Little_miss_mr_star
    @Little_miss_mr_star 9 місяців тому +52

    SLAVE IS ABSOLUTELY CRAZYYYYY 😭😭😭

    • @standowner6979
      @standowner6979 3 місяці тому +1

      Your pfp encapsulates the face I made when I hear it

  • @sophialikestocode
    @sophialikestocode 11 місяців тому +353

    biggest surprise was cheryl being 64

    • @UpsNdownZZZ
      @UpsNdownZZZ 11 місяців тому +5

      *63

    • @ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063
      @ifyouwantoreplyjustclickth5063 11 місяців тому +38

      Fr, she has to be at least 80

    • @Antisocialpessimist
      @Antisocialpessimist 11 місяців тому +8

      I think shes lying my mom is her age and doesnt look like that

    • @UpsNdownZZZ
      @UpsNdownZZZ 11 місяців тому +15

      @@Antisocialpessimist My mom is 73 and looks 10 years younger than this woman!

    • @Guess-ky2ir
      @Guess-ky2ir 11 місяців тому +13

      She struggled with meth when she was younger, so that's why

  • @bethanywest5257
    @bethanywest5257 11 місяців тому +135

    This was interesting. When the video started I was like “Whoah, no, this is not okay” because of some of the things they were discussing, but as the video went on my disapproval lessened. I’ll say, it’s still not something that appeals to me personally even though I’ve definitely been attracted to older people, but I gained a little understanding for these couples. I do truly believe these people love each other and that’s really all that matters.

    • @TheBB1994
      @TheBB1994 11 місяців тому +11

      You described what I wanted to say perfectly.

    • @madlibs4
      @madlibs4 7 місяців тому +4

      👏 thank you for being open minded and giving their perspectives a chance! Way too many people did not.

  • @likeprincetj
    @likeprincetj 2 місяці тому +4

    I understand why people want older people because they’re typically more mature and know what they want by that age.

  • @raymax_1071
    @raymax_1071 Рік тому +196

    I don't care about age gaps that much as long as both are functional and consenting adults but grooming can and many times is a thing with these relationships and that's when it's unacceptable.

    • @Guess-ky2ir
      @Guess-ky2ir 11 місяців тому +9

      Yea cheryl and quran are the only ones I'm concerned about. They didn't say it in the vid, but they met when he was 16 and working for her son. They didn't date till 20 (I think) but it was still weird imo.

  • @irlmikasa
    @irlmikasa 11 місяців тому +128

    this was so much more wholesome than i thought it would be. of course there are some relationships with large age gaps where it's clearly about money/power imbalance/grooming, but not all of them; this is a clear example of that. i don't think it's fair to immediately judge and be rude to couples like these when all of those horrible reasons to date somebody are also so often found in couples with little to no age gap. love is love and if it's genuine then there should be nothing but support for the couple.

    • @heavenlydoll222
      @heavenlydoll222 11 місяців тому +1

      soo true!!

    • @Sleepless4Life
      @Sleepless4Life 2 місяці тому +1

      Started off wild asf, but got wholesome mid way through.

  • @shakuan868
    @shakuan868 2 місяці тому +3

    I love all your videos EXCEPT THIS ONE! This is why I can’t be a public figure ever cause I ain’t letting this slide!

  • @samuelmedina-conchi8757
    @samuelmedina-conchi8757 Рік тому +157

    They had to start with sex because that was the elephant in the room. Get it out of the way and focus on the other things better. I respect and love watching their love for eachother ooze out of the screen.

    • @madlibs4
      @madlibs4 7 місяців тому

      Yes! Thank you for saying this 👏

  • @Katechap20
    @Katechap20 11 місяців тому +125

    Did I miss an explanation for how they met in his DORM ROOM?

    • @DeathShiniGama
      @DeathShiniGama 11 місяців тому +3

      Dorm is college generally. Which is generally above 18.

    • @Justinn229
      @Justinn229 11 місяців тому +9

      He was swiping on them aaaapps

    • @Tyrone-s7d
      @Tyrone-s7d 6 місяців тому +2

      ​@@DeathShiniGamaare you saying it's OK for middle-aged adults to pursue young college students?
      Yes, we know that dorms are on campuses, thanks for the education.

    • @chantjelly6773
      @chantjelly6773 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@Tyrone-s7d the college students are also adults mate...

    • @nextbigthing2917
      @nextbigthing2917 6 місяців тому +1

      @@chantjelly6773He was about 17 at the time that’s creep behavior no way around it

  • @J3R1K4s
    @J3R1K4s 8 місяців тому +1

    If people stopped watching at the beginning I consider you again.
    There's some very powerful and deep conversations.
    I commend everyone for being so open and candid. Your openness, humility and transparency is eye opening and may be hard for some to swallow or wrap their heads around, but I know I have learned more about humanity from this, I can empathize with some subjects as well.
    I always thought my bf and I had it tough being an interracial relationship with a child, I wasn't accepted in his family and we cant go to some family because we would likely deal with some horrific situations if we came out alive.
    Though seeing what they have gone through in gay couples and in age gap couples and seeing the interracial experiences as well it has been eye opening.
    Wishing all of them the best!

  • @ratmaid8264
    @ratmaid8264 Рік тому +146

    HOW’D THEY GET CHERYL ON HERE ☠️

  • @KassieKreep
    @KassieKreep 11 місяців тому +53

    Tbh, Jeff and Tre are my favorite. The emotional intelligence and openness between the two of them is so strong. Even in normal age gap couples, that's hard to find.
    In general, definitely should not have started this off with the sex topic. It really does not help with this particular topic. Go through this one in reverse and it would be better and flow waaaay smoother.

  • @KristinReneeCreative
    @KristinReneeCreative 11 місяців тому +45

    This was surprisingly wholesome to me. I’ve seen and judged these couples before but they are happy and clearly fill a void the other person had in their life. Jeff and Tre are so cute together I love them.

    • @PanDaL0v3r11
      @PanDaL0v3r11 11 місяців тому +2

      I wish more people saw it this way

  • @MeganR9156
    @MeganR9156 Рік тому +164

    Jeff and Tre are my absolute faves. They are actual goals, they are both so sweet and genuine and they work so well with each other💛

    • @notnow-wq4lr
      @notnow-wq4lr 7 місяців тому

      yeah but the public s"x in PARKS is.... ew

  • @stephanie.420
    @stephanie.420 Рік тому +45

    Why do Cheryl and Quaran have different stories about how they met all the time?? They’ve said her son was his boss before and that’s how they met, when he was 16..??

  • @dezloutay
    @dezloutay 8 місяців тому +4

    brian is such an attractive human and a kind soul. I wouldn't give a damn about the age gap either

  • @Dreabz617
    @Dreabz617 Рік тому +70

    At first I was confused because I thought Talia and Alejandro looked like they could be around the same age. She looks her age (27) and he looks like he could be around 35 😅

    • @gokcenihal
      @gokcenihal 2 місяці тому +1

      and I don't think their age gap is outrageous. They should be able to relate to a great extent

    • @Kiall.
      @Kiall. 28 днів тому

      It's wellknown that latinos don't age 😅

  • @CookieJessiee
    @CookieJessiee Рік тому +325

    I know for sure that I would be one of those people who’d judge them immediately as a first impression. However, the more I’m watching and listening, the more I’m sympathizing…

    • @i3qyi
      @i3qyi 11 місяців тому +26

      no fr i already knew queen cheryl from tiktok and i was quite judgemental toward them but i geniunely cried a lil watching this and i feel so bad for them now

    • @ashtraypup
      @ashtraypup 11 місяців тому +54

      @@i3qyishe groomed him lmfao don’t feel bad for her. her son was his boss and she started talking to him when he was 16

    • @thesibsfsurkfb
      @thesibsfsurkfb 11 місяців тому +14

      Really to me it got more disturbing the longer I watched

    • @CookieJessiee
      @CookieJessiee 11 місяців тому

      I can also see why 😂@@thesibsfsurkfb

    • @idonthavegoodhumor
      @idonthavegoodhumor 10 місяців тому +2

      @@ashtraypupfr the couples are way too weird, i barely feel bad

  • @joshualamp2438
    @joshualamp2438 10 місяців тому +17

    How is Cheryl only 63? Must have been a rough 63 years.

  • @starguzy4392
    @starguzy4392 11 місяців тому +60

    I hope Jon and Brian are able to foster or find something that works for them. The tears when talking about kids made me cry

    • @nolord2563
      @nolord2563 10 місяців тому +9

      They should be nowhere near children.

  • @b8665
    @b8665 11 місяців тому +110

    it’s annoying that so many people sexualize age gap relationships. it’s the same as sexualizing any non traditional relationship and it needs to stop.. sex is important in any relationship, but the emotional connection is most important. i wish they had talked about that more in this episode.

    • @xxintixx4638
      @xxintixx4638 11 місяців тому +10

      Womp womp

    • @itsnatemate7697
      @itsnatemate7697 11 місяців тому +2

      Whomp Whomp

    • @heavenlydoll222
      @heavenlydoll222 11 місяців тому

      @@xxintixx4638shut up

    • @manifestingsanctuary
      @manifestingsanctuary 9 місяців тому +3

      What? The age gap is almost always a fetish for the people in the relationship atleast from the start.

  • @Mchannelw
    @Mchannelw 20 днів тому +2

    I would be so happy if my mom found someone , even if he were my age, that treats her well and makes her happy. Her happiness is all that matters and age is just a number after like 27 😅

  • @indybruggeman1293
    @indybruggeman1293 Рік тому +113

    Sherly is on something. She's acting like she's cracked out

    • @CrankyCanine
      @CrankyCanine Рік тому +26

      She has quirks that definitely point to having some kind of stimulant dependency, but it could have been a past addiction. A lot of people who've had addictions to stims basically develop adhd, and also bruxism (moving your jaw back and forth a lot).

    • @salmaabdullahgb
      @salmaabdullahgb 7 місяців тому +3

      ​@@CrankyCanineyou can't develop adhd you either had it your whole life or you didn't

    • @CrankyCanine
      @CrankyCanine 7 місяців тому +1

      @@salmaabdullahgb Adhd can develop through stimulant addiction.

    • @rediettadesse2828
      @rediettadesse2828 7 місяців тому

      Theyre not sane

    • @wynnie_margeaux
      @wynnie_margeaux 7 місяців тому +3

      I think she said on tik tok that she struggled with a drug addiction when she was younger

  • @xxAnimeHeartxx
    @xxAnimeHeartxx Рік тому +114

    Cheryl and Quran are so selfish for trying to have a baby. The child would probably not have an active mother growing up, nor will the child have a long relationship with her either. And let's not forget all the questions this would raise in school which could lead to bullying. I can understand that Quran wants a child, he's still young but to have one with Cheryl would just be selfish and mean to the child.

    • @femafull
      @femafull Рік тому +5

      I couldn't agree more

    • @xenondoro8573
      @xenondoro8573 11 місяців тому +4

      If the gender roles were reversed, they'd have no issue getting a baby, though. As for bullying, that argument is silly. Might as well not date a black person if the opinions of other people is that important.

    • @xenondoro8573
      @xenondoro8573 11 місяців тому +5

      @@xxAnimeHeartxx You completely missed my point. The possibility of being bullied should not dictate what a person does or doesn't do. Why should anyone live their lives according to other people's prejudice?

    • @Tyrone-s7d
      @Tyrone-s7d 6 місяців тому

      ​​@@xenondoro8573none of which changes the fact that they'll spend 90% of their life without their mother.
      If she already raised 6 racists she doesn't deserve an 8th chance.
      Especially when the father would be someone she groomed.
      Would they tell the kids that they met when she was middle-aged and he was 16?
      If so how exactly would they have that conversation without telling their kids that grooming is OK?

  • @jasminechairez1058
    @jasminechairez1058 7 місяців тому +8

    The “hey why you crying lady “ made me laugh so hard 😂😂

  • @knzay
    @knzay Рік тому +92

    Notice how all the young ppl met their partners BEFORE their prefrontal cortices were fully developed?

    • @PennyMsElite
      @PennyMsElite Рік тому +6

      Yup

    • @peacheskp0p
      @peacheskp0p Рік тому +9

      @amsterdamesmoking, drinking, and maybe military for sure

    • @knzay
      @knzay Рік тому +2

      great idea!! @amsterdame

    • @geopoonaniluva4141
      @geopoonaniluva4141 Рік тому +5

      ​@amsterdame25 is too young, 40 sounds more ideal

    • @file.zip.
      @file.zip. 8 місяців тому

      cortice

  • @iizaberu
    @iizaberu Рік тому +95

    Have you done international/long distance couples yet? I’m in one and would love that 😍

  • @notrajkishornagar
    @notrajkishornagar 9 місяців тому +3

    33:48 dude Brian really wanted it, he just can't hold his tears back 😢