Hell yeah. Got what was needed lol.. wooo. Um education system is oriented for female perspective or obedience aka survival.. Most feared empires have obedient men as soldiers... Today's education system has zero male knowledge.. Very fact there's a Navajo chief.. understand not a wannabe Dr or Google expert or expert at vomiting up the brainwashed will.. What you saying at end is sigma can open up doors aka witch.. Sigmas are not supposed be sigma. They are supposed to be the chiefs. Broken chief is what. What you call a broken sigma. Funny because a broken alpha would be a sigma.. God family means everything. Education system has zero male health and well being involved.. This is what creates the insane society we have today.. so many males and females love socialism. Why because if I can't have what I want you can't either.. Misery loves company and 9 months after next inauguration.. Believe me we got more for you soulless mindless spines worship TV gods..
Made from an unsupported childhood.. had to fight every step unaided & slandered everytime i stumbled, you can’t choose the family your born into but it can make or break you depending on the fire inside.🙏🏾👊🏾
This was like listening to my biography. Dreadful home life as a child, asked endless questions and didn't fit in to modern schooling, became an extreme realist and master of self-reliance. Ended up an entrepreneur because I work faster, smarter and with unstoppable determination when I work alone.
Don't beat yourself up dude. Following the herd early in life can be a survival technique. Known or unknown at the time. If you survive, knowledge and acceptance of who you are will come. That's when you do your own thing. Took me until I was in my 60's to understand. Wasted a lot of time conforming but it made me smarter and more acceptant of myself. Am now 90 and chillin'. Life is good.
You gotta follow the herd At some point It's called research, environmental scanning then you reject it I'm apolitical but I dont understand how feminists and so called civilized people support pedo Biden But then I realize they have a herd mentality and are swearing allegiance to who ever is in charge
I watch this kind of videos not because I need to know who I am but because it is amazing to me that someone, anyone understands. For half of my life (30 years+) I believe no one did. It is a kind of healing for me. Thank you.
My Father died in front of me violently(cerebral hemorrhage) at the age of 11, sadly my Mother could not cope and became an alcoholic. I didn't understand the regimentation of school and suffered from bullying, even from within my own family. I see now it was all required for me to reveal my true Sigma male character. These videos for me are a simple confirmation that I am whole and perfect as I am, thankyou.
I feel ya bro. I found my father murdered when I was 4 years old, the FBI removed the rest of us out of the state as there was a warning left that they were coming back for the rest of us. Most of my life i knew something was way off about me and the rest of average people and im finding out why late in my life. People like us that are survivors will always be on top even if we dont match what societies idea of being on top is. Keep moving onwards and upwards bro
Points taken,as I lost my father when I was 15,and that was a game changer! Overnight growth,mental and spiritual,but not physical! Self reliance,read every book on my local library,plus built up my own,still a student! Made a promise to my father to take care of my mother,fulfilling that promise took 50 years,worth every day! Still a 16 year old,at ❤️ heart! Thank you for the insights,and knowing that I'm not alone!! Thank you 😇 😊!
Yes I am 51 years old and discovering that I was sigma has answered so many questions for me and I agree it is nice to know that I am not alone in my experiences. It is a blessing and a curse in many ways to be a sigma but I am so glad that I am not part of the herd because I feel my life has more meaning than just people following. The road less traveled is at the core of my being.
I went through the same phase. It built me as a man who I'm now - 37 years old now. Keep following the path to your dreams. Don't let the naysayers derail you. You'll meet plenty of them. Stay hungry!
Yes especially with the education. I found it extremely dull and boring. My teachers were frustrated because I would day dream a lot. Escapism became the norm.
Same. Hated school. Hated the structure of the system, hierarchy that was the student body, the subjects and lessons taught and most of the methods used from most teachers. Some teachers managed to captivate me in certain subjects. Favorite teacher was the one who would go off subject and talk about all kinds of interesting things. His curriculum wasn't so important that he wouldn't seize the opportunity to go off on tangents. Many of them. For the most part tho, the uninspired lessons required by the state left me daydreaming quite often. Learned to hide my wandering thoughts better after second grade having that teacher call me out constantly during class, telling me to stay focused.
I grew up in poverty, alone much of the time and very disconnected from society. I would dismantle, destroy and analyze everything around me, many called it destructive behavior and would try to break through and "fix" me. I recognized at an early age that no one understood and definitely no one had my back and if i was going to succeed it would be by my own hand . I sold the intellectual rights to 4 patents by the age of 22, went on to run multiple companies and eventually owning my own shop with no formal education. One of the points in this video and a principal i live by is that life's hard knocks are not to be taken personally but are just minor obstacles to be overcome along the path of the unknown. Life is what you make it and you can either live in your own construct or by the rules of someone else's.
The only one that doesn't fit my list is the broken home. My parents were good parents. They were older than my friends parents. They grew up in the Great Depression. My mom was from a farming family and my dad grew up without his father. He got his education in the Army and being sent off to the Korean war. They tried to answer my questions as best as possible but I still had to find a lot on my own. I feel they did a good job. I'm thankful for everything they provided me with. Dad was the best father I could think of. He provided for the family and taught me how to handle things on my own. Mom taught me her caring nature. Because they were so different from other parents I felt different from the other kids.
I was born a sigma for sure. I refused to do things to be popular and for sure feel different from most. I am stubborn and refuse to conform to the norm. Although I dont think I am tough, my uncle said I am tough 😂. When my father passed I had to step in and be the head of household in my last quarter of college. I didnt know I was a sigma until recently
Bloody hell man , this is a bit close to home. Growing up was a major battle and I had no idea, until recently, why I was described as odd etc by others. When my parents were prosecuted for keeping me from attending school, they gave evidence of my "extremely high IQ." Every psychometric test I have taken since has confirmed this, and I been sacked from many jobs because of this. All of my life, from the age of eight, people have come to me with their problems. Isn't that strange? I've never had friends but have learned an insane number of skills and facts and my outlook is so different to everyone around me that it leads to conflict, but in the end, I'm proved correct and that makes people mad. I never met anyone who thinks the way that I do and, I never knew that it carried a label for a personality type. It must have taken you a lot of time to research and understand all this.
IMHO, Sigma is a knowing, a learnt knowing. Life and experience makes you realise how generally, people are shit, and will eventually let you down to better themselves. The logical answer is self reliance and building your own world where only the privileged few are invited.
@@stirlingmoss4621 Bullies and liars, absolute scum of the earth don't you think. Most are failed alphas from childhood and as such struggle to achieve the respect they think they deserve.
The Topic was interesting for sure. Definitely touches on those crucial points that young sigmas have to go through essentially molding them into the men they become. Most everyone I associated with as a kid growing up was a sigma from a broken house.
When I was 12 years old, during a conversation among my classmates, a friend asked me why I always spoke so strangely: At that moment my whole body, mind and spirit knew that I was not like the others; and accept it without any problem...
My God, you just totally explained who I am. Forgot one thing, I prefer to be by myself. I have no friends (my choice), nor do I want any!!! Man, this was good to hear. Thank you!!!! I am totally a Lone Wolf, Sigma Male!!! Damn Proud too. Not to mention, GEN X!!!!
Frighteningly autobiographical! I had long ago recognized and gradually accepted being different. Listening to this as a sigma male who is now in his 60’s provides both confirmation and affirmation . Without knowing I am pretty sure many friends I’ve made and maintained are also fellow sigmas.
The more I learn and understand the complexities of the "sigma" male, the more I find that a large percentage of my true make-up is indeed sigma. All my young life, I wrestled with being the odd kid, the misunderstood child. As I grew older, I found it increasingly more and more difficult to conform to the insane tedium of the everyday society. I am the eldest of five children. I grew up with a micro-managing narcissistic control freak mother and a "less than understanding" father. I felt completely alienated in my own home. By my teens, I was already fending for myself. I learned the meaning and the true value of freedom and independence, early on. I am 60 years old, and I have seen a lot in my life. What I do know is that I will never change one thing about myself, to comply to the expectations of conformity of lesser men. Sigma's are forced to learn to become survivors - I am that if nothing else.
'To comply to the expectations of lesser men' Great line that It's all a farce Society I'm a nihilist and sometimes I don't even believe in that :-) Once you realize this, it is liberating I love my life It's very exciting The DGAF attitude is very attractive to women
your description of your mother sounds exactly like my mother. geezus. The more I'm reading the comment section the more this feels like a quiet brotherhood 🤝🏼 thank you for sharing be well
I had a wonderful childhood great mother and father. But I always knew either I'm strange or everyone else is strange. I was always quick to learn anything I was interested in. Long story short, I became fascinated with racing around 12 or 13. I just knew I could do it. My dad got me a used old racing go-kart and we went knowing nothing. I finished 2nd my first race. And won every race for 3 months until the first of many conspiracies and politics had me banned from that track. I moved to full size cars at 14. This was before it was popular to put kids in race cars. I became the youngest driver ever to win at fay motor speedway at 14 in a adult class. Wasn't long before the same allegations came "he's cheating, no way he's that good." Moved up to the top class at 15. Dirt super late models. That was extremely challenging because I was with the best drivers on a fraction of their budget. I later moved to Nascar late model stock. Won 9 races the first season along with the championship. This was 07. 08 all my sponsors went broke and I was left to fend for myself. I could write a book about my ups and downs and travels. But all the lies and false hopes told to me molded me into someone who holds no weight to words. If I had a dollar for every time a rich man has told me he was going to help me in racing only to be shot down when it's time to put up, I'd have enough money to keep racing lol. Now this entire story could be bs. But I have proof of my talent on YT. In 2019 I went to the equivalent of the indy 500 of off road racing. The Best drivers in the world go to Crandon WI. Practice and qualifying were rained out I had never seen the track other than Google earth. I got the hole shot on the start not knowing where the turns are how big the jumps are with a engine that was blowing up and still finished 2nd. Nobody has ever been able to do that against guys who have raced that track over and over. I can't explain how I even do it it's just as easy as walking. ua-cam.com/video/giIDhxgUwZ0/v-deo.html if you want to see the race. The interview at the end kinda sucks because my dad was standing in front of me crying because he said when he saw me leading the best in the world it was worth his entire life savings trying to get me seen by someone. The same politics got me run off from there too. Today I just don't care anymore. My dad passed not long after that race and he was the only person I needed to prove anything to. Ps, this was the long story very short lol. Thanks for taking the time to read to the end.
Yeah, it was tough. You're two steps ahead of your buddies but you don't want to outpace them at the same time. I grew up dirt poor...so poor even the poor kids made fun of us. But I vowed to break away from that when I became an adult and responsible for myself alone. I think the greatest asset I had before the age of 18 is that I always noticed other kids that seem to have it worse...not as "poor" but having behavioral problems. Violence, vandalism, stupid behavior. I remember thinking "If it isn't bad enough for you, why the hell are you making it worse?" Most of those guys never progressed...some are dead now or they remain "ate up" by the world. Tough times make for tough people, but it can also destroy some...you gotta power thru it and ditch those that would hold you back.
I'm not a victim of my 'bad' childhood, but rather, the beneficiary of it. It led me to stoicism and the peace of mind that is offers. I would like to support your channel, please consider making the arrangements
When given the IQ test as a 3rd grader, watching all the other kids get up and go back to class, the grownups huddling in the corner and whispering and giving me harder books to see where I would stumble. I thought I was in real trouble. All I could think about was getting out of there before I was labeled a freak.
You nailed it! I just found out about this stuff. I guess I was a sigma growing up in the 60's. You were right about it being hard! Father died in 1970, I learned to become the man at 12.
Every bit of this video describes me to a tee. I spent a majority of my life constantly shape shifting to fit into whatever mindless and superficial environment that I could. Then I gave up and started living alone, in silence and in peace. I never knew what to call it, I always assumed that I was weird because I didn't see the world as everyone else did.
Yes!!! Shape shifting is the what I said to myself or when I'd write about how I felt I was navigating through life. I so wished I could be invisible and live my life.
I was an outcast and was alone as much as possible. Sports and education were very boring to me, people were always assuming that I was a queer because i was so closed off about my life. I am very proud of the person I am today. It has been a very long road.
Having brought up two sigma children can be hard but enjoyable. My son was always asking questions that were often hard to answer. We bought him text books in the subjects he was interested in and he would read them like a novel. We let them explore their interests. My son and I would go camping and at night would discuss his latest theory. I'd try in giving different proposals in his theory to come up with answers that made sense to both of us. I tried to teach my kids to be different but within boundaries. Both my kids are very successful in their chosen fields because we taught them not to be afraid to be different
At 11yrs old I was told by my parents 'you're now on your own in life, financially & all ways' That day was the start of my unique independence, in forging my own path, in following my own rules. Self reliance has been inbuilt from then & until this day, in my late 50's. I bought, worked solidly & paid off my first house by 25, travelled the world alone, learned languages & enjoyed experiences that not many others have. I've always been different to most, due to my early days I'd say. Though it's also made me. All the best to all.
This answers all of the questions that I had growing up. I often thought something was wrong with me. I carried those feelings up into adulthood until I learned that Im not weird or a misfit, but a rare and unique person, thanks to these videos.
i was a latch key kid in 2nd grade my mom would eventually marry my step father and chose him over me. I never felt loved and as an only child i was always alone. I never heard of Sigma males until about 2 weeks ago. The characteristics of sigma are me it is me down to the bone . Couple of things here and there are not totally me but i possess probably 95% of the Sigma traits. This childhood video is so accurate🤔
As a Sigma ther is often other stories where there are those who face rejection, and pressured with social popularity among school mates, I was one of those students in the experiences. Well for that kids were showing off their mischief, and the Alpha reputation was so cool, but it is a moment for social play. How does Sigma kids engage.
The unstable upbringing, forced to grow up quickly, the problematic enemies in school and later in the work force; yep, this is my story alright! Now in my latter 50s, I'm still able-bodied, educated, healthy, hold a full-time job, am active in sports and dancing and, unlike many I know and grew up with, I'm not divorced, bankrupt, or miserable in any way. If I seem distant, aloof or unfeeling to others in my life; maybe it's because I no longer believe in wasting my time or frustrating myself trying to help you or feeling sorry for you. I had my moments when I looked in the mirror and asked myself, 'How can I make him better?'. I've watched so many others - family and friends included - mess up their lives in needless and irresponsible ways. My independent and prudent approach to life saved me from becoming company to the misery over the long term.
Firstly, I was born in 1945 just before the end of WWII. My parents were products of the Great Depression that occurred in what was known as the "Dirty Thirties". My studies have shown that the term "Dirty Thirties" had more to do with what people had to do to survive than any condition associated with cleanliness. Dirty tricks in other words. Because of the situation, my parents were not educated and were therefore not aware of how to 'get ahead', but just survive, which was a good idea at the time. But, enough of that. To me, as a child, everything was 'normal.' Before I was fourteen, I had attended more than 9 schools. I got the impression that someone was running from something or someone. I do recall I was a withdrawn and quiet youth, satisfied with my own company. I had a couple of friends. In retrospect, thanks to these videos, my upbringing manifested a very real Sigma brand in that I spent a great deal of time on my own (my choice). I liked my own company - still do, I read a great deal, write essays, hate small talk, enjoy meaningful and substantive conversations and possess many characteristics associated with Sigmas. I was not able to put a label to myself as I was unable to figure out what I was, what I was supposed to be... you get the picture. I have own three companies and never went to university. Never finished high school. I have been a musician, one company was in microbiology, I fished the Bering Sea, was a farrier, business and marketing specialist in high voltage engineering in which I was successful. When I grew weary of the task, I moved on to something else. I succeeded in every undertaking. The search goes on. Now, I am 78 and, as you can no doubt tell from the above writing, intellectually vibrant and fully functional in every way. The search goes on. Sigmas are enigmas...
For me it's both born and life's challenges that has developed me. All the situations you mentioned here are true however some situations happened at an older or younger age than than others
Looking back. Throughout my elementary school years I always thought it was unfair that I had to stay after school while the rest of my family got to go home. My parents were just trying to make a living but this still made me upset since I had to follow rules and not get to do things other kids may have had. Without a doubt it brought out a monster, but I feel I’ve learned to tame it. A lesson I’ve been taught and follow now “it’s ok to act on your emotions, but it’s never ok to be controlled by them”.
I can't help but agree. Hard times teaches us patience, courage, experience in areas of life far beyond our age and learning disappointment and having to stand alone. Taught us you can be the only one that sees it a set way and still be the right one.
I appreciate this video, I grew up in various foster homes from 3 months after birth and after adoption at 10 years old the family that adopted me, with bonus of $10k, expected me to mold to their ignorant and shallow thought patterns. So I left at 18 and I have traveled the world a bit and found that I learn languages quickly. But truly this video confirms what I have always felt, the harder the path the stronger one can become. Challenge insights growth.
this video.. i can’t believe it. this video is like “a retrospective mirror”. with every second of it. probably won’t be seen by millions. BUT I KNOW THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST SPECIAL, MOST UNIQUE VIDEOS IN THE ENTIRE UA-cam DATABASE.
Very well supported in childhood but way ahead of school lessons , didn't pay attention in class but almost always had the answer when asked . Would read and mostly understand all school books , reading them all in the first week .Pissed teachers off when I did very well in tests. Dad was a lawyer and talked to me about cases and law . He grew up on a farm so we built stone walls , concrete driveways etc Uncle was an engineer which was more to my liking . I had to learn about everything and how it worked .You can become a "searcher" even with strong support
I realize nothing can be spot on.. but the videos have been helping me. It took me a lot of time to even consider "sigma" a thing with credit.. always been very different and truly having someone else tell you why you are the way you are.. and it being correct helps see yourself. I think Sigmas if others are anything like me have a hard time perceiving themselves because of checking the ego and actually Caring about moments and holding yourself higher than even others will
When I was a boy, I realized I knew nothing about life and assumed everyone knew something I didn't because they all seemed so confident and assured. Later I realized they all knew nothing but seldom realized it.
This accurately describes my childhood, I always wondered why people keep putting me or asking me to be in charge of things when I clearly never asked to be, and of course why I come into conflict with people who have an alpha mindset. I am very wary of adopting sigma as a label though, it seems much more useful as a description of personality traits than a type of person, same as the alpha and beta labels, they are in my opinion, just a way of identifying a cluster of personality traits and not so much a type of person.
“It matters not how strait the gate, How charged with punishments the scroll, I am the master of my fate: I am the captain of my soul.” ― William Ernest Henley, "Echoes of Life and Death" I'm 64 years old, and I have only recently become aware of the concept of the Sigma Male. After watching this video, the events of my life have been drawn into sharp focus. I always felt a little out of step with the rest of the world, but now I understand why.
I have experienced most of these things - with the exception of a broken household. I had a good childhood- but it was also speckled with unpleasantness such as dealing with bullies and not fitting in.
My whole life is in a video. It's crazy I never knew what a sigma male was just knew I thought think and move different from everybody I know or have came across in life
Never like to be tagged..Alpha, Beta or sigma... i really don't care what word society tags me with. But for the rest .. all the descriptions in the video are 100% what i needed to endured.
Broken home, school was boring with what i didn´t like. Picked up my 1st camera at 14. I understood how it works and understood all i could do. That was along time ago ;)
Way too accurate. Only #5 didn't describe me, but since I have high-functioning autism having a "normal" family still felt a bit broken as my parents simply didn't understand where I was coming from, and reacted to me as if I was a "normal" kid behaving that way (meaning I got punished a lot and couldn't understand what I was supposed to have done wrong). Honestly, having Asperger's before resources became available to diagnose it and help people cope with it could create the equivalents of #2-5 all by itself.
Once again, NAILED IT!!!! I might just add re "Difficult time adjusting to the structure of society": We don't adjust, for then it would be impossible for us to be what we are; instead, we stand apart- which is a good part of the reason we are loners, as others neither understand nor share our values. In my case: I quit school the day I turned 16, and never looked back. Left the city as soon as I saved-up enough money to buy some rural acreage and a used mobile home (All cash..never been in debt a day in my life); I've only ever worked at a traditional job for one month out of my 61 years. etc. Life has been good- never boring, and what's more, I've never transgressed my principles, beliefs, or desires in order to conform to anyone else's idea of how we should live. If only 10% of the population could realize the value of these things and have the nads to start practicing them imeediately, the world would become a wonderful place. tl;dr: Ditch school and throw out that damn TV!
Your commentary is largely correct. Some variation in life is that my parents stayed together, were functional, helpful and loving. They were immigrants in a new country post WW2 and were slight misfits. We were a little on our own as a family and didn't fit the stereotypical national mold. Dad died when I was 24. From that time onwards, I was the oldest male in my family line and in the country. I felt responsibilities to provide, support, nurture, repair things at home, fight for what was right for my wider family and lead. I didn't want these wider responsibilities but had them anyway. The only sensible position was to get on with life and make the best of it. Now 65, your video has many valid points in how my life panned out and what shaped things. Thank you.
The constant abuse of my mother made me absolutely hate violence! I find myself standing up for others in a heartbeat! not even thinking.....just doing. Childhood trauma does shape you to be a great person sometimes.
I always felt different & NEVER wanted to be anything but “average”! I was told, later in life, that I’m an “Autodidact”, explaining how & why I learn the way I do.
This is amazing finally finding out you are not alone. There are others just like me, feeling different growing up, no friends always alone away from the spotlight, but highly talented and gifted in so many areas. I was never bullied as a child. Those who tried regretted doing so because they became the victims. This was before my teenage years. In which i became my distant from people, etc.. by the time i turned nineteen my country had a very violent war that left many dead it was this time my family knew how bold and fearless i am, i was different, something inside of me woke up. I saved my family from ruthless rebels , led them to safety, etc.
This is so on the point. I allso have had so many questions asked in my childhoud. And no one could answer my questions satisfactorily. Allso my interessts are much different to other, I'm not interesst in soccer, smalltalk. In the passt I have learned to be a nerd is bad. So I have hidden it. But my nerd beeing is my super power.
Thank You for helping to understand My self. I was in therapy for thirty years trying to figure out what happened to my self. I have every characteristic of a SIGMA. Very accurate about my personality.
I learned from a young age i was different. It became apparent when conformity tropes didnt interest me. My mom tried to force me to conform as i struggles to make friends, but had no shortage of bullies who were mostly women. Didnt have much female relations unless they befriended me to assist with homework as learning came easy to me. As a youbg adult i grew apathy and resentment to women due to their treatment, and deception. Society taught me self reliance, and apathy to 'victimhood' mentality, and dating. I do better in environments others deem stressful or dangerous, where only few choices remain. Personally, im glad the world me the mes ing of self reliance, and distrust of others. Ive been spared many painful events ive seen otgers go thru as a result. I cant imagine what its like having to depend on others, and fortunately i dont care to. You were born alone, you die alone, so enjoy your journey 🙂
Dead on! I had the hardest time understanding this society, let alone trying to conform or fit in, which I never did! Peer pressure never worked because I really didn't care what my peers thought. I spent a lot of time alone and researched and learned a lot, and drove the adults in my life and teachers crazy with all the pointed questions. I learned to fend for myself early, became a keen observer of human nature and personality types, and learned not to totally trust anyone. It's served me well!!
I am a natural born, one of my sons is made and my grandson is a natural. The natural ones are defiant from the start, despise authority, don't follow the rules. We do indeed have a love for knowledge and information. Now growing up friendless is rather tough but we eventually figure out why. Everyone is temporary. Not that we are antisocial, we just hold relationships very loosely.
So much of this rings true for my childhood except that my mother worked and went to school to improve herself so that we might have a decent life. Her method of parenting was to lead by example. I felt a distinct yearning for more knowledge and experience so I took action and have never looked back.
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I agree 👍. Forging the Sigma... I am. Good video video brother....
This was probably the most spot on definition of a sigma that I have listened to yet
Sigmas are Starseeds
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Hell yeah. Got what was needed lol.. wooo.
Um education system is oriented for female perspective or obedience aka survival..
Most feared empires have obedient men as soldiers...
Today's education system has zero male knowledge..
Very fact there's a Navajo chief.. understand not a wannabe Dr or Google expert or expert at vomiting up the brainwashed will..
What you saying at end is sigma can open up doors aka witch..
Sigmas are not supposed be sigma. They are supposed to be the chiefs.
Broken chief is what. What you call a broken sigma. Funny because a broken alpha would be a sigma..
God family means everything.
Education system has zero male health and well being involved..
This is what creates the insane society we have today.. so many males and females love socialism.
Why because if I can't have what I want you can't either..
Misery loves company and 9 months after next inauguration..
Believe me we got more for you soulless mindless spines worship TV gods..
Made from an unsupported childhood.. had to fight every step unaided & slandered everytime i stumbled, you can’t choose the family your born into but it can make or break you depending on the fire inside.🙏🏾👊🏾
Or simply join another family
So, basically sigmas are frustrated whizz kids that turned into self-sufficient testosterone mountains …ok … I can relate 😅
I also believe we are made
@@christopherrohach8377 Indeed🙏🏾
We are merely a product of our simple minded, ignorantly controlled, societal environment.
This was like listening to my biography.
Dreadful home life as a child, asked endless questions and didn't fit in to modern schooling, became an extreme realist and master of self-reliance. Ended up an entrepreneur because I work faster, smarter and with unstoppable determination when I work alone.
I'm in my 50's, and my only regret is not embracing the personality type I was born into sooner. Following the herd wasted decades of my time.
Don't beat yourself up dude. Following the herd early in life can be a survival technique. Known or unknown at the time. If you survive, knowledge and acceptance of who you are will come. That's when you do your own thing. Took me until I was in my 60's to understand. Wasted a lot of time conforming but it made me smarter and more acceptant of myself. Am now 90 and chillin'. Life is good.
You gotta follow the herd
At some point
It's called research, environmental scanning then you reject it
I'm apolitical but I dont understand how feminists and so called civilized people support pedo Biden
But then I realize they have a herd mentality and are swearing allegiance to who ever is in charge
“Down to Gehenna or up to the throne he travels fastest who travels alone . “. There’s a poem
By Kipling about this very thing.
@@qua7771 Best comment.
I watch this kind of videos not because I need to know who I am but because it is amazing to me that someone, anyone understands. For half of my life (30 years+) I believe no one did. It is a kind of healing for me. Thank you.
Me too...too long a square peg trying to fit in round holes..I became happy with myself when I turned 40...I made my own damn hole and I fit perfectly
You're not alone and I'm not alone now. Thank you for being positive.
Me too....
Facts!
My Father died in front of me violently(cerebral hemorrhage) at the age of 11, sadly my Mother could not cope and became an alcoholic. I didn't understand the regimentation of school and suffered from bullying, even from within my own family. I see now it was all required for me to reveal my true Sigma male character. These videos for me are a simple confirmation that I am whole and perfect as I am, thankyou.
I feel ya bro. I found my father murdered when I was 4 years old, the FBI removed the rest of us out of the state as there was a warning left that they were coming back for the rest of us. Most of my life i knew something was way off about me and the rest of average people and im finding out why late in my life. People like us that are survivors will always be on top even if we dont match what societies idea of being on top is. Keep moving onwards and upwards bro
Points taken,as I lost my father when I was 15,and that was a game changer! Overnight growth,mental and spiritual,but not physical! Self reliance,read every book on my local library,plus built up my own,still a student! Made a promise to my father to take care of my mother,fulfilling that promise took 50 years,worth every day! Still a 16 year old,at ❤️ heart! Thank you for the insights,and knowing that I'm not alone!! Thank you 😇 😊!
Good on ya fella. Your mother's worth every second.
Yes I am 51 years old and discovering that I was sigma has answered so many questions for me and I agree it is nice to know that I am not alone in my experiences. It is a blessing and a curse in many ways to be a sigma but I am so glad that I am not part of the herd because I feel my life has more meaning than just people following. The road less traveled is at the core of my being.
Feel you brother...I'm 52 and lost both parents by age 16...wouldn't wish it on anyone ...truly brutal
Very Very similar now way passed sell by date.
I went through the same phase. It built me as a man who I'm now - 37 years old now. Keep following the path to your dreams. Don't let the naysayers derail you. You'll meet plenty of them. Stay hungry!
This is me 100%! So accurate, it's scary!
Yes especially with the education. I found it extremely dull and boring. My teachers were frustrated because I would day dream a lot. Escapism became the norm.
Me too.... thinking there has to be more to life than this.
@@richard345Dawwwwgggg I said the same shit before lol 😂 thats crazy
@georgiapeach1327 my mom said told me the same on what my teachers had said too lol 😂
Same. Hated school. Hated the structure of the system, hierarchy that was the student body, the subjects and lessons taught and most of the methods used from most teachers. Some teachers managed to captivate me in certain subjects. Favorite teacher was the one who would go off subject and talk about all kinds of interesting things. His curriculum wasn't so important that he wouldn't seize the opportunity to go off on tangents. Many of them. For the most part tho, the uninspired lessons required by the state left me daydreaming quite often. Learned to hide my wandering thoughts better after second grade having that teacher call me out constantly during class, telling me to stay focused.
@@red-merlin I feel you
I grew up in poverty, alone much of the time and very disconnected from society. I would dismantle, destroy and analyze everything around me, many called it destructive behavior and would try to break through and "fix" me. I recognized at an early age that no one understood and definitely no one had my back and if i was going to succeed it would be by my own hand . I sold the intellectual rights to 4 patents by the age of 22, went on to run multiple companies and eventually owning my own shop with no formal education. One of the points in this video and a principal i live by is that life's hard knocks are not to be taken personally but are just minor obstacles to be overcome along the path of the unknown. Life is what you make it and you can either live in your own construct or by the rules of someone else's.
From Canada: Been there, done that dude. Totally agree with you. Found out I was an INFJ at age 60. A lot of shit fell into place after that.
The only one that doesn't fit my list is the broken home. My parents were good parents. They were older than my friends parents. They grew up in the Great Depression. My mom was from a farming family and my dad grew up without his father. He got his education in the Army and being sent off to the Korean war. They tried to answer my questions as best as possible but I still had to find a lot on my own. I feel they did a good job. I'm thankful for everything they provided me with. Dad was the best father I could think of. He provided for the family and taught me how to handle things on my own. Mom taught me her caring nature. Because they were so different from other parents I felt different from the other kids.
Same here. My family is pretty normal
Amen. I am here because I saw your curiosity. The depth of God's love is infinite. We do not understand, because we question everything..
That is a good thing. Taking over the internet by using the "living God". We see things that many do not.
I was born a sigma for sure. I refused to do things to be popular and for sure feel different from most. I am stubborn and refuse to conform to the norm. Although I dont think I am tough, my uncle said I am tough 😂. When my father passed I had to step in and be the head of household in my last quarter of college. I didnt know I was a sigma until recently
Yes, it's like society is the round hole, but you're the triangle peg.
I was the same. It’s definitely born or we would cave because it’s not fun to be hated
Bloody hell man , this is a bit close to home. Growing up was a major battle and I had no idea, until recently, why I was described as odd etc by others. When my parents were prosecuted for keeping me from attending school, they gave evidence of my "extremely high IQ." Every psychometric test I have taken since has confirmed this, and I been sacked from many jobs because of this. All of my life, from the age of eight, people have come to me with their problems. Isn't that strange? I've never had friends but have learned an insane number of skills and facts and my outlook is so different to everyone around me that it leads to conflict, but in the end, I'm proved correct and that makes people mad. I never met anyone who thinks the way that I do and, I never knew that it carried a label for a personality type. It must have taken you a lot of time to research and understand all this.
You could have been my twin. Everything you wrote is familiar ground for me.
@billfarley9167 Good man Bill, keep doing what you're doing, I feel we have an important role.
"Coming to you with all their problems?" No it's not unusual it's called being the 'rubbish bin kid" the container of everybody else's problems.
@stewartlowe4597 Remember this good advice, "It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt."
Well, I'm not alone. Good to know.
What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. True of all, but exponentially profound in terms of personal-growth as Sigma.
IMHO, Sigma is a knowing, a learnt knowing. Life and experience makes you realise how generally, people are shit, and will eventually let you down to better themselves. The logical answer is self reliance and building your own world where only the privileged few are invited.
Great sum up!
that applies to any sensible person, not a needy, dependent, benefits reliant dropout
@@stirlingmoss4621 Bullies and liars, absolute scum of the earth don't you think. Most are failed alphas from childhood and as such struggle to achieve the respect they think they deserve.
The Topic was interesting for sure. Definitely touches on those crucial points that young sigmas have to go through essentially molding them into the men they become. Most everyone I associated with as a kid growing up was a sigma from a broken house.
I'm going tell the same thing and you already told ,thanks anyway 🤘🙏🤘
When I was 12 years old, during a conversation among my classmates, a friend asked me why I always spoke so strangely: At that moment my whole body, mind and spirit knew that I was not like the others; and accept it without any problem...
Same here. I think my son is experiencing the same thing. He seems to be ok! Keeping a close watch on him though.
My God, you just totally explained who I am. Forgot one thing, I prefer to be by myself. I have no friends (my choice), nor do I want any!!! Man, this was good to hear. Thank you!!!! I am totally a Lone Wolf, Sigma Male!!! Damn Proud too. Not to mention, GEN X!!!!
Preach..
I thought i was fucked in the head. Excuse my language. This is terrifyingly spot on for me.
@@Dogmaguy74 For me as well!!!
@@LoveandLightJason Does it mean that we are stronger than we have lead ourselves to believe?
Finally A Sigma👊.
Not From Meme Or Trend🥀
Frighteningly autobiographical! I had long ago recognized and gradually accepted being different. Listening to this as a sigma male who is now in his 60’s provides both confirmation and affirmation . Without knowing I am pretty sure many friends I’ve made and maintained are also fellow sigmas.
The more I learn and understand the complexities of the "sigma" male, the more I find that a large percentage of my true make-up is indeed sigma. All my young life, I wrestled with being the odd kid, the misunderstood child. As I grew older, I found it increasingly more and more difficult to conform to the insane tedium of the everyday society. I am the eldest of five children. I grew up with a micro-managing narcissistic control freak mother and a "less than understanding" father. I felt completely alienated in my own home. By my teens, I was already fending for myself. I learned the meaning and the true value of freedom and independence, early on. I am 60 years old, and I have seen a lot in my life. What I do know is that I will never change one thing about myself, to comply to the expectations of conformity of lesser men. Sigma's are forced to learn to become survivors - I am that if nothing else.
'To comply to the expectations of lesser men'
Great line that
It's all a farce
Society
I'm a nihilist and sometimes I don't even believe in that :-)
Once you realize this, it is liberating
I love my life
It's very exciting
The DGAF attitude is very attractive to women
your description of your mother sounds exactly like my mother. geezus. The more I'm reading the comment section the more this feels like a quiet brotherhood 🤝🏼 thank you for sharing be well
I had a wonderful childhood great mother and father. But I always knew either I'm strange or everyone else is strange. I was always quick to learn anything I was interested in. Long story short, I became fascinated with racing around 12 or 13. I just knew I could do it. My dad got me a used old racing go-kart and we went knowing nothing. I finished 2nd my first race. And won every race for 3 months until the first of many conspiracies and politics had me banned from that track. I moved to full size cars at 14. This was before it was popular to put kids in race cars. I became the youngest driver ever to win at fay motor speedway at 14 in a adult class. Wasn't long before the same allegations came "he's cheating, no way he's that good." Moved up to the top class at 15. Dirt super late models. That was extremely challenging because I was with the best drivers on a fraction of their budget. I later moved to Nascar late model stock. Won 9 races the first season along with the championship. This was 07. 08 all my sponsors went broke and I was left to fend for myself. I could write a book about my ups and downs and travels. But all the lies and false hopes told to me molded me into someone who holds no weight to words. If I had a dollar for every time a rich man has told me he was going to help me in racing only to be shot down when it's time to put up, I'd have enough money to keep racing lol.
Now this entire story could be bs. But I have proof of my talent on YT.
In 2019 I went to the equivalent of the indy 500 of off road racing. The Best drivers in the world go to Crandon WI. Practice and qualifying were rained out I had never seen the track other than Google earth. I got the hole shot on the start not knowing where the turns are how big the jumps are with a engine that was blowing up and still finished 2nd. Nobody has ever been able to do that against guys who have raced that track over and over. I can't explain how I even do it it's just as easy as walking.
ua-cam.com/video/giIDhxgUwZ0/v-deo.html
if you want to see the race. The interview at the end kinda sucks because my dad was standing in front of me crying because he said when he saw me leading the best in the world it was worth his entire life savings trying to get me seen by someone. The same politics got me run off from there too. Today I just don't care anymore. My dad passed not long after that race and he was the only person I needed to prove anything to.
Ps, this was the long story very short lol. Thanks for taking the time to read to the end.
Yeah, it was tough. You're two steps ahead of your buddies but you don't want to outpace them at the same time. I grew up dirt poor...so poor even the poor kids made fun of us. But I vowed to break away from that when I became an adult and responsible for myself alone. I think the greatest asset I had before the age of 18 is that I always noticed other kids that seem to have it worse...not as "poor" but having behavioral problems. Violence, vandalism, stupid behavior. I remember thinking "If it isn't bad enough for you, why the hell are you making it worse?" Most of those guys never progressed...some are dead now or they remain "ate up" by the world. Tough times make for tough people, but it can also destroy some...you gotta power thru it and ditch those that would hold you back.
I'm not a victim of my 'bad' childhood, but rather, the beneficiary of it. It led me to stoicism and the peace of mind that is offers.
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When given the IQ test as a 3rd grader, watching all the other kids get up and go back to class, the grownups huddling in the corner and whispering and giving me harder books to
see where I would stumble. I thought I was in real trouble. All I could think about was getting out of there before I was labeled a freak.
Been struggling for years, til I listened to this! Thank You.
You nailed it! I just found out about this stuff. I guess I was a sigma growing up in the 60's. You were right about it being hard! Father died in 1970, I learned to become the man at 12.
right there with you, it was the shit to see Star Wars in the theatre though lol
Man this video brought me to tears. It was spot on and I felt every piece of it
Every bit of this video describes me to a tee. I spent a majority of my life constantly shape shifting to fit into whatever mindless and superficial environment that I could. Then I gave up and started living alone, in silence and in peace.
I never knew what to call it, I always assumed that I was weird because I didn't see the world as everyone else did.
Yes!!! Shape shifting is the what I said to myself or when I'd write about how I felt I was navigating through life. I so wished I could be invisible and live my life.
💎 Heat and Pressure
I was an outcast and was alone as much as possible. Sports and education were very boring to me, people were always assuming that I was a queer because i was so closed off about my life. I am very proud of the person I am today. It has been a very long road.
Having brought up two sigma children can be hard but enjoyable. My son was always asking questions that were often hard to answer. We bought him text books in the subjects he was interested in and he would read them like a novel. We let them explore their interests. My son and I would go camping and at night would discuss his latest theory. I'd try in giving different proposals in his theory to come up with answers that made sense to both of us. I tried to teach my kids to be different but within boundaries. Both my kids are very successful in their chosen fields because we taught them not to be afraid to be different
Whoever put this video together basically described me in a scary way!!!🤯🤯🤯🤯😟😟
At 11yrs old I was told by my parents 'you're now on your own in life, financially & all ways'
That day was the start of my unique independence, in forging my own path, in following my own rules.
Self reliance has been inbuilt from then & until this day, in my late 50's.
I bought, worked solidly & paid off my first house by 25, travelled the world alone, learned languages & enjoyed experiences that not many others have.
I've always been different to most, due to my early days I'd say.
Though it's also made me.
All the best to all.
Used to be called “Old Souls”.
I remember some of the adults called me that. 3-8.
I've had every of these issues during my childhood. Life is Hard, but without Hard there wouldn't be Life.
After watching this video and reading the comments i don't feel so alone and embrace being "non normal "
This answers all of the questions that I had growing up. I often thought something was wrong with me. I carried those feelings up into adulthood until I learned that Im not weird or a misfit, but a rare and unique person, thanks to these videos.
100% correct, from a toddler to a 46yr old man... your facts are on point
i was a latch key kid in 2nd grade
my mom would eventually marry my step father and chose him over me.
I never felt loved and as an only child i was always alone.
I never heard of Sigma males until about 2 weeks ago.
The characteristics of sigma are me it is me down to the bone .
Couple of things here and there are not totally me but i possess probably 95% of the Sigma traits.
This childhood video is so accurate🤔
As a Sigma ther is often other stories where there are those who face rejection, and pressured with social popularity among school mates, I was one of those students in the experiences. Well for that kids were showing off their mischief, and the Alpha reputation was so cool, but it is a moment for social play. How does Sigma kids engage.
My life similar my real dad I didn’t meet till 17 and I dont care for him but yeah my mom put my stepdad before me soon as he came in when I was 8
Spot on, thanks. Really helpful
Oh yeah. I had a messed up childhood. Hardly had any friends. Never was one to go with the floe. Now I really don't care about fitting in even more.
You hit the nail on the head. Great video, thanks! 😁👍
Imagine, 47 years of confusion and struggles, turned upside down in 10:05 seconds. I cried. This video has unlocked my potential.
The unstable upbringing, forced to grow up quickly, the problematic enemies in school and later in the work force; yep, this is my story alright!
Now in my latter 50s, I'm still able-bodied, educated, healthy, hold a full-time job, am active in sports and dancing and, unlike many I know and grew up with, I'm not divorced, bankrupt, or miserable in any way.
If I seem distant, aloof or unfeeling to others in my life; maybe it's because I no longer believe in wasting my time or frustrating myself trying to help you or feeling sorry for you. I had my moments when I looked in the mirror and asked myself, 'How can I make him better?'. I've watched so many others - family and friends included - mess up their lives in needless and irresponsible ways.
My independent and prudent approach to life saved me from becoming company to the misery over the long term.
These video's have helped me finally figure out things I've wondered about myself my whole life. Thank you
Wow. Would took a book to describe how I fit every aspect of this description. I see now where my childhood drove this. Damn. Thank you.
Firstly, I was born in 1945 just before the end of WWII. My parents were products of the Great Depression that occurred in what was known as the "Dirty Thirties". My studies have shown that the term "Dirty Thirties" had more to do with what people had to do to survive than any condition associated with cleanliness. Dirty tricks in other words. Because of the situation, my parents were not educated and were therefore not aware of how to 'get ahead', but just survive, which was a good idea at the time. But, enough of that. To me, as a child, everything was 'normal.' Before I was fourteen, I had attended more than 9 schools. I got the impression that someone was running from something or someone. I do recall I was a withdrawn and quiet youth, satisfied with my own company. I had a couple of friends.
In retrospect, thanks to these videos, my upbringing manifested a very real Sigma brand in that I spent a great deal of time on my own (my choice). I liked my own company - still do, I read a great deal, write essays, hate small talk, enjoy meaningful and substantive conversations and possess many characteristics associated with Sigmas. I was not able to put a label to myself as I was unable to figure out what I was, what I was supposed to be... you get the picture. I have own three companies and never went to university. Never finished high school. I have been a musician, one company was in microbiology, I fished the Bering Sea, was a farrier, business and marketing specialist in high voltage engineering in which I was successful. When I grew weary of the task, I moved on to something else. I succeeded in every undertaking. The search goes on. Now, I am 78 and, as you can no doubt tell from the above writing, intellectually vibrant and fully functional in every way.
The search goes on. Sigmas are enigmas...
For me it's both born and life's challenges that has developed me. All the situations you mentioned here are true however some situations happened at an older or younger age than than others
Looking back. Throughout my elementary school years I always thought it was unfair that I had to stay after school while the rest of my family got to go home. My parents were just trying to make a living but this still made me upset since I had to follow rules and not get to do things other kids may have had. Without a doubt it brought out a monster, but I feel I’ve learned to tame it.
A lesson I’ve been taught and follow now “it’s ok to act on your emotions, but it’s never ok to be controlled by them”.
I can't help but agree. Hard times teaches us patience, courage, experience in areas of life far beyond our age and learning disappointment and having to stand alone. Taught us you can be the only one that sees it a set way and still be the right one.
I didn’t wanna go to prom my mom ask what do you meeeean you don’t wanna go . My dad was just happy I was saving him money my entire childhood
What a heavy, heavy burden.......thank you for these videos; they are providing much needed clarity.
so true my childhood was a nightmare always was differant from others but what did not kill me made me strong
I appreciate this video, I grew up in various foster homes from 3 months after birth and after adoption at 10 years old the family that adopted me, with bonus of $10k, expected me to mold to their ignorant and shallow thought patterns. So I left at 18 and I have traveled the world a bit and found that I learn languages quickly. But truly this video confirms what I have always felt, the harder the path the stronger one can become. Challenge insights growth.
It's great to see as well that I'm not the only one that is the way I am. I jist know that I'm me, unique in almost any crowd.
this video.. i can’t believe it. this video is like “a retrospective mirror”. with every second of it. probably won’t be seen by millions. BUT I KNOW THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST SPECIAL, MOST UNIQUE VIDEOS IN THE ENTIRE UA-cam DATABASE.
Very well supported in childhood but way ahead of school lessons , didn't pay attention in class but almost always had the answer when asked . Would read and mostly understand all school books , reading them all in the first week .Pissed teachers off when I did very well in tests. Dad was a lawyer and talked to me about cases and law . He grew up on a farm so we built stone walls , concrete driveways etc Uncle was an engineer which was more to my liking . I had to learn about everything and how it worked .You can become a "searcher" even with strong support
THIS IS DEAD ON,& THANK YOU, SIR 😊❤🎉💚
I heard repeatedly growing up: "No one's ever asked me that question before." I would then wonder to myself, Why not?
I realize nothing can be spot on.. but the videos have been helping me. It took me a lot of time to even consider "sigma" a thing with credit.. always been very different and truly having someone else tell you why you are the way you are.. and it being correct helps see yourself. I think Sigmas if others are anything like me have a hard time perceiving themselves because of checking the ego and actually Caring about moments and holding yourself higher than even others will
Best video I've seen about sigmas!
Spot On as usual.
Great VIDEO'S. Well done guys.
Thank you!
Hit the nail on the head. Thank you. Very useful information.
This hit deep.. I literally at 47 years old just learned who I am because no one had ever been able to relate till now.
Wow
Unbelievable how correct this video is
I am sigma thanks for shedding the light on my personality for others too understand me
Man You hit it on the head on this one!
When I was a boy, I realized I knew nothing about life and assumed everyone knew something I didn't because they all seemed so confident and assured. Later I realized they all knew nothing but seldom realized it.
I totally agree. They are exactly some of the struggles I personally went through and it forged me like harden steel to be honest
Oh my God! This is absolutely stunning and healing. I have never seen ANYTHING as fascinating as this on any platforms. 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
This accurately describes my childhood, I always wondered why people keep putting me or asking me to be in charge of things when I clearly never asked to be, and of course why I come into conflict with people who have an alpha mindset. I am very wary of adopting sigma as a label though, it seems much more useful as a description of personality traits than a type of person, same as the alpha and beta labels, they are in my opinion, just a way of identifying a cluster of personality traits and not so much a type of person.
Thank you for putting words to something I have been feeling for awhile
I have never felt more understood.
It's scary how much this described me to a tee!
“It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.”
― William Ernest Henley, "Echoes of Life and Death"
I'm 64 years old, and I have only recently become aware of the concept of the Sigma Male. After watching this video, the events of my life have been drawn into sharp focus. I always felt a little out of step with the rest of the world, but now I understand why.
I have experienced most of these things - with the exception of a broken household. I had a good childhood- but it was also speckled with unpleasantness such as dealing with bullies and not fitting in.
My whole life is in a video. It's crazy I never knew what a sigma male was just knew I thought think and move different from everybody I know or have came across in life
Never like to be tagged..Alpha, Beta or sigma... i really don't care what word society tags me with. But for the rest .. all the descriptions in the video are 100% what i needed to endured.
Broken home, school was boring with what i didn´t like. Picked up my 1st camera at 14. I understood how it works and understood all i could do. That was along time ago ;)
Way too accurate. Only #5 didn't describe me, but since I have high-functioning autism having a "normal" family still felt a bit broken as my parents simply didn't understand where I was coming from, and reacted to me as if I was a "normal" kid behaving that way (meaning I got punished a lot and couldn't understand what I was supposed to have done wrong). Honestly, having Asperger's before resources became available to diagnose it and help people cope with it could create the equivalents of #2-5 all by itself.
These all fit me to a T. I'm glad I chose to defy attempts to "change" me and now walk my path proudly alone.
Once again, NAILED IT!!!! I might just add re "Difficult time adjusting to the structure of society": We don't adjust, for then it would be impossible for us to be what we are; instead, we stand apart- which is a good part of the reason we are loners, as others neither understand nor share our values. In my case: I quit school the day I turned 16, and never looked back. Left the city as soon as I saved-up enough money to buy some rural acreage and a used mobile home (All cash..never been in debt a day in my life); I've only ever worked at a traditional job for one month out of my 61 years. etc. Life has been good- never boring, and what's more, I've never transgressed my principles, beliefs, or desires in order to conform to anyone else's idea of how we should live. If only 10% of the population could realize the value of these things and have the nads to start practicing them imeediately, the world would become a wonderful place.
tl;dr: Ditch school and throw out that damn TV!
Your commentary is largely correct. Some variation in life is that my parents stayed together, were functional, helpful and loving. They were immigrants in a new country post WW2 and were slight misfits. We were a little on our own as a family and didn't fit the stereotypical national mold. Dad died when I was 24. From that time onwards, I was the oldest male in my family line and in the country. I felt responsibilities to provide, support, nurture, repair things at home, fight for what was right for my wider family and lead. I didn't want these wider responsibilities but had them anyway. The only sensible position was to get on with life and make the best of it. Now 65, your video has many valid points in how my life panned out and what shaped things. Thank you.
This was hands down remarkable
Yes, spot on with everything you said, well done...
100% me. my parents kept telling me to shut-up and go away. maybe if they pulled heads out there azz we might have gotin along..
This is the perfect voice for narrating Sigma videos.
One point after another, that's me -thank you!
This hits so close to home. Thank you for adressing the topic
The constant abuse of my mother made me absolutely hate violence! I find myself standing up for others in a heartbeat! not even thinking.....just doing. Childhood trauma does shape you to be a great person sometimes.
I always felt different & NEVER wanted to be anything but “average”! I was told, later in life, that I’m an “Autodidact”, explaining how & why I learn the way I do.
This is amazing finally finding out you are not alone. There are others just like me, feeling different growing up, no friends always alone away from the spotlight, but highly talented and gifted in so many areas. I was never bullied as a child. Those who tried regretted doing so because they became the victims. This was before my teenage years. In which i became my distant from people, etc.. by the time i turned nineteen my country had a very violent war that left many dead it was this time my family knew how bold and fearless i am, i was different, something inside of me woke up. I saved my family from ruthless rebels , led them to safety, etc.
Bang on Mate. well done.
This is so on the point. I allso have had so many questions asked in my childhoud. And no one could answer my questions satisfactorily. Allso my interessts are much different to other, I'm not interesst in soccer, smalltalk. In the passt I have learned to be a nerd is bad. So I have hidden it. But my nerd beeing is my super power.
Thank You for helping to understand My self. I was in therapy for thirty years trying to figure out what happened to my self. I have every characteristic of a SIGMA. Very accurate about my personality.
I learned from a young age i was different. It became apparent when conformity tropes didnt interest me. My mom tried to force me to conform as i struggles to make friends, but had no shortage of bullies who were mostly women. Didnt have much female relations unless they befriended me to assist with homework as learning came easy to me. As a youbg adult i grew apathy and resentment to women due to their treatment, and deception. Society taught me self reliance, and apathy to 'victimhood' mentality, and dating. I do better in environments others deem stressful or dangerous, where only few choices remain.
Personally, im glad the world me the mes ing of self reliance, and distrust of others. Ive been spared many painful events ive seen otgers go thru as a result. I cant imagine what its like having to depend on others, and fortunately i dont care to. You were born alone, you die alone, so enjoy your journey 🙂
This is so true.
I had some events as a kid that hindered my trust of adults. Independence became my path.
Keep up the good work, brother
Life's challenges reveal a person to themselves.
Dead on! I had the hardest time understanding this society, let alone trying to conform or fit in, which I never did! Peer pressure never worked because I really didn't care what my peers thought. I spent a lot of time alone and researched and learned a lot, and drove the adults in my life and teachers crazy with all the pointed questions. I learned to fend for myself early, became a keen observer of human nature and personality types, and learned not to totally trust anyone. It's served me well!!
I am a natural born, one of my sons is made and my grandson is a natural.
The natural ones are defiant from the start, despise authority, don't follow the rules. We do indeed have a love for knowledge and information.
Now growing up friendless is rather tough but we eventually figure out why. Everyone is temporary. Not that we are antisocial, we just hold relationships very loosely.
So much of this rings true for my childhood except that my mother worked and went to school to improve herself so that we might have a decent life. Her method of parenting was to lead by example. I felt a distinct yearning for more knowledge and experience so I took action and have never looked back.