How Sigma Males Come From Nothing (Childhood STRUGGLES)
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- Опубліковано 29 чер 2024
- How Sigma Males Come From Nothing. Sigma males are an anomaly among men who operate on a distinct wavelength, diverging from the societal norms of the average man. Their defining qualities include fierce independence, unyielding discipline, and an introverted form of dominance, setting them apart from the extroverted dominance commonly associated with alpha males. This introversion, however, should not be mistaken for shyness. Rather, it's a conscious choice rooted in their preference for solitude. The origins of a sigma male, whether they are born or molded into this archetype, remain a subject of debate. Nonetheless, it's undeniable that many sigmas often carry the resilience and fortitude forged from a harsh and challenging childhood. Their unique worldview, logical thinking, and quest for self-reliance likely stem from these early life adversities. Yet, these obstacles have not hindered them; instead, they've grown from them, turning sigmas into forces of nature to be reckoned with. The question remains: what fuels these men to rise from their humble beginnings and ascend to remarkable heights? Join us in today’s video as we explore eight reasons why sigma males can build themselves up from nothing. #sigma #sigmamale #achievegreatness
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If you're curious about how sigma males rise up from nothing, then you'll definitely want to watch this video. Maybe you can learn something about how sigma males operate that you didn't know before. Either way, I hope you enjoy the video, let me know in the comments if you agree with the points I made.
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
01:18 They never complain about small issues.
02:08 They are naturally curious.
03:05 They’ve learned to take action immediately instead of waiting for perfect circumstance.
04:16 They are highly empathetic towards others.
05:18 They know what kind of life they want to achieve.
06:20 They don’t listen to naysayers.
07:25 They have unrelenting motivation to achieve their pursuits.
08:18 They understand the importance of being humble.
09:27 Conclusion (Like & Subscribe!)
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Can you please release a video of sigmas in relation to the notion of "sin"?
It's hard to have good levels of confidence let alone any really at all when you grow up with a father that called you a worthless piece of shit and a disappointment etc pretty much every day
Childhood was Rough for me cuz I didn’t start to build my Confidence in my unconventional thinking until I was an Adult
Same here, I never really had true confidence until about 19 ish.
I was so unconventional that the government told my mom that if I was to go to school I wasn't to take ridilin .f_d up my memory and math and I have a hard time remembering the past .
I went through the same thing
@@jamesanseeuw8166same...
I am a survivor of a painful and dark childhood. But this has also made me strong and given me a deep appreciation of life itself, authenticity and genuine concern and brave morals. I'm a loner, but I love that life. Many years were taken from me. This is why I now want to live with real meaning, spirituality, adventure, goodness and the search for knowledge, truth and adventure. That's why I avoid ordinary and predictable people and can't stand a minute of superficial relationships and fake friendships. Then I'd rather live life alone. But I'm alone. Not lonely. Big difference.
You can only be as strong as the toughest times you've endured. I like my qwerky take on life, but wouldn't wish my childhood on anyone. Deeply sad for people when this state comes at such a cost.
@@MrRozebud bro.
Word
I feel your pain...i suffer every day Under the anger at my family,for my childhood...But that anger drives me to be better than I am and they ever will be
You and I are a warrior brother
My childhood was the worst, I stroked out 3 times in 2nd grade a month later I went to a hospital and had brainsurgery and rebounded 100%
Yes, this is my husband. My husband never knew what he was. He just knew he was different. I came across this channel and your videos and brought them to his attention. For the most part, out of all your videos... I would say 98% describes him to a T. Sigma males are definitely rare. I'm blessed to be his wife.❤
Just out of curiosity, is your husband on the spectrum, because my Opa and dad were like this and to an extent myself, but we are all on the spectrum and choose to follow our autistic proclivities instead of remedy them.
I take it he treats you with great love, kindness and protection. My wife gets treated like that and she is the only one, other than my son, that I let into anything in my life. Nothing is more important to me than they are, not even my own life. You are blessed to have him.
Bless your heart for the recognition. HE is truly blessed to have a trusted, loving, empath like you in his life.
Love to see you do one on why sigma male are taken for granted
I wasted a LOT of time explaining things to people who simply couldn't understand, even when it was mapped out for them. I also made the mistake of thinking people were a lot bigger, or smarter than they were. When you finally realize that there's a pretty good chance that you're a little higher up the intellectual ladder than they are, and look at at what you have as a gift, you'll be disappointed a lot less and probably stop asking "Why are people so frikkin stupid?" /run-on sentence.
Facts, I realized they didn’t have the patience or interest to even understand things for themselves. Total waste of time. It’s also makes it irritating for them to be around because you notice every error they keep making so I rather be to myself.
@@starchizzy6033 yep
Same here. I had to realize this as well.
Yep, with you 100%.
Every time I see a good Sigma male video it's confirmation that I'm a Sigma
According to Andrea, your breath is so nauseating that she said she looks forward to your farts.
This is the most profoundly true statement of all videos I have seen on the subject. At school in the 60's and 70's I was ridiculed, made the target of practical jokes, laughed at, insulted and shunned. I had only 1 true friend in my 67 years in this life. A teacher told my parents in 1970 that I had the highest IQ that school had ever seen, my mother told me about this when I was 60 and retired. But they never kept me down, I had a good life, I am self sufficient, I have 3 beautiful children and 10 even more beautiful grand children. I am an INTP. I am happy.
I’m a 21 year old sigma who is done with people’s bullshit! For as long as I can remember, everything I did was “wrong.” If I was myself, then people turn it into an insecurity competition. If I stayed silent and kept to myself, people would get uncomfortable. I just wanted to mind my own business and keep to myself, but I guess I’m just too intense for most people. By the end of my college career, I have stopped giving a single shit for other people’s problems. I finally feel free instead of being brought down. Glad to know that there are older sigmas out there.
I had a similar experience in school as well. Pulled the highest IQ in my school in 7th grade and instead of being praised and rewarded, I caught absolute hell for not having A+ grades in everything.
It got so bad that they held me back that year for 'bad grades' because I refused to play their stupid game and just quit doing classwork at all once I had learned something. It was never about how smart I was, It was about making me bend to their will no matter what they had to do to break me.
@@russianbot4418 school was boring wasn't it? I took to reading full sets of encyclopeadia because it was interesting, while my school grades were never better or worse than mediocre. It was the 60's and early 70's, encyclopeadia was the best we had, I doubt todays kids will even know the meaning of it.
@@losonsrenoster my brothers, it was the same for me.
Are school in 6th grade had us take a test told us it would be 80% of our grade if we failed we would be held back, I I actually tried idk what I got but it was good enough that teachers and guidance counselors would always push me to do better in school.
My grades were about a B average my whole life I got school work done and home work never got done and homework was a big part of our grades.
I was always reading something like alex cross, or max ride, Harry Potter world, lord of the rings, etc bc school was boring and I never understand the point of it after 6th grade as it's all the same shit from then on.
@@losonsrenoster LOL!! I did the same thing! Looking back, that was probably the only time I can ever remember being bored.
Same as you, I just did the bare minimum to get the majority of teachers to leave me alone and for the ones that didn't, I made their life hell just for something to do. 😁
Watching this video made me realize that i come from a long line of sigma males. Im also a sigma male myself. I come from a rough childhood and ive been bullied constantly throughout school. All it has done iss make me stronger. Im currently on my sophomore year of highschool and im in the top 10% for academic achievement in school. My early years have taught me alot but much to learn i still have. I really don't care anymore that im still getting bullied and ridiculed, it will only harden me as I get ready to explore what life holds for me.
What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger, little brother. Adapt and overcome. Once the experience is behind you it will make you stronger than ever before and you will be able to take hard times in stride while others will crumble because they are soft. Pain is just a sign that weakness is leaving the body.
Also don't give the bullies the power over you that they seek. They want to control you with fear and intimidation so be unafraid and focus on doing what is truly important in life. You can control how much the things they do bother you so don't let them live in your head rent free. Just know they are the truly weak ones who need to hide their own insecurities and self doubt from everyone by harassing others to take everyone's eyes off of them. They are hollow empty individuals who don't have the strength of mind that you do. Take care and best wishes brother. 🤙
You have a good mindset, just be aware that once you become indifferent to bullies and violence, the next step is getting p*ssed-off with them, that’s when the real fun starts.
Always maintain self-awareness and control, and show mercy where appropriate.
Safe journeys, Brother, 🤝
I didn't go along with what the coaches preached, so I found myself getting messed with my senior year. I won most of them. Lost a few. Those coaches never saw me defeated.
As an adult, I avenged the L's. Those coaches have asked for donations that I've denied.
Keep punching kid. You got this lil brother. 💪
Throughout my childhood my Dad always presented me with challenges. He taught me everything was mind over matter. If it's not on your mind it doesn't matter. He knew I was always thinking so he was helping me develope. He made me feel like anything I wanted to accomplish, I could. Thanks Dad! I can do it!
Awesome comment! ❤️🔥
You were very fortunate to have someone like that as a father.
That’s what’s up man, great example and it’s nice to hear your appreciation for him.
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In my household growing up you weren't going to get validation from anyone else. So you either learned to seek validation from within yourself or you didn't get it at all. So I think that is why I developed in this way. I became self sufficient out of necessity and didn't worry about what others wanted or thought about me too much. My personality style was already inclined to that orientation anyway and it just became more so as I gained in life experience. I was always ok being in solitude and able to entertain myself as a child too. My fierce independent streak was there from day one. So these two traits played off of each other in order to develop the way it did.
Childhood may have been a horror story .. but like the guy said .. it only showed me what not to be .. and just to be clear .. success is measured by accomplishing set goals .. not by how much money you have made
I can really relate to this. When I was 8 my parents divorced and I was the youngest of 3 brothers one of whom became violent and the other was struggling with Aspergers so I had to be strong for them. I always had to dig deep and play the part of the diplomat when everything around me was falling apart. I was very shy and lacking in confidence at school and definitely a bit of a loner but as a grew I learnt that I had inner strength and huge trust in my own moral code and integrity. Now I feel that I have immense inner strength and I'm able to see the world around me in a very positive way especially when it comes to people, even though I'm often happiest to be on my own. It's a bit weird but I always have this feeling that there is someone or something watching over me and guiding me, that there is something 'bigger' in this world. I did have a Christian upbringing but I'm kind of unsure about religion at least as we know it. I guess I'm quite a spiritual kind of person.
Yes to Sprituality. An ansolute must be.
Continue
If you let words control your emotion that mean others can control you
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I went through profound childhood trauma. During my childhood, the kids made fun of me for being poor but I whipped all their asses in sports. I didn’t care what the weak rich kids thought. I excelled in the Marine Corps and then in sales and now real estate. Lol to the idiot robots who think people like me are weak…I’d turn them into a pretended without a second thought. They just have no idea. 🇺🇸
they have no idea who they‘re up against. they just don‘t. they were not forced to think until they were 35. We were forced to be the masters of our universe by the age of 5.
Your analysis is so precise even when applied to a sigma male growing up in a ghetto in Warri Nigeria. Am so excited to come across this channel as a content creator.
Now I understand myself better.
I'm a sigma male and I have to say that this video is quite accurate!
.. there is always something that arouses curiosity.This has proved to be a valuable trait for me because what one is curious about they make efforts to learn/figure out.Thus learning never ends.
Going to law school and into law as a career brought my unconventional thinking into focus.
I come from a narcissistic family and I was the scapegoat and at 37 I left them to find my identity and within a week I stood on the toes of a outlaw motor cycle gang only to be hunted till 58 but the last 3 years I convinced them to pass me by , now 60 I can say I found my identity being a sigma and that the reason I'm still alive, worth every minute to become who I am today, I have no family, friends or money, I live in my waggon away from society I have no addictions and life is awesome 😊
that's cool but you are not a sigma in the slightest. to be a sigma, one needs to be in the top one percent or higher of IQ. but you can have a good life regardless.
Your videos are spot on but I find it a lil disturbing that someone knows my traits so well. Still much success and prosperity to you and yours. ✌️
Compared to other channels, the information on this channel is so precise❤
Thank you, I appreciate it!
If it matters but doesn't make a difference, it doesn't matter.
If it makes a difference but doesn't matter, it doesn't make a difference.
If it matters and makes a difference, then it matters and makes a difference.
This gets rid of 90% of the 'static' that most people are caught up in.
Outstanding video, AG. Thank you.
I appreciate it Gareth!!!
They have to bow when they're in my energy ,I don't like it especially when my family and love ones bow.. I don't think they realise tho
You are right in this video...The Sigma overcomes and learns from childhood traumas and lessons and in turn...Makes them into strengths and contemplates lessons, and actions to make life much better and even modifying them to success in most situations. Many good points and what is felt and applied in their lives. Peace!
From my experience through life, number 6 could include the fact that the Sigma would also be an example for fellow human beings that struggle. People would see, that someone who had a much harder life than theirs, made it through the struggle, and succeeded.
Maybe? Maybe not, you decide, it is your forum.
For me, being degraded as a youth was motivation, but I was too young to know at the time.
These examples are me directly to the T…it’s actually therapeutic in a sense…I’ve always knew I was different in my ways, thoughts, the way I carry myself. Thanks you for bringing it full circle in the video
I’m a 52yo sigma through and through. However my childhood was a very positive and encouraging experience. No major issues at all. The personality type is built in from the start.
I believe what makes a Sigma is strongly tied to surroundings as a youth and early years of adulthood. I grew up in a very impoverished area with a single Mother. A place where many inhabitants would steal, abuse, use or take anything you had and if you didnt have anything material or emotional, they'd snatch your soul if they could. We didn't have much or anything but just ourselves.
I think after listening to these Sigma essays it has enlighteneded me as to why I don't put value into material things, they are iust a bonus and it's the few people I love that are what's invaluable.
My childhood was crazy a lot of problems in my neighborhood especially with my family and there selfish ways but all the bad made me who I'm today a independent Sigma 😁👍
Few years back i came across this concept of a sigma male. Even though a sigma male wouldnt never identify himself as a sigma i guess this is the best way to put a small label on a personality that previously went unknown of an archetype. I was born with it as far as i can remember as a child. To this day (i am 41) i am still the curious child and constantly learning to be better at whatever i can. Love that i share with others who fall in the same personal archetyoe as i am
Pain teaches alot
Its spot on...I came from Cuba so i was born into poverty and know it first hand except the bigger problem was the parents i was born to. They were abused by both their own parents and abandoned by them thus i consider them *Broken* but despite it they raised me to be kind and humble.
This is what I was thinking. My childhood took me to hell and I had to find my way out alone before i hit a double digit age. Had to remove me from my family. I can remember some of them dark days. Afraid of everyone and everything. Clung to my grandmother like a life vest. I dug myself outta there and ever since then, I have been hell on wheels. Got sent back to my parents and within 7 years, I was a homeless teen. Still Graduated instead of turning to drugs and the street. However, I have no huge ambition. I do not see the point. I do what I like to do, fuck the rest. I have no need for lots of things, pointless.
I am a signal INFJ. It's funny it described my life completely.
Two thumbs up… thank you kindly and be safe…
Yup from my Childhood,,I've tried to Understand & tried to Follow the Trend & way of Standard Life ,,BUT never Work for me,,which as Lead me more Furious & No where to see & Seek Justice in my Radication point of View ,,,at 51 now just Realized what Could I have done Sooner ,,,but Very Thankful Now that I can Share with Public place such as Hospitals,,,were Easily Expressed myself openly to Strangers how tries to Help ,,,but being Assertive and Affirmation also come at a Cost ,,,but I help Others to Understand my Unique way to Approach me ,,with deep appreciation and Curticy
Thanks for all
When I first found these videos, was glad I could finally identify. After diving deeper into the subject, I now realise that all these Sigma traits are just practiced Stoicism. I recommend everybody to read Seneca, Epectitus and Marcus Aurelius, to fill in the gaps.
Exactly! I'm glad someone else sees that correlation as well.
After watching many videos on this topic, I was glad to see one which verified my own view that sigmas are made, not born. Of course, the same is probably true of alphas and betas.
I agree but I see from a different vantage point. I see the situations we go thru water the seeds we were born with ,because two people will react different exposed to the same thing. Two people can react different being taught the same thing. When your taught something you have to deliberately activate it for it to work. For some it comes naturally so it feels comfortable already. I feel being a Sigma is absolutely DNA.
Bravo for talking about an angle which hadn't been broached in the glut of Sigma videos being regurgitated on UA-cam.
Your on point 👍✔️🎓
A direct hit from a baseball direct to the pineal, age 6, gave an alternative perspective to life. Years later a friend of mine who had a Buddhist education, told me his teacher once said, "Conscious understanding is arrived at through discipline or accident". Lucky me!!!
Little Big Man (Dustin Hoffman) on one end and Mr Nobody (Jared Leto) on the other, with Doctor Who (David Tennant) bouncing between them . . . . a Sigma male reality?
Excellent video this morning
Thank you!!!
Awesome vid brother
Excellent summary.
Watching these beautiful videos from Kenya while resting alone in my room after a day of hardwork en-route to achieving greatness 😊
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That's exactly how I am too!!!
Couldn't agree more good video😎
Molded because of adversity, it is vastly an inversely complex nurturing process.
The real sigma male don't say he's sigma and he'll never know if it's because he simply doesn't want to know
My dad once told me i couldnt start a business with no money... i told him not with that mindset you wont. Btw. Companys 2 years in and breaking in to a higher tier.
I wish you success! Cheers!
Bro dead on really I can't say about others but as for me it was through difficulties and problems and challenges that i have learned lessons about life, societies and people
Beautiful!❤🎉😊
I was beaten by my drug and alcohol addicted parents. The day the tables turned, I slightly belittled them but did not retaliate. I don't know why I still keep them around
so true💯💯
I'm a sigma male and your discription of the truth about us is for filling to say the least keep it up the world needs to know
i learned my professional craft by myself as a young teen. started my professional independece at 22 in this field. just wanned to be my own boss. wanna be alone. like it. we run a firm. they are my close friends. two dudes i know since I was 13,14
have a family (we have 2 boys 4 and 7) that i adore and i am hyper involved into being a dad. really loving the ride. even if at times i‘m on the edge of going mad 😂😅 but parenthood as a sigma is wonderful. it‘s dedication and unconditionality.
love nature to death!! love staring into trees and lakes. letting my thoughts run wild.
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my childhood had very challenging parts. had to develop an own compass early on.
keep it real boys and girls❤
Amazing
This explains me. Amazing
Word 💯
I ent only agree u spoke the truth brother
When life has always been a complex obstacle course as far as you can remember, fraught with perils of various kind, you quickly learn to slalom! You get really good at it. It’s a matter of instincts and survival. One last thing… I think we are grateful, truly grateful for the little things life has to offer, more so than others, because we never lose our child like wonderment, and our belief in a higher power.
My 48 year old soul!❤🎉😊
Once again, 100%, however, still working on the self-discipline.
Like jealousy, empathy is a destructive and useless emotion. Sigmas are sympathetic to less fortunate people. We use analytical ability to understand victimizer behavior, but not empathy.
For a literary equivalent,read Conan Doyle's,"Sherlock Holmes",the ever youthful Consulting Detective! If you read carefully,many of his cases were solved,very simply on trifles and patterns,and he invented the,now common M.O.- Modus Operandi,i.e. Criminal mindsets,and operation! Thank you for the forum! Thank you 😇 😊!
Adversity doesn't make a Sigma, it reveals them. Alphas react to adversity by beating it into submission, Betas by submitting to it, and Sigmas by understanding it and then outsmarting it.
Twice motivated ❤
I have to agree with being born with this. I’ve recently learned about Sigmas a few months ago. Before then I trusted in my horoscope as I am a Sagittarius and I honestly feel that the attributes are correct for the most part. But the attributes for Sigma are exactly right, more so than my horoscope. That being said, I don’t think being like this can be taught. For example, I do feel mentally superiority at times and it feels euphoric, so I want my friends to feel what I feel. However I’ve experienced a disconnect with them because they might identify with one part but not the other and it’s critical these things work simultaneously. Also there’s the big one, “Emotions”. It’s very complicated to get someone to completely ignore their emotions. In short, I’m like this effortlessly and people I try to teach find it very complicated to where it feels like a waste of time. I feel they should just learn to master their own original attitudes.
Attributes not attitudes lol
Truly rare
How do you accurately know these fact? Everything you are telling is correct!!
Facts.....
Know thyself !
I agree.
Amen
For me Rough child hood from living in the projects Brooklyn NY
Yes I agree
Why does the guy on the thumbnail look like a jacked Terrance McKenna 😂😂😂😂😂
All I can say is the beatings and the burns from my siblings as a child made me fully aware of everything around me as I aged. I'm 57 now and wouldn't change anything. They meant it for evil, God meant it for good.
How can all you Sigma content editors know these schemes? Quite spot on through the channels!
2023...the year I discover I am a sigma male.
#True #AllMyLife #iHad2Fight
Always knew I was "an anomaly among men".
I agree with yer video
That makes sense and maybe the reason is because i grewed from a bad childhood and learned from it and pushed myself to my limits
I was depressed and was suicidal when i was 10
I had a really rough childhood, and I LOVE when people say something cant be done, or it's not my path. I prove them wrong every time. Fair to say that Sigmas aren't born but created?
Sounds like my journey, I am also a Projector within Human Design.
I wonder if others are also Projectors and help to guide humanity to a better place 🙏
I was trying to find the correlation but not seeing it. I'm a 5/2 Manifesting Generator
I'm 40 and haven't lived with my father since I was 4. I think what made me a sigma was having to grow up and be the man of the house for my mom and younger sister. I taught myself how to be a man. What has always driven me was the goal that I never wanted to be like my father and that I would always be there for my own son now. (ps : my father is still alive and only texts me at Christmas)
I have a buddy who hasn't spoken to his dad since 4th or 5th grade , he's 56 yrs old now,
I knew my Buddy since 1982 , at 19 in 1985 I talked to his Dad cause he called To Re-Connect with his Son.
Son Held a grudge, me & his dad spoke for about an hour,
The Bible says: We shouldn't judge,
Also : You can tell people are good by the fruits they bring/ bear.
So technically we do judge people and try to avoid evil people, or those who hurt us.
I was the youngest and the only 1 of my siblings who tried to actually connect with my parents,
Anyway , ya had a rough life, good to hear your words / outlook.
@@ChicagoJimmy420 life is too short to hold a grudge /hate anyone. I hold no ill will towards by father as it is his choice to WANT to be a grandfather. I told myself years ago, that I don't need a father in my life any longer because I am one already.
This much is true. We learn about toxic character early, that the world is cold and most of us are needy for little to no reason at all. I wont tell you, but I didnt take self pity, fear, or the stupidity with me, it cant go where am going, and a true son remains. I dont have excuses while wanting to exicute and fallow through.
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The negative siblings I had to let die (both sis's still alive, but not to me) from their backstabbing that kept me in the "black sheep" mold. Cheers.
First dad was never there, second one, was a state Senator, drunk and abusive……then finally got one, at 15…good one.,…
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What piano music are you using in the background?
Is true you are Reall
Sigma and INTJ 👍
Are you spying on me?🤨😏😎
Mmm it’s mildly irritating to find out all this out at 56. But on we move.
I am 56 & agree!