My Miscarriage And Emotions.💔

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  • @kierrrabaybee
    @kierrrabaybee 8 місяців тому +141

    To the person reading this god have a plan for you just trust the process ❤

  • @moremore1865
    @moremore1865 8 місяців тому +79

    So many young women go through this. Thanks for sharing.

  • @Jaloobry
    @Jaloobry 8 місяців тому +63

    It’s very nice to see someone commit to you. It’s a sincere feeling ❤

  • @alisiajimenez
    @alisiajimenez 8 місяців тому +34

    Dear Chandler Alexis,
    Sorry for your loss. In this season of life you got it good. God may not want you to mess opportunities up by bringing in a new baby. Babies are a blessing. At the same time they slow down our goals. Let me tell you girl. My husband (12 years married) and I have three. Take this time to reflect on where you are in your life and where you want to be in the near future while you are still young. You are not yet married. You don't want to be single with two children, two baby fathers, and not married. Maybe you don't go to church. This is time to work on your relationship with God and Christ unless you aren't a believer. You are so blessed with an amazing boyfriend and smart little four year old boy (Krew). I've been watching your channel since you started a long time ago. You've been through a lot and you shouldn't want to go through too much more of what you've already been through. Love your transparency and a lot of what you shared today. Keep your head up. Be patient. God has you covered.
    Thanks!

  • @NatalyaHicks
    @NatalyaHicks 8 місяців тому +38

    I went through the same exact thing as you recently! I didn’t know how to feel in the moment. I want my little girl to have a sibling one day. I was definitely sad but I put my trust in God. You are not alone 🤍🤍

  • @love_babidoll
    @love_babidoll 8 місяців тому +38

    Ugh I really hate that this happened to you but I did see it on instagram and I know god knows the right time .. i had a miscarriage and it’s just the saddest thing and painful it’s like you just wish you never heard them words that you lost your baby .. you be blessed with another blessing one day

  • @princess_s1343
    @princess_s1343 8 місяців тому +39

    Praying for you Chandler 🤍 hope you are able to find peace and healing

  • @tyara.collins
    @tyara.collins 8 місяців тому +15

    Thank you for being vulnerable and talking about this. Keeping you in my prayers and that you two will be able to try again when you’re ready ❤

  • @JayDivine111
    @JayDivine111 8 місяців тому +9

    I’ve had one pregnancy and it ended in a miscarriage. I haven’t gotten pregnant again since. I always tell myself that it’s going to come in Gods timing and I pray for protection over my womb. Today, I pray that you mind, body and soul has a peaceful and healthy recovery, from the unfortunate circumstance. I am sure in Gods timing your dream of expanding your family will come soon🌹

  • @Chile_S
    @Chile_S 8 місяців тому +11

    I’m sorry for you and Adam’s loss. May God be with you and bless you 🤍✨

  • @Autonomous111
    @Autonomous111 8 місяців тому +17

    I gave birth to a stillborn on January 12, 2023. Its still as fresh today as it was then. Take it easy Chan. Im rooting for you and yours❤

    • @ChandlerAlexiss
      @ChandlerAlexiss  8 місяців тому +4

      i’m sorry for your loss ❤️‍🩹 i will pray for your healing as well as mine ♥️♥️♥️

    • @Autonomous111
      @Autonomous111 8 місяців тому +1

      @ChandlerAlexiss sending you virtual hugs. I hate that you're going through this. Joy is coming, for both of us.

    • @Aaliyah_luvs_dogs
      @Aaliyah_luvs_dogs 8 місяців тому +1

      @Autonomous 111 Sorry for your loss hun😭❤️🙏

    • @Autonomous111
      @Autonomous111 7 місяців тому

      @@Aaliyah_luvs_dogs ❤️

  • @danielleking51
    @danielleking51 8 місяців тому +12

    In so sorry that this happened to you so many prayers your way hope you feel better and God sends his peace and healing your way

  • @babyygurl6647
    @babyygurl6647 8 місяців тому +9

    Chandler I’m sorry youu went through this. Youu got this! Just be strong & keep ur heads up no matter what.

  • @lightbright4737
    @lightbright4737 8 місяців тому +4

    going through a miscarriage whether you have kids prior, have children after your miscarriage or don’t have any at all. It doesn’t lessen the feeling of hurt . You constantly think about what you could’ve had with that wonderful baby no longer have a chance to meet or grow with… It’s a unexplainable feeling and experience I’m wishing every woman who has experienced this strength and guidance. Stay strong loves

  • @jasmine99white
    @jasmine99white 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing your experience! I had two miscarriages back in 2023 and I can say the healing journey has not been linear. I totally understand when you state “I don’t know to feel”, because I felt the same way. I felt so sad for a child I never met, but you still had life inside of you. I learned how to thank my body for the short time I did carry my babies. It’s unfortunate and very traumatic, but now I have two angels watching over my husband and I. May God bless you and protect you during this time. It’s okay to grief a loss like this though you never physically got to meet that sweet baby. Your rainbow baby will be here soon 🌈

  • @ilhanxden5191
    @ilhanxden5191 8 місяців тому +7

    This happened to me in august, I literally found out I was pregnant and a couple days later the test was negative. It’s called a chemical pregnancy. But exactly when the time is right you will have your baby! I’m pregnant again and due in September so trust me chan it will happen!!!♥️

    • @Aaliyah_luvs_dogs
      @Aaliyah_luvs_dogs 8 місяців тому

      So happy for you hun wishing you a safe journey/pregnancy and a healthy baby ..❤🙏

  • @mamacitaboo344
    @mamacitaboo344 8 місяців тому +8

    I’m sorry you went through this… I love you and your family ❤❤❤

  • @slayedbyney
    @slayedbyney 8 місяців тому +5

    im so sorry this happened boo continue to trust in God and try again we love you ❤❤

  • @joycelynmiller3872
    @joycelynmiller3872 8 місяців тому +1

    I'm really sorry for your lose. My experience was a little different from yours. I found out that I was pregnant through a hime pregnancy test. I took 5 of them because we couldn't believe it. I made an appointment with my doctor for 3 weeks later. I figured that there was no rush since it was really early in the pregnancy. I started cramping. I went straight to the er. They said the baby looked fine. I was 5 weeks along but to be safe lets take blood. Come back in 3 days and well take more. We'll compare the hormone levels. I went in for the second set of blood test. Before I could go back for the 3rd, i started cramping and bleeding. We went back to the er. When they did the ultrasound this time, the baby was gone. There was a sack but no baby. I had to get a dnc for them to take the sack out. Even though the amount of time was small. It's still a lose. Give yourself time to heel. Not just physically but also emotionally too. Your family will be blessed with babies soon. Your in my prayers.

  • @mvanghlubkoj
    @mvanghlubkoj 8 місяців тому +1

    Miscarriage is something that is hard to talk about. ;( I had 4 and everytime I talk about it I cry
    Sending u love

  • @_iamshaenate
    @_iamshaenate 8 місяців тому +3

    I had three back to back before having my babe last year. You guys will get your little baby 💕

  • @itsmequeen1939
    @itsmequeen1939 8 місяців тому +3

    Throughout this video God was just showing me how my heart will be full when I see the video of you announcing your rainbow baby with Adam🥺❤️God has good things coming for you my love. I’ve been watching you since you STARTED your channel and wow you are the definition of growth , I love to see all of this for you ❤I’m so sorry about your loss never ever get me wrong but God has plans for you greater than you know 🙏🏽

  • @cookieeffectpodcast271
    @cookieeffectpodcast271 8 місяців тому +1

    sorry you had to go through that.. your strong and gods timing never fails..at least like you said you now realize Adam is your soulmate,. what god puts together NEVER BREAKS...you got this girl sending hugs. xx

  • @nellyyyss
    @nellyyyss 8 місяців тому +6

    I’m soo sorry you and your family had to go through this my biggest condolences 💐 sending lots of love to you and your family 🫶🏽 May God bless you guys with another bundle of joy when you least expect it ❤ God bless you 🫶🏽

  • @prettysisterr
    @prettysisterr 8 місяців тому +1

    I went through this my first pregnancy & I still don’t understand this. Praying for you I love you ❤️

  • @Aaliyah_luvs_dogs
    @Aaliyah_luvs_dogs 8 місяців тому

    Sorry for your lost hun I went through the same thing in 2022 ..I found out I was pregnant on a Friday the next day which was a Saturday I was in bed eating when the stomach pains started got up to go pee n started bleeding had to go to the emergency where I was told my baby is gone the worst pain ever 😢..My princess will be a good big sister ..GOD is good my period came bk same mth n my bleeding is still good every mth up to this day...We will get pregnant again in due time...I still pick up baby stufff every now n again lol because GOD is good like I said before that opportunity will present itself again in his time...🤰❤🙏

  • @toridajour4308
    @toridajour4308 8 місяців тому +1

    I have personally went through sept 2022 this my first time ever getting a positive test and it was because i was late and i knew something was off . I was sad because i never thought i would be pregnant but i was able to get over it faster than i thought because i found out i was pregnant and has a miscarriage all in 4 hours . But it was a sign from GOD than i am able to have a child and 3 months later on Christmas day i found out i was pregnant again and i now have my rainbow baby that will be 6 months on the 24th 🌈♥

  • @love_babidoll
    @love_babidoll 8 місяців тому +3

    I swear the same thing happened to me when I had my miscarriage but even doe I never saw a baby .. they just send you home and let it run its course.. but t think it depends on you blood type too if they have to do something.. I can’t wait till you guess get that blessing it will happen ❤

  • @Brie767
    @Brie767 8 місяців тому

    I got all updates on Instagram, you are a brave strong woman to talk about your experience and I'm grateful you're talking about it because there a alot of women in that same situation going thru this. To all the women who miscarried, I'm sorry you have to go thru this.❤ Sending love to you from Dominica 🇩🇲

  • @InesNkenga
    @InesNkenga 8 місяців тому

    Hey Alexis, how are you? I’ll be waiting to see that video I think the most important one is just let God take over maybe you should start praying about it and tell God that I know it’s not the similar one but I was going to break up and when I broke up with him, I didn’t know what you turned two a half day, and when I turn to God, he started healing me so I would like you to give it up to God pray about it take it day by day if you want to cry about it, cry about it, but don’t force to hide it because it’s part of it cannot do anything about it but just trust God he knows what’s best and sure in time would be better. stay blessed and by the way, I love your videos you’re amazing.

  • @TheTriceyR
    @TheTriceyR 8 місяців тому +1

    Sorry for your loss...As you said when it's time, everything will work out and Adam will be a great Dad as he already is to Mr Krew and you ofcourse a wonderful Mum ❤

  • @oliviajohnson3666
    @oliviajohnson3666 8 місяців тому +2

    I’m sorry for your loss bby it’s so harddd I went through it nobody tells you the toll it takes on you

  • @Christinawilliams98
    @Christinawilliams98 8 місяців тому +3

    So sorry this has happened to you BUT I am very happy for you that you have Adam and he is so supportive and loving and treats the way you deserve. I hope you guys retry and be successful. Your future baby will be so special and beautiful.

  • @guardthegoat5925
    @guardthegoat5925 8 місяців тому +5

    Sending you love and healing 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @TheTropicprincess
    @TheTropicprincess 8 місяців тому +1

    Sorry for your loss babe. Sending you healing and love ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Buggaboonetteyt
    @Buggaboonetteyt 8 місяців тому +2

    I am so sorry Chandler for the loss of your angle baby

  • @kyleefew9337
    @kyleefew9337 3 місяці тому

    I was 17weeks pregnant with my first when I had a missed miscarriage… everybody was on my neck “so sorry I’m here if you want to talk” “how are you doing” the most annoying thing ever it’s best not to say/ask anything personally

  • @Olivia-ew3yh
    @Olivia-ew3yh 8 місяців тому +1

    so sorry this happened to you ❤ i had an ectopic pregnancy 2020 that required surgery then a “chemical pregnancy”2021 which is when all test and hgc levels show that your pregnant but there’s no baby until i finally had a healthy pregnancy 2022. it’ll happen exactly when it’s time! i love you guys together

  • @Veronica-xz1fd
    @Veronica-xz1fd 8 місяців тому +3

    Sending prayers to you and your families ! God bless you guys

  • @dmarie1499
    @dmarie1499 8 місяців тому

    😢 So sorry for your loss love 🙏🏾- sending hugs. 🙏🏾

  • @alexisreyes4179
    @alexisreyes4179 8 місяців тому

    Wow I love how calm you are talking about this and I’m sorry for your loss 😭😭😭

  • @jesussaves222
    @jesussaves222 8 місяців тому +2

    Sorry for your loss..May the peace of God keep you❤

  • @Sliverstarz14
    @Sliverstarz14 8 місяців тому +1

    That same exact thing literally happened to me. It was my first pregnancy and I wanted it so bad so I definitely know your feelings

  • @alexisreyes4179
    @alexisreyes4179 8 місяців тому

    I’m so sorry to hear that you miscarried . I hope and pray you feel better soon and I know god would bless you with another one . Never give up. I’ll be here to comfort you during this difficult time. No parent likes to go through this

  • @EverythingFashion
    @EverythingFashion 8 місяців тому +2

    I’m sorry For your loss wishing you guys the best during your healing journey 🙏❤️

  • @Justme_247
    @Justme_247 8 місяців тому +3

    Good luck and best wishes to you. I've been there before and had 2 successes after.❤

  • @laura-annesmith3234
    @laura-annesmith3234 8 місяців тому +1

    You're one of the most strongest women i know online. Keep your head and heart up baby girl.🥰😇

  • @jasongates-
    @jasongates- 8 місяців тому +1

    I'm sorry.
    It's understandable you wouldn't want to talk about it. It's one of the worst possible traumatic experience one could go through. Hugs from me, and lots of them. Bear hugs.
    You'll have that next one soon enough. In the mean time, you have one in heaven. He will never know the pain of earth. He will welcome you there, one day.

  • @jennifervlogs..4813
    @jennifervlogs..4813 7 місяців тому

    The best advice I can give u because I’ve gone through 3miscarriages n I have 2kids so it just made so confuse when I had 3miscarriages total but the moment we stop trying n I keep up with my calender of when I ovulate n highest chance to get pregnant but we ended up doing it on my higher ovulation day which we didn’t notice till I check it a week later n having first appointment Tuesday so I’m hoping everything comes out good.
    So wish u n ur partner the best I know what it feels like to go through miscarriage

  • @alannahstone8456
    @alannahstone8456 8 місяців тому +4

    Sending prayers and lots of love ❤

  • @InesNkenga
    @InesNkenga 8 місяців тому

    I am so sorry that you have to go through no woman who goes through you’re going through right now, but God knows what’s the best when you’re gonna get pregnant again just being positive and keep doing what you do and like you are the best❤❤❤😊

  • @dreajohnson4766
    @dreajohnson4766 8 місяців тому +1

    In august I found I was pregnant and was so excited and when I went to my ultrasound only saw a sac at 5 weeks they kept trying to tell me it was normal and I was just too early but deep down I knew . 3 vaginal ultrasounds later confirmed a blighted ovum😢 trusting God that one day I will go and see a baby! Sprinkling baby dust to everyone needing it ❤

    • @Aaliyah_luvs_dogs
      @Aaliyah_luvs_dogs 8 місяців тому

      Sorry hun and baby dust to you as well it will happen one day in due time ...❤🙏

  • @Iamirealla
    @Iamirealla 8 місяців тому +1

    Sorry for your loss. Sending my prayers 🙏🏾❤

  • @EleanorMccarthy-z6k
    @EleanorMccarthy-z6k 8 місяців тому +2

    I'm sorry you had to go through this hope you are ok

  • @HananR-j8p
    @HananR-j8p 8 місяців тому +1

    I'm praying for you

  • @Honeyyhazellemon
    @Honeyyhazellemon 8 місяців тому +2

    I’m so sorry chandler
    ❤❤❤
    I pray your Angel baby 👼🏽 helps you to continue being the greatest version of yourself & you will have a bigger family one day
    N omg was that baby post about the miscarriage
    I totally said congratulations 🙃🫠🥴 this is why reading is fundamental
    And psychologist suggest humans r bad at multi tasking

  • @ChocoLatte1209
    @ChocoLatte1209 8 місяців тому

    God will bless you and Adam. I know it.🙏🏾 It is so refreshing to see a young couple like you and Adam that are serious about their relationship. Yo uahve always been real and I love that about you. Good thinks are coming for your family. Wishing you all the best. You deserve it. 🤗

  • @jamaicadreamgirl
    @jamaicadreamgirl 8 місяців тому +1

    🫶🏾❤️🙏🏾 it’s just wasn’t the right time, not saying you shouldn’t have been trying but as you said god’s got you and it will happen when the time is right as you are both great parents.
    As I’ve watched you over many years make mistakes grown ups blossom into beautiful women and mother, you will be blessed again with another child. Stay strong 💪🏾 ❤

  • @jelaminahjackson3208
    @jelaminahjackson3208 8 місяців тому

    I’m so sorry, I just pray that you heal and grow closer together. I’m certain that your time will come at the right time ❤️

  • @paigemontgomery7887
    @paigemontgomery7887 8 місяців тому +1

    Thinking about you and your family! You are not alone in this! Wishing you well ❤

  • @victoriaharris8543
    @victoriaharris8543 8 місяців тому +2

    Feel your feelings always and it will happen and you have grown so fn much

  • @WanjaKanyarati
    @WanjaKanyarati 8 місяців тому

    Hey Chandler, I am so sorry for your loss ❤. I pray that God gives your family and you comfort during this difficult time and thank you so much for sharing your story and being open and vulnerable. 🙏

  • @HarmonyGreer
    @HarmonyGreer 8 місяців тому +5

    I just went through this 2 months ago.. it’s sooo hard to come to terms with it. Praying for you during this time 💗

    • @ChandlerAlexiss
      @ChandlerAlexiss  8 місяців тому

      praying for you as well♥️♥️♥️

  • @Robifitness__
    @Robifitness__ 8 місяців тому +2

    Babes I’m so sorry 😢 god gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers I love you 😘 🫶🏾

    • @ChandlerAlexiss
      @ChandlerAlexiss  8 місяців тому +1

      i don’t want to be a strong soldier 😭😭😂

  • @laurenar.8081
    @laurenar.8081 8 місяців тому +7

    Clicked within 2 seconds 😭

  • @tatsohrams
    @tatsohrams 8 місяців тому +2

    Sorry babes❤ you guys will have your rainbow babe soon 😊😊😊❤❤❤

  • @patiesward
    @patiesward 8 місяців тому +1

    Sorry sorry sorry 💕💕💕in God's own time, He will make all things happen 🙏

  • @Taylor-wm1vz
    @Taylor-wm1vz 8 місяців тому

    I’m 18 and I just had a miscarriage it was so hard thank you for sharing it made me feel so much better I’m so sorry hope you feel better🥺❤️!!

  • @1princessmina
    @1princessmina 8 місяців тому +2

    We love you guys stay strong as God has a plan for your family 🩷🩷🩷

  • @patrixeex5612
    @patrixeex5612 8 місяців тому +1

    God has his plans and all we can do is trust him and leave everything in his hands but pray you are blessed soon again with another ❤️ stay strong

  • @tiana3747
    @tiana3747 8 місяців тому

    I went through this last year for my very first pregnancy.i was 11 weeks and 2 days when I lost my baby and I found out in that same week I was pregnant with a girl

  • @anashacato750
    @anashacato750 8 місяців тому +3

    I understand how you feel i had 2 misscarrige

  • @shanigayle3637
    @shanigayle3637 8 місяців тому

    I went to a miscarriage last year at 21 weeks and I understand what your going through

  • @lexcilately
    @lexcilately 8 місяців тому

    God has a plan in all of this Chandler. God uses hard things like this to develop our characters. There is so much beauty in you going through this storm together and this will strengthen you both. Your faith is beautiful! Praying for you and your sweet family ❤

  • @martavismiles776
    @martavismiles776 8 місяців тому +2

    Beautiful keep pushing through ❤❤❤

  • @amyiamonique9042
    @amyiamonique9042 8 місяців тому

    I had a miscarriage February 3rd. First blood brawn HGC was 362 . First ultrasound was that Monday uterus had nothing in it .

  • @kennedychristina4226
    @kennedychristina4226 8 місяців тому

    I think you might’ve already passed the egg sac before you did the scan so that’s why there was no sign of pregnancy. I sympathize with you as I had a miscarriage my first pregnant. Wishing you a safe and happy next pregnancy! ❤️💋

  • @JefeLoni
    @JefeLoni 8 місяців тому

    May God Continue to Bless your family Amen !

  • @jesswounded9459
    @jesswounded9459 8 місяців тому

    Adam well done man thank you for having chan.. 🖤 so sorry bby girl gods timing 🙏🏾

  • @Pocahontasxo1
    @Pocahontasxo1 8 місяців тому

    You’ve been through so much over the years, I’m praying for your healing girl❤️‍🩹 and I’m soooo happy you’re going to God about it, your new addition will happen again his perfect timing! God is always working behind the scenes for our greater good!!

  • @_mmdd
    @_mmdd 8 місяців тому

    Take Care Of You, Let Us Go For A While. Go A Head & Process, Grieve, Rest and Restore.

  • @lisalashaye1795
    @lisalashaye1795 7 місяців тому

    You are definitely going to have another baby, Praying for you both 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

  • @imcece4016
    @imcece4016 8 місяців тому

    i’m so sorry beautiful 💗 I hope God blesses you! We love you and we are here for you 💗

  • @AphileDlamini-ne5wq
    @AphileDlamini-ne5wq 8 місяців тому

    So sorry to hear about your loss chandler hope you get better and I know that the baby would have been blessed to have you both as parents❤

  • @squeezedopson7708
    @squeezedopson7708 8 місяців тому

    Sorry to hear that sweetheart God is good 🙏🏿❤️🙏🏿❤️

  • @Chloe-vc1be
    @Chloe-vc1be 8 місяців тому +1

    So sorry for your loss 💔

  • @priyankashah9643
    @priyankashah9643 8 місяців тому +2

    Sorry for your loss. 💔

    • @ramarnethomas5192
      @ramarnethomas5192 8 місяців тому +1

      Sending love & prayers, sorry you had to experience this but yes always remember Gods timings is the perfect timing 🙏🏾😌.

  • @daytonchris8351
    @daytonchris8351 8 місяців тому

    i'm sorry for your loss chandler...

  • @Kiya8888
    @Kiya8888 8 місяців тому +2

    I love you 💕 you strong, worthy, beauty!

  • @carolinaarnold8
    @carolinaarnold8 8 місяців тому +1

    Prayers for you and your family ❤

  • @EverythingFarrah217
    @EverythingFarrah217 8 місяців тому

    Awwww I’m sorry for your lost after it pass don’t be surprised if you get pregnant right after like in the next two months cause that happens I pray you get pregnant with a healthy child ❤

  • @MelloneeKecia
    @MelloneeKecia 8 місяців тому

    So sorry for you guys loss and Praying for you guys 🙏🏾

  • @mrzwade
    @mrzwade 8 місяців тому

    I had an ectopic and it was actually better that your body expelled the pregnancy on its own vs having to have the surgery like I did. it causes scar tissue. So you will have no issues getting pregnant again mama

  • @Queenmeeka
    @Queenmeeka 8 місяців тому

    Oh my 😢 I’m so sorry that happened to you!!! Trust me, you will get pregnant 🤰 again and it will be healthier.

  • @iamlele3088
    @iamlele3088 8 місяців тому +1

    Trust Gods timing ❤

  • @mrs.laquitalyn8507
    @mrs.laquitalyn8507 8 місяців тому

    I'm so sorry babyjust know it not your fault okay 😢, I wish I could hug 🤗 you right now , we are behind you baby girl . And that lil baby is your angel 😇 sweet heavenly baby rest 😢 we are trying for another but as of now i keep miscarriaging the egg each month 😢

  • @shy4953
    @shy4953 8 місяців тому

    My condolences been here since before krew love you all

  • @itzz.lexxx22
    @itzz.lexxx22 8 місяців тому

    Sending y'all the biggest hug ever 💗

  • @kellichanel1348
    @kellichanel1348 8 місяців тому

    Prayers and blessings ❤

  • @vasteinmartin1346
    @vasteinmartin1346 8 місяців тому

    I just went through this exact thing happened to me in November.