Simz Right: I Worshipped My Failed Marriage And Lived In Denial |

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  • @SimzRight
    @SimzRight 11 місяців тому +302

    I wish I met this me a few years ago honestly

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +9

      She’s a force! 🫂❤️

    • @FindingNeli
      @FindingNeli 11 місяців тому +18

      Better late than never my sister.

    • @clarence493
      @clarence493 11 місяців тому +3

      We love you Simphiwe❤

    • @nonkosimarcia8714
      @nonkosimarcia8714 11 місяців тому +4

      Better late than never Simphiwe, how refreshing 2 witness this meeting, wat a time 2 be alive❤

    • @PKM208
      @PKM208 11 місяців тому +4

      Management here❤ We love you so much Simz.

  • @luvolee
    @luvolee 11 місяців тому +116

    Lungelo is by far one of the best interviewers I have seen, these numbers are not making sense but I feel it in my soul 2024 is about to be his breakthrough year! Mark my words 🤞

    • @kimberlybobotha5991
      @kimberlybobotha5991 10 місяців тому +2

      Yeah he is ,wish it started off with an intro,getting to know Simz,those that don't know her .A little background of when the relationship started ,the marriage,and eventually the end,to basically structure the interview .Manje nje it's starting right at the very end.

  • @ayandabaca7545
    @ayandabaca7545 11 місяців тому +59

    I'd rather be a return soldier than being a soldier that's fighting a losing battle.

  • @zenzinkambule1585
    @zenzinkambule1585 11 місяців тому +35

    I love how Simz is still able to speak so positively about marriage 😍

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb 11 місяців тому +23

    Not me RUNNING here; love you soooo much Simz.

  • @donniemdluli7287
    @donniemdluli7287 11 місяців тому +37

    As a management, I throughly enjoyed this conversation.
    I laughed, learnt so much and appreciated how Simz responded to the questions.
    I love how Simz is embodying the woman she has become

  • @lelonWakaGatsheni
    @lelonWakaGatsheni 11 місяців тому +44

    I’m here for @SimzRight all day everyday ❤

  • @mphomakhale
    @mphomakhale 11 місяців тому +55

    Your interviewing skills Lungelo. Top tier. ❤️
    The part where you mentioned that trauma has the ability to limit our thinking capacity and make us believe that we comfortable when we not? Shuuu. Something moved in me.
    Beautiful interview as always.

    • @busisiwephakathi7793
      @busisiwephakathi7793 11 місяців тому

      lalela, that comment yeses!

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +1

      Appreciate this so much. Thank you for this ❤️

    • @DKs_Journey1
      @DKs_Journey1 11 місяців тому

      Tell me about it, I got teary and I don't know why. Something moved in me

  • @EngineerYLShow
    @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +38

    Hello! ❤️
    I had the greatest chat with Simz, she is taking charge of her life, owning her mistakes and healing from what was done to her. Appreciate you so much Simz for sharing this intimate part of your life with our Engineer Your Life family. Enjoy the epsiode ❤

    • @notapi1
      @notapi1 11 місяців тому +6

      she is such a truthful individual...I wish i was as accountable as she is...

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +1

      She is truly taking charge@@notapi1

    • @innocentiaradebe9314
      @innocentiaradebe9314 11 місяців тому +1

      ❤❤

    • @zamokuhlezandile1703
      @zamokuhlezandile1703 11 місяців тому +1

      Lungelo you are so positive

    • @ThobileNdimande-db7tv
      @ThobileNdimande-db7tv 11 місяців тому +3

      It was very nice and she was so honest. I got triggerd got married at 24 and I'm tired 😫 I'm 35 manje yhooo! We need a support group maan 😪

  • @asandakhathi
    @asandakhathi 11 місяців тому +11

    I'm so proud of this girl for choosing herself. What a star

  • @nandiphasomana8501
    @nandiphasomana8501 11 місяців тому +10

    I enjoyed this interview, not only was Simz herself as always but I loved seeing the different side of her bubbly personality. Her genuineness made me realise that she really went through a lot and she didn't get time to do damage control privately because the socials were in her throat.

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you kindly for watching. Hope you subscribed

  • @CuriousEuphoria
    @CuriousEuphoria 11 місяців тому +15

    A huge S/O to you Lungelo for your outstanding interviewing skills! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾Your ability to listen, ask insightful questions, and showcase immense knowledge truly makes the podcast content stand out 🙌🏾💯. Big shoutout to Simz for her authenticity-this is exactly the engaging content I love and signed up for. I love it here🤍✨.

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +1

      You’re too kind, thank you for affirming me ❤️❤️❤️

    • @NtsikiMazwai
      @NtsikiMazwai 10 місяців тому +1

      💚💚💚💚💚💚

  • @jarirovisovirere9328
    @jarirovisovirere9328 11 місяців тому +10

    I love this woman since I discovered her channel, much love from Namibia. I love the Simz went on about her marriage. Much love.

  • @bongigarane4399
    @bongigarane4399 11 місяців тому +10

    Really enjoyed this interview, what Simz said about mourning a marriage is definitely true and it takes years to really close off the chapter

  • @TeeKay88
    @TeeKay88 11 місяців тому +9

    Great interview guys. The interviewer was brilliant and engaging. Simz was transparent and funny as always, very refreshing!
    Well done 👏🏾❤

  • @urbanartivists7943
    @urbanartivists7943 11 місяців тому +8

    Management please sign in. Danko ❤

  • @nosiphoradebe6297
    @nosiphoradebe6297 11 місяців тому +9

    Love Simz and wish her the best with her parenting. Marriage can wait.

  • @patiencemotivates
    @patiencemotivates 11 місяців тому +4

    I loved this interview so much. Thank you Simz for shedding light on marriage/ separation and divorce. No one gets it until someone speaks out. Love and light to both Simz and Lungelo❤

  • @becomingdineom1187
    @becomingdineom1187 11 місяців тому +16

    Lungelo is such a wholesome interviewer, asked the right questions questions with so much respect and empathy 🙌🏾 I subscribed after the 1st two questions!
    Simz answered the questions so well. She gets an A+++ for the way she answered . Love this self awareness, growth and love era on you Simz, looks super good ❤

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +2

      Appreciate this a lot Dineo ❤️❤️❤️

    • @becomingdineom1187
      @becomingdineom1187 11 місяців тому +1

      @@EngineerYLShow ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ntandokazimanqele9462
    @ntandokazimanqele9462 11 місяців тому +3

    I am sooo proud when someone says this road ain't it so I think for my own benefit lemme swim

  • @TheNonsie89
    @TheNonsie89 11 місяців тому +11

    This chanel is like Therapy! Lungelo you are so good at what you do, I just love how you connect with your guests throughout the entire conversation.

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +1

      Blessings to you 😃❤️🙏🏿

  • @sinasomxakaza9170
    @sinasomxakaza9170 11 місяців тому +14

    Lungelo is a great host 👏👏👏 Great interviewing skills, no shaming or drama. Just a healthy discussion. Watched for the first time when Naledi was here

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +2

      ❤️❤️❤️ I am so happy you are back.

  • @nomakhaya
    @nomakhaya 11 місяців тому +7

    WooooW i enjoyed this episode and didn't and didn't want it to end.
    Thank you for inviting Simz Lungelo..Loved how she explained her love life, her self discovery...
    Marriage is definitely coming sis and i love this new you..
    Have learnt a lot about Marriage from this and PEACE IS EXPENSIVE 🎤...

  • @gabrina
    @gabrina 11 місяців тому +16

    This was so powerful. My parents are going thru a separation, and it's been alot. I thank Simz for sharing her story and being objective about the situation. Ive learnt alot.

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +2

      You are so welcome❤️‍🩹 All the best with this situation. Pray and worship, God will see you through it.

  • @PKM208
    @PKM208 11 місяців тому +5

    Management here❤❤ We love you so much Simz.

  • @NeoPholushe
    @NeoPholushe 11 місяців тому +4

    Lungelo. Fantastic Interview with @SimzRight. I'm a man & husband who loves marriage and marriage conversations so much. And I know its a genre favourite to women. I can't get enough of this one & Promise Makunyane

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому

      thank you bro. I’m equally learning a lot from these

  • @DiamondQuality1
    @DiamondQuality1 11 місяців тому +3

    I'm actually praying for my future husband now thank you for tge advice on being specific Simz

  • @b_mathaba
    @b_mathaba 11 місяців тому +4

    The accountability and the honesty ❤❤❤❤❤❤ Thank God for podcasts more blessings Lungelo 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @RuthMadumo
    @RuthMadumo 24 дні тому

    I'm glad God saw you through and please never stop believing you're a child of God ❤

  • @sisiphojacobs6038
    @sisiphojacobs6038 11 місяців тому +5

    Such therapy session vibe. Honesty yakho simz❤Sis! Sis! 💐💐

  • @sylviamodise3887
    @sylviamodise3887 11 місяців тому +7

    Thank you Simz, I appreciate that you did not paint your ex as a bad person, you just gave us your point of view and where you believe you went wrong. That shows a huge level of maturity. Kulungile, love and light ❤

  • @joseymoloi7169
    @joseymoloi7169 2 місяці тому

    It comforts me to know that God hates divorce not DIVORCED/E. 🌻.. I have learned about her ,,, love her

  • @missg7906
    @missg7906 11 місяців тому +10

    “Nkulu nkhulu ya Ayanda Ncwane” 🤣🤣 yoh @SimzRight takes NOTHING seriously 🤣🤣🤣

  • @lovely_Leaf
    @lovely_Leaf 10 місяців тому

    Lungelo have no idea why you don't wear shoes, but looooove it. It's so Zen!

  • @butterbile
    @butterbile 11 місяців тому +6

    Lungelo uyathandeka

  • @zuzuh5755
    @zuzuh5755 11 місяців тому +3

    Great interviwer, I like that he is not judging but listen to understand what his guest is saying and feeling..I watched all the ads since I was doing my hair😅. Joking I always do to nive people like you guys. Love you Simz 😍.

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +1

      Glad you enjoyed it😃😃😃😃

  • @ndilekamomoza4538
    @ndilekamomoza4538 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Lungelo , you are graceful in all the conversations with your guests

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  10 місяців тому +1

      This response is heartwarming. Thank you so much 🙏🏿

  • @jeminahM
    @jeminahM 11 місяців тому +12

    I love simz sana she is so funny

  • @mathapelomphahlele5309
    @mathapelomphahlele5309 11 місяців тому +2

    Simz o right, marriage is so nice. You only realize it a few years after the wedding that actually the challenges are harder when you cannot accept that somethings are beyond your control and you give it to God. The other controllable elements, are parts of you that has not healed and resolving conflict politely which need therapy and marriage counseling.

  • @syathokozahlophe9011
    @syathokozahlophe9011 11 місяців тому +1

    Such a lovely and informative interview… and the issue of spirituality is very important in a relationship and we often neglect that part

  • @Tinas12211
    @Tinas12211 11 місяців тому +3

    I really appreciate your content Lungelo, God bless you abundantly , YOU SAVED MY LIFE By introducing me to Kwazi Mamane I had severe spiritual warfares I wish one day I would visit and share my story, I believe I am destined for greatness. Since I started attending his church in Durban what a change in my life even thou I am still in isolation.

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому

      God bless you ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏿

  • @kgosigadientertainment2220
    @kgosigadientertainment2220 11 місяців тому +6

    Loving these youtube collaborations ❤

  • @taenashymkoti2854
    @taenashymkoti2854 10 місяців тому +1

    " where there is God, there is peace"
    TRUTH

  • @seipeishole9674
    @seipeishole9674 11 місяців тому +4

    This interviewer is too good❤

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому

      God bless you for your kindness ❤️🤍❤️

  • @reolebogile_m
    @reolebogile_m 11 місяців тому +6

    Lungelo's laugh is so adorable 😅

  • @thamibokaba7090
    @thamibokaba7090 11 місяців тому +2

    This was such a great interview, I thoroughly enjoyed it. ❤
    As a management, it’s very impressive to watch Simz grow from strength to strength. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @phumzilesikhakhane1597
    @phumzilesikhakhane1597 4 місяці тому

    Simz has a great personality,your kids deserve to get the “happy” version of you,you are amazing and funny😂❤️💐

  • @joseymoloi7169
    @joseymoloi7169 2 місяці тому

    @SimzRight love you and big ups, self love galore. Your journey touched me flowers for you honey,

  • @lesley_lezley
    @lesley_lezley 11 місяців тому +2

    We love you Sims ♥️♥️♥️
    Great interview bhuti. Love that you got straight to the point. ♥️

  • @frostedwindows1
    @frostedwindows1 11 місяців тому +2

    Yho @Simzright, I wished I could just hug you tight when you said, " I talked to God and say Please forgive me " In fact, there I no condemination for all of us.

  • @bathabilemthimunye1087
    @bathabilemthimunye1087 11 місяців тому +4

    This was so refreshing to watch❤❤❤

  • @doctorneoNcube08
    @doctorneoNcube08 10 місяців тому +1

    Respect The Way You conduct Your Interviews Lungelo It's Really A Blessed Calling For You it's like There's voices that whispers to you And You able to Project It Exactly Expected in An honourable Way Thank you For Great interviews Very enlighting and educational🙏

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  10 місяців тому

      Thank you for being kind enough to share this message with me. It reminds me that I’m living in my purpose. Thank you.

  • @sontofakude7724
    @sontofakude7724 11 місяців тому +5

    🤣🤣🤣🤣Simz mara uyahlekisa😂 you so funny girl!!

  • @zeendlovu9641
    @zeendlovu9641 11 місяців тому +5

    Management here❤

  • @bongiwemaqolo9194
    @bongiwemaqolo9194 11 місяців тому +4

    sound effects - trrrrr. i love you simzzzo

  • @sontofakude7724
    @sontofakude7724 11 місяців тому +3

    Simz girl! Tell them abondabazantu👏👏👏👏

  • @bojangmekgwe3205
    @bojangmekgwe3205 11 місяців тому +3

    A very insightful conversation ❤❤

  • @neliswamatwa5756
    @neliswamatwa5756 11 місяців тому +2

    Great interview, I was glued the whole time❤

  • @nokwazishezi7580
    @nokwazishezi7580 11 місяців тому +5

    Lungelo you give me Siya Mhlongo's vibes so much from uKhoziFM/MetroFM ❤
    What a beautiful conversation ❤

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +5

      He’s brilliant at what he does. Thank you 🙏🏿

  • @joseymoloi7169
    @joseymoloi7169 2 місяці тому

    Marriage is beautiful..... Live and Love like never lLive and love before.....

  • @spm9130
    @spm9130 10 місяців тому +1

    I think we underestimate the power of real marriage counselling before we even decide to pay lobola! It helps you to understand what marriage is and what it takes to stay married!

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  10 місяців тому

      What would you define as the duration and type of marriage counselling you consider real?

  • @leratomoepya478
    @leratomoepya478 11 місяців тому +5

    Your interview skills are amazing ❤. Subscribed 🙌🏾

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +1

      😃😃❤️❤️🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @tshepangpaile9689
    @tshepangpaile9689 11 місяців тому +4

    I am officially a subbie becoz of simz❤

  • @divinepeaceInternational
    @divinepeaceInternational 11 місяців тому +2

    Great Interview! The interviewer interacts so well and Simz has a great personality. Just Subscribed ❤

  • @zandilezabengunigumede3069
    @zandilezabengunigumede3069 9 місяців тому

    Lungelo is the best interviewer trust me ❤️

  • @phumzilesikhakhane1597
    @phumzilesikhakhane1597 4 місяці тому

    Lungelo your channel is so soothing,i feel like i am chilling with you guys there😂❤

  • @MinisterDelly
    @MinisterDelly 11 місяців тому +3

    nice one Sims im learning a lot i also have a toungue of a snake may God help me

  • @nthabisengmashaba1
    @nthabisengmashaba1 11 місяців тому +3

    The way I love you Simz♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @jabulilengubane4843
    @jabulilengubane4843 11 місяців тому +3

    I love her sense of humour!😂❤

  • @preciouslebo8496
    @preciouslebo8496 11 місяців тому +2

    You Seeking God and putting God first I love it for you Simz.
    And your take on popculture is on point.
    Lots of love ♡

  • @SiphokaziNgqozela-ju1jt
    @SiphokaziNgqozela-ju1jt 11 місяців тому +4

    I just love usims hayboo❤

  • @Dizzy12346
    @Dizzy12346 11 місяців тому +4

    Simz is so beautiful, woow 🤞👌🥰

  • @prisca2blessedxoli662
    @prisca2blessedxoli662 11 місяців тому +4

    Simz is so intelligent hey

  • @allentertainment_ke4168
    @allentertainment_ke4168 11 місяців тому +6

    Much love from Kenya lungelo😍

  • @zandimaphike4516
    @zandimaphike4516 11 місяців тому +4

    'Sukuma mkami bakubone' 😂😂😂😂

  • @nontobekonkosi
    @nontobekonkosi 11 місяців тому +4

    Simz is so beautiful ❤️❤️

  • @phindigee1912
    @phindigee1912 11 місяців тому +2

    Not Nokwanda Sibiya catching strays 🤣😂

  • @lelonWakaGatsheni
    @lelonWakaGatsheni 11 місяців тому +9

    @Lungelo 🤌🏼🙌🏾🔥

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +2

      My darling Waka Gatsheni ❤❤❤

  • @boitumelonyati4546
    @boitumelonyati4546 10 місяців тому

    😂😂I jst love Simz shame people can say what they want she's an amazing, funny & beautiful person aoooo Sims girl

  • @zaneleluhabe8863
    @zaneleluhabe8863 11 місяців тому +1

    Awesome interview ❤

  • @nthabisengmasikila4543
    @nthabisengmasikila4543 11 місяців тому +2

    Simz is super adorable ❤😊

  • @ruthkamwi_youtube
    @ruthkamwi_youtube 11 місяців тому +1

    This is a great interview.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @ExplorersSA
    @ExplorersSA 11 місяців тому +3

    Simz start the queue from the end xha😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @valentiaphakathi5769
    @valentiaphakathi5769 12 днів тому

    @SimzRight I was like but now I'm now getting married again at the age of 43

  • @sammym9259
    @sammym9259 11 місяців тому +1

    Management loves this❤❤

  • @MaBhanya
    @MaBhanya 10 місяців тому +1

    I’ve been trying to put together a fitting compliment ever since I discovered this channel yesterday and ngiyahluleka…
    You’re excellent at what you do Lungelo! I’d be lying if I said I’ve come across anyone who interviews like you in SA. According to me, you’re hands down the best in SA. I can’t even put your interviewing style into words. Out of this world!

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  10 місяців тому

      Sis Ntombikayise, izandla zedlula ekhanda. I am so grateful for these kind words. I will use them to carry this vision God has placed in my heart all the way. Thank you again.

    • @MaBhanya
      @MaBhanya 10 місяців тому

      @@EngineerYLShow You’re welcome, may God bless you work.

  • @nosipomatanzima2174
    @nosipomatanzima2174 11 місяців тому +2

    Big up to you Simz.

  • @sphesihlemamba9964
    @sphesihlemamba9964 11 місяців тому +3

    Just subscribed 🎉

  • @NtsikiMazwai
    @NtsikiMazwai 10 місяців тому +1

    Great Job to the host❤🎉

  • @ScissorN
    @ScissorN 11 місяців тому

    Mara guys what really keeps marriages this days, i mean Simz and his husband looked like a happy couple and they where so crazy and fun together

    • @goodnessmosehla8362
      @goodnessmosehla8362 Місяць тому

      Marriage is sacred and that is the one thing that this generation of social media is failing to understand . And please understand this is not directed to Simphiwe, am speaking marriage this days.

  • @spm9130
    @spm9130 10 місяців тому

    I had to leave to be alive for myself and my children ❤❤❤

  • @paul7505
    @paul7505 11 місяців тому +2

    Where are your shoes, Lungelo?

  • @Tuminkie
    @Tuminkie 11 місяців тому +1

    We have God and gods.

  • @nkululekomabaso1629
    @nkululekomabaso1629 11 місяців тому +3

    I love Simz😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @onthegrindwiththabitha
    @onthegrindwiththabitha 11 місяців тому +1

    Simz right, love you❤❤

  • @leojiji-e4x
    @leojiji-e4x 2 місяці тому

    Simz we love u❤

  • @anastasimankesemokgobu1724
    @anastasimankesemokgobu1724 11 місяців тому +5

    Not the God of Ayanda Ncgwane 🤣🤣

  • @NkulleGumede
    @NkulleGumede 9 місяців тому

    But she does the same thing ngezindaba zabantu.

  • @MasesiMlimi
    @MasesiMlimi 11 місяців тому +1

    Simz she's funny guys😂😂😂

  • @sabumzima9923
    @sabumzima9923 11 місяців тому +3

    I love Simz