Simz Right: I Worshipped My Failed Marriage And Lived In Denial |

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  • Опубліковано 31 гру 2024

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  • @SimzRight
    @SimzRight Рік тому +309

    I wish I met this me a few years ago honestly

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  Рік тому +10

      She’s a force! 🫂❤️

    • @FindingNeli
      @FindingNeli Рік тому +19

      Better late than never my sister.

    • @clarence493
      @clarence493 Рік тому +3

      We love you Simphiwe❤

    • @nonkosimarcia8714
      @nonkosimarcia8714 Рік тому +4

      Better late than never Simphiwe, how refreshing 2 witness this meeting, wat a time 2 be alive❤

    • @PKM208
      @PKM208 Рік тому +4

      Management here❤ We love you so much Simz.

  • @luvolee
    @luvolee Рік тому +116

    Lungelo is by far one of the best interviewers I have seen, these numbers are not making sense but I feel it in my soul 2024 is about to be his breakthrough year! Mark my words 🤞

    • @kimberlybobotha5991
      @kimberlybobotha5991 11 місяців тому +2

      Yeah he is ,wish it started off with an intro,getting to know Simz,those that don't know her .A little background of when the relationship started ,the marriage,and eventually the end,to basically structure the interview .Manje nje it's starting right at the very end.

  • @zenzinkambule1585
    @zenzinkambule1585 Рік тому +38

    I love how Simz is still able to speak so positively about marriage 😍

  • @ayandabaca7545
    @ayandabaca7545 Рік тому +60

    I'd rather be a return soldier than being a soldier that's fighting a losing battle.

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb Рік тому +23

    Not me RUNNING here; love you soooo much Simz.

  • @donniemdluli7287
    @donniemdluli7287 Рік тому +37

    As a management, I throughly enjoyed this conversation.
    I laughed, learnt so much and appreciated how Simz responded to the questions.
    I love how Simz is embodying the woman she has become

  • @MphoLM
    @MphoLM Рік тому +55

    Your interviewing skills Lungelo. Top tier. ❤️
    The part where you mentioned that trauma has the ability to limit our thinking capacity and make us believe that we comfortable when we not? Shuuu. Something moved in me.
    Beautiful interview as always.

    • @busisiwephakathi7793
      @busisiwephakathi7793 Рік тому

      lalela, that comment yeses!

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  Рік тому +1

      Appreciate this so much. Thank you for this ❤️

    • @DKs_Journey1
      @DKs_Journey1 Рік тому

      Tell me about it, I got teary and I don't know why. Something moved in me

  • @lelonWakaGatsheni
    @lelonWakaGatsheni Рік тому +45

    I’m here for @SimzRight all day everyday ❤

  • @nandiphasomana8501
    @nandiphasomana8501 Рік тому +10

    I enjoyed this interview, not only was Simz herself as always but I loved seeing the different side of her bubbly personality. Her genuineness made me realise that she really went through a lot and she didn't get time to do damage control privately because the socials were in her throat.

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  Рік тому +1

      Thank you kindly for watching. Hope you subscribed

  • @asandakhathi
    @asandakhathi Рік тому +12

    I'm so proud of this girl for choosing herself. What a star

  • @jarirovisovirere9328
    @jarirovisovirere9328 Рік тому +10

    I love this woman since I discovered her channel, much love from Namibia. I love the Simz went on about her marriage. Much love.

  • @CuriousEuphoria
    @CuriousEuphoria Рік тому +15

    A huge S/O to you Lungelo for your outstanding interviewing skills! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾Your ability to listen, ask insightful questions, and showcase immense knowledge truly makes the podcast content stand out 🙌🏾💯. Big shoutout to Simz for her authenticity-this is exactly the engaging content I love and signed up for. I love it here🤍✨.

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  Рік тому +1

      You’re too kind, thank you for affirming me ❤️❤️❤️

    • @NtsikiMazwai
      @NtsikiMazwai Рік тому +1

      💚💚💚💚💚💚

  • @bongigarane4399
    @bongigarane4399 Рік тому +10

    Really enjoyed this interview, what Simz said about mourning a marriage is definitely true and it takes years to really close off the chapter

  • @urbanartivists7943
    @urbanartivists7943 Рік тому +8

    Management please sign in. Danko ❤

  • @TeeKay88
    @TeeKay88 Рік тому +9

    Great interview guys. The interviewer was brilliant and engaging. Simz was transparent and funny as always, very refreshing!
    Well done 👏🏾❤

  • @PKM208
    @PKM208 Рік тому +5

    Management here❤❤ We love you so much Simz.

  • @patiencemotivates
    @patiencemotivates Рік тому +4

    I loved this interview so much. Thank you Simz for shedding light on marriage/ separation and divorce. No one gets it until someone speaks out. Love and light to both Simz and Lungelo❤

  • @NeoPholushe
    @NeoPholushe Рік тому +4

    Lungelo. Fantastic Interview with @SimzRight. I'm a man & husband who loves marriage and marriage conversations so much. And I know its a genre favourite to women. I can't get enough of this one & Promise Makunyane

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  Рік тому

      thank you bro. I’m equally learning a lot from these

  • @nosiphoradebe6297
    @nosiphoradebe6297 Рік тому +9

    Love Simz and wish her the best with her parenting. Marriage can wait.

  • @b_mathaba
    @b_mathaba Рік тому +5

    The accountability and the honesty ❤❤❤❤❤❤ Thank God for podcasts more blessings Lungelo 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @RuthMadumo
    @RuthMadumo 2 місяці тому

    I'm glad God saw you through and please never stop believing you're a child of God ❤

  • @seipeishole9674
    @seipeishole9674 Рік тому +4

    This interviewer is too good❤

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  Рік тому

      God bless you for your kindness ❤️🤍❤️

  • @spm9130
    @spm9130 11 місяців тому +2

    I think we underestimate the power of real marriage counselling before we even decide to pay lobola! It helps you to understand what marriage is and what it takes to stay married!

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому

      What would you define as the duration and type of marriage counselling you consider real?

  • @nomakhaya
    @nomakhaya Рік тому +7

    WooooW i enjoyed this episode and didn't and didn't want it to end.
    Thank you for inviting Simz Lungelo..Loved how she explained her love life, her self discovery...
    Marriage is definitely coming sis and i love this new you..
    Have learnt a lot about Marriage from this and PEACE IS EXPENSIVE 🎤...

  • @missg7906
    @missg7906 Рік тому +12

    “Nkulu nkhulu ya Ayanda Ncwane” 🤣🤣 yoh @SimzRight takes NOTHING seriously 🤣🤣🤣

  • @mathapelomphahlele5309
    @mathapelomphahlele5309 Рік тому +4

    Simz o right, marriage is so nice. You only realize it a few years after the wedding that actually the challenges are harder when you cannot accept that somethings are beyond your control and you give it to God. The other controllable elements, are parts of you that has not healed and resolving conflict politely which need therapy and marriage counseling.

  • @ntandokazimanqele9462
    @ntandokazimanqele9462 Рік тому +3

    I am sooo proud when someone says this road ain't it so I think for my own benefit lemme swim

  • @EngineerYLShow
    @EngineerYLShow  Рік тому +40

    Hello! ❤️
    I had the greatest chat with Simz, she is taking charge of her life, owning her mistakes and healing from what was done to her. Appreciate you so much Simz for sharing this intimate part of your life with our Engineer Your Life family. Enjoy the epsiode ❤

    • @notapi1
      @notapi1 Рік тому +6

      she is such a truthful individual...I wish i was as accountable as she is...

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  Рік тому +1

      She is truly taking charge@@notapi1

    • @innocentiaradebe9314
      @innocentiaradebe9314 Рік тому +1

      ❤❤

    • @zamokuhlezandile1703
      @zamokuhlezandile1703 Рік тому +1

      Lungelo you are so positive

    • @ThobileNdimande-db7tv
      @ThobileNdimande-db7tv Рік тому +3

      It was very nice and she was so honest. I got triggerd got married at 24 and I'm tired 😫 I'm 35 manje yhooo! We need a support group maan 😪

  • @syathokozahlophe9011
    @syathokozahlophe9011 Рік тому +1

    Such a lovely and informative interview… and the issue of spirituality is very important in a relationship and we often neglect that part

  • @ndilekamomoza4538
    @ndilekamomoza4538 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Lungelo , you are graceful in all the conversations with your guests

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому +1

      This response is heartwarming. Thank you so much 🙏🏿

  • @sisiphojacobs6038
    @sisiphojacobs6038 Рік тому +5

    Such therapy session vibe. Honesty yakho simz❤Sis! Sis! 💐💐

  • @DiamondQuality1
    @DiamondQuality1 Рік тому +3

    I'm actually praying for my future husband now thank you for tge advice on being specific Simz

  • @bongiwemaqolo9194
    @bongiwemaqolo9194 Рік тому +4

    sound effects - trrrrr. i love you simzzzo

  • @TheNonsie89
    @TheNonsie89 Рік тому +11

    This chanel is like Therapy! Lungelo you are so good at what you do, I just love how you connect with your guests throughout the entire conversation.

  • @lovely_Leaf
    @lovely_Leaf 11 місяців тому

    Lungelo have no idea why you don't wear shoes, but looooove it. It's so Zen!

  • @reolebogile_m
    @reolebogile_m Рік тому +6

    Lungelo's laugh is so adorable 😅

  • @bathabilemthimunye1087
    @bathabilemthimunye1087 Рік тому +4

    This was so refreshing to watch❤❤❤

  • @jeminahM
    @jeminahM Рік тому +12

    I love simz sana she is so funny

  • @leratomoepya478
    @leratomoepya478 Рік тому +5

    Your interview skills are amazing ❤. Subscribed 🙌🏾

  • @kgosigadientertainment2220
    @kgosigadientertainment2220 Рік тому +6

    Loving these youtube collaborations ❤

  • @becomingdineom1187
    @becomingdineom1187 Рік тому +16

    Lungelo is such a wholesome interviewer, asked the right questions questions with so much respect and empathy 🙌🏾 I subscribed after the 1st two questions!
    Simz answered the questions so well. She gets an A+++ for the way she answered . Love this self awareness, growth and love era on you Simz, looks super good ❤

  • @zeendlovu9641
    @zeendlovu9641 Рік тому +5

    Management here❤

  • @phumzilesikhakhane1597
    @phumzilesikhakhane1597 6 місяців тому

    Simz has a great personality,your kids deserve to get the “happy” version of you,you are amazing and funny😂❤️💐

  • @gabrina
    @gabrina Рік тому +16

    This was so powerful. My parents are going thru a separation, and it's been alot. I thank Simz for sharing her story and being objective about the situation. Ive learnt alot.

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  Рік тому +2

      You are so welcome❤️‍🩹 All the best with this situation. Pray and worship, God will see you through it.

  • @doctorneoNcube08
    @doctorneoNcube08 11 місяців тому +1

    Respect The Way You conduct Your Interviews Lungelo It's Really A Blessed Calling For You it's like There's voices that whispers to you And You able to Project It Exactly Expected in An honourable Way Thank you For Great interviews Very enlighting and educational🙏

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому

      Thank you for being kind enough to share this message with me. It reminds me that I’m living in my purpose. Thank you.

  • @taenashymkoti2854
    @taenashymkoti2854 Рік тому +1

    " where there is God, there is peace"
    TRUTH

  • @sinasomxakaza9170
    @sinasomxakaza9170 Рік тому +14

    Lungelo is a great host 👏👏👏 Great interviewing skills, no shaming or drama. Just a healthy discussion. Watched for the first time when Naledi was here

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  Рік тому +2

      ❤️❤️❤️ I am so happy you are back.

  • @zaneleluhabe8863
    @zaneleluhabe8863 Рік тому +1

    Awesome interview ❤

  • @lesley_lezley
    @lesley_lezley Рік тому +2

    We love you Sims ♥️♥️♥️
    Great interview bhuti. Love that you got straight to the point. ♥️

  • @bojangmekgwe3205
    @bojangmekgwe3205 Рік тому +3

    A very insightful conversation ❤❤

  • @neliswamatwa5756
    @neliswamatwa5756 Рік тому +2

    Great interview, I was glued the whole time❤

  • @joseymoloi7169
    @joseymoloi7169 3 місяці тому

    @SimzRight love you and big ups, self love galore. Your journey touched me flowers for you honey,

  • @rukamwi
    @rukamwi Рік тому +1

    This is a great interview.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @tshepangpaile9689
    @tshepangpaile9689 Рік тому +4

    I am officially a subbie becoz of simz❤

  • @phumzilesikhakhane1597
    @phumzilesikhakhane1597 6 місяців тому

    Lungelo your channel is so soothing,i feel like i am chilling with you guys there😂❤

  • @zandilezabengunigumede3069
    @zandilezabengunigumede3069 11 місяців тому

    Lungelo is the best interviewer trust me ❤️

  • @thamibokaba7090
    @thamibokaba7090 Рік тому +2

    This was such a great interview, I thoroughly enjoyed it. ❤
    As a management, it’s very impressive to watch Simz grow from strength to strength. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @sontofakude7724
    @sontofakude7724 Рік тому +3

    Simz girl! Tell them abondabazantu👏👏👏👏

  • @zuzuh5755
    @zuzuh5755 Рік тому +3

    Great interviwer, I like that he is not judging but listen to understand what his guest is saying and feeling..I watched all the ads since I was doing my hair😅. Joking I always do to nive people like you guys. Love you Simz 😍.

  • @joseymoloi7169
    @joseymoloi7169 3 місяці тому

    Marriage is beautiful..... Live and Love like never lLive and love before.....

  • @butterbile
    @butterbile Рік тому +6

    Lungelo uyathandeka

  • @Tinas12211
    @Tinas12211 Рік тому +3

    I really appreciate your content Lungelo, God bless you abundantly , YOU SAVED MY LIFE By introducing me to Kwazi Mamane I had severe spiritual warfares I wish one day I would visit and share my story, I believe I am destined for greatness. Since I started attending his church in Durban what a change in my life even thou I am still in isolation.

  • @Dizzy12346
    @Dizzy12346 Рік тому +4

    Simz is so beautiful, woow 🤞👌🥰

  • @divinepeaceInternational
    @divinepeaceInternational Рік тому +2

    Great Interview! The interviewer interacts so well and Simz has a great personality. Just Subscribed ❤

  • @joseymoloi7169
    @joseymoloi7169 3 місяці тому

    It comforts me to know that God hates divorce not DIVORCED/E. 🌻.. I have learned about her ,,, love her

  • @allentertainment_ke4168
    @allentertainment_ke4168 Рік тому +6

    Much love from Kenya lungelo😍

  • @prisca2blessedxoli662
    @prisca2blessedxoli662 Рік тому +4

    Simz is so intelligent hey

  • @frostedwindows1
    @frostedwindows1 Рік тому +2

    Yho @Simzright, I wished I could just hug you tight when you said, " I talked to God and say Please forgive me " In fact, there I no condemination for all of us.

  • @SiphokaziNgqozela-ju1jt
    @SiphokaziNgqozela-ju1jt Рік тому +4

    I just love usims hayboo❤

  • @MinisterDelly
    @MinisterDelly Рік тому +3

    nice one Sims im learning a lot i also have a toungue of a snake may God help me

  • @Noks-i3e
    @Noks-i3e Рік тому +5

    Lungelo you give me Siya Mhlongo's vibes so much from uKhoziFM/MetroFM ❤
    What a beautiful conversation ❤

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  Рік тому +5

      He’s brilliant at what he does. Thank you 🙏🏿

  • @sylviamodise3887
    @sylviamodise3887 Рік тому +7

    Thank you Simz, I appreciate that you did not paint your ex as a bad person, you just gave us your point of view and where you believe you went wrong. That shows a huge level of maturity. Kulungile, love and light ❤

  • @nontobekonkosi
    @nontobekonkosi Рік тому +4

    Simz is so beautiful ❤️❤️

  • @NtsikiMazwai
    @NtsikiMazwai Рік тому +1

    Great Job to the host❤🎉

  • @sammym9259
    @sammym9259 Рік тому +1

    Management loves this❤❤

  • @nthabisengmashaba1
    @nthabisengmashaba1 Рік тому +3

    The way I love you Simz♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @sontofakude7724
    @sontofakude7724 Рік тому +5

    🤣🤣🤣🤣Simz mara uyahlekisa😂 you so funny girl!!

  • @nthabisengmasikila4543
    @nthabisengmasikila4543 Рік тому +2

    Simz is super adorable ❤😊

  • @sphesihlemamba9964
    @sphesihlemamba9964 Рік тому +3

    Just subscribed 🎉

  • @jabulilengubane4843
    @jabulilengubane4843 Рік тому +3

    I love her sense of humour!😂❤

  • @nosipomatanzima2174
    @nosipomatanzima2174 Рік тому +2

    Big up to you Simz.

  • @ExplorersSA
    @ExplorersSA Рік тому +3

    Simz start the queue from the end xha😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @zandimaphike4516
    @zandimaphike4516 Рік тому +4

    'Sukuma mkami bakubone' 😂😂😂😂

  • @boitumelonyati4546
    @boitumelonyati4546 Рік тому

    😂😂I jst love Simz shame people can say what they want she's an amazing, funny & beautiful person aoooo Sims girl

  • @lelonWakaGatsheni
    @lelonWakaGatsheni Рік тому +9

    @Lungelo 🤌🏼🙌🏾🔥

  • @phindigee1912
    @phindigee1912 Рік тому +2

    Not Nokwanda Sibiya catching strays 🤣😂

  • @ScissorN
    @ScissorN Рік тому

    Mara guys what really keeps marriages this days, i mean Simz and his husband looked like a happy couple and they where so crazy and fun together

    • @goodnessmosehla8362
      @goodnessmosehla8362 3 місяці тому

      Marriage is sacred and that is the one thing that this generation of social media is failing to understand . And please understand this is not directed to Simphiwe, am speaking marriage this days.

  • @preciouslebo8496
    @preciouslebo8496 Рік тому +2

    You Seeking God and putting God first I love it for you Simz.
    And your take on popculture is on point.
    Lots of love ♡

  • @MaBhanya
    @MaBhanya 11 місяців тому +1

    I’ve been trying to put together a fitting compliment ever since I discovered this channel yesterday and ngiyahluleka…
    You’re excellent at what you do Lungelo! I’d be lying if I said I’ve come across anyone who interviews like you in SA. According to me, you’re hands down the best in SA. I can’t even put your interviewing style into words. Out of this world!

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  11 місяців тому

      Sis Ntombikayise, izandla zedlula ekhanda. I am so grateful for these kind words. I will use them to carry this vision God has placed in my heart all the way. Thank you again.

    • @MaBhanya
      @MaBhanya 11 місяців тому

      @@EngineerYLShow You’re welcome, may God bless you work.

  • @spm9130
    @spm9130 11 місяців тому

    I had to leave to be alive for myself and my children ❤❤❤

  • @Tuminkie
    @Tuminkie Рік тому +1

    We have God and gods.

  • @valentiaphakathi5769
    @valentiaphakathi5769 Місяць тому

    @SimzRight I was like but now I'm now getting married again at the age of 43

  • @leojiji-e4x
    @leojiji-e4x 3 місяці тому

    Simz we love u❤

  • @onthegrindwiththabitha
    @onthegrindwiththabitha Рік тому +1

    Simz right, love you❤❤

  • @paul7505
    @paul7505 Рік тому +2

    Where are your shoes, Lungelo?

  • @nkululekomabaso1629
    @nkululekomabaso1629 Рік тому +3

    I love Simz😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @queendorcas5815
    @queendorcas5815 Рік тому +1

    New subi ❤

  • @b_mathaba
    @b_mathaba Рік тому

    Sims is soo funny and lovable 😅😅😂❤

    • @EngineerYLShow
      @EngineerYLShow  Рік тому

      Did you see how much I was laughing.It was amazing

  • @bigthangz5489
    @bigthangz5489 6 місяців тому

    17:17 - Didnt he marry Simz while sims alresdy had a kid or 2 from prior relationships?

  • @MasesiMlimi
    @MasesiMlimi Рік тому +1

    Simz she's funny guys😂😂😂