Stripper Stories: Old Men in Strip Clubs
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- Опубліковано 7 сер 2024
- While older gentlemen have been some of the best customers I've ever worked with in strip clubs, three men made themselves memorable in ways that were less flattering.
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Young man: Have you ever danced for an old, creepy dude?
Don't worry son, you'll be a creepy old dude soon enough..
Yeah really. It goes by real fast.
Old men in strip clubs keep the lights on
I was at Spearmint Rhino in Vegas 1 night. The power went out. No lights, they did not come back on so they closed that night!
yiu beat me to it.
i am 60... went to a strip club in my 30's. Last time I ever went. I spent $80.00, left horny AF. It was a waste of money, felt really stupid.
You can use the PUA community's strategy of "stripper rules". Essentially you have to get her not to think of you as a customer. Not easy. I was not able to do it myself, but some other guys have succeeded.
That's exactly why I don't go!
Get an escort. The ultimate goal is sex. Why would someone spend 1 hr on lapdance. That's just dumb. I can understand 1 or 2 lapdance, but 1 hr. That's krazy. Must be the booze
Could've got a blowjob for 80.00 $. You went in your 30s and your 60, so 30 years ago 80$ was 155$. You Could've easily got a blowjob for half and hour from escort.
Shut them down. Nothing good comes out of these places.
I had a short period of time after a divorce when me and my buddies would hang out at a strip club.
We ended up hanging out with a group of them outside of the club.
It was wild couple of months!
Those dancers were some of the coolest people in the world, but their lives were pure chaos for the most part.
"Hey hun, $20 for a dance?"
"I'm an independent contractor and I don't dance for anyone."
"😧"
😂😂😂😂
If she didn't ask you the she didn't want to dance with you. It's been ten years Craig, get over it!
She doesn't dance for anyone she doesn't want to*
Entitlement at its finest. 🤣🤦🏾♂️💀
@JupiterThunder Those ten cents a dance ladies, in the 20s/30s were on to something. Often called 'Taxi Dancers', too.
Now 76, I remember being in ironworker apprentice night school. All the guys would meet after work at a local strip club near the school. Great cheap food, beer and nice ladies.
We mostly talked about the jobs we were working.
One night, the MC said that the scheduled dancer had a flat tire but an off-duty dancer offered to fill in. She was in street clothes and the whole place LOST IT'S MIND.
She was ... the girl next door, a real girl.
No fancy stripper clothes, no pretense. Interesting.
Because the most naked woman is naked but the sexist woman in a strip club is the one with her clothes on strippers also look hot showing up for work in their street clothes porn stars are always hot wearing gowns at the porno film awards.
A strip joint with cheap food and beer? Never, ever have I experienced that!
@@noodler696 Keep searching
Either way it's a front, you are being fooled by a front, either the sexy dancer front, or the girl next door front. Sometimes things are obvious. They are only there to exploit you and take your money.
@@user-th3ll8rl7i Clearly.
Thank you for being courageous and sharing your story. Honesty without judgment makes this human experience real.
Steve Martin was 67 when he had his child. His wife was 41. His daughter, Mary, is Steve Martin's only child, born in 2012. That means Steve Martin is 78 now (in 24) & his daughter is 10. I hope she gets at least another 10 years with dad.
Although my dad was almost fifty, when I was born, it's truly NOT the wise choice. My dad passed away less than a month, after I graduated from High School. Kids need both parents, in order to be raised properly...impregnating a woman, just because you can, is really a F****D Up reason, to do so. It's NOT all about Your so-called rights, in life. Think of the child, for Once in your Life!❤
@@frankpeck1448I had my only kid at 49 and am 52 now. The idea of not making it to his college graduation terrifies me. This is not how I planned it, it’s just how it happened. Also, 50+ dads have it WAY harder due to the lack of raw energy/stamina; I already lost a job because I couldn’t handle the continuous sleep disturbances and the other demands along with a demanding fulltime job.
Have your own kid(s) younger but be ready for tremendous sacrifice, no joke.
Everyone comes to this world with their own fate and has a unique life path! Young people die, kids raised by parents turn out to be losers! Only one lesson is enough for the kid and thats, "never give up on following your heart and always walk the right path". @@frankpeck1448
This was very insightful! Thank you for taking the time to give some perspective on the profession.
As a 68 year old man I found your story interesting and heartening as well in that I have had running conversations with many younger woman and none of them have thought me a creep. For this I am truly thankful.
THEY WERE LYING FOOL
@@waynereid9471🤣
@@waynereid9471He's not a creep. ALL men, no matter what age, desire to have a woman in their 20s. If that wasn't the case, why are Playboy models 18-24 years old?
@@waynereid9471Wait. Someone got lied to in a strip club?!! No WAY!
@@waynereid9471 nah. I told plenty of creeps they were creeps. Or let the bouncer make my feelings clear. Or just stood up and walked off to talk to a gentleman. It's not like other service jobs where the customer is always right, and you have to placate them. If they're outtaline, you can let them know. Other jobs you get fired for telling a customer to fff off 😂
What a wonderful account of life so beautifully told. Thank you so much for such perspective!
4 and a half years ago when i was 61 i met a stripper who was 22. We hit it off immediately. We had 22 lap dances that night and enjoyed each other very much. We made plans to meet away from the club. I'm still with her today. Unlike alot of guys i don't have any ex-wives or children. I have never had a long term relationship in my life. This Christmas will mark 5 years. Of course i help her with money from time to time, but she makes me very happy just being around her. At this point in my life i'm just so happy to have someone to share it with.
Damn, how much did 22 lap dances cost you?
@@UA-camr-tj9oz $660. It was well worth it. Says she wants to marry me.
@@UA-camr-tj9oz $660. It was well worth it. Says she wants to marry me.
22 dances cost me $660. Well worth it!
Charlie Sheen paid a little more but said it was worth it too.
I'm 71 never been in a strip club ,don't like bars. This was very interesting listening to your stories. Thanks
You’re not missing much. I’ve been to a few for bachelor parties. Very, very weird vibe. It’s all about money. I do not recommend to anyone.
Oh you missed out on a lot of good things. Put on your best porn that’s what you missed while your wife was taking you to the cleaners for 50 years hope she at least gave you a cardboard box
Fascinating content and so reality based! So clear and true! Thank You Miss for your recollections. The story of an isolated life with an oldster reveals how lonely many old men can be. There are many more where he comes from in a society such as ours.
Great information and stories! Every club has it's own vibe and can change just because of the customers. On of the best kept secrets it's many have fantastic food at a very reasonable price. Several times I stopped by for lunch and ended up closing the place! If the ladies are having fun then normally the guys are. I love the scenery, the music, the lights and being able to flirt like crazy without any commitments of any kind. Good for the dancers and good for the customers.
It's like hearing a nurse complaining for interacting with ill people
I think anyone should be allowed to speak disparagingly about rude people they had to interact with at their workplace. Nurses, strippers, retail workers… we’re all human and we all deserve to be treated with basic human decency. Mind-blowing, I know, but there you have it.
@@oakleavesandonions771 You were a professional cock-tease and you didn't give basic human decency to the guy who made an offer, however crap it was. You told him you'd think about it which was a bare-faced lie.
You are just delightful, and a great story teller. ❤
Hey, a girl called me "not innately gross" today! Awesome!
🤣🤣🤣Must have made your day.
Hell yeah! Better than I got today.
It's a start.
Damn bro, you are WINNING!
ha ha
LOL
I date a stripper once. I was 43 and she was 28. She was the sweetest and most down to earth girl I was ever in a reationship with. That was 25 years ago and I still think of her fondly.
why didnt it work out?
@@bevs9995 That's almost besides the point. What matters most are the memories of the people you loved, becomes some day all relationships end, be it one person moves on or dies. All that are left are recollections of the dreams we had.
@@bevs9995 His wife couldn't learn to get along with her. **cough**
@@bevs9995 It didn't work out because he ran out of money for tips4tits!!!
@@bevs9995 He ran out of one dollar bills.
At the age of 50, I was teaching high school freshmen. During the month of February, 4 girls asked me to be their Valentine. (3 of them were actually pretty) One of them gave me a paper flower she made in Art Class. A 5th girl called me, "My sexy-@$$ teacher", told me that she liked me, and said she wanted to go on a date with me.
I'm not sure if they were all just joking, but it was actually congruent with something I once read - that as long as a man has authority, he doesn't need to be good-looking - to attract females.
Unprofessional creep.
A man with a beautiful car and a large bank account is like the equivalent of a gorgeous woman. A man with no money and no car is like the equivalent of a very ugly woman.
I was the boss of a good many high school girls at my first job, and even though I was only 1-3 years their senior, they like that authority all right. You have some pretty good stories there, but if I had to sum up the girls, I would say for those that showed any interest, on the whole they REALLY showed interest. You know, like leaning their breast into your body, or running their hands all over you. Coincidentally enough, one of them, one of my worst handy girls, was supposedly a stripper while in high school. If she wasn't, she sure seemed the type.
My worst case was a girl that closed with me for only one night, as I was supposed to give her a refresher course. Oh boy, did she want to freshen up! I would say she had to be in the top 5 of looks I've seen in my whole life, even in that lousy uniform. What was her trick? You know, sometimes I think girls make a pact with the devil or something, and none of their tricks work, so the next girl in line tries a new trick, but she pulled one surely from the depths of hell.
Consider, for example, my senior year in high school, one of the cheerleaders sat behind me and first day started groping my shoulders, neck and arms. Weird huh? I was so damn puzzled, what the hell brought that on (emphasis on hell)? To this day I'm not sure. She seemed to do it at first to make a football player that sat to our right jealous, but he and I talked about it, and then accused her of it, and as far as I recall, never admitted she did it for that reason, but we all laughed our heads off about it (I actually saw her taunting him once when she was doing it🤣). She kept that crap up ALL YEAR anyway, and the teacher completely ignored it. She was a pretty nice girl, and we got to talking but she never seemed like she wanted me as a BF really. So prepare yourself, like I said, this will get worse, when, the one-night girl story will unfold below....
Yes, a cheerleader groping me all year, what could be worse? Why of course, doing the opposite, but instead, always, and I mean always, she was standing literally one inch from me at all times, but never touched me. At first, I thought it was just the latina way, but I never met a latina, and I had known a few, that ever did anything like that, even if they may be more outward. But as the night dragged on, she wasn't letting up and I had to pray through two severe temptations I had, to jump her bones in some way.
I finally started facing reality, she wanted it, and she wanted it BAD. One of the things that aided me not giving in, was the fact I was told she had a fiancé in the army overseas and no way I want to mess with somebody else's girl. When we closed, we were entirely alone, and there she was an inch away like always, and then I thought of a diversion to keep us both busy beyond what we had to normally do. Hilariously, this resulted in the cops coming by, while we hid underneath some tables (place was locked up) and still laying on the floor, she was still an inch away. Wow, that's dedication🤣. She was a good worker, but in more ways than one. I'll tell you, even to this day I've never met a temptation so bad than that standing that close and not touching; it's really wicked. I had to literally back away from her before I moved, for fear I would knock her down. I just never thought of asking her to back away, I guess because I just thought it was a latina thing for quite a while, and when it obviously wasn't, well I let it go on for too long to stop it, in a sense. I'm just glad she was there for only one night, because I certainly couldn't let that continue. This was so strange and completely out of the blue, I have to wonder if somebody hated my guts and this was all a setup to fire me. This is doubly so when you consider our franchise for the most part frowned on the opposite sexes closing together (getting out around midnight or even as late as 3AM). I sure wouldn't have minded closing with my GF, but she never closed anyway and did shorter part-time stints.
Why did I click on this ... ?
morbid curiosity? Same😂
Seriously I had the same thought. This is stupid.
We all got played. She seems to be good at it as most strippers are. She’s lying through her teeth though. I’m sure she accepted plenty of “Big Daddy” offers over her long tenure as a sex worker. The gig is up, fellas. She’s no different than the others like she’s trying to portray to UA-cam for clicks. Pathetic. 🤣
Because you are an old guy. She explains why.
I am an older guy who has a love for all beautiful things. Like nature and all this world has to offer. Women are one my favorite things to visually cherish. And the age doesn't matter. Women are just so lovely. They are beautiful flowers that walk and talk.
weirdo.
Age DOES matter, and no they are not all flowers
That will take half your stuff and leave you for some other guy and you have to pay her every month and there is nothing you can do about it if they decide to to that to you.
Damn God buddy what women are you talking to; none. Lol...naw, I hear ya, just listening to her she is captivating. Shes a doll baby.. Not that she's the sexiest thing alive by far...only see her face. I can definitely see myself spooning with her. Like so many other things in this universe....they may have a dark side😮😮...and feelings may change...or just be aware.. approach with caution..
Weirdo pervert...
That’s the best story I’ve ever heard ❤❤❤
Thank you very much for making my day sweetheart 🥂
Have a great day ahead.
Thank you for your understanding of us older guys. I’ve always enjoyed my conversations with professional dancers.
lol....She "understands" you because you have MONEY... younger guys dont have money and are always broke
Their just taking your money.
😂😂😂😂😂
🤦🏾♂️
You have an awesome insight. My son's mother (R.I.P) was a stripper for a few years when he was a child. I remember some of the stories and scares that she had working there. I actually bought her a small pistol after someone tried to get into her car at a stoplight. She would tell me stories of some of the nicest men she met and some of the worst people you could meet. As I get older, I realize that this thing called life is a never ending stream of meeting strangers. Some of them become friends and loves, and some of them become warnings. Sadly, a lot of them become forgotten memories never to be seen again. Like the video, thanks for sharing.
I HATE your response!... I!..wanted to post a COOL observation like this!😫............basterd!......three years late.....😏
You said it OakLeavesAndOnions. Last time I was in a strip club as in 1986. My present sweetheart, she's a couple years older than me, I'm 66 and well heeled. I need to curl up with a lady atleast 1/2 my age because I feel 25. Thought, what's a man my age have that a young woman would want but my money. Thanks for your video.
"As I get older ..." Nicely written!
I’m an older guy, can’t say I’ve had much luck with the ladies, because when I was in school I was too interested in my education, when I graduated, I went pretty much straight to Alberta where I was a drunk so too interested in my next drink, then I was involved in terrible road accident, became Brain-Injured so here I am 28 years later, but I did have sex with a prostitute while I was in my drunk phase
Very true
Your observations are really so true!
What a wonderful, intelligent, insightful and totally honest sharing. Thank you.
Great stories. You do an excellent job of storytelling.
When ever I have the chance I tell the dancers thank goodness for you ladies.
It takes a certain type of person to do what you do.
You give men a certain type of happiness and attention that we long for.
It can’t be an easy job.
You ladies are awesome !
these old man stories sound like the opening scene of a horror movie.
the first time i was called "daddy" it was by a girl 2 years older than me.
i explained to her how paternity worked.
"just like how a father would"
Pfffffffff
?????
I was not expecting such an intelligent and well spoken person! Very articulate.
Great video very insightful
Interesting. Well said. More stories pls.
This video is really entertaining, and actually hilarious. Thanks so much for sharing this. Very colloquial and respectful way of relating the tale.
I WILL GIVE YOU A TALE....
Not sure why this showed up in my algorithm but it was an excellent watch. Thank you, and make sure you call me big daddy 😂
Very interesting, thanks for this!
I used to be a regular at the strip club. In my youth, I had this naïve view that I was gonna hook up with a stripper. After becoming a cab driver and hearing these woman's drama, I realized I didn't want a stripper. lol 20 years later, I don't even go to strip clubs anymore.
The worst thing about all these stories...the existence of the SIMPs that she describes. GUYs...get a grip on yourselves. The cooter is NOT all that. Work on yourselves.
Wow! I just love the way you told the story. Awesome.
You are very good at presenting ideas. Thank you!
OnlyFans Creator: "All men are trash"
Modern Stripper: "Most men are kinda cool"
As an older guy (65) I find that dancers usually pay more attention to older guys. One reason is that typically older guys have more resources to play with i.e. we got more money. I usually tip $5's. Also, older guys usually don't think that they are going to "get lucky" with a stripper. Young, immature guys think "Oh yeah, she wants me!!" LOL! Lastly, older guys aren't going to become obsessed with a particular dancer. And older guys are comfortable in their own skin. At least, this has been my experience.
Sometimes they're right...although I watched an old guy go down on a stripper right at the main stage once so really anyone can get lucky with the right girl. Looked like he was eating dinner...
@@skoparweaver7692 Yes, I got lucky with a stripper once but not IN the club. After tipping a sweet lady $5's all night she asked if I wanted a private dance. Yup. During the dance she commented "You're not a regular are you." Nope. "You travelling on business?" Yup. "Staying nearby?" Yup. "You alone?" Yup. "Want some company later?" Yup. "Great! But I'll have to give the babysitter $300." No problem. 👍 I gave her my number and after the club closed she called my room and came over. We had a great time. Now, I don't drink and that might of had something to do with it as I was probably the only sober guy in the club at the time. Also, it pays to be generous. 😁
@@skoparweaver7692 I got lucky in a strip club once. Well, not actually IN the club but after. I always tip $5's. Let's the ladies know who has the money. As I mentioned I'm 65 and have a bit more funds usually than younger guys. A sweet young lady must have noticed and asked if I wanted a private dance. Yup. During the dance she commented "You're not a regular are you?" Nope. "Travelling on business?" Yup. "Staying in a hotel locally?" Yup. "You alone?" Yup. "Want some company later?" Yup. Then she said "Sounds good but the babysitter will need $300." No problemo. So I gave her my hotel and room number and she called after the club closed. We met and had a great time. Now, I don't drink so it might have helped that I was probably the only sober guy in the club but I don't know. Felt like I was in Vegas.
@@skoparweaver7692 The entree was bearded clam I presume?
"we got more money. I usually tip $5's" what an oxymoron lol
GREAT STORY😊. THNX 4 SHARING. I found it very entertaining getting a glimpse into the REALITY of a Dancers Job/life in that capacity.
By accident ive clicked on this video.. and damn this was so interesting. You are a very goot storyteller too. Thank you for sharing this story !
"laughing at your expense",that sums up the stripper- clientele relationship for men of all ages.
They loathe men, but love the mans money.😂
Often the case, but not always.
Laughing and taking the money 😀
Really stupid game.
I've had some long-term relationships with some of these girls.
they are close to the bottom of the barrel
Thank you for sharing this. I'll never set foot in another one of those places again.
This video makes me want to go back to a strip club.... just for the conversation and the psychological aspect of it. lol I'm 53 now, last time I've been I was 39. One of the dancers loved how easy I was to talk to so much, I ended up taking her out on a date. It was actually really nice to have a woman appreciate a simple dinner at Applebees(that was her choice lol), because of course, her ex-bf/boyfriend never took her anywhere.
Did you get any???
Simp
@@mistersniffer6838 That was not my intention.... but yes I did! lol
@@BryanKalentek Uhm, yes, we go to the strip club to see pssy so we can decide on the color were gonna paint the living room?????? Glad you figured out what a nudy bar is for!
Why don’t you just pornhub it like a normal guy.
Thanks for your honesty.
Younger men usually don't have a lot of disposable income. This isn't an insult because like you mentioned, younger men are just getting started and don't have the experience necessary to properly manage money.
...nor do they have the experience to properly take care of any offspring they create while spreading their seed. #thetruthhurts
Properly manage their money lmfao. This is coming from a Guinea, who pi$$'es his money away on strippers.
It's 2024 champ, many young women outearning young men, and once he does have money he's usually considered "too old".
@@coiledsteel8836 A 21 year old with a 20 in his pocket has the same buying power as a 50 year old with a 20 in his pocket. Besides, so long as the cash is flowing, strippers really don't care about age.
I heard this one woman who joined a sugar daddy club. The only reason she joined was because all the guys that she dated were always broke. She went where the money was.
Interesting insigt into psycological/sociological dynamics of human interactions with personal anecdotes. You're good at keeping the listener interested.
Very interesting. Never heard of such an experience from a girl working at a strip club. Actually, I had never been to a strip club so I had no idea except what we see in movies etc. Glad I watched your video.
This video is very interesting, intelligent and funny at the same time. Thank you very much for sharing your life experiences as a exotic dancer. Love your channel and other videos that you did. You are the kind of person that I'd love to sit and talk a lot for hours. Smart, intelligent and beautiful. Thank you, I'm a brazilian man.
I'm getting ready for my shift tomorrow and practicing my makeup and stuff and am listening to this and just cackling 🤣 lmao the dry/ polite -matter of- factly humor just kills me! Makes me feel like my experience is understood hahaha 💙
I am an old guy who loves strip clubs. Thanks for the post.
ewwwwwww
Loved your points made and was nice to hear. The old guys seem to take a beating by younger guys. Nice to hear your perspective!
Nice observations. I'm an older man now (67), but when I was younger, I never thought of myself as handsome. I spent a lot of time in strip clubs. I've always been interested in people. Other men in the clubs would ask me why so many dancers would spend so much time with me when I wasn't spending more than they were. The secret is that I would ask the dancers questions about themselves. Some dancers weren't interested in that, they were only interested in making money and partying, but those weren't the women I was interested in. I quickly developed a rapport with many dancers, and they would consider me a person they could take a break with, just to mentally recuperate. I would usually offer to buy them a drink, but that wasn't why they came over to talk to me.
My success with women outside of strip clubs I attributed mostly to my ability to make women laugh.
I still have friends today who I met as dancers in strip clubs many years ago.
Your story about once-in-a-lifetime opportunities is something I heard many times from many dancers. I only know one woman who went for it, and she was back dancing a month later.
They would all rather not work there doing that. But no other job offers the kind of $$ that it does.
I'm also an older guy 66, and I spent my whole life dating strippers and
married 2 of them. They were very goodlooking brunettes, but
we're very promiscuous.
They loved black guys, and I didn't mind at first,
but it really got out of hand.
Both of them got viscious in
divorce court.
They put me through hell.
I went to prison, convicted of being a child
molester, because she
took videos of
her son kissing
my feet while she gave me head. She brought him up
gay and she charged guys money to have sex with him.
I never did! She
had videos of him doing that
and she belonged in
prison, not me.
I had to move out of state and change my
identity. She took me back
and gave me a weekly allowance. I been told I'll be
dead if I ever rat her and her black crack dealer boyfriend ever rat them out.
Now I have a choice of 3 options, accept my new life as a homosexual slave, go the rest of my life
homeless and broke, or spend the rest of my life in prison!! Oh well, my destiny has will be chosen
on April 6, the day of my gay rebirth back in 2014.
@srellison561 I totally had recuperation customers! Just chill guys who could hold a decent conversation, have a laugh. I haven't stayed in touch with any since I quit dancing, but I do think fondly of them and wonder how they're doing 😊
Say what you will about strippers, but they completely understand the male brain and how to utilize it to their advantage. This one is spot on about the window of beauty, and it is the 1st time I've ever heard a women talk about it.
Bad-girls appreciate Nice-Guys
i see though this was not born a female.@@perfectsplit5515
@@perfectsplit5515
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Take advantage of what you've got while you have it. That window is fleeting.
Looks like i was off.
You certainly know how to read people. Great video. Thank you.
Very intelligent and interesting !
I lived in a town in CT and right across the border was a small Massachusetts town - I went to Dallas TX and met a dancer and we chatted for a long time - turns out she was from the small Massachusetts town next to mine - we knew a lot of the same people!
Weird - I travelled to Dallas TX to meet a girl that lived 5 minutes from the house I grew up in.
Life is so wild!
Really
Entertaining
Noble
Togetherness
„…different wheat field…“ 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for answering my questions
Strip joints are dangerous places. I always approached them with caution. Years ago I was talking to a stripper on stage who had a big cast on her arm. I asked her: "What happened to you?" She replied, "I was doing a handstand and a guy grabbed me and I fell and broke my arm." I then asked her, "What happened to that guy?" She then replied in a voice as cold as ice, "The bouncer beat the hell out of him." If you get drunk and lose control at a strip club bad things can happen to you.
I've been hundreds of times over the years and the atmosphere is way safer than a regular nightclub. I've seen plenty of fights in nightclubs and beat up a dude on one occasion. At the strip club the chances of seeing somebody get a beating is way lower.
I'm an old guy. I haven't been to a strip club in 25 years or so. Having beautiful daughters kind of ruined it for me. I cannot disassociate myself from my actual person and pretending to be a "regular stranger".
*sigh* I wish I could have had beautiful daughters because this means I could have slept with a *still young beautiful woman and not only leftovers and scraps or prostitute/mail order bride*.
Yep. Same.
Your in luck, I am willing to let you know how well they do on stage!!
Just wait until they get their onlyfans page
Agreed, strip clubs were never really my thing, and I've somehow always been attracted to women slightly older than me even at a young age. But when I met my current g/f of 6 years, her twin daughters were 17 (yes I said twins- fit division 2 volley ball players at that) and after getting to the know them over the last 6 years, my brain just won't let go there. Even though they are not my biological daughters, I lost the ability to look at anyone even closer to their age and think anything remotely inappropriate.
Absolutely right on track. Tthanks for your confidence you inspired to me 👍👍👍❤️🇨🇦
You are an awesome communicator and storyteller.. ❤
I too was an apprentice Ironworker (Local #167) in the early 1980's, and after a particularly upsetting breakup with a close girlfriend, my classmates took me to a local strip club called Tiffany's. Naturally, I immediately fell for one of the younger dancers (I was only 24 myself) and I spent a good chunk of many paychecks on her over the next few months. Looking back, it was the best psychotherapy I could have spent the money on, and helped me move on to another girlfriend that I eventually married.
sin good sure Jesus you tell savoir and city in David a
@@benmcfarren6337 English, please. Or at least accepted syntax.
lol simp
It's ironic isn't it, sometimes it's not all about sex, us guys just want to have a pleasant non-judgmental conversation with a lady once in a while. Get things off our chests, and yes a bit of ego-stroking is also nice ( how many of us get compliments from our other halves), and even perhaps some good real-world advice.
Prob cheaper than a therapist too 🤣🤣
@@benmcfarren6337 Sin is a religious term for breaching religious rules. It has no relevance to immorality which only relates to what harms others. There was no harm in the story you responded to.
Ladies, if you tell a guy, "Let me think about it", they _will_ expect you to give them an answer at some point.
Yeah. I was way too young and inexperienced to know that at the time. Definitely a good PSA for all the gals out there.
Very interesting to hear that perspective.
Smart lady! I was younger.. weren't we all. I was shy. I didn't go to a club to degrade women..but to watch their moves athleticism..grace...put me under your spell. Teach me to be appreciative. I think my experiences made me a better person to be with a woman...I think it's great a woman has the confidence or need...to share her beauty and confidence with a man. I haven't been back in 20 years...I have my memories. Thanks for helping us guys..it would of been great to personally know some of the women...but you only have a few moments alone w a fantasy.
Nice stories my dear! My Fiancé is 20 years younger than me and calls me Daddy. I love that shit!! LOL
Granny needs some loving too. Let's not be selfish
100 percent HONEST!! Love it!! Xx
I enjoyed that…Hilarious!
The once in a lifetime opportunity wasn't so once in a lifetime lol
When I was in my 30s. I had friends that always wanted to go the strip clubs. Most girls are just trying to make a buck and don’t care about the men there. I was in Canada at a club with friends and one girl kept bugging me for a private dance. I cordially declined her several times. She wasn’t attractive to me. Later that night a girl that I found very attractive approached me for a dance and I went back with her and enjoyed the time with her. When I came out the first girl went off on me and had the bouncer kick me out. These club never interested me at all as I am very happy with my wife. I have a few horror stories from few clubs in NYC. Complete rip offs just to get in the door was $$$. To each their own!
it's a common occurrence to be kicked out by the bouncer if you decline one woman for another and the first woman finds out. lol
I used to go to Baby dolls in Euless Texas when I was 15. I could drink and party.
I'd like to hear them. It would be interesting from a guys point of view going to a club.
You’re very insightful.
"Big Daddy!" I busted out laughing at that part of the video. How you did not laugh in front of the customer is beyond me.
Lots of self control lol
Look at all the articulate old guys joining in to display us a dose of their good seasoning, lol. This was an interesting contrast of male and female attraction points, and the stories are very real sounding.
You've kept your sense of humor even though this industry can be nasty. It's nice to see. Yes, you're correct.......I'm an older gent and my interactive skills are definitely better now than in my 20's.
It’s fun. One of my best friends is an older gentleman. Not only is he wise, he’s got a hilarious sense of humor. :)
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Awesome stories ❤❤😂
Good insights.
I couldn't imagine going to a strip club to talk.. In younger years my friends and I went to 'boys night out' to have some good clean fun at the strip clubs and get sh!t faced
We had lots of conversations with strippers that were done w/ the act and just wanted to sit and have a beer with us.. most were really easy to get along with.
Interesting stories and well told. Kudos to your husband, and hope you both are still happy and healthy. It's interesting how society sometimes view people, things, etc. Age differences, what you do for a living, where you come from. I never thought anymore or any less of the girls I met in strip clubs, in the club they dealt their hand of the game they played. I myself didn't make silly conversation asking silly questions, I let the conversation flow and be as normal as possible. Of course you realize where you're at, and the girls need to make money. House cover, time talking to a customer, how many dances they need to have in certain areas. I never took it seriously, had fun in and outside of the clubs with acquaintances from the clubs, and let it happen with the attractions that humans have for one another at certain moments. You can't really look for a lot in these places, but can certainly find almost every kind. We all know crazy things happen, but some of the offers to some of the girls are in another stratosphere. Remember, and I believe me, age is a number. Keep your mind and body active, positive thoughts in the most challenging times, and make someone smile and laugh.
You are one sharp cookie! Great insight, great personality!
Nice video ❤ interesting💖
I was going to pass over this. But refreshing to hear your life experiences on this.
The last time I was at a strip club was to watch a Mike Tyson fight on the big screen. I ordered some hot wings and a few beers. One of the dancers asked me if I'd like some company? I said no thanks I'm good. She said it's free. So she sat on my my lap and ate all of my hot wings while we were talking over the next 15-20 minutes lol. She must have been hungry.
lol Dude, a great way to attract a lot of dancers to hang out with you is to have some food handy. Those pole dance moves burn a lot of calories, and we do a lot of them on any given night. I remember having moments with food that bordered on religious experiences lol
I looked down at my plate and said what the hell? I was hungry to lol. Just had to order another plate. That was 28 years ago in Austin Texas.
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I thoroughly loved your take on older guys! I'm 66 & have been in clubs a good bit. Men can age well & also can have the life experience to appreciate the subtleties of women & it can be very nice. Thanks for pointing out something that can be overlooked. Dancers & older men can have a great time! -Dan, a new fan
THAT !!! Was a fascinating story! Really!
obviously she really liked the homicidal criminal
I was waiting for one of them to be like "Deal of a lifetime ... Bitcoin!"
You articulated that very well...makes absolute sense...
Great stories. I fields ya!
Beautiful, articulate, smart, sympathetic. I hate strip clubs, but you, I could see chilling with you and throwing money at you. :D
In younger men, there seems to be a certain hurried rush to get in and get off. In older men, there's definitely a sense of relaxation. We're in no rush.
Great commentary from a wise and experienced lady. She has been very observant with the men she has met of various ages. She proves that a gentlemen can be 21 or 65. Anyone who has been to a strip club or plans to go should listen to this video. Being an older man I can say there are dancers who can and cannot carry a decent conversation.
I feel for anyone who thinks they have to go to a strip club for human connection or female company. It's strictly business there. Sure, the women who work there might be able to tolerate some guys who give them money a little more than some others, but so what? I am not knocking the women who work as strippers either. Many come from bad backgrounds and are just doing what they have to do. Plus the money is a hell of a lot better than fast food. Having said that, this lady is a very good storyteller and I wish her luck on her channel.
It sounds like the first two guys with a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity thought they were offering you a way out of a shameful and degrading lifestyle, like they were rescuing you from something you felt trapped by. So interesting! Thanks for sharing.
they were obviously clueless.
@@sal78salnormal well-adjusted women don't become strippers. It's not hard to imagine some of them being stuck in that lifestyle with few options.
@derek96720 They don't want to be rescued. They don't feel trapped. She knows she has a long list of guys that "will take care of her" she has a life outside that club. She might be married if not she probably has a boyfriend or 2 she lives with or just has a lot a boyfriends.
If you meet her in the club. The chance of her dating you for anything other than money (no future) are probably zero. That makes you a lucky guy. There are so many things people can do for employment now.
She's got options. If you date a stripper She is gonna want you to treat here Like a sunday school girl. And that's how she'll act because she'll have her stripper life. You won't be a part of. Where everybody treats Her like a stripper. And where she is. She's never gonna be the sexy slut for you. Maybe once. She's gonna be out there doing it every night for strangers. She won't you to treat her differences though. Trust me.
Yes. And a lot of men cannot fathom that a woman has her own life: Goals, friends, family, hobbies, interests. No, she is just dreaming of you giving her the chance to be locked in your house, be your sexslave and maid .
yeah, she's not telling you the whole story