Their marriage is giving business, she must have a next man on the side. If Rasheeda put the same energy into God the way she does for Kirk? She’d be better off alone.
That's why these situations last that long in the first place: because the women accept anything. Go cheat on a man and see if most men would forgive you! 🤣
I have to say this. Rasheeda keeps saying they’ve done their lives together. Rasheeda was 17 when they met and Kirk was in his 30s. Kirk had lived plenty of life and now he’s got the second half of his life with her where she has had her WHOLE LIFE with him. That’s it.
Now I know why it's hard for her to let that shit go. It's not an excuse for her enabling his behavior at all but she probably feels like she cannot find someone else or do better. Or even worse...she doesn't want to be alone.
Forgiveness isn’t allowing the same thing to harm you multiple times…this unfortunately is tolerance and I hate this so much for her and women who feel like forgiveness means continuing to endure pain
This is just stupidity. And I apologize for being so brash but common sense has to come into play at some point. At this point it's not forgiveness it's just settling and accepting because he does what he wants
You know what I just thought of tho … I’ve never heard anyone say “I regret divorcing, or I regret breaking up”… I’ve only heard “I regret not doing it sooner or I shoulda left”…
Exactly, she's going to resent and turn bitter if she doesn't get ahead of this thing. When Kirk said she doesn't have to worry about him messing up again, I'm sure he meant getting caught lol. Come on.
I ain't gone lie. I sometimes regret not holding on a little longer. I wish I would have left on my own not because everyone else thought I should. Now I'll always wonder what if. However my child's father NEVER put me through no shit like Kirk do Rasheeda.
I’ve heard several people say they regret it. A lady made a whole Tik Tok about divorcing her husband and how she regrets it… the truth of the matter is negative news travels faster. And it also gets AIRED on TV.
She call it forgiveness and I call it abuse that you are allowing because you STAY🤔 If you cheated on HIM, the forgiveness is out the window along with the whole 25 years, and he will live his best life in the public eye for you to see, just like Safari.
But all radsheeda does is complain about him cheating and getting other women pregnant and lying. That’s all she does everybody including radsheeda is tired of this man lying and cheating.
I hate when after being disrespected countless times, a person's defense is "we have history", "we shared vows" "why would I throw this all away?"....like HELLO your husband/wife didn't consider those things! Address that fact with them.
Being married for 25 years dont mean shit when its easily tossed aside for side chicks, outside kids and the circus it comes with a man who loves you would have clearly seen that yh im hurting this woman but to each its own
@@believer1715 25 years is just a number and it’s not a big deal when your spouse has cheated on you only God knows how many times and then gets a DNA test for the child you and your wife has together and then have the nerve enough to have a child on the outside of their marriage. Please. 🤦🏽♀️
I just got this Kimberly Pate aka K Michelle 😢 she laughed and mocked her pain now I don't wish karma on anyone but as a woman ♀️ she didn't have to shame her and like that. Now it's her own husband that has groomed her for 25 years and shaking my head she's giving him her whole adult life success and blessings trust loyalty and honesty but ironically he's shaming her ain't that a kick in the damn head frowning he had a whole mistress and baby on rasheeda and has been making a fool out of her for years My Hope is that looking at all it is that you know the irony was K Michelle was telling the truth come to find out her ex was a woman beater just like her husband is a cheater but you know I'm saying she want people to have sympathy for her so sometimes we got to look back and reflect on how we move in life even if you didn't agree with K Michelle or whatever the case may be you should have went about it that way hell no and I just hope that rasheeda gets the strength and courage to get the hell on and you know take her son and just leaveshe deserves a lot more than she gives herself credit for and I'm not even a rasheeda person but no one deserves this not even her 😌
It's not just that he cheated but brought an innocent child into it and now she has to deal with the child's mother for the next 20 years. Cheating is one thing, but seeing evidence of your cheating day in and day out?
That isn't totally what she is saying. There are hardships in every relationship. You DO have to forgive, meet in the middle, accept things of the other person, etc to make it last and work. Health can bring on problems just as heartbreaking as heartbreaking. Family issues/having no kids can do that. Economic issues can do that. Its all kinds of things. Esp now a days.
Rasheeda keeps forgiving this man. He clearly doesn't want to be married to her anymore. She should have left after the hot tub incident. Even if not that, after the Jasmine drama.
People forget to mention when bringing up the hot tub that she was in her third trimester pregnant with the child he wanted to abort. Let’s not ever forget he cheated while she was pregnant and turned around and had a baby on her. He knows she will stay, so he keeps pushing his luck.
11/4/24 We’ve all either heard or used the old saying “when a person shows you who they are believe them” yet some people would rather remain in what may be viewed as a toxic trauma bonded relationship. We also should realize that just because you establish wealth together this is why we have lawyers / mediators who can help split assets between a couple. Everyone has a choice to do what they want within their marriage /relationship. You have to decide if their good outweighs their bad? What if he has another outside child? What if he brings you an incurable STD? They say warning comes before destruction. A story aired years ago on Oprah where a married man had given his wife HIV/AIDS because he had been sleeping with men. No amounts of sorries will cure that.🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Some people would rather be able to say they’re in a relationship/marriage than to be alone. I pray she is able to do what’s best overall for her mental and emotional wellbeing.🙏🏾
I think she made part of her personality wrapped around being a wife, being married for 20 sum years, etc so that's why she'll never leave. It's not black and white but I think part of the problem is she's too prideful to call it quits. Like she's on a streak on Duolingo and constantly trying to do everything she can to keep that streak
A lot of women do. Just like Cynthia G say. Black women wear marriage as a badge of honor. Meanwhile other women love their husbands but what they build for themselves is their badge.
First, I get it. The life you created to throw it all away is HARD AF. But its the over and over again with Kirk that gets me. Kirk knows that she will never do it and that's why he continues to get HALL PASSES.
For real? Rasheeda is just one of the women that's making men everywhere think we gone stay thru they bs 💔 it's so sad cause I ain't the one or the two or the rasheeda tf SMH🤦🏾♀️
I used to say the same thing. I've modified it a little bit for myself. I can forgive a person once (depending on the circumstance), but never more than that. Only if we've invested a significant amount of time together is that option available. Ultimately, cheating is a choice. As long as it's not premeditated or a full-out fling/affair, I can overlook the original offense.
I agree, cheating is not forgivable. Idc about the reason or situation, there's no excuse and would be the end of our relationship, marriage. Then to have a child with another person bc they cheated, no way I'd stay.
Ain’t no amount of money there is in this world that I would stay in a marriage because I’m scared to lose some money or have to pay half to whoever. Take everything from me and I’ll still come back 10 fold! 🙏🏼👏🏼 Peace has no price!
What irritates me about Rasheeda the most because if you gonna stay and be dumb at this point, we don’t even care but wat irritates me the most is how every time this happens she she tried to act like it’s the first time he has ever cheated or did something sneaky😂
"When you've been married for going on 25 years and been in a relationship with somebody who you've lived your life with, you got things to think about before you throw everything away..." It seems that Kirk doesn't give a crap about any of those things until after he does some bs! I believe Kirk was definitely trying to and still would mess around with Jasmine if she let him. Also, if the shoe were on the other foot, I think he'd leave Rasheeda in the blink of an eye!
Of course cause remember when he was accusing her of cheating when she was pregnant with their son Carter. He was justifying his cheating with that and he was all over doing single stuff while married and that’s when that hot tub scene happened and her mom burning his ATV and her selling his things in the auction. Ugh 😑 this marriage has more drama and cheating than my high school dating days
Kirk’s mannerisms are “questionable”…I mean has that ever been addressed . And Barack would NEVA with Michelle, so Rasheed’s there’s no comparison Sis😂
Rasheeda i really thought she was better than this how much more can you take mentally emotionally like cmon kirk doesnt respect you yawl gat history thats it .....move along
@@coolstormracismsux3221She deserves what she wants and allows, this is the same woman that loves laughing at others when they’re going through things.
I’m happy that they can sit and talk about it bc nobody truly knows what you’ve been thru in your relationship and what you ve put in to get where you are , a bond that can’t be broken and it’s deeper than what the public sees (we see some of it)I’m rooting for you two
Rasheeda kirk saying he apologize u never have to worry about kirk no more... rasheeda saying ur life so much times & life its not about kirk keeping himself distance kirk has a new child kirk created this new whole new life jasmine & kirk child they created together its about kirk stepping in man up to be that active alive father to the new life not kirk telling rasheeda what she needs to hear from kirk
I’m sorry but my self love, self-respect, dignity, feeling of safety, trust, etc. is worth more than staying in a relationship/ marriage where I’m looking and feeling like Boo Boo the Fool.
Rasheeda YOU STAND UP! Stand up and leave!!! I’m so tired of this. One day Kirk is going to leave because he gave HER all the reasons to leave already.
@@lovebug2253He wants her to be the one that leaves men talk about this all the time doing anything and everything hoping the other person leaves. He doesn’t want to be the one to initiate divorce because he wants to sleep around. Its not logical but men rarely are logical
Rasheeda yeah, you are right, you can't just and leave your marriage but tolerating this man's continuous cheating with no consequences is setting you up for the results you don't want.
Mmmkay.. this storyline should not be a storyline anymore. If Rasheeda doesn't divorce and start a new life I don't wanna hear about the Frosts anymore You cannot act holier than thou and celebrating 20+ years of marriage if it's like that!!!! THIS👏🏻IS 👏🏻TOXIC👏🏻 AF
It’s so sad bc she looks so tired. I completely understand fighting for your marriage bc it’s a commitment but this is becoming toxic. If he’s hurting you, disregarding you, disrespecting you it’s time to pack it up. I’m sorry.
I understand the not being able to let go because of all the history you have and everything you’ve built together, but how many times does that have to happen for you to say enough is enough?
TIME, let’s talk about time, it’s the one thing in life you can’t ever get back, so why waste it on someone who doesn’t deserve you. She needs to learn how to love her self and heal from this foolishness, she has to learn to put herself first and know that she deserves BETTER THAN WHAT HE IS OFFERING.
99% of women have taken a man back after they've been caught cheating!!!! And a good 95% have taken them back after SEVERAL cheating situations!!!! But yet a lot of women are quick to judge Rasheeda. And the ones judging probably haven't been with their man a good year or 2 or really have shit to lose.
Rasheeda can’t be happy .. she just can’t be at this point, no man or woman on this Earth is worth this type of embarrassment for ANY HUMAN BEING my goodness 🫤
His demeanor is soooo different when he’s with Rasheeda vs when he’s around Jasmine. He seems miserable but he’s staying because of their brand 💰as a couple.
Kirk is disgusting, out here just doing whatever with whomever. Having unprotected sex,making babies, having threesomes. He doesn’t care about himself, or Rasheeda. I just hope she’s making him go to the doctor before she sleeps with him again, because what he’s doing is nasty work.
@nune2429 exactly..his karma will come and I hope Rasheeda will not be wrapped up in it..Cause the universe is giving her signs and small warnings to leave this man alone. He will get his Karma..trust they always do.
He's not in it like that. He's listening to her fantasize and he's just going along with it. He smiles around Jasmine 10 times more than he smiles around his own wife. It's not the Wife's fault that he fell out of love or no longer wants to be there or whatever it is. But if she's too scared to let him go she'll never see how good God can bless her. God will replace it with something much better even if it's Kirk renewed 🤗🤗. God bless Rasheeda and I hope that she finds the strength to put herself first.
It hurts me like it happened to me like u have a wonderful wife and u can see the pain she’s taken from him over the years . Many women laugh at people pain I want to hug her literally
Enough of “the kid” bs, Kirk! He is YOUR SON who’ll watch how everything actually happened thanks to this show. Who in the hell is this man Rasheeda is talking about bc her husband ain’t shit. He pretends to make her a priority & show her minimal respect. I’m sick of these women on the show having issues with the baby mamas when their man is the problem. Yes the hell you do need to talk to me one-on-one & have that communication if your husband wants you around my CHILD. Motherhood is motherhood. Period! Kendra & Rasheeda better buck it the hell up. The other women need to have communication with them for the child ONLY. Nobody wants to make Joc or Kirk as theirs romantically. It was just sex anyway!
He always looks sad and depressed when he's around rasheeda but when he's around Jasmine he's all happy and perky. This man is too old for this he got to get his life in order or rasheeda needs to go ahead and leave she should have been left but hey you can't tell nobody about their marriage. This is what I will say because I am a married woman is that I'm old school and I value my marriage and I value everything that goes with a marriage and you are supposed to forgive but I just thank God that I've never been put in a situation like this because I wouldn't know what I would do rasheeda is a strong woman and I wish her nothing but peace of mind,heart, body and soul that woman has been through a lot. My husband is a good man and you will never see me fighting over him because a good man will never put you in a situation like that
It's the "again" in the title 😂 even the video uploader is over Kirk and his three earrings 😂
ATP it’s ten earrings🤣
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@@anonymouslyme7793 literally we pass 3. 😭😭😭💀
I was so weak 😭😂the shade
Amen. It's a hot mess
The person who wrote the caption has had enough of Rasheeda and her forgiveness 😂😂😂😂😂
😂.
😂😂😂😂
Im dying 🤣
Their marriage is giving business, she must have a next man on the side. If Rasheeda put the same energy into God the way she does for Kirk? She’d be better off alone.
I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired, and that's not my husband 🤷🏾♀️
😄 OMG I feel the same way. Im so annoyed with them that Im starting to think that they are picking on us.
😂😂😂😂😂
Omg… I’m sick and tired of Rasheeda of being so gullible WAKE UP RASHEEDA, HE’S STILL CHEATING ON YOU! 🗣️🚫🙄🤦🏽♀️
I’m tired with these people and Im all the way in South Africa. Chile it’s enough already 😂😂😂😂😂
Yall wouldn't even be able to get a top tier man. Your feelings are irrelevant
She always talking about that “ life we built together” lol girl that life built on lies and cheating!
And she the one who built it because what does kirk do
Ain't that much forgiveness in the world! She just doesn't want to start over with anyone else 😂😂😂
Exactly she shud jus say dat
And I do mean no one else
Weak never go change
Shes to pretty and successful for this
She should. She hella pretty she is a go getter and accomplished. She will be ok if she do.
Imagine meeting with the babymomma , you read the receipts of what your man said and still turn around to ask what happen ….Delulu
THIS
This is not forgiving this is tolerating ….
Exactly
She wanna find some way to stay with him it's okay you right sheeda that's your man
Fr
This is enabling
You can tell how much you love yourself by the partner you choose❤ Rasheeda deserves so much BETTER!
Don’t do that lol
@kendyalvarez3559 nothing but facts
Nice …
She doesn't know that
Maybe one day she’ll see it for herself !
THIS TITLE IS MESSY AND TRIFLING BUT I'M HERE FOR IT!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Cuz it's true lmao. he can have sex with another girl in front of her and she still gonna keep him
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LMFAOOOOO FRRRRRRR
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Not trifling it’s the truth🙃
Rasheeda leave us out of this. We don't forgive cheating men at all
Amen and amen
”Take care of the kid" Sir that’s your son no matter how he was made
The fact that he feels a need to downplay that child is crazy. “The kid” omg
😂 that’s crazy that baby innocent should’ve wore a rubber 😢
@@Nello2399shouldn’t of cheated!!
He’s not a man of integrity. That child is nothing but a constant, expensive consequence that he has to “deal with”
@ “deal with” are the exact correct words.
Beyoncé somewhere saying "Why is she mentioning my name? 😒"
😂😂😂😅😅😅
😂😂😂😂😂 😮😮😮😅😅😅😅
Right 😂😂
Kirk sitting there looking like ima do it again. 😂
LITERALLY. What a dog but she loves it.
She’s forgiving him, why wouldn’t he do it again? I don’t blame Kirk at this point I would too.
😂😅
The way I just giggled!!! I felt this in my tailbone
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Ong
as long as she keeps forgiving him, he’s gonna keep cheating 😂
The fact that she think 25 years means anything when he been cheating left and right.🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ Smh.
Exactly no respect for his wife or marriage.
Exactly. Is this a prison sentence? It might as well be. She's serving 25 to life
That's why these situations last that long in the first place: because the women accept anything.
Go cheat on a man and see if most men would forgive you! 🤣
& how do we know she’s been faithful?
@@taneishadaniel2640 she admitted years ago she cheated on him it was early in they relationship though.
I have to say this. Rasheeda keeps saying they’ve done their lives together. Rasheeda was 17 when they met and Kirk was in his 30s. Kirk had lived plenty of life and now he’s got the second half of his life with her where she has had her WHOLE LIFE with him. That’s it.
Now that's deep!😮
SHE NEED TO DIG ON THAT ONE. @@traceyniles8474
Kirk is like 7-8yrs older than Rasheeda
Yea their only 7 years apart so that’s not an excuse
Now I know why it's hard for her to let that shit go. It's not an excuse for her enabling his behavior at all but she probably feels like she cannot find someone else or do better. Or even worse...she doesn't want to be alone.
Forgiveness isn’t allowing the same thing to harm you multiple times…this unfortunately is tolerance and I hate this so much for her and women who feel like forgiveness means continuing to endure pain
Facts
Exactly. You can forgive and still move on. I wish she knew her worth and value. That man is destroying her.
This is just stupidity. And I apologize for being so brash but common sense has to come into play at some point. At this point it's not forgiveness it's just settling and accepting because he does what he wants
@@Heynow-qi4znhe does not love sadly enough be careful whom you sleep with
What happened to ask God? Everyone else doesn't matter.
even the people working at VH1 sick of rasheeda 😂😂😂
You know what I just thought of tho … I’ve never heard anyone say “I regret divorcing, or I regret breaking up”… I’ve only heard “I regret not doing it sooner or I shoulda left”…
Exactly, she's going to resent and turn bitter if she doesn't get ahead of this thing. When Kirk said she doesn't have to worry about him messing up again, I'm sure he meant getting caught lol. Come on.
I ain't gone lie. I sometimes regret not holding on a little longer. I wish I would have left on my own not because everyone else thought I should. Now I'll always wonder what if. However my child's father NEVER put me through no shit like Kirk do Rasheeda.
There are plenty of women that regret it.
@@memew2ods380can’t possibly be that many
I’ve heard several people say they regret it. A lady made a whole Tik Tok about divorcing her husband and how she regrets it… the truth of the matter is negative news travels faster. And it also gets AIRED on TV.
She call it forgiveness and I call it abuse that you are allowing because you STAY🤔
If you cheated on HIM, the forgiveness is out the window along with the whole 25 years, and he will live his best life in the public eye for you to see, just like Safari.
He AGED her soooo much 🥺💔
Yes, she’s dog tired but her pride and foolishness won’t allow her to leave him!
Yes, she looked the oldest I’ve seen her in this clip. 😩
I was thinking the same thing! I know we’re all aging and she is still beautiful but dang.
This has aged him too, he looks like crap.
@@citygirlingrahamyeah he look like what he putting her through.
what's a life? If you dont know your WORTH as a woman. Women stop being afraid to be alone, regardless of the time line.
Yall messy with the title.😂
This man is going to do it again 🤦🏾♀️
This is how society is all about money and status sickness
EXACTLY KIRK IS GOING TO DO IT AGAIN!!!🤨
@ once’s a cheater will always be one
🙄🙄🙄 If you have to tell your husband how to stand up and protect you, he's not a man or your husband 😒😒...... we're tired of both of y'all....😫😫
THIS ☝🏾
Rasheeda finally starting to look aged, he's ruining this women
Yeah but this is what rasheeda wants . This the same chick who didn't believe k michelle.
Facts
Yeah those bags are serious.
@@FreeSpiritInGod Those bags are really showing lately 😂🎒 👜
No, he's not!!! She's ruining herself for allowing this behavior!!!
No matter what others feels it's their marriage. Only their decisions matters.
But all radsheeda does is complain about him cheating and getting other women pregnant and lying. That’s all she does everybody including radsheeda is tired of this man lying and cheating.
Kirk is The Epitome of "OOps I Did It Again"
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lol!! Let’s just call him Britney Spears… or BS because he sure is full of it!
I played with your heart *boomKAT* ❤
😊😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Yoo this the comment
Shit DO NOT just happen when a MF really love you & respect you Rasheeda! Damn dawg!
This is a prime example of not valuing and knowing your worth as a woman, we got to do better!
Man she's trying to hold on to things, but this bottom will fall out. She better get ahead of things or be dragged by them.
Amen, say it again, his ass would have been gone years ago!! Self love, value and worth.
Where are these ladies located🙋🏽♂️😂😂😂
This is an example of not knowing your worth . & openly disrespect . This shouldn’t even be a topic
Rasheeda Comparing Her & Kirk’s Marriage, To Beyoncé & Michelle Obama’s Marriages Is Crazy To Me. 😂😂😂😂😂
She knows she gotta mention BEY 😂
I mean Bey was cheated on and stayed so.... Not sure about the Obama's lol😅
Look, even if Barack was unfaithful...WE DONT KNOW ABOUT IT. Barack not out here embarrasing Michelle. Thats. The. Difference
@@janellesmalls6240 yea, that’s crazy and there’s no comparison at all
All these lighter women getting cheated on. The blk man preference is your protection blk women. Is that Kirk's real hair?
I hate when after being disrespected countless times, a person's defense is "we have history", "we shared vows" "why would I throw this all away?"....like HELLO your husband/wife didn't consider those things! Address that fact with them.
Being married for 25 years dont mean shit when its easily tossed aside for side chicks, outside kids and the circus it comes with a man who loves you would have clearly seen that yh im hurting this woman but to each its own
25 years of marriage is a big deal. No relationship will be perfect. It's all about what one is willing to put up with. Marriage is not for the weak
@@believer1715 25 years is just a number and it’s not a big deal when your spouse has cheated on you only God knows how many times and then gets a DNA test for the child you and your wife has together and then have the nerve enough to have a child on the outside of their marriage. Please. 🤦🏽♀️
I just got this Kimberly Pate aka K Michelle 😢 she laughed and mocked her pain now I don't wish karma on anyone but as a woman ♀️ she didn't have to shame her and like that. Now it's her own husband that has groomed her for 25 years and shaking my head she's giving him her whole adult life success and blessings trust loyalty and honesty but ironically he's shaming her ain't that a kick in the damn head frowning he had a whole mistress and baby on rasheeda and has been making a fool out of her for years My Hope is that looking at all it is that you know the irony was K Michelle was telling the truth come to find out her ex was a woman beater just like her husband is a cheater but you know I'm saying she want people to have sympathy for her so sometimes we got to look back and reflect on how we move in life even if you didn't agree with K Michelle or whatever the case may be you should have went about it that way hell no and I just hope that rasheeda gets the strength and courage to get the hell on and you know take her son and just leaveshe deserves a lot more than she gives herself credit for and I'm not even a rasheeda person but no one deserves this not even her 😌
@@believer1715 Please boff’em weak 🙄
Thank you finally someone said it
It's not just that he cheated but brought an innocent child into it and now she has to deal with the child's mother for the next 20 years. Cheating is one thing, but seeing evidence of your cheating day in and day out?
Not everyone who has been married for over 25 years has been in this predicament 😂😂😂Rasheeda tries to paint this as a normal occurrence
IT IS A Coping Mechanism 😒
Exactly been married for 20 years never had this happen thank God🙏🏽
That isn't totally what she is saying.
There are hardships in every relationship. You DO have to forgive, meet in the middle, accept things of the other person, etc to make it last and work.
Health can bring on problems just as heartbreaking as heartbreaking. Family issues/having no kids can do that.
Economic issues can do that. Its all kinds of things. Esp now a days.
@@marlak4203 HE’S a hazard to her health IJS
@rellie_90 obv he's not ir maybe she has something too. Who knows but she is fine being with him.
Kirk and Rasheeda is the new Stevie and Meme of the show
Rasheeda keeps forgiving this man. He clearly doesn't want to be married to her anymore. She should have left after the hot tub incident. Even if not that, after the Jasmine drama.
I wonder why he don't leave then...
What’s worrying is the times he cheated off screen the ones she don’t know about.
People forget to mention when bringing up the hot tub that she was in her third trimester pregnant with the child he wanted to abort. Let’s not ever forget he cheated while she was pregnant and turned around and had a baby on her. He knows she will stay, so he keeps pushing his luck.
He just doesn’t want her to take her half of everything
@@AayAayRawn I don’t see how she can rest peacefully beside him, with all the stress, and drama he continues to bring to her, that’s insane to me
11/4/24 We’ve all either heard or used the old saying “when a person shows you who they are believe them” yet some people would rather remain in what may be viewed as a toxic trauma bonded relationship. We also should realize that just because you establish wealth together this is why we have lawyers / mediators who can help split assets between a couple. Everyone has a choice to do what they want within their marriage /relationship. You have to decide if their good outweighs their bad? What if he has another outside child? What if he brings you an incurable STD? They say warning comes before destruction. A story aired years ago on Oprah where a married man had given his wife HIV/AIDS because he had been sleeping with men. No amounts of sorries will cure that.🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Some people would rather be able to say they’re in a relationship/marriage than to be alone. I pray she is able to do what’s best overall for her mental and emotional wellbeing.🙏🏾
I think she made part of her personality wrapped around being a wife, being married for 20 sum years, etc so that's why she'll never leave. It's not black and white but I think part of the problem is she's too prideful to call it quits. Like she's on a streak on Duolingo and constantly trying to do everything she can to keep that streak
A lot of women do. Just like Cynthia G say. Black women wear marriage as a badge of honor. Meanwhile other women love their husbands but what they build for themselves is their badge.
Not a streak on Duolingo 💀💀💀
@Kitlena it's the best example I thought of at the time 😂
Funniest shit I ever read! That Duolingo comment took me out 😂😂😂😂
Thats what we do 😢its sad
It’s an intern in the office risking course credit and a check to make the video title THAT MESSY 😅😭🤣
She looks drained… She needs to leave that marriage exactly where it’s at .. in the garbage
She does 🤦
He’s such a narcissist. And she ain’t never leaving him 😂
She's never gonna leave him😅
Never
Exactly
First, I get it. The life you created to throw it all away is HARD AF. But its the over and over again with Kirk that gets me. Kirk knows that she will never do it and that's why he continues to get HALL PASSES.
You gorgeous
Hell atp Kirk TIRED of being forgiven 💀💀💀💀💀
LIKE😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😂😂😂
LMAOOOOOOO this is the one 😂
That man wanna be FREE 😭😭😭😭😭‼️‼️‼️✨✨
I SCREAMED 😂😂
For real? Rasheeda is just one of the women that's making men everywhere think we gone stay thru they bs 💔 it's so sad cause I ain't the one or the two or the rasheeda tf SMH🤦🏾♀️
1:59 sorry but idc howwww long i been with someone the moment you cheat it’s over because clearly those years meant nothing
Exactly
I used to say the same thing. I've modified it a little bit for myself. I can forgive a person once (depending on the circumstance), but never more than that. Only if we've invested a significant amount of time together is that option available. Ultimately, cheating is a choice. As long as it's not premeditated or a full-out fling/affair, I can overlook the original offense.
I agree, cheating is not forgivable. Idc about the reason or situation, there's no excuse and would be the end of our relationship, marriage. Then to have a child with another person bc they cheated, no way I'd stay.
For me too
"Take care of the kid" then turn around and say "my kids " for the rest... like he's so weird 😂😂
1:15 “take care of the kid”… that’s nasty work
🤣😂
I literally in the comments like ain’t no one herd that? He dont care about that child and its so sad
@@SpiritBaeit is sad but jasmine knew he didn’t want that baby but she chose to bring him in the world anyway. It sucks for the baby though
Ain’t no amount of money there is in this world that I would stay in a marriage because I’m scared to lose some money or have to pay half to whoever. Take everything from me and I’ll still come back 10 fold! 🙏🏼👏🏼 Peace has no price!
Kirk looking sassy in the blue suit 😂
😂 Very! 💄
3 earrings
😭😭😭😂😂😂
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Sugarcake vibes 😁
Kirk will Divorce Rasheeda, before she divorces him..he knows she stupid. He doesn't respect her. That's why he continues to embarrass her.
Rasheeda is foolish to keep forgiving a serial cheater. She can do better without kirk!
She’s nothing but a doormat 😂😂😂😂I’m sick 🤢 of her No woman should allow a man to run across her like he’s done to her
Rasheeda look tired. She don’t wanna throw away everything she’s build and created, I get that…but girl, he don’t want it.
What irritates me about Rasheeda the most because if you gonna stay and be dumb at this point, we don’t even care but wat irritates me the most is how every time this happens she she tried to act like it’s the first time he has ever cheated or did something sneaky😂
How can someone this beautiful have such bad and low self esteem? Very sad to watch.
Rasheeda looks soo tired and exhausted!!!
Again Rasheeda have so deeply Father Issues the reason she don't leave Kirk low self-respect.
Bad case of daddy issues
This man is 40 years old if you have to tell him to defend you he is not the right man
Her not saying "What hurt me" again. He's been hurting her her whole life. She's always gonna forgive him AGAIN!!!
She’s been asking him to straighten it out for years and he hasn’t 🙄
"When you've been married for going on 25 years and been in a relationship with somebody who you've lived your life with, you got things to think about before you throw everything away..." It seems that Kirk doesn't give a crap about any of those things until after he does some bs! I believe Kirk was definitely trying to and still would mess around with Jasmine if she let him. Also, if the shoe were on the other foot, I think he'd leave Rasheeda in the blink of an eye!
Of course cause remember when he was accusing her of cheating when she was pregnant with their son Carter. He was justifying his cheating with that and he was all over doing single stuff while married and that’s when that hot tub scene happened and her mom burning his ATV and her selling his things in the auction. Ugh 😑 this marriage has more drama and cheating than my high school dating days
Kirk said that if it was her he would leave
@@s.i.taylor9465 Right! So much other stuff has happened that I forgot about that! SMH
@@jogoode1232 I forgot all about that. SMH
Kirk’s mannerisms are “questionable”…I mean has that ever been addressed . And Barack would NEVA with Michelle, so Rasheed’s there’s no comparison Sis😂
The title is sending me 😂😂😂😂😂
She said it herself, she doesn’t want to throw it all away.
Now who wrote this title 😂 Messy. Fitting yall put this up on Halloween cuz it’s scary how she keeps forgiving this melted MilkDud of a man
🤣🤣 U Said MELTED MILKDUD 🤣🤣🤣
NOT THE MILKDUD 😭🤣
😂😂😂
😂😂😂 Damn, That's A Good One, @"Melted MilkDud Of A Man"!.
I thought this was a fake storyline. But Rasheedia is looking so tired, girly please take care of your mental.
Rasheeda i really thought she was better than this how much more can you take mentally emotionally like cmon kirk doesnt respect you yawl gat history thats it .....move along
It keeps happening and she deserves so much better.
@@coolstormracismsux3221She deserves what she wants and allows, this is the same woman that loves laughing at others when they’re going through things.
😂😂😂😂to call Rasheeda yam head is an understatement. Caaaaaaause every time dat man disrespect her her eye dem totally lock she nuh see nth !!!!!!
He look happier with Jasmine just an observation
@ yea that sounds good but his actions behavior and expression shows that he is miserable in his marriage
Doesn’t mean it’s okay karmas real
@@Itsmakaylachambers I believe the original poster meant in Jasmine‘s presence Kirk is giddy in and Rash‘s present. He is not. Nothing about Jas +Kirk
I’m happy that they can sit and talk about it bc nobody truly knows what you’ve been thru in your relationship and what you ve put in to get where you are , a bond that can’t be broken and it’s deeper than what the public sees (we see some of it)I’m rooting for you two
Rasheda eyes tells it all she loves him but at the same time …he always says he didn’t do anything but say he won’t fuck up again.
Rasheeda kirk saying he apologize u never have to worry about kirk no more... rasheeda saying ur life so much times & life its not about kirk keeping himself distance kirk has a new child kirk created this new whole new life jasmine & kirk child they created together its about kirk stepping in man up to be that active alive father to the new life not kirk telling rasheeda what she needs to hear from kirk
I’m sorry but my self love, self-respect, dignity, feeling of safety, trust, etc. is worth more than staying in a relationship/ marriage where I’m looking and feeling like Boo Boo the Fool.
Kirk's lace front is giving "Rick Sanchez" 😭🤣
After so many years together and he ends up cheating on her I would of left him I don’t care 🤷♀️ how long it’s been
He said take care of the "kid" wow that's crazy he would refer to his youngest son like that
One Son He Had NOT Seen In 18 YEARS *Kanye Voice-
They Reunited @His Mother's Funeral
He look so unconcerned about what she's saying😂😂
Rasheeda YOU STAND UP! Stand up and leave!!! I’m so tired of this. One day Kirk is going to leave because he gave HER all the reasons to leave already.
Say it again! He done told her 50 million times!
Why would he leave? He can cheat and come home whenever and she will be right there with open arms again. He living his best life.
@@lovebug2253He wants her to be the one that leaves men talk about this all the time doing anything and everything hoping the other person leaves. He doesn’t want to be the one to initiate divorce because he wants to sleep around. Its not logical but men rarely are logical
Rasheeda yeah, you are right, you can't just and leave your marriage but tolerating this man's continuous cheating with no consequences is setting you up for the results you don't want.
Mmmkay.. this storyline should not be a storyline anymore.
If Rasheeda doesn't divorce and start a new life I don't wanna hear about the Frosts anymore
You cannot act holier than thou and celebrating 20+ years of marriage if it's like that!!!!
THIS👏🏻IS 👏🏻TOXIC👏🏻 AF
It’s so sad bc she looks so tired. I completely understand fighting for your marriage bc it’s a commitment but this is becoming toxic. If he’s hurting you, disregarding you, disrespecting you it’s time to pack it up. I’m sorry.
🤷🏽♀️ This is like Emotional abuse Kirk!
She’ll wake up one day ☀️
He looks exhausted, why? Because it is exhausting being a cheater and having to lie lie lie. He is toxic, THIS is toxic..
I understand the not being able to let go because of all the history you have and everything you’ve built together, but how many times does that have to happen for you to say enough is enough?
TIME, let’s talk about time, it’s the one thing in life you can’t ever get back, so why waste it on someone who doesn’t deserve you. She needs to learn how to love her self and heal from this foolishness, she has to learn to put herself first and know that she deserves BETTER THAN WHAT HE IS OFFERING.
Until she is ready...when she can't endure it anymore she will know believe that
@@annie8857true
She's only getting older she not leaving her husband. Who are we to judge?
I look at it like this, the longer you stay…should you ever decide to leave your healing will take twice as long. That sunk cost theory is real AF 🥴
99% of women have taken a man back after they've been caught cheating!!!! And a good 95% have taken them back after SEVERAL cheating situations!!!! But yet a lot of women are quick to judge Rasheeda. And the ones judging probably haven't been with their man a good year or 2 or really have shit to lose.
Cheating and having a baby are two different things. Even Lala had more dignity 🥴
Forgiving and forgetting…again is petty 🤣
Ughh aren't they TIRED 😂
Rasheeda can’t be happy .. she just can’t be at this point, no man or woman on this Earth is worth this type of embarrassment for ANY HUMAN BEING my goodness 🫤
His demeanor is soooo different when he’s with Rasheeda vs when he’s around Jasmine. He seems miserable but he’s staying because of their brand 💰as a couple.
Kirk is disgusting, out here just doing whatever with whomever. Having unprotected sex,making babies, having threesomes. He doesn’t care about himself, or Rasheeda. I just hope she’s making him go to the doctor before she sleeps with him again, because what he’s doing is nasty work.
Can’t wait till he gets his 🐍 karma
@@nune2429yep sadly enough
@nune2429 exactly..his karma will come and I hope Rasheeda will not be wrapped up in it..Cause the universe is giving her signs and small warnings to leave this man alone. He will get his Karma..trust they always do.
ima need rasheeda to stand up on her GOOD FOOT 😭
He's not in it like that. He's listening to her fantasize and he's just going along with it. He smiles around Jasmine 10 times more than he smiles around his own wife. It's not the Wife's fault that he fell out of love or no longer wants to be there or whatever it is. But if she's too scared to let him go she'll never see how good God can bless her. God will replace it with something much better even if it's Kirk renewed 🤗🤗. God bless Rasheeda and I hope that she finds the strength to put herself first.
It hurts me like it happened to me like u have a wonderful wife and u can see the pain she’s taken from him over the years . Many women laugh at people pain I want to hug her literally
I know Rasheeda did not just compare herself to Beyonce... Not "I Rap like Shawty Lo" saying she like Beyonce....
Why Beyoncé got cheated on
@@deshawnbrinson2298I mean she may have gotten cheated on but at least Jay z ain’t have a baby on her. (From what we know) 🤷♀️
@@Irelanqzz that and "put it on him make him wanna marry me" cute but def not no Lemonade
@ Right. They are definitely not to be compared
@@Irelanqzz why they both human beings yall buggin
y'all's here acting like you have perfect relationships. Rasheeda will leave when she wants to, and if she doesn't leave, that's her business
This is not normal.
When is enough...ENOUGH😫
Enough of “the kid” bs, Kirk! He is YOUR SON who’ll watch how everything actually happened thanks to this show. Who in the hell is this man Rasheeda is talking about bc her husband ain’t shit. He pretends to make her a priority & show her minimal respect. I’m sick of these women on the show having issues with the baby mamas when their man is the problem. Yes the hell you do need to talk to me one-on-one & have that communication if your husband wants you around my CHILD. Motherhood is motherhood. Period! Kendra & Rasheeda better buck it the hell up. The other women need to have communication with them for the child ONLY. Nobody wants to make Joc or Kirk as theirs romantically. It was just sex anyway!
He always looks sad and depressed when he's around rasheeda but when he's around Jasmine he's all happy and perky. This man is too old for this he got to get his life in order or rasheeda needs to go ahead and leave she should have been left but hey you can't tell nobody about their marriage.
This is what I will say because I am a married woman is that I'm old school and I value my marriage and I value everything that goes with a marriage and you are supposed to forgive but I just thank God that I've never been put in a situation like this because I wouldn't know what I would do rasheeda is a strong woman and I wish her nothing but peace of mind,heart, body and soul that woman has been through a lot. My husband is a good man and you will never see me fighting over him because a good man will never put you in a situation like that