Justice Mukheli ON : Cultivating Safe Spaces for Men and Embracing vulnerability

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 103

  • @krupaabrokwaa
    @krupaabrokwaa 6 місяців тому +64

    Currently doing a challenge with my community around healing from the father wound to embrace our Heavenly Father! I can't believe how timely this is, it's WILD!

  • @InnocentiaMashilwane
    @InnocentiaMashilwane 6 місяців тому +18

    Bathong, this deep thinking and vulnerable guy who is so calm ... so self aware and engaging. I could not afford to do anything else while watching. Love this.

  • @amour8306
    @amour8306 6 місяців тому +47

    What an episode!!!! Love how he is so in touch with self and honest about parts of himself that could easily be shamed… WOW! Going to finish it off at the podcast.. this is my favorite episode this year!!!!!

  • @ruvimbomoyo1871
    @ruvimbomoyo1871 18 днів тому +1

    How is he sharing all this without dropping a tear 😢

  • @jeanetteraletooane6004
    @jeanetteraletooane6004 6 місяців тому +14

    #replay what an incredible mother who was wise enough to talk through her kids so they don't formulate stories. A power of communication with children demonstrated ❤

  • @simbongilebokolo7553
    @simbongilebokolo7553 6 місяців тому +8

    I admire his strength and the faith he had in himself "even though I was called stupid there has never been a day I felt I was" ❤❤❤❤

  • @tabbiemokumo7770
    @tabbiemokumo7770 6 місяців тому +9

    What an honest conversation, this is so affirming and much needed in our communities

  • @masebabatsoramapepe8593
    @masebabatsoramapepe8593 6 місяців тому +16

    I love his demeanor 🫶

  • @gloryrichy
    @gloryrichy 6 місяців тому +13

    🇳🇬🤩😍 Nigerian here🤩🥰
    This conversation was great👏🏼

  • @thejourney4275
    @thejourney4275 6 місяців тому +11

    I'm glad I came across this episode it was so therapeutic. My son is 11 and dyslexic I know he's very smart and talented but I always wonder what his future looks like. This episode just gave me direction on how to help him and hope❤️

    • @florashongwe9146
      @florashongwe9146 4 місяці тому +2

      @thejourney4275 "Your son has the potential to pursue any career he desires. As someone who is dyslexic, I understand the challenges that come with learning differences. Despite this, I was able to earn a BA in social care practice and I am currently working towards a medical school entrance exam, even at a mature age. Dyslexia does not define intelligence; it simply means we have a unique way of learning. Let's continue to support and uplift each other ❤️❤️"

  • @masharamokumo7356
    @masharamokumo7356 6 місяців тому +5

    I don’t know how many times I had to hold back my tears while listening to the full episode. What a beautiful, honest and authentic conversation. This has to be my favourite episode this year, woah🥺🔥

  • @brendenpraise_
    @brendenpraise_ 6 місяців тому +23

    I needed this conversation 🤞🏾

    • @MpoomyLedwaba
      @MpoomyLedwaba  6 місяців тому +4

      🥺🤍

    • @suzygirl1843
      @suzygirl1843 6 місяців тому

      @@MpoomyLedwaba You want male spaces? Enlist in the ARMY

  • @buyisiwembatha6698
    @buyisiwembatha6698 6 місяців тому +5

    I did not want this to end......so healing 😭

  • @krupaabrokwaa
    @krupaabrokwaa 6 місяців тому +10

    WOWWWW- IF I COULD TELL YOU THE TIMING OF THIS AND HOW PERFECTLY DIVINE IT IS- SHOOKETH LORD, SHOOKETH!

  • @user-nh2ri2dw3i
    @user-nh2ri2dw3i 5 місяців тому +3

    There are so many unseen disabilities that are acedmic barriers I wish there could be education around it and I wish there would help for kids and parents so we don't end up with kids dropping out of school and feeling unworthy are feel undeserving of receiving education due to struggling to gasp ect😔😭🙏🏾

  • @thuligumbi976
    @thuligumbi976 6 місяців тому +8

    I was just Watching UA-cam and I am really happy for you to start this kind of a topic of dyslexia many people do not know about dyslexia that's why many kids drop out in high school because they think that they are dumb or stupid and I have been going through the same thing that he has been going through when he was in high school and I am in grade 10 and I am 18 years old and right now I am waiting for my report I just hope for the best I am so good with maths but reading and stuff it's not my good strength and I am good also with physics right now I am doing science at my school my wish is to be a nurse or a doctor so thank you for talking about this topic ❤️

    • @Palesa20m
      @Palesa20m 6 місяців тому +3

      Wishing you the best with your report❤️ you are an incredible person. Know that and believe it!

    • @thuligumbi976
      @thuligumbi976 6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you 💕

    • @SimmyGaming1
      @SimmyGaming1 16 днів тому

      ​@thuligumbi976 can you please teach me maths?, I'm also dyslexic
      .

  • @siphosethumotsa7586
    @siphosethumotsa7586 6 місяців тому +21

    Oh man, what a beautiful, well Articulated conversation. I had literal tears when he talked about the phone call he had with his dad when he was 18, but thank God it didn't break him to a point of failure but propelled him to stand on his own and want better for himself.

  • @user-jc4en7zv8r
    @user-jc4en7zv8r 6 місяців тому +10

    I love the openness of the conversations. So soothing and healing. Thanks @ Mpoomy every podcast gets better❤

  • @sehlomengmokoena8657
    @sehlomengmokoena8657 6 місяців тому +3

    This episode made me cry,the way he carry himself and the way everything is articulated,soo beautifully

  • @Sisakes
    @Sisakes 6 місяців тому +6

    This is such a beautiful conversation, your platform is teaching about a lot of things we might be taking lightly

  • @siphokazimbiyoza213
    @siphokazimbiyoza213 6 місяців тому +8

    Oh my goodness, this is soo relatable. I remember asking my Dad for License money at age 24 as an Apprentice who obviously couldn't afford it, He used those exact words to me "That he is where is because he worked hard and never bothered anyone" the list was endless but super hurtful 💔

  • @Sinoz_world
    @Sinoz_world 6 місяців тому +13

    What a handsome man😫

  • @NomsLoots
    @NomsLoots 6 місяців тому +2

    He’s so graceful. He smiles through all he’s shared with us.

  • @talkwithtee4690
    @talkwithtee4690 6 місяців тому +2

    Justice is my favourite person in the world!

  • @phumezaradebe8977
    @phumezaradebe8977 6 місяців тому +2

    Had a smile through out the interview, beautiful

  • @zeemali4369
    @zeemali4369 6 місяців тому +3

    Love love love this episode. I can relate to the guest story 💯. I just wish the conversation was looooooooonger. Thanks Mpoomy for your dedication in bringing us relatable convos

  • @uncle_inspiration.2525
    @uncle_inspiration.2525 6 місяців тому +4

    Flyest dude, him and his brother Fhatuwani, from fashion sense, art & music.

  • @florathomas4025
    @florathomas4025 6 місяців тому +4

    Love this video, such a cool man with a humble smile ❤️😘

  • @portiambuli7076
    @portiambuli7076 6 місяців тому +4

    So much healing in this conversation! So wholesome! 🥺💛

  • @lizzybeth428
    @lizzybeth428 6 місяців тому +1

    80% of the time I don't know the people Mpoomy interviews but I always watch because I know that I will surely gain something insightful.

  • @natasha_mulusa
    @natasha_mulusa 6 місяців тому +1

    I listened to this on wisdom and wellness podcast. Such a heart moving conversation. I shed a bit of a tear as so much reminded me of my experiences. So much learning and insight too. My goodness I love this episode❤

  • @blessingottawa3102
    @blessingottawa3102 6 місяців тому +2

    thank you for bringing the man who inspired me to follow my creative journey ,i love Justice Mukheli from i see you group

  • @sweets867
    @sweets867 5 місяців тому

    I keep going back to this episode. Wow what a guy! He has such a calm aura.. Hands down this is by far my most favorites episode...

  • @LifewithTebatso
    @LifewithTebatso 6 місяців тому +2

    Arg this gotta be my one of my favourite episode

  • @cathykarani
    @cathykarani 6 місяців тому +2

    He is a very honest man.love the conversation

  • @krupaabrokwaa
    @krupaabrokwaa 6 місяців тому +15

    Currently having conversations with my Husband around vulnerability and the power of it as a man and we can see how and WHY the enemy attacks men in this area because oh how powerful a man is when he is able to be vulnerable and thereof find freedom!

    • @nazikay1340
      @nazikay1340 6 місяців тому +3

      l love your comment ❤

    • @krupaabrokwaa
      @krupaabrokwaa 6 місяців тому +4

      @@nazikay1340 glad you did sis. Honestly, my heart cries out for men that just don’t have enough of a safe space to open up and say “actually, no, I’m not fine. I need help.” Whereas us women, find those spaces a lot more. Not always “safe” but enough choice. Would you agree maybe?

    • @MpoomyLedwaba
      @MpoomyLedwaba  6 місяців тому +1

      Soo true 🤞🏽

    • @nazikay1340
      @nazikay1340 6 місяців тому +1

      @@krupaabrokwaa 💯 agree,Thanks to Mrs Mom too for talking about these things.Men don’t have support when it comes to all mental health or emotional related issues.

  • @ceebowshowmshiywa5488
    @ceebowshowmshiywa5488 6 місяців тому +3

    This is life content, I love your content Mpoomy it’s healing 💗

  • @Thembs_b
    @Thembs_b 6 місяців тому +2

    Yhoo lobhuti😢. Thank you Mpoomy for this

  • @lks2144
    @lks2144 6 місяців тому +1

    Could listen to him all day. Lessons of life.

  • @lady_germ_stone1517
    @lady_germ_stone1517 6 місяців тому +1

    Lol how he's soo vulnerable and honest ... .. I love how he said Respect is better than love ...
    Love you work Mpoomza❤

  • @vuyomaweni470
    @vuyomaweni470 5 місяців тому

    I love interviews like this one this guy gave it all he's real and awesome... I loved it🙏

  • @jeanetteraletooane6004
    @jeanetteraletooane6004 6 місяців тому +1

    Sometimes our biggest blows are exactly the very thing that redirects to lean into ourselves. I am taking that in.

  • @th_realest_g
    @th_realest_g 6 місяців тому +2

    Loving it ❤ what a vital conversation, i can only relate to everything that was talked about... thank you

  • @zikhonasiswana2719
    @zikhonasiswana2719 6 місяців тому

    ❤ Mind blown, thank you guys

  • @user-rl5vp4vf3h
    @user-rl5vp4vf3h 6 місяців тому

    Mpoommyyyy ❤❤❤❤ this young man is encouraging me to pour more in my children's life as a Mother ...Bless you

  • @dineomashao6161
    @dineomashao6161 6 місяців тому +1

    What a great conversation.

  • @tamaradaka9393
    @tamaradaka9393 6 місяців тому +2

    Such a beautiful, deep and vulnerable conversation❤thanks for this Mpoomy!

  • @thandonm
    @thandonm 6 місяців тому +3

    ‘If you don’t service the car it’s not gonna be healthy’😮

  • @ilovetoencourage
    @ilovetoencourage 6 місяців тому +1

    I enjoyed this conversation big time..i love a self aware / man being. I said to my sister and friend, women have to know and understand their significance in their homes. We will not always get validation but it will show . Just like Justice said his mom kept them going, affirmed them etc😊

  • @thabeloratau9289
    @thabeloratau9289 6 місяців тому

    What a beautiful episode❤

  • @lisodyan7918
    @lisodyan7918 4 місяці тому

    Oh what an episode😢 this is very informative. I am a single mother and I have a 12 yr old which I now understand what is happening with my child. The guy is smart bt at school he is not doing well i always wondered what could be the possible explanation of this. Tdy I got my answers 😢😢😢😢

  • @SiphokaziLoyiso
    @SiphokaziLoyiso 6 місяців тому

    Loved this ❤

  • @abigailobateganya
    @abigailobateganya 6 місяців тому +2

    What a story 😢

  • @snogama8223
    @snogama8223 6 місяців тому

    So good ❤

  • @preciouskasanda7345
    @preciouskasanda7345 6 місяців тому +2

    Mine left when i was 8years and i kept the hope because he was my friend and being the only girl i was his favourite (i thought) at 11years old i went to look for him at his new home. Only to find the wife, she called him and he CHOOSE not to show up!!! And that ladies and gentlemen was the day i had my first and only heartbreak 💔. I am now 32 and the man is very much alive and would careless. The good part in all is i am still his only daughter 😂😂😂😂 and his family still call or refer to him by my name and that's how his other kids came to find out about me or us (myself and two brothers).

    • @ntandoyenkosidube9702
      @ntandoyenkosidube9702 6 місяців тому +1

      💔 I wish dad's did better. This is so heartbreaking I hope you okay

  • @tembelamajeke4801
    @tembelamajeke4801 6 місяців тому

    I love this ❤️

  • @pfanomukhodobwane1666
    @pfanomukhodobwane1666 6 місяців тому +1

    I don't know him but he seems like a beautiful soul

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 6 місяців тому +4

    My mum also walked her dad to the train station kanti that’s it 😢

  • @lehlohonolokompe4506
    @lehlohonolokompe4506 6 місяців тому

    Lovely episode that's very genuine. I love how he didn't conform to any judgement and have the will to do it himself. Justice is a true reflection that our discrepancies do not make us who we are.
    Now I am craving a good plate, lol. 😂

  • @bettymukolwe6600
    @bettymukolwe6600 6 місяців тому +1

    has an amazing smile and aura

  • @thobilemhlongo2467
    @thobilemhlongo2467 6 місяців тому +1

    It’s always the tough times that elevate you.

  • @siyamdumisagulwa
    @siyamdumisagulwa 6 місяців тому

    "we don't open up because we are shamed " woow 😇

  • @lindokuhlethembelashabalal2771
    @lindokuhlethembelashabalal2771 6 місяців тому

    This episode has so many triggers for me, I really hope as I get over some experiences.

  • @PhilasandeMalevu
    @PhilasandeMalevu 6 місяців тому

    I love justice

  • @khumomolomo9359
    @khumomolomo9359 6 місяців тому

    Mrs Mom, hi, love you❤❤

  • @LifeIsGood49
    @LifeIsGood49 6 місяців тому

    I analysis learn that, who are you to judge...this life no balance, be careful what you find funny. He is such a beautiful guy...intelligent in his own unique ways.

  • @I.am.nedzamba
    @I.am.nedzamba 6 місяців тому

    Navy blue is fire 🔥

  • @nduvho94
    @nduvho94 6 місяців тому +1

    13:22 🥺♥

  • @nduvho94
    @nduvho94 6 місяців тому

    23:53 True.

  • @eileenmudzana9203
    @eileenmudzana9203 6 місяців тому +1

    First to comment ❤❤❤ love you Mpoomy and all that you do❤

  • @nomsa06
    @nomsa06 6 місяців тому +2

    Hi Mpumi. You made a statement and I’m not sure you completely followed it up with further reasoning. “The Bible and society say men protect …so there’s a bit of a confusion …” I’m picking up straws but it’s there by 25 min going into 26min. May you please clarify because I wasn’t sure of the point you wanted to make regarding the Bible and society and that not being the truth in one line?

  • @user-rl5vp4vf3h
    @user-rl5vp4vf3h 6 місяців тому

    The phone call with the dad 😢😢😢 andisakhali ..

  • @florathomas4025
    @florathomas4025 6 місяців тому

    Yoooo so tough 😢😢
    He had what at 18?

  • @phumezaradebe8977
    @phumezaradebe8977 6 місяців тому

    Do both packages come with the full interview ?

  • @DelisileNgema
    @DelisileNgema 6 місяців тому

    my sons situation he is re writing his matric at 21 and i honestly dont think he did well

  • @celimpilomthethwa2014
    @celimpilomthethwa2014 6 місяців тому

    Sadly most of us are all living a lie and for flesh and money. As long as society put money first and not God and not following God’s ways .these topics will stand with same arguments forever

  • @iviwemngweba9844
    @iviwemngweba9844 6 місяців тому

    ayiphelelanga lePodcast bandlaaaa😪😪😪😪

  • @LiL_Monkey
    @LiL_Monkey 6 місяців тому

    That guy looks like a feminist!!!
    Waiting for the next episode, miss me here

  • @taythankane
    @taythankane 6 місяців тому +1

    I wish this episode can reach both men and women, people need to listen to this. Loved loved this interview, it is so impactful.🤍🤍

  • @hlumisasimayi5985
    @hlumisasimayi5985 6 місяців тому

    You’re doing so much for our community Mpoomy🥹❤️

  • @user-nh2ri2dw3i
    @user-nh2ri2dw3i 5 місяців тому

    There are so many unseen disabilities that are acedmic barriers I wish there could be education around it and I wish there would help for kids and parents so we don't end up with kids dropping out of school and feeling unworthy are feel undeserving of receiving education due to struggling to gasp ect😔😭🙏🏾

  • @noxolondhlovu1115
    @noxolondhlovu1115 6 місяців тому

    Loved this ❤

  • @I.am.nedzamba
    @I.am.nedzamba 6 місяців тому

    Navy blue is fire 🔥