“If the health of the partnership is not the first priority, then you’re not in a partnership, you’re in a lifestyle arrangement..” Sharp. Refreshing. Thanks Teal!
I think the purpose of relationships is reflection. Reflecting back the wholeness and internal state that is felt within. This is why I think getting to the core and living ones life purpose is important for resonating with someone who is doing the same. The intention is to grow together and reflect that back. Great vid Teal.
Exactly! I also have realized that I have to be expression of my own truth. Like if I have my treasures, I become the one who express them in a relationship. It's all about honesty and peace within.
The pain you experience in a relationship with regards to your partner is not necessarily caused by them. It can also be caused by the projection of your unhealed wounds upon them. Thus, instead of asking your partner to change, in such a case you could go inside yourself to heal those wounds. A real healing will lead to a completely new perspective where you might experience how amazing the relationship actually is. For example, you find that your partner does not give you enough comfirmation or attention when you are not together. You might think that they are an asshole where actually, you interpret this as the abandonment you experienced from your father or mother when you were a child. You could do inner child work with this situation and heal those wounds. This will result in a state where your partner's behaviour will bring up less and less pain and there will be less feeling of wanting more confirmation from them. You feel it's all cool. You can experience a real amazing relationship without projection. This is just my personal experience.
Watching this video for the second time, 5 days later, and this message is sinking in, even further, in regards to what Teal mentions here, that the pain, is intended to move you towards expansion...without understanding this, many of us, get stuck in pain itself, and as you see, the world doesn't do so well when people are in pain, for all the 'acting out', going on around us, and all the people getting hurt unnecessarily...and we all sit and watch it unravel.....if we all just take the time and listen to that pain, and allow it to direct us, towards what it is that we truly desire instead, the positive intention Teal mentions in another video, this world, might actually become self actualized at some point....let us support Teal in her efforts to help in this self actualization concept...you are not your pain your pain is your guide...
I feel the key to have a perfect relationship is to be and let the other be... understand that reality is relative and that every time you criticize your partner is your interpretation of his or her freedom.. if you don't like it then don't stay... love yourself enough. i assure you, you'll find the perfect partner, it happened to me.
i did this very thing she mentions, i was screaming for change, in the relationship with me and my mom. i rebelled so much like a wild teenager, i screamed and cried my eyes out like a 5 year old when really i was desperate for change and in pain. all i did was shut her down. i had the message that things could never change. i dont know if i could ever mend that relationship with my mom again, or my old life. the thought of it makes me sick. my life was painful, have no idea if im committed to trying to make it work. i hope that the other side will be easier, the afterlife i mean. i am 15 now. i understand the people in the comment section, much love to you man. If your at teals videos, u know youve been on a wild ride
What an amazing insight from Teal....this is extremely difficult to do with family members, especially abusive ones, feeling that the relationships are not aligned, the difficult reality is that you may need to end certain relationships with such family members to preserve your well being...say perhaps a parent...Realizing then that, that parent being out of alignment with where you are, has simply caused your expansion...and perhaps was the purpose of that parent all along...
I am learning to live without a relationship. I don't care if there is a potential partner out there, 8 years of a marriage has taught me that I should not pursue another relationship again. My world is quite dark as result, but I am okay with it.
You are probably the only speaker I've ever heard, of whom I've watched at least 5 videos, that I agreed with on every single point completely. I've always led a life where I tried to put ethics first and been really taken aback sometimes to see others seem who seem to identify their purpose in life as something different. I really love you and so appreciate you. Thank you. I can't begin to describe really the impact you've had on me. Usually people only give a bit of hope, but seeing you is like a gushing fountain of hope. What I mean by that specifically is that you are so genuinely fantastic that my feeling of what people are capable of is really expanded to allow for beyond this world abilities. Don't ever let anyone get you down. You give so much value constantly, you are priceless. A real gem (beyond). Again, thank you and I hope people keep telling you your true worth.
*This is why Teal's star knows only one direction.. UP!* Tremendous content w/perfect presentation. A+ :) Should I ever happen upon another human being and interact w/them in a relationship situation, I will definitely employ this sound advice. THANK YOU!
This is so helpful. I've been focusing more on the lifestyle arrangement attributes than the actual caring, love, and trust that I truly seek. Now I know how to direct my energy. Thank you.
Coming from being sexually abused at age 3 1/2, with mom's full knowledge & consent, this really hit home - gave me the key I needed at 3:03. I have been off & on furious & full of pity for my malicious narcissistic mother. Trying to forgive myself for not speaking to her for the last 15 years. Giving myself a break - LOVING MYSELF - by allowing me to expunge this person from my personal world. :D Also, forgiving father for abandonment at age 3, leading to said abuse. Thanks heaps, girl! I have what I need to do the rest! You rock!
Teal Swan, I listen to your thoughts these days and everything you say is cleverer than anything I have heard in the past. Thank you, I hope I remember it all.
I genuinely love and enjoy your videos. I find them very insightful and resourceful. You have helped me realize some truths I really needed to acknowledge. Thank you!😄
Teal, I just wanted to commend you on sharing your own story, your relationships and evolution so openly - and your partners who do the same. I think it is wonderful when former partners can remain family. Thank you for sharing this and your mistakes, growth, etc. Also, I admire you and Ale for sharing the dark parts of sharing - those who remain bitter and do not grow from change. Those who have posted ugly remarks about your relationship and your past relationships. To tolerate others' feelings, even their ugly comments, without having to react or absorb their cruelty - since you cannot control it or shut off the comments - I think it is commendable. My best to you and yours!
Teal is always on point when it comes to the human psyche, and my own story. Every single video she ever made, even the ones I thought didn't apply to me, I can totally relate to and learn from. I am truly learning a lot thanks to you Teal, thank you 🙏🏽 Good luck to anyone trying to expand and grow in this lifetime
This is wonderful and mind-blowing. The way you speak/explain, and your voice makes it all sink in "double deep". Thank you for all your help and beautiful presentations.
That's what I have a lifestyle arrangement. It's kind of funny, because lifestyle-wise we are actually very compatible. He likes to do his own thing; I like to do my own thing. The only problem is I want some time to feel loved by him. Like I would like one night a week that's just ours, but I don't think I've ever had this even once in the last 6 years. He always needs to go over to his friend's house or see a family member or just veg-out in front of the computer. Another thing I want is respect. The way he sees me is that of the stereotypical way men see women, and most of the world sees me in a much better light. I'm in no position to move on, but I will continue to try to get these things from him while I continue to get to a much independent position. Thank you, Teal. You are awesome.
I lie to myself about wanting to be alone. I always have to reassure myself of this to be comfortable with it. Video games are my favorite hobby, they have become my escape.
:) so nice to see fans of Sex Pistols on this channel...Love John Lydon, another progressive thinker with deep social awareness and revolutionary soul.
i can see that you wanted the lighting in the video to show the light and the dark. im sorry that you have to take. You are so helpful. NOTHING TO FIX!! NOTHING demonic about the help you give.
Thank you so much, Teal. You always know exactly what I need to hear each week, it's crazy. So eternally grateful for you and all that you do. Thank you!!! ❤️❤️❤️
The timing of this is remarkable for me personally. Thank you so so much for affirming a realization I had yesterday before watching this regarding my agency within a relationship, and for further expanding upon it. Seriously, with so much gratitude, THANK YOU
Thank you for this video. Perfect timing for the answer of my question despite it being a year later since its upload. It brings me hope again. Very encouraging.
Praying with all my might in my heart I'm not going to fall for severe sleeping problems because of those sweet, passionate eyes which almost makes me scream from the most inner depth of my being. The fact that you're literally a psychic is what goes too far me, it's too far.
Thank you. Dude I thought I was such a great guy but I hurt a woamn that I love so much by not listening to her, throwung temper tantrums and saying some really ugly things. She showed me my heart and I broke hers. I wish I would hae been open to this before bit then again it took this to bring my ego down. Now I just learned the basics if feeling my own pain... truly feeling it. I realized last Sunday that I had no idea how to feel my own pain even though I knew the concept of that in a knowledge sense. I may have lost her forever because of it and it is a lesson if I have to accept that I will never forget. She is a Goddess, works her ass off and I am. so greatful for her. Pray or send healing to Cat plz. Tha ks Soul fam. Love u fuckers.
She is trying to put something she thinks is good to the word and that is commendable. What I see though is that Teal herself seems to be in pain. I hear it in her voice. I also disagree with the idea of using pain as a point of contrast to get in touch with your expansion. What happens then if you are not in pain? - no expansion. I believe in expanding from a place of joy no matter what is happening in my life. Personally, If I am in pain, I go inward and heal it there by forgiving and releasing my attachments to the world being what I believe it should be. I don't go outward and say "what is the opposite of this painful experience that is showing up in my outer world?" Followed by "what is the opposite of that?" Followed by asking my outward experience to change so it conforms to this idea. That to me is a recipe for powerlessness. Thank you anyway Teal and blessings to all.
leaving someone just because he doesn't choose to fulfill your desires before he s is just crazy. you might as well stay alone if you can t understand that everyone deserve what they want. Communication and deep understanding (compassion) is the key. Not dependence.
Based on many negative comments here i really wonder if those actually ever had a good, true, fully honest relationship. Neither seem they to be able to imagine how it might be. The quality of the relationship starts with a good choice... If you take the next best thing without any closer look... how on earth can you expect it to work out on the long term?
thank you Beautiful Teal wow you have so much insight on all areas in life experience .... after watching a lot of you tube clips i relised a lot about myself and relationships that gave me the courage to and a relationship with my partner.... I'm relieved tho will will begin to spend time in introspection into the part i played and transform those aspects within that i allowed and why i found it hard to created strong and loving boundaries lots of love and gratitude Rachelle xo
Fantastic video Teal, I love your vids and feel connected to u in some way, we roughly the same age and grown up in the great 80's and well our souls know each other out it that way
I believe many romantic partner relationships start out with both saying they each want,first of all, to spend the rest of their lifetime being Together Preferentially Available to Each Other. But THEN one or both start spending too much of that time on someone or something else to be available enough to the other to be a true partner because preferences changed. Much pain comes of this when the less available one also became dishonest about this, trying to Force a change on the other that was Not agreed on by hiding what s/he is doing differently with his/her time and hiding why. I tend to lose interest when I lose respect for someone else's lack of respect for my right to choose how my time is spent on serving my purposes or wasted to make it serve the other's purposes without regard for serving mine. It seems such a basic understanding to Not treat someone else the way I would Not Want that I feel it's not really a matter of having to actually tell someone they're Not doing what ANYone would Want in ANY kind of relationship. They already Know this full well they're out of line with even "just" Basics and actually have been just revealed as truly "NOT GOOD enough for ME." We ALL know better than to do the misdeeds we do toward one another, "raised under a rock" or not. We were Born knowing better. It's a matter of whether we think we can get by with transgressing against another that ultimately determines what we Choose to do within ANY kind of relationship. I make Sure to use Enough Words and consciously try to be Ever consistent in maintaining the behaviors that match my words so that any "explanation" for Not doing the same leaves no or little room for further wasting my time on in attempt to confuse me as well. I SEE that I have been misjudged as someone who is not intelligent enough, Not requiring equal respect, too "needy"of a substandard relationship, and foolishly "forgiving." I am none of these AND have made it abundantly Clear. Thus,... Shoo!! You'll probably catch on after about 15 more say Shoo!, indicating they Dont Want to be mistreated by ANYbody and Dont have to settle for Less than basic SENSE
Chapter 12 The morning were you continue to elude not the heart as l continue to hear the vibration of how you feel animating the course of time condenced of energies between you and l gathered...
+Lori Miller I guess we are all The cat down to road to somebody huh! lol well except me and teal, I'm just the black swan on the other side of the lake!
“If the health of the partnership is not the first priority, then you’re not in a partnership, you’re in a lifestyle arrangement..” Sharp. Refreshing. Thanks Teal!
Listening to teal, ralph smart, and abraham hicks has truly enhanced my life a ton
They are my favorites too. Just got tickets to Abraham in October 🚀
Me too. Cheers
Check out Alan Watts too. You'll love it.
Agreed and BASHAR
I would add Leo Gura (Actualized.org). He may have more ...I don´t know, masculine?, approach but that´s what is complementary with Teal
I think the purpose of relationships is reflection. Reflecting back the wholeness and internal state that is felt within. This is why I think getting to the core and living ones life purpose is important for resonating with someone who is doing the same. The intention is to grow together and reflect that back. Great vid Teal.
What a wonder response to Teals video Aaron...relationships are a gift, showing us the way, reflecting back to us, that deeper desire for connection..
Exactly!
I also have realized that I have to be expression of my own truth. Like if I have my treasures, I become the one who express them in a relationship. It's all about honesty and peace within.
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The pain you experience in a relationship with regards to your partner is not necessarily caused by them. It can also be caused by the projection of your unhealed wounds upon them. Thus, instead of asking your partner to change, in such a case you could go inside yourself to heal those wounds. A real healing will lead to a completely new perspective where you might experience how amazing the relationship actually is.
For example, you find that your partner does not give you enough comfirmation or attention when you are not together. You might think that they are an asshole where actually, you interpret this as the abandonment you experienced from your father or mother when you were a child. You could do inner child work with this situation and heal those wounds. This will result in a state where your partner's behaviour will bring up less and less pain and there will be less feeling of wanting more confirmation from them. You feel it's all cool. You can experience a real amazing relationship without projection. This is just my personal experience.
In fact this "abandonment" is projection into finding the same partner who will perpetuate that feeling.
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good point my friend.
Ekaterina JJ you still shouldnt by any way try to minimize your need for confirmation/affirmation/attention
Watching this video for the second time, 5 days later, and this message is sinking in, even further, in regards to what Teal mentions here, that the pain, is intended to move you towards expansion...without understanding this, many of us, get stuck in pain itself, and as you see, the world doesn't do so well when people are in pain, for all the 'acting out', going on around us, and all the people getting hurt unnecessarily...and we all sit and watch it unravel.....if we all just take the time and listen to that pain, and allow it to direct us, towards what it is that we truly desire instead, the positive intention Teal mentions in another video, this world, might actually become self actualized at some point....let us support Teal in her efforts to help in this self actualization concept...you are not your pain your pain is your guide...
I feel the key to have a perfect relationship is to be and let the other be... understand that reality is relative and that every time you criticize your partner is your interpretation of his or her freedom.. if you don't like it then don't stay... love yourself enough. i assure you, you'll find the perfect partner, it happened to me.
i did this very thing she mentions, i was screaming for change, in the relationship with me and my mom. i rebelled so much like a wild teenager, i screamed and cried my eyes out like a 5 year old when really i was desperate for change and in pain. all i did was shut her down. i had the message that things could never change. i dont know if i could ever mend that relationship with my mom again, or my old life. the thought of it makes me sick. my life was painful, have no idea if im committed to trying to make it work. i hope that the other side will be easier, the afterlife i mean. i am 15 now. i understand the people in the comment section, much love to you man. If your at teals videos, u know youve been on a wild ride
Every day your alive u have another chance to change things ❤
What an amazing insight from Teal....this is extremely difficult to do with family members, especially abusive ones, feeling that the relationships are not aligned, the difficult reality is that you may need to end certain relationships with such family members to preserve your well being...say perhaps a parent...Realizing then that, that parent being out of alignment with where you are, has simply caused your expansion...and perhaps was the purpose of that parent all along...
I am learning to live without a relationship. I don't care if there is a potential partner out there, 8 years of a marriage has taught me that I should not pursue another relationship again. My world is quite dark as result, but I am okay with it.
I hope you are well ❤
One of the clues of having a spiritual awakening is that we lose a lot of people in our life and we gain a few very important new relationships.
You are probably the only speaker I've ever heard, of whom I've watched at least 5 videos, that I agreed with on every single point completely. I've always led a life where I tried to put ethics first and been really taken aback sometimes to see others seem who seem to identify their purpose in life as something different. I really love you and so appreciate you. Thank you. I can't begin to describe really the impact you've had on me. Usually people only give a bit of hope, but seeing you is like a gushing fountain of hope. What I mean by that specifically is that you are so genuinely fantastic that my feeling of what people are capable of is really expanded to allow for beyond this world abilities. Don't ever let anyone get you down. You give so much value constantly, you are priceless. A real gem (beyond). Again, thank you and I hope people keep telling you your true worth.
I am twenty five years old, I have never been in a relationship, and I have no regrets.
Makes me cry, but it is truthful.
I think the only one relationship which truly matters it: that with oneself. Relationships with others come and go.
niklasophia
So many synchronicities and confirmations in one video. Thank you so much Teal for the clarity.
Love your insight Teal.. You are a blessing to this earth. Thankyou.
Your timing is everything
*This is why Teal's star knows only one direction.. UP!* Tremendous content w/perfect presentation. A+ :) Should I ever happen upon another human being and interact w/them in a relationship situation, I will definitely employ this sound advice. THANK YOU!
This is so helpful. I've been focusing more on the lifestyle arrangement attributes than the actual caring, love, and trust that I truly seek. Now I know how to direct my energy. Thank you.
Woah... thank you so much. I am exactly at this point of pain and needed to hear those exact words. Thank you Teal. You truly are amazing.
The timing of this video and the SO accurate content just totally blew my mind....
Coming from being sexually abused at age 3 1/2, with mom's full knowledge & consent, this really hit home - gave me the key I needed at 3:03. I have been off & on furious & full of pity for my malicious narcissistic mother. Trying to forgive myself for not speaking to her for the last 15 years. Giving myself a break - LOVING MYSELF - by allowing me to expunge this person from my personal world. :D
Also, forgiving father for abandonment at age 3, leading to said abuse.
Thanks heaps, girl! I have what I need to do the rest!
You rock!
Keywords that leaped out at me.... lifestyle arrangement vs. partnership. Now I get why we were never having the same conversation.
Teal Swan, I listen to your thoughts these days and everything you say is cleverer than anything I have heard in the past. Thank you, I hope I remember it all.
I genuinely love and enjoy your videos. I find them very insightful and resourceful. You have helped me realize some truths I really needed to acknowledge. Thank you!😄
Teal, I just wanted to commend you on sharing your own story, your relationships and evolution so openly - and your partners who do the same. I think it is wonderful when former partners can remain family. Thank you for sharing this and your mistakes, growth, etc. Also, I admire you and Ale for sharing the dark parts of sharing - those who remain bitter and do not grow from change. Those who have posted ugly remarks about your relationship and your past relationships. To tolerate others' feelings, even their ugly comments, without having to react or absorb their cruelty - since you cannot control it or shut off the comments - I think it is commendable. My best to you and yours!
Teal is always on point when it comes to the human psyche, and my own story. Every single video she ever made, even the ones I thought didn't apply to me, I can totally relate to and learn from. I am truly learning a lot thanks to you Teal, thank you 🙏🏽 Good luck to anyone trying to expand and grow in this lifetime
This is wonderful and mind-blowing. The way you speak/explain, and your voice makes it all sink in "double deep". Thank you for all your help and beautiful presentations.
Thank you for making this video. It told me a lot of what I need to know. I would love to hear more on this topic.
That's what I have a lifestyle arrangement. It's kind of funny, because lifestyle-wise we are actually very compatible. He likes to do his own thing; I like to do my own thing. The only problem is I want some time to feel loved by him. Like I would like one night a week that's just ours, but I don't think I've ever had this even once in the last 6 years. He always needs to go over to his friend's house or see a family member or just veg-out in front of the computer. Another thing I want is respect. The way he sees me is that of the stereotypical way men see women, and most of the world sees me in a much better light. I'm in no position to move on, but I will continue to try to get these things from him while I continue to get to a much independent position. Thank you, Teal. You are awesome.
I hope you are in a better situation now ❤
I lie to myself about wanting to be alone. I always have to reassure myself of this to be comfortable with it. Video games are my favorite hobby, they have become my escape.
Why are you alone?
Happy Birthday Lovely! Thank You for all that you do! and I hope you have a Magical day! ❤️
:) so nice to see fans of Sex Pistols on this channel...Love John Lydon, another progressive thinker with deep social awareness and revolutionary soul.
This is really deeply profound.
A complex but ar the end so simple, and all in good spirit too.
As always, great info Teal!
An outstanding video here. Very finely expressed.
Direct, clear, simple, 1 step, enlightening and indeed life altering. Great, thank you.
you have been of great help, thank you teal swan
It’s fine, don’t worry bout it
i can see that you wanted the lighting in the video to show the light and the dark. im sorry that you have to take. You are so helpful. NOTHING TO FIX!! NOTHING demonic about the help you give.
Thank you so much, Teal. You always know exactly what I need to hear each week, it's crazy. So eternally grateful for you and all that you do. Thank you!!! ❤️❤️❤️
You could apply this to almost any aspect of life amazing video thank you!
The timing of this is remarkable for me personally. Thank you so so much for affirming a realization I had yesterday before watching this regarding my agency within a relationship, and for further expanding upon it. Seriously, with so much gratitude, THANK YOU
Thank you for this video. Perfect timing for the answer of my question despite it being a year later since its upload. It brings me hope again. Very encouraging.
Praying with all my might in my heart I'm not going to fall for severe sleeping problems because of those sweet, passionate eyes which almost makes me scream from the most inner depth of my being. The fact that you're literally a psychic is what goes too far me, it's too far.
Very few people are good, most people are out for themselves
Fantastic insight, thank you Teal 👍
Thank you. Dude I thought I was such a great guy but I hurt a woamn that I love so much by not listening to her, throwung temper tantrums and saying some really ugly things. She showed me my heart and I broke hers. I wish I would hae been open to this before bit then again it took this to bring my ego down. Now I just learned the basics if feeling my own pain... truly feeling it. I realized last Sunday that I had no idea how to feel my own pain even though I knew the concept of that in a knowledge sense. I may have lost her forever because of it and it is a lesson if I have to accept that I will never forget. She is a Goddess, works her ass off and I am. so greatful for her. Pray or send healing to Cat plz. Tha ks Soul fam. Love u fuckers.
Contrasting doesn't have to be by oppisites, but more powerfully compliments.
amazing video teal!!!
She is trying to put something she thinks is good to the word and that is commendable. What I see though is that Teal herself seems to be in pain. I hear it in her voice. I also disagree with the idea of using pain as a point of contrast to get in touch with your expansion. What happens then if you are not in pain? - no expansion. I believe in expanding from a place of joy no matter what is happening in my life. Personally, If I am in pain, I go inward and heal it there by forgiving and releasing my attachments to the world being what I believe it should be. I don't go outward and say "what is the opposite of this painful experience that is showing up in my outer world?" Followed by "what is the opposite of that?" Followed by asking my outward experience to change so it conforms to this idea. That to me is a recipe for powerlessness. Thank you anyway Teal and blessings to all.
Oh man this is definitely for me. I needed to hear this after recent events. Great video.
This is a great message needed to hear this thank you Teal your such an inspiration. 💓
My god teal, thank you. I am flooded with gratitude for your gentle, wise soul 💜
Thank you dear Teal. This is a brilliant tool to shift many relationship paradigms. jll
This resonated with me so much! It is so beautiful and comforting to view relationships from this perspective xoxo 💋💛
i love you Teal...you have given me much strength
You are all loved.
leaving someone just because he doesn't choose to fulfill your desires before he s is just crazy. you might as well stay alone if you can t understand that everyone deserve what they want. Communication and deep understanding (compassion) is the key. Not dependence.
Yay, the screen is back!
Thank you
Wow thanks Teal!
She's saying communicate what you want to someone
Dear Teal
You lay open my soul !!!
a wonderful advice! thank you!
I truly love your videos. I can totally relate with everything you explain. Thank you so much!
Based on many negative comments here i really wonder if those actually ever had a good, true, fully honest relationship. Neither seem they to be able to imagine how it might be. The quality of the relationship starts with a good choice... If you take the next best thing without any closer look... how on earth can you expect it to work out on the long term?
nope, not yet..
It's definitily a gap in the market :P
This would’ve been helpful 20 years ago. But I’ll move forward with this wisdom all the same ✌🏾
veru helpful, thank you Teal, comes in right time. Have a good week as well :-)
More power!
i'm really grateful for ur work.. thank u very much.. i love u.
Life is not about relationships. This is a dangerous mindset. Achievement for the benefit of others is a much better occupation for a human.
I need this information so much, wonderful timing as usual!! ♥♥
Teal - can you please do a video on scapegoating/taking all the responsibility/feeling wrong? Thanks.
I don't think life is relationships. what an absolute statement.
Thanks Teal. Love you!
Happy birthday, Teal!
Truth cometh from life...
Very good video this time Teal! Thank you
as always, amazing.
thank you Beautiful Teal wow you have so much insight on all areas in life experience .... after watching a lot of you tube clips i relised a lot about myself and relationships that gave me the courage to and a relationship with my partner.... I'm relieved tho will will begin to spend time in introspection into the part i played and transform those aspects within that i allowed and why i found it hard to created strong and loving boundaries lots of love and gratitude Rachelle xo
OMG Goddess
Her teachings are blow minding
thanks!
I love you so much Teal and I wish for you so much love and abundance in all areas of your life that is humanly possible!! ♥♥
I don’t know what I’d do without her.
thank you Teal
that was awesome. amazing
Thank you teal this helped :)
Hi am rina from Mauritius like your video 👍
This is beautiful Swan!!! Xoxo
Fantastic video Teal, I love your vids and feel connected to u in some way, we roughly the same age and grown up in the great 80's and well our souls know each other out it that way
Teal about to pass 300k any minute now, 12 more subs heres a pre congrats.
My bad 112 cant count hehe
Hindsight is 20/20
I believe many romantic partner relationships start out with both saying they each want,first of all, to spend the rest of their lifetime being Together Preferentially Available to Each Other.
But THEN one or both start spending too much of that time on someone or something else to be available enough to the other to be a true partner because preferences changed. Much pain comes of this when the less available one also became dishonest about this, trying to Force a change on the other that was Not agreed on by hiding what s/he is doing differently with his/her time and hiding why.
I tend to lose interest when I lose respect for someone else's lack of respect for my right to choose how my time is spent on serving my purposes or wasted to make it serve the other's purposes without regard for serving mine. It seems such a basic understanding to Not treat someone else the way I would Not Want that I feel it's not really a matter of having to actually tell someone they're Not doing what ANYone would Want in ANY kind of relationship. They already Know this full well they're out of line with even "just" Basics and actually have been just revealed as truly "NOT GOOD enough for ME." We ALL know better than to do the misdeeds we do toward one another, "raised under a rock" or not. We were Born knowing better. It's a matter of whether we think we can get by with transgressing against another that ultimately determines what we Choose to do within ANY kind of relationship.
I make Sure to use Enough Words and consciously try to be Ever consistent in maintaining the behaviors that match my words so that any "explanation" for Not doing the same leaves no or little room for further wasting my time on in attempt to confuse me as well. I SEE that I have been misjudged as someone who is not intelligent enough, Not requiring equal respect, too "needy"of a substandard relationship, and foolishly "forgiving." I am none of these AND have made it abundantly Clear. Thus,... Shoo!! You'll probably catch on after about 15 more say Shoo!, indicating they Dont Want to be mistreated by ANYbody and Dont have to settle for Less than basic SENSE
Good Post Teal.
just saw ralph's smart's video with you in it about perfection and wanna let you know that YOU'RE PERFECT!!!!!
leave the person. done!
one of the best videos.
Thank you it is super helpful 🙏
Amazing ❤
Chapter 12 The morning were you continue to elude not the heart as l continue to hear the vibration of how you feel animating the course of time condenced of energies between you and l gathered...
for some reason... I feel like you are the cat down the road...😑😀
infinite waters reference? hahaha
Yes!
They all work together somehow...😑
Thats funny I told Ralph weeks ago I was the cat down the road. lol.
+Lori Miller I guess we are all The cat down to road to somebody huh! lol
well except me and teal, I'm just the black swan on the other side of the lake!