If you see this, MARRY HIM

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  • Опубліковано 26 січ 2025

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  • @manuwayagi
    @manuwayagi Рік тому +60

    Dear future wife, I cannot wait to see you, as I learn on how to win you and make you the best and precious being in our world, please be safe and take care of yourself. Amen

  • @kirabozeridahsarah
    @kirabozeridahsarah Рік тому +45

    Not me cancelling my manz because I just realized that on husband material radar he is no where 🤔 Thank you for the show. Its good to have Bramwel Back

    • @judithsakala4944
      @judithsakala4944 Рік тому +1

      Lol 😂🤣🙌🏾
      Cancel the motherfucker if he lacks the trait’s Benjamin is talking about!🗣️😃🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @yolz555
      @yolz555 Рік тому +10

      Girl it really uncomfortable to realise that
      However in the long run it is necessary for both of you. You future self and family will thank you. It is always important to self reflect and be honest with oneself. May God continuously give us the grace, wisdom, knowledge and understanding in our journey. Amen.
      Courage dear ❤

    • @nemonjuguna8280
      @nemonjuguna8280 Рік тому +4

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kirabozeridahsarah
      @kirabozeridahsarah Рік тому +2

      @@yolz555 you are so right. Thank you for those words of wisdom ❣️

    • @kirabozeridahsarah
      @kirabozeridahsarah Рік тому +2

      @@judithsakala4944 I did that right away. As ladies we are way too precious. Thanks you

  • @rebeccaikilai8673
    @rebeccaikilai8673 Рік тому +20

    Oh my God! You are the most brilliant counsellor I ever listened to!
    A woman's submission is a response to the man's love

  • @perism1586
    @perism1586 Рік тому +17

    A man with boundaries around women.
    A man who values family over his bros.
    A man who is master over his sexual desires.

  • @brendakerubo7398
    @brendakerubo7398 Рік тому +8

    I really missed this duo😅😅😅😅 you learn and laugh at the same time..thank you gentlemen

  • @millicentaswata3907
    @millicentaswata3907 Рік тому +20

    I always find something I am familiar with in your talk shows and chuckle as I learn. This man who wants to please everyone can be a thorn in the flesh. They care about a good reputation from outsiders at the expense of his immediate family.

  • @irenekorir6548
    @irenekorir6548 Рік тому +19

    Loved every bit of the cinversation. Thank you Bz and Bramwel

  • @naomiwaeni4310
    @naomiwaeni4310 Рік тому +2

    Signs he is husband material (If you see this, marry him):
    1. He is a gentleman who has outgrown the nice guy syndrome. He is not a people pleaser. Has boundaries and is not too eager to be accepted.
    2. He values his family more than his boy club. He has outgrown his obsession with the boy group. He chooses his wife over the boy club.
    3. He has outgrown his family. He prioritizes his family in terms of energy, time and resources. He has individuated from his family and gone out there to build something of his own.
    4. He has mastered abstinence, celibacy; sexual discipline. A man that has said no to sex has attained maturity.

  • @kwanelehlabanomoyo
    @kwanelehlabanomoyo Рік тому +13

    Bramwel is back 💃🏽💃🏽… we are happy to see you

  • @maryannifeanacho4219
    @maryannifeanacho4219 Рік тому +8

    Wonderful episode Mr. Zulu. Was blessed by it. Looking dapper as always. Lovely to have Mr. Opiyo back

  • @sarahmakutu6214
    @sarahmakutu6214 Рік тому +13

    Love this content! 🎉 thank you Benjamin and Bramwel!!

  • @pishkarry
    @pishkarry Рік тому +10

    I descriptively enjoy your every show with that captivating laughter with Mr. Bramwel and enriching words you share with the world..!!

  • @florakathambi5815
    @florakathambi5815 Рік тому +8

    Thank you Zulu for always keeping your students with relevant topics and notes..we are greatful

  • @bettybetty8440
    @bettybetty8440 Рік тому +5

    Welcome back Mr Opiyo we missed u .this channel have made mi grow alot. Thanks for sharing wisdom .

  • @mercynekesa9946
    @mercynekesa9946 Рік тому +3

    Great.
    The "don't set rules on the onset of a relationship" did dawn on me well well.
    Thank you.

  • @avrellfrancis6785
    @avrellfrancis6785 Рік тому +1

    Amen love this show, thanks Mr Benjamin for the wisdom you teaches.

  • @namutebilydia3749
    @namutebilydia3749 Рік тому +7

    I like Zulu's smartness both outwardly and inwardly

  • @queenwenzile1807
    @queenwenzile1807 Рік тому +2

    Much love from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼, Always learning in this show .

  • @terrynamukisa3678
    @terrynamukisa3678 Рік тому +9

    Bramwel, good to see you again. We are enjoying the show as well as learning.

  • @brendakinyangi4065
    @brendakinyangi4065 Рік тому +1

    Great insights,"coming from an holy angle" to deal with other relationships..Thanks Zulu

  • @wanjirajackfred4686
    @wanjirajackfred4686 Рік тому +2

    Wow an eye opener right there ati emotional thieves aki Benjamin🤣🤣

  • @roselineclement8505
    @roselineclement8505 Рік тому +1

    I agree with you, Dr. Zulu
    If the relationship "marriage " is 2 for 1.
    Why keep the private public and public private 😅 women wise up. 😊

  • @dorandururi935
    @dorandururi935 Рік тому +1

    😂 You have anointed the wrong King 😂 minute 41.29. Hilarious but very deep.

  • @Nyakato-v3t
    @Nyakato-v3t Рік тому +3

    Hi Grace myself and my family 😅 ❤just coming at an holy angle to cleanse 😂.Always learning while teething😊.Thank you so much 👏👏👏

  • @evangelineN254
    @evangelineN254 Рік тому +1

    The virus traces might still be present 😂😂😂.....Thorough check....... important conversation....thanks

  • @sheilachepkurui3781
    @sheilachepkurui3781 Рік тому +1

    Love this words of wisdom especially that I'm pre-25

  • @estheroluka8598
    @estheroluka8598 Рік тому

    I enjoyed the discussion [spiced up with the laughter....hehe] Thank you Zulu.

  • @norahnayebare5313
    @norahnayebare5313 Рік тому +7

    Missed u Bramwell

  • @catherinekiio9947
    @catherinekiio9947 Рік тому +3

    Bramwel missed you here big time. Hope you're staying now.

  • @cynthiaawuor1222
    @cynthiaawuor1222 Рік тому +1

    Wow. Deep conversation. Very insightful

  • @marymugo1218
    @marymugo1218 Рік тому

    This is good👌👌..I have learnt a lot..keep up the good work sir! Baraka!

  • @richild3967
    @richild3967 Рік тому +3

    Aww bramwell 🙌🏾I missed him ❤️

  • @Alice_Noble
    @Alice_Noble Рік тому +1

    Good to see you again, Bramwel

  • @AimerKimani
    @AimerKimani Рік тому +1

    Hey Zulu,,thanks you for this and more..Now i have a problem when i was young,naive 23 there is this guy who was terrible for me,now that am 25 mm huu mtu nimemsamehe and actually seeing someone else...lakini saa ingine mi hujipata nimetusi huyu jamaa,kwanza nikikumbuka vile alitake advantage...how i was a good girl,am better now but ikifika kwake am something else

  • @loiseochido9146
    @loiseochido9146 Рік тому

    Well said .. On point!!

  • @tino6229
    @tino6229 Рік тому +1

    Bramwel welcome back omg l missed him.

  • @wendymkhwanazi9862
    @wendymkhwanazi9862 Рік тому +2

    Great session 👌👏👏

  • @efe3097
    @efe3097 6 місяців тому

    Benjamin is one of the wisest men on earth.

  • @suebennister1969
    @suebennister1969 Рік тому +1

    I'm here for Bramwels laughter 😂

  • @feminaokoro3894
    @feminaokoro3894 Рік тому +2

    Good to see Bramwel back 😊

  • @I-am-ashley6
    @I-am-ashley6 13 днів тому

    My future husband is listening know God 🙏 open the door

  • @retesanroselyn4404
    @retesanroselyn4404 Рік тому

    Prescribing the code of conduct😂😂😂😂

  • @emmakaruri9267
    @emmakaruri9267 Рік тому +1

    Happy learning together.

  • @junicmatanganyidze4065
    @junicmatanganyidze4065 Рік тому +4

    BramwellI Back Lovely, where have you been , welcome back

  • @titikoso3760
    @titikoso3760 Рік тому +7

    Is it possible to meet a "husband material" and have no connection? In that case should you go ahead and marry him just because he is a husband material?

    • @nansumbanoeline6440
      @nansumbanoeline6440 Рік тому

      it depends on you definition of husband material,some look like ey are and yet actually they are not when you go into indepth

    • @d_euniqueart
      @d_euniqueart Рік тому +1

      @@nansumbanoeline6440that’s not what she means, she means, when someone is a husband material, has all the good qualities but you’re not naturally attracted to him, can you still marry them with their good qualities but lack of attraction?

  • @anamirta8035
    @anamirta8035 Рік тому +1

    Looking at this carpet in the studio ..

  • @lizsonny7460
    @lizsonny7460 Рік тому +1

    One week and he is the best person ever🤣🤣🤣🤣 bramo we missed you 🎉

  • @abishagnabakooza1331
    @abishagnabakooza1331 9 місяців тому

    What about a man who does what the mom says?? The answer he told to me that hes only son.

    • @sonniemuthoni6027
      @sonniemuthoni6027 6 місяців тому

      Thats a kid mindset he is not ready to be a mature man.

  • @boikanyogaolathe5834
    @boikanyogaolathe5834 Рік тому +2

    I love your show

  • @evakathomi237
    @evakathomi237 Рік тому +1

    Annointed the wrong king 😂😂

  • @mosesotieno18
    @mosesotieno18 Рік тому

    Red pepper (spice which became main meal) l like that.

  • @jacklinerabongo5367
    @jacklinerabongo5367 Рік тому

    Am glad I watched this

  • @margret2688
    @margret2688 Рік тому

    Such an intresting topic

  • @gloriachombo9694
    @gloriachombo9694 Рік тому

    Myself and my family 😂😂😂

  • @CarolineNyamboto
    @CarolineNyamboto Рік тому

    Why use Caro's fridge Zulu surely 😅😅😅

  • @slp1561
    @slp1561 Рік тому

    Red pepper😂 Cool❤❤❤❤

  • @jesse_kihara
    @jesse_kihara Рік тому +1

    I've loved the show

  • @judywanjiru1742
    @judywanjiru1742 Рік тому +2

    Wooow bram ur welcome

  • @sanitationEng
    @sanitationEng Рік тому +1

    🤣🤣🤣Zulu

  • @marydena3027
    @marydena3027 Рік тому +2

    Selfish men and selfish women should not marry anyone.

  • @glodieglodie919
    @glodieglodie919 Рік тому +2

    when you stop being manupable ,you will he hated by many.. be ready to be the bad one in some people's stories

  • @MarcKaisu256
    @MarcKaisu256 Рік тому

  • @wawerusarah251
    @wawerusarah251 Рік тому

    The host's laugh is way too much

  • @sheisjacinta_
    @sheisjacinta_ Рік тому

    Oh yea