Dear future wife, I cannot wait to see you, as I learn on how to win you and make you the best and precious being in our world, please be safe and take care of yourself. Amen
Not me cancelling my manz because I just realized that on husband material radar he is no where 🤔 Thank you for the show. Its good to have Bramwel Back
Girl it really uncomfortable to realise that However in the long run it is necessary for both of you. You future self and family will thank you. It is always important to self reflect and be honest with oneself. May God continuously give us the grace, wisdom, knowledge and understanding in our journey. Amen. Courage dear ❤
I always find something I am familiar with in your talk shows and chuckle as I learn. This man who wants to please everyone can be a thorn in the flesh. They care about a good reputation from outsiders at the expense of his immediate family.
Signs he is husband material (If you see this, marry him): 1. He is a gentleman who has outgrown the nice guy syndrome. He is not a people pleaser. Has boundaries and is not too eager to be accepted. 2. He values his family more than his boy club. He has outgrown his obsession with the boy group. He chooses his wife over the boy club. 3. He has outgrown his family. He prioritizes his family in terms of energy, time and resources. He has individuated from his family and gone out there to build something of his own. 4. He has mastered abstinence, celibacy; sexual discipline. A man that has said no to sex has attained maturity.
Hey Zulu,,thanks you for this and more..Now i have a problem when i was young,naive 23 there is this guy who was terrible for me,now that am 25 mm huu mtu nimemsamehe and actually seeing someone else...lakini saa ingine mi hujipata nimetusi huyu jamaa,kwanza nikikumbuka vile alitake advantage...how i was a good girl,am better now but ikifika kwake am something else
Is it possible to meet a "husband material" and have no connection? In that case should you go ahead and marry him just because he is a husband material?
@@nansumbanoeline6440that’s not what she means, she means, when someone is a husband material, has all the good qualities but you’re not naturally attracted to him, can you still marry them with their good qualities but lack of attraction?
Dear future wife, I cannot wait to see you, as I learn on how to win you and make you the best and precious being in our world, please be safe and take care of yourself. Amen
aawwww..wishing you luck
😂😂😂
Aww, AMEN.
❤ wow
I wish I can get such a man anyway all the best
Not me cancelling my manz because I just realized that on husband material radar he is no where 🤔 Thank you for the show. Its good to have Bramwel Back
Lol 😂🤣🙌🏾
Cancel the motherfucker if he lacks the trait’s Benjamin is talking about!🗣️😃🤷🏾♀️
Girl it really uncomfortable to realise that
However in the long run it is necessary for both of you. You future self and family will thank you. It is always important to self reflect and be honest with oneself. May God continuously give us the grace, wisdom, knowledge and understanding in our journey. Amen.
Courage dear ❤
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@yolz555 you are so right. Thank you for those words of wisdom ❣️
@@judithsakala4944 I did that right away. As ladies we are way too precious. Thanks you
Oh my God! You are the most brilliant counsellor I ever listened to!
A woman's submission is a response to the man's love
So true
A man with boundaries around women.
A man who values family over his bros.
A man who is master over his sexual desires.
I really missed this duo😅😅😅😅 you learn and laugh at the same time..thank you gentlemen
I always find something I am familiar with in your talk shows and chuckle as I learn. This man who wants to please everyone can be a thorn in the flesh. They care about a good reputation from outsiders at the expense of his immediate family.
Loved every bit of the cinversation. Thank you Bz and Bramwel
conversation
Signs he is husband material (If you see this, marry him):
1. He is a gentleman who has outgrown the nice guy syndrome. He is not a people pleaser. Has boundaries and is not too eager to be accepted.
2. He values his family more than his boy club. He has outgrown his obsession with the boy group. He chooses his wife over the boy club.
3. He has outgrown his family. He prioritizes his family in terms of energy, time and resources. He has individuated from his family and gone out there to build something of his own.
4. He has mastered abstinence, celibacy; sexual discipline. A man that has said no to sex has attained maturity.
Bramwel is back 💃🏽💃🏽… we are happy to see you
I love Bram🎉🎉..
Wonderful episode Mr. Zulu. Was blessed by it. Looking dapper as always. Lovely to have Mr. Opiyo back
Love this content! 🎉 thank you Benjamin and Bramwel!!
I descriptively enjoy your every show with that captivating laughter with Mr. Bramwel and enriching words you share with the world..!!
Thank you Zulu for always keeping your students with relevant topics and notes..we are greatful
Welcome back Mr Opiyo we missed u .this channel have made mi grow alot. Thanks for sharing wisdom .
Great.
The "don't set rules on the onset of a relationship" did dawn on me well well.
Thank you.
Amen love this show, thanks Mr Benjamin for the wisdom you teaches.
I like Zulu's smartness both outwardly and inwardly
Much love from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼, Always learning in this show .
Bramwel, good to see you again. We are enjoying the show as well as learning.
Great insights,"coming from an holy angle" to deal with other relationships..Thanks Zulu
Wow an eye opener right there ati emotional thieves aki Benjamin🤣🤣
I agree with you, Dr. Zulu
If the relationship "marriage " is 2 for 1.
Why keep the private public and public private 😅 women wise up. 😊
😂 You have anointed the wrong King 😂 minute 41.29. Hilarious but very deep.
Hi Grace myself and my family 😅 ❤just coming at an holy angle to cleanse 😂.Always learning while teething😊.Thank you so much 👏👏👏
Okitegera
The virus traces might still be present 😂😂😂.....Thorough check....... important conversation....thanks
Love this words of wisdom especially that I'm pre-25
I enjoyed the discussion [spiced up with the laughter....hehe] Thank you Zulu.
Missed u Bramwell
Bramwel missed you here big time. Hope you're staying now.
Wow. Deep conversation. Very insightful
This is good👌👌..I have learnt a lot..keep up the good work sir! Baraka!
Aww bramwell 🙌🏾I missed him ❤️
Good to see you again, Bramwel
Hey Zulu,,thanks you for this and more..Now i have a problem when i was young,naive 23 there is this guy who was terrible for me,now that am 25 mm huu mtu nimemsamehe and actually seeing someone else...lakini saa ingine mi hujipata nimetusi huyu jamaa,kwanza nikikumbuka vile alitake advantage...how i was a good girl,am better now but ikifika kwake am something else
Well said .. On point!!
Bramwel welcome back omg l missed him.
Great session 👌👏👏
Benjamin is one of the wisest men on earth.
I'm here for Bramwels laughter 😂
Good to see Bramwel back 😊
Yes we love him
My future husband is listening know God 🙏 open the door
Prescribing the code of conduct😂😂😂😂
Happy learning together.
BramwellI Back Lovely, where have you been , welcome back
Is it possible to meet a "husband material" and have no connection? In that case should you go ahead and marry him just because he is a husband material?
it depends on you definition of husband material,some look like ey are and yet actually they are not when you go into indepth
@@nansumbanoeline6440that’s not what she means, she means, when someone is a husband material, has all the good qualities but you’re not naturally attracted to him, can you still marry them with their good qualities but lack of attraction?
Looking at this carpet in the studio ..
One week and he is the best person ever🤣🤣🤣🤣 bramo we missed you 🎉
What about a man who does what the mom says?? The answer he told to me that hes only son.
Thats a kid mindset he is not ready to be a mature man.
I love your show
Annointed the wrong king 😂😂
Red pepper (spice which became main meal) l like that.
Am glad I watched this
Such an intresting topic
Myself and my family 😂😂😂
Why use Caro's fridge Zulu surely 😅😅😅
Red pepper😂 Cool❤❤❤❤
I've loved the show
Wooow bram ur welcome
🤣🤣🤣Zulu
Selfish men and selfish women should not marry anyone.
when you stop being manupable ,you will he hated by many.. be ready to be the bad one in some people's stories
❤
The host's laugh is way too much
Oh yea