TELLING GUYS I'M TRANSGENDER | social experiment
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
- I went on chatting websites as a social experiment to see how guys react to me being a transgender woman!
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I'm going to do keep creating more content like this. Any suggestions?
You must prank people
I’d love to see another Q&A if it’s something that you’d be interested in filming :)
I’d also love to see you reviewing like some Swedish food because I know not all your fans are Swedish :)
Interesting video. Would also like seeing uniquely Sweedish foods, dishes, entrées, (i.e. Sweedish pancakes 🥞/ fish / meatballs/etc.). You have mentioned several times that you like tacos 🌮 but they are very different in Sweden, than in the America's-Would like to see what tacos actually like in Sweden.
This exact kind of video!! It's un-nerving, but irresistibly fascinating. The beauty of human kindness shines through. I cannot tell you how much I love this video - I'm adding it to my favorites.
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Could you please make one of these with girls? Idk I’d just love to see that :)
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Yeh go on
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Yeey...I was one of the people who suggested you to do this video. 😊
I'm pretty sure it can be kinda nerve-racking, but you handled it so well. I hope you'll do more videos like this in the future, it' so entertaining. ❤
Have you seen the video where I did this the first time as well? ❤️❤️
@ Girl, ofc! When I found out your channel, I've binge-watched all your videos. 😃❤
You're so brave girl!! I could never do this.
I’m sure you’re braver than you think! ❤️❤️❤️
Same hun. This sounds terrifying!
Why though? I mean I get the stress that comes with it and I know teenage brain is more sensitive to negative experiences than the adult's but seriously, if anyone's rude or hateful towards you only due to your being trans or part of the LGBT, they're just bad and vile people who at the end of the day, don't know you or your loved ones, your address or phone number, etc. So there is no reason to be worried about them throwing their meltdowns and tantrums. And surely their opinions matter even less than themselves as long as they don't make you lose your voice. And please do keep in mind that unlike what many people claiming that all people are gray and not entirely bad, bad people always seem to come in full packages so the LGBTphobes are always misogynistic too and most of them are fanatics and !ncels and rednecks as well with serious terror!st tendencies and a large number of those are in fact child abusers and animal abusers too. So, is a human-looking infested pile of crap like that, one that you think has opinions or ways of thinking that you want to give value to enough to upset you or enough to change your beliefs??? I really hope the answer to that question is no. Worst and most hopeless situations are when the victims don't fight back and let the abusers and wastes of oxygens always get their ways and be the only voices heard.
I have so much respect for her and her confidence holy cow
Question: what responses would you get from women on the app? Are they as rude as men on the subject. YOU are a human being and have the RIGHT to be your true self!
As a bi transgirl myself, I cant say for every situation, but I generally always get more respectful comments from cis girls. Even dating, they're not ashamed to be seen with me in public even tho I don't (at least don't think I do, but sometimes depending on the person I do 🤷🏼♀️) pass. On dating apps they've always been respectful, nice, compliment me, are very friendly, etc.
I got misgendered by 3 dudes at a bar and later that night got a cis girls number who I talked to and vibed with for like 2 hours.
Tho it's not always that way, another time I was out I had a cis girl call me a slur as I walked past her and then started threatening and yelling at me that she was gonna [redacted] me up. She eventually got kicked out of the bar tho so 🤷🏼♀️
But overall I've had nothing but good experiences. If I'm getting coffee from Starbucks they compliment my hair, nails, or makeup which catches me by surprise and I think is really nice. Whereas men usually wanna hookup but are afraid of people finding out. But me and my exes who were cis girls never had a problem going on dates or to the park getting food, etc.
She definitely seems natural
Its equal... there are many unsupportive women too! The thing is most of them won´t show it right away which makes it even crappier imo
@@jokybones very true
@@jokybones A recent study has found that of all cis people, cis lesbians are the most trans-accepting. I forgot the exact percentage but it was over 90%. And lots of studies have shown that a smaller percentage of women are queer-phobic than men. So I don't think you're right in saying it's equal.
"He said f*ck you and you shouldn't say that to people."
Me - My friends and I say it to each other all the time though...
Well that’s completely different tho. I mean would you say it to a random lady on the bus? 😅
@ Oh absolutely not! You shouldn't say that to people, didn't you know?
But seriously I would never say that to some random person.
Hes probably no good to women either
@G Aug I just peeked at a few of your comments on her channel and why are you being so creepy? Cut it out.
@G Aug It is very impolite to say that to women. Men or teenagers say it among each other, but it is considered very impolite to say it around women or children. And NEVER say it TO a woman. It means I hate you when you say it to a woman.
“Now I’m going to move on, bye” LMAO HE WAS SO CONFUSED
"its like you've never heard that before" omg girl you are so beautiful!!!
Love that so many guys are ok with trans nowadays I am seeing a link between men with untamed beards and attitudes like the second guys
Sadly it seems most who are "okay" with trans women always go straight for the surgery questions. Trans women who have not gotten the surgery or don't want it are just as valid though!
Ah those awkward moments when you tell a man that you're transgender. Then they start to asking you: "So did you do the bottom surgery?" , "How dose it looks?" , "Dose it feel real down there?" , "Can you have a period?". Im just listening and think to my self can you change the topic please or some one kill me please in that moment. If i like the Person i talk with him about it and explain it otherwise i try to change the subject. But i must say for my part i was lucky until now never encountered some one that reacted badly or insulted me. I can't say if it's the cultural differences in the country where i live or that i got lucky until now. Btw i like your videos girl awesome work and stay true to your self.
@@itsMe_TheHerpes I have a question for you dose it hurt being so DUMB? Or is it a blessing being ignorant and dumb?
@@itsMe_TheHerpes First of all you go to a stranger and talk about feces, didn't your parents teach you any manners? If you're so in love about your feces then i recommend you to do your research on your own and don't go around asking random people publicly. Manners are what make us human and civilized, if not for them we are not better then animals. I asked you a simple question, are you hurt cause of it? And to answer your last question: I can't tell you if it hurts or if it's a blessing on personal experience. I could write you a hypothesis about it, but why should i waste my time for such trivial stuff. If you want to know why, i was in school for gifted people and i see most of humans as stupid but in the end it is manners that count but you clearly lack of it.
@@itsMe_TheHerpes 🤦♀️ Could it be possible that you are an US citizen?
@@itsMe_TheHerpes This explains a lot and i am sorry for you. Why should i want to live in a country that doesn't have health care as a basic human right? And there are many other big flaws, that make the USA a third world country disguised as a first world country. Well third world country is a bit mean, maybe a second world country at it best. I don't know if you was ever outside of the US once, but you would be surprised how badly the reputation of the US is. So believe me i wouldn't want to live in the US even if some one would offer me 1bilion dollars cash.
@@itsMe_TheHerpes If you want to know i live in Germany. I wouldn't say that it's a perfect place either, because it has it's flaws to. But compared to the US it is better like most of the other country's in Europe.
Someone's insecurities are humorous. You're the girlfriend I wish I had. Even if you didn't have the full replacement surgery
Everyone is a mirror and see their issues in others. That guy on 6 minutes was a huge creep!I would be really curious and find you courageous!
@Tristan Wintle 😂😂😂 you’re insecure af. You hate because you fear. It’s been proven. 😂😂😂
@Tristan Wintle I wish you and your narrow mindedness a wonderful day. 💪😉✌️
@Al Marcel haters hate because they can’t equate 🥱
@@MrHubbmuscle we equated that two phalluses in a relationship are homosexual
You could end the call by inviting them to watch your channel to learn more about people who are transgender. Before that maybe let them know that you were doing a social experiment NOT to put them on the spot in any way, but to help educate and create more compassion and appreciation for all of the different kinds of beautiful people in the world.
I'm not trans, but I'm gay and your videos really helped me, and I generally love the videos you make because you literally have both funny and sad and serious and instructive topics, greetings from Croatia☺️
Of course you're from Croatia 😂😂
@@bosanskipatriota2295 How come? Is everyone there gay?
I mean, I have an online friend from there who's bi.
@@TheUnforgiven59 of course not, but there is an inner joke that goes like "there are no gay bosnian men but croatians and slovenian are gay". It's not true but for example in movies or a series, the role of a gay man is played by a Croatian, it's almost always like that
Educate the world ❤️
I’m trying 😂😂
That's the reason I watch The Girl, Mathildas videos. 👌
I absolutely loved this video your content is keeping me sane with the dysphoria tysm! 💞
“You transed very well” loll, that phrasing is so funny 😂
Great vid though, thanks for sharing!
I am fairly new to your channel but I appreciate your willingness to step out of your comfort zone to confront the "stigmas" associated with revealing that you are transgender. I may not understand but we are all human beings and all deserving of understanding and compassion. I applaud you for your honesty and vulnerability.
You love you so much Matilda your fact your transgender is only a small part of you there are so many more beautiful parts Matilda I would love to meet you in person you seem like an awesome person to get to know
I love how you take it in your stride and even though it upsets you you dont let it show. It must be so hard being trans you could be completely beautiful like you and guys still reject you. It's good that most dont care though.
Luck of the draw, perhaps; most of them were nice guys - except for that one douche... But this was funny. 😅
I think in general awareness has increased and as people become more exposed to the transgender community they start to realize that people are people and there is way more about us that is the same than different. Back 30 years ago I date a transgender girl, she was such a lovely person inside and out. even thirty years later losing her still seems raw.
Losing him. U ghey u still think about him wtf 🤯
Why do people feel the need to say "I'm a straight male but you're gorgeous and attractive blah blah blah"? Yo, you don't gotta distinguish that you're straight and a male. Liking a trans woman does not make you any less straight because, surprise, she is a woman. How much more straight can you get when you, a guy, likes a woman?
Yikes some of you are literally all of the cringe.
@Destiny Jimenez it's more the fact that they used to be biologically male. I'm sure you knew that tho.
Here before the comment war starts
@@marufez_4457 Biologically male doesn't make sense. Sex and gender are not the same thing nor does your physical sex determine your gender. Trans women are women. Period. No "biologically male" crap about us.
@@averyofhousejade1176 my comment was specifically in response to - "Why do people feel the need to say "I'm a straight male but you're gorgeous and attractive blah blah blah"? Yo, you don't gotta distinguish that you're straight and a male".
From the perspective of straight people, we don't naturally make a distinction between sex and gender. I guess we feel the need to point out that we are straight cuz it still somewhat seems gay as they used to be male. Whether trans women were women was not my objection.
@@marufez_4457 Except trans women were never men. Trans women are women. Always have been. Always will be. Its not our fault that someone else decided what our gender was when we were born based solely on our genitals. We cannot help that. But we are still women and always have been.
Also you mean cishet folks, not straight people. Plenty of straight trans folks out there. Straight just means attraction to the opposite gender. It does not mean people who identify with the gender they were assigned at birth.
Shirts totally optional in this video.
You are a good looking young woman.
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glad to see that others girls can have a hard time speaking about this to
"Fuck you and go away".... I can't even find words to describe how pissed that one guy made me😡😠 On the other hand
OMG I don't think I can use enough words to describe how strong you are 💖 keep your head high girl🌹
Why? Did he look like anything that matters?? As long as he's not given any power over any living being's lives he's irrelevant to the world and so are his worthless terror!st misogynistic opinions of fascism.
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@@Cutie_Pie_Ruhiomg you did just not..
Just kidding keep on 👴🏻
@@64719 Chad girl here! Hahaha!
I had to click out of the video. Too anxiety inducing for me to watch. Love you Matilda
What apps is that? I wanna try
Bermuda ❤️
In my experience guys typically prefer pre op but don't want anyone finding out and they mostly are very quiet about it. When they ask about surgery not even on a date but if you are getting to know each other they are trying to prospectively weed you out and establish a complex that *phew* they are straight.
Seriously why do some of the guys look like they are half naked and / or in bed ewwwww lol
Thanks Mathilda, more of what you like is good with me x
I love these videos but THE ANXIETY they give me omggggg
The world is changing and being transgender is becoming more publicly accepted. That's the primary reason I was comfortable enough to admit to myself that I'm trans. I've been able to find people supportive and accepting so I don't feel so alone against the world. I feel like I can actually have a place in it. There will always be those that will hate and use it as an excuse for that hate but social norm is definitely moving more toward acceptance.
I recently came out as trans (MtF) and I died of laughter when that guy was like "f**k you" 😂
But he wouldn't.
This was great to watch thank you :) keep being brave and fierce, girl ! ❤️
Hahaha the second guy😆😆 anyways hope you doing well Mathilda😊
@4:47 I recently watched some of your videos and came across these social experiments. Honestly, I think people wouldn't be able to tell you're transgender until you told them. Maybe it's because you're Swedish, but you seriously look like an elf princess from LOTR. Also, many beautiful people (women and men) have an adrogynous look to them. The most strikingly beautiful movie stars, many could pass for the opposite gender if they presented themselves as such. Objectively speaking, physically you're very beautiful and people would not expect you to be transgender unless you told them. I can understand why rejection would be a sensitive issue in a situation like yours. Prejudice, phobia, and hatred is a hard burden to bear. But it's also important to remember that when you are going off just looks, there's always people who will reject you. Sometimes people reject others for reasons that are completely personal like they are reminded of an ex or something like that. Anyway, just something to keep in mind. You have very interesting and educational videos. And I think your content/channel is a very good way to normalize and educate the larger society on transgender identity.
Unfortunately we live in a judgemental world. Mathilda, you are so brave. You are beautiful. Keep doing what you do girl!
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Its not judgemental...straight dudes simply prefer females. Its odd thats so difficult for this community to understand
@@jessicaday2198 Okay but when you're being disrespectful and rude that goes past a preference.
And having a preference is still judgmental even though I think preferences are completely fine because discriminatory by nature and It's literally a preference, when it goes too far it is when you're being disrespectful to the group that you don't prefer....
Also don't generalize an entire group of people, cuz I'm sure you would have a heart attack if it was done to you 💀.
It baffles me how people don't understand nuance and common sense.
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Mahw, it's kind of a pity that so many have been designed to demand a proof. But from another perspective, maybe you are just so convincing Mathilda, that they think you are making fun of them :p
I get that you're into men. I'm a cis lesbian & polyamorous. I've been in a 3 year committed relationship with 3 girls., one of whom is trans & identifies as a lesbian. We adore each other & have such a lovely relationship & the sex is amazing. Unfortunately me & my other cis gf have experienced lots of negative reactions in the lesbian community. We've both lost many dear & long term friends because many lesbians are transphobic. It's bee very painful, but we've also found new friends who are so accepting& empathetic. I miss my old friends that have gone TERF & cut me off. I'm so lucky to have my trans-lesbian gf in my life. She's beautiful&smart & so loving. Just wanted to share that with you Matilda.
😢 That is really saddening to hear.
Omfg as a trans guy I could NEVER do this, I’d be WAYY too nervous! Props to you!
Omg 🤭 I hope you’re okay from doing videos like this. I can’t imagine.
Also, it’s nice to say things that you are insecure about to strangers. They don’t matter, so you can just get what you need to off your chest.
This gives me hope. Amazing responses. Except that one guy. LOL. Beautiful Mathilda (inside and out)... you are helping to change the world!!! Thank you!!! 🥰🤩😍🥰
I think the biggest Problem are people who are trans Gay or "different" and are total assholes and expect to get treated with more respect just because. Twitter is a haven for those people and its so sad!
"omg your so beautiful" says everyone HAHAHAHAHAHAH.
The audacity of some people oh my god. What the fuck? He was vibing with you until you said you were trans and then all the sudden he said fuck you? Wtf? It’s definitely been ingrained in him to dislike people that aren’t just like him
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I’m sorry you had to deal with that
The most okward part is the goodbye for me xD okay 8:11 You actually pointed that out lol
Apparently guys don't wear shirts on that chat
Mathilda, you're an attractive woman with bubbly personality so people will like you. Even if someone has a problem with a trans person there is no need for them to be rude.
Oh my goodness, that man was so disrespectful, he must be at least be polite to a stranger person, that's totally awful how he treated with you 🥺😔😓😡
Some of guys made me cringe
Same 😂
Hello I’m gay by the way lol 😂 , I know this can be a awkward question for anyone transgender, but why go after someone who is mostly straight and maybe transphobic than someone who is gay and interested in transgender men or women?
It shows that all the hard work transgender people have been doing over the years is working. The message is getting through :)
Nice !
Oof I'd try to do this myself but since I haven't had surgery I feel like the majority of guys would be mean . Prob just end up being a video of me crying x.x
love you rachel !!!
Your so adorable 🥺 your personality is so cute !
I love that you are putting yourself out there even though it's so scary. I truly hope that more and more people will start to react like most of these guys did. You are a beautiful human and woman and I'm glad so many people in this video were open minded and kind to you 💕
I’m laughing so hard... I guess the last guy is in Ukraine cause one of the flags at his job was blue and yellow.
i just want to be friends with the funny guy, he seems very nice.
The third man is the chad guy. Loved him.❤️
Wow the most people are really really accepting like wow
People shouldn't be freaked out but some are and your a beautiful lady.
With out going in to my back ground although I will say I relate to you TOTALLY ♥
I LOVE you as a person!
Thank you thank you THANKYOU for being normal ♥♥♥
Hahaahha I am crying lol this is great, the start of the video was too funny xD
Wow so many nice persons just caring about who yoz are. *Calms down and hopes*
Why do you put yourself through that. It's not necessary. If I run a poll like that of myself with women online, I would have a ton of them that would react the same. There are a million people who might not like you. However, life is too short to focus on that. You are very beautiful trans or cis measurements of beauty and charm put you in a very high category both inside and outside. As parting thought and an objective one, you are a trophy babe. So you know.
Hey I am a newer sub would love to see a video about the comments that genuinely make you happy! Love your work and love your couples videos too! Be happy you are a beautiful woman you just had to make yourself that way. PS.. You did an awesome job at it! Thank you for being you I like it :)
Which chat network are you using?I would be afraid of creeps..and inappropriate photos sent ..
I wonder if people mistake the words transgender and transvestite and think it is the same thing? crazy how two totally different situations have such similar names? I would not think twice dating a transgender person as they are who they are, where a transvestite is not so much what you see is what you get and could be surprised when you become intimate?
I love trans girls!
M. S. And I love trans boys (ftm)
Why do I wanna try this lol, looks fun thanks for sharing sis ☺ trans girls rule
This is weird but you have the perfect tall skinny nech, you should wear hoop earings! I would!
Had to check to see if this was a reupload, you did do this once before lol.
You should try this on Predominantly Muslim & Arabic Omegle style apps
Did you notice the countries the people come from who are more open or less open?
You will find masculine men are not going to be happy with Transwomen but more feminine men will react a bit better.
I also consider it a persons loss if they can't appreciate me for the beautiful woman I have blossomed into. Not my fault they're stupid to not realize that I am probably a more genuine people than most are
You are the best youtuber for me 💖💗
amazing video girl!!! : )
För mig är du en vacker tjej ❤❤
4 seconds ago.
About the first guy, I feel like it's disrespectful to ask us about what's down there...
Really shows what guys only care about 🤢
Im used to it, unfortunately
Btw, you're fast, 4 seconds is crazy!
@ I feel like it's a question that people only ask to people with a great passing so...
@ I was just in my subscription feed and I saw the video lol
I was faster than the notification!
Damn, Usain Bolt who?
Oh cringe cringe cringe. 😂
Why are the men half naked? One even put his pants on during the call. Mathilda, I really had fun/pain watching this. Keep them coming! 👌👌
Y is that guy in a government building ? 🤔😂
What I love about Martin Luther King Jr.'s work was that he taught us not to return hate with hate, but to try to put ourselves in the person's shoes, just as we'd like them to try to put themselves in our shoes. Compassion is what heals ignorance and hatred.
This was a brave thing to do! I was really worried about how this would turn out, but in the end most of the guys were actually quite nice. Only one person was nasty, and the second guy was a bit weird. I'm not familiar with the app, but I expect that most of the guys that go on it are generally of a certain type. I'm not sure what that type would be, but I don't imagine it is a representative cross-section of the overall population. Anyway, the video was good, but I found it a bit too hard to watch at times, so I'm not sure I want any more videos like this.
What happened to your arm?
I would just say to you: "Good for you, love". Hahaha, it's funny how people react nowadays like they don't care. It's ok as long as they mean it and they just don't do virtue signalling or speaking out of fear of being exposed on youtube
We want more! ❤
Would be way different if it would be a different gender saying his trans
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So true
Is everything going okay with you and your boyfriend? You seem like you're going through something... awesome video as usual though!
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1:14 is that the rock? 😂
U are my favorite youtuber love u M.H
Thank you so much, Love u two of course! ❤️
@ thank u to be kind to everyone best of luck FOR YOUR future M.H AND YOUR BF TOO!
That's great girl the video went well I was laughing with you don't be surprise of the results you get your beautiful yeah!
7:45 At least he apologized for asking that👍🏽
What app is that? And btw I love you your amazing
Always smile mathilda
1:10 The Rock, bitch!
what dating app is this?
You are so brave!
I'm a 23 year old non binary trans femme who just started hormones a month ago and am in a precarious financial state. Do you/anyone have any tips for financing your transition as you were able to at a fairly young age? I'm not interested in every possible procedure but any advice would be really helpful regardless!
So inspiring