Years ago, I worked in a woman's clothing shop in a mall. My VERY BEST CUSTOMER was a man. He wasn't transgender. He wasn't a drag queen. He was a man with a full beard who just like women's clothing. I was the only one who would help him. I got his contact information and called him whenever we had a sale or got something new in that I knew he'd like. He was awesome.
its just the weird double standard. like women can wear boys clothes but boys cant wear womens; double standard. props to that guy for doing what he wanted 💪💪💪💪💪💪
That is actually awesome and props on you for being that supportive friend to a man (who actually just identifies as a man) who just likes women’s clothes
Bet My Name Spooked You Dude same. "Don't bother the customers" "Bitch don't bother the hospital staff after I beat you with this standing mirror, c'mon square up"
Well she's probably been through this (or something similar) situation before. If so, I image it would be very easy to remember the scenario and the way it made you feel.
wouldn't it have been a wee be funny if that was the reason why the lady refused to sell the trans lady the clothes. Because she looked better than her
The girl at the end is so admirable and amazing and beautiful, and it's beautiful how she brought genuine tears into the actors' eyes! I'm so glad she exists.
I'm an introvert, I hate getting into arguments. But if ever I got to be into this show, those rude ppl be hearing somethin from me for sure and then I'd probably cry
Oppressive Straight White Male Dude, it's 2018 now get over yourself. If you say shit like that in public, you would either have been beaten or killed for messing with the wrong person. Unless you're one of those people who hide behind a screen.
I was so proud of her. She clearly struggles with anxiety and panic attacks (she said so herself), but she pushed past that to come to a stranger's defense. She really is a tenderhearted gem. ^_^
@robyn coldwell that's actually really nasty of you to say and extremely biggoted I know the kaylist irl and he is gender fluid and you are projecting hate speech at him because he is gender fluid.
@@TheShadowVorlon holy shit calm down mabye I came to the UA-cam comments for a laugh and mabey I was JOKING. Like don't come into UA-cam comments where people make jokes if your gonna get triggered.
@@deshawnawatermelon5273 Your "Joking" did *not* come off as joking. Worse than that - your words "Hurt"! How would you feel to be a Trans Woman and read your words and find yourself so hurting that you could not hold back my tears??? Yes, your word hurt me - I am a Pre-Transition Trans Woman. You seem to have no feeling for how much your words can hurt. Or do you really think it is a joke to devastate my feelings so severely I cannot hold back my tears???
Shadow Nightmare i know exactly what you’re going through sweetie, what seems to work for me the best is reading the comments and just not reading the replies babe. there will always be intolerant people in the word and we have to realize what they think doesn’t matter
The last woman was the most adorable person in the world, I hope everything goes well for her she deserves happiness forever (Everyone who helped her as well I just love what she did so much)
In the brief moment she appeared she showed so much empathy and love and I could feel it through the screen. I’m not trans or anything but it touched me.
The red head girl's sweetness made me cry, literally. As a trans man, having cis (non-trans) people understand how hard it is for us to live everyday as our true self and be shamed, bullied and even killed for it, that means so much.
All of these woman were so strong but the little red haired girl truly inspired me. You know it took every mustard of strength she had to stand up to that sales clerk
I would get *mAd* I wouldn’t say “ma’am” or “sir”. You never know what their gender could be, for all you know, they wouldn’t classify themself as a “male” or “female”
I’m mtf and because I’m early in transition and still look masculine I don’t mind being called sir , but this lady in the vid is beautiful if the show wasn’t a set up no way anyone would guess she is transgender but anyway point is just treat everyone with respect if you don’t have a good word to say then say nothing
Christoman64 LoL 😂 I’m trans myself but that lady in that video was a psycho , as she looked more masculine than Rambo so really shouldn’t have been surprised at being called Sir but the lady in this vid is beautiful and acts like a proper lady should act
"I'm afraid you might rip that dress because of the shape of your body." Then do your job. Ask her what her size is and go find a dress that fits. It's not even about gender. Anyone can be tall and have a lot of muscles like that.
I'm so glad someone finally said that, lol! A lot of times, if you see another woman shaming a trans woman, they're more likely to look like a man than the trans person...😶 Just sayin'... TEA... *insert Kermit the Frog sipping tea meme*
Dude for real! I know plenty of women with that body type! Its not specific to men!!! She didnt even look like a man to me i wouldve never guessed in a million years. Shes absolutely gorgeous!
I feel bad for the last girl. Because as somebody with panic attacks this is an emotional rollercoaster with so much anxiety and she did it like a champ! Proud of you boo!!!!! You straightened another womens crown! Super proud of you! So out of your comfort zone but you still went there to support another person. You are gold!
She was so cute, Like she was struggling with her own stuff (anxiety panic attacks) it took her alot to stand up the trans woman it was super cute and lovley
Trickshot Perfectionists This isn't a place to spread your negativity. If you don't agree with something then keep it to yourself, this is a place where people love and support others. Please leave.
gene carlo People who are transgender are born with chemical imbalances in their brains. It’s actually a woman’s brain in a man’s body, or vice versa. It isn’t a decision, it is an actual medical term. It is gender dysphoria. Someone who is FTM is actually a man, just in the wrong body. And they will hate their bodies until they can change it.
gene carlo I’m not lying. I’ve heard medical professionals say so. Physiologically, yes, they are are a certain gender, but someone is hardly ever just their body. Your mind makes up most of who you are as a person and their minds are chemically different than their bodies. It isn’t a choice that they make.
@@Maya-wk7dt Perhaps, but I'm a binary girl and my voice is so ridiculously deep everyone thinks I'm a guy if they can't see me. I'm talking like I pick up the phone and my friends ask if my brother is speaking 😂 (my grandma thought I was my brother, too). And while I was assisting in a kindergarten class the kids had an argument about whether or not I was a girl because "my voice is deep" but I "look like a girl." (That was fun lmao, I let them speculate for a while, though they eventually agreed I was a girl). TLDR yeah many girls have low voices that can be mistaken for a "man's voice"
Yeah and science actually supports transgender people. There isn’t just xx and xy chromosomes in everybody either. Some people are born as both a boy and a girl genetically and end up having to choose between one or the other. You’re so insensitive and I can’t believe you would actually continue with that opinion after watching this
Hannah Morgan your correct and it's offensive that people like phantom blade said people like me (I'm transgender and I identify myself as a guy) are disgraceful
Um you’re the one that claimed that transgender people were throwing out genetic research and biology and I simply rebutted that idea by saying that no, a lot of doctors support transgenders and often it is not simply someone born with male or female chromosomes just wanting to be the opposite sex. Generally women are born with two X chromosomes and men with one X and one Y chromosome. It is only 2. Not 3. Although some people do have three which creates gender identity conflict. There was a person in Africa who was born with female hormones and a uterus but had a penis. That person chose to be a male because they believe men are more likely to be treated well in his country. You need to do some research before you start aggressively attacking a girl who literally just said that a very sad social situation made her cry. You obviously don’t know what you’re talking about if you have to resort to calling people names. Sorry but most people stop doing that in primary school x hope you have a good day honey
it’s so great to see older people sticking up for her bc as a trans man its really hard when stuff like this happens and it’s usually older people with the issue and it’s just great to see that
@@juneparker664 Some things can only be said online, and what you said precisely counts. My sister is trans and I'm in many ways a very traditional Georgia Boy big brother. That is to say, thank the lord you're not in front of me right now because where I'm from we fight for our families. You are a coward, a lowlife, a closeminded worthless excuse for a human being, a heartless brute, and a meaningless waste of carbon. May you live out the rest of your life utterly dependent on the compassion of others, and find it exactly as freely as you give it.
Well most people don't give a shit. So long as trans people are intellectually honest with themselves, the vast majority of people are fine with them using whatever pronouns they like and will use them as well. I mean it's more a courtesy thing than anything. Like how calling someone by their real name is disrespectful if they have specifically asked you to refer to them another way.
I really appreciate that they actually put in the effort to finding a trans actor for the role. From what I've seen of the show, they're really good at finding actors that match the situations, and it's sadly pretty rare. So it's great to see them respecting the situations they present.
Although I agree that it is good they found an actor to fit the roll; I do think there are actors who are not transgender that would play the part just as well. The greatest part of acting is playing a part that you aren’t, and making people believe your character. That’s why it’s called acting. Hillary Swank for example, in “Boys don’t cry.”
@@selma8337 No, not at all. It’s important to understand people. The LGBT is not trying disrespect or judge anyone. You’re really missing the point of this. It’s to just be kind and understand a point of view. I for one, don’t at all mind a straight person (actor) playing the roll of a gay person. What my point was… a year ago… is that a straight person can play an LGBT roll if they are understanding the concept of the character. I don’t see any reason why any of us “gay” folk should be so offended..
Trickshot Perfectionists You're joking right!? It's 2018, people are who they are, people are expressing themselves however they want, people like you are what's wrong with the world, I know that they're are a lot of people who agree with you, but people need to learn to love and respect everybody, no matter their gender, race, sexuality, anything #learntolove
Trickshot Perfectionists You're no perfectionist if you don't accept who people are, I'm transgender myself, And I find this comment very offending, that's very selfish of you. #learntolove
I doubt y’all read the comments but if the actress who played Jennifer reads this I want you to know I’m super proud of you because playing this role likely made you dysphoric (being called sir so many times) and you should know you’re a beautiful woman and I’m very proud of you.
Transgender women always go shopping where I work and it’s completely fine they’re so shy and scared at first but I always help them find the bras and panties they want bc it’s MY JOB TO SELL CLOTHES NOT TO CRITICIZE WHO THEY ARE
Clothes don't even have to be gendered. I saw a dude wearing a miniskirt in the city and my wig flew off. He looked so good. Men are starting to wear cropped tops now too. Hopefully, we won't have these sorts of scenarios at all in the future because everyone will be able to wear whatever.
Ikr if you want to wear somthing that you like wear it you should have to worry if it's for 'boys' or 'girls' it annoys me when people make a huge deal about stuff like that
@Aotor-san Your awesome, I'm sorry that your not allowed to be yourself. People who would stop being friends with you because of your sexuality are just shallow and small-minded. Please don't take them to heart.
@@legendarysayainbroly5963 How are we infringing on your freedom, exactly? And if you're going to make a rude, and illogical, argument the least you can do is use proper grammar.
I was in a thrift store with my boyfriend (who is trans and passes extremely well) looking at clothes for him and a woman came up and asked "do you young ladies need help? The womens section is over there." And I stepped up so fast. I looked at her and said "actually we're in the right section. We're looking for clothes for my boyfriend." and I took his hand and kissed it. The lady look at me like I was crazy but walked away. She was at the register when we checked out and asked "did you ladies find everything OK?", eyeing the both of us. And I saw red. I stepped up in front of my boyfriend and looked her dead in the eye and said " yes, me and my BOYFRIEND did. And if you call him a lady or woman again I will not hesitate to slap you." And anyone who knows me knows I don't play. I have many trans friends and I will throw down for them. The lady didn't question me again and we left after he kissed me Lol.
This entire show and every season are heart wrenching, and also inspiring. How I wish the whole world, every country, were open, safe, loving, nurturing, supporting and happy. In my next life, I hope things are better.
Being trans is a real thing, mtf(male to females) are girl brains in guys bodies, ftm(female to male) is a guys brain in a girls body, there's actual proof of it
@@user-nr3gb3jw7m damb you are dumb. There is no proof of it. They did ct scans on these its and normal people. Nothing in the brain is different between woman and man except a woman produces more estrogen and a man produces more testeroin.
@dark mamba Bro please get a hobby. I fucking beg you learn how to paint or play an instrument or some shit that isn't putting down strangers on the internet.
@Tik Tok Matrix i dont really see why you should care how people express themselves? like it doesnt affect you, unless you have some reasoning that it does? i just dont understand.
@@chelseafricke2068 No offense but why would you say that? You said you live in America? Well its a free country there. You have no right to tell people who they can and cannot be. We all breathe oxygen and bleed red. We're human. Its 2019 now, embrace how far we've come towards equality instead of bashing those who are different than you.
@@chelseafricke2068 Not everyone is American firstly, secondly... Women can protect themselves. In my opinion, I think all men need to balance both cause majority of men are absolutely shit at having a 'softer' side. No one is making men gay or trans, no one is forcing them.
I had a trans woman in one of my classes in high school. One day she wore this bright pink dress with sparkles on it and a bunch of girls were laughing at her in the hallway and saying she looked gross and that she shouldn't be wearing that. Once they walked away I could just see how sad she was. I went up to her and said "I think you look great! I love that dress on you." She really appreciated that and had the biggest smile on her face. We need to learn to treat others with kindness, that's just how it needs to be.
That's so nice of you! That really must have brighten up her day!! We need more nice people in the world, no matter what, everyone deserves to be respected. ❤
We live in such a jungle.... I bet that those people who wants to decide what other person MUST wear or not are the ones who are against wearing a mask because "no one must tell me i must to wear a mask"
I hate when people do this. It's like a boy going to get tampons or pads and getting sent away! You don't know or care why they're buying things, and it's not your business. She was beautiful and I would never be able to tell she used to be a man. Yes I know it's not real I'm just presenting my opinion.
Fudge Sti Thank you! Ffs if I was told to leave the store because I'm a guy buying tampons, I'd nail them in the nose. It's for my goddamn period. I need something to stop the bleeding.
bubbleebaaff exactly... And what's worse is that if you try and get them anyway you always get the "oh is it THAT time of the month?" Cashier. Like what do you expect? Nah I'm an alien from Jupiter who has come to study your ways and see if tampons will prevent a deadly illness of our kind...
Fudge Sti excatl y wh e e ze- my good friend is trans, and hes very nice. He used to be named Samantha and now one kid in my class still calls him that even though hes obviously a boy, it offends me SO much and i hate people being treated like this because of their gender, even when they USED to be a different gender. Its like, THEIR A BOY DUDE, DEAL WITH IT- Jesus it annoys me so much. It freaking sucks and i think everyone should love everyone else no matter what.
Man: sneezes Me: bless you John: this is what would you do, why did you say something Me: because he sneezed? John: god bless you have a great day. edit: i know i didn’t make this up i just wanted to see how many like it would get thank you
@TK Podcast and if you're only 14, you really need to stay out of people's business when its important stuff like this. You obviously dont know how it feels so why have an input when you're completely ignorant about the topic and wont try to learn more about it and listen to actual facts on the topic.
I want to give the last girl such a big hug. She looks like she has such a huge heart, when she said she gets panic attacks and felt for her I wanted to cry 🥺
it’s 4:07am and i’ve fallen down the “wHat wouLd yOU dO” hole again.
Mood
I felt that in my bones lol
s a m e
exactly! Gets me all the time. Thanks a lot John Quiñonez
same 😔 🤚
The girl who said _If you're going on a cruise, I'd say the lighter one._ ❤️
I actually know that girl and her mom. They are from my town.
@SOPHIA VU this is one of my favorite episodes! It was the first time i saw someone i knew on the show :)
Just so wholsome, like block out the hate just talk about the cruise
I think it was so that girl would make the manager mad by her trying on another dress
Antonio I loved that answer!
That one girl who just said "if your going on a cruise I would say the lighter one" bless her heart 😊❤
I loved that too, that was so sweet
Yeah 3:53 was just so cute 🥺
For some reason I heard "the leather one". 😋🤣😆
I mean that saying doesn't really mean good things but I get what you are trying to say
@@cupcakecrusader1 that's for the other cruise
Years ago, I worked in a woman's clothing shop in a mall. My VERY BEST CUSTOMER was a man. He wasn't transgender. He wasn't a drag queen. He was a man with a full beard who just like women's clothing. I was the only one who would help him. I got his contact information and called him whenever we had a sale or got something new in that I knew he'd like. He was awesome.
its just the weird double standard. like women can wear boys clothes but boys cant wear womens; double standard. props to that guy for doing what he wanted 💪💪💪💪💪💪
Bro that's actually awesome! You are amazing!
You are an amazing person! The world needs more wonderful people like you!
bless your heart, im sure he greatly appreciate you🥺
That is actually awesome and props on you for being that supportive friend to a man (who actually just identifies as a man) who just likes women’s clothes
I couldn't be on this show. I'd throw hands.
Bet My Name Spooked You Dude same. "Don't bother the customers" "Bitch don't bother the hospital staff after I beat you with this standing mirror, c'mon square up"
Da,Taper
Why'd you capitalize the word reproduce?
Da,Taper wtf is wrong with you
No u wouldn't..... IDIOT
Bet My Name Spooked You yea same lol
I'm actually so pleasantly surprised it was and older woman lecturing a younger one. More often than not it's the other way around.
How nice.
I agree
Me too
😊 yes .
1000th like !!! 😁
@@cowgirl_406 congratles
Am I the only one who plans out what you would have said if you were in this situation
Littlemissbasketcase nOPE
Yes
I thought I was the only one😂
Hailey Bleach same though lmao
nOT AT ALL
When she said : “I know exactly what you’re trying to do” it looks so real like she’s not acting at all.
Well she's probably been through this (or something similar) situation before. If so, I image it would be very easy to remember the scenario and the way it made you feel.
He*
@@wrldofvanity1723 *she
@@wrldofvanity1723 She*
@@wrldofvanity1723 dont be that person LOL
That redhead is beautiful & has a heart of gold
She is a really cute girl.
Right!? She's so cute!
She's quite pretty
I'm a redhead and you gotta love people with that hair color. She was beautiful inside and out
aw shes so cuutee
Only part of the trans lady that bugs me is how much she rocks that dress. Kinda green with envy over here.
IKR?
Stop lyinggg😭😂
Tesha Griffey - THIS COMMENT IS SO WHOLESOME ILY
wouldn't it have been a wee be funny if that was the reason why the lady refused to sell the trans lady the clothes. Because she looked better than her
Ur disgusting
The girl at the end is so admirable and amazing and beautiful, and it's beautiful how she brought genuine tears into the actors' eyes! I'm so glad she exists.
“You know that’s a man in women’s clothing?”
Honey, you’re a clown in regular people’s clothes.
HAHAHA YOU LEGEND 😂😂😂 That was awesome mate 😉
You didn’t need to do clowns that dirty👁👄👁
LOL YES
Honestly I think that’s an insult to clowns
LMAOOO
1:50 “SHE looks beautiful in that, and it fits *her* perfectly,” I love that woman omggg
The red head is so cute and just looks so kind. I just want to give her a huge hug😊😊😊
zineb lahrim she looks like Debbie from Shameless
How do you get your profile pic?
honestly ❤️
zineb lahrim shes my old volleyball coach and she’s awesome in real life super sweet and kind.
Beexus • that’s cool
Me: *witnesses homicide*
Out of nowhere: “im jonny quinoñes and this is what would you do”
I wouldn't snitch
Amy_ _Jackson John* but damn
*Quiñones
It’s like 2:00 in the morning and I start laughing so loud because of this😂😂
omg
I'm an introvert, I hate getting into arguments.
But if ever I got to be into this show, those rude ppl be hearing somethin from me for sure
and then I'd probably cry
same
The last girl
Same
gurl sameeeee
Same tho-
I love how even though the girl with red hair is prone to panic attacks, she still got involved. She's awesome!
I know right!!!!!!
@ aspiknf Explain why she's not awesome for sticking up for somebody dumbass?
Oppressive Straight White Male You're a dumbass.
Oppressive Straight White Male living up to your username i see
Oppressive Straight White Male Dude, it's 2018 now get over yourself. If you say shit like that in public, you would either have been beaten or killed for messing with the wrong person. Unless you're one of those people who hide behind a screen.
I would give the world to that redhead girl she has the biggest heart of gold.
What a queen💓
Can I give you a hug 🤮. It’s a he!!!
I've watched this scene over and over again just for her. She always makes me cry: what a tenderhearted gem she is
Also that fucking hair colour tho, so beautiful
Troy Kruse pls be educated Bc apparently you lost a brain cell at school that you couldn’t even read the comment
I was so proud of her. She clearly struggles with anxiety and panic attacks (she said so herself), but she pushed past that to come to a stranger's defense. She really is a tenderhearted gem. ^_^
"Why did you hug her?"
"Because she looked sad..."
Protect that girl at all cost. She's the best of humanity.
@robyn coldwell that's actually really nasty of you to say and extremely biggoted I know the kaylist irl and he is gender fluid and you are projecting hate speech at him because he is gender fluid.
@robyn coldwell you are a lesbian?
Tay Tay that what I was thinking too!!!!!!! She needs the men in Black cause THATS the REAL national treasure!!!!!😉
@@TheShadowVorlon holy shit calm down mabye I came to the UA-cam comments for a laugh and mabey I was JOKING. Like don't come into UA-cam comments where people make jokes if your gonna get triggered.
@@deshawnawatermelon5273 Your "Joking" did *not* come off as joking. Worse than that - your words "Hurt"! How would you feel to be a Trans Woman and read your words and find yourself so hurting that you could not hold back my tears??? Yes, your word hurt me - I am a Pre-Transition Trans Woman. You seem to have no feeling for how much your words can hurt. Or do you really think it is a joke to devastate my feelings so severely I cannot hold back my tears???
"you know HES a man right"
"no i didn't know that but SHE looks beautiful" this is what we need in the world
Yelp
True
@YuckFouTubeXwould you date her if she was your type
Her: It's 2017
Me, watching this in 2020:
same here😆😆
Same
Same lol.
Freaky Ferret same
Saaame
The last girl 💖
She has anxiety yet she stuck up for her
And I know it was really hard for her
This is so sad, because she tried it on, and turned around excitedly! "I really like it!" And she got so sad, so quickly.
Twilight Gaming msp I know, but it's still sad!
Shadow Nightmare i know exactly what you’re going through sweetie, what seems to work for me the best is reading the comments and just not reading the replies babe. there will always be intolerant people in the word and we have to realize what they think doesn’t matter
But sadly, it probably happens to people like Jennifer a lot in real life.
Which is why I've learnt to never ever be happy. Misophonia is a real bitch.
No she didn't. Shes the sales clerk
"First of all, I did not know that. *SHE* looks amazing"
WE MUST PROTECT THIS SAINT!
I love the inclusiveness of the first reactor!
*claps*
“We roll one last time” -aka we took the best scene and made it the “last scene”
Chelsea McLain well, obviously. They're on tv so they have to have viewers intrigued and engaged
Facts 😂
The last woman was the most adorable person in the world, I hope everything goes well for her she deserves happiness forever
(Everyone who helped her as well I just love what she did so much)
Yesss
Agreed^
taco bell
6:50 "Are you ok?" The compassion and empathy in her voice really touched me. What a sweet, genuine soul.
True
she is seriously the sweetest
Indeed 🥺
In the brief moment she appeared she showed so much empathy and love and I could feel it through the screen. I’m not trans or anything but it touched me.
She’s really sweet. She was there for me when my dad passed away.
The red head girl's sweetness made me cry, literally. As a trans man, having cis (non-trans) people understand how hard it is for us to live everyday as our true self and be shamed, bullied and even killed for it, that means so much.
As a parent with a trans daughter, I feel you.
@TheSnowdogsShorts as a trans teen, wish my dad was like you :,) youre a good father
@@ancestralparanoia Thank you! That means a lot to me.
@@TheSnowdogsShorts :)
You are great dad!
I'm not sure why they didn't use Traci as the sales clerk, she's really good at pissing people of.
Zedeye most people recognize her
Ikr 😂
Lmao
I know right
Ikr 😂
If I'm being completely honest I wouldn't even notice thats she's transgender
nothing to notice, she's a woman.
Yeah, same
@@Awomanontheinternet he really aint
Keanu Strann
Yeah, right, and you’re a decent human being. Nice try.
Savannah • exactlyyyyyyyy
Addressing her as "Sir" wouldve set me off.
How are people so calmmmm
TORRBROWN Same
I would've been like "excuse me fuck off she clearly stated she's a woman why are you calling her sir, thanks bye"
Because he's a boy
TORRBROWN same here
TORRBROWN
Same
All of these woman were so strong but the little red haired girl truly inspired me. You know it took every mustard of strength she had to stand up to that sales clerk
I agree, and the way she kept telling her "please don't do that"
i thought it was a recent episode and than that one girl said "it's 2017"
*surprised pikachu face*
lol same 😂
The way I see it, it shouldn't be about what year it is. It should be about doing the right thing. A lot of people did what was right. Love over hate.
Lol 2017 isn’t long ago..... like at all!!!!
chelita sanchez I was the 600 like
The fact that 2017 was three years ago is scary
a trans woman: ...
a transphobic woman: uh *sIR*
me: *snapped*
IT IS MA'AM
Absolutely *sister snapped*
I would get *mAd*
I wouldn’t say “ma’am” or “sir”. You never know what their gender could be, for all you know, they wouldn’t classify themself as a “male” or “female”
I’m mtf and because I’m early in transition and still look masculine I don’t mind being called sir , but this lady in the vid is beautiful if the show wasn’t a set up no way anyone would guess she is transgender but anyway point is just treat everyone with respect if you don’t have a good word to say then say nothing
Christoman64 LoL 😂 I’m trans myself but that lady in that video was a psycho , as she looked more masculine than Rambo so really shouldn’t have been surprised at being called Sir but the lady in this vid is beautiful and acts like a proper lady should act
"I'm afraid you might rip that dress because of the shape of your body."
Then do your job. Ask her what her size is and go find a dress that fits. It's not even about gender. Anyone can be tall and have a lot of muscles like that.
I'm so glad someone finally said that, lol! A lot of times, if you see another woman shaming a trans woman, they're more likely to look like a man than the trans person...😶 Just sayin'... TEA...
*insert Kermit the Frog sipping tea meme*
Dude for real! I know plenty of women with that body type! Its not specific to men!!! She didnt even look like a man to me i wouldve never guessed in a million years. Shes absolutely gorgeous!
This is gold🥺
*Claps*
I am clapping
I feel bad for the last girl. Because as somebody with panic attacks this is an emotional rollercoaster with so much anxiety and she did it like a champ! Proud of you boo!!!!! You straightened another womens crown! Super proud of you! So out of your comfort zone but you still went there to support another person. You are gold!
she actually look really pretty in that dress to be honest, you cant lie, it really fits.
gulam ahmed Ikr
I feel sorry for ur mom
james And I feel even more sorry for your mother.
james I feel sorry for everyone in your life
She looks amazing.
The third round of people were ready to pop off so fast as soon as they heard "sir" 😂
Jamelyn james so true after ariane said “sir” people were staring at her 😂
Jamelyn james i would be soo fucking pissed XD
Getting misgendered really sucks.
SOOOOOO TRUE
Well, its a man, so.
that is so sweet when the lady said "she looks beautiful in it."
GenZ would really be ✨THROWING HANDS✨
Periodt
FR
i hope im never on this show ill to to jail
@@urmom69-r6e lmao me too
I just wanna hug the last girl, all of them were great, but the last one was especially such a sweetheart
The red hair girl is an angel,we need more people like her!
Ben no she had fawn it was light brown
She was so cute, Like she was struggling with her own stuff (anxiety panic attacks) it took her alot to stand up the trans woman it was super cute and lovley
Trickshot Perfectionists This isn't a place to spread your negativity. If you don't agree with something then keep it to yourself, this is a place where people love and support others. Please leave.
yasss
G3O ok
„Did you just call me Sir?“ that broke my heart 🥺❤️
IT'S MA'AM
😑😑😑
gene carlo People who are transgender are born with chemical imbalances in their brains. It’s actually a woman’s brain in a man’s body, or vice versa. It isn’t a decision, it is an actual medical term. It is gender dysphoria. Someone who is FTM is actually a man, just in the wrong body. And they will hate their bodies until they can change it.
gene carlo I’m not lying. I’ve heard medical professionals say so. Physiologically, yes, they are are a certain gender, but someone is hardly ever just their body. Your mind makes up most of who you are as a person and their minds are chemically different than their bodies. It isn’t a choice that they make.
🤣
The last person was so nice I started crying
same
This is sad. No one should be treated this way, transgender or not, people need to understand that this is clearly disrespectful in many ways....
I dont think i would have even known she was orginally a man
Ikr she looks so pretty I like actually didn’t know why the store person knew she was a man
@Katniss And Peeta Well, women with deep voices are a thing
Gabrielle Wong But she had a male voice.There is a difference in male voices and deep female voices.She has a feminine male voice
Desi no me either!
@@Maya-wk7dt Perhaps, but I'm a binary girl and my voice is so ridiculously deep everyone thinks I'm a guy if they can't see me. I'm talking like I pick up the phone and my friends ask if my brother is speaking 😂 (my grandma thought I was my brother, too). And while I was assisting in a kindergarten class the kids had an argument about whether or not I was a girl because "my voice is deep" but I "look like a girl." (That was fun lmao, I let them speculate for a while, though they eventually agreed I was a girl).
TLDR yeah many girls have low voices that can be mistaken for a "man's voice"
Can we all appreciate how lit that dress looks on her
Dittly Darn it I honestly thought the only thing that would help tie it together would be something like a necklace.
Dittly Darn it that’s what I was thinking! My god she is killing it! :0
I know right!! She looks so good in that dress!!
sean lynch grow up
Dittly Darn it dead ass!!!!
That last lady was so kind and honestly she just seems like the kind of person you’d want to hug and never let go, she was amazing 💛
The red haired girl looks so nice and she reacted really kind. :)
Megan E. Moll ok troom troom
The Starships omg that's what I thought xD
THE LAST GIRL MADE ME CRY OMG
neya Same it gave me mixed emotions and just made me cry 😢😢
Phantom Blade you passed first grade?? How many rows did you take? A person like you shouldn’t even watch this show!
Yeah and science actually supports transgender people. There isn’t just xx and xy chromosomes in everybody either. Some people are born as both a boy and a girl genetically and end up having to choose between one or the other. You’re so insensitive and I can’t believe you would actually continue with that opinion after watching this
Hannah Morgan your correct and it's offensive that people like phantom blade said people like me (I'm transgender and I identify myself as a guy) are disgraceful
Um you’re the one that claimed that transgender people were throwing out genetic research and biology and I simply rebutted that idea by saying that no, a lot of doctors support transgenders and often it is not simply someone born with male or female chromosomes just wanting to be the opposite sex. Generally women are born with two X chromosomes and men with one X and one Y chromosome. It is only 2. Not 3. Although some people do have three which creates gender identity conflict. There was a person in Africa who was born with female hormones and a uterus but had a penis. That person chose to be a male because they believe men are more likely to be treated well in his country. You need to do some research before you start aggressively attacking a girl who literally just said that a very sad social situation made her cry. You obviously don’t know what you’re talking about if you have to resort to calling people names. Sorry but most people stop doing that in primary school x hope you have a good day honey
The red haired lady is so sweet when she started crying I started crying omg
Kiriuu
I love her so much
Pinda Kaas *No u*
Me tooooo😭😭
Me tooo I crieddd
How is she sweet she treating the blonde woman like creep
it’s so great to see older people sticking up for her bc as a trans man its really hard when stuff like this happens and it’s usually older people with the issue and it’s just great to see that
All these women are goddesses, queens, legends, icons, stars.
But mostly queens.
and the there’s kaitlynn bennett
lucy taylor aka human garbage
@@sophia-uw2zf aka a real woman.
Except the dickless dude
The redhead at the end, just warms my heart.
Just Smile same
Just Smile yeah same
Just Smile cOle!
omg i agree and i LOVE YOUR PROFILE PICTURE SM OMGGGGG IM SHOOK
Juggy Bean CoLe 😂💛
Every time she says "Sir" I actually tense up.
@@juneparker664 Some things can only be said online, and what you said precisely counts. My sister is trans and I'm in many ways a very traditional Georgia Boy big brother. That is to say, thank the lord you're not in front of me right now because where I'm from we fight for our families.
You are a coward, a lowlife, a closeminded worthless excuse for a human being, a heartless brute, and a meaningless waste of carbon. May you live out the rest of your life utterly dependent on the compassion of others, and find it exactly as freely as you give it.
Once I saw the Sales Clerk call her a 'Sir' I would've snapped.
Same.
The transgender should have said “IT IS MAM”
Well, it is sir.....
@@somerandomperson4311 Well, her sex is a man, or sir, but her gender is a woman, or ma'am.
Also if it's a sir he can't call her ma'am like wtf
I’m quaking in my trans boots rn I didn’t expect all these good people 😭🖤
SAMEAHAHSJZJZS
Sameeee
@@oliverjustvibing3173 r4
Same but non binary
Well most people don't give a shit. So long as trans people are intellectually honest with themselves, the vast majority of people are fine with them using whatever pronouns they like and will use them as well. I mean it's more a courtesy thing than anything. Like how calling someone by their real name is disrespectful if they have specifically asked you to refer to them another way.
These people are so lovely, I'm happy they stepped in this way. Such kind and wonderful people.
Its wonderful to know that there are still really nice and good people who actually care.
Protect the redhead one, she's so precious omg
Irene García i agree m8
Irene García
No
I DONT SEE TRACI ANYWHERE...
SHE IS IN EVERY SCENE EXCEPT THIS ONE.
Kool Keith Productions No she isnt
#SAVETRACI WHAT HAVR THEY DONE TO HER O.o 😂😂
Someone would notice who she is lol
Everyone knows them by now... They would be recognised....
This brought a tear to my eye 😭 I'm so happy people stood up for her!
jordynliketheriver Him.
Brandon Colley her
Brandon Colley her jackass
Brandon Colley her get it right
Brandon Colley it's her
I really appreciate that they actually put in the effort to finding a trans actor for the role. From what I've seen of the show, they're really good at finding actors that match the situations, and it's sadly pretty rare. So it's great to see them respecting the situations they present.
Although I agree that it is good they found an actor to fit the roll; I do think there are actors who are not transgender that would play the part just as well. The greatest part of acting is playing a part that you aren’t, and making people believe your character. That’s why it’s called acting.
Hillary Swank for example, in “Boys don’t cry.”
@@jcchristopher1417 represantation is still important though
@@selma8337 No, not at all. It’s important to understand people. The LGBT is not trying disrespect or judge anyone. You’re really missing the point of this. It’s to just be kind and understand a point of view.
I for one, don’t at all mind a straight person (actor) playing the roll of a gay person. What my point was… a year ago… is that a straight person can play an LGBT roll if they are understanding the concept of the character.
I don’t see any reason why any of us “gay” folk should be so offended..
I didn't notice she is transgender XD. She rocks that dress so much. She is so pretty😋
The only male feature is broad shoulders and lots of girls have broad shoulders anyway
I din't see that she was transgender until the title and her voice..
sean lynch dude chill
Lappy and Luna Chan do you hate hearing the truth? Do words hurt you?
sean lynch no, it just seems you hate women
I know It was acting but that sales clerk made me angry
Kyra Jones Vlogs she’s super hot
@Ring_Collector That’s true, but how is that relevant to anything?
Kyra Jones Vlogs she is a really great actress because this is not the first episode I wanted to punch her 😂
Her acting is so good that she really pisses you off. Well done. :)
She fire tho
they were all amazing, especially that red haired woman omg
bex is
I know! That last girl was a total sweetheart!
Trickshot Perfectionists that's very insensitive lol
Trickshot Perfectionists You're joking right!? It's 2018, people are who they are, people are expressing themselves however they want, people like you are what's wrong with the world, I know that they're are a lot of people who agree with you, but people need to learn to love and respect everybody, no matter their gender, race, sexuality, anything #learntolove
Trickshot Perfectionists You're no perfectionist if you don't accept who people are, I'm transgender myself, And I find this comment very offending, that's very selfish of you. #learntolove
The actress who’s transgender is absolutely stunning and beautiful and gorgeous ❤️🥰
Nope
The lady at 2:08 warmed my heart
Kylei Doucette oof same 😫
Same!!
Kylei Doucette year
I doubt y’all read the comments but if the actress who played Jennifer reads this I want you to know I’m super proud of you because playing this role likely made you dysphoric (being called sir so many times) and you should know you’re a beautiful woman and I’m very proud of you.
i agree 100%! jennifer you also looked super fabulous in that dress girl! 🌈💗
That red head is such a nice lady
Xtreme funny that is funny
That red head is a MAN/MALE with a P*NIS.
I think so too
+Wynter Rose ahem are you serious you cant assume à gender it is probably a women but it is definitly not a man its my opinian
Xtreme funny I know
the ginger girl is so... GIMME A HUG RN GOD SHES SO KIND AND SEEMS SO SWEET PLEASE I love her.
Transgender women always go shopping where I work and it’s completely fine they’re so shy and scared at first but I always help them find the bras and panties they want bc it’s MY JOB TO SELL CLOTHES NOT TO CRITICIZE WHO THEY ARE
Demi Rodrigues bless your soul
No they are not woman they are still men they have balls. they can't keep a baby alive like a reaaaalll woman!!!!!
shut up and give your mom her phone back. okay?
mars padilla what's that's supposed to mean
mars padilla they do not have a girl a part which means they can not physically grow a baby inside them
Clothes don't even have to be gendered. I saw a dude wearing a miniskirt in the city and my wig flew off. He looked so good. Men are starting to wear cropped tops now too. Hopefully, we won't have these sorts of scenarios at all in the future because everyone will be able to wear whatever.
Ikr if you want to wear somthing that you like wear it you should have to worry if it's for 'boys' or 'girls' it annoys me when people make a huge deal about stuff like that
Prince wore crops and anything he wanted and looked fabulous doing it
Wait what’s a crop top? Oh wait nvm XD it wouldn’t look bad, it will look great XD
when i read the "my wig flew off", I laughed so hard i snorted hahaha (btw i agree w u)
Omg whats this world has come too!
Even though this is fake, I still want to hit that sales clerk. Great acting, I suppose. 😂
I wanted to, too
This is how we should judge acting from now on. How much they can make us want to beat the shit out of them.
mE nO LiKe WoRdZ, mE HiT u
Choose your weapon
Hand, boot, purse or anything you wish
@@黄煌-c3u my fist. Dont need a weapon.
The redhead woman made me cry, what a sweet compassionate human❤
She doesn't even look like a man. I would never know.
Noah S
Ikr
Therapist You sure do not seem like a fucking therapist
Noah S same
SAME i honestly thought it was a lady at first
Noah S Not until she speaks. The second she speaks I realize she's transgender.
My grandad is transgender, she is now my grandma and I love her to pieces and I just hope this never happens to her 😭♥️
ya that would be horrible but people would stand up for her
@Aotor-san not its not
@@legendarysayainbroly5963 People with anime pics can't have opinions.
@Aotor-san Your awesome, I'm sorry that your not allowed to be yourself. People who would stop being friends with you because of your sexuality are just shallow and small-minded. Please don't take them to heart.
@@legendarysayainbroly5963 How are we infringing on your freedom, exactly? And if you're going to make a rude, and illogical, argument the least you can do is use proper grammar.
Okay the girl with the red hair is literal HAIR GOALS
Mr Brightside her hair is actually strawberry blonde
GOR GEOUS hair
Mr Brightside that girl was an a hole
yeah!!! and she's so many other kinds of goals too omg she seems so amazing
When
Jen’s hair is absolutely EVERYTHING!! 🥰😍
John: And this is what would you do
Person: oH mY gAwD I LOVE THAT SHOW
John: Haha, c'mon over here
Person: *Runs away*
Me lol
I was in a thrift store with my boyfriend (who is trans and passes extremely well) looking at clothes for him and a woman came up and asked "do you young ladies need help? The womens section is over there." And I stepped up so fast. I looked at her and said "actually we're in the right section. We're looking for clothes for my boyfriend." and I took his hand and kissed it. The lady look at me like I was crazy but walked away. She was at the register when we checked out and asked "did you ladies find everything OK?", eyeing the both of us. And I saw red. I stepped up in front of my boyfriend and looked her dead in the eye and said " yes, me and my BOYFRIEND did. And if you call him a lady or woman again I will not hesitate to slap you." And anyone who knows me knows I don't play. I have many trans friends and I will throw down for them. The lady didn't question me again and we left after he kissed me Lol.
you sound like the best kind of human. honestly reading this made me so happy ack.
You’re BoyFriend has the best GirlFriend ever. I hope you both stay together and are very happy.
Ridiculous 😂
There’s a like button, but why can’t there be a LOVE button?
R/thathappened
The hugging between the transgender woman and the ginger was so touching
I'm just gonna sneak in and say the term ginger is very annoying to hear
I guess you can say that gingers do have souls after all. lol
This entire show and every season are heart wrenching, and also inspiring. How I wish the whole world, every country, were open, safe, loving, nurturing, supporting and happy. In my next life, I hope things are better.
Dude, If I saw her address her as "Sir" it would have made me completely flip. How can people remain so calm? I would have gone off.
Thebluehuskey Because it's a man pretending to be a women. Don't you fucking dare expect strangers to play into your fantasys.
Being trans is a real thing, mtf(male to females) are girl brains in guys bodies, ftm(female to male) is a guys brain in a girls body, there's actual proof of it
And done what? Your generation is a pussy. Oh did i invade your safe space?
@@user-nr3gb3jw7m damb you are dumb. There is no proof of it. They did ct scans on these its and normal people. Nothing in the brain is different between woman and man except a woman produces more estrogen and a man produces more testeroin.
these kinda episodes make me nervous cause like,, SOMEONES gonna throw hands one day
@dark mamba Bro please get a hobby. I fucking beg you learn how to paint or play an instrument or some shit that isn't putting down strangers on the internet.
@dark mamba she is a woman, now shut up and go do something with your life.
@dark mamba Get an educator and learn how to respect! You uncultured swine!
@dark mamba the sheer edge in that comment ... ok edgelord now go back to reddit or sum shit lmao thanks
@Tik Tok Matrix i dont really see why you should care how people express themselves? like it doesnt affect you, unless you have some reasoning that it does? i just dont understand.
In my honest opinion
The trans woman looks beautiful and she can be who she is
IT IS MA’AM
Preach
PREACH!🙌🙏
Honestly If I don't know what to call them, I usually they, them pronouns.
@@fightmefatima992 exactly never assume i do the same thing
Stormtrooper1611 they still have a dick
When she offers to look for clothes with her - what a pure soul
“Yeah, But it’s a woman’s clothing store.”
Yeah, but it’s all literally pieces of sewn fabric
Syrup Hat somebody who is logically
‘Yeah, and she’s a woman’
Chelsea Fricke how old are you? Just asking
@@chelseafricke2068 No offense but why would you say that? You said you live in America? Well its a free country there. You have no right to tell people who they can and cannot be. We all breathe oxygen and bleed red. We're human. Its 2019 now, embrace how far we've come towards equality instead of bashing those who are different than you.
@@chelseafricke2068 Not everyone is American firstly, secondly... Women can protect themselves. In my opinion, I think all men need to balance both cause majority of men are absolutely shit at having a 'softer' side. No one is making men gay or trans, no one is forcing them.
“Sir”
Everyone turns around
HOW DARE YOU
worddd😂😂
I LOVED that
Yeah that made me mad
Red hair girl: can I give you a hug?
Me: OMG AHHHHHH she was so sweet I cant 🤧
Very
I loved that so much, not only was it a sweet gesture, but she asked first, so many people need to learn to ask first, not everyone is ok with hugs.
I had a trans woman in one of my classes in high school. One day she wore this bright pink dress with sparkles on it and a bunch of girls were laughing at her in the hallway and saying she looked gross and that she shouldn't be wearing that. Once they walked away I could just see how sad she was. I went up to her and said "I think you look great! I love that dress on you." She really appreciated that and had the biggest smile on her face. We need to learn to treat others with kindness, that's just how it needs to be.
That's so nice of you! That really must have brighten up her day!! We need more nice people in the world, no matter what, everyone deserves to be respected. ❤
such a good friend you are to her
We live in such a jungle.... I bet that those people who wants to decide what other person MUST wear or not are the ones who are against wearing a mask because "no one must tell me i must to wear a mask"
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@@uggupuggu bitch why u here
I hate when people do this. It's like a boy going to get tampons or pads and getting sent away! You don't know or care why they're buying things, and it's not your business. She was beautiful and I would never be able to tell she used to be a man. Yes I know it's not real I'm just presenting my opinion.
Fudge Sti Thank you!
Ffs if I was told to leave the store because I'm a guy buying tampons, I'd nail them in the nose. It's for my goddamn period. I need something to stop the bleeding.
bubbleebaaff exactly... And what's worse is that if you try and get them anyway you always get the "oh is it THAT time of the month?" Cashier. Like what do you expect? Nah I'm an alien from Jupiter who has come to study your ways and see if tampons will prevent a deadly illness of our kind...
Fudge Sti I used to be a boy. I would slap someone if they treated me like the clerk treated Jen.
Fudge Sti YEA
Fudge Sti excatl y wh e e ze- my good friend is trans, and hes very nice. He used to be named Samantha and now one kid in my class still calls him that even though hes obviously a boy, it offends me SO much and i hate people being treated like this because of their gender, even when they USED to be a different gender. Its like, THEIR A BOY DUDE, DEAL WITH IT-
Jesus it annoys me so much. It freaking sucks and i think everyone should love everyone else no matter what.
The red head girl's reaction is so cute awww
"Sir-"
Me: *loud-ass screaming*
"This-"
Me: *more, louder screaming*
"It's a *women's* clothing store-"
Me: *throws phone in frustration*
These lovely women are so calm. I’d be swearing and go straight into defensive mode if someone spoke to a woman like that in front of me.
Man: sneezes
Me: bless you
John: this is what would you do, why did you say something
Me: because he sneezed?
John: god bless you have a great day.
edit: i know i didn’t make this up i just wanted to see how many like it would get thank you
Lol
Lexi Palmer lol!
I laughed so hard at this😂😂
LMAO😂😂😂😂😂
@@pandicornlove08playin48 you ruined it.
NOT EVEN GONNA LIE, I GOT REAL TRIGGERED WHEN SHE CALLED HER "THIS" AHHHHHHH
Yeah it's awful
@TK Podcast no I'm pretty sure it's a she
@TK Podcast just go away
@TK Podcast now you're just being insensitive and a bit ridiculous
@TK Podcast and if you're only 14, you really need to stay out of people's business when its important stuff like this. You obviously dont know how it feels so why have an input when you're completely ignorant about the topic and wont try to learn more about it and listen to actual facts on the topic.
This was very cute. The “bad guy” actress was very gutsy, I could never be shot down and still hold up the act. Both women are beautiful.
I want to give the last girl such a big hug. She looks like she has such a huge heart, when she said she gets panic attacks and felt for her I wanted to cry 🥺
ik she plays a horrible person but can we take a second to notice how pretty the actress who plays the sales clerk is
Ikrrrr dmn shes so cute
İt doesn't matter the beauty of a person. İt matters the İNSİDE. She could be beautiful, but her personality is horrible (if she wasn't playing)
@@sketchy_girl666 she was playing, she is an actress
@@NoName-qq4ee OMG!!!! 😱😱😱😱 Realyy?? İ didn't know that!!! 🙄🙄🙄 İm not dumb. İ know it
She's so cute and I love at the end I saw her in the back with an empathic look