Was It Worth The Pain Leaving Amish & Mennonite?
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- Опубліковано 27 чер 2024
- This is a very vulnerable topic to talk about, but we pray that in doing so we can inspire and encourage others in the journey. Let us know where you are from and if you relate to any parts!
God bless you!!
the Yoders😊
This is so beautiful and just what what my heart needed at this time. Love how you said how we need to give each other space and also we cannot choose how others will respond to our decisions but we can choose how we respond to their response! Can’t wait to listen to your q and a
Your Godly counsel about relationships is so important in this cancel culture. Thank you for sharing. ❤️🙏❤️
Two beautiful souls living faith ☦️⚓❤️
We appreciate you watching and encouraging!
Not only give space, but give grace. Thats so important.
So true!
Thanks for sharing your story! I look forward to hearing more!
Thanks for listening
Love everything you said! Coming from a Mennonite background in Mexico my family and I have been through something similar! I would just like to add to never trust religion for salvation everyone has to work out their own salvation and it’s not religion it’s Jesus who died and rose from the cross to put our faith and trust in him for everlasting life 🙏
Amen, thank you for sharing Susannah!
You two are adorbies.
Wow. You really pulled this one off very,very well. Very well done and said!! I agree....you were soo gentle and kind about it.
If I were to make a video about the same topic, I am not sure what it would be like, but I probably would have a harder time staying as cool,calm and gentle as what you two did!!
Maybe its because even though I am no longer affiliating with the previous group I was in,i am still not completely removed from fire and storm of it.
We just have to keep living,keep loving,and try not to get too retraumatized by it all,when we aren't yet as far away from it as what would be ideal to be.
I would appreciate your prayers.
It blesses me so much to know there is others who feel similarly about conservative church results as I do.
I think its either 1. Intentional and older generations think its what holds a body of believers together or 2. It's an idea gone too long and the results are turning out differently then what JESUS expects in His word!!
This is a bit of a sensitive topic,because there are so many convinced in their way, and that's ok I guess, but for those of us who are convicted differently by direct words from the bible,it makes it a challenge to know what we should do.
Rashelle,
I pray for peace as you to navigate new waters. Yes, the trauma is real and sometimes we need time away to heal and pray. May you also continue finding strength and courage as you keep returning daily to your loving Father in Heaven for direction. Thank you for sharing.
Blessings, the Yoders
@@theyoders2019 thank you!
@@theyoders2019 the most important thing,is making wise current decisions.
It can be a challenge knowing what to do next. But if we seek the Lord,he will direct our steps.our choices. So we can put our faith and trust in Him,knowing that he is working!!
Hi Joel and Marlene, I just want to say that you 2 are such an incredible young Christian couple. I just found your channel this evening and have listened to the last 4 videos in your collection. The love that you have for each other just radiates from your faces when you look at each other. Just subscribed and looking forward to your future videos.
Thank you for joining us! Welcome!!
My y’all that wasn’t easy but thanku much! It makes sense an y’all are so gentle🤍
We appreciate the encouragement! ❤
As much as your kind videos have blessed me, I want to return a blessing in some small way if I can,by saying keep in the will of God,thank him for deeper understanding- for more understanding- of more of his word, and let's lift up in prayer together the work of the Lord,that He will bring his believers together into a place of fellowship,relationship,and truth as we work to rework out what Christianity IS!
HOW does it get sidetracked? I don't know,but it does. And that is stressful to the heart that isn't on board with a sidetracked idea of what is right.
Is it a human thing or is it coming from the leaders or is it just some wonky deep entrenchment?
I don't know,but I keep lifting it up to God in prayer for solutions.
He is the ultimate answer!!
I will keep you in my prayers. You two are gems of precious stone.
Keep looking to Jesus through prayer and through his word!! Keep going!! Bless you,dear brother and sister! The Lord is on our side! He looks for us who wait upon him and are truly searching for his truth. He loves us so much! You've rekindled a fire in my heart. Thank you! God through you,of course.stay in the way! I'd love to be privileged to meet you sometime.
" I, being in the way,the Lord led me."
Let's keep seeking,searching,asking,trusting,knocking,waiting,patiently praying, and giving it over to the Lord! He cares about these things,too. It MATTERS ALOT!
We are responsible for our beliefs,words,actions,attitudes,spirit,and behavior. I agree!
Yes,we will answer to God for how we treated our fellow humans!
Are any of us perfect? No not one.
But we are each called to do our personal best,and we can't judge another.
I am always inspired by others who are so gentle. I realize I can be gentler,too. I am glad you are seeking the Lord! Love you guys!!!!
Your faith is strong, thats your guide.
We can relate to much of what has been said here. We're not of Amish or Mennonite background but this is an area that we have similarly been experiencing as a family.
Thank you for your comment!
Very good video and please be reassured in the journey you are on and seeking to go forward. You are a lovely beautiful couple. Take care.❤
Thank you so much!
Oh wow. You left both? I can understand leaving the Amish due to the Ordnung sometimes being too strict as well as the things like needing certain amount of buttons on clothes or such. I am surprised you'd leave the Mennonites though, but maybe because one of you came from a very strict conservative group, that would make sense too.
Thanks for sharing your journey. I am sure it was really hard for you to make that choices and deal with your family through that. I am glad your relationships with your family have thrived since leaving. It was great learning about you two some more! :)
I am of the Mosaic Mennonite conference, and we are not typical Mennonite by looks standards, but definitely by ideals (the thoughts of Anabaptist political stances, the Sermon on the Mount, etc). You can find less conservative Mennonite churches that will understand your ideals more than a lot of non-denominational churches (for instance, some of non-denominational churches carry concealed guns for security or teach to vote and be in the military). It is really interesting that you are still wearing head coverings and have an Amish style facial hair despite leaving it all. I mean, I did NOT grow up Mennonite (my dad was in the Army even) but have been one for a decade now. I will never be anything else but I grew up in a non-denominational church!
well done both of you Dont let the past be a guilt trip . I am 85 and experienced what you have been through. Christ Jesus has paid the price for our sins on the cross and set us free. He left the power of the comforter The Holy Spirit for us to call on so that we understand the beautiful words of the Bible to work in our hearts for our benefit and to help others around us specially those who do not know God. Love you both and God Bless You both Believe now You are joined in one flesh Let no one part you. GOD LOVES YOU BOTH.
We have a good friend who came out of the Mennonite church. She has been freed from so many man-made rules. A true relationship with Jesus gives us freedom!
Amazing video. ❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you for your encouragement!
I was wondering if I could possibly email you a question that I have. It’s a little lengthy of a question but I feel you would be able to point me in the correct direction. If not that’s fine too. There’s been a couple things I’ve been really seeking the Lord about concerning church discipline, and headship order that I believe you would be able to give me more insight on than what I have considering your background. God bless you and your journey , and thank you for sharing your story with the world ❤
You are welcome to reach out at joelwyoder@gmail.com for your questions.
Blessings!
Blessings! What a dear couple. Yes, I think its important to stay close to the Bible and not get too wrapped up in it being about the traditions,ways,and thinking of the church and the peer pressure of the people in the church. It can become such a strong concentrate that it becomes idolatry and a difficult issue to handle. I grew up old German baptist brethren, and the pride factor can get so concentrated,that it seems like it's more about the ways of man than the biblical fact that JESUS....IS....THE....WAY!! The only way! He is THE ONE AND ONLY I AM and Thou Shalt!!
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Yes, the Bible tells us to speak the truth in love. It also says to restore our fallen brothers/sisters in love. Praying for someone is much better than talking to other people about them and their immaturity or lack of understanding of the scriptures. Only the Holy Spirit can illuminate the truth of God's Word to their understanding. I love how you speak in a way that extends grace to others.
Would you be willing to comment on what the issues were that brought you to the point of leaving the Mennonite church? Thanks and God bless. I really was encouraged by your testimony and humility.
They explain the reason very well in this video. They decided to follow God not the Church.
Thank you for your kind words!
Concerning your question, watch for a future video on why we left the mennonite church/Q&A and we will do our best to share with discretion so as not to disrespect our extended family that we value and love.
I'm not Amish or a Mennonite but you both as a couple are just adorable !!! I have a question... so when your family made the decision to leave the Amish way of life, does that mean that u are not able to contact your family that remains in the Amish community?? I love hearing your story and hearing of how your faith in Heavenly father has carried you thru.
We will do our best to answer this question in an upcoming Q&A.
Stay tuned!
Great job telling your story with grace. Do the mennonites shun those who leave like the Amish do?
In our experience it is less likely to happen among the mennonites, but yes excommunication is practiced in some situations.
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I need to hear of your dating, wedding, Baby!!😊
I live in the south .We have Mennonite churches here.There saved and not strick no different as a baptism. What chuech do you attend now?
We will do our best to answer your question in an upcoming Q&A.
Stay tuned!
Thankyou so much for sharing… me and my husband both grew up Amish, joined the beachy Mennonites a little before we were married and within the last year we have left the Mennonites and attend a nondenominational church. So glad I happened upon your video. Keep shining for Jesus🤍
That is interesting. I wanted to join the Beachy Mennonite Church.
Thank you for your kind comment and the encouragement!
Is it a conservative church or do women dress provocatively like skinny jeans and lots of makeup?
Where do u worship now
@@maryannhorst3915 we are attending the well in Winesburg
My wife and I left a conservative Mennonite church 35 years ago when we were young married, over an increasing understanding of biblical doctrine. I was very curious to know why you left the Mennonite church, and somewhat disappointed that you didn’t give a reason for your leaving during this video. Was it because of a different understanding of Christian doctrine, or why did you leave?
Watch for an upcoming Q&A on why we left the mennonite church where we will do are best to answer your question.
@@theyoders2019 I’ll be looking forward to it.
Where do you go to church now?
We will do our best to answer your question in an upcoming Q&A, so stay tuned😀
What for church do you go to
We will do our best to answer your question in an upcoming Q & A, so stay tuned!
Are you the only one at your church wearing a veil? Or does everyone.
So far I haven chosen to wear a Veil most of the time in public out of respect for my Mennonite and Amish family and friends. And most of my friends from church wear veils as well.
@@theyoders2019
Do you just do it out of respect for them or do you feel that is has a biblical significance?
@@user-oe2or5jb2rare you from Vinn?
Good question, and thank you for asking. We will do our best to answer that in an up coming Q&A. So stay tuned:)
What for church do you go to
Why still wear a partial headcovering, then? Is that a way of signaling that you're still kind of conservative Anabaptist? For many, this is just part of a journey that takes them out of faith altogether, or into the Protestant / Evangelicals who typically live by their theology and personal experiences rather than living a Christlike, apostolic lifestyle in a separate culture of love, faith, surrender, and obedience. 11:20 If it's just going to be between you and God, then why do the elders also have to give account for your souls? (Heb. 13:17) Protestant / Evangelical norms are very individualistic, and the fruit of that is described in the last verse of the book of Judges. (Martin Luther started that trend somewhere between 1518 - 1521 when he invented the Reformation pillar "sola scriptura," Scripture alone, which didn't work out well for him even with his fellow Reformer, Zwingli. The practical result of it has been described as "each man going to hell in his own way.")
Hi, I am Doug from Australia. You are a fine looking couple. May the God of the universe pour out blessings upon you and guide you to the narrow and cramped road that leads to salvation and everlasting life. I was in a similar position as you, and now over 60 years ago I heeded the advice given in the bible, Revelation 18 , read all of it , it's food for thought. See if you can relate to it.
Verse 4 says, And I heard another voice out of heaven say: “Get out of her, my people, if you do not want to share with her in her sins, and if you do not want to receive part of her plagues. 5 For her sins have massed together clear up to heaven, and God has called her acts of injustice* to mind.
To be able to get a better understanding of the bible, you need a most accurate translation. The one I and my family are using is the New World Translation of the holy scriptures, available in many different Languages, including the German language spoken by your people.. Peace be with you, Doug.
Ihr verleugnet ja nicht euer Erbe, ihr schätzt es wert auf drm weg den ihr geht