The takeaways start at 12:08 1. Think about The redeeming qualities about that person 2. Understand the circumstances a personal message not to excuse it, but rather to understand 3. Focus on the greater reward
‘May Allah free us from being grieved by our own transgressions, May Allah allow us to get past all our grievances and grant us reward. May Allah comfort us in a way only He can comfort us’ Aameen 🤲🏼
I had been thinking about my sitiuation which is very similar to this and Allah swt sent this khutbah my way. SubhanAllah... My mind is much more clear now. Jzk ustadh.
You're a wonderful person. I just want you to know that i respect and admire the way you articulate Islam beautifully through your lectures. I enjoyed listening to The Sahaba series. May Allah reward u in abundance
As salaam ualaikum wwb. Jazakallah ghair as always inspiring alghamdulillah. One of the things I wait for is the duah at the end. Sheikh Omar Suleiman always makes such beautiful duahs Allah Hu Akbar. May Allah accept for him and for all of us who listens to his lectures ameen
In my Christian Bible study today a man asserted that forgiveness is unique to Christianity. I knew better but wanted to hear a direct teaching on the matter from Islam. Thank you for your teaching. Perhaps Christianity differs in extending forgiveness to those who do not seek it, but I suspect this distinction to would vanish upon closer investigation. Forgiveness in those circumstances does not mean full reconciliation or trust it simply means you do not seek retribution.
Allahuma Ameen ya Rabb AL Alemin!!! Jazak Allah khair!!! Barak'Allahu feek!!! May Allah SWT Love you and preserve you ya Karim!!! Subhan'Allah amazing !!! May Allah SWT make us Among those who listen to the words, then follow the best of it ya Rabb AL Alemin!!!
Salam admin. It would be beneficial if Imam could address issue of threats of death and harm from parents, what weaker and broken victims do when the cultural or generational cycles of abuse are happening, and due to this they give into mental and emotional manipulation which prolongs the abuse until it becomes a normative thing for the abused. And, horrific situations which are very common when abuse of other kinds are committed by fathers and brothers towards daughters/ sisters, and the mothers and matriarchal systems hide the abuse and persecute the abused from contacting the authorities. Also, in South Asian communities especially where the mothers and fathers are magicians, or they have strong bonds with magicians as a means to doing horrific acts against the kids and wider community nembers etc. It's hard to forgive such abuses as described in my examples when the abuse and harm is ongoing in a cycle of prolonged and sustained harm, and are not isolated random acts that can be segregated for other redeeming factors. The general advise is to forgive and not cut ties, but sometimes cutting ties is the only option to stop the trauma and to break the cycle whilst protecting oneself from death and harm. Forgiveness is not possible when the harm is sustained and there is a deeply embedded cultural belief that such horrific acts are the 'right' of the parent and they have a unique status with God to do whatever they want. Sometimes their Imams in the mosques who can't even speak English support these acts. Jazak Allah.
Salaam alaikum! What a horrible situation indeed. I believe that cutting ties is not literal but rather figurative in the sense that you forget whatever good there was. If one removes oneself from an abusive situation and does not establish contact, for as long as the abused prays for the abuser to change their ways and be forgiven by ALLAH AWJ 🙏✨❤️, that would not be cutting ties. ALLAH AWJ 🙏✨❤️ is not unreasonable and Islam is supposed to be a religion of ease.. Praying for them will give peace to be abused (ironically that is true). And ALLAH AWJ knows best. ❤️🙏✨ Barakallah feekum 🙏✨❤️
@@ts7371 I already watched the video and am aware of what it contains. My original lengthy comment was not asking for clarity about forgiveness solely. I was asking Admin to ask the Imam to address the legitimacy of cutting ties in serious situations as those I described. These Imams need to speak clearly and directly to abusers in their sermons, instead of fluffy advice that is not open nor clear about modern present issues aimed at victims.
اللهم صل وسلم وبارك على نبينا محمد وعلى اله وصحبه اجمعين اللهم إغفر لي ولوالدي والمؤمنين والمؤمنات والمسلمين والمسلمات ولمن له حق علي من الأحياء والأموات. جزاك الله خيراً على هذه الخطبة وجميع أعمالك.
I was born in Chicago in 1942, and I love living in Queretaro, where i moved in 2021 at 79. Safer and 70% less expensive, and all utilities included in my apartment and internet, maid and security. plenty of groceries delivered. Local friends see that I get takeout or anything I want. I am blessed. Over 60 years of coming to Acapulco etc. Let go and let God. Karma never loses an address. You will reap what you have sown. Send ALL criminals to war zones with shaved heads and faces.
BarakAllah a heart touching khutbah and one of the best from Imam Dr.Omar Suleiman ❤️💯. Jazakum Allahu Khairan for the beneficial khutbah. Al hamdulillah 🤲.
Asalam ma laykum may allah give victory to islam and the muslims bless and ease the sufferings of the ummah and may allah protect the people of palestine and Afghanistan and Lebanon and syria and chinA and Kashmir and yemen and sudan and india and Pakistan and may allah free the masjid al aqsa from the zionist oppressors and may allah unite the ummah upon the quran and sunnah and may allah destroy the enemies of Islam and may allah protect and guide the muslims and non muslims to the right path and may allah have mercy on all those that have passed away before us and may Allah have mercy on us when we pass away and may allah relieve the distress muslims and may allah cure all those that have a sickness and a disability and may allah grant them a cure that leaves no aliment and may allah protect the muslims from hellfire and from the fitnah of dajjal and from the fitnah that is happening these days and may Allah answer all our prayers and duas and may allahs peace and blessings be upon the prophet muhammad saw ameen
Yaa Rab Amiiiin ان شاء الله And People of Somalia, Burkina Faso, Muslims in Philippine, Muslims in Cameron (West Africa), Muslims in Madagascar, Niger, Nigeria, Muslims in Ukraine and others ان شاء الله whom I didn't mention who going through trials and tribulations
Do you have to inform the person you forgave that you forgave them even though they didn’t asked for? Do you have to be friendly with the person who you forgave to show that you forgave them? It’s so difficult & complicated…
maybe you can learn something from this hadith? Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "A believer is not stung twice (by something) out of one and the same hole." Sahih Al Bukhari 6133,Book 78,Hadith 160. Esp. if the person is persistent in that action(same pattern). Hope this helps.
Asalaamu alaykom I have seen a dream of me my sister and this imam and other people praying behind the grave of the prophet (saw) inside the tomb and the imam was not alright i think he was feeling sick and he was leading the prayer and he was leaning on a pillar or a wall
I can't forgive. I just can't. I could try to forgive what happened to myself. But O can't forgive what they did to my mother. A daughter Won't forgive. Forgive me Allah. I can't.
I understand completely. It happened to me too for more than 30 years. I distanced myself but still make doa for them. Send presents to them until today.
Are you a scholar of sunnah or just looking for followers and name and fame. Which of the ulema and scholars you take from. Name us your man. Marching in the streets is forbidden in Islam. So where and which scholars did you get your information from. Name us your man if you are truthful. And stop lying to the lay man
Sir, Mohmmad had no guarantee of forgiveness of sins - ( which brings about assurance of heaven). Say, “I [Muhammad] am not something new among the messengers, and I do not know what will be done with me or with you. I only follow what is revealed to me. I am only a warner.” (Qur’an 46:9) Allah's Apostle said [at a funeral], “As for him, by Allah, death has come to him. By Allah, I wish him all good. By Allah, in spite of the fact that I am Allah's Apostle, I do not know what Allah will do to me.” (Sahih al-Bukhari 7003; vol 9, bk 87, no 131)
Literally the most humble and the best teachers, always calm and bringing us closer to Allah الله يحفظك ❤️🥺
MashaAllah ❤
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The takeaways start at 12:08
1. Think about The redeeming qualities about that person
2. Understand the circumstances a personal message not to excuse it, but rather to understand
3. Focus on the greater reward
Thank you so much for this time frame
‘May Allah free us from being grieved by our own transgressions, May Allah allow us to get past all our grievances and grant us reward. May Allah comfort us in a way only He can comfort us’ Aameen 🤲🏼
Ameen ❤
I had been thinking about my sitiuation which is very similar to this and Allah swt sent this khutbah my way. SubhanAllah... My mind is much more clear now. Jzk ustadh.
You're a wonderful person.
I just want you to know that i respect and admire the way you articulate Islam beautifully through your lectures. I enjoyed listening to The Sahaba series. May Allah reward u in abundance
Omar Suleiman is so articulate with the most well composed khutbas. He is a leader in every sense of the word MashAllah!
With lies
As salaam ualaikum wwb. Jazakallah ghair as always inspiring alghamdulillah. One of the things I wait for is the duah at the end. Sheikh Omar Suleiman always makes such beautiful duahs Allah Hu Akbar. May Allah accept for him and for all of us who listens to his lectures ameen
May Allah swt bless that sign language ukhti
جزاكم الله خير ، الخطب والمواضيع جميلة. Thank you very much . May Allah bless you
In my Christian Bible study today a man asserted that forgiveness is unique to Christianity. I knew better but wanted to hear a direct teaching on the matter from Islam. Thank you for your teaching.
Perhaps Christianity differs in extending forgiveness to those who do not seek it, but I suspect this distinction to would vanish upon closer investigation. Forgiveness in those circumstances does not mean full reconciliation or trust it simply means you do not seek retribution.
This is exactly what i wanted. May Allah bless him🙏
May Allah decree it for us to forgive all those that have wronged us. Amin. Allahul musta'an.
Outstanding reminder Ma-sha-Allah
Allah bless you respected imam 🤲🏻
Assalam o alykum Jazakallah sheikh for such an excellent khutba May Allah guide us and May Allah SWTA forgives us and we too forgive each other AMEEN
May Allah bless you and your familie sheikh
Allahuma Ameen ya Rabb AL Alemin!!! Jazak Allah khair!!! Barak'Allahu feek!!! May Allah SWT Love you and preserve you ya Karim!!! Subhan'Allah amazing !!!
May Allah SWT make us Among those who listen to the words, then follow the best of it ya Rabb AL Alemin!!!
alhmadullilah l really needed this, been going through a lot a the moment
Forgiving people...definitely hard to forgive. I am trying. ❤
Extremely useful examples that let me put things in perspective & forgive ... Thank you so much !
Another excellent lecture as always. May Allah bless you and jazakallah khair for helping us and guiding us to the straight path.
Salam admin. It would be beneficial if Imam could address issue of threats of death and harm from parents, what weaker and broken victims do when the cultural or generational cycles of abuse are happening, and due to this they give into mental and emotional manipulation which prolongs the abuse until it becomes a normative thing for the abused. And, horrific situations which are very common when abuse of other kinds are committed by fathers and brothers towards daughters/ sisters, and the mothers and matriarchal systems hide the abuse and persecute the abused from contacting the authorities. Also, in South Asian communities especially where the mothers and fathers are magicians, or they have strong bonds with magicians as a means to doing horrific acts against the kids and wider community nembers etc. It's hard to forgive such abuses as described in my examples when the abuse and harm is ongoing in a cycle of prolonged and sustained harm, and are not isolated random acts that can be segregated for other redeeming factors. The general advise is to forgive and not cut ties, but sometimes cutting ties is the only option to stop the trauma and to break the cycle whilst protecting oneself from death and harm. Forgiveness is not possible when the harm is sustained and there is a deeply embedded cultural belief that such horrific acts are the 'right' of the parent and they have a unique status with God to do whatever they want. Sometimes their Imams in the mosques who can't even speak English support these acts. Jazak Allah.
@Sehr Az So sorry about your bad experiences. God Bless you sister/ brother 🙂
Salaam alaikum! What a horrible situation indeed. I believe that cutting ties is not literal but rather figurative in the sense that you forget whatever good there was. If one removes oneself from an abusive situation and does not establish contact, for as long as the abused prays for the abuser to change their ways and be forgiven by ALLAH AWJ 🙏✨❤️, that would not be cutting ties. ALLAH AWJ 🙏✨❤️ is not unreasonable and Islam is supposed to be a religion of ease.. Praying for them will give peace to be abused (ironically that is true). And ALLAH AWJ knows best. ❤️🙏✨ Barakallah feekum 🙏✨❤️
@@mariaclaudettecaluban5286salam 🙂 Jazak Allah
I feel for you, my duas are with you and everyone in these situations. It’s all too common and I wish it was addressed by our leaders more often.
@@ts7371 I already watched the video and am aware of what it contains. My original lengthy comment was not asking for clarity about forgiveness solely. I was asking Admin to ask the Imam to address the legitimacy of cutting ties in serious situations as those I described. These Imams need to speak clearly and directly to abusers in their sermons, instead of fluffy advice that is not open nor clear about modern present issues aimed at victims.
اللهم صل وسلم وبارك على نبينا محمد وعلى اله وصحبه اجمعين
اللهم إغفر لي ولوالدي والمؤمنين والمؤمنات والمسلمين والمسلمات ولمن له حق علي من الأحياء والأموات.
جزاك الله خيراً على هذه الخطبة وجميع أعمالك.
I was born in Chicago in 1942, and I love living in Queretaro, where i moved in 2021 at 79. Safer and 70%
less expensive, and all utilities included in my apartment and internet, maid and security. plenty of groceries delivered. Local friends see that I get takeout or anything I want. I am blessed. Over 60 years of coming to Acapulco etc.
Let go and let God.
Karma never loses an address.
You will reap what you have sown.
Send ALL criminals to war zones with shaved heads and faces.
Can we talk about asl interpreter on the side? Alhamdulliah
BarakAllah a heart touching khutbah and one of the best from Imam Dr.Omar Suleiman ❤️💯.
Jazakum Allahu Khairan for the beneficial khutbah.
Al hamdulillah 🤲.
Forgiveness would be easy when we have reach into the point that what we face is a lie.
Baaraka'llahu feek, wa axsana'llahu ilayk. ❤❤
بارك الله فيك واحسن اليك💞🌷
جزاك الله يا شيخ
Alhamdulillah I gotwhat I was looking for😊
اللهم صلي وسلم على نبينا محمد
Asalam ma laykum may allah give victory to islam and the muslims bless and ease the sufferings of the ummah and may allah protect the people of palestine and Afghanistan and Lebanon and syria and chinA and Kashmir and yemen and sudan and india and Pakistan and may allah free the masjid al aqsa from the zionist oppressors and may allah unite the ummah upon the quran and sunnah and may allah destroy the enemies of Islam and may allah protect and guide the muslims and non muslims to the right path and may allah have mercy on all those that have passed away before us and may Allah have mercy on us when we pass away and may allah relieve the distress muslims and may allah cure all those that have a sickness and a disability and may allah grant them a cure that leaves no aliment and may allah protect the muslims from hellfire and from the fitnah of dajjal and from the fitnah that is happening these days and may Allah answer all our prayers and duas and may allahs peace and blessings be upon the prophet muhammad saw ameen
Ameen
Ameen yarab
Yaa Rab Amiiiin ان شاء الله
And People of Somalia, Burkina Faso, Muslims in Philippine, Muslims in Cameron (West Africa), Muslims in Madagascar, Niger, Nigeria, Muslims in Ukraine and others ان شاء الله whom I didn't mention who going through trials and tribulations
@@killersarecowards9266 may allah bless and ease their sufferings
Great teacher
Jazak'Allahu-khair.
Duas for whole team
Do you have to inform the person you forgave that you forgave them even though they didn’t asked for? Do you have to be friendly with the person who you forgave to show that you forgave them? It’s so difficult & complicated…
Jazakallah khair
terima kasih
بارك الله فيكم
سبحان الله
الحمدلله
Allahu Akbar
How do you trust again? You can forgive but how do you trust someone who wronged you as you did before
maybe you can learn something from this hadith?
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "A believer is not stung twice (by something) out of one and the same hole."
Sahih Al Bukhari 6133,Book 78,Hadith 160.
Esp. if the person is persistent in that action(same pattern).
Hope this helps.
14:46 ❤
Ameen 🤲🏾
What if it is a controlling family member
Asalaamu alaykom
I have seen a dream of me my sister and this imam and other people praying behind the grave of the prophet (saw) inside the tomb and the imam was not alright i think he was feeling sick and he was leading the prayer and he was leaning on a pillar or a wall
Wa 'alaykom al selem wa rahmatu Allah wa barakatuh
I hope that he was holding on that pillar , and I hope that's the pillar of islam
❤❤❤
لا حول ولاقوة الابالله
with due respect, is that honourable lady there to convey this message to the deaf ?? just my question !
Yes
@@aminaahmad8328 I tried putting myself into the shoe & imagined if I could understand her, I felt soo blessed for my hearing !
I can't forgive. I just can't. I could try to forgive what happened to myself. But O can't forgive what they did to my mother. A daughter Won't forgive.
Forgive me Allah. I can't.
I understand completely. It happened to me too for more than 30 years. I distanced myself but still make doa for them. Send presents to them until today.
Are you a scholar of sunnah or just looking for followers and name and fame. Which of the ulema and scholars you take from. Name us your man. Marching in the streets is forbidden in Islam. So where and which scholars did you get your information from. Name us your man if you are truthful. And stop lying to the lay man
How to forgive pure evil people? Impossible.
Some people don’t deserve forgiveness.
Sir, Mohmmad had no guarantee of forgiveness of sins - ( which brings about assurance of heaven).
Say, “I [Muhammad] am not something new among the messengers, and I do not know what will be done with me or with you. I only follow what is revealed to me. I am only a warner.” (Qur’an 46:9)
Allah's Apostle said [at a funeral], “As for him, by Allah, death has come to him. By Allah, I wish him all good. By Allah, in spite of the fact that I am Allah's Apostle, I do not know what Allah will do to me.” (Sahih al-Bukhari 7003; vol 9, bk 87, no 131)
it's one of your rights,
no one can force you to forgive anyone in fact dua of the oppressed(based on terms and conditions) is answered.