In defense of the guy who took the shot, it's gross to rank women against each other. Even as a married dude I wouldn't want to answer that question because while complimenting my wife I'd be shaming past women in my life which feels disgusting to me.
@andarwarje8127 That's such a green flag perspective, very respectful. I hope, sincerely, that your comment gets a lot of eyes on it and gives people something to think about.
@@get.sassyxd i feel like its so messy tho cuz even if its mutually agreed it wont be serious its so easy for one side to catch feelings when theyre kinda being treated like a significant other without any of the actual commitment. sexual desire and attraction is a very strong human emotion and (for allos) plays a pretty large role in loving someone. its only natural to want someone around who pays attention to you and makes you feel good even if the relationship was never supposed to be srs, lacks everything else and/or is severely unhealthy. but idk im aroace and never had to deal w this stuff so im speaking purely from an outsiders perspective pfff
As someone in a situationship who sometimes catches feelings (and then gets over it lol) it’s infuriating but it’s the choice I made. Ima have to deal with it until I decide I want to settle down and begin an actual relationship. I’d hope it’s with who I’m thinking of, but reality is, it won’t be. But if you don’t have that conversation, it’s a bad murky place to be in. In my experience, situationships start off as FwB and the moment one person catches feelings, that’s when it leads to a situationship.
The one with the kid makes so much sense. He’s respecting that she is protecting her child, and she is being open and honest about her point in life and her priorities. They’re not playing games or messing around for no reason
Ew no I say ew no because look who she’s with THATS her taste, sweet guy too good for her not her flavor I don’t even understand who sweet guy is with now there’s something about her
Nah, she's way too insecure. She needs to work on herself a lot before she can be in a serious relationship. People like that can go from being the dog in a "situationship" to being with someone who treats them halfway decently and they can't make the transition. They panic and self-sabotage. Especially if they have a history of pinging from toxic relationship to toxic relationship.
@@seppo532 okay? the person commenting originally isn't saying that they can't. it's just breast cancer IN PARTICULAR is something that is a big topic but mostly attributed to women. you don't have to be a smart a$$ for no reason
@@seppo532that’s… pretty much what women have been instructed to do via human growth and development. men too for testicular cancer. Also the point of a Pap smear every year. You check yourself once a month/year and you raise the chance of catching a lump before it gets too far. **Can’t tell if you are being sarcastic towards the fact that we _should_ be checking every month (as in duh, yeah you should) or if you’re being sarcastic towards the warning (as in, ah yes you MUST check all the time 🙄)
ummm.. fulll disclosure im 17 (which also makes me even MORE confused) but i just checked and i felt a bump on my right but not my left so idk if thats natural… pls help bro wtf😭
He dates women with low self esteem. The woman here doesn't have a reason we can see to have low self esteem, by her answers and her voice and eye contact, it's obvious she's unsure of herself. I hope she stopped seeing him after the video was done.
That sweet man in the shacket doesn’t deserve her. She thinks she’s better than him and is so condescending towards him even just in their body language.
The comment she made about it being a year and her not being his girlfriend does kinda make me think it could be a case of she’s gotten tired he hasn’t asked her and started talking to others, but idk overall she seemed to just minimise his feelings a lot and it felt so awkward that she could barely praise him
Poor guy. She seems like one of those girls that are so complex and interesting/alluring as well as addicting, but breaking his heart. But of course, that goes both ways; I was in a situationship with a guy like that for 10 years. It's rough to get out of.
"I will though" 😭😭😭 That's crazyyyyyy. (Nah, but fr I wanted to say something...instead I just paused everytime he was on screen and zoomed in to analyse)
The only time it's okay to judge someone's appearance is when they're a piece of garbage lmao. You just shouldn't bully them over it since they can't do anything about it
@@Varphi_people like you are literally who he is complaining about. People LOVE to police everyone who has curly, wavy, kinky hair for no reason. Do you also tell people they’re not disabled if they can walk a few steps without their wheelchair? It’s hair. Let people live
@@christalcavanaugh Ooh look at you actually going off & policing people though. The comment I was responding to was trying to bring up wavy when everybody else was only talking about curly. My point is that since you want to bring up a whole different hair texture that had nothing to do with the original statement I will correct that is simply not the same thing. Dismissed
can we appreciate mama baileys guys dads reaction to her having a kid and being asked if he’d be ready to be a grandpa??? that’s so sweet and wholesome. like idk i feel like some parents would be really freaked out and potentially rude/slut shamey about it n i rlly appreciate that he was so chill and ready to take in her kid as his own grandkid
I can see why some might feel like that but I just can’t find any sympathy for her no matter how far down I dig lol. Like he’s made it very clear to her what he’s about and it’s not her. If she wants someone about her, she needs to drop greasy rat man yesterday and find someone who is Like he made it very clear that he doesn’t want to be with her and will continue to fuck other women. If she was actually cool with that then cool, they are both adults, but clearly she’s not cool with it. You can’t be pissy & snippy at him for doing what you know he’s going to do, and you agreed to but treat him almost like an unfaithful partner when he does. She doesn’t want to hear about his other “partners” so she can delude herself into thinking they don’t exist and she’s the only one.
My mom found a lump a year ago. Now she's got a spot in her lung that they're going to biopsy. Breast cancer has hit my whole family so hard, especially last year, really drives home the point of self-exams and mammograms. I hope you are doing OK, sending you good vibes. 🩷
My mother had breast cancer stage three they had to remove it because the cancer had spread very far its taken a while for her to bounce back but i just want to give you guys some hope
I'm gonna cry because of the guy in the denim shacket. He just seems like an absolute SWEETHEART. Someone get him a serious relationship with someone who loves him so much stat!! Edit: did we misread the situation? wait. like might there be a chance for them? 2nd edit: NEVERMIND
It seems strange that it took them a year for her to realize that he wasn't exactly what she thought he was. Like obviously they won't know everything about each other but the fact that he was immediately able to address her concerns with the relationship with a simple question gives the vibe that they like she might not always ask these questions and he might not offer them without prompting.
She's pretty rude to him honestly...the way she said "with who?" when he said he'd done freaky stuff was purposefully intended to make him feel insecure about their seggs life. She talks down to him and he's just so kind to her...if she's comfortable treating him that way on a video she knows is going on the internet, she's probably much worse when she thinks people aren't watching. I hope he walks away from her and finds someone he deserves.
@@Thomas-zt7dmNah, what it actually says is that she likes making up excuses to make it so that he's actually the reason why she can't commit, (so he can be the "bad guy" if/when things end) and she doesn't ask because then she would have to move the goalposts again. First she said she was too focused on her career, but then she apparently has time to date a bunch of other people. Then she says he's not freaky enough in the bedroom, then it's that he's too religious. She's just making this stuff up. Meanwhile, the real reason why she won't commit is because she enjoys having all of the power in the relationship. Stringing him along means that she's the one in control, and committing to an equal partnership means having to give it up. She likes messing with him, and she did it throughout the entire video. Even the whole, "Do you hate me?" thing was super manipulative. She sucks.
He agreed to be in it lol we all make choices. Yeah she's stringing him a long but she clearly ain't feeling it long term he can move on for someone better.
as a hopeless romantic hookup culture and situationships absolutely crushes me because ive never been in a relationship before and im so scared that the guy i fall in love with just wants to be “casual” absolutely not.
i can promise you as a victim of this- that won’t be forever, i’m the most healthy relationship i’ve ever been in, im also my bfs first girlfriend. (he’s my 2nd bf) difference is i was in a toxic relationship and afraid to find love again after. i promise there are people out there who aren’t looking for a situatioship and actually for something real
I feel so bad for you kids, when I was growing upbeing involved with someone meant you were seeing each other. If you wanted more it was said at the start 😂
It’s because she is convinced herself that what she is doing is normal and healthy and not hurting anyone, so she doesn’t feel the need to hide it and him not telling his mom challenges her denial
I think because she thinks the guy is literally obsessed with her so she's shocked he didn't tell everyone he knew about her. Also, the fact that she wanted him to be the "jealous one" and seemed offended he wasnt.
@@blueismylove3128 yeah i agree, seems like she just wants all his attention on her while seeing other guys, like the backup bf or the second choice typa thing.
"I'm not judging." JUDGE HIM! I would not be sleeping with a grown man that is not checking his sexual health between partners. That is careless and not funny at all. Andre is handsome and seems sweet. He has a nice smile.
I swear you can always tell exactly who likes the other person more and is suffering vs who is keeping the distance, it's never equal 💀 like in an open marriage the question of who opened the marriage and who's crying themselves to sleep every night
@@yofukashidayoyeah like at this rate they’re more complicated than actual relationships which is ironic. Cause that’s why people are in situationships to avoid relationships.
lol i was in a situation ship once, and when it finally worked up to a date, we met his ex and he left me for 4 hours (probably to bang lol) and when he came back he yelled at me for letting him leave with his ex (?) boys are scary ahahah
Just wanna say NO ONE deserves to be devalued the way a situationship devalues you. You deserve to be fully loved and appreciated and for the person you're with to want to claim you. If they don't. Move on! They are not worth your time!
Yes, but there are people who don't want something serious about close to a relationship. If two of those people meet and start a situationship, power to them. As long as both are on the same page, it's dandy.
I'm so forreal- a bad situationship can cause trauma. The pushing your own boundaries way too far for the other person's benefit, so you dont have to stop seeing each other- that fecks you up. Take care of yourselves out there 💜
You’re so right. I recently got out of a “situationship” and I didn’t know that was the term for it. I was the one always pushing my boundaries to keep him around. I’ve been distancing myself already and this video (plus your comment) just solidified my choice on that. So thanks, fellow youtuber 🤝
I don't even think it has to be a bad situationship. Whenever one person is more invested in the relationship than the other, that automatically means that both parties are not on the same page. And the person who isn't as invested/throwing up walls automatically has a huge power advantage over the other person. That's a huge reason why people do this, because they like the feeling of power over the other party. So, even in "good" situationships, people are almost certainly getting hurt. Maybe not always to the level of trauma, but definitely to the point where it's not healthy.
I NEED SHACKET GUY TO EXPERIENCE LOVE??? She is being so insensitive and taunting in her answers! Not to mention he’s been tested more recently than her and she’s had more recent partners. PLS SHACKET MAN THERE IS BETTER FOR YOU
Grease guy is the worst omfg he reminds me of my ex he did the same shit but he was ACTUALLY my botfriend. Also for some reason it's always guys who look like THAT that pull so many women?? HOW???
It’s the confidence I think 😭 They have no shame so they’re able to pursue women that are way out of their league with no fear of rejection. I dated a balding grease ball once too and him preying on my insecurities & his over the top confidence made me feel so stuck. The manipulation tactics were crazyyyyy
Listen, as a person in an open relationship, slick back hair dude is not the vibe. A month ago I drove 3 hours to go to a concert with my girlfriends other partner bc we both like that band (our girlfriend knew but wassnt avalible to come), and we all have the upmost love and respect for each other and COMMUNICATE . fuck that dude
Honestly as someone with extreme jealousy issues, I do not understand how you can possibly be okay with a relationship like that and call your girlfriend "our girlfriend" lol
@@Fartluver7 i get you honestly. i was in a relationship with someone who was poly once, but it ended pretty quickly when i realized i couldn't be with them knowing i wasn't the only person they were interested in. but that's just us!!! other people feel and process things differently, just because we don't get it doesn't mean it doesn't make sense at all :)
@@boyrottingyeah, I’m with you. It’s like when some people can have one night stands and enjoy them. It’s not for me. I need more intimacy or it’s like I’m forcing myself to have sex I’m not enjoying. But, I know for a fact other people really enjoy the random hook up when they are single.
@laurynholling2309 me n my bf opened our relationship once, but whenever i tried any sort of intimacy with someone else, i got so disgusted abt it not being him that i wanted to vomit. props to people who can handle it tbh
@@Fartluver7 Thats totally valid and understandable, but thats just personally not a problem for me. Totally get where you are coming from tho and hope you are never in a situation where you would be uncomfortable and not okay with a relationship of yours in that way.
the only one i feel bad for is the spider web girl. cause he clearly doesnt respect nor care about her whatsoever. doesnt even bother to communicate with her on important things.
I really really respect the single mother not wanting men in and out of her kids life. My mom has dated 5 guys and a girl since she and my dad broke up, and I always got so attached to her partners, since my dad kinda sucks. Anyways, thanks to that woman for protecting her child.
7:24 I kind of agree with the guy for choosing the shot because ranking your lovers based on how good they are at that sort of stuff feels so demeaning in my opinion. It gives me the same vibe as someone saying their partner is a 10, while their ex is a 7. Sure, it’s nice to the partner, but it feels icky to rate people in that way, in my opinion at least.
Every day I wake up feeling blessed that I am in a real relationship and not out in the dating pool with the hookup culture and situationship climate because I would rather scoop my eyeballs out than be in that limbo hell
As someone who had a total of 10 breast lumps by 23, all of which I found, I recommend doing the self exam both standing and lying down. Things shift around, so feeling both ways can help determine if it’s normal breast tissue or a lump. This is especially true if you have naturally cystic breasts. The more you know! 🌠
I’ve only been in situationships. The guys were straight up with me from the start, saying they weren’t looking for anything more, but yaknow sometimes when they’re really sweet and like make sure you feel loved and taken care of it sort of feels like maybe they’re being genuine and actually like you 🙃
I have never once heard of a situationship referred to in such a way. I've always heard people use a situationship to describe something that is on-again off-again, or just not quite "serious" enough to be a "real relationship." I'm learning so much today 😂
1:10 as a fellow Cooper, I can confirm that whenever I say my name is Cooper, everyone is like "my neighbors, best friends, uncle, has a dog named Cooper" or "do you go by 'Coop' most of the time by because that's my pillow brand, oh my god"
2:29 Its curly hair its just weighed down cause either she put too much hair product in, buildup or just damaged maybe even hormonal since my hair does that sometimes
I was in a situationship, but mine consistently told me he wanted to 'build a relationship' with me and told me he loved me. But then, would switch back up on me and say we're nothing a few days later. Back and forth back and forth. I got relationship whiplash. By the end of it, apparently we never dated.
That's fully intentional. The push/pull is the whole game. Pull you in enough to keep you around, but push you away enough to maintain all of the power in the relationship. If anyone ever plays hot and cold with you like that, they are never going to change. They want to keep you down, they will never want equality in the relationship. Run fast, run far, and find someone who won't play games with you and mess with your mind.
@@elyssa.cranfordOr at least trying to. Sometimes they devalue you just just so that he has the option of being with someone else even though nobody else wants him lol
@@ndawn90 I did! I ran far far away after I found out he was messing with other women. Aint no way you're going to embarrass me like that. Disgusting!!
Moth Bailey 100% is the jealous one. You know if denim shacket went off and found himself someone else she would suddenly care so much more about him. She’s lying to herself about him being the jealous one And she was so offended when he said they couldn’t be friends if she started dating someone else like she totally just wants his attention full stop
Funniest part of this for me was Cooper's reaction to kissing someone he isn't in love with being my reaction to the concept of romantic love. (This is genuine btw cus tone is weird on UA-cam)
PSA ON SELF BREAST EXAMS: If you’re on your period and you feel a lump, wait a week and feel if it’s still there. Hormones can cause weird things to happen 🤷♀️ Also if your breastfeeding theres no way to tell the difference between a clogged duct and a tumor unless it’s HUGE Not a doctor, just someone who has done extensive research cause of anxiety 😂
To add - if you feel a lump and you're on your period, I would rather you come in and get it checked out regardless. Breast scans are pretty quick and noninvasive, and if you're not trained in examining the breast you might not be able to check if it's still there or not. Any lumps or bumps, regardless of what you think they might be, just get them checked out. Source: doctor
This was really validating, as I've been with an idiot like slicked back hair guy in the past. Years SMH. The fact you wanna deck him is really healing 🥰 lmao
Don't be fwb's with a person u want to be more with. Theyre taking advantage of u. I know u dont want to lose them. But ur hurting urself. And they are hurting u. And they don't feel bad about. Even tho ur hurting urself as well. It's because u like them. People hurt themselves. But u shouldnt let people hurt u. They don't care.
my last situationship was with a frat guy ☠️ we were going on dates and hanging out for two months when he asked me to go to his frat formal event with him. he said he’d cover the ticket, I just needed to wear a formal dress. long story short, he ended up ditching me most of the evening while I was drunk and didn’t know anyone else there. on the drive back he told me he “just wasn’t interested” in me anymore 💀
i was in a 10 month situationship i can tell everyone it was a waste of time , those people are never gonna date you, they think it’s convenient for them as they can do whatever they want and sleep with whoever they want and definitely not ready for anything serious. now i’m in a loving relationship with a guy that wanted to experience everything with me and fully commit right from the start. please for anyone in a situationship have respect for yourself and remember that you deserve better
My mom waiting to introduce us to our now-stepdad was the BEST thing she could’ve done for us. You’re a great mom. As a mother myself as well, our children’s safety comes first always! I had friends whose mothers kept a revolving door of strange men and/or father figures who would leave after a year or two. So confusing and sometimes traumatic for a little kid.
Idk about testicles, but if you’re doing a self breast exam, a lump that is hard and immovable is what you’re looking for. It will feel like a pebble covered in a grape skin
I'm a guy but I had a hard mass one time and had to get a mammogram. They had to just pinch whatever skin they could get into the machine 😆 ended up being an endocrine issue from medication.
last situationship i was in was a couple years ago n it lasted 4?5? months. we agreed to being exclusive n then he went and put his weenie in someone else n i forgave him bc he kept saying he only wanted a situationship bc the term “dating” was too much for him. then he js “lost feelings for me” also think he gave me an sti. also he had a car but i drove him around everywhere and paid for almost all our dates. i haven’t been in any type of relationship since.
I'm all for people doing what they want WITHOUT harming anyone involved. But yeah, personally, I've never been able to handle situationship intimacy. Thats just a set up for me to get attached and bawl my eyes out LOL
@@doveyoveyInside. I found one when I was 19. Got it checked out and it was luckily not milignant. Got it removed and there's no scarring either (they can remove lumps through the nipple so it's not noticeable at all).
@@doveyovey yes what DM-nw5lu said! that’s why you have to do the physical palpation; mine was deeply set into the breast tissue, scared the hell out of me🥲
Where I live most people use “situationship” to mean that transition phase between not in a relationship and in a relationship but words meanings can change based on the context 🤷🏻♂️
As a Misophoniac myself, I love how open you are about your misophonia & how you help spread awareness about important stuff. I don't mean it in a rude way, but maybe check Misokinesia as well, it's the same as Misophonia but with visual triggers. I've it and I had to hide your face for the few minutes you were chewing. Just trying to spread awareness myself over the years so as little as one person reading this is progress. Much love and appreciation tho, love this new chaotic channel so much! ❤
if you’re “stuck” in a situationship and you like the person but the person has made it clear that they don’t want anything more with you, it is now your time to either leave or keep quiet and keep fucking em. once someone has communicated something, a boundary that they don’t want anything serious, it is not their fault if you stick around and wait for them (speaking from experience). if someone OPENLY tells you they don’t want you romantically, it is not LEADING YOU ON. you just won’t leave em alone
having to change yourself to get them to like you or see you in a different light is manipulative LMAOOO like guys pls. being alone or with someone who loves you is so much better i promise
right? like i totally understand it if the person is being manipulative or legit leading them on or switching up what they want or something like that, but just staying w someone who’s made it very clear they don’t want anything more, in the hopes that they change their mind, is weird asf and i feel like you can’t rlly complain then. it’s kinda like guys (or girls ig) that complain about being in the “friend zone”. it also rubs me the wrong way to call that trauma, if they were clear they don’t want a relationship and aren’t manipulative or abusive or anything otherwise traumatizing and it’s just the situationships itself that’s “traumatizing”, rather than the person or actions. it just feels weird to call it traumatic when the only thing that happened was that you wanted more than the other person and stuck around in case they changed their mind and they didn’t. that’s not trauma, that’s just middle school crushes.
Cooper I love these. And I love you reacting to these. So glad you continue to do these even if it’s on your second channel. Gotta be honest I watch this second one more than your primary channel now.
dude chill down that IS curly hair.. curly hair isn't exclusive to black people js.. and there's many different kinds of curls.. nothing remotedly r4cist about it
Growing up my grandfather never told my Dad he loved him and my Dad has made a concerted effort to tell me and my brother every single day that he loves us - even after I've moved out.
As someone who was in a situationship for a long time that turned into him being my boyfriend this is so entertaining to watch. Y'all sometimes it's worth the wait but if you KNOW you want to be committed and the other person doesn't then don't wait around for them to change their mind.
In defense of the guy who took the shot, it's gross to rank women against each other. Even as a married dude I wouldn't want to answer that question because while complimenting my wife I'd be shaming past women in my life which feels disgusting to me.
I WAS THINKING THIS TOO!!The thought of being “just a number” on a guys roster is heartbreaking. Hopefully he was taking that into account with her
@@ta4t1e I don't think he was based on the remainder of the video.
@andarwarje8127 That's such a green flag perspective, very respectful. I hope, sincerely, that your comment gets a lot of eyes on it and gives people something to think about.
THANK GOD SOMEONE SAID IT SO I DIDN'T HAVE TO🔥
I didn't know they still made em like you 😮
why tf do situationships exist?? like, date me or don’t. please do not string me along.
Real
Amen brother man
It's *supposed* to be agreed upon in the beginning but I've been on both sides, it usually doesn't work lol
@@get.sassyxd i feel like its so messy tho cuz even if its mutually agreed it wont be serious its so easy for one side to catch feelings when theyre kinda being treated like a significant other without any of the actual commitment. sexual desire and attraction is a very strong human emotion and (for allos) plays a pretty large role in loving someone. its only natural to want someone around who pays attention to you and makes you feel good even if the relationship was never supposed to be srs, lacks everything else and/or is severely unhealthy. but idk im aroace and never had to deal w this stuff so im speaking purely from an outsiders perspective pfff
As someone in a situationship who sometimes catches feelings (and then gets over it lol) it’s infuriating but it’s the choice I made. Ima have to deal with it until I decide I want to settle down and begin an actual relationship. I’d hope it’s with who I’m thinking of, but reality is, it won’t be. But if you don’t have that conversation, it’s a bad murky place to be in.
In my experience, situationships start off as FwB and the moment one person catches feelings, that’s when it leads to a situationship.
How does that grease ball dude get so much action???? He's SO creepy and gross.
I find it hard to believe. He seems the type to make that up just to bring down a woman’s self esteem
@@elainascott7496 he definitely doesn’t
He’s got a pile of 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
@@madinup2237I think you nailed it right there.
@@annarosen9706 he really reminds me of the guy on Tik tok that was like the female gaze Kevin lmfao
The one with the kid makes so much sense. He’s respecting that she is protecting her child, and she is being open and honest about her point in life and her priorities. They’re not playing games or messing around for no reason
I love them and they was tearing up at the end I was like awww 😭
Hear me out.... jacket sweet guy with spiderweb shirt girl...
They both want loveeeeeeee ❤❤❤❤
Ew no I say ew no because look who she’s with THATS her taste, sweet guy too good for her not her flavor I don’t even understand who sweet guy is with now there’s something about her
Yessssss
REALLL
Nah, she's way too insecure. She needs to work on herself a lot before she can be in a serious relationship. People like that can go from being the dog in a "situationship" to being with someone who treats them halfway decently and they can't make the transition. They panic and self-sabotage. Especially if they have a history of pinging from toxic relationship to toxic relationship.
I’m sorry. When slick backed diamond stud guy said “I was just browsing.” At the beginning. I was like ew
i feel like hes super old too, as in like late 30s-40s. while looking at younger girls to js use [maybe im projecting but thats the vibeeee]
@@glowa-q9bI got that vibe too, honestly, I think it’s legit
You don't have to apologize girl, we all thought it 😭
Cause he's just shopping for some objects
@CrisSelene that’s exactly what I thought when he said that!
OH I HATE THAT BALDING MAN
HE LOOKS GROSS
@@PeaNutttyyy DEFINITELY OMG SHE DESERVES MORE
All woman with any self respect also do
SAMEEEE!!!!
He looks so greasy
BREAST CANCER CAN HAPPEN TO MEN TOO! CHECK YOUR TIDDY PLS BROTHERS
Women can get vulvar cancer. Maybe we should examine every inch of our bodies monthly?
@@seppo532 okay? the person commenting originally isn't saying that they can't. it's just breast cancer IN PARTICULAR is something that is a big topic but mostly attributed to women. you don't have to be a smart a$$ for no reason
@@seppo532that’s… pretty much what women have been instructed to do via human growth and development. men too for testicular cancer. Also the point of a Pap smear every year. You check yourself once a month/year and you raise the chance of catching a lump before it gets too far.
**Can’t tell if you are being sarcastic towards the fact that we _should_ be checking every month (as in duh, yeah you should) or if you’re being sarcastic towards the warning (as in, ah yes you MUST check all the time 🙄)
ummm.. fulll disclosure im 17 (which also makes me even MORE confused) but i just checked and i felt a bump on my right but not my left so idk if thats natural… pls help bro wtf😭
@@aquademoneyAsk a trusted adult, like your mother!
How does that greesy guy get any action?😭 he looks creepy aside from being manipulative.
He's slimy. I hope that woman comes to her senses.
He dates women with low self esteem. The woman here doesn't have a reason we can see to have low self esteem, by her answers and her voice and eye contact, it's obvious she's unsure of herself. I hope she stopped seeing him after the video was done.
He's probably lying tbh
& he’s balding 💀💀
Exactly because he’s manipulative, he goes for insecure women and plays with their feelings
That sweet man in the shacket doesn’t deserve her. She thinks she’s better than him and is so condescending towards him even just in their body language.
So glad I wasn't the only one who noticed
“Shacket” is my new favorite word. And yeah, I wanted to shake her..
The comment she made about it being a year and her not being his girlfriend does kinda make me think it could be a case of she’s gotten tired he hasn’t asked her and started talking to others, but idk overall she seemed to just minimise his feelings a lot and it felt so awkward that she could barely praise him
Poor guy. She seems like one of those girls that are so complex and interesting/alluring as well as addicting, but breaking his heart. But of course, that goes both ways; I was in a situationship with a guy like that for 10 years. It's rough to get out of.
14:51 you are so sweet to not talk about his physical appearance because thats not something he can change. I will though, mans giving rat skeev
"I will though" 😭😭😭 That's crazyyyyyy. (Nah, but fr I wanted to say something...instead I just paused everytime he was on screen and zoomed in to analyse)
I will too.
“what does this man have?”
*not a hairline*
😅
The only time it's okay to judge someone's appearance is when they're a piece of garbage lmao. You just shouldn't bully them over it since they can't do anything about it
Ahahahhha 😂
Cooper she has curly hair… you’re allowed to say she has curly hair 😭
she has EXTREMELY curly hair its just wet or has product💀cooper is the one with wavy hair lmao
@@yyby_ She has curly hair. Cooper has wavy hair. That’s not the same so why are we bringing up wavy hair lol
@@Varphi_ that's what they said
@@Varphi_people like you are literally who he is complaining about. People LOVE to police everyone who has curly, wavy, kinky hair for no reason. Do you also tell people they’re not disabled if they can walk a few steps without their wheelchair? It’s hair. Let people live
@@christalcavanaugh Ooh look at you actually going off & policing people though. The comment I was responding to was trying to bring up wavy when everybody else was only talking about curly. My point is that since you want to bring up a whole different hair texture that had nothing to do with the original statement I will correct that is simply not the same thing. Dismissed
Justice for the dude in the shacket✊
Yassss
Where is his salute fr 😂
o7
✊😔
can we appreciate mama baileys guys dads reaction to her having a kid and being asked if he’d be ready to be a grandpa??? that’s so sweet and wholesome. like idk i feel like some parents would be really freaked out and potentially rude/slut shamey about it n i rlly appreciate that he was so chill and ready to take in her kid as his own grandkid
The sad sounded genuinely happy to have his family grow. Really sweet.
That curly girl's situation breaks my heart
Fr!! She seems cool!
I can see why some might feel like that but I just can’t find any sympathy for her no matter how far down I dig lol. Like he’s made it very clear to her what he’s about and it’s not her. If she wants someone about her, she needs to drop greasy rat man yesterday and find someone who is
Like he made it very clear that he doesn’t want to be with her and will continue to fuck other women. If she was actually cool with that then cool, they are both adults, but clearly she’s not cool with it.
You can’t be pissy & snippy at him for doing what you know he’s going to do, and you agreed to but treat him almost like an unfaithful partner when he does.
She doesn’t want to hear about his other “partners” so she can delude herself into thinking they don’t exist and she’s the only one.
Same. She's beautiful, and seems honesf and kind
But she's doing it to herself same goes to the black guy
As someone who found stage iv breast cancer with a self breast exam, you are literally saving lives by teaching people. ❤
My mom found a lump a year ago. Now she's got a spot in her lung that they're going to biopsy. Breast cancer has hit my whole family so hard, especially last year, really drives home the point of self-exams and mammograms. I hope you are doing OK, sending you good vibes. 🩷
My mother had breast cancer stage three they had to remove it because the cancer had spread very far its taken a while for her to bounce back but i just want to give you guys some hope
Sending love to all of you.❤
I'm gonna cry because of the guy in the denim shacket. He just seems like an absolute SWEETHEART. Someone get him a serious relationship with someone who loves him so much stat!!
Edit: did we misread the situation? wait. like might there be a chance for them?
2nd edit: NEVERMIND
Lmao watching your comment go through the video is hilarious
It seems strange that it took them a year for her to realize that he wasn't exactly what she thought he was. Like obviously they won't know everything about each other but the fact that he was immediately able to address her concerns with the relationship with a simple question gives the vibe that they like she might not always ask these questions and he might not offer them without prompting.
She's pretty rude to him honestly...the way she said "with who?" when he said he'd done freaky stuff was purposefully intended to make him feel insecure about their seggs life. She talks down to him and he's just so kind to her...if she's comfortable treating him that way on a video she knows is going on the internet, she's probably much worse when she thinks people aren't watching. I hope he walks away from her and finds someone he deserves.
@@Thomas-zt7dmNah, what it actually says is that she likes making up excuses to make it so that he's actually the reason why she can't commit, (so he can be the "bad guy" if/when things end) and she doesn't ask because then she would have to move the goalposts again.
First she said she was too focused on her career, but then she apparently has time to date a bunch of other people. Then she says he's not freaky enough in the bedroom, then it's that he's too religious. She's just making this stuff up.
Meanwhile, the real reason why she won't commit is because she enjoys having all of the power in the relationship. Stringing him along means that she's the one in control, and committing to an equal partnership means having to give it up. She likes messing with him, and she did it throughout the entire video. Even the whole, "Do you hate me?" thing was super manipulative.
She sucks.
He agreed to be in it lol we all make choices. Yeah she's stringing him a long but she clearly ain't feeling it long term he can move on for someone better.
good to know that checking for lumps is universally confusing and potentially anxiety inducing lol
as a hopeless romantic hookup culture and situationships absolutely crushes me because ive never been in a relationship before and im so scared that the guy i fall in love with just wants to be “casual” absolutely not.
i can promise you as a victim of this- that won’t be forever, i’m the most healthy relationship i’ve ever been in, im also my bfs first girlfriend. (he’s my 2nd bf) difference is i was in a toxic relationship and afraid to find love again after. i promise there are people out there who aren’t looking for a situatioship and actually for something real
my bf is such a gentleman and sweetheart. and you’ll find a partner that’s the same way too. it will find you like how it found me
@@simpcity8811ugh that was so reassuring thanks girlie💋💗
@@simpcity8811awwee im so happy you found him!!!!!
I feel so bad for you kids, when I was growing upbeing involved with someone meant you were seeing each other. If you wanted more it was said at the start 😂
I left the room for two minutes and left this playing, came back, TESTICULAR CANCER??? CARTOON BOOBS?? WHAT DID I MISSSS????
It's a coop video you should be used to it by now
The adhd radiating from this entire video is intense enough to blast me through the wall upon click
Fr fr
Oh is that what's so conforting about it 🫠
In what ways? I didn't notice anything myself but I could be ignorant about it
@orls9068 I'm guessing the way he switches between subjects so quick, barely noticed that myself because I do that all the time😭
😂😂😂
Listen, I'm not going to say anything about how someone looks. But I will say having a horrendous personality can make anyone look disgusting.
24:10 no because why is moth bailey acting offended that he didn't tell his mom about her when shes looking for other guys to date
It’s because she is convinced herself that what she is doing is normal and healthy and not hurting anyone, so she doesn’t feel the need to hide it and him not telling his mom challenges her denial
she's scum fr
I think because she thinks the guy is literally obsessed with her so she's shocked he didn't tell everyone he knew about her. Also, the fact that she wanted him to be the "jealous one" and seemed offended he wasnt.
@@blueismylove3128 yeah i agree, seems like she just wants all his attention on her while seeing other guys, like the backup bf or the second choice typa thing.
Exactly
"I'm not judging." JUDGE HIM! I would not be sleeping with a grown man that is not checking his sexual health between partners. That is careless and not funny at all.
Andre is handsome and seems sweet. He has a nice smile.
I swear you can always tell exactly who likes the other person more and is suffering vs who is keeping the distance, it's never equal 💀 like in an open marriage the question of who opened the marriage and who's crying themselves to sleep every night
😭😭😭😭
Lol I saw the tweet you’re quoting from. It’s true though I’ve yet to meet happy people in open relationships
COOPER, THE GUY FROM THE ‘NICE GUY’ VIDEO REACTED TO YOU!!😭😭
edit: youtube probably wont let me link it, but yhe title is in the replies
WHAT SEND THE LINK
send. link. now. PLEASERE
NO FUCKING WAY
WAIT WHATS THE VIDEO CALLED
GET THIS COMMENT TO COOPER I NEED TO SEE HIM WATCH IT ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
Situationships make me mad in real life, idk if I can handle this 😭
I'm not gonna lie just thinking about hookups and situatiinships and fwb is overwhelming and I'd rather not
@@yofukashidayoyeah like at this rate they’re more complicated than actual relationships which is ironic. Cause that’s why people are in situationships to avoid relationships.
lol i was in a situation ship once, and when it finally worked up to a date, we met his ex and he left me for 4 hours (probably to bang lol) and when he came back he yelled at me for letting him leave with his ex (?)
boys are scary ahahah
Find better men please 🙏
There are better folks out there 🫶
Girl if you are bi, boy bye
youre better than that, trust me❤
Ew. Glad you’re not in that anymore.
Good lord! Please tell me you learned from this and will never let someone disrespect you like that again!
30:16 Spiderweb & GreaseBall’s relationship going downhill IS moving it in a positive direction
Greasy baldie is the WORST I hope she gets out of the situationship
Just wanna say NO ONE deserves to be devalued the way a situationship devalues you. You deserve to be fully loved and appreciated and for the person you're with to want to claim you. If they don't. Move on! They are not worth your time!
Amen to that ❤
Yes, but there are people who don't want something serious about close to a relationship. If two of those people meet and start a situationship, power to them. As long as both are on the same page, it's dandy.
I was in a situationship about 4 years without realizing it was a situationship until she mentioned she was dating our mutual friend
@@TarisLunasituationships are far more draining than relationships with active and open communication are
I'm so forreal- a bad situationship can cause trauma. The pushing your own boundaries way too far for the other person's benefit, so you dont have to stop seeing each other- that fecks you up.
Take care of yourselves out there 💜
You’re so right. I recently got out of a “situationship” and I didn’t know that was the term for it. I was the one always pushing my boundaries to keep him around. I’ve been distancing myself already and this video (plus your comment) just solidified my choice on that. So thanks, fellow youtuber 🤝
I don't even think it has to be a bad situationship. Whenever one person is more invested in the relationship than the other, that automatically means that both parties are not on the same page. And the person who isn't as invested/throwing up walls automatically has a huge power advantage over the other person. That's a huge reason why people do this, because they like the feeling of power over the other party.
So, even in "good" situationships, people are almost certainly getting hurt. Maybe not always to the level of trauma, but definitely to the point where it's not healthy.
thats what im going through rn.. a trauma bond
red… my heart goes out to the non freaky feller in the shacket
I NEED SHACKET GUY TO EXPERIENCE LOVE??? She is being so insensitive and taunting in her answers! Not to mention he’s been tested more recently than her and she’s had more recent partners. PLS SHACKET MAN THERE IS BETTER FOR YOU
Alright, the guy with the slicked back hair is so gross. EWAH!!!!! the " that's not gonna happen" comment avout meeting his mom was so unnecessary
Grease guy is the worst omfg he reminds me of my ex he did the same shit but he was ACTUALLY my botfriend. Also for some reason it's always guys who look like THAT that pull so many women?? HOW???
It’s the confidence I think 😭 They have no shame so they’re able to pursue women that are way out of their league with no fear of rejection. I dated a balding grease ball once too and him preying on my insecurities & his over the top confidence made me feel so stuck. The manipulation tactics were crazyyyyy
@@BrianaMcMacNCheese4Life omg girl 😭 so glad you’re free now!
@@Leviachan- I’m glad you’re free too! We’re survivors!!! 😭🫶
Cause they look for the vulnerable ones
The Bailey couple.....theyre terrified of being hurt. Theyre both hurting themselves trying not to get hurt. Owie
Listen, as a person in an open relationship, slick back hair dude is not the vibe. A month ago I drove 3 hours to go to a concert with my girlfriends other partner bc we both like that band (our girlfriend knew but wassnt avalible to come), and we all have the upmost love and respect for each other and COMMUNICATE . fuck that dude
Honestly as someone with extreme jealousy issues, I do not understand how you can possibly be okay with a relationship like that and call your girlfriend "our girlfriend" lol
@@Fartluver7 i get you honestly. i was in a relationship with someone who was poly once, but it ended pretty quickly when i realized i couldn't be with them knowing i wasn't the only person they were interested in. but that's just us!!! other people feel and process things differently, just because we don't get it doesn't mean it doesn't make sense at all :)
@@boyrottingyeah, I’m with you. It’s like when some people can have one night stands and enjoy them. It’s not for me. I need more intimacy or it’s like I’m forcing myself to have sex I’m not enjoying. But, I know for a fact other people really enjoy the random hook up when they are single.
@laurynholling2309 me n my bf opened our relationship once, but whenever i tried any sort of intimacy with someone else, i got so disgusted abt it not being him that i wanted to vomit. props to people who can handle it tbh
@@Fartluver7 Thats totally valid and understandable, but thats just personally not a problem for me. Totally get where you are coming from tho and hope you are never in a situation where you would be uncomfortable and not okay with a relationship of yours in that way.
the only one i feel bad for is the spider web girl. cause he clearly doesnt respect nor care about her whatsoever. doesnt even bother to communicate with her on important things.
I am not one for like making fun of peoples appearance but his forehead looks so greasy like he stuck his head in a fryer or something
I really really respect the single mother not wanting men in and out of her kids life. My mom has dated 5 guys and a girl since she and my dad broke up, and I always got so attached to her partners, since my dad kinda sucks. Anyways, thanks to that woman for protecting her child.
7:24 I kind of agree with the guy for choosing the shot because ranking your lovers based on how good they are at that sort of stuff feels so demeaning in my opinion. It gives me the same vibe as someone saying their partner is a 10, while their ex is a 7. Sure, it’s nice to the partner, but it feels icky to rate people in that way, in my opinion at least.
🎀🎀🎀Breast Cancer survivor here! I found my own lump, I’d never even had a mammogram before. Amazing to hear you reminding people! ❤❤❤
SHOUTOUT YOUNG SINGLE MOTHERS 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
Every day I wake up feeling blessed that I am in a real relationship and not out in the dating pool with the hookup culture and situationship climate because I would rather scoop my eyeballs out than be in that limbo hell
This video has got Casual by Chappelle Roan playing endlessly in my head
i think it's spelled Chappell (not aggresive btw)👍
TWO WEEKS AND YOUR MOM INVITES ME TO HER HOUSE IN LONG BEACH IS IT CASUAL NOW?!
@@erinbird1228 I KNOW WHAT YOU TELL YOUR FRIENDS “ITS CASUAL” IS IT CASUAL NOW?
As someone who had a total of 10 breast lumps by 23, all of which I found, I recommend doing the self exam both standing and lying down. Things shift around, so feeling both ways can help determine if it’s normal breast tissue or a lump. This is especially true if you have naturally cystic breasts. The more you know! 🌠
Thank you
I’ve only been in situationships. The guys were straight up with me from the start, saying they weren’t looking for anything more, but yaknow sometimes when they’re really sweet and like make sure you feel loved and taken care of it sort of feels like maybe they’re being genuine and actually like you 🙃
They are clever enough to know if they don't you would be gone sooner & see it for. the BS situationship are. They are bread crumbing.
I have never once heard of a situationship referred to in such a way. I've always heard people use a situationship to describe something that is on-again off-again, or just not quite "serious" enough to be a "real relationship." I'm learning so much today 😂
1:10 as a fellow Cooper, I can confirm that whenever I say my name is Cooper, everyone is like "my neighbors, best friends, uncle, has a dog named Cooper" or "do you go by 'Coop' most of the time by because that's my pillow brand, oh my god"
as a fellow bailey cooper i can also confirm
situationships are the worst. If you believe in love and feel for someone deeply you'll find yourself so drained and sad when it's over
2:29 Its curly hair its just weighed down cause either she put too much hair product in, buildup or just damaged maybe even hormonal since my hair does that sometimes
I was in a situationship, but mine consistently told me he wanted to 'build a relationship' with me and told me he loved me. But then, would switch back up on me and say we're nothing a few days later. Back and forth back and forth. I got relationship whiplash. By the end of it, apparently we never dated.
oh yeah and he was sleeping with other women the whole time
That's fully intentional. The push/pull is the whole game. Pull you in enough to keep you around, but push you away enough to maintain all of the power in the relationship.
If anyone ever plays hot and cold with you like that, they are never going to change. They want to keep you down, they will never want equality in the relationship. Run fast, run far, and find someone who won't play games with you and mess with your mind.
he was manipulating you
@@elyssa.cranfordOr at least trying to. Sometimes they devalue you just just so that he has the option of being with someone else even though nobody else wants him lol
@@ndawn90 I did! I ran far far away after I found out he was messing with other women. Aint no way you're going to embarrass me like that. Disgusting!!
Moth Bailey 100% is the jealous one. You know if denim shacket went off and found himself someone else she would suddenly care so much more about him. She’s lying to herself about him being the jealous one
And she was so offended when he said they couldn’t be friends if she started dating someone else like she totally just wants his attention full stop
She feels entitled to him, ofc she would be jealous. She seems like a narc
its really sweet seeing parents support their kids unconditionally
getting war flashbacks from my 3 year long situationship that kept leading me on by saying he wanted me but he "just wasn't ready yet"
in an alternate timeline, in another universe, cooper is a high school history teacher
OMG YES
definitley
❤❤Yes
Funniest part of this for me was Cooper's reaction to kissing someone he isn't in love with being my reaction to the concept of romantic love. (This is genuine btw cus tone is weird on UA-cam)
Yeah this stuff is so much funny if you’re aro/ace
PSA ON SELF BREAST EXAMS:
If you’re on your period and you feel a lump, wait a week and feel if it’s still there. Hormones can cause weird things to happen 🤷♀️
Also if your breastfeeding theres no way to tell the difference between a clogged duct and a tumor unless it’s HUGE
Not a doctor, just someone who has done extensive research cause of anxiety 😂
To add - if you feel a lump and you're on your period, I would rather you come in and get it checked out regardless. Breast scans are pretty quick and noninvasive, and if you're not trained in examining the breast you might not be able to check if it's still there or not.
Any lumps or bumps, regardless of what you think they might be, just get them checked out.
Source: doctor
this video helped me realize that my "ex-boyfriend" is actually my "ex-situationship" considering I loved him so much and he couldn't have cared less
Every time Cooper says Bailey all I can think of is ✨Champ Bailey✨
This was really validating, as I've been with an idiot like slicked back hair guy in the past. Years SMH. The fact you wanna deck him is really healing 🥰 lmao
i hate these cut videos, so i’m glad Cooper can help me get through these while experiencing all the feelings i’m experiencing in real time
Don't be fwb's with a person u want to be more with. Theyre taking advantage of u. I know u dont want to lose them. But ur hurting urself. And they are hurting u. And they don't feel bad about. Even tho ur hurting urself as well. It's because u like them. People hurt themselves. But u shouldnt let people hurt u. They don't care.
Yes this.
They're using you to stroke their ego. They're using you to bolster their self image. Love yourself enough to know you deserve more
Well my fwb and I are now happily married for almost 10 years with 2 kids (they came 5 years into the marriage). 😅
my last situationship was with a frat guy ☠️ we were going on dates and hanging out for two months when he asked me to go to his frat formal event with him. he said he’d cover the ticket, I just needed to wear a formal dress. long story short, he ended up ditching me most of the evening while I was drunk and didn’t know anyone else there. on the drive back he told me he “just wasn’t interested” in me anymore 💀
i was in a 10 month situationship i can tell everyone it was a waste of time , those people are never gonna date you, they think it’s convenient for them as they can do whatever they want and sleep with whoever they want and definitely not ready for anything serious. now i’m in a loving relationship with a guy that wanted to experience everything with me and fully commit right from the start. please for anyone in a situationship have respect for yourself and remember that you deserve better
OMG IM IN ONE OF THESE! 😊😊 (im not the toxic one)
Nice demni Jacket Guy! 😨 (if I'm right)
I wasssss, but then I confessed and now he is my baby
@@PeaNutttyyyOne of the lucky few😂
Girl, please get out of it if the other person is toxic or don't wanna date you 😭
@@PeaNutttyyy lucky mines a whore but i love him
i was praying for a lobotomy but this is cool too, thanks cooper
"LET ME OUT MR. COOPER!!" I say with the voices in my head in unison
Green!
Single mother here lol. With a bf of seven years now who’s just now meeting my kid 😂😂
Good job. ❤ I waited 3 years before my now husband met my first born . My child has never known another man to be involved in my life.
My mom waiting to introduce us to our now-stepdad was the BEST thing she could’ve done for us. You’re a great mom. As a mother myself as well, our children’s safety comes first always! I had friends whose mothers kept a revolving door of strange men and/or father figures who would leave after a year or two. So confusing and sometimes traumatic for a little kid.
Good, my friend introduces all her boyfriends to her son and one of them potentially molested him.
Idk about testicles, but if you’re doing a self breast exam, a lump that is hard and immovable is what you’re looking for. It will feel like a pebble covered in a grape skin
I'm a guy but I had a hard mass one time and had to get a mammogram. They had to just pinch whatever skin they could get into the machine 😆 ended up being an endocrine issue from medication.
Situationships SUCKKKK
YEAAAAHHHH
I'm newly single...and I'm thinking "Is this my fate? Is this all that's out there??" 😮😢
It's called FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS. 😂
@@brunoqnzbk7891 benefitting whom? Not me 😆
Those type of videos frustrate me in the best way possible I swear.
i know that sophia lives in toronto, but hearing cooper doing a toronto mans accent was a JUMP SCARE
The way you can just _look_ at each couple and which one is in love.
last situationship i was in was a couple years ago n it lasted 4?5? months. we agreed to being exclusive n then he went and put his weenie in someone else n i forgave him bc he kept saying he only wanted a situationship bc the term “dating” was too much for him. then he js “lost feelings for me” also think he gave me an sti. also he had a car but i drove him around everywhere and paid for almost all our dates. i haven’t been in any type of relationship since.
😢😢 This is terrible. I hope you find healing and strength through this experience. ❤
Cooper doing a cancer prevention check was not on my bingo card for this video
How dare youtube hide this from me for a whole 18 minutes
Like seriously, where was it?
@@Codicia_2I ate it
I'm all for people doing what they want WITHOUT harming anyone involved.
But yeah, personally, I've never been able to handle situationship intimacy. Thats just a set up for me to get attached and bawl my eyes out LOL
when i was 17 i did a self exam and found a breast lump definitely check yourselves everyone!
sorry if this is weird but its always been confusing to me is it a lump inside or does it rise outside the skin??😭😭
@@doveyoveyInside. I found one when I was 19. Got it checked out and it was luckily not milignant. Got it removed and there's no scarring either (they can remove lumps through the nipple so it's not noticeable at all).
@@DM-nw5lu thank uu for ur response !!
@@doveyovey yes what DM-nw5lu said! that’s why you have to do the physical palpation; mine was deeply set into the breast tissue, scared the hell out of me🥲
@@DM-nw5lu i’m glad it wasn’t malignant!
I literally threw my phone when moth Bailee said ‘probably not’ THE EMBARRASSMENT I CAN NOT
4:49 moment of silence for me. Ty for the shout out. (He has never met his son, the option was there)
as an alternative person with red hair, tattoos and piercings pls believe not all of us play with peoples feelings like moth girl 😭😭
Yep I was gunna comment "as a fellow redhead, we don't claim her" 😅
I have moth tattoos and im very much a hopeless romantic w my man 😂 pls she is not representative of ussss
ive been waiting SO patiently for love island game next part so def glad to hear you’re still planning on continuing that series
Where I live most people use “situationship” to mean that transition phase between not in a relationship and in a relationship but words meanings can change based on the context 🤷🏻♂️
That’s what I use it for and I told someone I was kinda in one and they asked me if I was the only one who caught feelings, I was so confused
As a Misophoniac myself, I love how open you are about your misophonia & how you help spread awareness about important stuff.
I don't mean it in a rude way, but maybe check Misokinesia as well, it's the same as Misophonia but with visual triggers. I've it and I had to hide your face for the few minutes you were chewing. Just trying to spread awareness myself over the years so as little as one person reading this is progress.
Much love and appreciation tho, love this new chaotic channel so much! ❤
As a queer person in a very committed long term relationship, I AM SAT bro this gonna be interesting
I laughed way too fucking hard at Coop aggressively going "You're BALDING!"
if you’re “stuck” in a situationship and you like the person but the person has made it clear that they don’t want anything more with you, it is now your time to either leave or keep quiet and keep fucking em. once someone has communicated something, a boundary that they don’t want anything serious, it is not their fault if you stick around and wait for them (speaking from experience). if someone OPENLY tells you they don’t want you romantically, it is not LEADING YOU ON. you just won’t leave em alone
having to change yourself to get them to like you or see you in a different light is manipulative LMAOOO like guys pls. being alone or with someone who loves you is so much better i promise
right? like i totally understand it if the person is being manipulative or legit leading them on or switching up what they want or something like that, but just staying w someone who’s made it very clear they don’t want anything more, in the hopes that they change their mind, is weird asf and i feel like you can’t rlly complain then. it’s kinda like guys (or girls ig) that complain about being in the “friend zone”.
it also rubs me the wrong way to call that trauma, if they were clear they don’t want a relationship and aren’t manipulative or abusive or anything otherwise traumatizing and it’s just the situationships itself that’s “traumatizing”, rather than the person or actions. it just feels weird to call it traumatic when the only thing that happened was that you wanted more than the other person and stuck around in case they changed their mind and they didn’t. that’s not trauma, that’s just middle school crushes.
Cooper I love these. And I love you reacting to these. So glad you continue to do these even if it’s on your second channel. Gotta be honest I watch this second one more than your primary channel now.
Spiderweb lady:
RUN!!! RUN FAST, RUN FAR! Your not-boyfriend is a sleazy, shallow, manipulative walking red flag and you deserve better!
Glad I’ve never been in a situationship they look like secondhand embarrassment in a nutshell 😭
dude chill down that IS curly hair.. curly hair isn't exclusive to black people js.. and there's many different kinds of curls.. nothing remotedly r4cist about it
I just commented this same thing. I have curls like that and if someone told me I had wavy hair 😭😭😭😭😭
Where
@@Nana-jy8pcwhere 😊
I think he was joking lol
Dude chill it was a joke
when cooper uploads, i know the day is great.
Growing up my grandfather never told my Dad he loved him and my Dad has made a concerted effort to tell me and my brother every single day that he loves us - even after I've moved out.
"My dad and I say 'I love you' to each other... Not trying to flex"
Nefarious work, sire 😼😼
"COOPER!!" we all scream in unison.
COOPER!!!!!!!!
COOPER!!!!!!!!!!!!11
@@Melanieisastar "DROP ANOTHER VIDEO, AND MY LIFE IS YOURS!‼🗣🔥🔥"/j
@@ALI3N.P4WZZlolzzzz ♥️♥️♥️
COOPERRRRRR
Why cant all of the non toxic people in these situationships go find all of the other non toxic people stuck in situationships and get together 😭
NOOOOO POOR SHACKET ANDRE he deserves sooo much better
The only Cooper vid I don’t think I can sit through. Too painful, especially when you’ve lived it recently 😑
As someone who was in a situationship for a long time that turned into him being my boyfriend this is so entertaining to watch. Y'all sometimes it's worth the wait but if you KNOW you want to be committed and the other person doesn't then don't wait around for them to change their mind.