Louise's BIG question... is it Dirty John or Dirty Ryan?!

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  • Опубліковано 2 гру 2024

КОМЕНТАРІ • 22

  • @katharinac8854
    @katharinac8854 Місяць тому +9

    My new favourite podcast. So vulnerable and honest and actually such a beautiful account of a real life relationship xx Thankyou so much for sharing all that you did

  • @lilyjade4738
    @lilyjade4738 Місяць тому +7

    I love this episode! I love the transparency and how both of you explained your different sides. We forget how important it is to communicate our needs because we just want our partner to know us well enough to be able to read our mind. Thank you both for being open!
    Louise, I say this respectfully but if Ryan starts choking back tears, gently lay your hand on him, showing empathy and support. Laughing and asking “why are you crying” can immediately shut down what he’s feeling and potentially make him self-conscious. You want to create a safe space for each other to be vulnerable. ❤

  • @ruweidak3158
    @ruweidak3158 Місяць тому +6

    Ryan courageously self reflects and shares where he fell short in their 8 years together. He made changes that salvaged the relationship.
    How come Louise didn’t do the same?
    It even seemed that she thanked him for the first time on the podcast for sticking by her after he basically unintentionally prompted her. Just an observation. The dynamic doesn’t seem equal

  • @amandahudson3747
    @amandahudson3747 Місяць тому +6

    Such a gorgeous conversation! You two are doing wonderful things sharing these thoughts and experiences! Very powerful! I have been through some very heavy times and my husband stuck me, and vice versa and knowing you’ll get through it is so important ❤

  • @RebeccaThompson-g1i
    @RebeccaThompson-g1i Місяць тому +7

    Wonderful, powerful, soo helpful. Ryan, let it out! Let those tears come! There is no shame, it shows real courage! Im off to ask my husband what his love languages are! Thank you and keep going!

  • @mareebrissenden99
    @mareebrissenden99 Місяць тому +3

    Love this, Ryan was really opening up and being vulnerable which is such a beautiful thing to see, I cried as it felt very authentic to me xxx

  • @aimeeandrewartha8009
    @aimeeandrewartha8009 Місяць тому +5

    Thankyou for being so incredibly authentic on this pod ❤️

  • @LauraJoseph3
    @LauraJoseph3 Місяць тому +2

    Oh you two! Honestly, every episode I cry!! But what you have both been through, the way you are openly talking about it and helping people remember that the basis of a relationship is communication and loyalty and love!
    You both will be together, forever! You are both amazing and have overcome more than most will in their lives!
    May you both be surrounded by happiness and love for rest of your lives xxx

  • @andreakelly8581
    @andreakelly8581 Місяць тому +10

    I think this guy has done amazing go easy on him please 😢

  • @daniellehornby9063
    @daniellehornby9063 Місяць тому +3

    Longer episodes please!! You guys are amazing ❤

  • @natalie_boyd
    @natalie_boyd Місяць тому

    I could listen to Ryan talk all day. He’s so thoughtful and says things with such intent. He’s a gem. And Louise. Everything you’ve been through you’re honestly so heroic.
    Lots of love to you and your family x

  • @la6247
    @la6247 29 днів тому +1

    I love this so much and it’s so different watching compared to listening - better watching. I do wonder why Louise said “why are you crying” after talking about the need for men/ boys to cry :)

  • @bethanjanes5552
    @bethanjanes5552 Місяць тому +2

    Sometimes so much goes unsaid - day to day. Communicating is so important and to do it effectively takes a fair bit of learning.
    This podcast is important, wonderful and cathartic. Ty guys x

  • @Intentionally_jodie
    @Intentionally_jodie Місяць тому

    I had such a different idea of what both of you were and our like and honestly these pods are eye opening in a beautiful way especially getting to see Ryan and hear him being himself

  • @charleyjaiuk
    @charleyjaiuk Місяць тому +1

    Really enjoying the conversations. I'm loving the food for thought, it's great!

  • @chelseahargrave7315
    @chelseahargrave7315 Місяць тому +1

    Yesss! Finally on UA-cam

  • @dorotasoronna77
    @dorotasoronna77 Місяць тому

    What I LOVE about this podcast is to listen to and understand Ryan!!! Such an interesting person and deep thinker! Thank you ❤

  • @chelseysmithmillaaaaar
    @chelseysmithmillaaaaar Місяць тому

    Oh my gosh the chain of moms who've come before you is so real. Its a beautiful thing to pay forward ❤

  • @kimgould4980
    @kimgould4980 Місяць тому

    I know Louise has been through so much but so has Ryan and nothing has been said about his support. Sometimes situations can be harder for the person looking on ❤

  • @jge2024
    @jge2024 Місяць тому +2

    Why no engagement ring? Just curious! 😊