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I see a lot of players on the internet telling the young men how to be a player, but no one is showing the beauty of a real marriage. I appreciate these kind of video's a lot.👩❤️👨
Also, let me remind you. You said on your comment that Jacob pursued Rachel. The woman that was ALWAYS meant for Jacob was always Leah. The mother descendant of the Messiah. Leah approached Jacob. That’s how he ended up with Reuben, Simon, Judah and etc.. Also Tamar disguise herself as a prostitute to Judah to accomplish the Levite law. Judah didn’t want Tamar. He kept giving her to his sons. Tamar pursued Judah. Now is different we live in society that women want to be independent and see men as sexual predators. That’s why many men decided not to approach and pursue women.
I was in a 9 year relationship and 5 of them I was married. We did not put God in the center of our relationship. After we divorced I wanted to blame God, however He showed me His Love and allowed me back into His arms. I went through a roller coaster of emotions and making the wrong decisions. Finally, after falling down so many times. I stood up and called to JESUS to save me. To this day I'm still single yet very joyful by obeying GOD ❤
Early in my walk with God until now as a man I kept pursuing women hoping to find the one. It caused great stress and insanity. I have since learned to wait upon the Lord and now I'm no longer concerned with when I will meet the right partner (if it's even in the Lord's better plan that I'm even to get married in the first place). There's more important matters at hand such as studying scripture.
It is not good for man to be alone, but all good things comes to them who wait, just like Jackie husband said, God already knows your needs and in his perfect timing he will bring you a gift for a spouse, but we must patiently wait and keep focus in fulfilling God’s will for each of us, we don’t need another person to be fulfilled case in point, Elijah John the Baptist and Paul the apostle as example, stay positive according to God’s will what’s to happen will definitely happen
@@jackieVanTine_so you say he pursued YOU,ALREADY I SAW RED FLAGS,(I am waiting for the man and he was waiting for the women, you also have to pursue back finally, I don't like tested, I will give u enough drama😅😂) ok so both have been to casual , ok like slaves of God, WHO PUT COSTLY PURFUME ON JESUS FEET & LATER AFTER DEATH WAS THE FIRST TO HEAR HIM, SO YOU HAVE TO PUT TOTAL LIFE TO SOCIETY SINCE YOU WERE CASUAL IN UR PAST, ELSE YOU LIERS ARE STILL SAME INSIDE, JUST HYPOCRITES UNDER INFATUATION FOR A HONEYMOON PERIOD, also church pursued god and god pursued Israel, keep that clear , BUT SINCE ISRAEL WAS A HARLOT IN PAST, SHE SLAVED HER WHOLE LIFE TO HIS SERVICE , PERIOD, you want explanation come to wapp, don't waste my time both-00919995574558 😅😂
Thank you for this video. I'm a 31 year old single female virgin. I have never had a relationship before in my life, so this was interesting for me to hear about how dating and relationships work when you're a Christian. I only became a believer at around february this year, so I still have a lot to learn. Thank you for taking the time and energy to make these video's about dating and how it's viewed from a woman's and man's perspective.😊 I'm really happy that I became a follower of Christ, because now I know that I don't have to be ashamed of still being a virgin at my age haha. I will patiently wait for the Lord to lead me to the right person to share the rest of my life with.😊 God Bless the ministry of you guys!🙏 I'm supporting you and sending you greetings from the Netherlands! 😄🙏
@jamiecurran3544 That's a good thing too! 👍 When you come to Christ and walk in the Spirit, the fleshy body doesn't matter anymore. It will perish at some point anyway. The inner man will be renewed every day, so that is what we should be focusing on. It truly is a blessing to have the Lord Jezus in our lives.❤️🙏
Without the Lord Jesus we are nothing family. Love y’all and there’s nothing wrong with being a virgin idc what anybody says. Consider it a blessing we are being saved from bondage every day on this path of following Christ
Wow a virgin at 31? Where would I be able find a woman such as yourself? 😅 most girls I know are already sleeping around and high body counts at 18 years old. Its hard to find a decent woman as a man with values, and more so a woman that’s still a virgin. Kudos to you
I wish I stayed kept and protected in the Lord. I am happy for you and I wish and pray that you wait in the Lord and for the Lord. I'm so happy that there are young ladies who still choose to keep themselves. It's good the way you are it's the way God want it to be. I totally regret that by the time I connect with the person God has as my husband, that I have prostituted myself physically, spirituality, emotionally everything...there is a lot I regret and I'm repenting going through my actions. It's so good to obey the Lord sister.
Great words of wisdom. I’m approaching 40 years of marriage to a man I believe God placed in my path. Bumpy roads, arguments, but pure love and devotion for us. ♥️🕊️
You guys have encouraged me to wait and trust God, and Jackie you surely have inspired me, as a 19-year-old girl, to first fall in love with God and just trust Him in the process
This is one of those "oooh" kinda videos 😃🙏🏼. Where you finally get why God wants you to pursue him first instead of man or woman. I think women can pursue in terms of showing interest but the guy has also do the same and asking her out and courting her like a gentleman. It can't work if it's not a balance of the attraction. I loved hearing your husband thoughts on who he was before he met you. I see a big future and ministry with you two. Keep up the great work and God bless you 💫
Thank you both for this video. I recently started serving in my church again after being pretty absent for almost 1 year after my father passed away. I came back with the mindset of “I’m going to faithfully serve the Lord here, sacrifice my time to serve when I’m needed, focus on loving God & others, and growing stronger in my relationship with Christ and becoming a better, more godly man. I do want to get married eventually and I’ve honestly been feeling very lonely lately(not alone, but lonely). And the devil has been trying to use that to distract me, this video was a MUCH NEEDED encourage and answered prayer of peace from the Lord! So again I just wanna say thank you to the both of you, and wish you guys a long and happy marriage! 🙏🏾✝️🤍
I just came across this video after praying to God about my journey & wholeheartedly trusting him to bring me THE ONE. I hope and pray everything falls into place like it did with y’all’s story. Thank you for posting this kind of content, it definitely gave me peace about my situation. 💜🙏
All these are great points. I do have mixed feelings but that’s just because of where I am with my other half. It’s funny, my fiancé pursued me in the beginning, and we were so blessed to not face many obstacles until I got to where I was more confident and mentally healthy and could actually pursue her. I told her many times, “I can’t be what God says a provider and a man is right now, so I understand if you wish to leave.” Newsflash: she refused to leave, and one time she even told me “Then I’ll provide for you, until you can flip the script.” And I was dumbfounded. But she stuck to that promise. And a month and a half into our relationship, God had built me up and gave me the tools I needed, and now it’s not just me providing for her or me pursuing her, it’s both of us doing it together for one another. And I will love that woman until that day my flesh passes. I just last week, asked her to be my wife💍. Obviously she said yes, and we’re looking forward to a beautiful and glorious Christ-centered marriage and life together! 🙏❤️✝️ #thankyouJesus
My wife asked me out and we were married and had a beautiful baby girl. We were both baptized and saved together. Sadly, she passed 13 years ago from a childhood sickness.
Great video guys!! Good to see your husband on one of your videos! I agree 100% with this!! It’s always bad when the role is flipped. I can attest as well
You guys are so cute 😊 Thank you for sharing from your heart and experience! Moreso thank you for loving Jesus and loving each other as an example for this generation!
As a 60+ Christian American male I think you need to define "pursue" and "indicating if a woman is interested" in a man and making a subtle hint about it.
This is great. Thank you for the sound advice. I particularly liked what the brother said concerning God knowing your likes and not having to work a trick. God knows what we need. Great video both of you.
It would be great if you can make weekly sermons. Maybe every Sunday. Because I haven't found a church that i like here in Seattle. There are a lot of woke people and fakes here. You seem like a genuine person and a true Christian so I'd love to hear a weekly bible sermon and teaching from you and your husband.
I pray that the Lord leads you to a bible base Holy Spirit seal church, Paul said, don’t do like others do, who have stop attending church, so stay focus and ceased not in praying for a spiritual home where God can display his gifts upon you, don’t allow yourself to get entrap with internet ministries that isn’t Gods will for anyone, so keep the faith and keep being guided by God’s Holy Spirit 👋😊🙏
Thank you so much for this video god bless you too and your family and your friends and i hope you too are having a wonderful fantastic awesome amazing beautiful lovely bless safe day thank you keep god first I love you both enjoy the rest of your day you too 🙏📖😊🥰❤🌹👑
Amen!! God fit the 2 of you perfectly together at just the right time!! May He continue to bless you both together as you continue to pursue Jesus together and serve Him together!! Lord Jesus make their marriage strong on Your foundation and what You have joined together- let NO ONE come between!!! In Your Mighty Name Lord Jesus, Amen!!!
I have pursued in the past and done all these things you mention. Each time it has only got me burned, society has told me that doing these things is being a simp. So I stopped pursuing
Keep coming to the Lord wholeheartedly and ask Him to please guide you and help you and help you have peace and calm in waiting and trusting in His timing. He knows what is best for each of His children at the right time. He knows us more than we will ever know ourselves. I am waiting on the Lord for anything that He wants from me but the last couple of years He has helped me to feel and know that I truly am loved by Him and that there is no one that will nor can love me more than He loves me. He loves us more than anyone else can. I only want God and my relationship with Him I want Him to be first and who I love first and most of all wholeheartedly. He is who can fill and satisfy our heart soul and life. And I want Him to be who is the greatest and true love of my life as God my God my Lord and Savior, my Father my friend and as my all. Before hand I eventually knew I didn't need anyone but now I really know I don't but only truly need Him. The only one who we have all been truly longing for all along is God Himself. If He has someone for me someday at the right time for both of us and in the right timing of our walk with the Lord and we both love God and truly put Him first in our heart our life and soul and decisions and it is Him who we are both wholeheartedly submitted to and love Him first foremost and most of all with "all of our heart, mind and soul." He wants all to come wholeheartedly to Him and be saved and not be seperated and distanced from Him because of sin and the posture and positioning of our hearts that is away from Him. He knows who will believe and believe in what He did on the cross for all who will come to Him wholeheartedly and repent and ask Him for forgiveness and come to Him wholeheartedly and ask Him to please be their Lord and Savior and wholeheartedly will be saved by Him and reconciled back to Him through Christ ("As the Word was with God and is God from before everything including the heavens were created" He is "The Way, The Truth and The Life, no one comes to the Father if not through Him first") (What divided the entrances and the veil that covered the entrance to the prescence of the most Holy of Holies was torn and those coverings were called "The Way, The Truth and The Life" and He knows who will not come to Him wholeheartedly and out of their heart posture and positioning will choose to not come to Him wholeheartedly and live dead in their sin and choose to die seperated from Him for all of eternity and He will not force anyone to be with Him nor to want to be with Him but even then knowing what they will choose He is still behind God to them and gives them the chance to repent turn from their ways and come to Him wholeheartedly. Although He does and did indeed know us and loved us since before He created everything, He wants us all to repent (have a change of mind and turn from our ways) and come to Him wholeheartedly and ask Him to please forgive us for our sins and ask Him to please be our Lord and Savior and to please come into our heart and life and be saved by Him. We then recieve His Holy Spirit who then dwells within us and we are born again in spirit and made a new creature in Him and are officially called His children. We are reconciled back to Him and are covered and clothed through His righteousness of when Christ paid the wages of all of our sins and iniquities and transgressions all of our sins and sinful thoughts (we were all born into sin and our hearts are scheeming wickedness) and but through His righteousness for all who come to Him wholeheartedly are redeemed and reconciled back to Him through His redeeming and everlasting loving arms for all of eternity. No one is good only He is for He is truly Holy and truly true love and just and it is He who knows all things. For all who come to Him wholeheartedly and are saved by Him we are only deemed as righteous because of what Christ did on the cross for us who come to Him wholeheartedly and when He sees us it is His righteousness that He sees that covers and clothes us. When we are saved and reconciled to Him and now in union with Him He sees us as who He says we are in Him and as who He knows we will be in Him. He who started something good a good work in us will bring it to completion and it is He who helps us change and works in our hearts and helps us be more and love more like Him and helps us love Him more too though we have to be willing. It is through His strength power and love, grace and mercy. We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us according to His will". He has "a good plan a plan to bring us a hope and a future and not of harm". He wants us to know Him know Him and He wants to know us He wants us to have a wholehearted relationship with Him and doesn't want us to be lukewarm with Him. He wants to grow and prosper us in our relationship with Him. Respectfully and all He is the only one who I will have in my heart as and call my King. He wants to heal, guide and truly lead us and wants us to truly trust entrust and rely in Him for He knows best. Our ways are not His ways our understanding is not His understanding His ways are higher than ours and He knows and wants what is best for us as He knows everything and He knows and sees the future of all things and knows and sees all the intentions in people's hearts. We cannot rely in our own understanding ideas, thoughts, desires, and decisions but must instead rely and lean on and trust in His understanding will and strength and not in our own strength, will and understanding. We don't have to walk and do life as if we are alone when we were never meant to and we don't have to when we can walk wholeheartedly with the Lord and He wants us to walk hand in hand with Him as well. He wants us even more than we often want Him as proof of all that He promised and made way in the Old and New Covenant (Old and New Testament) and provided and made the way as He promised on the cross for so that all who will come to Him wholeheartedly can be fully for good be reconciled back to Him as He said "It is Finished" and not be separated and dead in sin as they are alive on earth and then in the afterlife for all of eternity (which is the 2nd death) and can instead be with Him for all of eternity. Love does submit. He wants to be the one who we have as and put wholeheartedly first in our heart, thoughts, days, life and decisions. With or without a partner truly it is so special that He is your first and true love and that you do all of your life with Him loving and getting to know Him most of all. He is who has to be the one to lead each person throughout one's time of singleness and throughout one's relationship and marriage and has to be the head of each of them so that He will be the head of both of them in their marriage. It is Christ who truly has to be the head of the house and who leads both of them and who leads the man and guides the man the priest of the house to lead. For truly if both love, put first and are wholeheartedly surrendered and submitted their heart and life to God then it is God who leads their home and Christ who will be the head of both of them and of the man as they are submitted to each other and most importantly are submitted wholeheartedly first to God. The man being submitted to God and open heartedly loving Him and putting Him first He will be submitted to God's love and loving Him first and submits to His guidance will ways and good plan that He has for Him to lead and guide the house in relationship with Him. "And we know that all things work for good for those that love God, who are called according to His purpose." Romans 8:28. He can help us love all others with love that comes from Him. He is who we have been longing and yearning for all of our life and He and His heart and being reconciled back to Him by coming to Him wholeheartedly and being saved and redeemed by Him knowing Him and loving and being loved by Him is the best blessing we could ever ask for and have. And truly what a Father and friend and true true love we have with Him. He is the truest most realest one we can ever have in our life and love and be loved by. God bless you your fam and all who will read our comments.
@jackiestout_ so sorry Jackie. I always enjoy listening to your videos both before and after marriage. Congratulations 🎊 to the both of you.God bless 🙌 🙏.
Couldn’t have stated this more clearly. Waiting on the Lord (Psalms 46:10) is the success in the fulfillment of the ideal partner God has readied for us. He has our best interest in mind and will provide the BEST for us. It’s up to us to be ready and whole to recognize and embrace God’s blessing when it knocks at our heart’s door. God bless you both as you journey together in your walk with Christ! 😊🙏🕊
@@LanceandJackieVanTine phew, if u only knew how specific. I think I must watch this again. It's going on in my life. But I only want God timing, boundaries, dreams, protection, and His will& I pray it on Earth as in Heaven in Jesus' name thanks God amen
A huge round of applause guys. This is saved into my favourites. Many takeaways here. I was once pursued by a church-going lady. it didn't go well, I allowed myself to be knocked out of my masculinity. I didn't have to work hard for it, and of course, it fell apart and rightly so too. The deer hunter analogy totally resonates with me, and to not be dragging someone along with you, "who is not on spiritual solid food" ( my words ) Thank you, and the best of blessings to you both and the family that God is creating within you.
You both are a great example just being transparent and genuine and sharing how you both finally walk the walk together and maturity it gives good experience to us who are still in the maturing stage I thank you for the beautiful Direction and navigation and reminding us of the basics that Christ loved us first and the man needs to pursue the girl first and vice versa life will happen as he leads us and not to flesh out or worry about the timing of things as we both are transparent honest and faithful to our King he will be faithful to us thank you for sharing
Thanks for sharing your stories, you are most blessed to find each other, many people go through life like a ball in a pinball machine going from one hit to another but never reaching God's goal. I think it's that people look to find the right person not BE the right person.
Thank you guys so much. Thank you thank you thank you thank you! Jackie, I am healing from a traumatizing breakup with my counterfeit and becoming a better christian woman because of you.
I recently met a woman who lets me fully embody my masculinity. She lets me lead. And this is so healthy for me and her. I agree that a woman shouldn’t pursue men. I love this video Jackie! You and your husband are an inspiration to me. Keep going. Keep making this content it’s super helpful and effective. God Bless 🙏🏻
SISTER JACKIE!!! ❤ LOVED THIS VIDEO SO MUCH 😍😍😍 YOURS AND BROTHER LANCE'S STORY IS SO CAPTIVATING AND MOTIVATING THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING😁🙌🙌🙌 LOVE AND HUGS TO YOU BOTH🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 LOVE YOU SIS JACKIE MY INSPIRATION 🩷😊 THANK YOU JESUS 🙏🙏🙏❤️ THIS VIDEO IS TRULY A BLESSING FOR ME☺️
This is Mario I'm about to share a true story. It's about a mother and a child. As the mother was giving birth. Everything was fine until that moment. When I call everybody in the hospital running I knew something was wrong. They saved the baby. But now it was the hard truth to hear. The baby could not see. As the months went by the baby can no longer swallow normally. Now they had to make a whole in the stomach. Now the baby had to be fed through a tool in stomach. When's the baby was 6 years old. People thought it was a few months old baby. When I told the people how old the baby was. They were like a shot son even cry and I have to tell the truth. The complication of the birth did a lot of damage to the baby. The baby didn't grow..--- old God my heart is breaking within me. In the hospital how to 360 plus days my little boys spend 200 something days in the hospital And let me tell you something I pray I fast, I Proclaim it I decree it I did everything all these ridiculous movement of the faith movement tells you to do. In the hospital you have to feed the miracle the doctor said the Charlie's leaving number. Old God give me strength. As we saw the numbers go down when it got down to zero everybody saw this something happened in that room we don't know what it was but it feels like something covered that everybody saw this but we can explain it what we saw the nurse all this one of the doctors saw this. Headed that moment you should see the way the child was smiling it's like he had nothing he looked all around us and he smiled before my little boy left us. 😰 And to finish it no we lose the mother with cancer. I don't know why I wanted to give this story and please don't feel for me. The Favor and the Grace God is upon my life. So you want to know what pain. I been place in that position. And I have sec God why you have no idea how much many times during the night my tears just dropped into my eye. Whatever have a partner again in my life I don't know Now I'm going to show you why when I write to you I placed 💙 Ángel. For those who were thinking something else. That blue Hearts standings my service to my country remember last time I told your I come from a military family. I used to call my little boy Superman Angel. So when you see me put this in your page. Remember, it's all about my little Superman angel. And my service to my country the United States Navy. Anyway my prayers go out to both of you and anyone would reading it yet in the midst of all this you have no idea how my life was devastating aitor I will Donald Trump Dead. Many times I end up in the hospital because of the stress is affecting my heart. On God came when I least expected it I'm not telling you that I'm Healed completely you don't get here from this. Those memories are always there but I can tell you one thing it has made me the man that I am today. The man that God wants me to be Blessed you all fir listening-- 💙 Ángel
Amen , I pray God bless this family. God is just lovely, I am very encouraged today because I have been seeking the kingdom of God and many friends would tell me God is not going to send me wuth husband at home. Lol but I have been listening to the Lord and shall continue to ty I love you guys for the Lord, really showing Godly relationships. Ty @ atleast show interest. 🎉
Yes you are right GOD made in us attraction toward the other part female to male and male to female ,GOD said good ones will mary GOD one and you are a good one . and when it's come from GOD it's that is right. i saw also lance your books but i have not the occasion yet to read them , i will try to do in the nearby future . GOD protect you and protect everyone of us
Also listen to me on this always forgive each other ..when you need to there is one thing think about what I say. Forgivin people don't break up. And do not seperate but spend time in prayer list Satan temp you . 1st Corinthians 7...
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I see a lot of players on the internet telling the young men how to be a player, but no one is showing the beauty of a real marriage. I appreciate these kind of video's a lot.👩❤️👨
Thanks so much Boaz ! Pray you find your Ruth !
@@jackieVanTine_:) I will, when I'm heald
She is so open, honest and humble! Strong woman right there!
She is. I just love her.
Men pursuing women in the Bible:
Jacob pursued Rachel and worked for her for years…
Boaz pursued Ruth…
Abraham sent a servant to get a wife for Isaac.
🧐 Did Boaz pursue Ruth? I think 🤔 Ruth pursued Boaz.
That’s was a different time. Eve came to Adam. NOT Adam came to eve. You said it yourself. I thought we were all EQUAL. Right?
Also, let me remind you. You said on your comment that Jacob pursued Rachel. The woman that was ALWAYS meant for Jacob was always Leah. The mother descendant of the Messiah. Leah approached Jacob. That’s how he ended up with Reuben, Simon, Judah and etc.. Also Tamar disguise herself as a prostitute to Judah to accomplish the Levite law. Judah didn’t want Tamar. He kept giving her to his sons. Tamar pursued Judah. Now is different we live in society that women want to be independent and see men as sexual predators. That’s why many men decided not to approach and pursue women.
@BlVCK_ANGEL94 Adam spoke directly to the Father Himself asked for one, the Father planted Eve.
Didn't Ruth pursue Boaz?
You two are truly a match made in heaven! Your heartbeat for Jesus is the same! 🥰
Thank you Sarah! Yes, it is glory to God :) ❤❤❤
I was in a 9 year relationship and 5 of them I was married. We did not put God in the center of our relationship. After we divorced I wanted to blame God, however He showed me His Love and allowed me back into His arms. I went through a roller coaster of emotions and making the wrong decisions. Finally, after falling down so many times. I stood up and called to JESUS to save me. To this day I'm still single yet very joyful by obeying GOD ❤
Bring back your wife...
Early in my walk with God until now as a man I kept pursuing women hoping to find the one. It caused great stress and insanity. I have since learned to wait upon the Lord and now I'm no longer concerned with when I will meet the right partner (if it's even in the Lord's better plan that I'm even to get married in the first place). There's more important matters at hand such as studying scripture.
Amen !!! Yes focusing on the Lord is the most delightful thing :) the rest will come!
That's right
It is not good for man to be alone, but all good things comes to them who wait, just like Jackie husband said, God already knows your needs and in his perfect timing he will bring you a gift for a spouse, but we must patiently wait and keep focus in fulfilling God’s will for each of us, we don’t need another person to be fulfilled case in point, Elijah John the Baptist and Paul the apostle as example, stay positive according to God’s will what’s to happen will definitely happen
Love this!!!!
Praise the lord 🙏
Amen 🙏
@@jackieVanTine_so you say he pursued YOU,ALREADY I SAW RED FLAGS,(I am waiting for the man and he was waiting for the women, you also have to pursue back finally, I don't like tested, I will give u enough drama😅😂) ok so both have been to casual , ok like slaves of God, WHO PUT COSTLY PURFUME ON JESUS FEET & LATER AFTER DEATH WAS THE FIRST TO HEAR HIM, SO YOU HAVE TO PUT TOTAL LIFE TO SOCIETY SINCE YOU WERE CASUAL IN UR PAST, ELSE YOU LIERS ARE STILL SAME INSIDE, JUST HYPOCRITES UNDER INFATUATION FOR A HONEYMOON PERIOD, also church pursued god and god pursued Israel, keep that clear , BUT SINCE ISRAEL WAS A HARLOT IN PAST, SHE SLAVED HER WHOLE LIFE TO HIS SERVICE , PERIOD, you want explanation come to wapp, don't waste my time both-00919995574558 😅😂
@@jackieVanTine_I wonder how shy guy would get married since woman isn’t talking to him first
@@Ann-lv5dg
The man has to be brave and seek God and the woman.
Thank you for this video. I'm a 31 year old single female virgin. I have never had a relationship before in my life, so this was interesting for me to hear about how dating and relationships work when you're a Christian. I only became a believer at around february this year, so I still have a lot to learn. Thank you for taking the time and energy to make these video's about dating and how it's viewed from a woman's and man's perspective.😊 I'm really happy that I became a follower of Christ, because now I know that I don't have to be ashamed of still being a virgin at my age haha. I will patiently wait for the Lord to lead me to the right person to share the rest of my life with.😊 God Bless the ministry of you guys!🙏 I'm supporting you and sending you greetings from the Netherlands! 😄🙏
Sometimes I wish I was also still a virgin, I do however consider myself a born again virgin as I've been celibate for so long now!😂🙏
@jamiecurran3544 That's a good thing too! 👍 When you come to Christ and walk in the Spirit, the fleshy body doesn't matter anymore. It will perish at some point anyway. The inner man will be renewed every day, so that is what we should be focusing on. It truly is a blessing to have the Lord Jezus in our lives.❤️🙏
Without the Lord Jesus we are nothing family. Love y’all and there’s nothing wrong with being a virgin idc what anybody says. Consider it a blessing we are being saved from bondage every day on this path of following Christ
Wow a virgin at 31? Where would I be able find a woman such as yourself? 😅 most girls I know are already sleeping around and high body counts at 18 years old. Its hard to find a decent woman as a man with values, and more so a woman that’s still a virgin. Kudos to you
I wish I stayed kept and protected in the Lord. I am happy for you and I wish and pray that you wait in the Lord and for the Lord. I'm so happy that there are young ladies who still choose to keep themselves. It's good the way you are it's the way God want it to be. I totally regret that by the time I connect with the person God has as my husband, that I have prostituted myself physically, spirituality, emotionally everything...there is a lot I regret and I'm repenting going through my actions. It's so good to obey the Lord sister.
I love how you allow him to talk. So beautiful together. Very humble couple.
I love how he invited you to the group Bible study 💗💗 You want to be treated like a queen (princess) treat him like. King (prince)🎉
What a beautiful couple and how wonderful you found each other perfectly
That’s what happens when you wait on the Lord Jesus!
Great words of wisdom. I’m approaching 40 years of marriage to a man I believe God placed in my path. Bumpy roads, arguments, but pure love and devotion for us. ♥️🕊️
You guys have encouraged me to wait and trust God, and Jackie you surely have inspired me, as a 19-year-old girl, to first fall in love with God and just trust Him in the process
Hey sis! So glad I could encourage you. Learn from my mistakes!! That’s why I make these videos :)
She is so beautiful IO have been praying for a woman sometimes I lose faith but I just gotta keep waiting
This is one of those "oooh" kinda videos 😃🙏🏼. Where you finally get why God wants you to pursue him first instead of man or woman. I think women can pursue in terms of showing interest but the guy has also do the same and asking her out and courting her like a gentleman. It can't work if it's not a balance of the attraction. I loved hearing your husband thoughts on who he was before he met you. I see a big future and ministry with you two. Keep up the great work and God bless you 💫
Yes absolutely brother :) thank you!!!
Such a calming vibe from these 2. Thank you so much for this!
Glad you enjoyed it! :)
Thank you both for this video. I recently started serving in my church again after being pretty absent for almost 1 year after my father passed away. I came back with the mindset of “I’m going to faithfully serve the Lord here, sacrifice my time to serve when I’m needed, focus on loving God & others, and growing stronger in my relationship with Christ and becoming a better, more godly man. I do want to get married eventually and I’ve honestly been feeling very lonely lately(not alone, but lonely). And the devil has been trying to use that to distract me, this video was a MUCH NEEDED encourage and answered prayer of peace from the Lord! So again I just wanna say thank you to the both of you, and wish you guys a long and happy marriage! 🙏🏾✝️🤍
I pray the Lord bless you with the right woman at the RIGHT TIME! It is hard to wait… but the Lord always makes it worth the wait!!!!
I hope you write a book about relationships and a godly pursuing. God bless you both 🙏🙏🙏
One day we will for sure as we gain more experience!!! 🙏
I just came across this video after praying to God about my journey & wholeheartedly trusting him to bring me THE ONE. I hope and pray everything falls into place like it did with y’all’s story. Thank you for posting this kind of content, it definitely gave me peace about my situation. 💜🙏
All these are great points. I do have mixed feelings but that’s just because of where I am with my other half.
It’s funny, my fiancé pursued me in the beginning, and we were so blessed to not face many obstacles until I got to where I was more confident and mentally healthy and could actually pursue her. I told her many times, “I can’t be what God says a provider and a man is right now, so I understand if you wish to leave.” Newsflash: she refused to leave, and one time she even told me “Then I’ll provide for you, until you can flip the script.” And I was dumbfounded. But she stuck to that promise. And a month and a half into our relationship, God had built me up and gave me the tools I needed, and now it’s not just me providing for her or me pursuing her, it’s both of us doing it together for one another. And I will love that woman until that day my flesh passes. I just last week, asked her to be my wife💍. Obviously she said yes, and we’re looking forward to a beautiful and glorious Christ-centered marriage and life together! 🙏❤️✝️
#thankyouJesus
that's so beautiful. Congratulations ❤✝️
My wife asked me out and we were married and had a beautiful baby girl. We were both baptized and saved together. Sadly, she passed 13 years ago from a childhood sickness.
So sorry for your loss.
Big hug to you 🤍💜🫂
You know that speaks such volumes.
Lance and Jackie, Jackie and Lance... thank you for your vulnerability and sharing. You are healing and helping to heal so many. You have no idea
Thank God he put it on your hearts to make this video! ❤
Y’all are a very gorgeous couple. My goodness. Y’all are blessed. I’m am so happy for you both.
Great video guys!!
Good to see your husband on one of your videos!
I agree 100% with this!!
It’s always bad when the role is flipped. I can attest as well
Absolutely!!
So happy for you two. Doing it right
You guys are so cute 😊
Thank you for sharing from your heart and experience! Moreso thank you for loving Jesus and loving each other as an example for this generation!
As a 60+ Christian American male I think you need to define "pursue" and "indicating if a woman is interested" in a man and making a subtle hint about it.
Yes, that will be one of our upcoming videos!!!!
so blessed with this. Thank you
My man looks fresh btw 🔥. Good message for a lot of people!
What a wonderful example you both are for all even those who are widowed, like me. I wish you a long and happy married life!
Gotta pursue the date with food! Flowers, details,etc. Good advice!
Praise God.....great teaching!!!
Thank you so much, David!
Thank you - I appreciate your ministry to me/ us.
God bless you both!🙏
This is great. Thank you for the sound advice. I particularly liked what the brother said concerning God knowing your likes and not having to work a trick. God knows what we need. Great video both of you.
It would be great if you can make weekly sermons. Maybe every Sunday. Because I haven't found a church that i like here in Seattle. There are a lot of woke people and fakes here. You seem like a genuine person and a true Christian so I'd love to hear a weekly bible sermon and teaching from you and your husband.
Thanks for the suggestion!! We will definitely take it to heart and that is our plan :) blessings to you brother!
I pray that the Lord leads you to a bible base Holy Spirit seal church, Paul said, don’t do like others do, who have stop attending church, so stay focus and ceased not in praying for a spiritual home where God can display his gifts upon you, don’t allow yourself to get entrap with internet ministries that isn’t Gods will for anyone, so keep the faith and keep being guided by God’s Holy Spirit 👋😊🙏
Aw man you found an amazing husband. I someday wish to find a wife who is equally yolked as me. Here’s to hoping and praying
Loved this video!!!! ❤❤❤ Thank you Jackie for your guidance! ❤️ May Jesus's hand be on your marriage always 🌸
Agreed, only one Jackie, praise God for bringing you together. God blessed you. Together God's Blessings are Surrounding you.
Aww thank you! Amen!!
Thank you so much for this video god bless you too and your family and your friends and i hope you too are having a wonderful fantastic awesome amazing beautiful lovely bless safe day thank you keep god first I love you both enjoy the rest of your day you too 🙏📖😊🥰❤🌹👑
Blessings 🙌 ❤
Amen!! God fit the 2 of you perfectly together at just the right time!! May He continue to bless you both together as you continue to pursue Jesus together and serve Him together!! Lord Jesus make their marriage strong on Your foundation and what You have joined together- let NO ONE come between!!! In Your Mighty Name Lord Jesus, Amen!!!
You two are Amazing. Thanks for the wise words
I have pursued in the past and done all these things you mention. Each time it has only got me burned, society has told me that doing these things is being a simp. So I stopped pursuing
God bless you both
Keep coming to the Lord wholeheartedly and ask Him to please guide you and help you and help you have peace and calm in waiting and trusting in His timing. He knows what is best for each of His children at the right time. He knows us more than we will ever know ourselves. I am waiting on the Lord for anything that He wants from me but the last couple of years He has helped me to feel and know that I truly am loved by Him and that there is no one that will nor can love me more than He loves me. He loves us more than anyone else can. I only want God and my relationship with Him I want Him to be first and who I love first and most of all wholeheartedly. He is who can fill and satisfy our heart soul and life. And I want Him to be who is the greatest and true love of my life as God my God my Lord and Savior, my Father my friend and as my all. Before hand I eventually knew I didn't need anyone but now I really know I don't but only truly need Him. The only one who we have all been truly longing for all along is God Himself. If He has someone for me someday at the right time for both of us and in the right timing of our walk with the Lord and we both love God and truly put Him first in our heart our life and soul and decisions and it is Him who we are both wholeheartedly submitted to and love Him first foremost and most of all with "all of our heart, mind and soul." He wants all to come wholeheartedly to Him and be saved and not be seperated and distanced from Him because of sin and the posture and positioning of our hearts that is away from Him. He knows who will believe and believe in what He did on the cross for all who will come to Him wholeheartedly and repent and ask Him for forgiveness and come to Him wholeheartedly and ask Him to please be their Lord and Savior and wholeheartedly will be saved by Him and reconciled back to Him through Christ ("As the Word was with God and is God from before everything including the heavens were created" He is "The Way, The Truth and The Life, no one comes to the Father if not through Him first") (What divided the entrances and the veil that covered the entrance to the prescence of the most Holy of Holies was torn and those coverings were called "The Way, The Truth and The Life" and He knows who will not come to Him wholeheartedly and out of their heart posture and positioning will choose to not come to Him wholeheartedly and live dead in their sin and choose to die seperated from Him for all of eternity and He will not force anyone to be with Him nor to want to be with Him but even then knowing what they will choose He is still behind God to them and gives them the chance to repent turn from their ways and come to Him wholeheartedly. Although He does and did indeed know us and loved us since before He created everything, He wants us all to repent (have a change of mind and turn from our ways) and come to Him wholeheartedly and ask Him to please forgive us for our sins and ask Him to please be our Lord and Savior and to please come into our heart and life and be saved by Him. We then recieve His Holy Spirit who then dwells within us and we are born again in spirit and made a new creature in Him and are officially called His children. We are reconciled back to Him and are covered and clothed through His righteousness of when Christ paid the wages of all of our sins and iniquities and transgressions all of our sins and sinful thoughts (we were all born into sin and our hearts are scheeming wickedness) and but through His righteousness for all who come to Him wholeheartedly are redeemed and reconciled back to Him through His redeeming and everlasting loving arms for all of eternity. No one is good only He is for He is truly Holy and truly true love and just and it is He who knows all things. For all who come to Him wholeheartedly and are saved by Him we are only deemed as righteous because of what Christ did on the cross for us who come to Him wholeheartedly and when He sees us it is His righteousness that He sees that covers and clothes us. When we are saved and reconciled to Him and now in union with Him He sees us as who He says we are in Him and as who He knows we will be in Him. He who started something good a good work in us will bring it to completion and it is He who helps us change and works in our hearts and helps us be more and love more like Him and helps us love Him more too though we have to be willing. It is through His strength power and love, grace and mercy. We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us according to His will". He has "a good plan a plan to bring us a hope and a future and not of harm". He wants us to know Him know Him and He wants to know us He wants us to have a wholehearted relationship with Him and doesn't want us to be lukewarm with Him. He wants to grow and prosper us in our relationship with Him. Respectfully and all He is the only one who I will have in my heart as and call my King. He wants to heal, guide and truly lead us and wants us to truly trust entrust and rely in Him for He knows best. Our ways are not His ways our understanding is not His understanding His ways are higher than ours and He knows and wants what is best for us as He knows everything and He knows and sees the future of all things and knows and sees all the intentions in people's hearts. We cannot rely in our own understanding ideas, thoughts, desires, and decisions but must instead rely and lean on and trust in His understanding will and strength and not in our own strength, will and understanding. We don't have to walk and do life as if we are alone when we were never meant to and we don't have to when we can walk wholeheartedly with the Lord and He wants us to walk hand in hand with Him as well. He wants us even more than we often want Him as proof of all that He promised and made way in the Old and New Covenant (Old and New Testament) and provided and made the way as He promised on the cross for so that all who will come to Him wholeheartedly can be fully for good be reconciled back to Him as He said "It is Finished" and not be separated and dead in sin as they are alive on earth and then in the afterlife for all of eternity (which is the 2nd death) and can instead be with Him for all of eternity. Love does submit. He wants to be the one who we have as and put wholeheartedly first in our heart, thoughts, days, life and decisions. With or without a partner truly it is so special that He is your first and true love and that you do all of your life with Him loving and getting to know Him most of all. He is who has to be the one to lead each person throughout one's time of singleness and throughout one's relationship and marriage and has to be the head of each of them so that He will be the head of both of them in their marriage. It is Christ who truly has to be the head of the house and who leads both of them and who leads the man and guides the man the priest of the house to lead. For truly if both love, put first and are wholeheartedly surrendered and submitted their heart and life to God then it is God who leads their home and Christ who will be the head of both of them and of the man as they are submitted to each other and most importantly are submitted wholeheartedly first to God. The man being submitted to God and open heartedly loving Him and putting Him first He will be submitted to God's love and loving Him first and submits to His guidance will ways and good plan that He has for Him to lead and guide the house in relationship with Him. "And we know that all things work for good for those that love God, who are called according to His purpose." Romans 8:28.
He can help us love all others with love that comes from Him. He is who we have been longing and yearning for all of our life and He and His heart and being reconciled back to Him by coming to Him wholeheartedly and being saved and redeemed by Him knowing Him and loving and being loved by Him is the best blessing we could ever ask for and have. And truly what a Father and friend and true true love we have with Him. He is the truest most realest one we can ever have in our life and love and be loved by. God bless you your fam and all who will read our comments.
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Exactly. U chase women and try to build a meaningful relationship and they cheat. Let them pursue. I'm done
Excellent video, Jackie and Lance (edited). Thank you for sharing your thoughts on Godly relationships and marriage.
I believe his name is Lance, not Kyle...🤔👍
His names Lance hahah but thanks so much Paul!
@jackiestout_ so sorry Jackie. I always enjoy listening to your videos both before and after marriage. Congratulations 🎊 to the both of you.God bless 🙌 🙏.
@doulos737 Yes ,I made the correction (see edit).
@@paulpasquale2212 Fantastic, Paul!...👍👌🙂
Couldn’t have stated this more clearly. Waiting on the Lord (Psalms 46:10) is the success in the fulfillment of the ideal partner God has readied for us. He has our best interest in mind and will provide the BEST for us. It’s up to us to be ready and whole to recognize and embrace God’s blessing when it knocks at our heart’s door. God bless you both as you journey together in your walk with Christ! 😊🙏🕊
Its very Lovely seeing you both together, May God's Hand be on you Marriage, may a hedge of protection be around both of you, in Jesus Name
My bad I didn't know you was married. Thank yall 😊
Bless you both, On fire couples, are so powerful and effective for the kingdom of God. Cover each other every day.
Jackie's face reminds me of my own, and it's funny cuz I think we're both Colombian.
Amen in Jesus name. You guys did a good job and it's right on God Kairos and providential timing !
God's timing, Amen!
@@LanceandJackieVanTine phew, if u only knew how specific. I think I must watch this again. It's going on in my life. But I only want God timing, boundaries, dreams, protection, and His will& I pray it on Earth as in Heaven in Jesus' name thanks God amen
Amen ❤🎉I needed this thank you!
A huge round of applause guys. This is saved into my favourites. Many takeaways here. I was once pursued by a church-going lady. it didn't go well, I allowed myself to be knocked out of my masculinity. I didn't have to work hard for it, and of course, it fell apart and rightly so too. The deer hunter analogy totally resonates with me, and to not be dragging someone along with you, "who is not on spiritual solid food" ( my words ) Thank you, and the best of blessings to you both and the family that God is creating within you.
Thank You for being transparent. Very interesting message. Such a awesome couple ❤🙏💙
Thank you. God bless you guys.
You both are a great example just being transparent and genuine and sharing how you both finally walk the walk together and maturity it gives good experience to us who are still in the maturing stage I thank you for the beautiful Direction and navigation and reminding us of the basics that Christ loved us first and the man needs to pursue the girl first and vice versa life will happen as he leads us and not to flesh out or worry about the timing of things as we both are transparent honest and faithful to our King he will be faithful to us thank you for sharing
Thanks for sharing your stories, you are most blessed to find each other, many people go through life like a ball in a pinball machine going from one hit to another but never reaching God's goal. I think it's that people look to find the right person not BE the right person.
100% agree!!!
Thank you
This is so wholesome! Thank you for sharing it! ❤
So - so good! Thank you! I’ll continue to wait for the man Jesus sends to me! 🙏🏼♥️
You both melt my heart 🥹
This video gave me hope. Thank you :)
You are so right
Thank you for this video ❤
Great sharing you guys, a lot of insightful wisdom for singles. This should have 100K views!
Thank you I wish I would of known this earlier
Thank you guys so much. Thank you thank you thank you thank you! Jackie, I am healing from a traumatizing breakup with my counterfeit and becoming a better christian woman because of you.
I recently met a woman who lets me fully embody my masculinity. She lets me lead. And this is so healthy for me and her. I agree that a woman shouldn’t pursue men. I love this video Jackie! You and your husband are an inspiration to me. Keep going. Keep making this content it’s super helpful and effective. God Bless 🙏🏻
Amen!!
That’s awesome!!!!
@@patrickthomas850 thanks 🙏🏻 😊
Hey, I also have a UA-cam channel if you want to see more Christian videos
Women are acting so independent right now and if u approach them, they label you a creep. So how exactly do u want men to approach them?
Love this. Thank you guys!! ❤😊🎉😂
This was such a great video and help. Thank you guys. You both are awsome and so wise.
This popped up at such a divine moment 🥹
Both so beautiful 😊
SISTER JACKIE!!! ❤ LOVED THIS VIDEO SO MUCH 😍😍😍
YOURS AND BROTHER LANCE'S STORY IS SO CAPTIVATING AND MOTIVATING
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING😁🙌🙌🙌
LOVE AND HUGS TO YOU BOTH🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
LOVE YOU SIS JACKIE MY INSPIRATION 🩷😊
THANK YOU JESUS 🙏🙏🙏❤️
THIS VIDEO IS TRULY A BLESSING FOR ME☺️
Your caps lock is on.
Thank you my gorgeous sister :) we love and are praying for you!! 🤍😊
Purposely waiting! The cart before the horse! Love u both!
i saved this so i can watch it again and again as a reminder - really eye opening - thank you!!
Thank you so much for this video ❤.
JACKIE you have a great husband - I am glad GOD blessed you with this man
God bless you both
Very helpful and informative THANK YOU❤ you and lance are a powerful Man and woman of God ✝️💗✨and a great duo💯
You can bet ima mount dat thang Jackie
New to the channel. Stopping by to say God Bless you both, & no matter what keep doing what y'all are doing for the Kingdom of God.😊
This is Mario I'm about to share a true story. It's about a mother and a child. As the mother was giving birth. Everything was fine until that moment. When I call everybody in the hospital running I knew something was wrong. They saved the baby. But now it was the hard truth to hear. The baby could not see. As the months went by the baby can no longer swallow normally. Now they had to make a whole in the stomach. Now the baby had to be fed through a tool in stomach. When's the baby was 6 years old. People thought it was a few months old baby. When I told the people how old the baby was. They were like a shot son even cry and I have to tell the truth. The complication of the birth did a lot of damage to the baby. The baby didn't grow..--- old God my heart is breaking within me. In the hospital how to 360 plus days my little boys spend 200 something days in the hospital
And let me tell you something I pray I fast, I Proclaim it I decree it I did everything all these ridiculous movement of the faith movement tells you to do. In the hospital you have to feed the miracle the doctor said the Charlie's leaving number. Old God give me strength. As we saw the numbers go down when it got down to zero everybody saw this something happened in that room we don't know what it was but it feels like something covered that everybody saw this but we can explain it what we saw the nurse all this one of the doctors saw this.
Headed that moment you should see the way the child was smiling it's like he had nothing he looked all around us and he smiled before my little boy left us. 😰
And to finish it no we lose the mother with cancer. I don't know why I wanted to give this story and please don't feel for me. The Favor and the Grace God is upon my life. So you want to know what pain. I been place in that position. And I have sec God why you have no idea how much many times during the night my tears just dropped into my eye. Whatever have a partner again in my life I don't know
Now I'm going to show you why when I write to you I placed 💙 Ángel. For those who were thinking something else. That blue Hearts standings my service to my country remember last time I told your I come from a military family. I used to call my little boy Superman Angel. So when you see me put this in your page. Remember, it's all about my little Superman angel. And my service to my country the United States Navy. Anyway my prayers go out to both of you and anyone would reading it yet in the midst of all this you have no idea how my life was devastating aitor I will Donald Trump Dead. Many times I end up in the hospital because of the stress is affecting my heart. On God came when I least expected it I'm not telling you that I'm Healed completely you don't get here from this. Those memories are always there but I can tell you one thing it has made me the man that I am today. The man that God wants me to be Blessed you all fir listening-- 💙 Ángel
The pursue. First dating and consistency! Awesome!
Whats your husbands name? He is awesome!
Lance VanTine !
Of course you’re gonna say she’s the most gorgeous amongst all
Sister Jackie I love your lip color here, what lipstick are you using here🤗💕
I am using Nyx Matt lipstick! Thank you :)
Glory to God!
Amen it's not all about the woman
Amen , I pray God bless this family. God is just lovely, I am very encouraged today because I have been seeking the kingdom of God and many friends would tell me God is not going to send me wuth husband at home. Lol but I have been listening to the Lord and shall continue to ty
I love you guys for the Lord, really showing Godly relationships. Ty @ atleast show interest. 🎉
Hi, Jackie,admire your goal originated praise God
Yes you are right
GOD made in us attraction toward the other part female to male and male to female ,GOD said good ones will mary GOD one
and you are a good one . and when it's come from GOD it's that is right.
i saw also lance your books but i have not the occasion yet to read them , i will try to do in the nearby future .
GOD protect you
and protect everyone of us
Thanks so much for that comment, it encouraged Lance and I ! God Bless you!!! 🙏
her reactions when her husband is talking is sooo funny i love them! haha
You both are so lucky. ❤
This was extremely helpful and well presented! Keep it up! It makes a difference!
Also listen to me on this always forgive each other ..when you need to there is one thing think about what I say. Forgivin people don't break up. And do not seperate but spend time in prayer list Satan temp you . 1st Corinthians 7...
so so nice to see you guys together
Preach it girl!
Nice video 🌸🙏
Glad you liked it Clara!!
It’s okay to pursue but depends on how you do it