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Qualities to look for in a husband - 1: Discernment 2: Self control (including sexually) 3: Faithfulness and honesty 4: The ability to die to self and be a leader (a man of his word) 5: Patient and kind 6: Provider financially and emotionally (encouragement, correction and guidance) 7: Good Father to your children
You encourage me Jackie!!! i am 16 but because of you and the Holy Spirit i know to wait for my husband and not to idolize him. I've prayed to God again and again, "Don't allow me to even like any guy unless his is the one you want me to marry." so far, prayers answered. Thank you so much for what you do!!!!!
Jackie thank you for posting this. I am not consistently demonstrating the characteristics you mentioned to my wife but I want to change. Pray for me and my wife.
Lord God, let Reggie be transformed by your hand, by your Word. I pray you will do a mighty work within his heart and cleanse him of anything that tries to defile his marriage. Give him wisdom and humility to accept where he needs to change. Change him Father and make him a gentle husband who is willing to die to himself in the midst of arguments and disappointments. Lead him to lead her in JESUS NAME amen!
I honestly feel priced out of meeting a Godly woman. I'm a genuinely nice guy and have a kind heart. I meet all the godly male requirements but have no desire to lead a woman if she doesn't want to keep the commandments. I'm sober, celibate and financially blessed but women view me as too nice and not masculine to them. Either way I plan on keeping my vows with God and that's more important than seeking a woman. God bless the single men out there trying to meet a Christian woman.
Personally, I would rebuke the first sentence. I totally understand what you mean and why you feel the way you do, and your feelings are valid. I don't want to come off as if I'm being dismissive. I know it's hard out there especially now. I know we don't know each other, but I'm very proud of you for how you live and your determination to keep your vows to God. You're absolutely right that God is much more important than seeking a woman, he's more important than anything. Even when you're in a relationship, that should still hold true. Your love for someone else should be nothing compared to the love you have for God (just wanted to add that I don't mean actually nothing, your love for her should be true and strong, but your love for God should be more vast than all of the oceans on the earth; however I get a sense that you definitely understand this) . So you're definitely on the right track, as far as I can tell. The reason I said I would rebuke the first sentence doesn't have anything to do with your feelings, their validity, or lack thereof. I would rebuke it simply because that is something you should give to God and both the things we write and speak are powerful, as are our emotions and intentions. I have a very strong sense and feeling after reading your post that you're genuine in what you've said, but also a strange feeling that God will give you the gift of an amazing woman of God. I know God loves you and when you are in God's will he shows love in many ways, one way is fulfilling your requests. He wants you to be happy. I wouldn't resign yourself to "feeling priced out." Give it to God and trust that if his will for you is to meet a woman of God, you absolutely will. I would even pray over it and thank him for the gift of a Godly woman if it is his will, before receiving that gift. Praying for the gift of tongues & thanking him for it before I received it is actually what granted me the gift, almost immediately (I began to speak in tongues less than a minute after). The faith I had in him at that moment was the key that opened the door to the gift of tongues (it's similar to deliverance or many things when it comes to God, your stalwart and true faith is the beauty that allows fruit to blossom. Your faith must be boundless and unbreakable). I felt very compelled to respond to your message and just now, at the end of this reply, I started involuntarily praying in tongues (somehow I can understand what I'm praying for in tongues, which are often paired with visions). I prayed for several things, with the Holy Spirit as my guide and I know that praying for you was the main focus. Maybe God has something in store for you that you haven't been expecting. I may not know the exact reason I'm writing these words, but I know that he is guiding my hands. Also, I hope I didn't come off as insensitive. The way you feel is completely valid and understandable, I just want the absolute best for you brother. I know you are already blessed, as you know him, but nonetheless I pray that God may bless you on this day, and all days to come. I pray that he blesses you in ways that you couldn't imagine. I pray for your health, for your safety, and for you to find what it is that you have been looking for. I pray that what you're looking for, has also been looking for you. Again, I know we don't know each other, but I do love you brother and I wish all the best to you.
@@alexwakefield-pandorasthou6391 @alexwakefield-pandorasthou6391 Thank you Alex, You didn't have to write all those lovely words and thank you. I recently began going to an Eastern Orthodox church and really enjoying this new walk. Their faith and prayer life really matches my past spiritual background. When I wrote that I was at the initial acceptance of surrendering my relationship desires to God and going through that growing pain. God has delivered me from so much past pain involving family trauma, Iraq ptsd, sexual purity issues and has even lifted my stuttering problem along with freed my mind from demonic oppression. I live a very simple life and abstain from as much sinful pleasures as I can. Thank you for reaching out, I know I'm different than most guys who are outwardly Dominant or Alpha male persona. I have nothing to prove to anyone and tested my spirit by joining the Marines at 18 and going to Iraq twice. God bless you Alex and may we both high five or shake hands in heaven one day! 0:03
@DanMorgan-bh5fv Wairing to .meet the right partner is difficult for all of us but you are doing the right thing living to please our Saviour. I've started praying for my future partner and that's helped me. Perhaps it could help you too.
@ruthgardiner2484 I've recently just thrown in the towel, I'm just gonna stay celibate it's easier to accept this lifestyle than feeling inadequate to Christian women. I don't fit their mold anyways.
You look beautiful girl, I hope whoever is watching this, really takes this message in because it is SO important. Nothing worse than finding yourself unequally yolked and in a bad marriage
Jackie, Your so young and yet gifted with God’s wisdom, knowledge and understanding according to His word. I’m 66yrs old, was married 41yrs, divorced 5yrs. It’s difficult to trust again. Staying focused on God’s word all the days of my life. Praying for God to continue using your life to Read the Word, Spread the Word and Be The Word.
The information you provide for God’s desires for us is impeccable Jackie. The Holy Spirit truly speaks through you and I am so grateful. Thank you for creating the video and taking the time to do so. You are beautiful and a lovely sister in Christ.
"A man that deals harshly with his wife; even his prayers are hindered" Jackie you are on it with this video 🙏🏽💥 The video will be a helpful guide for all. I hope to learn and be the best version of myself for my future spouse. God bless you!
That scripture always amazed me - I believe it works both ways!! A wife’s prayers will be hindered if she continually disrespects and puts down her husband!
Marvin, thank you so much for supporting me… this really encourages me, as I am doing full time ministry and to have people like you support me and entrust money to me before the Lord truly humbles me… what you gave will be utilized for God’s Kingdom, as we deal with it in the fear of the Lord. God bless you!
@Jackie VanTine I was just watching this after the comment you said to watch this on the other video and at 10:08 really hit me hard like Narcissistic abuse really leaves you feeling confused and drained and it was my First Girlfriend and I said the same thing I made a commitment to only her even proposed to her with a ring I empathize for your Husband but I’m glad he found you he really does seem like a nice guy I seen you 2 livestream together and I just pray God has that for me before the world ends hopefully 🙏🏻♥️✝️
Thank you so much for this!! I’ve been dating outside of God’s will lately because I had this insanely strong desire to have a husband. I felt like I couldn’t trust Him with this because marraige isn’t coming to me as fast as I would like it to. My Jesus is a man of order and that is something that I am trying to understand everyday. I’ve been “entertaining” men who are not patient with me, they do not have a relationship with God, and all the things that you mentioned in this video. Thank you for talking about this and dissecting what we need to pay attention to when dating. I have been trying to surrender it all to God and WAIT. I ask that you all pray for me 🩷 God bless!
GOD BLESS YOU SISTER IN CHRIST AMEN TO YOUR WORD OF WISDOM IT MAKES ALOT OF SENSE MAY THE LORD CONTINUE BLESSING YOU WITH MANY MORE WISDOM SO YOU CAN ALWAYS SHARE IT WITH US YOU ARE DOING SUCH AN AMAZING JOB AS A Mother ,Wife, Server of the Lord and sister in Christ God is Proud of You.🙏🏼👏🏼🙌🏼☺️🩷YouHAVE BECAME MY FAVORITE UA-camR WOMAN OF GOD I FOLLOW NOW I ACCEPTED CHRIST LIKE 6 MONTHS AGO AND NEVER GOING BACK THANKS TO THE LORD 🙌🏼🙏🏼
Great wisdom! And Truth from God's Word. As a husband, the way we love our wife is the greatest prophetic and evangelistic expression we can live out to show the world what the LOVE of Jesus looks like for His Bride. When husband and wife dwell together in agreement, unity, oneness, intimacy, and love they become partakers of the Divine nature of God and they shine forth the true image and nature of God for all to see!
How much I like this girl and her teachings! She is God’s vessel!! Jackie please continue, we are listening! Glory be to God Almighty Father for creating us Jackie!!
I'm 17 and just about 3 months ago I developed a crush on a guy from my church plant, so I haven't seen him for 2 months now. Occasionally I would have dreams about him. Every night I would pray to God about this, surrendering these feelings to God. Yesterday I prayed especially long for him and had a dream right after. This particular dream was longer than before and we had more interactions. This is the first time I've felt this way for a guy and I've never been in a relationship. So I'm a little lost, I don't know if my loneliness is giving me these dreams or smth.
HUSBAND MATERIAL Clairvoyance - the supposed faculty of perceiving things or events in the future or beyond normal sensory contact. The ability to see or perceive matters beyond the range of ordanary perception. Able to resist temptation - Temperate: If he is not then he is not abiding in Christ as Self control is a fruit of the Spirit. Be a man of his word - Faithfulness: Honest and a faithful spirit. At work, family, with friends. Dying to your self everyday and setting an example like Jesus as a Leader. Stewarding God's daughter and washing her with the word. Practicing what he preached. Quick to forgive and merciful Sensitive to her traumas. Praying for her. Provide for his family: finances, encouragement, correction and guidance. Good father to children. You are deep Sister!!!
Jackie can you do a video on taming the tongue? And staying in a calm, non-tempered spirit? Currently reading the book "The power of a praying wife" by Stormie Omartian and it has been life changing!
Ugh. I met someone like this. Single father. Incredibly spiritually mature and one I can see myself submitting to. And then circumstances outside of our control separated us before we could do more than have one conversation (which was him asking advice on how to handle his emotions with his daughters). Basically a toxic church I was going to (met him at a Bible study), they separated us immediately after that convo. SMH.
Thanks God for using you dear for woman like me🙏🏼. My relationship is really complicated, I always have hope that he will get better because I feel he is a good person🫣 As you said, I fell in love with his potential. I met God with the help of his family, God used them to help me find Him, but I don't feel at peace with that man, but I feel very grateful to them. 😅 One day it seems like I know God is telling me to flee from him, but the next day I have hope that he will change. I read the Bible, I want to have knowledge so that I can understand God's word and make decisions more easily. Whenever I talk to him, he always has Bible verses that sound good for his arguments, and deep in my heart I really disagree with him from what I have understood from reading the Bible. But I always come back to the fact that I am a new believer and maybe I have misunderstood. Even though I feel it is wrong. And as I go deeper into God's Word, I see that he lacks the fruit of the Holy Spirit. And I want to change him, to help him really see that and so change his actions, but I have to trust God and step back so He can work on him.
Don’t go against the discernment the Holy Spirit gives you sister. God can use even a donkey to speak to us and lead us in the right way, as He did with a prophet in the Bible. Who else do we know twists scripture to mean something it doesn’t? The devil. Read of Jesus’ temptation in the wilderness… the devil used SCRIPTURE but twisted its meaning. However the temptation and deception didn’t work on Jesus because HE KNEW SCRIPTURE WELL. Sister, get out of this relationship before it eats years of your life and you find yourself older and single, having missed out on the right person.
You described me literally lmao Everything it is Gods hands so I’m not worried at all. I absolutely trust in his timing and trust and respect his will, even if it’s not what I thought or wanted So be it 🙏
Amen! Father, give her strength and let your presence and law be her delight. I pray she will do what you are calling her to with courage and trust that you can bring someone better suited for her in Jesus name !
Pray for Alyssa and her husband, both ex-Christians from the Latter-day Saints Church. They left because they didn't like being "forced to obey" their denomination's rules. As a result of their disillusionment, they are now both staunch atheists and refuse to conform to the image or any god or the TRUE GOD and JESUS CHRIST. Pray for their souls. I know many LDS brothers and sisters are meaning well and love Jesus, but are trapped and uncomfortable following strict rules imposed on them day by day. Pray so that they realise Jesus cares more about a relationship and doesn't want them to feel miserable for failing to follow rules, some of which aren't even in the Bible.
With all due respect, LDS isn’t Christianity. It’s heresy. Jesus Christ is and was and always has been God. If someone doesn’t believe in the trinity, they believe in a different God. I’m grateful they left the false teaching of LDS and hope God shows them truth and leads them to a strong biblical church.
@@jackieVanTine_ welcome sister always supporting likewise hope you sister Jackie and brother Lance have an amazing Labor day weekend God bless 🙏🫶 God bless
Jackie, if my boyfriend is not following one of these standards, should I let him go? We've been trying to work on a few things and I love him a lot. We've talked about marriage but this video does have conviction on qualities of what makes a man husband material
@@kb8481 hmmm I would need to know which one he is lacking. If you have discussed this with him and he refuses to change or says he will work towards change but does not, you may need to take a break from the relationship and dedicate yourself to prayer in order to hear God’s input on this. I would say that if you are having doubts due to the things said in this video, you may REALLY want to consider taking some time off to evaluate the relationship with the Lord in a clear mind. Marriage is no joke and you want to be 100% sure. You also don’t want to waste time dating someone who you know deep deep down inside is not the person for you.
Sis, this woman who wears , "I'm the prize and men should kneal down on my feet to approach and marry me, neckless on her neck is the last thing you want to be as a woman. That's arrogance and pride fullness at its finest. No one's the prize to anyone. Both should be thriving to be the prize for each other. Don't listen to these bitter, yet prideful women trying to keep other women undesirable to men just like them. That's the exact same mind set as satan. I'm going to the bottomless pit anyways so I shall take as many people with me as possible kind of mind set. Don't fall into that lie. Approach a guy if you like him. If he doesn't like you back, you guys weren't meant to be. Of course, it's nerve-racking to say the least, but it's the same thing for men.
Define harsh, speaking God's truth and being honest is sometimes deemed harsh. No sugar coating, being direct, tough love yet being gentle in Spirit. Define harsh 🤔 fine line btwn discipline and abuse, verbal or physical js... 💞🙏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
Its important to remember flee youthful lusts, only date for the purpose to marry that person. So many times i thought to myself when am i going to get married and why am i still single, i saw a very old couple holding hands in front of me walking. And its like God said to me do you want this or something that wont last and is gonna hurt you. And it humbled me. Yes i want something thats God honoring and is gonna last.
i dated someone for 6yrs. I wanted marriage and he wasnt "ready financially". his focus was business and power. now 2 years after no contact he comes back and now is really close to God. or so he says. and ready to get married. its hard to know what to do, is this God sending him back to me?
I would pray about it and wait for God’s reply. Do you feel peace regarding him? Does he line up with the things discussed in this video? If so, you can sit down and have a serious discussion with him, and tell him what you are expecting and ask him why the long wait, what are his plans in leading you to Christ, and assess whether he is still building his own kingdom or he has realized he needs to now build Gods kingdom. Pray pray pray and wait! God will show you through circumstances, by comparing him to His Word, and by His still small voice and peace!
@@jackieVanTine_ thank you so much. I have not seen him in 2yrs and wants to meet up. but i am nervous/scared. Praying hoping i make the right decision.
Ugh , I've met an incredible man, he's a believer.. but is not leading me to God, if anything I have a deeper connection. He has the fruit for sure. Idk what to do!
Jackie, I now feel worse than ever, as a man who does 'believe'...but who still needs to be cured of his own lack of practical belief in Christ. The terrors of this world itself have far too much weight with me. I know this is a terrible sin, but I just can't help it. I fear the terrible suffering that the world can and does inflict on a routine basis, even more than I fear God, despite knowing it should be the other way round. I pray repeatedly to be cured of my cowardly distrust. I was hoping that marrying a saved lady would help me to trust properly, which I now realise makes me worse even than I thought. I wish I had never been born.
Brother, you are so precious in God's eyes 🙏✨ your life is so valuable!!! Waiting can be so long and tiring (know because of my own experience) but Lord will be faithful to all of His children 🌸
@@InstantReset when I had shared the comment the video had been up for only 22mins. I’ve been going through some of the stuff she talked about so it spoke to me.
Going to church doesn't make you a Christian I agree with that, but going to church helps with your walk with God right? The thing is he says he believes in YAWHEH but he doesn't go to church at all and he doesn't have plans to go. I don't know what to do anymore
Attendance at church is important if it's Christ's restored church that has the same structure, spiritual gifts, authority, etc. that it had when Jesus organized it in the NT, but it's not important to attend a church if it's teaching falsities, and all but one church are going to not truly be Christ's church. Ask your husband what his opinion of churches around you are now what kind of church he would consider attending and after you listen, you could express your fears to him and let him respond if you feel like it. But absolutely some of the best people in the last 600 years and longer have not joined any congregation because their conviction was that no congregation around them was Christ's restored church.
I wouldn't be legalistic about it, and be more concerned with if there is a desire to fellowship at all, or if he sees himself growing his relationship with God. Maybe he is waiting for you to invite him to yours. I didn't go to church for the longest time bc I couldn't find a good one. But I was reading my Bible everyday, abiding in Him, studying scripture. I still built a great relationship with God through that, actually that's where most of it was built (outside of the church). I finally found a good biblically based church that I like, so now I go every week and look forward to it. An answered prayer for sure 😊
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Qualities to look for in a husband -
1: Discernment
2: Self control (including sexually)
3: Faithfulness and honesty
4: The ability to die to self and be a leader (a man of his word)
5: Patient and kind
6: Provider financially and emotionally (encouragement, correction and guidance)
7: Good Father to your children
You encourage me Jackie!!! i am 16 but because of you and the Holy Spirit i know to wait for my husband and not to idolize him. I've prayed to God again and again, "Don't allow me to even like any guy unless his is the one you want me to marry." so far, prayers answered. Thank you so much for what you do!!!!!
Amen! This makes me happy for you as the younger generation should follow Jesus the same way. Praying for my teens as well❤
Amen! Well said! God bless 🙌
Jackie thank you for posting this. I am not consistently demonstrating the characteristics you mentioned to my wife but I want to change. Pray for me and my wife.
Lord God, let Reggie be transformed by your hand, by your Word. I pray you will do a mighty work within his heart and cleanse him of anything that tries to defile his marriage. Give him wisdom and humility to accept where he needs to change. Change him Father and make him a gentle husband who is willing to die to himself in the midst of arguments and disappointments. Lead him to lead her in JESUS NAME amen!
@@jackieVanTine_ Thank you!!
I honestly feel priced out of meeting a Godly woman. I'm a genuinely nice guy and have a kind heart. I meet all the godly male requirements but have no desire to lead a woman if she doesn't want to keep the commandments. I'm sober, celibate and financially blessed but women view me as too nice and not masculine to them. Either way I plan on keeping my vows with God and that's more important than seeking a woman. God bless the single men out there trying to meet a Christian woman.
Personally, I would rebuke the first sentence. I totally understand what you mean and why you feel the way you do, and your feelings are valid. I don't want to come off as if I'm being dismissive. I know it's hard out there especially now.
I know we don't know each other, but I'm very proud of you for how you live and your determination to keep your vows to God. You're absolutely right that God is much more important than seeking a woman, he's more important than anything. Even when you're in a relationship, that should still hold true. Your love for someone else should be nothing compared to the love you have for God (just wanted to add that I don't mean actually nothing, your love for her should be true and strong, but your love for God should be more vast than all of the oceans on the earth; however I get a sense that you definitely understand this) . So you're definitely on the right track, as far as I can tell.
The reason I said I would rebuke the first sentence doesn't have anything to do with your feelings, their validity, or lack thereof. I would rebuke it simply because that is something you should give to God and both the things we write and speak are powerful, as are our emotions and intentions. I have a very strong sense and feeling after reading your post that you're genuine in what you've said, but also a strange feeling that God will give you the gift of an amazing woman of God. I know God loves you and when you are in God's will he shows love in many ways, one way is fulfilling your requests. He wants you to be happy. I wouldn't resign yourself to "feeling priced out." Give it to God and trust that if his will for you is to meet a woman of God, you absolutely will. I would even pray over it and thank him for the gift of a Godly woman if it is his will, before receiving that gift.
Praying for the gift of tongues & thanking him for it before I received it is actually what granted me the gift, almost immediately (I began to speak in tongues less than a minute after). The faith I had in him at that moment was the key that opened the door to the gift of tongues (it's similar to deliverance or many things when it comes to God, your stalwart and true faith is the beauty that allows fruit to blossom. Your faith must be boundless and unbreakable). I felt very compelled to respond to your message and just now, at the end of this reply, I started involuntarily praying in tongues (somehow I can understand what I'm praying for in tongues, which are often paired with visions). I prayed for several things, with the Holy Spirit as my guide and I know that praying for you was the main focus. Maybe God has something in store for you that you haven't been expecting. I may not know the exact reason I'm writing these words, but I know that he is guiding my hands.
Also, I hope I didn't come off as insensitive. The way you feel is completely valid and understandable, I just want the absolute best for you brother. I know you are already blessed, as you know him, but nonetheless I pray that God may bless you on this day, and all days to come. I pray that he blesses you in ways that you couldn't imagine. I pray for your health, for your safety, and for you to find what it is that you have been looking for. I pray that what you're looking for, has also been looking for you. Again, I know we don't know each other, but I do love you brother and I wish all the best to you.
@@alexwakefield-pandorasthou6391 @alexwakefield-pandorasthou6391 Thank you Alex, You didn't have to write all those lovely words and thank you. I recently began going to an Eastern Orthodox church and really enjoying this new walk. Their faith and prayer life really matches my past spiritual background. When I wrote that I was at the initial acceptance of surrendering my relationship desires to God and going through that growing pain. God has delivered me from so much past pain involving family trauma, Iraq ptsd, sexual purity issues and has even lifted my stuttering problem along with freed my mind from demonic oppression. I live a very simple life and abstain from as much sinful pleasures as I can. Thank you for reaching out, I know I'm different than most guys who are outwardly Dominant or Alpha male persona. I have nothing to prove to anyone and tested my spirit by joining the Marines at 18 and going to Iraq twice.
God bless you Alex and may we both high five or shake hands in heaven one day! 0:03
Just get into jiu jitsu and you’ll be the full package
@DanMorgan-bh5fv Wairing to .meet the right partner is difficult for all of us but you are doing the right thing living to please our Saviour. I've started praying for my future partner and that's helped me. Perhaps it could help you too.
@ruthgardiner2484 I've recently just thrown in the towel, I'm just gonna stay celibate it's easier to accept this lifestyle than feeling inadequate to Christian women. I don't fit their mold anyways.
You look beautiful girl,
I hope whoever is watching this, really takes this message in because it is SO important.
Nothing worse than finding yourself unequally yolked and in a bad marriage
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Jackie, Your so young and yet gifted with God’s wisdom, knowledge and understanding according to His word. I’m 66yrs old, was married 41yrs, divorced 5yrs. It’s difficult to trust again. Staying focused on God’s word all the days of my life. Praying for God to continue using your life to Read the Word, Spread the Word and Be The Word.
The information you provide for God’s desires for us is impeccable Jackie. The Holy Spirit truly speaks through you and I am so grateful. Thank you for creating the video and taking the time to do so. You are beautiful and a lovely sister in Christ.
Love this!
"A man that deals harshly with his wife; even his prayers are hindered" Jackie you are on it with this video 🙏🏽💥 The video will be a helpful guide for all. I hope to learn and be the best version of myself for my future spouse. God bless you!
That scripture always amazed me - I believe it works both ways!! A wife’s prayers will be hindered if she continually disrespects and puts down her husband!
Thank you so much for always spreading the lords word for all of us
Marvin, thank you so much for supporting me… this really encourages me, as I am doing full time ministry and to have people like you support me and entrust money to me before the Lord truly humbles me… what you gave will be utilized for God’s Kingdom, as we deal with it in the fear of the Lord. God bless you!
@Jackie VanTine I was just watching this after the comment you said to watch this on the other video and at 10:08 really hit me hard like Narcissistic abuse really leaves you feeling confused and drained and it was my First Girlfriend and I said the same thing I made a commitment to only her even proposed to her with a ring I empathize for your Husband but I’m glad he found you he really does seem like a nice guy I seen you 2 livestream together and I just pray God has that for me before the world ends hopefully 🙏🏻♥️✝️
Thank you so much for this!! I’ve been dating outside of God’s will lately because I had this insanely strong desire to have a husband. I felt like I couldn’t trust Him with this because marraige isn’t coming to me as fast as I would like it to. My Jesus is a man of order and that is something that I am trying to understand everyday. I’ve been “entertaining” men who are not patient with me, they do not have a relationship with God, and all the things that you mentioned in this video. Thank you for talking about this and dissecting what we need to pay attention to when dating. I have been trying to surrender it all to God and WAIT. I ask that you all pray for me 🩷 God bless!
I don’t have any men in my life, hoping God will bring my kingdom spouse when the time is right. I will be patient upon the lord ❤
Me too!
This brought me to tears in the best way possible. I am so thankful for you Jackie. You are one kind soul 💗
Thank you sister 🩷
Your video spoke clarity to me.
Thank You.
This is so good!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Jackie i love your boldness & i love listening to you, most of the time you speaks my mind🥰
You're very beautiful. Keep preaching the truth🙏
Thank you so much!! 😊
Great teaching my sis glory to God really enjoying this message thank you for your obedience to the lord 🙏🙌
Beautifully illustrated-I’m trusting God for my Kingdom Spouse. 🙏🏼
Thanks! Mrs jackie you found lance or visa versa in the end it worked out for both of you.
Thank you Steven! 🙏😊 yes - it is a blessing beyond compare!
GOD BLESS YOU SISTER IN CHRIST AMEN TO YOUR WORD OF WISDOM IT MAKES ALOT OF SENSE MAY THE LORD CONTINUE BLESSING YOU WITH MANY MORE WISDOM SO YOU CAN ALWAYS SHARE IT WITH US YOU ARE DOING SUCH AN AMAZING JOB AS A Mother ,Wife, Server of the Lord and sister in Christ God is Proud of You.🙏🏼👏🏼🙌🏼☺️🩷YouHAVE BECAME MY FAVORITE UA-camR WOMAN OF GOD I FOLLOW NOW I ACCEPTED CHRIST LIKE 6 MONTHS AGO AND NEVER GOING BACK THANKS TO THE LORD 🙌🏼🙏🏼
I was led to this video. I just decided to not go any further with someone and this video is confirmation that that was the right choice 💞🙌🏾
100% agree! I should of seen this video long time ago.
Amen sis good preaching about the word of God 💖💖💖👏💖💪💪💪💪
Great wisdom! And Truth from God's Word. As a husband, the way we love our wife is the greatest prophetic and evangelistic expression we can live out to show the world what the LOVE of Jesus looks like for His Bride. When husband and wife dwell together in agreement, unity, oneness, intimacy, and love they become partakers of the Divine nature of God and they shine forth the true image and nature of God for all to see!
Thanks!
Nigel, I am humbled by your continued support… I am very grateful, thank you!!
Your daughter's room is so beautiful
great video and message,you are spot on,your words are sincere and ring true to me.thankyou for sharing this.much appreciated.
7:50 to 8:45 SO WELL SAID
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Girl you are amazing I couldn’t love you more!!!!
Haha thank you Abbey! Appreciate the support 🩷
Jackie you are truly God sent❤❤❤
How much I like this girl and her teachings! She is God’s vessel!! Jackie please continue, we are listening! Glory be to God Almighty Father for creating us Jackie!!
So much wisdom 🙏🏼🫶
Thank you for this message, praying for your new baby ❤️!!!
Thank you for sharing this ❤️❤️ God be the glory
Absolutely!! & amen 🙏
This make so much sense. Thank you for making this video, it helped make some things click in my life, questions i had about an individual
I like JackieVanTine and her husband as they are honest about their past life and minister deliverance well.Wisdom couple very blessed to hear them.
Amen🙏✝️. God Bless you and Your family.
Thanks for sharing God's Word with the world, and guiding them on their paths...
Absolutely - all for God’s glory!
@jackieVanTine_ FYI : you helped encourage me a month or so ago when I was going thru some stuff, appreciate you ❤️
I'm 17 and just about 3 months ago I developed a crush on a guy from my church plant, so I haven't seen him for 2 months now. Occasionally I would have dreams about him. Every night I would pray to God about this, surrendering these feelings to God. Yesterday I prayed especially long for him and had a dream right after. This particular dream was longer than before and we had more interactions. This is the first time I've felt this way for a guy and I've never been in a relationship. So I'm a little lost, I don't know if my loneliness is giving me these dreams or smth.
Focus on Jesus !! Let it go what God has for you will find you
Clairvoyant is a witch term, used in new age spirituality, we use discernment. 🙏🏾 lovely message though keep speaking Gods words ✨
Yep, wrong word for sure
Yes ma'am. Preach
When you have Faith..anything and everything is possible...Father will never forsake you..yet He will test your loyalty...🙏
It really feels like god is talking to me, and has been for the longest longest longest time
@@DrowningintheBlueNile continue to seek Him and you shall find Him
@@secko13 I mean about this topic about things pertaining
Amen preach 🙌
So true.. ♥️
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Clairvoyance - the supposed faculty of perceiving things or events in the future or beyond normal sensory contact. The ability to see or perceive matters beyond the range of ordanary perception.
Able to resist temptation - Temperate: If he is not then he is not abiding in Christ as Self control is a fruit of the Spirit.
Be a man of his word - Faithfulness: Honest and a faithful spirit. At work, family, with friends.
Dying to your self everyday and setting an example like Jesus as a Leader.
Stewarding God's daughter and washing her with the word. Practicing what he preached.
Quick to forgive and merciful
Sensitive to her traumas. Praying for her.
Provide for his family: finances, encouragement, correction and guidance.
Good father to children.
You are deep Sister!!!
I love how you said God never hurts us when can be hurt from others all our lives! Thats me, thats why i only trust Jesus! Blessings!
Jackie can you do a video on taming the tongue? And staying in a calm, non-tempered spirit? Currently reading the book "The power of a praying wife" by Stormie Omartian and it has been life changing!
Ugh. I met someone like this. Single father. Incredibly spiritually mature and one I can see myself submitting to. And then circumstances outside of our control separated us before we could do more than have one conversation (which was him asking advice on how to handle his emotions with his daughters). Basically a toxic church I was going to (met him at a Bible study), they separated us immediately after that convo. SMH.
This video is excellent all the glory to GOD❤
Thanks! 🤗
For sure :)
Amen Jackie!
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Greetings sister
Glory to Jesus ❤️
Thanks God for using you dear for woman like me🙏🏼. My relationship is really complicated, I always have hope that he will get better because I feel he is a good person🫣 As you said, I fell in love with his potential. I met God with the help of his family, God used them to help me find Him, but I don't feel at peace with that man, but I feel very grateful to them. 😅
One day it seems like I know God is telling me to flee from him, but the next day I have hope that he will change.
I read the Bible, I want to have knowledge so that I can understand God's word and make decisions more easily. Whenever I talk to him, he always has Bible verses that sound good for his arguments, and deep in my heart I really disagree with him from what I have understood from reading the Bible. But I always come back to the fact that I am a new believer and maybe I have misunderstood. Even though I feel it is wrong.
And as I go deeper into God's Word, I see that he lacks the fruit of the Holy Spirit. And I want to change him, to help him really see that and so change his actions, but I have to trust God and step back so He can work on him.
Don’t go against the discernment the Holy Spirit gives you sister. God can use even a donkey to speak to us and lead us in the right way, as He did with a prophet in the Bible. Who else do we know twists scripture to mean something it doesn’t? The devil. Read of Jesus’ temptation in the wilderness… the devil used SCRIPTURE but twisted its meaning. However the temptation and deception didn’t work on Jesus because HE KNEW SCRIPTURE WELL. Sister, get out of this relationship before it eats years of your life and you find yourself older and single, having missed out on the right person.
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You are still pretty seeing you after a long time. wish you happiness and success ❤
God bless you ❤
Hello Jackie and family God bless you all
God bless you Walter ! 😊
Yes, only God can
You described me literally lmao
Everything it is Gods hands so I’m not worried at all. I absolutely trust in his timing and trust and respect his will, even if it’s not what I thought or wanted
So be it 🙏
Amen 🙏 🙏
When you said Prudence.. that’s my name 😊❤
Come to UK Jackie and Lance .Typical English born again church is Oasiscitychurch Watford.
The timing 🤯
Amen...Jesus please help me to take the right desicion in my life ...🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Amen! Father, give her strength and let your presence and law be her delight. I pray she will do what you are calling her to with courage and trust that you can bring someone better suited for her in Jesus name !
@@jackieVanTine_ Amen..Thank you for your prayer sister ...I receive this prayer in the Mighty Name of Jesus ..🙏🏻
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I claim this word! Help me pray to discern what God is saying to me please ❤
Seer/understanding
Pray for Alyssa and her husband, both ex-Christians from the Latter-day Saints Church. They left because they didn't like being "forced to obey" their denomination's rules. As a result of their disillusionment, they are now both staunch atheists and refuse to conform to the image or any god or the TRUE GOD and JESUS CHRIST. Pray for their souls. I know many LDS brothers and sisters are meaning well and love Jesus, but are trapped and uncomfortable following strict rules imposed on them day by day. Pray so that they realise Jesus cares more about a relationship and doesn't want them to feel miserable for failing to follow rules, some of which aren't even in the Bible.
With all due respect, LDS isn’t Christianity. It’s heresy. Jesus Christ is and was and always has been God. If someone doesn’t believe in the trinity, they believe in a different God. I’m grateful they left the false teaching of LDS and hope God shows them truth and leads them to a strong biblical church.
🙏 much love sister jackie
Thank you brother :) have a great Labor Day weekend!!!
@@jackieVanTine_ welcome sister always supporting likewise hope you sister Jackie and brother Lance have an amazing Labor day weekend God bless 🙏🫶 God bless
Jackie, if my boyfriend is not following one of these standards, should I let him go? We've been trying to work on a few things and I love him a lot. We've talked about marriage but this video does have conviction on qualities of what makes a man husband material
@@kb8481 hmmm I would need to know which one he is lacking. If you have discussed this with him and he refuses to change or says he will work towards change but does not, you may need to take a break from the relationship and dedicate yourself to prayer in order to hear God’s input on this. I would say that if you are having doubts due to the things said in this video, you may REALLY want to consider taking some time off to evaluate the relationship with the Lord in a clear mind. Marriage is no joke and you want to be 100% sure. You also don’t want to waste time dating someone who you know deep deep down inside is not the person for you.
Obedience
Amen 💙❤️💌🙏🙌
Amen
I've been married almost 50 years and this still ministered to me. Thanks little sister. Could you talk about James 1:26 sometime? 👍👍
See I don’t know if I’m suppose to go up to him or him go up to me and make a move 😂😂 like yes I’m shy but outgoing but still!
Don’t ever approach a man. That’s just a fact. You’re the prize. Clock it in spirit.
Sis, this woman who wears , "I'm the prize and men should kneal down on my feet to approach and marry me, neckless on her neck is the last thing you want to be as a woman.
That's arrogance and pride fullness at its finest.
No one's the prize to anyone.
Both should be thriving to be the prize for each other.
Don't listen to these bitter, yet prideful women trying to keep other women undesirable to men just like them.
That's the exact same mind set as satan.
I'm going to the bottomless pit anyways so I shall take as many people with me as possible kind of mind set.
Don't fall into that lie.
Approach a guy if you like him. If he doesn't like you back, you guys weren't meant to be. Of course, it's nerve-racking to say the least, but it's the same thing for men.
Define harsh, speaking God's truth and being honest is sometimes deemed harsh. No sugar coating, being direct, tough love yet being gentle in Spirit. Define harsh 🤔 fine line btwn discipline and abuse, verbal or physical js... 💞🙏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
Its important to remember flee youthful lusts, only date for the purpose to marry that person.
So many times i thought to myself when am i going to get married and why am i still single, i saw a very old couple holding hands in front of me walking. And its like God said to me do you want this or something that wont last and is gonna hurt you. And it humbled me. Yes i want something thats God honoring and is gonna last.
Father God remove this man from my life he is not these things amen
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i dated someone for 6yrs. I wanted marriage and he wasnt "ready financially". his focus was business and power. now 2 years after no contact he comes back and now is really close to God. or so he says. and ready to get married. its hard to know what to do, is this God sending him back to me?
I would pray about it and wait for God’s reply. Do you feel peace regarding him? Does he line up with the things discussed in this video? If so, you can sit down and have a serious discussion with him, and tell him what you are expecting and ask him why the long wait, what are his plans in leading you to Christ, and assess whether he is still building his own kingdom or he has realized he needs to now build Gods kingdom.
Pray pray pray and wait! God will show you through circumstances, by comparing him to His Word, and by His still small voice and peace!
@@jackieVanTine_ thank you so much. I have not seen him in 2yrs and wants to meet up. but i am nervous/scared. Praying hoping i make the right decision.
David my men hungry I feed them show bread
Ugh , I've met an incredible man, he's a believer.. but is not leading me to God, if anything I have a deeper connection. He has the fruit for sure. Idk what to do!
Conjunction die to negative energies
Jackie, I now feel worse than ever, as a man who does 'believe'...but who still needs to be cured of his own lack of practical belief in Christ. The terrors of this world itself have far too much weight with me. I know this is a terrible sin, but I just can't help it. I fear the terrible suffering that the world can and does inflict on a routine basis, even more than I fear God, despite knowing it should be the other way round. I pray repeatedly to be cured of my cowardly distrust. I was hoping that marrying a saved lady would help me to trust properly, which I now realise makes me worse even than I thought. I wish I had never been born.
Brother, you are so precious in God's eyes 🙏✨ your life is so valuable!!!
Waiting can be so long and tiring (know because of my own experience) but Lord will be faithful to all of His children 🌸
@@danielaraileanu5770Thank you!
Yes, I am.
I can now resist tentation for months
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Amém glórias a DEUS eu creio Holy espírito
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Oh wow this video was posted 22mins ago and I can’t believe that it goes perfect with what I’ve been praying for a very long time.
Glad it’s helpful to you Liz 🩷
@@InstantReset when I had shared the comment the video had been up for only 22mins. I’ve been going through some of the stuff she talked about so it spoke to me.
Maturity in budget
❤ii love ur vids
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Going to church doesn't make you a Christian I agree with that, but going to church helps with your walk with God right?
The thing is he says he believes in YAWHEH but he doesn't go to church at all and he doesn't have plans to go. I don't know what to do anymore
Attendance at church is important if it's Christ's restored church that has the same structure, spiritual gifts, authority, etc. that it had when Jesus organized it in the NT, but it's not important to attend a church if it's teaching falsities, and all but one church are going to not truly be Christ's church. Ask your husband what his opinion of churches around you are now what kind of church he would consider attending and after you listen, you could express your fears to him and let him respond if you feel like it. But absolutely some of the best people in the last 600 years and longer have not joined any congregation because their conviction was that no congregation around them was Christ's restored church.
I wouldn't be legalistic about it, and be more concerned with if there is a desire to fellowship at all, or if he sees himself growing his relationship with God. Maybe he is waiting for you to invite him to yours. I didn't go to church for the longest time bc I couldn't find a good one. But I was reading my Bible everyday, abiding in Him, studying scripture. I still built a great relationship with God through that, actually that's where most of it was built (outside of the church). I finally found a good biblically based church that I like, so now I go every week and look forward to it. An answered prayer for sure 😊
Pray for clarity and guidance 🙏
Good word, Sister. Being in a garage doesn't make you a mechanic, and being in a church doesn't make you a Christian.