Our Chassidic Jewish Wedding EXPLAINED!

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  • Опубліковано 27 сер 2023
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  • @kathyshearer9853
    @kathyshearer9853 9 місяців тому +41

    Thank you so much for sharing and explaining. The Jewish customs are absolutely beautiful.

  • @user-ri6cl7ss7b
    @user-ri6cl7ss7b 9 місяців тому +30

    when I doubt there's love, I rewatch your wedding.

  • @gatataz333
    @gatataz333 9 місяців тому +19

    Girl, your smile not only lights up Dani’s eyes, but the entire room! What an absolutely BEAUTIFUL ceremony!

  • @brycepardoe658
    @brycepardoe658 9 місяців тому +34

    The wall thing between the sexes in no way stops people from having fun. Such a beautiful culture.

    • @nadiadansani2139
      @nadiadansani2139 9 місяців тому +4

      I’m a Muslim, and once I first learned about this I really wanted to do it because our weddings are supposed to be separate as well

    • @brycepardoe658
      @brycepardoe658 9 місяців тому

      @@nadiadansani2139 Interesting!!!

    • @Pureimagination200
      @Pureimagination200 9 місяців тому +1

      I would love that since my Jewish husband flirts with other women

    • @Pureimagination200
      @Pureimagination200 9 місяців тому

      @@nadiadansani2139surprising how Jews, Christians and Muslims worship the same God

    • @sweetpea1989
      @sweetpea1989 9 місяців тому +2

      @@nadiadansani2139 isn’t a marriage about two people uniting? Why would you keep it separate then?

  • @kimberlyhudson238
    @kimberlyhudson238 9 місяців тому +9

    Thank you for sharing your life with us! What a wonderful family!

  • @Balance_Reiki_SpiritualCoach
    @Balance_Reiki_SpiritualCoach 9 місяців тому +7

    That’s beautiful. Thanks for sharing.
    Not being Jewish myself, my belief that I was already born with a whole soul. Marriage or no marriage - still my soul is complete ❤

  • @katetaumin7327
    @katetaumin7327 9 місяців тому +14

    What a beautiful wedding and gorgeous couple. We are more secular Jewish family and my wedding under chuppah was just few days after you, bring so many memories. Happy anniversary!

  • @brandywineblogger1411
    @brandywineblogger1411 9 місяців тому +7

    I love this!
    If traditional weddings were as deeply spiritual, nurturing and as introspective as this, there would be fewer divorces.
    Mazel Tov!

  • @mzoma4984
    @mzoma4984 9 місяців тому +4

    This is so rich in beauty, honor and family. ❤I absolutely love this and wish we all can be like this. Honoring God with everything. Thank you for sharing.

  • @bubsodleson4109
    @bubsodleson4109 9 місяців тому +6

    Happy Anniversary! Wishing you many more years of love and happiness.

  • @trinaking38
    @trinaking38 9 місяців тому +1

    Happy anniversary!!🎉🎊may your lives continue to be filled with love and happiness!

  • @bethannd9892
    @bethannd9892 9 місяців тому +13

    U2 were made for each other. Beautiful wedding dress, beautiful ceremony. Thank you for explaining it to us and sharing it with us. I’ve learned quite a bit from watching your channel. I think it’s important that we respect each other’s religions, cultures, belief, and you epitomize this. 8:57

  • @lovethatdragon2984
    @lovethatdragon2984 9 місяців тому

    Happy Anniversary! What a beautiful wedding. Thank you for sharing such lovely memories with us.

  • @meripederson8379
    @meripederson8379 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful wedding with us again! You make such a wonderfully matched couple.

  • @zakiyasmith5390
    @zakiyasmith5390 9 місяців тому +1

    The way you two look at each other is beautiful and amazing you see how much you adore and love each other

  • @Realkimnorton
    @Realkimnorton 8 місяців тому +1

    You both are an inspiration. ❤ Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @absurdum-the-artist
    @absurdum-the-artist 9 місяців тому +2

    So lovely, everyone is clearly having so much fun! ☺️

  • @crystalbluepersuasion3897
    @crystalbluepersuasion3897 9 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful wedding, and beautiful couple. This looked like so much fun! ❤

  • @atlanticvegansurfer8144
    @atlanticvegansurfer8144 4 місяці тому

    Thank you both so very much for sharing your beautiful wedding . I want to wish you both a lifetime of blessings, Love , and happiness.

  • @SuddenUpdraft
    @SuddenUpdraft 6 місяців тому

    I’m so jealous. What a beautiful wedding! How blessed you are with so much loving family. I wish you much happiness and many beautiful children.

  • @andreacatzel8259
    @andreacatzel8259 9 місяців тому +2

    Mazeltov! What a beautiful couple! Wishing you many glorious years filled with love, tolerance, understanding and lots of nachas! ❤

  • @janetlongislandsticher
    @janetlongislandsticher 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful wedding and Congratulations to more years to come.

  • @SarahsOctoberHome
    @SarahsOctoberHome 8 місяців тому

    You both are so such a beautiful couple. Lovely wedding, and thank you for taking us along on your Beautiful Day.🫶🏻😍

  • @jennic.548
    @jennic.548 9 місяців тому

    You both look so happy. Thank you for sharing.

  • @Aqua56928
    @Aqua56928 9 місяців тому +1

    I just discovered your channel. I have learned so much.

  • @donnaaustin8140
    @donnaaustin8140 8 місяців тому

    Beautiful wedding and traditions. I pray for many blessings on your family.🌿

  • @shelleyshub3593
    @shelleyshub3593 9 місяців тому +2

    MAZALTOV! Beautiful wedding BH. May you both have an amazing life and a huge family IY”H.

  • @TimetoTimetoTime
    @TimetoTimetoTime 9 місяців тому +9

    Thank you both for sharing your own wedding story with the world. This type of video helps people with social anxiety attend events that are new or different to what they know.
    Could you share what an appropriate gift to give to the bride and groom on their wedding day would be, if any?

    • @chbb6554
      @chbb6554 9 місяців тому +2

      Most couples have typical wedding gift registries. Otherwise money is always welcome😊

    • @ThatJewishFamily
      @ThatJewishFamily  9 місяців тому +1

      Thank you! ❤ yes, a lot of couples have wedding registries or money is always a great one for a couple starting our life together!

  • @gloriouslyimperfect
    @gloriouslyimperfect 9 місяців тому

    I love your love and thank you for sharing it and your beautiful family and culture with all of us.

  • @janicebannan8848
    @janicebannan8848 9 місяців тому +2

    What a beautiful day. Happy Anniversary 🎉🎉

  • @bartlettje
    @bartlettje 5 місяців тому

    Every aspect of the wedding has such deep meaning....truly beautiful

  • @revgurley
    @revgurley 9 місяців тому

    As a wedding officiant in the United States, I love this video. Congratulations and Best Wishes!

  • @FYPNLP
    @FYPNLP 9 місяців тому +6

    Your wedding dress was exquisite.

  • @SevgiSezen
    @SevgiSezen 9 місяців тому +2

    ❤ i cried ...
    May the Lord bless your family ❤

  • @wendylnyc447
    @wendylnyc447 9 місяців тому +3

    What a beautiful simcha!! Raizel looks absolutely stunning. I would love to at some point of my life experience a Chabadnik wedding, & I still would like to experience going to the Rebbes Ohel

  • @evijade1
    @evijade1 9 місяців тому +2

    Beautiful wedding! Beautiful couple!

  • @andreamcdole6846
    @andreamcdole6846 9 місяців тому +1

    The way you look at each other ❤❤

  • @hannahwilliams5394
    @hannahwilliams5394 9 місяців тому

    May God contuiine to bless your union. Id love to see a video on how you have a continued happy marriage and relationship advice and also any tidbits on Jewish advice on marriage

  • @marytye8952
    @marytye8952 9 місяців тому +3

    What a beautiful bride and a beautiful couple you make congratulations here’s to a happy life

  • @vancewaldeck5826
    @vancewaldeck5826 8 місяців тому

    Stunning thank you for sharing

  • @antoinettejohnson8295
    @antoinettejohnson8295 9 місяців тому

    Thank you very much for the explanation !

  • @rachelharvey1662
    @rachelharvey1662 9 місяців тому +5

    You are the most beautiful couple. Inside and out ❤

  • @marybee4734
    @marybee4734 9 місяців тому

    THANK-YOU FOR SHARING YOUR BEAUTIFUL WEDDING WITH US YOU BOTH ARE A BEAUTIFUL COUPLE. WITH TWO BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN HAPPY ANNIVERSARY 🎉🎉🪻⚘️🌹💐❤🥰🦋🦋🦋🌻🌻🌻🐝

  • @thevictors.arriola4906
    @thevictors.arriola4906 4 місяці тому

    hello, from philippines. im so blessed by this video, thank you for sharing

  • @hopeoswald3448
    @hopeoswald3448 7 місяців тому

    So sweet. Love it

  • @KimtheElder
    @KimtheElder 9 місяців тому

    Tears during the blessings over bride and groom 🤍🤍🤍🤍🕊️

  • @twinspired2223
    @twinspired2223 9 місяців тому

    Beautiful thank you for sharing

  • @cindatelis
    @cindatelis 8 місяців тому

    Why do I think I’ve seen this before? Why do I think you have children now? Why when the glass was broken I yelled ‘Mazel Tov!’ Sitting in my house by myself? What a beautiful day. Thank you for sharing with us. Many blessings. I met my husband 34 days before I married him. We are going on 17 years with 2 healthy, smart, beautiful, girls, thank G.od. We knew and we wanted a marriage, not a wedding, so we got married one day, and had a marriage ever since. We are blessed to have each other, not always easy, but ALWAYS worth it. ❤

  • @itsacarolbthing5221
    @itsacarolbthing5221 9 місяців тому

    It looks blissful!

  • @bolaplenty1024
    @bolaplenty1024 9 місяців тому +3

    What a beautiful wedding video, thank you for sharing it with us!
    Question: was that Raizel's real hair?

    • @ThatJewishFamily
      @ThatJewishFamily  9 місяців тому

      Yes :) Thank you!

    • @michellelansky4490
      @michellelansky4490 9 місяців тому +2

      According to most authorities the bride doesn't need to cover her hair until the next day as it's only intimacy that ensures the fact that the marriage is complete......some authorities disagree so depending on family custom you will see some Jewish brides cover their hair from after the seclusion room and even some from the beginning of the wedding.

  • @Raffi_A
    @Raffi_A 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing this. May I ask what you were singing at the end and its significance? Does every groom sing at that point?

  • @user-lq9es6wm9s
    @user-lq9es6wm9s 9 місяців тому +1

    Mazal tov!!! Gorgeous wedding ❤

  • @Liviefan1
    @Liviefan1 9 місяців тому

    Weddings are so beautfiul! Congratulations! I know this sounds weird, but did you have to be careful when drinking the wine in your white dress? I'm asking cousin my (Orthodox Christian) said she and her husband had to practice a bunch to make sure he didn't dump wine down her dress. 😂

  • @cleojones228
    @cleojones228 9 місяців тому

    What a beautiful couple!

  • @ayeshakarbani5567
    @ayeshakarbani5567 9 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful wedding video! Do Jewish brides have to wear a wig on their wedding day or is covering the hair only after that day?

    • @ThatJewishFamily
      @ThatJewishFamily  9 місяців тому

      Most customs is the day after! This is my natural hair

  • @Xian-li5sn
    @Xian-li5sn 14 днів тому

    😍😍😍😍😍😍 beautiful couple 😊😊😊😊😊😊 noted to my dairy I already made plans I would like to have Jewish wedding too. God bless your unity. ❤

  • @rachelb6565
    @rachelb6565 9 місяців тому +3

    So beautiful!!

  • @auntielhandmade2099
    @auntielhandmade2099 9 місяців тому

    Mazel Tov. You are a beautiful couple. Long and happy life to you. My parents met August 31, got engaged November 12th and married January 10th. They were married 51 years when my father OBM passed away

  • @gloriouslyimperfect
    @gloriouslyimperfect 9 місяців тому +1

    When does it become required to cover your head? I’ve seen some women explain they covered their head in the seclusion room and others I’ve seen haven’t mentioned it.

  • @d.j.recchia5572
    @d.j.recchia5572 9 місяців тому

    What a beautiful couple ❤️

  • @reneeupdike2220
    @reneeupdike2220 8 місяців тому

    Beautiful!

  • @davidleavitt835
    @davidleavitt835 9 місяців тому

    Plain and simple Mazel Tov to you both!!

  • @estellabanks1889
    @estellabanks1889 8 місяців тому

    For the seven days after your wedding do you guys have to dress the way you dressed for your wedding?

  • @ariellaryner7740
    @ariellaryner7740 9 місяців тому +2

    Was your wedding here in Australia ? Or Sweden ?

  • @ErynM75
    @ErynM75 8 місяців тому

    Question: I have heard that once the couple has been alone after the ceremony, the bride is then required to cover her hair. Raizel, did you cover yours or did you wait until the next day? Also, in blindfolding Raizel, is this also symbolic of Jacob when he married Leah instead of Rachel? Thank you for your answer! Blessings!

  • @smileyone6186
    @smileyone6186 9 місяців тому

    That was simple beautiful and heart warming. I wish my entire family walked Torah from V’dor V’dor❤

  • @jhaimo9564
    @jhaimo9564 9 місяців тому

    What a beautiful ceremony . Do you go on a honeymoon after the wedding?

  • @angelaweglarska8428
    @angelaweglarska8428 8 місяців тому

    Beautiful wedding ❤️❤️❤️💐💐💐

  • @elizabethanderson3994
    @elizabethanderson3994 7 місяців тому

    Beautiful wedding.

  • @cherylgalleran6602
    @cherylgalleran6602 5 місяців тому

    I absolutely have been crying. The most beautiful wedding.
    Unfortunately I was born in a secular Jewish home. I say unfortunately only because I now am finding my way… home. My brother and his wife became (if you will) Orthodox a couple of years ago.
    I am just in my beginning stages to join them. If you have any suggestions. I would very much appreciate it.
    Love to you and your family ✡️

  • @DollyJohanne
    @DollyJohanne 9 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing ❤
    May I ask when the woman is covering her hair? I have heard that after the first time the couple is alone together the woman is covering, and that like Sephardi Jews is not alone after the ceremony and the woman is covering from the day after the wedding. If you celebrate 7 days is the woman covering from the second day? I am just curious here, and hope that is okay ❤
    Love and blessings from Johanne, Norway 🇳🇴

    • @ThatJewishFamily
      @ThatJewishFamily  9 місяців тому +1

      From the morning after the wedding!

    • @DollyJohanne
      @DollyJohanne 9 місяців тому

      @@ThatJewishFamily Thank you for taking the time to answer, and that is what I have learned about other "directions" also.
      Thanks again ♡

  • @kathym5307
    @kathym5307 8 місяців тому

    Beautiful.

  • @JewishKeto
    @JewishKeto 6 місяців тому

    Well explained. I met an incredible woman recently and I hope she’s the one.

  • @mmcqueen1998
    @mmcqueen1998 8 місяців тому

    Raizel was a stunning bride! Beautiful couple.

  • @anitabarone219
    @anitabarone219 9 місяців тому

    May Hashem continue to bless both of you and your family on both sides.

  • @JudyCotlar-dg8lf
    @JudyCotlar-dg8lf 9 місяців тому +1

    What a beautiful couple you are Mazel tov

  • @shainazion4073
    @shainazion4073 9 місяців тому +2

    Smashing the glass is Not about the destruction of the Temple. That's a falsehood. It was a German custom to keep the bad spirits away from the bride and groom on the day of the wedding. Rabbi Eliezer ben Natan of Mainz mentioned this in the medieval times, in 12th century.

    • @michellelansky4490
      @michellelansky4490 9 місяців тому

      It is fully acknowledged that breaking of the glass is zecher lchurban. Surely maybe the reason you give is a secondary reason but the fact that it's zecher lchurban is common knowledge.

  • @dnnrod1807
    @dnnrod1807 9 місяців тому

    Beautiful video. Wasn't Abraham the first Hebrew, (which I believe means to "cross over" not first Jew, the term Jewish didn't come till much later.....

  • @shaindystern1038
    @shaindystern1038 9 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful

  • @Angelinajolieshorts
    @Angelinajolieshorts 6 місяців тому

    Don't spread hate. Love is the besy religion ❤❤

  • @mindymindus35
    @mindymindus35 9 місяців тому +2

    Congratulations very beutiful 🎉

  • @suem6004
    @suem6004 9 місяців тому

    Happy anniversary. Is the wedding the first time you touch each other? Is the reception a time for singles even though separated 'future spouse shopping?' How does the reception end? Does the couple say? Or MC? A time limit? When does the bed chamber ritual happen?
    Our LDS engagements are similarly short. I met in person my suitor in early September. We were engaged end of September. Circumstances I could not see him until before my wedding. Married in sacred temple ceremony 3 months later. Still married 27 years though will say there will be hard patches ahead but stay committed to your contract or covenants even if you would not and time fixes things.

    • @lindaversil1121
      @lindaversil1121 9 місяців тому

      Reception not time for singles since they have to be researched before and the dates set up by a shadchan matchmaker. You can’t just meet randomly. The couple never touch til after they are married. There is usually a time limit when the band leaves and dinner is finished and people start to leave. There is no bed chamber ritual in Judaism.

    • @suem6004
      @suem6004 9 місяців тому

      @@lindaversil1121 Thanks a lot. I thought they said there was a bedchamber ritual that they went through. Oh well. Misheard

    • @lindaversil1121
      @lindaversil1121 9 місяців тому

      @@suem6004 I’ll listen again to see what they meant and get back to you

    • @lindaversil1121
      @lindaversil1121 9 місяців тому +1

      ⁠@@suem6004I listened again and there was no mention of a bed chamber. Maybe you meant the seclusion room where the couple eat their first meal together in privacy. They had been fasting all day and are starving. When they finish they go out to take pictures because now they are allowed to touch and afterwards they dance with everyone. No intimacy goes on in the seclusion room. There is no bed in there. Just a table and chairs to eat their dinner alone

    • @suem6004
      @suem6004 9 місяців тому +1

      @@lindaversil1121 Maybe that was it. From another video he mentioned and showed the bed chamber ritual for another couple. But maybe he meant seclusion room? I dont know

  • @user-ky8ym7le9m
    @user-ky8ym7le9m 9 місяців тому

    What’s the song at the end

  • @rosyhersh2307
    @rosyhersh2307 9 місяців тому +2

    ❤❤

  • @Username-alpha
    @Username-alpha 8 місяців тому

    The bride looks identical to her father ❤

  • @markmiyashiro
    @markmiyashiro 9 місяців тому

    Which hand and which finger do you place the ring

    • @chanabayla1823
      @chanabayla1823 3 місяці тому

      The index finger. It gets moved after. Customs on how vary

  • @ssanvi164
    @ssanvi164 6 місяців тому

    May I know where are you from please tell me

  • @droitjuriste6736
    @droitjuriste6736 Місяць тому

    I wish you good life ful of happiness

  • @gailcullinan349
    @gailcullinan349 9 місяців тому

    Was yours an arranged wedding only having met your spouse on a few occassions?

    • @Pureimagination200
      @Pureimagination200 9 місяців тому

      Arranged to meet then the couple takes it from there. Matchmaker gets $1500

  • @eyrusfeker4790
    @eyrusfeker4790 7 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @batyaseguin6307
    @batyaseguin6307 9 місяців тому

    Reading the book of Tehellim , is that for both of just the bride.

  • @jack-jr3lk
    @jack-jr3lk 9 місяців тому

    what is your rules, when are you allowed to have. a "good time" between wife and husband????

  • @teegee613
    @teegee613 9 місяців тому +2

    Mazel Tov!

  • @aatkaumme6144
    @aatkaumme6144 9 місяців тому

    Love it from Pakistan

  • @valerievancouver365
    @valerievancouver365 9 місяців тому

    I been following you for a month and first time I see your wedding. Love you. He is so sweet and nice man with beautiful eyes for his wife, she is extremely beautiful 😍 and now your 2 kids. Just one question: your wedding was in Australia 🇦🇺. I also see other flag ~ Ukraine 🇺🇦??? I know you travel all over and I love that. In 🇲🇽 🇲🇽 México city we have a big Jewish community ✡️ 🕍 🇮🇱 🕎 🔯 ❤❤🎉 shalom😊

  • @alexsanderawal5446
    @alexsanderawal5446 8 місяців тому +1

    💞.. . 😇👍👍

  • @susanfontaine5214
    @susanfontaine5214 9 місяців тому +2

    I find that dating for only 3 months literally unbelievable. Especially with added restrictions put on the couples. I just don’t see how you can possibly know someone that you are to spend the rest of your life with, well enough after 3 months. Also in non-Jewish weddings, one of the best and most emotional parts are when brides dance with their fathers. Calling dancing with the opposite sex, “intimate”, is beyond comprehension to me. Especially in front of a room full of people. Same with modesty clothing. Seems like lots of trust issues to me.

    • @Pureimagination200
      @Pureimagination200 9 місяців тому

      Jewish men can’t be trusted to not lust after women so they have to cover up and wear wigs. Educate yourself

    • @72586jejones
      @72586jejones 8 місяців тому

      It's truly all for appearances. You are correct. I understand protecting you reputation, but with so many witnesses, anyone who ensues anything is just a busy body at that point and that is on them.

  • @mariacasella6474
    @mariacasella6474 9 місяців тому

    Why are the men and women separated in the ceremony and reception?!Congrats to the Bride and Groom ✨❤️🥂

    • @chanabayla1823
      @chanabayla1823 3 місяці тому

      Modesty. Orthodox synagogues are also separate

  • @Pureimagination200
    @Pureimagination200 9 місяців тому

    I think I saw this couple on a reality show when they were looking for a spouse

  • @ineldafitte5797
    @ineldafitte5797 9 місяців тому

    nice