Our Chassidic Jewish Wedding EXPLAINED!

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  • @kathyshearer9853
    @kathyshearer9853 Рік тому +51

    Thank you so much for sharing and explaining. The Jewish customs are absolutely beautiful.

  • @gatataz333
    @gatataz333 Рік тому +25

    Girl, your smile not only lights up Dani’s eyes, but the entire room! What an absolutely BEAUTIFUL ceremony!

  • @bartlettje
    @bartlettje 11 місяців тому +5

    Every aspect of the wedding has such deep meaning....truly beautiful

  • @КсенияОсипова-ю2в

    when I doubt there's love, I rewatch your wedding.

  • @Balance_Reiki_SpiritualCoach
    @Balance_Reiki_SpiritualCoach Рік тому +13

    That’s beautiful. Thanks for sharing.
    Not being Jewish myself, my belief that I was already born with a whole soul. Marriage or no marriage - still my soul is complete ❤

  • @kimberlyhudson238
    @kimberlyhudson238 Рік тому +9

    Thank you for sharing your life with us! What a wonderful family!

  • @zakiyasmith5390
    @zakiyasmith5390 Рік тому +2

    The way you two look at each other is beautiful and amazing you see how much you adore and love each other

  • @bethannd9892
    @bethannd9892 Рік тому +18

    U2 were made for each other. Beautiful wedding dress, beautiful ceremony. Thank you for explaining it to us and sharing it with us. I’ve learned quite a bit from watching your channel. I think it’s important that we respect each other’s religions, cultures, belief, and you epitomize this. 8:57

  • @brandywineblogger1411
    @brandywineblogger1411 Рік тому +9

    I love this!
    If traditional weddings were as deeply spiritual, nurturing and as introspective as this, there would be fewer divorces.
    Mazel Tov!

  • @janetrasmason6549
    @janetrasmason6549 4 місяці тому +2

    As a Registered Nurse who specialized in doing high tech intravenous work in patients homes, part of the area I covered was Monsey NY. I made quite a few good friends and was privileged to attend a few bar mitzvahs, bat mitzvahs and weddings but I never understood as much about the weddings as I do now! Thank you so much for sharing your blessed wedding! Mazel Tov!!
    😊 In

  • @katetaumin7327
    @katetaumin7327 Рік тому +16

    What a beautiful wedding and gorgeous couple. We are more secular Jewish family and my wedding under chuppah was just few days after you, bring so many memories. Happy anniversary!

  • @mzoma4984
    @mzoma4984 Рік тому +5

    This is so rich in beauty, honor and family. ❤I absolutely love this and wish we all can be like this. Honoring God with everything. Thank you for sharing.

  • @SuddenUpdraft
    @SuddenUpdraft Рік тому

    I’m so jealous. What a beautiful wedding! How blessed you are with so much loving family. I wish you much happiness and many beautiful children.

  • @Realkimnorton
    @Realkimnorton Рік тому +2

    You both are an inspiration. ❤ Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @bubsodleson4109
    @bubsodleson4109 Рік тому +6

    Happy Anniversary! Wishing you many more years of love and happiness.

  • @andreacatzel8259
    @andreacatzel8259 Рік тому +4

    Mazeltov! What a beautiful couple! Wishing you many glorious years filled with love, tolerance, understanding and lots of nachas! ❤

  • @cindatelis
    @cindatelis Рік тому +1

    Why do I think I’ve seen this before? Why do I think you have children now? Why when the glass was broken I yelled ‘Mazel Tov!’ Sitting in my house by myself? What a beautiful day. Thank you for sharing with us. Many blessings. I met my husband 34 days before I married him. We are going on 17 years with 2 healthy, smart, beautiful, girls, thank G.od. We knew and we wanted a marriage, not a wedding, so we got married one day, and had a marriage ever since. We are blessed to have each other, not always easy, but ALWAYS worth it. ❤

  • @brycepardoe658
    @brycepardoe658 Рік тому +39

    The wall thing between the sexes in no way stops people from having fun. Such a beautiful culture.

    • @nadiadansani2139
      @nadiadansani2139 Рік тому +5

      I’m a Muslim, and once I first learned about this I really wanted to do it because our weddings are supposed to be separate as well

    • @brycepardoe658
      @brycepardoe658 Рік тому

      @@nadiadansani2139 Interesting!!!

    • @Pureimagination200
      @Pureimagination200 Рік тому +1

      I would love that since my Jewish husband flirts with other women

    • @Pureimagination200
      @Pureimagination200 Рік тому +1

      @@nadiadansani2139surprising how Jews, Christians and Muslims worship the same God

    • @sweetpea1989
      @sweetpea1989 Рік тому +2

      @@nadiadansani2139 isn’t a marriage about two people uniting? Why would you keep it separate then?

  • @crystalbluepersuasion3897
    @crystalbluepersuasion3897 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful wedding, and beautiful couple. This looked like so much fun! ❤

  • @TimetoTimetoTime
    @TimetoTimetoTime Рік тому +9

    Thank you both for sharing your own wedding story with the world. This type of video helps people with social anxiety attend events that are new or different to what they know.
    Could you share what an appropriate gift to give to the bride and groom on their wedding day would be, if any?

    • @chbb6554
      @chbb6554 Рік тому +2

      Most couples have typical wedding gift registries. Otherwise money is always welcome😊

    • @ThatJewishFamily
      @ThatJewishFamily  Рік тому +1

      Thank you! ❤ yes, a lot of couples have wedding registries or money is always a great one for a couple starting our life together!

  • @atlanticvegansurfer8144
    @atlanticvegansurfer8144 10 місяців тому

    Thank you both so very much for sharing your beautiful wedding . I want to wish you both a lifetime of blessings, Love , and happiness.

  • @absurdum-the-artist
    @absurdum-the-artist Рік тому +2

    So lovely, everyone is clearly having so much fun! ☺️

  • @Aqua56928
    @Aqua56928 Рік тому +1

    I just discovered your channel. I have learned so much.

  • @SarahsOctoberHome
    @SarahsOctoberHome Рік тому

    You both are so such a beautiful couple. Lovely wedding, and thank you for taking us along on your Beautiful Day.🫶🏻😍

  • @SevgiSezen
    @SevgiSezen Рік тому +4

    ❤ i cried ...
    May the Lord bless your family ❤

  • @FYPNLP
    @FYPNLP Рік тому +11

    Your wedding dress was exquisite.

  • @meripederson8379
    @meripederson8379 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful wedding with us again! You make such a wonderfully matched couple.

  • @shelleyshub3593
    @shelleyshub3593 Рік тому +2

    MAZALTOV! Beautiful wedding BH. May you both have an amazing life and a huge family IY”H.

  • @wendylnyc447
    @wendylnyc447 Рік тому +3

    What a beautiful simcha!! Raizel looks absolutely stunning. I would love to at some point of my life experience a Chabadnik wedding, & I still would like to experience going to the Rebbes Ohel

  • @janetlongislandsticher
    @janetlongislandsticher Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful wedding and Congratulations to more years to come.

  • @mommyteacher1238
    @mommyteacher1238 9 днів тому

    love this! I learned so much.

  • @donnaaustin8140
    @donnaaustin8140 Рік тому

    Beautiful wedding and traditions. I pray for many blessings on your family.🌿

  • @donnaperdue956
    @donnaperdue956 4 місяці тому

    What a Beautiful ceremony. Wish it was like this for everyone. Many blessings to you guys 😘

  • @Disneymumma
    @Disneymumma Рік тому +2

    May God contuiine to bless your union. Id love to see a video on how you have a continued happy marriage and relationship advice and also any tidbits on Jewish advice on marriage

  • @revgurley
    @revgurley Рік тому

    As a wedding officiant in the United States, I love this video. Congratulations and Best Wishes!

  • @jennic.548
    @jennic.548 Рік тому

    You both look so happy. Thank you for sharing.

  • @trinaking38
    @trinaking38 Рік тому +1

    Happy anniversary!!🎉🎊may your lives continue to be filled with love and happiness!

  • @lovethatdragon2984
    @lovethatdragon2984 Рік тому

    Happy Anniversary! What a beautiful wedding. Thank you for sharing such lovely memories with us.

  • @marytye8952
    @marytye8952 Рік тому +3

    What a beautiful bride and a beautiful couple you make congratulations here’s to a happy life

  • @rachelharvey1662
    @rachelharvey1662 Рік тому +5

    You are the most beautiful couple. Inside and out ❤

  • @Xian-li5sn
    @Xian-li5sn 6 місяців тому +1

    😍😍😍😍😍😍 beautiful couple 😊😊😊😊😊😊 noted to my dairy I already made plans I would like to have Jewish wedding too. God bless your unity. ❤

  • @bolaplenty1024
    @bolaplenty1024 Рік тому +3

    What a beautiful wedding video, thank you for sharing it with us!
    Question: was that Raizel's real hair?

    • @ThatJewishFamily
      @ThatJewishFamily  Рік тому +1

      Yes :) Thank you!

    • @michellelansky4490
      @michellelansky4490 Рік тому +2

      According to most authorities the bride doesn't need to cover her hair until the next day as it's only intimacy that ensures the fact that the marriage is complete......some authorities disagree so depending on family custom you will see some Jewish brides cover their hair from after the seclusion room and even some from the beginning of the wedding.

  • @Raffi_A
    @Raffi_A Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing this. May I ask what you were singing at the end and its significance? Does every groom sing at that point?

  • @evijade1
    @evijade1 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful wedding! Beautiful couple!

  • @auntielhandmade2099
    @auntielhandmade2099 Рік тому

    Mazel Tov. You are a beautiful couple. Long and happy life to you. My parents met August 31, got engaged November 12th and married January 10th. They were married 51 years when my father OBM passed away

  • @janicebannan8848
    @janicebannan8848 Рік тому +2

    What a beautiful day. Happy Anniversary 🎉🎉

  • @ariellaryner7740
    @ariellaryner7740 Рік тому +2

    Was your wedding here in Australia ? Or Sweden ?

  • @shainazion4073
    @shainazion4073 Рік тому +2

    Smashing the glass is Not about the destruction of the Temple. That's a falsehood. It was a German custom to keep the bad spirits away from the bride and groom on the day of the wedding. Rabbi Eliezer ben Natan of Mainz mentioned this in the medieval times, in 12th century.

    • @michellelansky4490
      @michellelansky4490 Рік тому +1

      It is fully acknowledged that breaking of the glass is zecher lchurban. Surely maybe the reason you give is a secondary reason but the fact that it's zecher lchurban is common knowledge.

    • @liz-cf2rv
      @liz-cf2rv 4 місяці тому

      Incorrect. It's for the destruction of the temple in Jerusalem

  • @thevictors.arriola4906
    @thevictors.arriola4906 11 місяців тому

    hello, from philippines. im so blessed by this video, thank you for sharing

  • @gloriouslyimperfect
    @gloriouslyimperfect Рік тому

    I love your love and thank you for sharing it and your beautiful family and culture with all of us.

  • @ayeshakarbani5567
    @ayeshakarbani5567 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful wedding video! Do Jewish brides have to wear a wig on their wedding day or is covering the hair only after that day?

    • @ThatJewishFamily
      @ThatJewishFamily  Рік тому

      Most customs is the day after! This is my natural hair

  • @andreamcdole6846
    @andreamcdole6846 Рік тому +1

    The way you look at each other ❤❤

  • @mmcqueen1998
    @mmcqueen1998 Рік тому +1

    Raizel was a stunning bride! Beautiful couple.

  • @gloriouslyimperfect
    @gloriouslyimperfect Рік тому +1

    When does it become required to cover your head? I’ve seen some women explain they covered their head in the seclusion room and others I’ve seen haven’t mentioned it.

  • @DollyJohanne
    @DollyJohanne Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing ❤
    May I ask when the woman is covering her hair? I have heard that after the first time the couple is alone together the woman is covering, and that like Sephardi Jews is not alone after the ceremony and the woman is covering from the day after the wedding. If you celebrate 7 days is the woman covering from the second day? I am just curious here, and hope that is okay ❤
    Love and blessings from Johanne, Norway 🇳🇴

    • @ThatJewishFamily
      @ThatJewishFamily  Рік тому +1

      From the morning after the wedding!

    • @DollyJohanne
      @DollyJohanne Рік тому

      @@ThatJewishFamily Thank you for taking the time to answer, and that is what I have learned about other "directions" also.
      Thanks again ♡

  • @vancewaldeck5826
    @vancewaldeck5826 Рік тому

    Stunning thank you for sharing

  • @JewishKeto
    @JewishKeto Рік тому

    Well explained. I met an incredible woman recently and I hope she’s the one.

  • @kathykramer3215
    @kathykramer3215 2 місяці тому

    Beautiful wedding, beautiful couple.

  • @cherylgalleran6602
    @cherylgalleran6602 Рік тому

    I absolutely have been crying. The most beautiful wedding.
    Unfortunately I was born in a secular Jewish home. I say unfortunately only because I now am finding my way… home. My brother and his wife became (if you will) Orthodox a couple of years ago.
    I am just in my beginning stages to join them. If you have any suggestions. I would very much appreciate it.
    Love to you and your family ✡️

  • @jennaross6654
    @jennaross6654 6 місяців тому

    Such a beautiful couple. Enjoyed watching this very much. Mazel Tov ♥️

  • @estellabanks1889
    @estellabanks1889 Рік тому

    For the seven days after your wedding do you guys have to dress the way you dressed for your wedding?

  • @kristentherese9313
    @kristentherese9313 Рік тому +5

    Thank you for sharing your beautiful ceremony. As a Christian, I love to understand the ways of Jewish faith, as are my Christian roots.

  • @ErynM75
    @ErynM75 Рік тому

    Question: I have heard that once the couple has been alone after the ceremony, the bride is then required to cover her hair. Raizel, did you cover yours or did you wait until the next day? Also, in blindfolding Raizel, is this also symbolic of Jacob when he married Leah instead of Rachel? Thank you for your answer! Blessings!

  • @antoinettejohnson8295
    @antoinettejohnson8295 Рік тому

    Thank you very much for the explanation !

  • @KimtheElder
    @KimtheElder Рік тому

    Tears during the blessings over bride and groom 🤍🤍🤍🤍🕊️

  • @yosefzohori8462
    @yosefzohori8462 8 днів тому +1

    According to the Jewish religion, trans people can get married? (without bottom surgery/ after bottom surgery?). I'm not trans myself, but as a queer religious Jew, I'm asking for my community.

  • @dnnrod1807
    @dnnrod1807 Рік тому

    Beautiful video. Wasn't Abraham the first Hebrew, (which I believe means to "cross over" not first Jew, the term Jewish didn't come till much later.....

  • @Angelinajolieshorts
    @Angelinajolieshorts Рік тому +1

    Don't spread hate. Love is the besy religion ❤❤

  • @jack-jr3lk
    @jack-jr3lk Рік тому

    what is your rules, when are you allowed to have. a "good time" between wife and husband????

  • @anitabarone219
    @anitabarone219 Рік тому

    May Hashem continue to bless both of you and your family on both sides.

  • @BrodyGrantFan1
    @BrodyGrantFan1 Рік тому

    Weddings are so beautfiul! Congratulations! I know this sounds weird, but did you have to be careful when drinking the wine in your white dress? I'm asking cousin my (Orthodox Christian) said she and her husband had to practice a bunch to make sure he didn't dump wine down her dress. 😂

  • @rachelb6565
    @rachelb6565 Рік тому +3

    So beautiful!!

  • @hopeoswald3448
    @hopeoswald3448 Рік тому

    So sweet. Love it

  • @jhaimo9564
    @jhaimo9564 Рік тому

    What a beautiful ceremony . Do you go on a honeymoon after the wedding?

  • @user-lq9es6wm9s
    @user-lq9es6wm9s Рік тому +1

    Mazal tov!!! Gorgeous wedding ❤

  • @markmiyashiro
    @markmiyashiro Рік тому

    Which hand and which finger do you place the ring

    • @chanabayla1823
      @chanabayla1823 9 місяців тому

      The index finger. It gets moved after. Customs on how vary

  • @itsacarolbthing5221
    @itsacarolbthing5221 Рік тому

    It looks blissful!

  • @smileyone6186
    @smileyone6186 Рік тому

    That was simple beautiful and heart warming. I wish my entire family walked Torah from V’dor V’dor❤

  • @susanfontaine5214
    @susanfontaine5214 Рік тому +2

    I find that dating for only 3 months literally unbelievable. Especially with added restrictions put on the couples. I just don’t see how you can possibly know someone that you are to spend the rest of your life with, well enough after 3 months. Also in non-Jewish weddings, one of the best and most emotional parts are when brides dance with their fathers. Calling dancing with the opposite sex, “intimate”, is beyond comprehension to me. Especially in front of a room full of people. Same with modesty clothing. Seems like lots of trust issues to me.

    • @Pureimagination200
      @Pureimagination200 Рік тому

      Jewish men can’t be trusted to not lust after women so they have to cover up and wear wigs. Educate yourself

    • @72586jejones
      @72586jejones Рік тому

      It's truly all for appearances. You are correct. I understand protecting you reputation, but with so many witnesses, anyone who ensues anything is just a busy body at that point and that is on them.

  • @cleojones228
    @cleojones228 Рік тому

    What a beautiful couple!

  • @M313-u8d
    @M313-u8d Рік тому

    What’s the song at the end

  • @gailcullinan
    @gailcullinan Рік тому

    Was yours an arranged wedding only having met your spouse on a few occassions?

    • @Pureimagination200
      @Pureimagination200 Рік тому

      Arranged to meet then the couple takes it from there. Matchmaker gets $1500

  • @elizabethanderson3994
    @elizabethanderson3994 Рік тому

    Beautiful wedding.

  • @juniorcj82
    @juniorcj82 Рік тому

    Why don't men wear wedding rings? And along that line, why is the woman's ring put on her index finger only to be put on her ring finger after the fact?

    • @chanabayla1823
      @chanabayla1823 9 місяців тому

      Only in ultra orthodox do men not wear rings. We show our acceptance/commitment or seal the deal if u will by moving the ring after. Usually done after the ketubah. Depends of course on culture background etc..

  • @marybee4734
    @marybee4734 Рік тому

    THANK-YOU FOR SHARING YOUR BEAUTIFUL WEDDING WITH US YOU BOTH ARE A BEAUTIFUL COUPLE. WITH TWO BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN HAPPY ANNIVERSARY 🎉🎉🪻⚘️🌹💐❤🥰🦋🦋🦋🌻🌻🌻🐝

  • @ssanvi164
    @ssanvi164 Рік тому

    May I know where are you from please tell me

  • @JudyCotlar-dg8lf
    @JudyCotlar-dg8lf Рік тому +1

    What a beautiful couple you are Mazel tov

  • @batyaseguin6307
    @batyaseguin6307 Рік тому

    Reading the book of Tehellim , is that for both of just the bride.

  • @davidleavitt835
    @davidleavitt835 Рік тому

    Plain and simple Mazel Tov to you both!!

  • @tatyanadvoskina8862
    @tatyanadvoskina8862 Рік тому

    Does husband and wife dance together at all?

  • @angelaweglarska8428
    @angelaweglarska8428 Рік тому

    Beautiful wedding ❤️❤️❤️💐💐💐

  • @d.j.recchia5572
    @d.j.recchia5572 Рік тому

    What a beautiful couple ❤️

  • @mindymindus35
    @mindymindus35 Рік тому +2

    Congratulations very beutiful 🎉

  • @mariacasella6474
    @mariacasella6474 Рік тому

    Why are the men and women separated in the ceremony and reception?!Congrats to the Bride and Groom ✨❤️🥂

    • @chanabayla1823
      @chanabayla1823 9 місяців тому

      Modesty. Orthodox synagogues are also separate

  • @suem6004
    @suem6004 Рік тому

    Happy anniversary. Is the wedding the first time you touch each other? Is the reception a time for singles even though separated 'future spouse shopping?' How does the reception end? Does the couple say? Or MC? A time limit? When does the bed chamber ritual happen?
    Our LDS engagements are similarly short. I met in person my suitor in early September. We were engaged end of September. Circumstances I could not see him until before my wedding. Married in sacred temple ceremony 3 months later. Still married 27 years though will say there will be hard patches ahead but stay committed to your contract or covenants even if you would not and time fixes things.

    • @lindaversil1121
      @lindaversil1121 Рік тому

      Reception not time for singles since they have to be researched before and the dates set up by a shadchan matchmaker. You can’t just meet randomly. The couple never touch til after they are married. There is usually a time limit when the band leaves and dinner is finished and people start to leave. There is no bed chamber ritual in Judaism.

    • @suem6004
      @suem6004 Рік тому

      @@lindaversil1121 Thanks a lot. I thought they said there was a bedchamber ritual that they went through. Oh well. Misheard

    • @lindaversil1121
      @lindaversil1121 Рік тому

      @@suem6004 I’ll listen again to see what they meant and get back to you

    • @lindaversil1121
      @lindaversil1121 Рік тому +2

      ⁠@@suem6004I listened again and there was no mention of a bed chamber. Maybe you meant the seclusion room where the couple eat their first meal together in privacy. They had been fasting all day and are starving. When they finish they go out to take pictures because now they are allowed to touch and afterwards they dance with everyone. No intimacy goes on in the seclusion room. There is no bed in there. Just a table and chairs to eat their dinner alone

    • @suem6004
      @suem6004 Рік тому +1

      @@lindaversil1121 Maybe that was it. From another video he mentioned and showed the bed chamber ritual for another couple. But maybe he meant seclusion room? I dont know

  • @mubasharali8213
    @mubasharali8213 3 місяці тому

    Counis marriage with out ?

  • @kathym5307
    @kathym5307 Рік тому

    Beautiful.

  • @JanaKankova-bi7xe
    @JanaKankova-bi7xe 6 місяців тому

    Hodne stesti v celem zivote

  • @Username-alpha
    @Username-alpha Рік тому

    The bride looks identical to her father ❤

  • @TaanayeSikhosana
    @TaanayeSikhosana Рік тому

    You 2 are beautiful, i pray you are safe after today's attacks. Praying for the nation of Israel ❤