We were in London today at an art exhibition. The city was alive and buzzing with crowds out shopping, dining and generally enjoying the sights. What was pleasantly noticeable was the high number of IR couples made up of bwwm all happily going about their business. This trend, i believe, will continue to grow because there is a genuine shift in perception that love between humans sees no skin colour. Keep up the good work and stay safe🥰
BW ....... you would be very surprised how many WM will date you . But like she says , you have to show that you are available to it . Just that smile is most of the times what will open the door .
Great points as always. Can so relate to this. I was out with my cousins and my brother and some of his friends a few years back. We decided to try something new and went salsa dancing. I didn't know what I was doing but I was up and ready to go. Asking questions and at least attempting the steps. My cousin and her friend, sat with their arms crossed and looked as If they were in an intense conversation. The balance of the night they didn't dance once. When we got back to my brother's house, my cousin and her friends both stating "No one asked us to dance" My brothers response was "You both looked like you were plotting a take over of the enemy. Arms crossed and looking disappointed to be there. I wouldn't approach ya'll and I know u" Being clear and self aware is key. I was open to dating men of all races to increase the opportunity to find the standard of man that I wanted with many options and possibilities. Date a man because he is the one for you not because what people will think or judge you or because you think white is better than black. Date a man who touches your soul and rises to your standard. Real black men will not judge you for dating a good man black, white or otherwise.
Great advice! You are so beautiful, sis. My biggest advice is stay away from yt guys socialized in the blk community/blk culture with lots of blk male friends 🙅🏽♀️ RUN!!
Amanda i think your comment,at the end, that bw should not worry about what bm might think about them dating wm they must put themselves first is really salient. Thank goodness the barriers & taboo that prevented IR between bw/wm are down and it is now open to all those that wish to find their own contentment. It’s good to know we are 66.66%of the way through winter😀stay warm with love from your friends in the uk🏴
As a man. I wouldn't approach a woman if she didn't show some type of interest in me. If she looks mean or not looking my way I think that's giving off vibes she's not interested. And I'm not a rude a$$hole who will walk up to her and start a conversation with her when she's not giving off the right vibes. (Sometimes people just want to be left alone.) She needs to be smiling while looking my way to signal to me that she's approachable.
All your opinions are the opinions of people who don't get constantly badgered when out on the town. I'm married, and when I discuss this with my wife she says constantly be hit on or having strange men she doesn't know come up and talk to her is annoying. You wouldn't get this because it doesn't happen to you. You guys undervalue what it means to have peace and quiet because you get to choose, for the most part, when you get it.
As a black man i want thank you 🙏🏾 truly by being courageous and wise by just giving GREAT ADVICE! I truly want any of my sistas to live their best lives with whom makes them happy! Relationship and dating takes working on yourself man or woman.
Aww thanks so much DB! This really warms my heart. I try as best I can to share my limited and specific perspective(s) without sowing more division. Your support means more than you may know. 💕❤️
I hear that often on this channel from my male viewers and I always want to know how can black women do this? What would be your suggestion besides wearing a neon flashing shirt that says I’m open to dating white men? Lol. Thanks for commenting! Be well. ✨💕
Bw are women just like all other women. When you treat us like we aren't that is where thr attitude comes from. If you notice, Italian men don't have these issues with bw. Because they don't pretend we are foreign species.
I would date a black woman in a second. They are so beautiful. There's just this aura and charm that I find so magnetic and very endearing. I have had a few crushes. Lol, maybe someday I hope.
Hi loves! I hope you enjoy tonight's video. Please watch until the end so that there are NO misinterpretations. Sending love and light your way. And WARMTH if you are living in a cold region like me! 💖💕
Hi Jeff! Good to hear from you. From my experience as someone who has predominantly dated white men, I OFTEN get black women who ask me "how" as if I cracked some code lol. It really isn't until the last few years when I moved to a predominantly white area (for better or worse) that I stopped getting that question. I think a lot of black women are just under the impression that white men do not want them in any substantial way (beyond just sex) and then there are just many black women who aren't interested in dating outside of their race. I hope that answers your question! Overall, I think many women (black women especially) find it challenging to find a good man regardless of race.
I honestly think it’s a “grass is greener” situation because I know many black men who would say that black women are not wife material hence why black men are seemingly (I don’t know whether or not it’s true statistics wise) dating white/Hispanic/Asian women more. But who knows? 🤷🏾♀️💕
Well I think this is a very important distinction you're making here Jeff. African women versus African-American women (which I am) are likely going to have different expectations and standards due to cultural differences. I'm sure there are also many differences that come in to play when you are speaking of Black Brits and Black Americans. So much nuance!
Congratulations on reaching 700 subbies, way to go my friend 🎉🎉!!! I had to laugh at the first point you made Amanda, because I put on a mean face anytime a guy approaches, and then I wonder why I'm single🙈....and excellent ending point, being honest to the reasons why you truly want to be in a relationship with White Men is essential to protecting ourselves from getting into the same toxic, struggle love relationships that we had with Black Men. Great video Amanda, thank you for sharing as always my friend ❤️. Take care and God bless 🤗💕🙏🏾.
Thank you Johnnel! I’m so excited the channel is growing and so thankful you’re still on this journey with me. I’m glad I’m not the only one with the mean mug when out in public lol. Sending so much love and light to you my friend! 💕❤️
I just found your channel...YAY!!! So...I think I'm going to be a bing watcher!! 👍👍❤️❤️ I'll say that being approachable is big time important. Also ladies, don't be afraid to approach WM. Sometimes we are shy or stand offish...sometimes all it takes is a smile and a hi 😊
Aww yay! I'm so happy you've stumbled across my content. Welcome to the community, Ken. It's a really warm, safe space. And thanks for sharing these tips as well. You're a gem!
It’s so important because even if you don’t leave with a person you still took yourself out and treated yourself! I actually went to a salsa class last night and would also highly recommend those for meeting people! I met tons of new people.
Such a nice girl and such a black queen. All my life I dreamt to date a black girl. But in the Country (Republic of Georgia Eastern Europe) where I am living in my youth ages, we had no black community. Therefore I tied my life with the perfect local girl; we are family now. I wish my only son of 7 will date and marry such a beautiful girl as you are. My country was colony of Russia more than 200 years and Russians called us Georgians blackassed, so I fully understand all black communities around the world. But love is just loving and there is no colour for it
Hello Amanda, I have crush on my shy coworker and believe he secretly has one on me as well. For instance, whenever I run into him. or pass, he sometimes walks go the opposite direction to avoid me. When I say hi or wave, he gets scared or intimidated by me or acts strange or weird I only talk to him a few times, like a bit of talk about the job, so I don't know him well to assume anything. In addition, when he knowns I am not paying attention to him, I can feel his stares sometimes; he makes it widely known in watching me, and other times, he pretends not to be. Finally, the other day almost everywhere I was working was also magically there. Practically like he was stalking me. To end, I thought about asking him out for coffee or smile even more and been approachable, but I assumed to give him signals that I was least attracted to him. So far as right now, I don't know what to do. Suppose you have good advice or suggestions, or followers because I will definitely appreciate it.
Christina, thank you for taking the time to comment. My advice would be to do what you feel is appropriate. If you truly believe he may be interested in you, then of course make yourself more approachable, but also engage him in conversation and also ask him for a cup of coffee or out for a meal. A lot of men really do appreciate when women do this and as I've said so many times before taking the lead initially doesn't mean that you have to take the lead every step of the way after that. I am wishing you the best of luck Christina! Keep me updated.
I have the same issue as well😢. He keeps giving me mixed emotions. Today he’s all lovey dovey, the next day he gives me the cold shoulder like he has never seen me at all. I have been engaging, talking to him etc but it’s stressing me out.
Would Miss Amanda have any advice for a Senior gentleman who has a strong attraction to Senior Black women? I know Most factors would be the same, regardless of age, but it "seems" so much more prevalent and "accepted" with younger folks as opposed to us Boomers (I'm turning 70 later this month.....YIKES!), and yah, I can see why the IR dating sites may be my best bet but I'd Love to have some alternate options IN PERSON!
I would recommend online dating but I would also recommend getting out and about as much as possible! Go to social gatherings, workshops, classes, parks, libraries. I always encourage people to live their lives authentically and prioritize your pleasures and passions and those who align with those things will show up! Congrats on the birthday. It’s a blessing to age.✨💕
Just an additional note: Speaking as one of the white guys, we are particularly dense when it comes to breaking the ice. If you are attracted to a white guy, you need to make your interest almost painfully obvious. Don't worry about being overbearing. Anything short of walking straight up to a random dude and making physical contact with him beyond shaking hands is a green light. This is especially the case when you are in public and you see a guy you are attracted to but don't know him at all. Just walking by him to try to get him to glance your way and coax him into making a move isn't even close to enough. Example: I dated one black girl who came straight up to me at a mall and just smiled at me and told me she thought I was attractive and wondered if I would meet her for drinks just to get to know each other. I was instantly flattered and pleasantly surprised because I had never experienced that. Unfortunately she didn't want anything serious so it didn't last super long, but it still got us to that first date. If you break the ice, I guarantee you will be surprised with the results.
I wouldn't look at it in this way because realistically, you don't know if her friends would be jealous. Think of it on the flipside. There are women who could approach a friend of yours and ask for his number and if you are uninterested in her you wouldn't be jealous. Besides, most people who are true friends like to hype their friends up and support them instead of wallow in jealousy.
I don’t doubt that’s the case but more and more are starting to open up! In general, while there’s nothing wrong with preferences I hope we all practice character over color. Be well!
We were in London today at an art exhibition. The city was alive and buzzing with crowds out shopping, dining and generally enjoying the sights. What was pleasantly noticeable was the high number of IR couples made up of bwwm all happily going about their business. This trend, i believe, will continue to grow because there is a genuine shift in perception that love between humans sees no skin colour. Keep up the good work and stay safe🥰
Aww yay! I cannot wait until it's my turn to take a stroll through London! Hoping that happens in 2022. Be well.
BW ....... you would be very surprised how many WM will date you . But like she says , you have to show that you are available to it . Just that smile is most of the times what will open the door .
Great points as always. Can so relate to this.
I was out with my cousins and my brother and some of his friends a few years back. We decided to try something new and went salsa dancing. I didn't know what I was doing but I was up and ready to go. Asking questions and at least attempting the steps. My cousin and her friend, sat with their arms crossed and looked as If they were in an intense conversation. The balance of the night they didn't dance once.
When we got back to my brother's house, my cousin and her friends both stating "No one asked us to dance"
My brothers response was "You both looked like you were plotting a take over of the enemy. Arms crossed and looking disappointed to be there. I wouldn't approach ya'll and I know u"
Being clear and self aware is key.
I was open to dating men of all races to increase the opportunity to find the standard of man that I wanted with many options and possibilities.
Date a man because he is the one for you not because what people will think or judge you or because you think white is better than black. Date a man who touches your soul and rises to your standard. Real black men will not judge you for dating a good man black, white or otherwise.
Thank you as always for sharing your insight and experience Carla! You have really lived so much life. I think YOU need a channel my dear. 💕❤️
Great advice! You are so beautiful, sis.
My biggest advice is stay away from yt guys socialized in the blk community/blk culture with lots of blk male friends 🙅🏽♀️ RUN!!
Thank you so much for your compliment and taking the time to watch and comment. Be well!
Amanda i think your comment,at the end, that bw should not worry about what bm might think about them dating wm they must put themselves first is really salient. Thank goodness the barriers & taboo that prevented IR between bw/wm are down and it is now open to all those that wish to find their own contentment. It’s good to know we are 66.66%of the way through winter😀stay warm with love from your friends in the uk🏴
Thank you for your ever beautiful insight! And yes, that percentage is comforting haha! Best wishes to you and yours. 💕❤️
@@AmandaAwakens thank you
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽BW put YOU first!
Please and thank you!!!! 💕❤️💕❤️
As a man.
I wouldn't approach a woman if she didn't show some type of interest in me. If she looks mean or not looking my way I think that's giving off vibes she's not interested. And I'm not a rude a$$hole who will walk up to her and start a conversation with her when she's not giving off the right vibes. (Sometimes people just want to be left alone.) She needs to be smiling while looking my way to signal to me that she's approachable.
Honestly you should take the chance and say hello.
if you try you didn't lose anything
If u can't start "small talk" then u are missing out
All your opinions are the opinions of people who don't get constantly badgered when out on the town.
I'm married, and when I discuss this with my wife she says constantly be hit on or having strange men she doesn't know come up and talk to her is annoying.
You wouldn't get this because it doesn't happen to you. You guys undervalue what it means to have peace and quiet because you get to choose, for the most part, when you get it.
@@capicityforgood258 if u are married so what was the essence of your first comment. You sound like an attention seeker! Bye!✌️
I also hate this level up to get a wm notion. Level up for yourself and you will most likely attract a leveled up partner
As a black man i want thank you 🙏🏾 truly by being courageous and wise by just giving GREAT ADVICE! I truly want any of my sistas to live their best lives with whom makes them happy! Relationship and dating takes working on yourself man or woman.
Aww thanks so much DB! This really warms my heart. I try as best I can to share my limited and specific perspective(s) without sowing more division. Your support means more than you may know. 💕❤️
How come you don't care that we're leaving or already left?
I am guilty of RBF. These days I try to compose my face in a more neutral position with soft eyes. It's an effort though
She's right - most guys would be unwilling to chat to a woman who was in a group of her friends.
Thank you for sharing your insight!! Be well. ✨💕
I would love it if black women made it more obvious they are attracted
I hear that often on this channel from my male viewers and I always want to know how can black women do this? What would be your suggestion besides wearing a neon flashing shirt that says I’m open to dating white men? Lol. Thanks for commenting! Be well. ✨💕
@@AmandaAwakens I liked your ideas. I would say just smile and wave
Bw are women just like all other women. When you treat us like we aren't that is where thr attitude comes from. If you notice, Italian men don't have these issues with bw. Because they don't pretend we are foreign species.
I would date a black woman in a second. They are so beautiful. There's just this aura and charm that I find so magnetic and very endearing. I have had a few crushes. Lol, maybe someday I hope.
@@David-mn2mpkeep going! She's out there☺️!
Hi loves! I hope you enjoy tonight's video. Please watch until the end so that there are NO misinterpretations. Sending love and light your way. And WARMTH if you are living in a cold region like me! 💖💕
Hi Jeff! Good to hear from you. From my experience as someone who has predominantly dated white men, I OFTEN get black women who ask me "how" as if I cracked some code lol. It really isn't until the last few years when I moved to a predominantly white area (for better or worse) that I stopped getting that question. I think a lot of black women are just under the impression that white men do not want them in any substantial way (beyond just sex) and then there are just many black women who aren't interested in dating outside of their race. I hope that answers your question! Overall, I think many women (black women especially) find it challenging to find a good man regardless of race.
I honestly think it’s a “grass is greener” situation because I know many black men who would say that black women are not wife material hence why black men are seemingly (I don’t know whether or not it’s true statistics wise) dating white/Hispanic/Asian women more. But who knows? 🤷🏾♀️💕
Well I think this is a very important distinction you're making here Jeff. African women versus African-American women (which I am) are likely going to have different expectations and standards due to cultural differences. I'm sure there are also many differences that come in to play when you are speaking of Black Brits and Black Americans. So much nuance!
@@highlanderjeff2720 No it’s not hard to “land” a WM at all
Congratulations on reaching 700 subbies, way to go my friend 🎉🎉!!!
I had to laugh at the first point you made Amanda, because I put on a mean face anytime a guy approaches, and then I wonder why I'm single🙈....and excellent ending point, being honest to the reasons why you truly want to be in a relationship with White Men is essential to protecting ourselves from getting into the same toxic, struggle love relationships that we had with Black Men.
Great video Amanda, thank you for sharing as always my friend ❤️. Take care and God bless 🤗💕🙏🏾.
Thank you Johnnel! I’m so excited the channel is growing and so thankful you’re still on this journey with me. I’m glad I’m not the only one with the mean mug when out in public lol. Sending so much love and light to you my friend! 💕❤️
It is so good to see you are still uploading, always be motivated and optimistic ❤️
Thank you sooo much! And oh my goodness look at YOU! Over 6,000 subscribers? Congratulations times infinity!
These are power tips. 💯% pure gold. 🙏🏿🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much! I cannot WAIT to soon connect with you two. Sending much love and light your way.
You are absolutely gorgeous sweetheart 😍
I just found your channel...YAY!!! So...I think I'm going to be a bing watcher!!
👍👍❤️❤️
I'll say that being approachable is big time important. Also ladies, don't be afraid to approach WM. Sometimes we are shy or stand offish...sometimes all it takes is a smile and a hi 😊
Aww yay! I'm so happy you've stumbled across my content. Welcome to the community, Ken. It's a really warm, safe space. And thanks for sharing these tips as well. You're a gem!
I like these candid conversations. I’m gonna make it a point to take myself out to a happy hour once a week.
It’s so important because even if you don’t leave with a person you still took yourself out and treated yourself! I actually went to a salsa class last night and would also highly recommend those for meeting people! I met tons of new people.
Such a nice girl and such a black queen. All my life I dreamt to date a black girl. But in the Country (Republic of Georgia Eastern Europe) where I am living in my youth ages, we had no black community. Therefore I tied my life with the perfect local girl; we are family now. I wish my only son of 7 will date and marry such a beautiful girl as you are. My country was colony of Russia more than 200 years and Russians called us Georgians blackassed, so I fully understand all black communities around the world. But love is just loving and there is no colour for it
Thank you so much for sharing your story! You are so kind. Be well.
@@AmandaAwakens Thank you too. Be well, happy and always loved
Hello Amanda, I have crush on my shy coworker and believe he secretly has one on me as well. For instance, whenever I run into him. or pass, he sometimes walks go the opposite direction to avoid me. When I say hi or wave, he gets scared or intimidated by me or acts strange or weird I only talk to him a few times, like a bit of talk about the job, so I don't know him well to assume anything. In addition, when he knowns I am not paying attention to him, I can feel his stares sometimes; he makes it widely known in watching me, and other times, he pretends not to be. Finally, the other day almost everywhere I was working was also magically there. Practically like he was stalking me. To end, I thought about asking him out for coffee or smile even more and been approachable, but I assumed to give him signals that I was least attracted to him. So far as right now, I don't know what to do. Suppose you have good advice or suggestions, or followers because I will definitely appreciate it.
Christina, thank you for taking the time to comment. My advice would be to do what you feel is appropriate. If you truly believe he may be interested in you, then of course make yourself more approachable, but also engage him in conversation and also ask him for a cup of coffee or out for a meal. A lot of men really do appreciate when women do this and as I've said so many times before taking the lead initially doesn't mean that you have to take the lead every step of the way after that. I am wishing you the best of luck Christina! Keep me updated.
He's not interested. Move on.
I have the same issue as well😢. He keeps giving me mixed emotions. Today he’s all lovey dovey, the next day he gives me the cold shoulder like he has never seen me at all. I have been engaging, talking to him etc but it’s stressing me out.
Would Miss Amanda have any advice for a Senior gentleman who has a strong attraction to Senior Black women?
I know Most factors would be the same, regardless of age, but it "seems" so much more prevalent and "accepted" with younger folks as opposed to us Boomers (I'm turning 70 later this month.....YIKES!), and yah, I can see why the IR dating sites may be my best bet but I'd Love to have some alternate options IN PERSON!
I would recommend online dating but I would also recommend getting out and about as much as possible! Go to social gatherings, workshops, classes, parks, libraries. I always encourage people to live their lives authentically and prioritize your pleasures and passions and those who align with those things will show up! Congrats on the birthday. It’s a blessing to age.✨💕
I am 62 from Jamaica
no one wants to get shot down in front of others this go's for both sexes easier to approach some one when there alone
That's true, but sometimes, you have to strike while the iron is hot!
Just an additional note:
Speaking as one of the white guys, we are particularly dense when it comes to breaking the ice. If you are attracted to a white guy, you need to make your interest almost painfully obvious. Don't worry about being overbearing. Anything short of walking straight up to a random dude and making physical contact with him beyond shaking hands is a green light. This is especially the case when you are in public and you see a guy you are attracted to but don't know him at all. Just walking by him to try to get him to glance your way and coax him into making a move isn't even close to enough.
Example: I dated one black girl who came straight up to me at a mall and just smiled at me and told me she thought I was attractive and wondered if I would meet her for drinks just to get to know each other. I was instantly flattered and pleasantly surprised because I had never experienced that. Unfortunately she didn't want anything serious so it didn't last super long, but it still got us to that first date.
If you break the ice, I guarantee you will be surprised with the results.
If a guy can't make small talk or "break the ice" he is losing out. Women like men that can start or have a conversation with
African women are taking notes.
Thankyou lol
Thank you for watching and commenting! 💕❤️
I don't want to upset her friends with jealousy if I asked for her number
I wouldn't look at it in this way because realistically, you don't know if her friends would be jealous. Think of it on the flipside. There are women who could approach a friend of yours and ask for his number and if you are uninterested in her you wouldn't be jealous. Besides, most people who are true friends like to hype their friends up and support them instead of wallow in jealousy.
what's your i intro music?
Hi! It's called Milky Way Express by Lupus Nocte. Hope that helps!
Wm desire bw however BW seldom desire wm.
I don’t doubt that’s the case but more and more are starting to open up! In general, while there’s nothing wrong with preferences I hope we all practice character over color. Be well!
@@AmandaAwakensif people chose by character not color women would select Noble men and women and that doesn't happen.
Aint nobody checking for you. Least of all WM. Stop the cap.
lol as long as my man checks for me I’m good to go. Hoping you have love and light in your life as well. Take care! ✨
@thecollector6746 your a loser
Lol thats what u think. She is married to a white man. Tf