Ep 172: The Parent Paradox: Avoid 'Fix-It Mode' for Better Problem-Solving

Welcome to Episode 172 of Parenting With Impact with Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster! This week’s conversation features Elaine and Diane, speaking on how to avoid the “fix-it” mode that parents can easily fall into.
The sense of urgency in parenting often leads to reactive rather than creative problem-solving, posing unique challenges for both parents and children. Elaine and Diane, drawing from their personal experiences and insights, underscore the importance of recognizing and managing the signs of reactivity, such as hypervigilance or catastrophizing.
Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss effective problem-solving.
What To Expect This Week:
-As parents you must recognize when you are in a reactive state and make a conscious effort to shift towards a calmer mindset before addressing the issue at hand. This allows for more thoughtful and effective problem-solving.
-Practice pausing in interactions with your children to allow for reflection and emotional regulation. This space enables both parents and children to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively.
-Guide your children through moments of discomfort instead of immediately “rescuing” them. By helping them navigate challenging emotions, you empower them to develop emotional self-regulation skills for the future.
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