The #1 Thing Men Don't Understand About What Women Want

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My point in this video is that a lot of women want a certain kind of submissive sexual experience and they go looking for it in all the wrong places.
Some women cannot face the dark side of sexuality and get into tantra and sacred sexuality where they yearn to be "ravished" by the divine masculine who "holds space" for their experience of the divine feminine. They feel making it "sacred" makes it a valid desire since spirituality isn't dirty, shameful and wrong.
My only problem with this is it really overcomplicates the matter for men getting really convoluted advice from these spiritual teachers about how to "become consciousness" and "hold space" and "bring a woman into her feminine". This is really fancy words for the same old strong dominant male lead type that can be seen in every woman's romance novel.
It goes back to animal mating behavior: the woman wants the strongest possible guy she can get, whether that be in intelligence, physical strength or social skills so that she can pass on the strongest genes to her offspring. A lot of that psychology is at play during romance.
Even if a guy let's say uses a wheelchair due to a genetic disease, he could still have extremely strong social skills or "confidence". He would still be extremely attractive to women (Check out the youtube of squirmy and grubs).
A guy might be emotionally mature and this could be an attractive strength as well. Definitely is for me.
But yeah, many women crave this experience of being overpowered by masculine strength. Yet they don't know how to get it in a safe and controlled way. Like how they do it in the kink community with negotiation and consent. Or even straight up asking a guy for it.
Instead of speaking up about their desire, women try to bait a guy to instinctually do it by acting as "feminine" and passive as possible. This is the basis of a lot of dating advice for women.
A lot of women think they have to be submissive in their whole life to experience something they could have only in the bedroom. Conservative traditional anti feminist women come to mind. They could have both but they don't know that. (Some want it 24/7 but that is a small minority).
Anyway, guys should watch out for this in dating and take into account this may be an experience a woman is looking for but hasn't been able to see it clearly herself. Everyone is different, but as a guy you should start a discussion about it and you might be surprised to find she is more into it than you thought. Never assume, but awareness that this is something she is into could be key.