Actually it's a sad true about guys. Somehow it works in their brain that if you are nice, loving person with them, 100% they will leave you for a bich.
Yes, ladies, he is absolutely right. You are the prize. Let him chase and impress you. Let him earn and forever keep earning your love. Feminine women know their value and have high standards. Leave the man alone if he isn't meeting your needs and standards. You have to be logical, not emotional when it comes to your choice in partner. A man who truly loves you and is a alpha male... will step up to the plate. #NoStruggleLove2020
I don't understand why we need trics these days for love?? I wish I existed during our great grand parent's times coz all they had was pure love am sure
You're right, i'm tired of understanding stupid games and trics people are playing, i don't have time for that. I better be single and build an empire than having a stupid relationship with an imature man.
While I am practicing no contact I am watching your videos over and over again to keep myself focused.I am so much in love with him.Its so difficult but I wanna get what I deserve.
Alex I keep doing everything u said in your videos but I'm starting to think that when something is not meant to be,you cant change it whether you ignore,love yourself more,or be a challenge. Sure we can choose to not contact them anymore,but this is not gonna make a difference when the other person doesnt feel the same.
same I chose to not contact him anymore after I implied that my legs and home were closed until marriage..he never contacted me back,..and surely this Alex wouldnt have contacted the woman back either
Thank you Alex Now I am super happy with my boyfriend now. He loves me like never before. He treats me his priority and he is pleading me to have more dates with him. I am super excited for each upcoming moments of my life. I now have a good career and in a perfect relationship. I am using all your tips in my relationship. Now I exactly know how to push and pull. Now I exactly know how much gap my honey needs and how much I should step back and go on with the flow. Thank you so much.
Great advice Alex!! ❤️ It took 5 weeks for me to change the dynamic of my relationship. But I did it! I am the prize here, not him! I did not make the first step (I still haven’t) and now he is contacting me regularly. We’ll see what happens now & how far he will take “us”. Be strong ladies!! P.S. We need more LDR advice!
Sorry to break it to you but the majority of these "lost souls" are what can be found in the dating pool. If you are able to find the minority with pure decent hearts, good for you. But don't keep your hopes up lest you get disappointed
Nope. Find a guy who appreciates that you want to know if he’s satisfied in the relationship. If he thinks it’s “clingy” to make sure you’re what he wants; for get him. If you’re confident, you don’t stick around waiting for him to chase you, you go for it-just like with a getting a job or anything else. Who wants to stroke an ego all their life and by being distant so the man can feel like they “won” something everyday. Sharing vulnerability and your insecurities creates a bond. Telling them you feel safe to express yourself, is way better than acting like you’re untouchable and super confident. That shit seems fake. If they want a person who is always confident and sees themselves as some prize on a higher level- the guy should go for a dude (they never have a problem feeling like Gods gift). There are too many images of perfect women everywhere that men see multiple times a day not to have it effect us. Of course we wonder if we are enough-I think alarm bells should be sounded if you really do think you’re the best thing out there and always have confidence. Normal people doubt themselves, and I’d like to be with someone who lets me voice that doubt.
cant agree more, sometimes I feel the advice these dating coaches give is very contradicting, for example he(Alex) wants the women to be herself and then he tells them to not express how they feel when they actually want to. ( this is pretty much the exact opposite of " be yourself")its like "dnt be yrself"
Love your tips. Thank you for helping me to understand relationships with a man and how it works. Never thought of doing things this way. So use to telling a man how I truly feel. Don't like playing games.
First Move is always the guy if girls do it ur considered Cheap in asia and also its TRUE MEN VALUE CHALLENGE if ur easy to get then ur easy to Leave remember that Ladies👍👍👩🏽
I sure hope the man writes down what he thinks she will find fun and exciting. It is time the man worries about what he needs to do to keep her interested and make her want to commit.
I totaly agree Alex, men like to hunt.If a woman is needy in a relationship she pushes him away. Men like challanges, if not then is game over. Love yourself first ladies and put yourself on a pedistal ❤️💪
That is the very nature of lady Leo Besides her confidence and butiy Very easy for her to do ♌❤️🦁😻💋 Thank you your advices are very true and important 💙
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert 😍😍 we were just flirting than he stopped. Maybe he is just testing my boundries or i made something wrong. But i dont chase, i dont call or i dont text to him. Just busy with myself 🙏🙏🙏
It starts with liking yourself... if you like yourself you dobt need to ask silly questions. "Do you like me?" If you are happy and comfortable with yourself and you share your feelings and the man doesn't like it... DUMP HIM!! You will share your feelings and being your true authentic self staying true to yourself WITHOUT being needy. Your true authentic feelings is what will memorize even a Narcissist. You need to be excruciatingly deep for it to work on a narc though. Best stay away from narcissists. What ever the feelings are, happy or sad, angry or glad NEVER hold him accountable for it or blame him. Own them as a part of yourself that you are allowing and accepting as being there. Focus on you and your life and building a life you love 😊💖
Hi dear Sir Alex, how are u? Its been long time I commented on. I need ti share a lot to u.... 1. I was too much busy with my study and work.So in tha last 4 exam I have got prili chance. Then 1 written.... 2of the results yet not been published.most prbbly on October. I hv been asked for ViVa then I would get a Gvt job.InshaAllah. I follow ur advice in step of my life. Actually I am getting to be successful....everybody respect me still my father after my divorce...I m able to turn back to my journey within 7months.... Now good news, work opportunity start to come.... Alhamdulillah. There are a lot of gentleman before or newly introduced, all want to chase me....as I can build up a good personality Following Your Advice. Pray for me........ Thanks a lot dear Sir Alex. I really love (respect) you, Sallute Sir. You are The Best Teacher I surely believe and suggest all to visit ur chnnel
J.H.C C you should still be receptive to him. Be sweet and romantic when he does reach out. If you are very kind with him, he won’t notice he is the only one reaching out.
Ur words really make me feel that we women are so special for men. Brilliant work sir. Ur words really heal my heart whenever i feel low. Thanks a lot sir, luv from India🙏
Alex nice explanations to people. I dont think men should chase women trust me. Even women to chase men is not good this is my own thought on how men to chase women nice one sir.
Hi Alexa am from India, u r gave a very wonderful tips and tricks, pls do sujestion not to ask any questions eg why how like that, what way to deal with them in committing relationship.
Both guys and girls have this perspective of eachother making eachother think the grass is greener on the other side. We both try to manipulate eachother for power and control. Not for actual love.
Ignore them and treat them like shit, they'll love you forever!
nay rod So true 😊
nay rod you’re not wrong
Actually it's a sad true about guys. Somehow it works in their brain that if you are nice, loving person with them, 100% they will leave you for a bich.
But the guy whom i like is not a person who’s concerned if ignored by me😞
Hahaha! On point! I did that to a guy who was nasty to me and he spent the next 3 hours trying to chat me up.
My left ear is well-informed now
hahahahhahhha I taught it was only me :D
lmaooo same here
opossumprince lol oh ok so it’s not just me smh
opossumprince 😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂lmfao
Me too🤣
Yes, ladies, he is absolutely right. You are the prize. Let him chase and impress you. Let him earn and forever keep earning your love. Feminine women know their value and have high standards. Leave the man alone if he isn't meeting your needs and standards. You have to be logical, not emotional when it comes to your choice in partner. A man who truly loves you and is a alpha male... will step up to the plate. #NoStruggleLove2020
AS Damn, you’re already on 2020 huh, I love it.😂
Hmmm, you’re gonna like sheraseven1
Never contact the man.
Let him be the first to contact always.
Thats rude.
If we go by this rule boys will all give up.
Chase him first then leave him behind
That’s the key 👍🏻
Agree.. he chases back
had our first date yesterday. showed him what he is missing..now im in cold turkey mode. lets see if he will chase. if not damn im still fantastic.
Really??
So much ego and games I'm tired..I don't belong this generation
odel levi, i feel you!
Me too.just watching for the sake of curiosity.
odel levi right! 🤦🏾♀️
Neither do I... Feel exactly the same...
Highly agree.
I don't understand why we need trics these days for love?? I wish I existed during our great grand parent's times coz all they had was pure love am sure
You're right, i'm tired of understanding stupid games and trics people are playing, i don't have time for that. I better be single and build an empire than having a stupid relationship with an imature man.
Sooo true😢
sizakele makhalemela so true 🙌🙌
sizakele makhalemela I know!!!
I'm feeling you sis!!
Me: *stops texting man first*
Also me: *never gets texted by said man again*
Kosi Njoku Good for you! You stopped wasting timenonbabguy who wasn't invested in the first place! 💁🏻♀️
Kosi Njoku Good for you! You stopped wasting timenonbabguy who wasn't invested in the first place! 💁🏻♀️
😂😂😂
The accent is everything.
This really helped me a lot Alex. Thank you for making these videos. You explain it very well !
1. Do not do first step 2. Make this relationship special 3. Be a challenge / don't be needy
Did it work?
@@smileylol306 yees!
by a challenge close your legs and home before marriage , who cares if it works.,that way it be special with a marriage contract
Ladies this works!!!! my ex was hilariously stubborn and was never committing to me, I followed this and now he proposed me for marriage
While I am practicing no contact I am watching your videos over and over again to keep myself focused.I am so much in love with him.Its so difficult but I wanna get what I deserve.
Wonderful!
That French drives me crazy I love it
Alex I keep doing everything u said in your videos but I'm starting to think that when something is not meant to be,you cant change it whether you ignore,love yourself more,or be a challenge. Sure we can choose to not contact them anymore,but this is not gonna make a difference when the other person doesnt feel the same.
True
same I chose to not contact him anymore after I implied that my legs and home were closed until marriage..he never contacted me back,..and surely this Alex wouldnt have contacted the woman back either
Exactly ..he was chasing in beginning.. But when I got open with him.,he left
Same happened to me!!
Same here. He pursued me for awhile and once I got interested in him then he was ready to kick rocks. And did!! They are all idiots y’all🤨🤦🏽♀️🙄
Well most of em are anyway🤨
Then what to do to make it happen again
Very interesting. Day one begins .
am just here for your french accent inlove with it
Maxine Pascal lol me too!
Thank you Alex
Now I am super happy with my boyfriend now. He loves me like never before. He treats me his priority and he is pleading me to have more dates with him. I am super excited for each upcoming moments of my life.
I now have a good career and in a perfect relationship.
I am using all your tips in my relationship. Now I exactly know how to push and pull. Now I exactly know how much gap my honey needs and how much I should step back and go on with the flow.
Thank you so much.
Yes but the difference here s that you had to do all that for that did you do all that with comfort? That's the point
Just keep ur guard up. Man are sly❤❤❤
Hahaha Alex I love you ! You are so funny and the way you speak is so cute - and your advice is awesome - Love it!
Thank you! 😃
Great advice Alex!! ❤️
It took 5 weeks for me to change the dynamic of my relationship. But I did it! I am the prize here, not him! I did not make the first step (I still haven’t) and now he is contacting me regularly. We’ll see what happens now & how far he will take “us”. Be strong ladies!!
P.S. We need more LDR advice!
Do NOT "concern" yourself with their ANTICS/GAMES. They are LOST SOULS. HEARTLESS-LOVELESS- EMPTY.
Sorry to break it to you but the majority of these "lost souls" are what can be found in the dating pool. If you are able to find the minority with pure decent hearts, good for you. But don't keep your hopes up lest you get disappointed
Kkkkkk lol
Thank you, this video gave me the push I needed. I am not going to make any moves towards him ever again. And I'll update if it worked 😉
Hey let me know when it works
Lum B. just comment here when u got updates
I usually take his car keys and run.... he always gives chase
Hahaha
😀😁😂
🤣😂🤣😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🏻
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nope. Find a guy who appreciates that you want to know if he’s satisfied in the relationship. If he thinks it’s “clingy” to make sure you’re what he wants; for get him. If you’re confident, you don’t stick around waiting for him to chase you, you go for it-just like with a getting a job or anything else. Who wants to stroke an ego all their life and by being distant so the man can feel like they “won” something everyday. Sharing vulnerability and your insecurities creates a bond. Telling them you feel safe to express yourself, is way better than acting like you’re untouchable and super confident. That shit seems fake. If they want a person who is always confident and sees themselves as some prize on a higher level- the guy should go for a dude (they never have a problem feeling like Gods gift). There are too many images of perfect women everywhere that men see multiple times a day not to have it effect us. Of course we wonder if we are enough-I think alarm bells should be sounded if you really do think you’re the best thing out there and always have confidence. Normal people doubt themselves, and I’d like to be with someone who lets me voice that doubt.
cant agree more, sometimes I feel the advice these dating coaches give is very contradicting, for example he(Alex) wants the women to be herself and then he tells them to not express how they feel when they actually want to. ( this is pretty much the exact opposite of " be yourself")its like "dnt be yrself"
Indeed men should find other men because they can understand each other well 😂
Well said! 😌👍
Thanku, 4 answering my question
Love your tips. Thank you for helping me to understand relationships with a man and how it works. Never thought of doing things this way. So use to telling a man how I truly feel. Don't like playing games.
First Move is always the guy if girls do it ur considered Cheap in asia and also its TRUE MEN VALUE CHALLENGE if ur easy to get then ur easy to Leave remember that Ladies👍👍👩🏽
I like your advice. Thank you.
You are welcome!
Every man is different
I sure hope the man writes down what he thinks she will find fun and exciting. It is time the man worries about what he needs to do to keep her interested and make her want to commit.
Your message is awesome. Will be trying your tips. Thanks
I totaly agree Alex, men like to hunt.If a woman is needy in a relationship she pushes him away. Men like challanges, if not then is game over. Love yourself first ladies and put yourself on a pedistal ❤️💪
Thank you. You’re great! I love your accent too.
That is the very nature of lady Leo
Besides her confidence and butiy
Very easy for her to do ♌❤️🦁😻💋
Thank you your advices are very true and important 💙
my left ear enjoyed this
Loooolllllll
God bless you I will never chase no matter how I may like someone 💝💝💝💒💒💒😃😃😃🎈🎈🎈
💞 I just love everything you bring to the table. Thanks Alex👏👏👏👏
Brilliant techniques... Hatsoff dear
You are amazing Alex
Love your accent❤
Right at the moment, you are helping me stay strong Alex 😘😘😘😘 thanks a lot 🤗🤗🤗
So glad!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert 😍😍 we were just flirting than he stopped. Maybe he is just testing my boundries or i made something wrong. But i dont chase, i dont call or i dont text to him. Just busy with myself 🙏🙏🙏
Subscribing for the accent and view. The fact that you're empowering women is just a bonus 😉
Great and important tips..... 👍👍👍
Many many thanks
Good advice
Thank You Alex
Thank you so much Alex.... Send Love from Indonesia 😘
It starts with liking yourself... if you like yourself you dobt need to ask silly questions. "Do you like me?"
If you are happy and comfortable with yourself and you share your feelings and the man doesn't like it... DUMP HIM!! You will share your feelings and being your true authentic self staying true to yourself WITHOUT being needy.
Your true authentic feelings is what will memorize even a Narcissist. You need to be excruciatingly deep for it to work on a narc though. Best stay away from narcissists.
What ever the feelings are, happy or sad, angry or glad NEVER hold him accountable for it or blame him. Own them as a part of yourself that you are allowing and accepting as being there.
Focus on you and your life and building a life you love 😊💖
Hi dear Sir Alex, how are u?
Its been long time I commented on.
I need ti share a lot to u....
1. I was too much busy with my study and work.So in tha last 4 exam I have got prili chance.
Then 1 written....
2of the results yet not been published.most prbbly on October.
I hv been asked for ViVa then I would get a Gvt job.InshaAllah.
I follow ur advice in step of my life.
Actually I am getting to be successful....everybody respect me still my father after my divorce...I m able to turn back to my journey within 7months....
Now good news, work opportunity start to come....
Alhamdulillah.
There are a lot of gentleman before or newly introduced, all want to chase me....as I can build up a good personality Following Your Advice.
Pray for me........
Thanks a lot dear Sir Alex.
I really love (respect) you, Sallute Sir.
You are The Best Teacher I surely believe and suggest all to visit ur chnnel
Very helpful, thank you
Thank you Alex ♥ from India
Thankyou so much,You are so smart,And i needed that,Keep it coming.....
Thanks Alex for your tips. From Namibia
Amazing, amazing, amazing....thank you!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Great Advice...Thanks.
Guess I can’t ever be myself!
right lol
Read my 1st comment above
Truee
True
But then he will say."I feel Im the only one reaching out" "or chasing you"
So wht to do then?
Because it works. No matter how much a man complains about you not reaching out, he will value more and continue to chase you.
Say . you have to earn it
J.H.C C you should still be receptive to him. Be sweet and romantic when he does reach out. If you are very kind with him, he won’t notice he is the only one reaching out.
J.H.C C say no man ever
J.H.C C responde with “ oh baby I’m sorry , Ive just been so busy! I’ll make it up to you. I promise!” And keep on ignoring them ☺️
I LOVE IT, IT DOES WORK, THANK YOU!!!
Really? Wow.. I am trying the same, hope will work. It's to hard, but I promise to myself that if he don't love me is better to find out
I really enjoyed that video and it made so much sense to me!!! Thank you
Luv ur french accent❤️
Ur words really make me feel that we women are so special for men. Brilliant work sir. Ur words really heal my heart whenever i feel low.
Thanks a lot sir, luv from India🙏
Thanks Alex. Loved this video ❤️
This is so helpful! Thank you!!!
Can't wait for the new book. Will the love code be available as a Kindle Ebook? Love your energy and your channel! Thanks Coach Alex!!
Alex nice explanations to people. I dont think men should chase women trust me. Even women to chase men is not good this is my own thought on how men to chase women nice one sir.
I will try sir
Please do
Thank you Alex😙
I will try this
Thankyou for this Alex 😊
thanks for this video am now undergo in this process....
Alex i was awaiting for the video...thanks u said prefect things no more complication..summary is imp for busy us..love u
Hi Alexa am from India, u r gave a very wonderful tips and tricks, pls do sujestion not to ask any questions eg why how like that, what way to deal with them in committing relationship.
Bonjour Alexandre, the psychological of a person sttate taking subsgtances
Thank you every so much Alex
*man:* do you want to come home with me?
*me:* to do what? 🙊
em no sorry next time, I have a kick boxing lesson tomorrow morning 😉
🤣🤣🤣
You are so sweet with your accent !😊😊❤️❤️
Thanks Alex,I'm in the same situation now...and am about to do what you say it from now thanks once again
Merci Alex
Great video thank u ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
Thanks so much 😄😄😄i. I love you ❤️
You're welcome 😊
Waoh Alex you always ablsng to us, may God kp gvng you wisdom that comes frm above.
Thanku.really it will work out
Thank you! ❤️
Great advice. Thank you!😎
Thank you...
Love your background
Thank you.
Private coaching session.?
Thank you!
Alex merci beaucoup ❣❣❣
What if a guy watch this and them when the girl use the trick he says ohh are u using that trick😂😂😂😂
Hahahahahah so funny read what I wrote
😂😂
👏👏👏👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 I will try Alex . I ALWAYS END UP TEXTING FIRST . WHEN WILL I LEARN 😏🤔
You can do it!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert Merci...😍❤Alex!!! U are the treasure of my heart .
Merci alex
Thank you♥️
Interesting. Thank you 🙏 🙃
Sending my love to you and your French accent, Alex ❤️
My eyes are open...but not sure I want all that being chased down...makes me think I am prey... And we all know what happens to the prey.
Solid & true!
Thank you so much 🙏God Bless you 💋
Starts 2:20
Thanks broer
Thank you i want that
This video is the best one you got .haha. thank you
Where is your book
Both guys and girls have this perspective of eachother making eachother think the grass is greener on the other side. We both try to manipulate eachother for power and control. Not for actual love.
Coach Alex not doing the first step does that mean we should never ever in future plan activity from our side , but to leave it on the man's side???