AMBERLYNN DOESN'T THINK SHE'S A SPOILED BRAT

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  • @Glad2behere
    @Glad2behere Рік тому +878

    I think she has temper tantrums and NOT panic attacks.

    • @alim3611
      @alim3611 Рік тому +107

      no doubt ..there is an issue of arrested development

    • @skepticalxombie3546
      @skepticalxombie3546 Рік тому +11

      Agree

    • @beckyobeck
      @beckyobeck Рік тому +9

      This!!!

    • @kiwi_crush_
      @kiwi_crush_ Рік тому +82

      Like Tom Harlock once said "if the shoes fit, buy a cardigan to match"💁‍♀️

    • @southparkfirefly
      @southparkfirefly Рік тому +62

      Same. As someone who HAS Panic attacks how she uses Anxiety and her excuse of a panic attack annoys the crap out of me because of that shit eating grin she has when she talks about it.

  • @Citykitty23
    @Citykitty23 Рік тому +1219

    The more she opens her mouth the more she proves that she is in NO way even close to ready for WLS.

    • @gillysoose
      @gillysoose Рік тому +18

      PREACH

    • @art.by.c.e5936
      @art.by.c.e5936 Рік тому +53

      Not 1% of my being believes she will get approved for or have WLS surgery 🤷‍♀️

    • @Izzyfbr
      @Izzyfbr Рік тому +55

      That’s what i kept thinking!! From an outsider pov, everything she says it’s so clearly disordered and she doesn’t even realize. What i hate the most is how smug she still is while also being oh so clueless!! She doesn’t have any self awareness at all cause if it were me I’d be embarrassed

    • @desubysnusnu
      @desubysnusnu Рік тому

      Everytime she opens her mouth it's either food going in or a bullsht coming out

    • @troy7070
      @troy7070 Рік тому +14

      She's so completely deluted in her thinking, with this and every aspect of her life.

  • @jessicar2609
    @jessicar2609 Рік тому +430

    Amberlynn needing an arbitrary date for her surgery to have any motivation to continue losing weight and not binging is the exact reason she needs to wait.

    • @peppermakrel5123
      @peppermakrel5123 Рік тому +29

      This is too true, without the exact date, it is impossible for her to have any sense of motivation for the coming year, which makes it obvious she’s not ready.. just the fact that she thinks talking to the surgeon will sway him into booking her in faster is delusional, as if her “story” and situation is any different than other people with the same struggles.

    • @jessiehermit9503
      @jessiehermit9503 Рік тому +2

      Yes, she needs to weight. 😅😅😅😅

  • @Mfchannel1001
    @Mfchannel1001 Рік тому +1104

    I just don’t get why she takes her OCPD diagnosis so seriously yet is magically cured of her BED because she thinks/declared herself not a binge eater. It just seems like she chooses which diagnosis is worth her time/convenient for her and it’s frustrating

    • @theshadowfax239
      @theshadowfax239 Рік тому +119

      She takes her ocpd diagnosis seriously because she can use it as an excuse for her terrible behavior and multiple failures. She's ignoring her BED because it's preventing her from getting her instant gratification and is making her actually have to work on something.

    • @absolutelyridiculous6743
      @absolutelyridiculous6743 Рік тому +53

      This is EXACTLY why, other than her cancer diagnosis, I don't truly believe any of her other diagnosis.

    • @animatorstanley
      @animatorstanley Рік тому +29

      Whatever fits her narrative at the time.

    • @AKbaby89
      @AKbaby89 Рік тому +34

      ​@@absolutelyridiculous6743 same here. She has claimed to have several conditions that I myself have, and it's just annoying to watch her use it for an excuse and spread misinformation and that's it

    • @southparkfirefly
      @southparkfirefly Рік тому +1

      Now you're getting it.

  • @AChickAndADuck
    @AChickAndADuck Рік тому +171

    Amber: BUT I WANT IT NOW!
    Amber 2 days later: Why do people think I’m acting spoiled?

  • @95mudshovel
    @95mudshovel Рік тому +936

    being a spoiled brat is like having a concussion: if you are/have it, you are often the last one to realize it.

  • @katiem6620
    @katiem6620 Рік тому +598

    She wishes she could talk to the surgeon because she thinks she'd be able to manipulate him into working on her lmfao

    • @ubtv9671
      @ubtv9671 Рік тому +38

      Bingo! 💯🎯

    • @Vibra_Linda444
      @Vibra_Linda444 Рік тому +58

      That's what I was thinking. She'd be like "don't you want to help me save my life?!"

    • @jordanashby8918
      @jordanashby8918 Рік тому +53

      literally when I watched that part of the video I said out loud “I just wish I could talk to the surgeon myself so I could manipulate him into giving me what I want 👺”

    • @frenchtoastemergency
      @frenchtoastemergency Рік тому +18

      Delusionallynn

    • @elisea.740
      @elisea.740 Рік тому +2

      Oh, for sure!

  • @legendoffupa
    @legendoffupa Рік тому +423

    "I love the people in my life and I don't want them to be hurt"
    Well too bad that didn't count for Becky. Total hypocrite. 🤷‍♂️

    • @Margatatials
      @Margatatials Рік тому +54

      When Becky didn't want to be on camera she didn't have a choice.

    • @HollyG1903
      @HollyG1903 Рік тому +80

      People = Jade. I don't know why she won't just admit she has no friends. I don't have friends either but I'm not making up imaginary folks.

    • @tressamarie6509
      @tressamarie6509 Рік тому +35

      @@HollyG1903 honestly. She doesn’t have family nearby, doesn’t have old high school friends nearby, doesn’t work, doesn’t go to school, doesn’t participate in community activities or sports or church or ANYTHING where she might have met some people to be friends with! Who does she think she’s fooling? The only faces she sees regularly in person are wifey and the door dash driver.

    • @Nat-hl8cq
      @Nat-hl8cq Рік тому +16

      @@HollyG1903 yeah, it's hard making friends as an adult. Especially if you're an introvert!

    • @SassyFraspondue
      @SassyFraspondue Рік тому +5

      Amber has no one not even her family wants her she has no friends

  • @TBone4983
    @TBone4983 Рік тому +224

    "She thirsted over Blake Lively and weirdly kept calling her Daddy." She sure did, Bestie. That was certainly a thing that happened.

    • @yuki97kira
      @yuki97kira Рік тому +7

      @@applemorz some??? I dont think she have any screws left

  • @xghoulishgalx
    @xghoulishgalx Рік тому +176

    What we're not hearing from Amber is that she's going to eat well, drink more water, take her medication and vitamins, exercise, and go to therapy until (and after) she is approved for WLS.
    That speaks volumes.

    • @clioalexandra6485
      @clioalexandra6485 Рік тому +21

      THIS!!! I don't get how this one year pause was such a huge setback for her. This gives her more time to prepare for the surgery... Like once it's done, it's done, babe. You HAVE to stick to the diets after that (or you could seriously die). Why not take the opportunity to practice being consistent and healthy for a year, so that once you get it, you know that you can stick to what is required of you. Even after all this she still doesn't realize what is required for WLS.

    • @itsmeyagorl
      @itsmeyagorl Рік тому +1

      Not to mention the after care of surgery…. There are more surgeries if she does by chance lose some weight or busts her stitches or whatever. She is insufferable.

    • @anitasmith4559
      @anitasmith4559 Рік тому +3

      Yes! This is where the rubber meets the road. Amber is a bit of a magical thinker. She seems to have little sense of what it would take for her to change.

  • @tressamarie6509
    @tressamarie6509 Рік тому +571

    Nobody told her that surgery was just around the corner. She told herself that and now she’s pissed things aren’t the way she wanted so she threw a fit.
    Edit: The “nail” was never right there, Amber! Nobody was just about to hand it to you to hang up your metaphorical picture. So delusional!!

    • @kiwi_crush_
      @kiwi_crush_ Рік тому +1

      Fr! And her saying that the surgery or "nail" is the one thing she needed to hang the picture is SO OUT OF TOUCH. She truly does think that her mental health will be fixed from the surgery. 🙄

    • @allier1867
      @allier1867 Рік тому +56

      exactly! she deluded herself that "dieting" for a measly 2 months would grant here a surgery meanwhile she's been destroying her body for decades

    • @Margatatials
      @Margatatials Рік тому +1

      She needs to get off her ass and walk to the hardware store.

    • @CitizenCardigan
      @CitizenCardigan Рік тому +9

      But that picture has been waiting for a nail for almost a year

    • @AChickAndADuck
      @AChickAndADuck Рік тому +10

      Yeah, it really sounds like she heard what she wanted to hear

  • @Gr8lakesmama
    @Gr8lakesmama Рік тому +579

    She talks of OCPD as if it can’t be treated. Go 👏 to 👏 therapy 👏 honey. Stop using this as an excuse. Sincerely, CBT.

    • @ADKnowsBest
      @ADKnowsBest Рік тому +51

      I was going to say this. I have had crippling anxiety since childhood and OCPD and both are under control thanks to routines and therapy.

    • @90geekgirl06
      @90geekgirl06 Рік тому +30

      you're being so dispectful u guize, she's been going for a year and she's past that point in her life now /s

    • @ChronicallyAmused
      @ChronicallyAmused Рік тому +4

      Exactly 💯

    • @graciejolin
      @graciejolin Рік тому +8

      ERP saved my life.

    • @obvlit2560
      @obvlit2560 Рік тому +32

      She talks about ALL her illnesses like that. She's said she "literally can't control" certain symptoms, and that BED (when she said she had it) was an incurable thing she'd be dealing with for the rest of her life. She gets the diagnosis and that's it for her.

  • @kaitlynyang6731
    @kaitlynyang6731 Рік тому +129

    If she gets a date she'll only use it as an excuse. "Eh, it's like a whole year until WLS."..."I've still got 9 months, it's fine."... "It's 6 months til WLS, I can always lose the weight before then."
    It's a HORRIBLE idea to give her a date.

  • @wendyfound89elbees
    @wendyfound89elbees Рік тому +106

    I think it would be helpful for her to learn to "sit with the discomfort" of not knowing her surgery date.

    • @wasnlos2676
      @wasnlos2676 Рік тому +1

      Lol yeah I wonder what happened to that strategy cause it had potential

  • @stevierysie
    @stevierysie Рік тому +216

    She is a narcissist and she wants to be in control. That’s it.

  • @myqueerplantfamily
    @myqueerplantfamily Рік тому +494

    The idea that WLS is the only thing that can possibly help her is worrisome to me. She keeps saying WLS is a tool, but her thinking still says it’s her magic bullet.

    • @frenchtoastemergency
      @frenchtoastemergency Рік тому +48

      “My life is going to change! It’s going to save my life” is NOT the way to get an entire bariatric practice to change its requirements and procedure.

    • @jessicar2609
      @jessicar2609 Рік тому +25

      Yeah her saying that she always plateaus when losing weight like she won't also have that issue if she doesn't change her eating habits and outlook on losing weight now. The surgery doesn't make you lose weight without effort that she doesn't seem to want to put in.

    • @stard9864
      @stard9864 Рік тому +14

      I dont understand why she thinks being a karen/ being aggressive means caring.
      Caring means putting the work in is what saving your life is, surgery will help the process but it won't be a magic pill. It will not cure her problems...and she ignores that in the comments.
      It's unbelievable.
      She doesnt have the right mentality to have this surgery because she could seriously hurt herself after it.

    • @daphne10120
      @daphne10120 Рік тому +1

      100%. I’ve been saying this for a while.

    • @goodgirlkitten
      @goodgirlkitten Рік тому +11

      "if I could just know the date my life was going to change..."
      Sounds a lot like if I knew the date I could binge until the last minute then try to lose the needed weight.

  • @freyjascats
    @freyjascats Рік тому +84

    I'm not saying this to be rude, but she needs other stuff in her life. She is too focused on this because she has no distractions and too much time to think.

    • @AlienZizi
      @AlienZizi Рік тому +8

      real. she needs to stop thinking and start DOING. just DO the things you are told and dont even think about them. but thats hard to do for someone with no job, no big hobbies, no family, no friends... no distractions.
      i kind of think that if she replaced food addiction with something like a video game it could "help" in this situation.... anything is better than this

  • @hiccupingduck749
    @hiccupingduck749 Рік тому +128

    The more she talks, the more she proves that she's not ready for WLS

  • @KimmieG87
    @KimmieG87 Рік тому +336

    Imagine the surgeon having appointments booked out for 10 months to a year with surgeries that are not 100% for sure happening. Booking surgeries for patients that have not followed all the specific criteria and not having room for the patients who have done the work. I doesn’t work that way. And again the math is not mathing lol

    • @gillysoose
      @gillysoose Рік тому +47

      THIS RIGHT HERE. This tantrum is really about her wanting the prize and not wanting to put in the work.

    • @MissKneesocks_
      @MissKneesocks_ Рік тому +22

      she is a narcissist so i really think that she wants it done this way for her because she thinks that she is the exception and special, when really its very impractical and self absorbed

    • @grrt722
      @grrt722 Рік тому +22

      She wants the b-roll footage of marking down a calander. Her dopamine hit. She can remake it over and over and feel accomplished while still ordering a Sonic Icee.

    • @BeezoPeena
      @BeezoPeena Рік тому +6

      She’s sooo entitled!

    • @jenniferdaulby5519
      @jenniferdaulby5519 Рік тому +15

      That would be like an Obstetrician telling you your baby is due on 5/9 & booking the L&D Suite, expecting you to go into spontaneous labour on that day (chances are you won't). It just doesn't work like that.

  • @mckenna_L_
    @mckenna_L_ Рік тому +75

    “I would turn to food all the time” GIRL THATS WHY YOU HAVE TO WAIT A YEAR WTF?!?

  • @xtinkerbellax3
    @xtinkerbellax3 Рік тому +228

    The way she just constantly blames her audience for everything kills me.

  • @Conformist138
    @Conformist138 Рік тому +470

    "If I have this, then I'll be happy" "If this happens, then I'll be successful." "When this is possible, I'll feel better."
    Once I really started to hear how externalized Amber's entire sense of reality is, it became impossible to ignore. Her state of being is *always* contingent on someone/something else. Everything from advice from her own doctor, to random commenters, to whether or not she has a specific date to fixate on, dictates her whole life. Gorl seems to have nothing within her to the point that I'm pretty sure that if I poked her with a pin, you'd hear the squeal of escaping air, and she'd fully deflate.

    • @elisea.740
      @elisea.740 Рік тому +8

      💯

    • @newsundaymorning
      @newsundaymorning Рік тому +10

      Active passivity

    • @skinsey85
      @skinsey85 Рік тому +20

      Such an accurate observation. I think a lot of that has to do with how terminally online she is. It's deluded her sense of reality and even identity.

    • @gillysoose
      @gillysoose Рік тому +8

      @@gsesquire3441this is an interesting concept. Like I wonder if this is a product of narcissism or just her stunted maturity? She does tend to externalize her circumstances.

    • @AChickAndADuck
      @AChickAndADuck Рік тому +2

      This is the best comment! SO ACCURATE.

  • @allier1867
    @allier1867 Рік тому +490

    the thing is the medical professionals JUST proved their point. she's not ready and she thinks she's entitled to a surgery by throwing money at them, aka a spoiled brat. does she not realize that a hospital/ medical center REFUSING money means it's a big thing??

    • @mel_moon18
      @mel_moon18 Рік тому +41

      Wdym? She was self pay 💰?! She got the fast pass at the hospital 😡 yall fatphobic and dehumanizeen her

    • @swagballin653
      @swagballin653 Рік тому +8

      exactly!!!!

    • @skinlesschickennugget2411
      @skinlesschickennugget2411 Рік тому +7

      BIIIG????

    • @allier1867
      @allier1867 Рік тому +2

      @@skinlesschickennugget2411 haha yes! She is a huge liability

  • @THICCpikachu
    @THICCpikachu Рік тому +70

    "I understand that's how that works." Bestie clearly you do NOT. Trying to manipulate a bariatric surgeon... 🙄

  • @mello_apispondue7108
    @mello_apispondue7108 Рік тому +166

    She thinks WLS is a quick fix. The professionals recognize that (if her story is true), and it's the exact reason they won't approve it.

    • @PresleysMom504
      @PresleysMom504 Рік тому +10

      Exactly! Can you imagine being so egotistical that you think you should be allowed the chance to convince the surgeon that all of his coworkers are wrong about you?
      It reminds me of recently when my abusive ex (a clinical/real extreme narcissist) was in jail (for the second time after beating one of his GFs) and multiple exes showed up to speak so he would be denied bond and he went to stomp off all furious and then turned around and said he wanted to talk to the judge IN PRIVATE. 🤣

    • @tonichan89
      @tonichan89 10 місяців тому +2

      @@PresleysMom504 This has major "My *father* will hear about this!!" vibes 🤣

    • @PresleysMom504
      @PresleysMom504 10 місяців тому +1

      @@tonichan89 that’s what’s so funny! His father doesn’t even speak to him. He has nobody and nothing. That’s how screwed up he is in the head, he shouldn’t even have such a puffed up sense of self yet here we are!

  • @kiwi_crush_
    @kiwi_crush_ Рік тому +141

    Trying my best to not get distracted by Judy's overwhelming cutness😭❤️

    • @ZacharyMichael
      @ZacharyMichael  Рік тому +49

      feel free to get overwhelmed by judy :)

    • @emmacottaa
      @emmacottaa Рік тому +1

      @@ZacharyMichael she is such a baddie😭❤️🥹🥹🫶🏽

  • @ashleymcallister375
    @ashleymcallister375 Рік тому +85

    Is she really trying to gaslight her doctors into giving her a surgery date? LMAO I honestly didn't think she could get worse.

    • @colonless7512
      @colonless7512 Рік тому +6

      It’s like setting a delivery date for your baby before you get knocked up

  • @peri779
    @peri779 Рік тому +34

    When she holds the phone below her chesticle I feel like I'm looking up at Mount Stupid. God this is getting too unbearable.

    • @yijordan316
      @yijordan316 Рік тому

      🫢😂

    • @Captain_AAhab
      @Captain_AAhab Рік тому +1

      I’m getting Trash Heap from Fraggle Rock vibes

    • @mel_moon18
      @mel_moon18 Рік тому +1

      She looks massive 😭 there’s no way shes loosing any kind of weight.

  • @Mindyournachos
    @Mindyournachos Рік тому +77

    A year can go by so quickly, but to someone who does absolutely nothing but stay home, it's probably the longest year of their life.

    • @blakethekilljoy
      @blakethekilljoy Рік тому +6

      Liderallyyyyy. Whenever I have 3 days off work I go “hmm, well I guess this is the time to finally be lazy and recharge” but by the 2nd day I crawl out with no energy and the grossest must you’ve ever smelled like “it’sssss been eighty four yearsssssss…”

    • @Kerasilas
      @Kerasilas Рік тому +1

      Agreed. Even just 2 days of completely doing nothing but lounging around in my room feels forever sometimes. Can't imagine having a life like that, no matter the money.

    • @frogmella
      @frogmella Рік тому

      Girl needs a job or a hobby.

    • @anitasmith4559
      @anitasmith4559 Рік тому +1

      @@gsesquire3441 I felt certain that Amber would take up daily walks. She doesn't move much.

  • @to1620
    @to1620 Рік тому +105

    “I feel like if I have that date, I can touch it-I CAN TASTE IT…”
    Amber literally relates everything back to food.

  • @justjamie1715
    @justjamie1715 Рік тому +40

    She sees the surgery as the goal instead of seeing being healthy as a goal. All of this word salad is mental gymnastics imo.

  • @rpstgag
    @rpstgag Рік тому +75

    I get the impression that ALR believes that, if only she could talk to the surgeon one-on-one, she'd be able to convince them that she should actually be fast tracked for surgery. This is why interdisciplinary consults exist for high risk interventions, bb girl: not only does it give us a more holistic assessment of patient readiness, but it inoculates against any one healthcare clinician falling prey to manipulation of their judgement.

    • @hcapps7769
      @hcapps7769 Рік тому +10

      I also believe that 100%. Gives major "I want so speak to the manager" vibes.

  • @Vibra_Linda444
    @Vibra_Linda444 Рік тому +84

    I also, just my opinion/conspiracy/allegedly, think she wanted to have a fall wedding with wifey which is why she wanted a summer surgery and that's where the true disappointment came from. It was just very wierd to me how she emphasized she wanted this done by summer. And she's talked about her fall wedding with the emerald color theme before, while with wifey.

    • @untalented7880
      @untalented7880 Рік тому +19

      Also I think Wifey wants to leave Kentucky

  • @neverthewrongone
    @neverthewrongone Рік тому +49

    She’s so delusional and listening to her talk is torture at this point

  • @pattermoon1
    @pattermoon1 Рік тому +167

    she needs to rillize that professionals have decided that she has at least a YEARS worth of work to do, unlike other patients, because she is at LEAST THAT FAR from fucking GETTING IT. She's just not getting the answer she wants so it's their fault. She has to do the same work whether she gets surgery or not!!!!! etc!!!

    • @jennthibault4883
      @jennthibault4883 Рік тому +7

      Amen!

    • @Lou-gr6lc
      @Lou-gr6lc Рік тому +17

      After being told constantly about professionals giving her diagnoses that she wants, and her doctor shopping, it’s refreshing to see a whole team of professionals stand up to her and say it how it is.

    • @depressedcockroach4045
      @depressedcockroach4045 Рік тому

      Well the entire point of having this surgery is to have it quickly in a way, she doesnt have years anymore. Of course maybe now it is too late for her, but hopefully not and she gets it.

    • @oren1305
      @oren1305 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@depressedcockroach4045But to go in for WLS, like Tammy, she had to change her diet and lose weight on her own. Amber's doctors possible aren't approving the surgery because she won't change. I hope she gets it, I don't want to see her die like this, I just don't think rushing it will save her.

  • @abbyonwheels
    @abbyonwheels Рік тому +99

    Okay I have a bone to pick this time. I also have OCD. I get that needing a date to feel satisfied can be symptomatic of OCD; I had a similar thing with 'needing' to replace a bookshelf when I moved. The most common and affective treatment for OCD is exposure therapy of many different kinds. With my bookshelf, I challenged myself and sat in that uncomfortable feeling for over 6 months before I let myself change it. This is EXACTLY what Amber needs to do. She literally cannot stand being even a little uncomfortable and if she just gives in to every compulsion she has she will never get any better. Mental health 'diagnoses' are not just excuses for your problems girl. Literally, just like everything else in your life, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

    • @kiwi_crush_
      @kiwi_crush_ Рік тому +20

      So much for "sitting with discomfort" lol. Clearly our gorl needs to practice more.

    • @tressamarie6509
      @tressamarie6509 Рік тому

      She expects to be allowed to be the exception to the rule when it isn’t actually necessary because she has a mental health condition. That’s not how accommodation works, Amber.

    • @aprilg4116
      @aprilg4116 Рік тому +5

      Yes, she could afford ERP therapy no problem if she really wanted to. Meanwhile, I have OCD(not the "just right" kind, I'm not bothered by things being off or unorganized, i have many other themes) and can't afford it wishing I desperately could after my whole life of struggling. I try and use tips from OCD pages and ERP therapist accounts online. But she clearly doesn't want to help herself when she can use it as an excuse

    • @thelastoffluffs6755
      @thelastoffluffs6755 Рік тому +5

      she's not sitting in discomfort, she's just sitting 🙇🏻‍♀️

    • @CatswithGuns1
      @CatswithGuns1 Рік тому +2

      I would think she’s always sitting in discomfort when she’s on the toilet graphic I know lol 😆

  • @shannonmoynihan8957
    @shannonmoynihan8957 Рік тому +121

    I think it's interesting that she wants to be able to meet with the weight loss surgeon to plead her case so she does not have to wait12 months like everybody else. The thing is, just like lawyers strongly recommend certain clients not take the stand and speak on their own behalf, I think her therapist should advise Amber Lynn against speaking to the surgeon herself. I think this "in demand" weight loss surgeon would know within five minutes of chatting with her that she doesn't want to change her habits, but to have surgery so she doesn't have to put in any more effort.

    • @peggypate2969
      @peggypate2969 Рік тому +4

      All the Dr has to see some of her vids and realize she's far from ready

  • @hannahmacdonald9040
    @hannahmacdonald9040 Рік тому +75

    The fact she states that she can't stick to anything for more than 2 weeks, then states food has been 'taken' from her shows she will fail if she gets wls. After surgery those issues won't just disappear because her stomach is smaller, it's a mental game. The more she talks about it the more apparent it becomes that she thinks wls is a quick fix that doesn't require a lifetime of work to maintain.

    • @__kayliedawn6387
      @__kayliedawn6387 Рік тому +6

      Yeah when she said that I was like this is the whole reason why they want you to wait. They probably recognize that you can’t stick to anything for more than a couple of weeks and that’s not a good indicator that she’s ready for wls and cutting her relationship with food. It’s crazy how she fails to see that

    • @RavingKats
      @RavingKats 10 місяців тому +3

      It also indicates she does not in fact have OCPD

  • @jenniferann1830
    @jenniferann1830 Рік тому +44

    How entitled of her. I need a date set but I probably won't be able to not binge for a year. Lol you don't need a date when you haven't succeeded yet.

    • @jenniferann1830
      @jenniferann1830 Рік тому +1

      Ha! Continuing to watch and you call her entitled!!

  • @mysticmouse7673
    @mysticmouse7673 Рік тому +175

    Amber, if you pop in here, let me share a little nugget of fact with you. You said you seek instant gratification. You recognize that. Well, that's exactly what being a "spoiled brat" is all about. Also, ask your surgical team about the duodenal switch procedure. It has a better long term success rate than gastric sleeve.

    • @bees5755
      @bees5755 Рік тому +8

      Not many doctors do the duodenal switch anymore. I asked for it and they flat out said no lol she would def benefit more from the bypass then the sleeve though.

    • @mysticmouse7673
      @mysticmouse7673 Рік тому +2

      @@bees5755 Yes, she would, if they're not still doing the switch.

  • @moony-_-.
    @moony-_-. Рік тому +18

    she used her BED as an excuse for her behavior for YEARS all of a sudden when it's no longer convenient she never had a BED disorder??? PUHLEZZ

  • @crisy0728
    @crisy0728 Рік тому +83

    I really don’t believe she’s even seen a real psychiatrist or psychologist. Coming from someone who’s been actively going to therapy for a year now, you do not get diagnosed with something after one visit. You need repeated appointments with THE SAME provider for them to come to that diagnosis. Especially since so many of the mental health conditions can be mistaken for something else entirely with how similar symptoms can be.
    She needs to find a real mental health care team and stick with them.

    • @missybuchanan9631
      @missybuchanan9631 Рік тому +14

      I was diagnosed with OCD in an hour and a half appt, but I sought the discussion. I was doing research and the DSM-V fit me too closely. So little different. However, I don’t think she should have been diagnosed with bipolar and OCPD in that appt. I think those needed more attention. But then, we know that psychiatrist is a hack. Look what they did to Becky…

    • @SuperChatsRNotTips
      @SuperChatsRNotTips Рік тому +5

      She does that better health internet therapy over video chat

  • @bearpuns_
    @bearpuns_ Рік тому +65

    This girl will say “I haven’t been doing good” a thousand and one times, but says “the results came back really well.”
    Ma’am… the grammar isn’t grammaring.

  • @diamondblossom7
    @diamondblossom7 Рік тому +117

    As someone who was unable to finish high school and is also horrible at mathematics, even I can see inconsistencies in Amberlynn's stories.

    • @mel_moon18
      @mel_moon18 Рік тому +7

      Wdym? You calling her a lah? 😢thats fatphobic 💀

    • @dbcrew8290
      @dbcrew8290 Рік тому

      @@gsesquire3441 There’s normally a reason why someone struggles with accessing Maths- perhaps you have dyscalculia. Please look into it as it will help you understand that your brain processes Maths differently. X

  • @newsundaymorning
    @newsundaymorning Рік тому +24

    She realizes therapists are trained to see through this stuff right?

  • @ladydi-lynn
    @ladydi-lynn Рік тому +32

    The surgeon is the last step, after you have lost the required weight, after you get medical clearance from your primary care doctor, medical tests, specialty tests (heart, endoscopy, etc), therapist, Psychiatrist, Dietician and when all the clearances are done, you meet with the surgeon, they are the ones who make the decision regarding surgery! The people on 600 lb Life are required to meet a weight loss goal! Weight loss surgery is hard, your eating disorder does not go away!

  • @petty-davis
    @petty-davis Рік тому +62

    Girl just can't stand not getting her way. It's alarming to see in such a direct and obvious way like this.

  • @quinrosee
    @quinrosee Рік тому +60

    she only wants to talk to the surgeon to basically manipulate them into thinking she is completely healed of BED! what about those chocolate things that were sent to her in january? was that not a binge? i don’t believe it’s been 3 months she hasn’t binged. it’s not an overnight change like she’s making it seem

    • @anitasmith4559
      @anitasmith4559 Рік тому +1

      Amber goes missing in action when she's on a binge. Red lights are flashing. Stores are now swimming with chocolate rabbits, eggs and Peeps (yellow, blue, lavender, orange, pink and white.)🐤

  • @livinitup3829
    @livinitup3829 Рік тому +14

    Vitamin D deficiency is very common in people who never leave the house

    • @ZacharyMichael
      @ZacharyMichael  Рік тому +6

      okay well I leave the house and I'm also deficient lol

  • @onwednesdayswewearpink2761
    @onwednesdayswewearpink2761 Рік тому +14

    Amber " I want what I want, and I want it right now "
    Also Amber " how dare you call me a spoiled brat"

  • @mckenna_L_
    @mckenna_L_ Рік тому +55

    Are we still pretending there’s multiple behind the scenes people and it’s not just wifey/faline/Alex/jade? Okay cool cool

  • @xcrystalsunshine
    @xcrystalsunshine Рік тому +19

    She thinks she isn't a spoiled brat .. interesting 🤔

    • @erinpufunt
      @erinpufunt Рік тому +3

      Only spoiled brats think they aren’t

  • @delainadsarlak9583
    @delainadsarlak9583 Рік тому +68

    (I have ocd,ptsd, anxiety, depression and bpd so I’m not downplaying struggles at all). But there’s a HUGE difference between doing what you can to help yourself and then there’s what ALR does, which is becoming her diagnosis to have an excuse to get what she wants. She will never realize it takes time and hard work to get what you want (like when ozempic didn’t cure her within 6 days so she said it didn’t work). It’s so frustrating 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @rammychan622
    @rammychan622 Рік тому +38

    As someone diagnosed with Bordeline Personality Disorder and with strong OCD tendencies and bad anxiety, she talks about Personality disorders as if they can't be fixed. Girl this is not the 70s where borderlines were considered unfixable, go to damn therapy 🤣
    I was diagnosed back in 2019, right when I hit adulthood. It was a huge shock but almost 4 years later with therapy and the proper medications, I'm doing stellar compared to back then. AND YOU NEED TO TRYYYY

  • @starseedsiren
    @starseedsiren Рік тому +157

    Hey bestie! My mental health has been annoying but your voice is so calming. Listening as I try to get some sleep. Thanks so much for consistently uploading

    • @ZacharyMichael
      @ZacharyMichael  Рік тому +56

      sorry to hear that bestie. get some rest

    • @MrsRW411
      @MrsRW411 Рік тому +9

      fall asleep to zach every night! lol

  • @Annalisa814201
    @Annalisa814201 Рік тому +46

    gotta love how she mansplains obvious shit about wls while the only one not understanding it is herself ⭐️

    • @kaylafreeman2392
      @kaylafreeman2392 Рік тому +1

      Amberlynn… mansplains? Y’all just be saying anything at this point lol

    • @AlienZizi
      @AlienZizi Рік тому

      seriously, when she was seemingly "comforting" us, saying it's okay, the delay will enable her to work on herself even more... i dont know if shes just incapable of not talking down to us, but GORL we all knew this and were clowning on YOU for not realizing it

    • @xxkitz
      @xxkitz Рік тому +1

      @@kaylafreeman2392 It's a joke. 😭

  • @LegacyXJudah
    @LegacyXJudah Рік тому +46

    She’s so damn delusional. She said she wouldn’t be upset if the dr took it slow and here she is mad af because they won’t do her surgery now. The dr probably took one peek at her videos and said she wasn’t ready for the surgery. She should be thankful the dr is making her wait because one binge after surgery and it’s a huge possibility she could die from it.

  • @beckat17
    @beckat17 Рік тому +31

    So, the surgeon is not going to schedule a surgery a year out. Too many risk factors, too much time for her to fail, and too far out to know their schedule. I had to loose weight for a breast reduction surgery, and I didn’t get a surgery date till after the weight was lost, same applies to her with her bingeing.

  • @jazzd193
    @jazzd193 Рік тому +43

    She really thinks getting WLS is just a quick fix. You get the surgery and can go back to your life and eat the same as before and not gain weight. You still have to work hard, watch your diet, and talk to your therapist. Its not really a surprise to anyone they denied her except Amber.

  • @michellee.6508
    @michellee.6508 Рік тому +13

    I'm not spoiled I just want to change the way an entire weight loss center schedules their surgeries because I NEED TO KNOW.

  • @robynp22
    @robynp22 Рік тому +21

    She stabbed her hand and needed stitches the very first time she tried to cut an avocado. In the metaphor of the “pitcher” I think she needs more training with the nail and hammer for sure 😂

  • @idiedromantic19
    @idiedromantic19 Рік тому +17

    "this is Judy!" she turned around like HERE WE GO AGAIN. bring back her thought bubble!!!

  • @Elizabeth-bz7jr
    @Elizabeth-bz7jr Рік тому +13

    as a psych person, the worst part of amberlynn is her fatalist attitude about her mental health. you see this a lot in mental health discussions online but people act like there’s nothing to be done and they wallow in their misery and make it a sickness competition with other people. meds, therapy, and support make a world of difference. getting better isn’t easy and it’s not linear but it can be done!

  • @thecookinmama
    @thecookinmama Рік тому +29

    If she truly has OCD, she has to learn to cope with those anxious feelings with different mechanisms.

  • @katimoo793
    @katimoo793 Рік тому +21

    I'm so glad that you brought up that she's acting like they told her she couldn't ever have surgery. They told her you can't have it now. I'm concerned that she doesn't know what to expect.

  • @ladyluck7534
    @ladyluck7534 Рік тому +33

    Man I thought I was bad at metaphors. ALR really knows how to make people feel better about themselves.

  • @keeleymarsh6033
    @keeleymarsh6033 Рік тому +46

    Zach Ive decided you’re officially on my “Top 5 people Id want at my dinner party” list. I feel like you’re the type of person that could talk to anyone and have a great conversation with! Hope your mental health is doing a little better and remember to take time for yourself! The sun will come out tomorrow 🎶 ☀️

  • @shellyb5014
    @shellyb5014 Рік тому +28

    She’s going to screw herself out of surgery all together with the way she is speaking.
    She’s speaking on it as in terms of a quick fix vs a life long change. She needs to use this year to really hone in on her eating disorders and lose some weight. She’s so heavy…it’s already risky. If she had this attitude prior to surgery, she may get denied bc she’s not showing a willingness to have long term change. It’s all about instant gratification

  • @AnUndeadMonkey
    @AnUndeadMonkey Рік тому +15

    Throwback to her eating her usual portions despite the physical effects of Ozempic

    • @frenchtoastemergency
      @frenchtoastemergency Рік тому +3

      Also eating pizza (which she “doesn’t like” on phentermine, while complaining about not being hungry).

  • @frenchtoastemergency
    @frenchtoastemergency Рік тому +12

    “Oh, it’s unreasonable to expect me not to binge for a year” - gorl, you do understand that you won’t be able to binge for the actual rest of your life after the surgery, don’t you?
    Also, Dr. Now makes his patients lose a bunch of weight before he agrees to do their surgeries.

  • @sandrajulo
    @sandrajulo Рік тому +27

    She also said that her endocrinologist was super popular and busy so she couldn't reach out to her. Also she's all about quick fixes, that's how you know she is not ready 🤷🏻‍♀️
    I swear she's exhausting sometimes.

  • @HistoricHeroine
    @HistoricHeroine Рік тому +21

    Somehow she thinks that her doctor having doctors over them who make decisions means she is more special. I think it means the doctor had to explain to her that they alone do not make the decision and to get off their back and quit pestering them.

    • @AlienZizi
      @AlienZizi Рік тому

      yeeaah when she was soo happy and said "the psychiatrist wasnt the end all be all of decision making" its such an obvious cope. shes going into delusion again thinking theres a chance someone else, higher up will go against the psych. or like others said, that she can manipulate someone else

  • @Sweetlittlehugs
    @Sweetlittlehugs Рік тому +16

    To be honest, that picture isn’t gonna stay up with just a nail. They are telling her that she needs to learn how to use a hammer before she can use the nail. I feel like her metaphor worked better for me than it did for her.

  • @averagechickfitness4184
    @averagechickfitness4184 Рік тому +12

    Ambers response oh “god no” when being called a spoiled brat gave me Disney villain vibes.

  • @reckless7226
    @reckless7226 Рік тому +17

    She only “opens up” to us when we’ve caught her in a lie 😂 she has to cover up that lie with more lies ! Gosh Zach let her be open !!!!

  • @sandrak2429
    @sandrak2429 Рік тому +27

    I am SICK to my back teeth of Amberlynn rambleen about the WLS, but I will keep watching your videos because they bring me way too much joy 🥲

  • @skitkonst7796
    @skitkonst7796 Рік тому +5

    "I have ocd and ocpd and obcd and asmr, so I need my surgery right now!"

    • @lasskinn474
      @lasskinn474 Рік тому

      "I just need the nail you know"
      "the nail in the coffin? gorl first you get into the coffin and we ain't got coffins big enough"

  • @gingerleamcwow435
    @gingerleamcwow435 Рік тому +19

    Lord I hope she doesn't have any accidents or medical emergencies this next year. She's the type that would have a whole meltdown & blame it all on the weight loss center for making her wait.

  • @ganchen6257
    @ganchen6257 Рік тому +2

    Those mental gymnastics are truly exhausting…

  • @mello_apispondue7108
    @mello_apispondue7108 Рік тому +16

    Amber Reid is so special, she gets better steps than everyone.

  • @mojave.dreamer
    @mojave.dreamer Рік тому +90

    I’ve always been more of a “silent watcher” but I’ve loved watching your videos for quite some time now. Your voice, opinions, and commentary are always enjoyable and never fail to make my day when we get a new upload.
    I hope you’re doing okay, though. You deserve it bestie ♥️

  • @Citykitty23
    @Citykitty23 Рік тому +11

    Ohhhh she’s getting a high dose, or should I say “dough-say” of Vitamin D! 😂😂😂

  • @frogmella
    @frogmella Рік тому +4

    Huge 'Karen' vibes, complaining to the manager when she doesn't get what she wants. She needs to grow up and be an adult.

  • @LaurenWoz421
    @LaurenWoz421 Рік тому +15

    She has legit said “I have been diagnosed with OCPD” then “I have OCD not OCPD” and back and forth but most recently she had said “I have OCD, not OCPD, 2 different things.” And now today it’s “I have BOLTH”. Wtf she is nuts. I need a video from someone showing all of these clips. SHE needs a video showing them lol not that it will change a thing.. she has many lies like this.

  • @SunnyInSecond
    @SunnyInSecond Рік тому +41

    she has 10 years of her claiming online to have binge eating disorder among a bunch of other issues, now she wants the dr to think she doesn't. I bet someone went real world and tipped off that office to let them know. i mean, that's pretty shitty, but I wouldn't put it past someone.

    • @devinjoseph3895
      @devinjoseph3895 Рік тому +7

      I wouldn't be surprised if a doctor viewed some of her videos and observed a pattern of misrepresenting what they say and twisting their words lol

    • @SunnyInSecond
      @SunnyInSecond Рік тому

      @@devinjoseph3895 good point. She has a real history of shit-talking medical professionals.

    • @colonless7512
      @colonless7512 Рік тому +2

      I guarantee someone in the office either a surgical assistant or nurse or even a scheduler knows who she is. They deal with weight loss so they probably watch M600PL and UA-cam off an on so it wouldn’t be a stretch that someone knows of her

    • @SunnyInSecond
      @SunnyInSecond Рік тому

      @@colonless7512 oh another good point. I bet you’re totally right

  • @halliefaye2108
    @halliefaye2108 Рік тому +4

    So like… why can’t she just tell herself her surgery will be scheduled one year after her last binge? Why is everything so big & dramatic?

  • @19airaz
    @19airaz Рік тому +11

    Listening to ALR talk for more than five minutes is a trip!! It's like she has short-term memory loss, she's always contradicting herself. Like girlie did you not hear what you just said. lol

  • @hannahpinocci813
    @hannahpinocci813 Рік тому +26

    Idk if she's spoiled, but she is entitled

    • @elisea.740
      @elisea.740 Рік тому

      Same difference, no?

    • @hannahpinocci813
      @hannahpinocci813 Рік тому +1

      @Elise A. To me spoiled is like a child or someone who has everything paid for them. Amber earned her money.

    • @MsKJackson831
      @MsKJackson831 Рік тому

      ​@@hannahpinocci813 "Earned" is a strong word to use there 😆

  • @KBcollision
    @KBcollision Рік тому +10

    So … she can’t handle delayed gratification ? Yeah, WLS is going to work out soooo well for her on her health journey

  • @mantistoboggan2676
    @mantistoboggan2676 Рік тому +15

    Good thing ALR really loves those two people in her life today as she completely burns any remaining bridges with her old ones.

  • @Ashh.wholee
    @Ashh.wholee Рік тому +8

    She is losing it because she can't control this process. that's part of her OCPD, but without extensive therapy she has no idea how to cope. And the only person who can care enough to get her into therapy is her.

  • @Foxmoxpox
    @Foxmoxpox Рік тому +13

    The dramatic turn around Judy gave when you introduced her 😭😭😭❤️

  • @brezn_4183
    @brezn_4183 Рік тому +4

    Gotta make zach's „BAR“ a notification Sound

  • @KRLY359
    @KRLY359 Рік тому +5

    She really doesn’t understand that everybody who walks through the door to that weight-loss surgeon’s office has trauma which has led them to be in the condition they are in. Whether physical, emotional, whatever - they all have trauma of some description which landed them there. She’s not a “special case”. Doctors won’t hush her through the back door and skip the queue because she’s got a “special” type of situation or trauma. Unreal.
    Also; if she thinks not binging for one year is unattainable… wait until she hears how long she has to go without binging after the surgery (spoiler - it’s forever)

  • @freyjascats
    @freyjascats Рік тому +5

    Also, she does this dry mouth thing when she's on delta 8 that makes me think she took something for this video. Like this manic all over the place speech reminds me of her voice notes to Jordy.

  • @dispekfulpieceofshrimp
    @dispekfulpieceofshrimp Рік тому +7

    “Hey everybody it’s me Zach and if i swivel around it’s because I don’t know how to behave in a swirly chair” 😂💕I love that so much

    • @thebutlerdiditagain
      @thebutlerdiditagain Рік тому

      Swirly chairs are the best chairs…I’ve been banned from them during work presentations because I too can’t stop swiveling 😂

  • @lumilad
    @lumilad Рік тому +13

    Amber shoved her camera in Eric and Ricky faces for years. She filmed everybody (even children) during family gatherings. And you could see that most people were uncomfortable and her pulling out the camera was a conversation ender. Remember when Density, Dana, Eric and Ricky allowed her to film only when the camera was pointed at herself?
    Those people didn't want to be filmed most of the time. But a spoiled brat Amber did it anyway. She probably whined her way through. But now she got new people who she can't toss around and get her way. Which is good. But it's very unfair to say that her old friends "wanted" to be in vlogs.

    • @jojoyeu
      @jojoyeu Рік тому +2

      Crystal hated it too

  • @VeddaMidura
    @VeddaMidura Рік тому +7

    She needs a surgery date to keep Jade around longer. She has been given an ultimatum. She is grasping at anything to try and convince her to stay. Do you think Jade has already left? I can't believe she would take an Uber if Jade was there.

  • @LoLyse
    @LoLyse Рік тому +7

    She could literally set her own deadline and work towards that. Then she would have the control she is craving

  • @justjamie1715
    @justjamie1715 Рік тому +4

    She has no access to talk to the surgeon because she hasn't been approved.