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the thing is...most people who wronged us either don't know they did or have a joyous life whilst we spend a lot of time in a hamster wheel of existence trying to change past events/punish those around us, including the aggressor (if they are still around/alive of course). Thank you very much Alex and David for his video. It was a huge eye-opener for me. Just because someone assumed the role of an idiot (and chose to behave the way they did, it doesn't mean I have to now go through life carrying someone else's baggage.)
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This has got to be the best informative video on resentment and bitterness to date. I myself have been dealing with this for almost 2 years towards my kids father. The bitterness has taken over my life and I want it to stop. Thank you for sharing this information and I hope this helps others too
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Hey I just wanted to say thanks for everything you do. I had a session with David at the start of the month and it was completely not what I was expecting. It was very tough to have someone outside reflect back to me just how unreasonable i was being to myself and those I love and for David to say to me what friends or therapist would never say. I was in such a terrible behaviour pattern of extreme self destruction and my inner child was out of control not only tormenting me but inviting in the law of negative attraction to the point it was starting to destroy my life. I had basically attracted and allowed the worst people to come into my life and manipulate me into despair and in return I would manipulate others into sympathy believing it was impossible to create love from within and causing what i would describe as a Roller Coaster of despair. I have been doing the inner child work properly and consistently and I am awake to it now and for the first time in years I am starting to live in the moment and see who i am and have stopped lying to myself and believing the rubbish I had invented. As much as it was tough and hard to hear the truth it has really helped and i feel i am now on the beginning of a journey of self descovery. Thankyou so much David
I'm trying to let go, and I know it won't give me back what I've lost, but an apology would make it easier for me to move on, an apology would help the hurt, an apology would show that they have a heart and care . Sometimes, a simple apology would make both parties feel better about themaelves. But like you said, I am not the justice police.. can't teach people how to be decent human beings. But you have to see them for who they are and move on. Also, I think it's hard to let go cause a person tries to make sense out of it. And until it makes sense, it's really hard to let go.
I've lived with bitter memories my life long. I appreciate how the flash backs perpetuate the 'carousel' that keeps me from being authentic. I am beginning to learn of an original self. I was lied to, misled, cheated. I have examined all parts of my being. I have been letting go of each bitter discovery. The narative is complex. Channels like this is a big help.
What an extraordinary experience. Having had a difficult couple of days where I felt many red light feelings which I gave into (indulged in) rather than explore with GTP, I had not intended to look at a Wu Wei teaching tonight but somehow it came up first in my feed and I clicked play without thinking I would finish the clip. However I very quickly realised that this teaching was precisely what I needed to hear. At one point I thought to myself ‘woah, this is freaky’ as it felt like David was speaking directly and specifically to me with full knowledge of my struggles the last couple of days. And then Alex has this remarkable knack of anticipating challenges/responses to the teaching that I would probably have thought about after the clip, but because she raises them at the time, everything is so beautifully clarified. I am very fortunate to have discovered the Wu Wei Wisdom approach quite recently and am so grateful for the fantastic resources which David and Alex so generously provide. Thank you. 🙏
I can just copy and paste your words, I felt the same way about the video recommendation. Now I'm going through one playlist at a time. Thank you for the wisdom, you're both a blessing to us.
I needed to hear this. I now realize that my resentment was borne out of continually throwing an emotional lifeline to someone only to have it thrown back in my face. I now accept that sometimes you have to stand at the edge of the quicksand and watch rather than jumping in with them which is what I was doing. As you say in another video" it's not our job to save someone it's out job to support them while they save themselves" Lesson learned, thank you.
Thank you. Coming up against people that dont want me to change and was feeling resentful. Can now see I was seeking their approval to move on, and it is hard as they're my friends, but can now see it's an old pattern of mine.....needing permission and fear of getting punished if I take the risk and do it anyway. Big one for me. V old pattern. Blessings. ❤❤❤
26:00 The rubbish is still "echoing" in my current life, I realise this now, please tell me HOW to clear the rubbish out!!! HOW do I stop being the Victim! HOW do I make this old, old resentment IRRELEVANT?
Hi Rudy, Thank you for sharing. The key to making that "rubbish" irrelevant lies in how you perceive and respond to it. The first step is acknowledging that you are not a victim of your past, but the creator of your current reality. The old resentment remains because it still influences your beliefs and reactions. By consistently challenging those beliefs and shifting your focus, you can resolve these issues. A powerful technique is to work on detaching from the emotional charge of past experiences. Ask yourself, "What lesson can I learn here?" and embrace that lesson without judgment. This shift can transform resentment into understanding. If you'd like more guidance, feel free to join our supportive community: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ Kind Regards, David
I am learning the life lesson as painful as it is. I was part of the problem but I will never allow myself to be put in that situation ever again!!!! Thanks David and Alex. You both are awesome. ❤
Hi Annie, Thank you for sharing your reflections. Acknowledging your role in the situation is a powerful step toward resolving the issue and restoring balance in your Shen spirit. Every challenge is an opportunity to learn and grow stronger. Stay true to your values and trust your inner wisdom. If you'd like to connect with others on a similar journey, consider joining our free Wu Wei Wisdom community here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. P.S. Exciting News! I've launched David's Journal, my free newsletter where I'll share deeper insights into Wu Wei Wisdom, Taoism, and my personal journey. For exclusive access to upcoming projects and the chance to shape new content, a paid subscription is also available. Subscribe for free or join the inner circle: davidjameslees.com Looking forward to sharing this journey with you! Kind Regards, David
First, this channel has been so empowering and key for me (with all the teachings I have been pointed to through my life path) to finally all click together. Especially, when I needed it the most during a truly dark time akin to teenage hormone imbalances due to postpartum depression. I’d love to hear more relation in the examples to relationships such as co-parenting, especially for new parents who are attempting to find a balance while not romantically involved. This is a relationship you are bound to until the child is old enough to understand. The responsible thing to do is work it out (as we are the adults) so that the child doesn’t suffer our beliefs towards each others’ parenting style.
Very good explanation. Yes, I think I am caught in to trying to prove injustice somehow and can't put it away. It's a tough one. It's like an abuser wants to unload their negativity onto you, let you carry it. Make your judgement and learn your lesson.
Hi @notaclue822, Thank you for your comment! It's understandable that wanting to prove injustice can feel like a heavy burden, especially when it involves someone else's negativity. The key here is to focus on your Shen spirit, your inner wisdom, and not let the energy of others distract you from your path. True strength lies in how you manage yourself, rather than seeking validation through proving anything to others. The lesson here is about acceptance, not of the injustice, but of the fact that you cannot control the actions of others. By releasing the need to carry their negativity or prove anything, you can reclaim your peace. Kind Regards, David facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ P.S. Exciting News! I'm launching David's Journal, my free newsletter where I'll share deeper insights into Wu Wei Wisdom, Taoism, and my personal journey. For exclusive access to upcoming projects and the chance to shape new content, a paid subscription is also available. Subscribe for free or join the inner circle: davidjameslees.com Looking forward to sharing this journey with you!
This is a biggest solution to what I'm going thru past 2 months being stuck in negative emotions as a victim🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 a heartfelt Gratitude to David and Alex to help me move on 💞
Hi David and Alex. Thank you for your video on resentment. It helped me a great deal. I think I’m going to focus on acceptance from now on. I’d love to see more videos on acceptance. Thanks so much for all your hard work and dedication. Many blessings to you both.
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Hi, After accepting and letting go, interacting with in-laws or anyone else requires maintaining a balanced and respectful approach. Focus on setting healthy boundaries, practicing patience, and responding with compassion. Remember, it's about staying true to your values while being open and kind. If you need more support, our free Wu Wei Wisdom community is a great place to connect with others who share similar experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind Regards, David
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Wow,you guys are awesome. Thanks again for another great teaching.I love watching your videos and their are moments when your work really hits to the core .This was one .I
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I agree with all your teachings, I have to say that my inner intuition is following all your teachings since I remember, from little. I don't know where it comes from, but I belive that this is the right way of living my life, I have to say that it always worked for me. All the best for both of you, you're an inspiration to many. Thank you truly for sharing it with us. 😊❤
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I have worked my entire adult life working on healing from my childhood. I resented and blamed my parents for physical and emotional abuse. I felt and still do at times, robbed of education, interests, guidance. Etc. I felt i was a victim, being a child, i had no choice at the time, but prayed everyday, i would go into another family that showed love...i chose this journey and i have healed more than i can explain. I'm an HSP on top of it. But...i keep on being the best i can be and continue to work on 'my stuff' as THERE IS NO FINISH LINE. Thank you, NAMASTE'
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WOW! Thank you so much for this powerful lesson it seriously stopped me in my tracks and made me reevaluate everything about me - Yes it was truly for me that powerful. So much so I booked marked it so I can go back and immerse myself in all the different aspects discussed , when I do this I just keep getting more from this lesson Thank you again David and Alexandra for wonderful teaching
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Totally agree with Stella M. Thanks Alex for explaining so honestly and clearly "our" point of view and thanks David for unraveling the truth. Very, very helpful.😁🇳🇱
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I love the way you pointed out the spiritual differences between similar words that was fascinating and has really made me think. I often crusade as you put it and it really is exhausting I'm going to have a serious rethink about some of my behaviours thanks!
Thank you for this amazing video! I have listened over and over and over!!! I think it is finally ingrained in a way that I can talk with my inner child :).
This is one of the best videos on forgiveness err. . . acceptance. Imprisonment in resentment and bitterness is too easy. I was caught in this trap for the longest time. I admit that I placed myself in this prison and blaming my parents for what happened and didn't happen in my childhood. I'm ready to let go of my resentment and bitterness. The best choice for me is to take action in loving myself and others in peace.
Thank YOU. I have to understand why I am holding onto THIS! That is how I am hurting myself. Why am I so afraid 😳 of letting go ... I forgive, I don't want to make them pay, I wish no Ill will. I have emotionally put myself in a prison holding onto the hurt 🤕. Once I understand why, how to accept, let go, leave it, I think I will be on the road to recovery
Thank you both for clarifying for me the difference in forgiveness and acceptance. Good question about who enacts the punishment. My life is not about punishment. Wonderful release.
@@WuWeiWisdom thank you The obstacles become the way. Patience, kindness and compassion I have my Sunday morning walks to the wood with Wu Wei wisdom as my guides reminding me The oxen are slow But the earth is patient
Wow,another powerful teaching.This one cuts to the core .However letting it go is easier said than done .It is indeed challenging to say the least. What is said in this teaching makes a lot of sense but when you think about trying to deal with dysfunction as an adult that has been with you you're entire life practically is not that easy to navigate through. Thank you again ❤
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Hi Sarah, It can be challenging to deal with someone who refuses to take responsibility for their actions and tries to manipulate your perspective. Remember, holding onto bitterness only continues to hurt you. Instead, focus on your Shen, your inner strength, and clarity. Recognise that you cannot change someone else, but you can choose how you respond. Establish healthy boundaries, speak your truth calmly, and detach from their need for denial. Releasing bitterness will bring you peace, regardless of how the other person behaves. Kind Regards, David P.S. If you need more support, feel free to join our community: [Wu Wei Wisdom Community](facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/).
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SO helpful, thankyou. I am so trleived you spoke to forgiveness and the elevational aspects. Always been a struggle. Judgmental...making judgements. These words roght more clarity. Intention, honesty and integrity, self responsibility. Thankyou again this video so very useful towards understanding self and other. Ps Garbage on lawn...👍was a good analogy 🙏💖❤🌹🕊reallt helped me visualize and engage the senses.lol...❤😄..it worked😊..🙏💝🌹
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After letting go..how do I act around them...I try to act normal but still have walls up. I'm confused around how much to let them in without being a pushover and ignoring what neglect took place. its a family member and I'm sure they are completely clueless.
Could it be that resentment is a base human nature to protect one’s self just like fight- flight? If so, it has to be controlled so as not to control us. We must realize that we and we alone are responsible for the choice to cling to it or let it go.
I am I’m trying to understand how to take your practice into my life fact that I was abused throughout my childhood so as you said I had a part to play in this - how.
Hello Leonard, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. I do not say you had a part in the abuse, but are responsible for living in your flow and reaching your potential. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/.Kind regards, David.
I like the rubbish analogy.....that actually just happened to me recently ....(well, someone knocked over my trash can on trash day ...trash everywhere! ) I cleaned it up immediately!
I think its a coping mechanism a very unhealthily one,i guess these people hurt us so bad we ruminate ,feel the traumatised victim because they sleep at night take no blame,for destroying my childhood its like they have a hold power over us. The self blame the guilt the pain. We still going through the trauma. How do we get out of it xx
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Hi, Your strength and determination are commendable. Never accepting abuse and maintaining your self-respect is vital. Keep holding your head high and stay true to your values. Kind Regards, David
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I Created The Injustice Belief Feeling Stuck in My Tummy. I didn't Let Them Know I Felt Like This. I was Me Taken On How They Felt About There self. I Will Rise Above them. Let It Go. To be My Own Spiritual Self. ACCEPTANCE IS THE ANSWER. IT WASN'T OK. IT HAPPENED. FOCUS ON RECOVERING FROM IT. RESTORE BACK TO THE GREEN FLAG. I FOR GIVE THEM WITH ALL MY HEART🌈🏴💞🌹🤩😍
Any thoughts on resentment over the narcissistic behavior of my ex... But not against me, I'm over that, but in the way I know he will negatively impact our son. I'm resentful over how he will hurt or influence our son and I don't know how to get over that because it's ongoing! 😞
We can't comment on the specifics as we don't know the specifics or background to your story. It may mean you confront and discuss this with your ex. - or this may not be appropriate in your situation. It is important to also focus on what you can do for your son. Be an inspiration in your words and actions. Like all of us, your son will encounter imbalanced people in his life journey, so be a great role model for him of what is it to walk the wu wei every day.x
You have a responsibility to shield them from the children unless they choose to be with the perpetrators. In that case, explain to children how to deal with the situation.
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Its Comfortable l to Hold. No More I am moving Forward in My Path. I AM BEING THE BETTER PERSON. LET IT GO. FORGIVE THEM THERE NOT WELL GOD BLESS THEM GOD. 🖐️👏🙌🌈🏴💞😍🤩🌹I AM DROPPING MY SHOULDIER. I HAVE LET GO OF THE ANCHOR. MY LIFE IS MORE PRECIOUS🏴🌈🎧
Even though I understand perfectly (I think) what your are saying about being a victim and how to get out of it. A thief (voleur) is coming into my place again and again and again. I feel like being raped. I know who the theif (voleur) is Have done all the practical tnings one does in such circonstances . Changing lock etc. The police doesn't do anything about it as I haven't any proof of this happening.. I do know it's me who is creating my emotional response : feeling despair, egraded, not being heard, like a victim, discusted, hatred, anger against myself and the guy who comes to my place. I even go to the extreme of wishing him dead. Even if I change my negative emotions, it'not going to stop the their coming into my appartment. Can you suggest anything else so I can live a secure life?
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Justice is in the eyes of beholder. Lately, a mom told me," of course I take it out on my kids because I am stressed." Justice causes a lot of anger. Accept and move on.
Hi @MrArmase, Great question! Resenting from false perceptions is a challenge, but it's a decisive step to recognise that these perceptions might not be based on facts. It’s important to question our beliefs and thoughts to understand the root of our feelings. Open communication and seeking clarity can often help resolve these issues. Remember, our perception shapes our reality, and by seeking the truth, we can shift towards more positive outcomes. If you want further support and discussion, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community could be a valuable resource: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. We can explore ways to navigate these conflicts with understanding and compassion. Kind Regards, David
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Hi, Absolutely right. Standing firm and not allowing yourself to be bullied is crucial. Empower yourself with self-respect and assertiveness. Kind Regards, David
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the thing is...most people who wronged us either don't know they did or have a joyous life whilst we spend a lot of time in a hamster wheel of existence trying to change past events/punish those around us, including the aggressor (if they are still around/alive of course). Thank you very much Alex and David for his video. It was a huge eye-opener for me. Just because someone assumed the role of an idiot (and chose to behave the way they did, it doesn't mean I have to now go through life carrying someone else's baggage.)
I liked the analogy to a pile of garbage that you keep walking over instead of moving it. That makes so much sense.
I listened to this twice. How emancipating!!!
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This has got to be the best informative video on resentment and bitterness to date. I myself have been dealing with this for almost 2 years towards my kids father. The bitterness has taken over my life and I want it to stop. Thank you for sharing this information and I hope this helps others too
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Hey I just wanted to say thanks for everything you do. I had a session with David at the start of the month and it was completely not what I was expecting. It was very tough to have someone outside reflect back to me just how unreasonable i was being to myself and those I love and for David to say to me what friends or therapist would never say. I was in such a terrible behaviour pattern of extreme self destruction and my inner child was out of control not only tormenting me but inviting in the law of negative attraction to the point it was starting to destroy my life. I had basically attracted and allowed the worst people to come into my life and manipulate me into despair and in return I would manipulate others into sympathy believing it was impossible to create love from within and causing what i would describe as a Roller Coaster of despair. I have been doing the inner child work properly and consistently and I am awake to it now and for the first time in years I am starting to live in the moment and see who i am and have stopped lying to myself and believing the rubbish I had invented. As much as it was tough and hard to hear the truth it has really helped and i feel i am now on the beginning of a journey of self descovery. Thankyou so much David
Awesome testimony! Im so happy you were able to embrace the hard truth.
Now you have seen the true meaning of "the truth shall set you free"❤🎉
I'm trying to let go, and I know it won't give me back what I've lost, but an apology would make it easier for me to move on, an apology would help the hurt, an apology would show that they have a heart and care .
Sometimes, a simple apology would make both parties feel better about themaelves.
But like you said, I am not the justice police.. can't teach people how to be decent human beings. But you have to see them for who they are and move on.
Also, I think it's hard to let go cause a person tries to make sense out of it. And until it makes sense, it's really hard to let go.
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I've lived with bitter memories my life long. I appreciate how the flash backs perpetuate the 'carousel' that keeps me from being authentic. I am beginning to learn of an original self. I was lied to, misled, cheated. I have examined all parts of my being. I have been letting go of each bitter discovery. The narative is complex. Channels like this is a big help.
What an extraordinary experience. Having had a difficult couple of days where I felt many red light feelings which I gave into (indulged in) rather than explore with GTP, I had not intended to look at a Wu Wei teaching tonight but somehow it came up first in my feed and I clicked play without thinking I would finish the clip. However I very quickly realised that this teaching was precisely what I needed to hear. At one point I thought to myself ‘woah, this is freaky’ as it felt like David was speaking directly and specifically to me with full knowledge of my struggles the last couple of days. And then Alex has this remarkable knack of anticipating challenges/responses to the teaching that I would probably have thought about after the clip, but because she raises them at the time, everything is so beautifully clarified. I am very fortunate to have discovered the Wu Wei Wisdom approach quite recently and am so grateful for the fantastic resources which David and Alex so generously provide. Thank you. 🙏
Thank you Stella. We're glad the video helped you! x
Same here I agree this wisdom is life changing.
I can just copy and paste your words, I felt the same way about the video recommendation. Now I'm going through one playlist at a time. Thank you for the wisdom, you're both a blessing to us.
Learn the lesson and look where you are going to not where you are coming from.
I needed to hear this.
I now realize that my resentment was borne out of continually throwing an emotional lifeline to someone only to have it thrown back in my face.
I now accept that sometimes you have to stand at the edge of the quicksand and watch rather than jumping in with them which is what I was doing.
As you say in another video" it's not our job to save someone it's out job to support them while they save themselves"
Lesson learned, thank you.
Great share Grahame! x
Thank you. Coming up against people that dont want me to change and was feeling resentful. Can now see I was seeking their approval to move on, and it is hard as they're my friends, but can now see it's an old pattern of mine.....needing permission and fear of getting punished if I take the risk and do it anyway. Big one for me. V old pattern. Blessings. ❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing Dee! x
I just got a Bingo. Thanks!
26:00 The rubbish is still "echoing" in my current life, I realise this now, please tell me HOW to clear the rubbish out!!! HOW do I stop being the Victim! HOW do I make this old, old resentment IRRELEVANT?
Hi Rudy,
Thank you for sharing. The key to making that "rubbish" irrelevant lies in how you perceive and respond to it. The first step is acknowledging that you are not a victim of your past, but the creator of your current reality. The old resentment remains because it still influences your beliefs and reactions. By consistently challenging those beliefs and shifting your focus, you can resolve these issues.
A powerful technique is to work on detaching from the emotional charge of past experiences. Ask yourself, "What lesson can I learn here?" and embrace that lesson without judgment. This shift can transform resentment into understanding.
If you'd like more guidance, feel free to join our supportive community: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
Kind Regards,
David
I am learning the life lesson as painful as it is. I was part of the problem but I will never allow myself to be put in that situation ever again!!!! Thanks David and Alex. You both are awesome. ❤
Hi Annie,
Thank you for sharing your reflections. Acknowledging your role in the situation is a powerful step toward resolving the issue and restoring balance in your Shen spirit. Every challenge is an opportunity to learn and grow stronger. Stay true to your values and trust your inner wisdom.
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Kind Regards,
David
They created the event. We created the emotion.
It really was expensive in every way possible. Thank you David, this video is going to help me change my life. 🙏
Glad it was helpful! x
First, this channel has been so empowering and key for me (with all the teachings I have been pointed to through my life path) to finally all click together. Especially, when I needed it the most during a truly dark time akin to teenage hormone imbalances due to postpartum depression. I’d love to hear more relation in the examples to relationships such as co-parenting, especially for new parents who are attempting to find a balance while not romantically involved. This is a relationship you are bound to until the child is old enough to understand. The responsible thing to do is work it out (as we are the adults) so that the child doesn’t suffer our beliefs towards each others’ parenting style.
Very good explanation. Yes, I think I am caught in to trying to prove injustice somehow and can't put it away. It's a tough one. It's like an abuser wants to unload their negativity onto you, let you carry it.
Make your judgement and learn your lesson.
Hi @notaclue822,
Thank you for your comment! It's understandable that wanting to prove injustice can feel like a heavy burden, especially when it involves someone else's negativity. The key here is to focus on your Shen spirit, your inner wisdom, and not let the energy of others distract you from your path. True strength lies in how you manage yourself, rather than seeking validation through proving anything to others.
The lesson here is about acceptance, not of the injustice, but of the fact that you cannot control the actions of others. By releasing the need to carry their negativity or prove anything, you can reclaim your peace.
Kind Regards,
David
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This is a biggest solution to what I'm going thru past 2 months being stuck in negative emotions as a victim🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 a heartfelt Gratitude to David and Alex to help me move on 💞
Hi David and Alex. Thank you for your video on resentment. It helped me a great deal. I think I’m going to focus on acceptance from now on. I’d love to see more videos on acceptance. Thanks so much for all your hard work and dedication. Many blessings to you both.
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That is huge the acceptance and not forgiving ….. huge healing ahhha moment for me when you described the difference. Thank you
Wonderful!! I so appreciate your clarification on what is 'natural' vs what is 'familiar'. This is a breakthrough for me. 🙏🙏
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I love this lesson!! I needed to really have this pounded into my head. Thank you so much!
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Absolutely awesome so very helpful
Thank you ,this is the best advice I have come across.
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You guys just so powerful, thank you so much
So after accepting and letting go..how do you go on interacting with them especially if they are inlaws...
Hi,
After accepting and letting go, interacting with in-laws or anyone else requires maintaining a balanced and respectful approach. Focus on setting healthy boundaries, practicing patience, and responding with compassion. Remember, it's about staying true to your values while being open and kind.
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Kind Regards,
David
You are the creator of your emotions💝
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Thank you, begining my saturday with this ❤️
We appreciate your support Omar! x
Excellent!
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Wow,you guys are awesome. Thanks again for another great teaching.I love watching your videos and their are moments when your work really hits to the core .This was one .I
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Thank you for another great video. I can't tell you how much you have helped me. You are, both, amazing! Thank you! 🙏❤️🌺
I agree with all your teachings, I have to say that my inner intuition is following all your teachings since I remember, from little. I don't know where it comes from, but I belive that this is the right way of living my life, I have to say that it always worked for me. All the best for both of you, you're an inspiration to many. Thank you truly for sharing it with us. 😊❤
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I have worked my entire adult life working on healing from my childhood. I resented and blamed my parents for physical and emotional abuse. I felt and still do at times, robbed of education, interests, guidance. Etc. I felt i was a victim, being a child, i had no choice at the time, but prayed everyday, i would go into another family that showed love...i chose this journey and i have healed more than i can explain.
I'm an HSP on top of it.
But...i keep on being the best i can be and continue to work on 'my stuff' as THERE IS NO FINISH LINE. Thank you, NAMASTE'
Brilliant, thank you so much, I choose to accept and let go!
Hi googoo554, thanks for watching! We value your support. You may find our Golden Thread Process / Emotional Health Video Playlist helpful: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zIAsS_wgdRN7QGBKIk54sbyD.html Alex + David x
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My life. A crusade of writing the wrong? I refuse to be that🤗
WOW! Thank you so much for this powerful lesson it seriously stopped me in my tracks and made me reevaluate everything about me - Yes it was truly for me that powerful. So much so I booked marked it so I can go back and immerse myself in all the different aspects discussed , when I do this I just keep getting more from this lesson Thank you again David and Alexandra for wonderful teaching
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This video was incredible helpful. Thank you 🙏
Beautiful teaching! Thank you for continuing to guide me down the path of enlightenment. Understanding & acceptance are the keys to freedom x
Thank you Jay! x
Valuable information! Thank you!
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So very good, comforting words. Thank you...
You are so welcome Kind regards, David.
Totally agree with Stella M. Thanks Alex for explaining so honestly and clearly "our" point of view and thanks David for unraveling the truth. Very, very helpful.😁🇳🇱
Thanks Ellie! x
Thanking you 🙏
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Thank you! This is so helpful! Most ppl just say 'let it go'. But how??! This is the perfect explanation!
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this is profound.
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Thank you for your kind words. I'm glad you found it profound.
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I love the way you pointed out the spiritual differences between similar words that was fascinating and has really made me think.
I often crusade as you put it and it really is exhausting I'm going to have a serious rethink about some of my behaviours thanks!
Very powerful content, love the moving the rubbish analogy🙏🏻
This is incredibly liberating. Thank you both.
Thank you for this amazing video! I have listened over and over and over!!! I think it is finally ingrained in a way that I can talk with my inner child :).
You are so welcome! Kind regards, David.
This is one of the best videos on forgiveness err. . . acceptance. Imprisonment in resentment and bitterness is too easy. I was caught in this trap for the longest time. I admit that I placed myself in this prison and blaming my parents for what happened and didn't happen in my childhood. I'm ready to let go of my resentment and bitterness. The best choice for me is to take action in loving myself and others in peace.
Brilliant!!!
Thank you. Perfect for what I needed to heal a situation. ❤❤❤ you guys are ace. Bless you. ❤❤❤
I would like to thank you for these awesome videos for all of us. They are so helpful and effective. Blessings to all.
Glad you like them! Kind regards, David.
Thank YOU. I have to understand why I am holding onto THIS! That is how I am hurting myself. Why am I so afraid 😳 of letting go ...
I forgive, I don't want to make them pay, I wish no Ill will.
I have emotionally put myself in a prison holding onto the hurt 🤕. Once I understand why, how to accept, let go, leave it, I think I will be on the road to recovery
Thank you both for clarifying for me the difference in forgiveness and acceptance. Good question about who enacts the punishment. My life is not about punishment. Wonderful release.
Happy good Sunday morning to you Wu Wei wisdom
Hope you are enjoying a week of flow :) x
@@WuWeiWisdom thank you
The obstacles become the way.
Patience, kindness and compassion
I have my Sunday morning walks to the wood with Wu Wei wisdom as my guides reminding me
The oxen are slow
But the earth is patient
VERY helpful, thank you both SO MUCH!!
Glad it was helpful! Kind regards, David.
THANKYOU ALEX AND DAVID
Thank you
You're welcome Kind regards, David.
Lessons are Hard But I Will Learn from This. I WILL be My Spiritual Best🌈🏴💞
Your videos have helped and healed me so much. Thank you for sharing your knowledge! God bless 💕
Wow,another powerful teaching.This one cuts to the core .However letting it go is easier said than done .It is indeed challenging to say the least. What is said in this teaching makes a lot of sense but when you think about trying to deal with dysfunction as an adult that has been with you you're entire life practically is not that easy to navigate through. Thank you again ❤
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Free therapy, thankyou 2020 🙂
The person I've held bitterness against is in constant denial and refuses to ever see when they are wrong and gaslights me.
Hi Sarah,
It can be challenging to deal with someone who refuses to take responsibility for their actions and tries to manipulate your perspective. Remember, holding onto bitterness only continues to hurt you. Instead, focus on your Shen, your inner strength, and clarity. Recognise that you cannot change someone else, but you can choose how you respond. Establish healthy boundaries, speak your truth calmly, and detach from their need for denial.
Releasing bitterness will bring you peace, regardless of how the other person behaves.
Kind Regards,
David
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Awesome
I can't tell you how amazing this video has been for me. Thank you .... I'm cancelling my apication into the emotional police force
like how you said that 🙏💖
I'm quiting the force.
best vid on resentment
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awesome teaching
Thank you! Kind regards, David.
Thank you!
You're welcome! Kind regards, David.
SO helpful, thankyou. I am so trleived you spoke to forgiveness and the elevational aspects. Always been a struggle. Judgmental...making judgements. These words roght more clarity. Intention, honesty and integrity, self responsibility. Thankyou again this video so very useful towards understanding self and other. Ps Garbage on lawn...👍was a good analogy 🙏💖❤🌹🕊reallt helped me visualize and engage the senses.lol...❤😄..it worked😊..🙏💝🌹
This is so helpful. What if you don't really know what your path is or how to go about finding your path when you feel anxious inside
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@@WuWeiWisdom thank you
Acceptance to me would mean that
“Success is the best revenge!”
After letting go..how do I act around them...I try to act normal but still have walls up. I'm confused around how much to let them in without being a pushover and ignoring what neglect took place. its a family member and I'm sure they are completely clueless.
i would also love to know after letting go what to do with them if they are inlaws/family
You are spiritual guides desguised as humans. ❤️ Thanks for your wisdom.
Can they be both?
Familiar and comfortable are good terms. Another term that can help understand it is to say that it has become "normal".
Helpful and powerful video 😁
I still don't know how to let go of the hate, anger, and resentment that I feel.
Could it be that resentment is a base human nature to protect one’s self just like fight- flight? If so, it has to be controlled so as not to control us. We must realize that we and we alone are responsible for the choice to cling to it or let it go.
I am I’m trying to understand how to take your practice into my life fact that I was abused throughout my childhood so as you said I had a part to play in this - how.
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@@WuWeiWisdom thank you. That’s a great suggestion.
I like the rubbish analogy.....that actually just happened to me recently ....(well, someone knocked over my trash can on trash day ...trash everywhere! ) I cleaned it up immediately!
Davie I TOLD Them It Was COOL. GOD IS PROTECTING ME🏴🌈💖
I think its a coping mechanism a very unhealthily one,i guess these people hurt us so bad we ruminate ,feel the traumatised victim because they sleep at night take no blame,for destroying my childhood its like they have a hold power over us. The self blame the guilt the pain. We still going through the trauma. How do we get out of it xx
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I am Hear TO Flourish In My Own Life. Acceptance it' Has Past. 🌈🏴😍
Wow
Sometimes they do know that you are suffering because that was their goal
But it is our choice to continue or not. That is what emotional independence about.
Accepting criminal.and corrupt behavior will NEVER be alright with me. Never accept abuse. My head will.always be up.not down.
Hi,
Your strength and determination are commendable. Never accepting abuse and maintaining your self-respect is vital. Keep holding your head high and stay true to your values.
Kind Regards,
David
I wish I could get to resentment and bitterness...I can't get past the anger to reach resentment and bitterness
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I Created The Injustice Belief Feeling Stuck in My Tummy. I didn't Let Them Know I Felt Like This. I was Me Taken On How They Felt About There self. I Will Rise Above them. Let It Go. To be My Own Spiritual Self. ACCEPTANCE IS THE ANSWER. IT WASN'T OK. IT HAPPENED. FOCUS ON RECOVERING FROM IT. RESTORE BACK TO THE GREEN FLAG. I FOR GIVE THEM WITH ALL MY HEART🌈🏴💞🌹🤩😍
Any thoughts on resentment over the narcissistic behavior of my ex... But not against me, I'm over that, but in the way I know he will negatively impact our son. I'm resentful over how he will hurt or influence our son and I don't know how to get over that because it's ongoing! 😞
We can't comment on the specifics as we don't know the specifics or background to your story. It may mean you confront and discuss this with your ex. - or this may not be appropriate in your situation. It is important to also focus on what you can do for your son. Be an inspiration in your words and actions. Like all of us, your son will encounter imbalanced people in his life journey, so be a great role model for him of what is it to walk the wu wei every day.x
@WuWeiWisdom that's really great advice.
What do you with a person who is a serial perpetrator of creating resentful situations and now they are starting to pour into your children's life?
You have a responsibility to shield them from the children unless they choose to be with the perpetrators. In that case, explain to children how to deal with the situation.
What about when you still have to deal with your abuser and they continue to do the same things over and over?
❤❤
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Its Comfortable l to Hold. No More I am moving Forward in My Path. I AM BEING THE BETTER PERSON. LET IT GO. FORGIVE THEM THERE NOT WELL GOD BLESS THEM GOD. 🖐️👏🙌🌈🏴💞😍🤩🌹I AM DROPPING MY SHOULDIER. I HAVE LET GO OF THE ANCHOR. MY LIFE IS MORE PRECIOUS🏴🌈🎧
Even though I understand perfectly (I think) what your are saying about being a victim and how to get out of it.
A thief (voleur) is coming into my place again and again and again. I feel like being raped.
I know who the theif (voleur) is
Have done all the practical tnings one does in such circonstances . Changing lock etc.
The police doesn't do anything about it as I haven't any proof of this happening..
I do know it's me who is creating my emotional response : feeling despair, egraded, not being heard, like a victim, discusted, hatred, anger against myself and the guy who comes to my place. I even go to the extreme of wishing him dead.
Even if I change my negative emotions, it'not going to stop the their coming into my appartment.
Can you suggest anything else so I can live a secure life?
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And what about justice?
Justice is in the eyes of beholder. Lately, a mom told me," of course I take it out on my kids because I am stressed." Justice causes a lot of anger. Accept and move on.
What about resentment based on false perceptions? Conflicting perceptions based not in facts
Hi @MrArmase,
Great question! Resenting from false perceptions is a challenge, but it's a decisive step to recognise that these perceptions might not be based on facts. It’s important to question our beliefs and thoughts to understand the root of our feelings. Open communication and seeking clarity can often help resolve these issues. Remember, our perception shapes our reality, and by seeking the truth, we can shift towards more positive outcomes. If you want further support and discussion, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community could be a valuable resource: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. We can explore ways to navigate these conflicts with understanding and compassion.
Kind Regards,
David
But, HOW do you let go of resentment?
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Dont allow yourself to be bullied. Ever.
Hi,
Absolutely right. Standing firm and not allowing yourself to be bullied is crucial. Empower yourself with self-respect and assertiveness.
Kind Regards,
David
I am Clearing The Rubbish And Living My Life. Acceptance is The Truth💖🤩👌🏴🌈IT'S PAST.
how do we clear out the rubbish
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I am mostly in agreement. But you fall short in that you don’t include the neurobiology or the moral injury parts.
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Who is that man over there ranting and waving his hands around, shouting “JUST STOP IT!!” ? Oh, he’s a Taoist monk. 😉
Thank you ❤
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