My Secret Weapon to Solving Life's Problems

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  • @NickKeomahavongOfficial
    @NickKeomahavongOfficial  8 місяців тому +20

    Which "timeless" wisdom has been helpful for you?

    • @marimarlotus7413
      @marimarlotus7413 8 місяців тому

      Hola Nick! Beautiful message. All the teachings of the Masters always give me a relief in combination with nature. But I have a question regarding spiritual awakening. Is it normal when you are awaken to work so much? I work 6 days a week for the last months and I am feeling really tired.

    • @muffinland
      @muffinland 8 місяців тому +1

      “A fool who knows his foolishness is wise at least to that extent.”
      I may be imperfect, with many shortfallings and vices, but at least I"m aware of it, and working to move on from them, even if it is difficult and I fail often. That puts me ahead of everyone who isn't.

    • @Books-Are-Brilliant
      @Books-Are-Brilliant 8 місяців тому +1

      I always find Julian of Norwich's words "All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of thing shall be well," bring me a sense of peace and calm, no matter what is happening.

    • @Remmy750
      @Remmy750 8 місяців тому +1

      This too will pass

    • @Nedmar
      @Nedmar 8 місяців тому

      Wu Wei.

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 8 місяців тому +22

    Carl Jung said that as well, that the majority of our problems are spiritual problems.👍

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 8 місяців тому +26

    "We are using the wrong lens to look at it"- Excellent!

  • @marlenemeldrum7382
    @marlenemeldrum7382 8 місяців тому +21

    What I have learnt:, not to hold on to anything...let it go, be patient...you have everything you need, self acceptance self love, give yourself time to grow to trust your intuition...PATIENCE...may the universe or Source inspire you...ALL THE VERY BEST....You won't loose anything you will gain knowledge emotional maturity...whatever it is let it go...if you do loose it, it was not meant for you...but it may return at another time...

    • @PlayJewel
      @PlayJewel 3 місяці тому

      What if someone tried to hurt your loved ones and you can’t do anything about it?

  • @nathantrudgill5057
    @nathantrudgill5057 8 місяців тому +19

    "When it's time to get things done- give it all you got. When it's time to rest- give this all you got, too" - ajahn brahm

  • @DoyaliZingaro
    @DoyaliZingaro 8 місяців тому +25

    What I have noticed over and over in my life is that my heart never guides me wrong. When I go inward and listen to what my pure heart is saying, it's always led me right, to decisions I didn't later regret. But when I have made decisions from my rationale mind while ignoring my intuition, I've always regretted my decisions later.😅😂
    Since you mentioned it as part of timeless wisdom we can draw on, I would be very interested in a future video that describes the criteria of a true friend vs the criteria of a false friend or foe. I am curious to know more about that and wonder if others also found that intriguing.
    Thank you, Venerable Nick, for all your generous videos. They are so practical and useful and keep me grounded and anchored every week!

    • @NickKeomahavongOfficial
      @NickKeomahavongOfficial  8 місяців тому +5

      Thank you for sharing. I can definitely relate to your points of following your intuition. It’s so interesting how strong it is. I agree.
      And yes I definitely need to make a video about good friends and not so good friends. Thank you for the suggestion. That’s a great topic :)

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 8 місяців тому +22

    I have few worldly cares and few worldly possessions.
    As Chan Master Sheng yen put it, "The more that you carry, the heavier it is."
    I have just what I need to live and sustain myself and that's it, and as each day passes, the more I see the benefit in living in such away.

  • @moto3463
    @moto3463 8 місяців тому +12

    Thanks Nick. You make these hard times easier to manage. Inner self guidance is a work in progress everyday for me. I might not know everything but I am a student of living in one in peace and happiness.

  • @coolbreeze5683
    @coolbreeze5683 8 місяців тому +4

    Social media can be good and bad. It's good because it brings wisdom from people like yourself. It's also bad since it's also a source of disinformation and twisting of history and facts in order to fit into a particular box. Like what you said about "quotes" being displayed as if they were from The Buddha eventhough they are not.
    I've started learning more and more about Zen Buddhism and love many of the teachings. There are some lessons which are difficult but that's the beauty of it. That's what helps me question and challenge myself in order to grow.
    Some of the videos about Buddhism online seem to be twisted in order to help people gain wealth or to incorporate law of attraction in a disingenuous way. I'm not looking to draw or attract anything but to cultivate the love and peace I have within myself.

  • @SunshinyDay4423
    @SunshinyDay4423 8 місяців тому +4

    Greetings Venerable Nick! I've noticed one thing in common with so many spiritual learning modalities is that they ask that you separate the ego from the spirit. I've been practicing it for over a decade now and still the world's ego consumes me. It's almost like getting your car alignment. As soon as you leave the mechanic shop, can you go over a bump your alignment is out again! I wish I could stay in spirit.

  • @Dianna369
    @Dianna369 8 місяців тому +3

    All we need to do , to find the answers we all seek individually, is to go within. Start an internal dialogue, a conversation with yourself about what is concerning or upsetting you. The answers really do lay within. God bless every one of us.

  • @kennethtan6403
    @kennethtan6403 8 місяців тому +9

    Good evening. Much Love from the Philippines.

    • @NickKeomahavongOfficial
      @NickKeomahavongOfficial  8 місяців тому +1

      Greetings my friend 😊

    • @aldousu
      @aldousu 6 місяців тому +1

      I'm also from the Philippine Islands, here in Alabang Muntinlupa

  • @gretchenbond784
    @gretchenbond784 12 днів тому

    I often have to come back to a saying I read once, not sure who it is attributed to: The problem cannot be solved with the same mindset that created it.

  • @Ihatepickles4578
    @Ihatepickles4578 8 місяців тому +4

    Thank you so much Nick. Your videos make me so much more mindful. 🙏🏻

  • @radkid06
    @radkid06 6 місяців тому +2

    Your videos are so comforting and calming for me, very helpful, much needed, thanks Venerable Nick.

  • @louisel.sinniger2057
    @louisel.sinniger2057 8 місяців тому +2

    For me, I think, know that there are friends and acquaintances. That has helped me in difficult times to know the differences between the two

  • @jannengelken6017
    @jannengelken6017 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank you dear Nick for being in this world ...🌻

  • @hildalugo837
    @hildalugo837 8 місяців тому +3

    I gave my like prior to watching this video because I knew I would not be disappointed!

  • @TheTranquilMind-v6n
    @TheTranquilMind-v6n 2 місяці тому

    Your meditation guides have helped me tremendously in finding inner peace

  • @ohmstrong
    @ohmstrong Місяць тому

    Well, I totally understand that my suffering comes from the government rules and policies on their people.

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 8 місяців тому +3

    "a space that's so negative"
    The reason why I am in Tennessee and my family is in Maryland.

  • @josephwong7103
    @josephwong7103 8 місяців тому +1

    As a recovering addict, I used to solve my problems with drugs. But of course, instead of disappearing they become bigger problems. With Buddhist wisdom, I have learnt to see if I can solve it & is it within my control. If it isn’t, then just accept it as external conditions that will work out when the conditions or time ripens. There are so many ideas that I can gather from Buddha & other Buddhist writers. I also like the idea that there are wisdom too from other traditions / religions. Thank you for the reminder. 🙏🏼

  • @frontsidegrinder6858
    @frontsidegrinder6858 8 місяців тому +2

    You are very well spoken, thank you so much from northern-germany.♥

  • @law2859
    @law2859 8 місяців тому +3

    Thank you Venerable Nick 🙏

  • @johnfontana7256
    @johnfontana7256 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you again ! Nick, you are a gem . Awareness of dualistic reality, anything that separates one from all perception , labels, comparison,identity , the egos fast lane to suffering! Rising above my tiny self, the obstacle is the way!

  • @doyourbestleavetherest
    @doyourbestleavetherest 8 місяців тому +1

    It’ll pass like all the others have.

  • @ademjefit
    @ademjefit 8 місяців тому +2

    What helps me is that everything I meet in daily life is my perception. If a situation Hurts me, I will make time to look at it, feel it, look at past memories coming up, let emotions flower, and softly breathe through it until the underlaying wisdom showes. This always ends up in feeling how everything is connected & how friendly the world is. Everything becomes a healing journey.... (But i need some good effort to get there 😂❤ if i touch on my old patterns of feeling unworthy, it can feel so bloody hard 😂❤❤). Take Care everyone & thanks for all the sharing....🌱💫

    • @morgainadams
      @morgainadams 8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for your insight. What you wrote is something I struggle with every day.

    • @ademjefit
      @ademjefit 8 місяців тому

      @@morgainadams it is, isn't it!!! It is a daily work, and it can be truly intense & feeling kind of hard. Thank you, nice to meet you!

    • @morgainadams
      @morgainadams 8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you and it’s nice to meet you too. It’s funny about old patterns, just when I felt I had a handle on them, a huge incident where I don’t handle them well at all pops up.

    • @ademjefit
      @ademjefit 8 місяців тому +1

      @@morgainadams ow, tell me about it. It's like we are all the same 😅😂

    • @morgainadams
      @morgainadams 8 місяців тому

      Hi, the longer I live the more I realize that, that we are basically the same. Up until recently when I would visit a loved one at a grave yard or drive by a grave yard, I often wondered what hopes, dreams or struggles these people had. I used to think they were vastly different from mine, but they’re not.

  • @Tyler69Durden
    @Tyler69Durden 8 місяців тому +3

    How to be grateful when I'm afraid of losing what I'm grateful for

  • @Heidi1466
    @Heidi1466 8 місяців тому +2

    Sending you lots of love from Austria ❤❤❤❤
    Thank you !

  • @nerdbamarich2063
    @nerdbamarich2063 8 місяців тому +1

    Blessings 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @delia200903
    @delia200903 7 місяців тому

    When i have darkness thoughts around me and think give up i put u playlist .calm my spirit..i m follow u since the golden days in USA and unfortunatelly im in brasil nightmare niw i hate my country unhappy decision back here .but u make my days + while im still in my miserable miserable hopeless country

  • @Eleanorotica
    @Eleanorotica 8 місяців тому

    Bless you embrace your spiritual journey with open arms ❤

  • @bautibhattacharyya8396
    @bautibhattacharyya8396 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you, Nick. Very, very, suitable, speak. Sadhu, Sadhu, 🙏🙏🙏🙏🕉👈❤🥀.

  • @janedoee4830
    @janedoee4830 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you, Nick ❤

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 8 місяців тому +3

    "See things as they really are."
    That means that one thing that many of us are guilty of needs to go: Magical thinking.

  • @apeacelily5151
    @apeacelily5151 8 місяців тому +2

    Namaste Ven. Nick from the UK.
    As always, your calm, insightful words bring further peace and clarity.
    For me, the practicing non-attachment has been both liberating and soothing...leaving room in my mind for purer, healthier decisions.
    Stay safe 🙏

  • @stephanieyang2425
    @stephanieyang2425 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for the messages. I needed in my life. I lived a very2 challenging life. 😢

  • @dellahayden5606
    @dellahayden5606 8 місяців тому +2

    Greetings from Massachusetts… thank you for sharing this video with us.. I have to say that I have tried to stay on the right path to enlightenment. I’m a 50 year meditator and your teachings help guide me in my journey to be consistent. As I get older I realize that I need less, and cherish more… be happy with yourself and share the experience with others… thank you for your continued dedication . 🙏😊🌷🪷

  • @SundayBoy72
    @SundayBoy72 8 місяців тому +3

    Teacher. Thanks for this reminder. ❤

  • @anar747m
    @anar747m 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your insight 🎉 much love from Azerbaijan ❤❤❤🎉

  • @sanidasuwachirad3329
    @sanidasuwachirad3329 8 місяців тому

    Sādhu Sādhu Sādhu 🙏 🙏 🙏 Ajahn. From Thailand 😊

  • @amare83
    @amare83 8 місяців тому

    Your theme song feels so tranquil 🕯

  • @jacquelineireland2273
    @jacquelineireland2273 8 місяців тому

    So true. The lense through which we look can give a different perspective to our suffering. It can condense the problem into a compact issue and make it clearer and easier to work out. And most times we can see how our minds amped up the issue and made it more of a beast than it really was. This allows us to work through the suffering . I am still learning but what an exciting journey it is. Thank you Venerable Nick.

  • @Ritarou
    @Ritarou 8 місяців тому

    It's always so healing and heartwarming to listen to you Venerable Nick. 🙏 Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us ❤

  • @frommetoyou3262
    @frommetoyou3262 3 місяці тому

    hey nick, please can do a video on money problems / stress / how to improve your financial well-being?

  • @earaya
    @earaya 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you, Brother Nick💛

  • @FionaKeane-w9v
    @FionaKeane-w9v 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much Nick 🙏❤️

  • @EdytaŻ-h5c
    @EdytaŻ-h5c 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you from Poland ❤

  • @Always_SadGirl
    @Always_SadGirl 8 місяців тому

    Everything you just said from medical problems to social issues.. I am experiencing them all and causes me anxiety and depression

  • @hanahargraves7912
    @hanahargraves7912 8 місяців тому

    I truly appreciate your beneficial wisdom Nick 😊🤗. May you continue to be a light and shine bright among the distant stars 🌟🫶!

  • @manjushakya8316
    @manjushakya8316 8 місяців тому

    Thank you venerable Monk🙏🙏🙏

  • @Remmy750
    @Remmy750 8 місяців тому

    Master Nick, can you give us a brief tour of the monastery, if it is allowed? If not, then maybe a look at Thailand, and where you like to meditate? Thank you!

  • @cassvanessa5
    @cassvanessa5 8 місяців тому

    Thank you 🙏

  • @DiscoScientist
    @DiscoScientist 7 місяців тому

    Hello Venerable Nick. Thank you for all the videos you do. They really help me in life. With love x

  • @scentsoftravelmeditation
    @scentsoftravelmeditation 8 місяців тому +1

    Thanks Nick

  • @starfighter1972
    @starfighter1972 8 місяців тому

    Nick you always speak from the perspective of the heart and that I really like. I really like that you care about others and your videos have always something good to say. We can't live well without wisdom. I journal a lot and have derived a lot of wisdom from myself. I can also accept that many others through time have solved problems thanks to it.

  • @teresitarazote5235
    @teresitarazote5235 8 місяців тому +2

    Greetings 🙏 from Philippines 🇵🇭

    • @NickKeomahavongOfficial
      @NickKeomahavongOfficial  8 місяців тому

      Greetings my friend 😊 hope you’re well

    • @aldousu
      @aldousu 6 місяців тому

      I'm also from the Philippine Islands, here in Alabang Muntinlupa

  • @tzk121
    @tzk121 7 місяців тому

    So reassuring...I always feel better just listening to you talk😊

  • @chentequilichini7182
    @chentequilichini7182 8 місяців тому +1

    ❤ awesome nick!!!

  • @mark_______
    @mark_______ 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Ven. Nick 🙏

  • @karinarampche9340
    @karinarampche9340 8 місяців тому +1

    Greetings from Brazil 🙏🏻

  • @sebiskitchenchannel
    @sebiskitchenchannel 8 місяців тому

    Thanks for the wisdom Nick. Watching from the Philippines.

  • @PracticerOfMetta
    @PracticerOfMetta 8 місяців тому

    Once again thank you Nick for not having background music with my severe ADD I am learning so much more I’m sure there’s others like me out there. On top of that being almost 65 years old it’s hard for my brain to separate the sounds like most old people. 🙏🏻

  • @janicescott-pair97
    @janicescott-pair97 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for this

  • @uupasnabhatia
    @uupasnabhatia 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much 🙏 .. your guidance has always been light in darkness...

  • @bethcollier3789
    @bethcollier3789 8 місяців тому

    Much gratitude and love. Thank you

  • @jurga_jo
    @jurga_jo 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you brother Nick! ☀

  • @sharonchambers5360
    @sharonchambers5360 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you nick I needed this ❤️🙏🏾

  • @bedirbozkurt2999
    @bedirbozkurt2999 8 місяців тому

    Thank you❤

  • @BeeVloggingComedy
    @BeeVloggingComedy 8 місяців тому +1

    Very nice !! Also very good point about suffering

  • @geertjevandermeer4411
    @geertjevandermeer4411 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you very much for you're wise words and spiritual wishdom

  • @sheilajoseph9953
    @sheilajoseph9953 8 місяців тому

    Thankyou. Your wise words are always helpful. Namo Buddhaya.💚

  • @kerryfaden94
    @kerryfaden94 8 місяців тому

    Thank you!!!!

  • @debrawhite250
    @debrawhite250 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for doing this video, it really helps me to listen to you :)

  • @Rain00184
    @Rain00184 8 місяців тому

    Thanks, your English is easy to understand

  • @1362ehsan
    @1362ehsan 8 місяців тому +1

    Thanks Nick!

  • @kaydixie5727
    @kaydixie5727 8 місяців тому

    Such a wise approach and thank you for sharing so many helpful insights.

  • @waterairindustry342
    @waterairindustry342 8 місяців тому +1

    Many thanks for this.

  • @mariekarlsson2119
    @mariekarlsson2119 8 місяців тому +2

    Hej Nick
    Jag påminner mig själv om att vara tacksam för det jag kan göra trots sjukdom som jag har
    Jag tränar varje dag på att hjälpa andra genom tex lyssna aktivt på andra
    För mig har livet mening om jag kan ge tex ett leende en lärdom eller en kram
    Ju äldre jag blir desto mera tycker jag att livet går ut på att ge och att vara snäll😀❤️

  • @NinaNina88999
    @NinaNina88999 7 місяців тому

    สาธุค่ะ 🙏🏻

  • @theshizzen3988
    @theshizzen3988 3 місяці тому

    Save Soil ❤

  • @User12_896
    @User12_896 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom, Ven Nick. Buddhism and meditation have changed my life for the better. I would like to go back to the original teachings of Buddha and learn from them to enrich my spiritual health. Do you have any book recommendations?

    • @NickKeomahavongOfficial
      @NickKeomahavongOfficial  8 місяців тому

      You’re most welcome! And yes, here are some books you can download for free:)
      nickkeomahavong.com/dhamma-1

  • @osherpikado
    @osherpikado 8 місяців тому +1

    Peace.

  • @skaranth8898
    @skaranth8898 8 місяців тому

    Namaste
    In my current situation, this information is very useful. Still I am in need of your guidance to handle myself in a much better way.
    I lost my daughter 2 months ago, she was 22, it is like the whole world collapsed to me..... I could not stop my tears.... No reasons to live.... Moreover, I don't want to come out of her memories....
    🙏🏻

    • @blissfullyaliveyoga5350
      @blissfullyaliveyoga5350 8 місяців тому

      Sending you love. May your heart heal and may you find peace and joy again 🙏

    • @skaranth8898
      @skaranth8898 8 місяців тому

      Tq 🙏🏻

    • @Aurora-uh9nk
      @Aurora-uh9nk 8 місяців тому

      Sending big hugs
      Undoubtedly, the memory of your daughter remains with you forever. At first, these remembrances may bring pain. Eventually, though, the thought of your lost daughter can uplift and sustain you, and even bring you joy. She lives in yr heart ALWAYS ❤

    • @skaranth8898
      @skaranth8898 8 місяців тому

      Tq🥹

  • @claridee0765
    @claridee0765 8 місяців тому +1

    Greetings from Delaware! It was an honor meeting you and Ven. Mike (Penn State💙) in Lancaster. We briefly spoke about my daughter’s overdose death and this video is right on time. I am definitely one of those who have read every self out book imaginable and still felt stuck before her death. What do you suggest as an authentic text for Buddhism, there is so much out there . 🙏

    • @NickKeomahavongOfficial
      @NickKeomahavongOfficial  8 місяців тому +1

      It was a pleasure to meet you. I'm glad we got a chance to meditate together. Again my heart goes out to you. Here are some reading materials to get started. nickkeomahavong.com/dhamma-1
      There's one book specially about death that you can check out :)

    • @claridee0765
      @claridee0765 8 місяців тому

      @@NickKeomahavongOfficial Thank You, I will look into the link. I truly enjoy your newest book and have been sharing it with my friends. Please keep sharing your knowledge and wisdom 🙏when I came home from the event and posted the photos on Facebook, I had people reach out to me stating that they follow you too. 🙏

  • @KevinBun
    @KevinBun 8 місяців тому

    Hi Nick, do you have any thoughts on dealing with intergenerational trauma, and how to deal with toxic family members from a Buddhist perspective? I grew up in the Cambodian Buddhist tradition, but I've had trouble reconciling the teachings of filial piety alongside necessary healing and distance in the face of abuse.

  • @cultfrenzy6737
    @cultfrenzy6737 8 місяців тому

    Love

  • @alexanderlehmann4653
    @alexanderlehmann4653 8 місяців тому +2

    Greetings from Germany :)

  • @ValGracia-px6wg
    @ValGracia-px6wg 7 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Remmy750
    @Remmy750 8 місяців тому

    You don’t have to be a Buddhist to reap the rewards of it’s wisdom. You can learn from anyone.

  • @trollsneedhugs
    @trollsneedhugs 8 місяців тому +1

    My secret weapon is JC 🙏

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 8 місяців тому +5

    Bravo! While my personal life is quiet, peaceful, orderly, and good, I listen to you often because you are so inspirational.
    Well done. Sending you blessings, greetings, well wishes from Tennessee 🙏

  • @alisonmitchell9178
    @alisonmitchell9178 8 місяців тому +1

    Hi Venerable Nick, thank you for this video. I just wondered, are there any books you can recommend on the subject of spiritual wisdom and Buddhism for beginners?😊

    • @NickKeomahavongOfficial
      @NickKeomahavongOfficial  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you and yes here are some books you can download:
      nickkeomahavong.com/dhamma-1

  • @buketmax
    @buketmax 8 місяців тому

    Hi, what is the sacred text? How can I search in the google? Thank you so much for your tips in our self development journey 🙏🏼

  • @jeffreyjackson5229
    @jeffreyjackson5229 8 місяців тому

    How to look at death.
    "Respectfully, I appeal to you. We all must clarify the great matter of life and death. Time passes swiftly. Do not be negligent"-
    Zen Buddhist Epitaph.

  • @candybroadway3023
    @candybroadway3023 8 місяців тому +1

    🙏

  • @jacquelineireland2273
    @jacquelineireland2273 4 місяці тому

    Is there a buddha 'bible' written in true english translation we could obtain to help us with understanding his teachings to help ourselves? I don't know which book to trust. 🙏

  • @georgeandrews2839
    @georgeandrews2839 8 місяців тому

    Expectations lead to misery

  • @amaliaruja8947
    @amaliaruja8947 8 місяців тому +1

  • @Angelhands703
    @Angelhands703 8 місяців тому

    Good morning Ajarn what temple are you located in Thailand?