ABCs Say "I Love You" to Their Dads for the First Time | ABC美国华裔第一次对父亲说“我爱你”挑战

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  • Опубліковано 18 чер 2017
  • We called our Dads for Father's Day this year so we could cringe our faces off!!!!!! \( ̄▽ ̄)/ Haha hope you guys enjoy! :)
    Let us know what kind of video you want us to make next~
    Find the cast on Instagram!
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    Lisha - / lisha.du
    Jianing - / jayyangg
    Allen - / allenhuangg
    Derek - / dfannnn
    Sandra - / sandiejoee
    Charlotte - / charlottegumdrop
    LET'S BE FRIENDS!
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    Produced by Terry He & Lisha Du
    Edited by Terry He
    Subtitles by Jennifer Kai

КОМЕНТАРІ • 713

  • @davidko2932
    @davidko2932 7 років тому +1806

    "No matter how much I miss you I still can't get you to visit" LOOOLLL too accurate!

  • @wilsonwang1490
    @wilsonwang1490 6 років тому +930

    I'm dead with "my favorite food is your favorite food "lol

  • @chachacha8862
    @chachacha8862 7 років тому +645

    "That's very kind of you" IM SCREAMIGGKEKS

  • @noodlepanda15
    @noodlepanda15 7 років тому +675

    韭菜饺子

  • @xTenshiAi
    @xTenshiAi 7 років тому +1225

    ive never said it to my parents.. i dont think i can because we will both die of awkwardness

    • @lotus-ei6ky
      @lotus-ei6ky 6 років тому +49

      xTenshiAi maybe just drop it in when you leaving the house to go somewhere maybe. It’ll just be little hint of happiness drop into their day

    • @sierrabrown4725
      @sierrabrown4725 6 років тому +44

      Wtf why? They’re your parents....

    • @Shoshii
      @Shoshii 6 років тому +11

      Aahh me too ):

    • @Yobachi2007
      @Yobachi2007 6 років тому +30

      Sierra Brown Because if the culture of your relationship doesn't have that in it, then its not there. Especially if you feel like the other person's response is going to be to look at you like your stupid or they'll think why are you making things mushy and awkward.

    • @meow5412
      @meow5412 6 років тому +2

      Same here, but I think I'd cry..

  • @biancayukkei
    @biancayukkei 6 років тому +299

    VODKA LOL why am i just discovering these videos now 😂😂😭

  • @brewnette329
    @brewnette329 7 років тому +842

    It may be funny for you kids but as a Mom, i found it so touching.. some tears fell while i was watching it.. maybe because i never had that much chance to say them to my father when he was still alive... I'm glad my kids get to say it to their father as often as they could..... this was really good Terry! I really love it! Thanks!!

    • @sophialyu3919
      @sophialyu3919 6 років тому +12

      Hay, Brew. As a daughter, I shed my tears too!

    • @celesthebus2542
      @celesthebus2542 6 років тому +2

      ♡♡♡

    • @viviantran7063
      @viviantran7063 5 років тому +2

      As an 11 year old who’s father has to work a lot I cried

  • @vdonnn
    @vdonnn 5 років тому +76

    “ my favorite food is your favorite food”
    Then the other one
    “Vodka”
    Lmao!

  • @sherrybyw
    @sherrybyw 7 років тому +930

    Omg hahaha loved this video LOL
    110% can relate

    • @klee6914
      @klee6914 7 років тому +1

      sherry!! I love your videos (:

    • @user-hq1mr1ql2k
      @user-hq1mr1ql2k 6 років тому

      who know jianing's facebook id ,i want follow her

    • @user-nq3vi4ij3o
      @user-nq3vi4ij3o 6 років тому

      sherrybyw hah

  • @ludi3056
    @ludi3056 6 років тому +187

    Other Parents: I love you honey!
    Chinese Parents: Eat! Eat!

    • @nurlindafsihotang49
      @nurlindafsihotang49 5 років тому +8

      Indonesian parents :"have you bring your umbrella?", "have you eaten yet!? EAT, NOW!!", "it's late, WHY AREN'T YOU HOME YET!!" and shoving plenty foods enough for an army in your fridge everytime they visit.

    • @user-gv7mp2il8c
      @user-gv7mp2il8c 5 років тому

      哈哈哈哈

    • @neilmars8337
      @neilmars8337 5 років тому +1

      @@nurlindafsihotang49 sounds like parent words

    • @RJ-qd4py
      @RJ-qd4py 4 роки тому +1

      You are officially a Chinese now.

    • @JoseSantos-el8nj
      @JoseSantos-el8nj 4 роки тому +1

      @@nurlindafsihotang49 That's like everywhere parents lol

  • @atari_rx
    @atari_rx 4 роки тому +14

    I’m Asian American and my parents are Asian immigrants. I am so blessed and grateful that my parents have been telling me they love me ever since I was a child. It is so important for us humans to hear those words “I love you” and “I’m proud of you”, and I hope new generation Asians also say these loving words to their children. It truly makes a difference in your mental health. I’m 28 years old and my parents and I still say “I love you” to each other after we see each other or get off the phone. Some people don’t say it enough and you just never know if it’ll be your last time hearing those words being said. To be vulnerable is a beautiful thing.

  • @lee_1292
    @lee_1292 6 років тому +451

    This is so hard and weird to watch. Especially since I say "I love you" to my dad at least once a day lmao.

    • @Jobe-13
      @Jobe-13 6 років тому +7

      Constantly Sleepy Ikr

    • @potatolookingass6920
      @potatolookingass6920 6 років тому +10

      Lmao mine says it- wait. I dont even have a dad

    • @raining214
      @raining214 5 років тому +5

      I say it literally about 50 times a day amongst everyone in my house oops

    • @okbutjikook-8061
      @okbutjikook-8061 4 роки тому +2

      I say I love you too my mum like three five times a day and then my dad like once a year ahahaha

  • @abjklmrsakagamiali1651
    @abjklmrsakagamiali1651 6 років тому +48

    Allen can't be an astronaut or a basketball player confirmed

  • @emij1210
    @emij1210 4 роки тому +23

    “The beating were more of like a “I love you” beatings” I’m crying

  • @KKSliderBuns
    @KKSliderBuns 6 років тому +68

    "'in front of me' okay, those are the key words"

  • @starzcharmed
    @starzcharmed 5 років тому +32

    If I tell my parents I love them, they look at me suspiciously and ask me why and what I did wrong LOL

  • @stephenlee3911
    @stephenlee3911 7 років тому +55

    its like "oh, hey , I love you man~" "Thanks~" HAHAHAHAHA 😂

  • @12345jli
    @12345jli 7 років тому +173

    Oooh from 我的海漂时代 channel to here? c::
    "Ever since you were a kid I said you had no chance".-- Cute family interactions are always the best. ^^ ' (lol not only Terry's dad, but Allen's parents have been savage af in both the videos they've been in XD )

  • @kuocrystal7728
    @kuocrystal7728 7 років тому +200

    Both Terry's dad and Terry have Dongbei accent😂😂😂

  • @her.07
    @her.07 6 років тому +4

    4:44 "VODKA?" This video made me laugh so hard I got in trouble watching UA-cam when I wasn't suppose to!

  • @JClarkNzz
    @JClarkNzz 6 років тому +4

    "No matter how much I miss you I still can't get you to visit" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 love it! These dads are awesome!

  • @hungry8560
    @hungry8560 6 років тому +7

    Terry and allen's dad are so savage at crushing his child's heart 😂😂😂

  • @MegalopsykhiaLIN
    @MegalopsykhiaLIN 4 роки тому +1

    A fun fact is that the Chinese version of "I love you" didn't exist till last century after the import and translation of western litterature and films. As a Chinese, I've never really heard of " I love you" be said around me except on the TV.

  • @sophialyu3919
    @sophialyu3919 6 років тому +2

    I think those fathers said "Thank you" since they really appreciated it and took their kids words as the most precious gift, the best gift ever on the Father's Day!

  • @bbygemz
    @bbygemz 7 років тому +30

    terry is actually hella cute LMAO heart eyes for you bro

  • @Fudgers92
    @Fudgers92 7 років тому +250

    I CRINGED SO HARD WATCHING THIS.... I seriously get how awkward it is and omg if Terry told me to do this I would've just gotten up and left the room. LMAO. I mean.. it's even awkward giving my dad cards that say "I love you" on them too lol.. and yeah he doesn't say it either.. he'll read it and then just say "thank you" and then move on lolololol
    But yeah... in Asian culture it's true... we just show it through meaning or we just know the love is there. No need to specifically point it out or anything... and yeah like Allen said.. even down to the wire hangers/slippers beatings.. (lol) you just know your parents love you.

    • @joyce4973
      @joyce4973 7 років тому

      AGRREEED

    • @Shoshii
      @Shoshii 6 років тому +3

      Me too but its just me and my parents, we are mexican and I grow jealous with I see happy american families throwing the words "I love you" all over the place and giving hugs. Its just awkward and too much for me

    • @nurlindafsihotang49
      @nurlindafsihotang49 5 років тому

      @Abacus ? Aren't geography is teached too in pakistan? Why the need to emphasized that. Of course pakistani is asian.

    • @nurlindafsihotang49
      @nurlindafsihotang49 5 років тому +3

      My grandma says "if your parents and I still bothers to beat you and mad at you, you know that we still love you. If I hate you, you are air/non-existed to me. So stop crying, NOW!"

    • @nurlindafsihotang49
      @nurlindafsihotang49 5 років тому

      @Abacus sorry should've wrote "aren't geography are teached in...". Typing on the go, and english is my 7th language. As many asian in asia do 😉

  • @md8300cn
    @md8300cn 7 років тому +262

    i like the way how you make those videos

  • @yixia6313
    @yixia6313 6 років тому

    Love this kind of video, ABSOLUTELY Hope to see you guys frequently... I mean update video ahah at least one video per month, please guys, love youuuu

  • @Goldenhuny06
    @Goldenhuny06 6 років тому +1

    This was so sweet. I'm glad they finally had the opportunity to say it to their dads. My father passed last year and I wish I could say I love you to him again.

  • @user-ue1pu7er2e
    @user-ue1pu7er2e 6 років тому

    RRRReally like these kind of videos!! You guys have brought so much fun for me.

  • @LL-hz9jw
    @LL-hz9jw 7 років тому +39

    Just so sweet ....crying😢

  • @chaialoves
    @chaialoves 7 років тому +2

    I understand how you guys were feeling because it is hard for us to tell our dad “I love you” . I love when you guys spoke Mandarin I felt like I was watching a drama normally to me it adds more feelings and emotions . you guys have such cool dad . I hope to see more videos in the future .

  • @kokoyyoo0831
    @kokoyyoo0831 6 років тому

    very nice video! ive never said that to my dad. on my wedding day, when he passed my hand to my husband, we both couldnt stop crying. Dad is the man who loves you most

  • @taetaebambam2506
    @taetaebambam2506 5 років тому +6

    When he said vodka I snorted 😂 Love these videos! And I can relate, I always felt awkward saying I love you to my Asian dad, but after I said it once in a phone call he was so happy and now whenever I call he ends with 'And who loves me?' Just to hear me say it 😂💕

  • @Swegosaur
    @Swegosaur 7 років тому +1

    I MISSED YOU TERRY I'M GLAD YOU POSTED AFTER SO LONG

  • @allessiaella6744
    @allessiaella6744 7 років тому +10

    THIS WAS HILARIOUS!!! Despite how cringe-y and awkward it must have been for both sides, it must have been nice to hear and have the opportunity laid out perfectly to say those simple 3 words #AWWWW
    LOL when allen laughs, his face doesn't move, sounds just come out of him

    • @bethr4149
      @bethr4149 7 років тому

      Alleesia Ella and how Allen says 'I hate you Terry'

  • @cherylmcliu4356
    @cherylmcliu4356 7 років тому +3

    SO SWEEET!!! LOVING YOUR VIDEOS

  • @vl28
    @vl28 6 років тому +1

    Hey guys, this is awesome. I live in China and I'm gonna show this to my students tomorrow as a part of our intercultural class. I wonder what their reaction is going to be. Keep making the videos, so kids here can understand the differences better.

  • @Deyraldine
    @Deyraldine 5 років тому +1

    Thanks for this video. Really enjoyed watching this during exam weeks 😬😬

  • @leanjoycemamaril6850
    @leanjoycemamaril6850 7 років тому +3

    I MISS YOUR VIDEOS TERRY!!!! 💕😭😍 BTW LISHA IS SO CUTE AND SHE SEEMS SO SWEET 😭😍😍

  • @sarah-dq5rl
    @sarah-dq5rl 5 років тому +7

    "I love you!"
    "Thank you."
    😂😂😂

  • @LambentIchor
    @LambentIchor 6 років тому

    That was very sweet. I remember saying I love you to my Irish father for the first time as an adult when I was 21. We had clashed and fought a lot when I was younger and I had come back from living in London for a year with the intention of putting that all behind us.
    As I prepared to leave and go back to London I went and hugged him and told him I loved him. I still recall the startled look on his face when I did it. It became easier after that and by the time he died we had become quite comfortable saying it to each other, him often saying it before me in the end.

  • @amyqin5720
    @amyqin5720 6 років тому +2

    AWWWWWW!!! SO SWEET!!!! WATCHING THIS ON MID-AUTUMN FESTIVAL!!!

  • @Victoria-rw1qx
    @Victoria-rw1qx 4 роки тому

    this is sooo beautiful and wholesome!! i love it!!

  • @stephaniearellano4498
    @stephaniearellano4498 6 років тому +10

    It’s funny how the parents have no problem insulting their children 🤣🤣🤣

  • @harnamkaur2703
    @harnamkaur2703 4 роки тому +8

    "Beatings were more like I love you beatings" every Asian kid can relate.

  • @fayelockwood7656
    @fayelockwood7656 6 років тому +10

    I relate to the *'I love you beatings'* so much lmao 😂

  • @irvinge6590
    @irvinge6590 5 років тому

    Whenever it's a family related episode. I love watching Allen's part. So relatable 🤣

  • @iamyourfatherluke4964
    @iamyourfatherluke4964 7 років тому +5

    YAY YOU'RE BACK

  • @kathrynh.3515
    @kathrynh.3515 4 роки тому

    this channel is so useful for learning chinese. i wish they would update more often

  • @Corina11191
    @Corina11191 5 років тому

    I love this! Need more of it

  • @jessiek6815
    @jessiek6815 6 років тому +57

    “你觉得我从小好好练能进nba吗?” “不能” 哈哈哈 笑尿

    • @annechen5266
      @annechen5266 5 років тому +4

      而且Terry同时有美国口音和东北口音。lmao

    • @eviexxx1547
      @eviexxx1547 3 роки тому +1

      I have no idea what u said but I liked ur comment so ur welcome also that writing is cool bet it takes forever to write at school

  • @wanggangwanggang
    @wanggangwanggang 7 років тому +39

    中国人就是这样的,不说。但是他用语言关心,或是电话问你,或是让你感受。。。。。。所以别逼他们干这些了,哈哈哈,但是看得我起鸡皮疙瘩。。。。。。。

  • @dcngn_
    @dcngn_ 6 років тому +1

    Oh man hahaha all those thank yous were so funny

  • @cindywang8852
    @cindywang8852 5 років тому

    I love ur videos so much. Look forward to watching ur new shows

  • @chloef6080
    @chloef6080 7 років тому +2

    After i have watched other ABC series for like ten times, finally there is a new one!!! Yay!! But you made me cry

  • @AC-bm9lj
    @AC-bm9lj 7 років тому +1

    I love watching Allen's scenes,it's always soo funny.😂

  • @user-zq3yy3to9u
    @user-zq3yy3to9u 6 років тому +17

    杨佳宁父女 的北京口音很好听。

  • @kathrynh.3515
    @kathrynh.3515 4 роки тому +1

    I LOVE YOU BEATINGS AND THE REACTION HAD ME DYINNNGGGG OF LAUGHTER

  • @maijacalcagno
    @maijacalcagno 2 роки тому

    Oh man. I'm crying. So sweet. ❤

  • @dani-dd2my
    @dani-dd2my 6 років тому

    My mom and I say "I love you" to each other every day, I can't imagine it being any other way. But that's not everything ofc, showing love with actions is amazing and very important.
    This video idea is great :)

  • @arnarn1623
    @arnarn1623 4 роки тому

    So beautiful to say I love you to parents. Even though it's awkward it is still important while they are alive

  • @ruifan9218
    @ruifan9218 7 років тому +2

    Miss you guys so much!!

  • @imanidlamini8499
    @imanidlamini8499 6 років тому +4

    "I just wanted to say I love you"
    "Thank you... thank you"
    😂😂😂 I can do relate to this and I'm from Africa.
    Why is it so awkward? Like I know I love both my parents but just the words... ahhh! 😂😂

  • @CB-lw6dh
    @CB-lw6dh 6 років тому

    I just found this channel. love it!

  • @entomnia1238
    @entomnia1238 6 років тому

    I looove this channel soo muchh

  • @zhasebe8911
    @zhasebe8911 4 роки тому

    hey terry 你好 我13年看过你的快乐男声比赛 你唱的pianoman把我打动了 今天终于又看到你了,希望你一切都好 支持你!

  • @mehrinfirdousi3834
    @mehrinfirdousi3834 5 років тому +1

    This made tear up a little, I really want to tell my dad that I love him and just how much he means to me but every time we talk, we argue and I don’t know what to do.

  • @unicorn.taetae3221
    @unicorn.taetae3221 7 років тому +2

    yay 🙌 long time no see 😊

  • @oakley8099
    @oakley8099 5 років тому +2

    I feel lik I'm tearing😭💞🌼that's so sweet💕

  • @BeCarefulWithAI
    @BeCarefulWithAI 4 роки тому

    This is very touching, surprised that some of the fathers just said thank you, thank you, instead of I love you. I say I love you to my daughter every night because I never heard it myself and was always doubtful that I was as a child, to this day.

  • @bellelikestofilm
    @bellelikestofilm 6 років тому +14

    ...Am I the only one who can’t relate. I’m from Philippines and my parents always say I love you once an hour 😂 I love them 😂

  • @pleiadesdragon1391
    @pleiadesdragon1391 6 років тому

    Its lovely to watch all the love coming out lol . they have to practish more often I think

  • @AC-yk9pw
    @AC-yk9pw 7 років тому +17

    真的笑着笑着就哭了 你不说我也没说 但我们都知道彼此心里怎么想的 我们和爸爸的关系真的基本都是这样

  • @DomoLovesNina
    @DomoLovesNina 6 років тому

    ah i love these videos they're so funny and interesting!!

  • @tokohacker
    @tokohacker 6 років тому +4

    突然眼睛有些湿润,好感动。尤其是用中文说我爱你的时候。u know.

  • @yuzuflavor1311
    @yuzuflavor1311 7 років тому +176

    笑着笑着就哭了

  • @mirror2398
    @mirror2398 5 років тому

    I have chinese parents too and this is accurate. I'm glad i ain't the only one who haven't said the i love you words to my parents, like not even once! But the thing is, the latter part is really emotional and sincere, it maybe scripted but you know deep inside the real feeling is there. Love it

  • @haba2095
    @haba2095 6 років тому +1

    I like this video so much & I'll subscribe to this channel
    Acutually Chinese is a weird & difficult language but when I heard it here I like it
    Keep going ❤

  • @carinaxu8510
    @carinaxu8510 6 років тому +8

    God it drives my tears after I laugh so hard!

  • @vilinaengheepi9737
    @vilinaengheepi9737 7 років тому +5

    Long time no see bruh. And love the video ❤️ hope to see more videos ✌🏻love from 🇮🇳

  • @user-vm6nm2yq4q
    @user-vm6nm2yq4q 6 років тому

    Pls upload more video!!! I miss u guys

  • @rw6997
    @rw6997 6 років тому

    such a warm video!!

  • @beiyasings
    @beiyasings 5 років тому

    I love the facial expressions right after saying the mushy things like, "Do you miss me?" and "I love you." but the counterattack THANK YOU was the bomb! This was so hilarious!!!!

  • @ssacrosanctt
    @ssacrosanctt 5 років тому +1

    Terry is so amazing

  • @bunny3757
    @bunny3757 5 років тому +3

    “ever since you were a kid, I said you had no chance” 😂

  • @eugenekang5537
    @eugenekang5537 6 років тому +1

    The reason why these parents responing back "thank you" when their child says I love you, instead of "I love you, too" would be they assume loving their child is like, no doubt for them, always. Very touching.

  • @Coconut4200
    @Coconut4200 5 років тому

    this is probably the hardest video ive ever had to watch AHHHHHHHHH

  • @annew5380
    @annew5380 7 років тому +2

    I would cringe and quit the challenge haha...
    Anyway love your videos. Missed seeing everyone so much! Please make more videos! Havent seen you guys on LIT for a very long time!

  • @Sillygaminghd
    @Sillygaminghd 7 років тому +2

    This was cute and touching!

  • @thesimplelife185
    @thesimplelife185 7 років тому +77

    为什么我哭了。。哈哈 *insert wechat facepalm emoji here*

  • @airyballoon
    @airyballoon 4 роки тому +1

    First crying of laughter...then from catching feels

  • @ireumhannah
    @ireumhannah 4 роки тому +1

    I love this videoooo

  • @dapeng1919
    @dapeng1919 5 років тому

    Terry真棒

  • @kellyma2828
    @kellyma2828 7 років тому +32

    很感动 看着看着哭了

  • @dimatakdol
    @dimatakdol 5 років тому +4

    "I love you"
    "Thank you"

  • @afblaze94
    @afblaze94 7 років тому +75

    Wow Jianing's Chinese is like mainland Chinese

    • @liwang248
      @liwang248 7 років тому +17

      she is so pretty

    • @afblaze94
      @afblaze94 7 років тому +5

      Li Wang lol she's the only reason i watch this

    • @s1763aago
      @s1763aago 6 років тому +5

      jianing so pretty 💞

    • @DianaRodriguez-rh4dl
      @DianaRodriguez-rh4dl 5 років тому +3

      All The Girls In Here Are Beautiful 😍

  • @kellyicyprincess10
    @kellyicyprincess10 7 років тому +2

    Lol I enjoyed this video!

  • @yaraf.1108
    @yaraf.1108 5 років тому

    I may or may not have teared up at this.

  • @lilla7423
    @lilla7423 6 років тому +3

    "I love you"
    "Thank you"
    My childhood in five words