Successful Woman Married A Shady Man She Met Online And He Killed Her | The Lauren Charles Story
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- Опубліковано 2 вер 2023
- This is the story of Lauren Elizabeth-Barthé Charles, a radiant soul who illuminated the lives of those around her. She was more than an accomplished lawyer, more than a daughter, more than a friend. Her journey was one of curiosity, boundless spirit, and a heart full of kindness.
Lauren was married to Reginald Dunlap Jr., a relationship that held both joy and hidden turmoil. But tragedy struck on March 7, 2021, as Lauren's light was tragically extinguished, leaving a community shattered. As the investigation proceeded a devastating truth came into light, reminding us of the dark reality that is often kept hidden from the outside world. Welcome to Viral Crimes. Subscribe and hit the bell icon for more stories.
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Damn she was smart a lawyer what is she doing online meeting men? That was her mistake smart people dont go online to find potential partners
Can you do a story on Richmond Phillips thanks
Women everywhere need to hear what online connections can lead to...he was a wolf in sheep clothing.
I think it is awful of what happened to Lauren she seemed like a sweet person may she rip
Hello, may I repost your video in my youtube channel. I will credit your channel in my post
It’s okay to be single. RIP
Hello and I’m at peace 7 months single let that devil go Thank God for protection and him leaving on his own best day of my life!
It absolutely is!! Love thyself first!!
It's better to be happily single than miserably attached.
@@tupacshakur9491 LAWD I read this with pride and so many men have been trying to court me, like the old folk would say! I decline EVERY TIME I could be passing up a potential suitor but at this point I can’t take the chance of being miserable 😖 again!
@@Iman-ve3il Amen 🙏🏾
Stay off of these dating sites. Vet these men. Stop trying to help failures. Stop dating down.
That part
True
Thank you! Lauren Charles was a beautiful soul. An accomplished young woman academically. She was an inspiration to all of us. She married this psychopathic monster who brought absolutely nothing to the table! Uneducated, no financial backing, evil and demonic. DON'T be so desperate, ladies, that you will marry a jealous and a soulless man!
Unaccomplished unfulfilled jealous men will always be a black woman greatest threat.
Even the accomplished abuse and kill bw.
Not “jealous” , but envious. These guys have no character that resembles a real man. But only the body of one. Ladies, leave losers were you find them.
Say it again you forgot in the closet Damn near all BM are Gay also
wow
You start to lower your standards when you are lonely and hurting, this is what happens! 😢 Please ladies be very careful who you bring into your life.. rip Lauren
Yes and always do a background check ✅ on them
Hey beautiful u single
Lol buys cat😉
Obviously that was her standard
Women, when you're successful in your life, leave these no goal having, controlling, abusive loser guys alone and get with a man who's just as successful as you! May this beautiful woman RIP.
Exactly he was a damn bum and wasn’t even the looker 🤮
Exactly. A man with nothing to lose is a very dangerous man indeed.
This is why I dont date men who are on the down low, they hate women so much and they hate that they can’t be themselves thats why they kill women and beat women, black culture is just so damn toxic and it has to change
Closeted gay men are dangerous yall
I genuinely believe that the guy was gay and on the closet, I dated a guy on the dl and they are dangerous because they hate women!!!! When you hear about women getting beat up and killed its always by a guy in the effing closet
Never date a person with nothing to lose, because you might lose your life. I use to date a person who didn't have a pot to piss in nor a window to throw it out. When I wanted to end the relationship the person tried to end me and themself.
Glad you made it out ❤
No you just need to stop meeting people online you don't know these people. Got nothing to do with who has what you got millionaire having paying people to knock people off
@@traviscarter1023 I didn't meet the person on line.. so stop assuming.
OK you might be right but at the same time making statements about people not having a pot to piss in is bullshit. It's been plenty of long lasting relationships from people meeting at a low point in life. It's people that got degrees making 100k not good in a relationship. A woman meeting me why I don't have a pot to piss in and stick around when I'm successful is the woman I need to marry not the one coming in my life after success why do I need her then she wasn't shooting with me in the gym . That's the point I'm trying to make rather a person successful or not that doesn't guarantee a positive long lasting relationship.
@@traviscarter1023 every situation is different for different people. Most people want someone on their level.
Dating online is literally the same as meeting someone in the grocery store, gas station, club or church. You still don't fully know that person. They can still tell you anything. Its just up to you to take your time to get to know that person without jumping in so quick. And make sure to try to get them comfortable over time so that you can get their full name to do a background check on they ass for safety's sake. Stay safe ladies however you decide to meet people.
I agree. At least when you date somebody online, you can do a background check on them before you go out with them. If they give you bogus information you can find that out too.
@@vanityposh6348exactly!
I’m getting date of birth and full name on date #2 lbvvvs
@@Iman-ve3il yes that’s for the best. I usually go on beenverified and do my background checks.
Forget about making them comfortable. When I was dating I straight up asked for their ID and took a photo of it. That way I could look them up and have a current address. Women need to be unapologetically bold for their own safety.
He stuffed a rag down her throat and choked her with it before beating her to death. Pure evil. He wanted her to suffer. Leave these black men alone ladies.
Too many of them are sick in the head.
Why are black women getting killed at a high rate from black men? what is black women doing that is the question you should be asking. And this is not only black men it's people women kill there husbands to. Y'all sound like yall have daddy issues. Most black men dont need to mess around with black women. Y'all make men angry and this is what happens. He is wrong but what did she do? Why she bringing her family in her business why is it a lot of male friends at her wedding? Lol don't blame him look at her to. Why is her friends doing background checks without him knowing. Smh this is why I stay single.
Shoot true shit but white man aint no different though they take your life over life insurance if you do better than them or equally..im good single
Good advice, many of them are control freaks.
Facts
Never let an abuser know that your leaving!!
Exactly
Never ever! It's dangerous dating I am so not interested.
Never date a loser this was avoidable
I always say that.. move in silence!!
i can’t believe she married him. no matter the red flags she ignored she didn’t deserve this. he’s literally the devil. rip to her.
Ladies be careful....leave these dusty; gaslighting; no good demons alone. Take care of your self, seek therapy, up your esteem...find discernment.
A LAWYER CHOSE TO MARRY *"THAT⁉️⁉️⁉️"*
NEEDLESS TO SAY IT DID NOT END WELL....
Exactly
Stop it. You would have married "that" too. Stop the "after the fact" bitterness. I'm sure she didn't know she was marrying her killer. All women see at first is someone tall. He was taller than her, that is 99% of women's standards so stop it.
@@r.9874 *im a MAN ⁉️⁉️⁉️*
*HARD PAUSE ⏸️*
SHE'S A LAWYER, WITH ACCESS TO INFORMATION.....
She was desperate. He couldn't even sit like a respected man. He looks weird
Killed with the very God she worshipped. Let that sink in. She drew that imp to herself.
It's ok not to be married, ladies.
No one spoke up. This is that "don't judge" crowd, the "don't be a hater" and "you're just jealous" crowd. These are the people who won't speak up for fear of losing a friend. I see it every day. Children are abused and friends are harmed because the don't judge crowd never say a word. True, they may not listen, but at least you've done your part to intervene.
Yeah. I STOPPED listening to the "don't judge" nonsense years ago. Its,social programming to make you weak and a victim.
I call a spade a spade and don't second guess myself with people and situations. I TEST everyone and have ZERO tolerance for lies and b.s.
The first time is your last time.
Yell, curse at or try to dominate or control me and that's your first and last time. I cut a few people out for that reason because I could SEE who they really were but they didn't see me.
Don't need a "relationship to be complete.
This beautiful woman fell for the old okey doke and it's hard to believe she chose such an evil sadistic loser. A DOJ lawyer at that level.
I once had a roommate 40 years ago put his fist in my face and threaten to kill me. After they left the house I barricaded my door. While he,was at work the next day I packed my 💩 in my car, turned the keys in, found a cheap motel and NEVER saw him again. Thanks to the internet I found he died 10 years ago.
Zero tolerance. Dr. Maya Angelou said when someone shows you who they are; believe them-the FIRST time. RIP Ms. Charles.
Best and most honest comment
And now he’s going to end up in front of a judge when she could have judged herself
Exactly!
I just wrote the sand thing .
True love of a friend family is the ability to tell the truth. If I see something I will at least trv to say something. If they don’t listen then that’s on them , I’ve done my part.
Thank for posting. It's not "judgement" it's "justice."
Hearing that she wanted him to leave, and couldn't because of eviction law.... Is so sad.
She should have gotten her ccw
she should have left until he could be evicted
Wow, that’s deep when a person says you have have nothing in you, except evil 😮
Smh
There Is Something Very Demonic That Have Gotten Into Many Black Males Or Maybe It Was There In An Extreme Amount All Along And Many Just Did Not Know About It. I Mean They Did Sell Their Own Children When They Could Not Pay Their Debts In Africa And Then To White Men.
Wait a minute!!! I’m ok with not meeting your mother but I’m not marrying ANYONE who gave me an address to a vacant lot 🤡 She was desperate for love
Never date or marry someone who doesn’t have as much to lose as you do.
How can a lawyer with multiple degrees date a guy who lives at his mother’s place ? And she didn’t even meet her ? 🤔 that’s a huge red flag 😂
Such a sad situation, but yet people will still get mad when you advise BW not to date down. These are the results of dating down it's detrimental to BW...
Exactly
People keep saying this like these women are billionaires or something.
Why black women are getting killled by there husband that's the question people should be asking. That man didn't just wake up one day ohhh he gonna kill his wife. She played his man hood and payed the price
I don't know about the dating down part. For a lawyer it should of been a red flag the address he gave was to a empty lot. Before she married him she should of done a background check. She would of probably given the same advice to a client. I understand tho she was smart, ambitious, had her home, career and everything except a family. In reality dude shouldn't of even got her time of day.
Lol , like she could do better ? Why didn’t she date up then ?
Although this is tragic, sometimes victims make desperate choices (and overlook red billboards) that cost them their lives in the name of love. My condolences to Lauren's friends and family. ❤
Facts 💯
💯
Not love. Desperation.
@@keivajones1865 I said in the name of love, which includes desperation that describes the choices at the beginning of the preprositional phrase. Hope this helps.
@@dontez606 got it
Sadly she was committed to ignoring all the red flags life threw at her by means of gut feeling and critical thinking. Nobody could have helped her until she was ready to help herself. May she RIP ❤.
It did not matter where she met him, there were so many red flags that she chose to ignore. It so sad that she lost her life to someone so dangerous.
I've been single for almost 5 years. I work remote and rare meet men but online dating is something I refuse to do. It's scary
This is so sad.. Unfortunately this happens alot, Beautiful successful women search online for dating most of the time end up settling for trash..smh..She didnt deserve this,i really wish she would have just left the home and stayed with relatives or a close friend until she could get him out of her home,as a lawyer she already knew what she was up against so why stay there knowing he had no plans of leaving?She could have did so many things before it got that far .Hope this monster rots in prison.Prayers to the family.
-- *WOMEN - Unfortunately, many black women WRONGLY believe their education or accomplishments give them the right to be dominant over the man.* - But the wife is supposed to RESPECT her husband and SUBMIT to her husband *regardless* of what degrees or accomplishments she may have.
-- *You can NOT have both people trying to be the MAN of the house. That only produces anger, resentment, arguments, and verbally violent confrontations that can sometimes end in murder.*
---- These deadly outcomes we're seeing in these videos are very common when women rebel against GOD and refuse to obey His commands to Respect their husbands and Submit to their husbands.
@@VAIO294 well......now this beautiful accomplished woman is deceased and he can be the man of the house while rotting in prison for the rest of his life.
@@user-ny3pr5tf7g-- Well, her accomplishments only gave her a false sense of superiority over a man. - This is why I keep telling women to STOP SINNING! - *REPENT* and place your faith in JESUS *and OBEY God's Word. That is where your PROTECTION is.*
@@VAIO294 You're right but this woman simply chose the wrong man.....PERIOD...!!! She ignored all the red flags and probably did try to dominate him but it all went horribly wrong........
@@lazapololapolo9824- I get what you're saying.- However, she was not wrong for choosing a man who made much less money than her, or a man who was not college-educated, or a man who may have been living with his mother. And she was not wrong for choosing a man who had very few friends. - Those things were not really "red flags."
But if she chose a man like him because she wanted to be IN CHARGE of the marriage and she wanted to dominate him, then the problem was NOT really with that man.
---- The major *red flag* was HER refusing to HUMBLE herself and get into her proper place of submission to her husband, as GOD commands wives to do.
If women would HUMBLE themselves and OBEY GOD’s commands to *RESPECT* men and *SUBMIT* to their husbands, that would END the vast majority of the DV "abuse" and killings of women by men.
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Some women are so desperate to be married, and start a family; it's so sad!!!!
Thank society! The pressure and judgement for women to do just that is unreal. No one tells women it's ok to be single or to even have a child alone if you want a child and you're already very successful so you know you have the money to provide for your child AND a great support system. Lauren had her Dad, friends and family all around her. Marriage isn't always the answer or the end all for a happily ever after. But, society judges women and single mothers SO harshly. Especially Black single mothers. I blame society for putting this pressure on Lauren to settle just to have the "American Dream" and "Black love".
I wander why she ignored all the blazing red flags.
I think is because when women get to a certain age they feel like they need to settle. Very unfortunate. These creeps will always target women like that. She was way too accomplished to settle for a man like that smh
@@tiffanysantiago516probably fell for the bm done in by the white man's system Okey doke. Yes, the system is unfair to black people but some of us are r own worst enemy and put ourselves repeatedly into situations where the WS system can chew us up and spit us out.
@@tiffanysantiago516right
Bw please please stop this. We can't build our lives to high places but return to low places for partners. This is happening so rapidly now, if it's not a well meaning single mother, it's a successful bw dating and marrying men far beneath them. We are getting desensitized to this trend, please stop. This is another lesson for the living, sadly 😥
-- *WOMEN - Unfortunately, many black women WRONGLY believe their education or accomplishments give them the right to be dominant over the man.* - But the wife is supposed to RESPECT her husband and SUBMIT to her husband *regardless* of what degrees or accomplishments she may have.
-- *You can NOT have both people trying to be the MAN of the house. That only produces anger, resentment, arguments, and verbally violent confrontations that can sometimes end in murder.*
---- These deadly outcomes we're seeing in these videos are very common when women rebel against GOD and refuse to obey His commands to Respect their husbands and Submit to their husbands.
Very well said 😪
@VAIO294 😂😂😂😂you found me on this post too. I see we still have different view point but you are preaching to the choir on this one
@@tomeikobolton3053 I pray we start to learn from these tragedies and do better
@@maddielu5286 - Yes, I'm speaking God's truth everywhere. Even when you don't agree with God's truth.
Men Especially, Black Men, hate successful black women, and project insecurities and etc onto them, it’s deep rooted jealousy.
📌📌
So ture
It’s gotten worse, since my last comment, I see. Somebody, gotta wake up.
My heart goes out to this family for such a horrible ending to this beautiful woman. I too was married to a man who was abusive. After he attacked me and I hit him with a hammer I said it’s time to go. It’s been 8 years that I freed myself from him divorce him and happily serving the Lord. Living a peaceful life with my little four legged doggie.❤
- *Unfortunately, many black women WRONGLY believe their education or accomplishments give them the right to be dominant over the man.* - But the wife is supposed to RESPECT her husband and SUBMIT to her husband *regardless* of what degrees, accomplishments, or income she may have.
-- *You can NOT have both people trying to be the MAN of the house. That only produces anger, resentment, arguments, and verbally violent confrontations that can sometimes end in murder.*
These deadly outcomes we're seeing in these videos are very common when women rebel against GOD and refuse to *HUMBLE* themselves and obey God’s commands to Respect their husbands and Submit to their husbands.
@evelynodriguez5036......I agree with you to a point. Successful men can do the same as this man and they have. It's not just material success that determines compatibility it's the integrity, sincerity, and trustworthiness of the individual as well. Desperate to be with someone, to have a husband, to believe she is loved, and ignoring blazing red flags is what contributed to this woman's death. Even a less "materially" successful woman could see the red flags. Whether they heed them or not is another story.
@@lazapololapolo9824 God bless I agree. Sometimes we can feel lonely and meet someone and ignore the red flags. I know I lived through it, but my outcome was totally different. I lived. And I owe it all to God. Blessings!🙏
👏💯@@lazapololapolo9824
@@evelynrodriguez5036 Amen Sister. I am also a domestic violence survivor. The police shot and killed my ex husband when he held me hostage 16 years ago. God rescued me. I am peacefully single.
She didn’t have a safety plan. This woman should’ve never told him to leave by the end of the month. This could’ve been handled once she was safe.
Exactly!!
I agree. For some reason, women never think they should leave and be in a safe place first.
She didn’t know he would do this she should have never gave his dusty butt a chance
Dating online is NOT the same as meeting someone who lives around you (grocery stores, churches, school). The internet adds a layer of deceit and puts you in contact with people who you likely would not cross paths with in your own social circle. She would have NEVER met this man without a dating app. Their lives were too different. He did not work, had no goals, they would not have met. The only commonality dating apps bring between two people is the desire to meet someone and even with that commonality, the nuance of the reasons for wanting to meet someone often differ between two people.
Good points!!
She found out his home address was an empty lot...........enough said.
@@ir9567I’m not making an argument for her overlooking red flags. Im specifically talking about meeting someone online who she would have never met in real life without that. I understand your desire to blame her for her own death, that is not my goal.
There are so many people who get under these comments and blame the black women for what she should have known and never take inventory of themselves and how they contribute to how black women operate as a group.
When a black woman says I’m not interested because:
1. He doesn’t have a job. She’s a gold digger
2. He has children. She’s too picky
3. He doesn’t make what she makes. She’s too uppity
4. He lied about where he’s living. He might not want you to know yet
5. He lives with his mom. His baby mom probably taking him to the cleaners.
6. He’s not as educated as me. Well, school ain’t for everybody.
As a group we have a “give a 🥷🏽a chance” mentality. There are women on this platform attempting to retrain bw and are being called everything but a child of God for doing so. So it is clear that black people by-in-large are not interested in bw operating differently because a lot of bm would be single. However, the minute she is harmed, they call out all the red flags in a comment section.
You explained it soòoo well!!!! Thank you!!! It is NOT the same. 🙏🏼
Wonderful point . I have never thought it about it that way . Thank you ! A complete eye opener!
Sad story for a beautiful woman and a monster who was a poor excuse of a man who seemed to attract and abuse beautiful successful women but this baby girl ended up losing her life bcuz he didn't want to move on so he brutally beat her to death. He should never be free. My deepest Condolences to her love ones.This
My condolences to the family and friends of the deceased GOD BLESS YOU ALL ❤️
"Isolating her from her friends" thats the sign right there 🤷🏽♂️
Poor Lauren just wanted someone she could spend her life with! RIP!
- *Unfortunately, many black women WRONGLY believe their education or accomplishments give them the right to be dominant over the man.* - But the wife is supposed to RESPECT her husband and SUBMIT to her husband *regardless* of what degrees, accomplishments, or income she may have.
-- *You can NOT have both people trying to be the MAN of the house. That only produces anger, resentment, arguments, and verbally violent confrontations that can sometimes end in murder.*
These deadly outcomes we're seeing in these videos are very common when women rebel against GOD and refuse to *HUMBLE* themselves and obey God’s commands to Respect their husbands and Submit to their husbands.
Being in a relationship won’t heal you and being single won’t kill you….RIP to this beautiful queen
It’s so heartbreaking how we sweep all the 🚩 under the rug and still stay connected because of this thing called “LOVE” this is so sad and it’s becoming a common reality now. Real love don’t end in domestic violence.😔💔
Rip to a great soul. She should have left their house rather than sleeping with a knife. She should have moved out and while trying to get him evicted.
Ladies.....if you do decide to take the online route to dating...make sure you do a background check on them...and get to know them in public places...don't move fast into a relationship... Get to know people
Exactly
Why women pick terrible men will always confuse me. It was obvious he was garbage but she still married him. Wisdom doesnt always come with age.
Single is the way to go if your already single. ❤
💯
Dating can be dangerous no matter where you meet a person at … a lie ain’t nothing for a person too tell … gotta use discernment and stay prayed up !! It’s wicked out here .
My remember when my parents had issues back in my teenage years back in the 80s and my Mom packed us up and we moved in with my Grandparents. The house was in her name but my grandma said sometimes you have to give up the right for the wrong. My dad's drug addiction for worse and he moved out of the house when he couldn't pay the utilities. We moved back in the house and I met up with him and told him to never come by the house again. Sometimes in life you can't rationalize with crazy.
I'll never be that brave to meet up with ANYone off the Internet.. Hell, ion like people in person.🤦🏾♀️💔
You can tell that she was desperate. Desperation that turned deadly. Insecure.
Insecure and for no reason…She was beautiful…
Talking ish about the victim is a bad look.
How can you tell?
@@pipedownpaulneatyourpudding I would like to know the answer to that myself...
@@YourGuiltyConscience I’m not talking about her. Don’t lie on my name!
The more I watch these, the more I'm convinced that if one in such a situation....put aside some money for your escape...even if it's your house you're living in. And when the time is right, just leave. Serve divorce papers from an unknown place of safety. And don't engage. Don't even tell your family and friends your exact location, in case they fall for your abuser's lies.
It has NOTHING to do with meeting him online. Some people are just EVIL… She should’ve paid attention to the 🚩 But, some women desire to be married soooo bad… That they “settle”.
She had a problem. She was not 100% innocent. She chose a demon.
-- *WOMEN - Unfortunately, many black women WRONGLY believe their education or accomplishments give them the right to be dominant over the man.* - But the wife is supposed to RESPECT her husband and SUBMIT to her husband *regardless* of what degrees or accomplishments she may have.
-- *You can NOT have both people trying to be the MAN of the house. That only produces anger, resentment, arguments, and verbally violent confrontations that can sometimes end in murder.*
---- These deadly outcomes we're seeing in these videos are very common when women rebel against GOD and refuse to obey His commands to Respect their husbands and Submit to their husbands.
@@VAIO294 u sound idiotic tho, the dude was a straight pos, and was broke as a joke, who will respect that.
@@VAIO294Nah bruh dude wasn't right from the beginning
Amen!!!
The story was absolutely heartbreaking to listen to 😭
It doesn't matter where she met him. He was a monster period. RIP beautiful woman
Dating online its not good idea
Dating losers is not safe.
Stop meeting people online 😒! Those people are on there for a reason! Those people often hide amongst the normal social scene. These people know exactly what lie to tell you to get you in your feelings, and make you crazy for them! Also, never date nor marry someone that you feel sorry for. Trust me, i know about these things. Have you ever dated a person for eight years, yet they had an online dating profile, stating that he is a single dad and nothing will be taken serious until they're number is in his phone and they are dating? Oh, ok. It hurts me to see just how gullible some women can be when it comes to wanting a man or searching for one. It's a great feeling to have a personal person, but be more inquisitive when meeting and dating people! This is a horrible thing that happened to this beautiful woman. 😢 She would've made a great wife for the right man. ❤ Bless her memory 🙏🏾. 💐
I know it’s easy to sit back and judge but when you are in the thick of it ,it’s hard to see the forest for the trees 🌳 I met a man on my job and we dated for six months. He told me he lived with his sister but the story keep changing every time I tried to visit. The truth finally came to light when a woman called me and told me she was his girlfriend and they live together. My advice is to do your homework before dating, background check etc. So you know what you are getting into. RIP Lauren 🙏🏼
I have been in a similar situation a couple decades ago. Sone nen are still lying and killing their wives or family members. I know that some wonen are also. Its sad. Stay safe.
Once the story started change that’s when you’re supposed to disappear. Yal need to learn how to date. You don’t have to make something out of every encounter you have. This should be the easiest time to disappear. In the beginning 🤦🏿♀️
A man living with his sister is not a good option even if it were true. So, he was go from his sister's house to yours? Why can't these men take care of themselves?
And that's why I'm SINGLE!!
50/50 on dating apps... don't know what type of monster you chatting with
This is so sad, the red flags were there on so many levels. Unfortunately, she wanted what so many of us wants, and that’s to be loved. But, at what price are we willing to pay is what makes her case different.
-- *WOMEN - Unfortunately, many black women WRONGLY believe their education or accomplishments give them the right to be dominant over the man.* - But the wife is supposed to RESPECT her husband and SUBMIT to her husband *regardless* of what degrees or accomplishments she may have.
-- *You can NOT have both people trying to be the MAN of the house. That only produces anger, resentment, arguments, and verbally violent confrontations that can sometimes end in murder.*
---- These deadly outcomes we're seeing in these videos are very common when women rebel against GOD and refuse to obey His commands to Respect their husbands and Submit to their husbands.
I am so sorry to hear this story. As a black man who himself is on online dating. Stories like these are heart renching. There are people out here just wanting to meet someone and have a life. But unfortunately you have monsters like these put a bad name on men in general. May God bless her soul and family.❤❤
Well are you free and availeble ???
@mariaseidi4023 yes I am single , living in Ohio
@ededwards597. Are you still single? Let get to know each other
I had a friend that tried to convince me to do online dating. I told her absolutely not! I know it can be the same decision as meeting someone off line. It’s just something about online dating that scares me. This is sad and I’m learning it’s okay to be alone even though I don’t like it stories like this allows be to ok in my singleness, RIP to this beautiful young lady and prayers to her family .
Jus buy 5 cats & stay single lol
I bet she paid for the wedding… red flags 🚩
Exactly. HER parents were supposed to pay for the wedding.
You know she did. And everything else.
@@Lady_Angela1 -*Unfortunately, many black women wrongly believe their education or accomplishments give them the right to be dominant over the man.* - But the wife is supposed to RESPECT her husband and SUBMIT to her husband *regardless* of what degrees, accomplishments, or income she may have.
-- *You can NOT have both people trying to be the MAN of the house. That only produces anger, resentment, arguments, and verbally violent confrontations that can sometimes end in murder.*
---- These deadly outcomes we're seeing in these videos are very common when women rebel against GOD and refuse to obey His commands to Respect their husbands and Submit to their husbands.
@@VAIO294 Its 2023. You can date men.
@@Lady_Angela1 - What does that have to do with what I said?
Imma just stay single...
RIP Lauren 😔
The tragedy of domestic violence can happen to anyone 😢
Yes. To both men and women
Exactly
Not if you don’t entertain these losers
Ladies,… ladies.. ladies…PLEASE vet these men…. Research family n mental health before u make a choice to sleep with them!!
Well said
It is vital that FAMILY and FRIENDS give their honest, transparent, supportive, but tactful opinion when meeting a loved one's new SO. Express any misgivings or sinister vibes!! That is literally our obligation to them. Often, the newness, attraction, excitement, etc of a new romantic relationship, certain things are missed. An outside perspective from someone they trust has their best interest could make a pivotal difference.. May this Queen rest in peace ❤
HE faked his Employment address and she STILL married him? #Desperate Book smarts does NOT = Intelligence! Very tragic!
Alert!! Take notice women No Online dating period.Theses stories are becoming too much.🕊🕊
You ain’t lying 🤥 I don’t want to meet anybody at this point even in real life these ninjas be having demons then come into your life trying to destroy it! I’m not saying all men bad but for me I’m more peaceful single for now I want love one day but it’ll take me a min especially after getting out of a toxic relationship!
There is no difference between meeting a man online vs, meeting a man in person. I have met men in person who were just as f--ked up in the head as any other man I could have met online. Online dating just provides the avenue through which you meet the person. You still have to date, spend time with a person to see how a person thinks to see if you are dealing with a sociopath.
@@nogooddeedgoesunpunishedng3814 Say it again the ninja God just removed from my life 7 months ago I met at a Christmas party! I hate the day I walked in that door and looked at that charming face come to find out he was Satans son smh! He lived a double life and after so many years of me being with him I finally found out he was still married I confronted him about it and he blew up I was so scared! I’m traumatized I know I need to heal because I get bad feelings in my stomach every time a man approaches me and I know it’s only from trauma I’ve dealt with from him everybody not evil 😔😢 I just don’t trust easy especially now!
@@nogooddeedgoesunpunishedng3814 Thank you. Idk why it’s so hard to understand that online dating isn’t the problem. It’s a lack of vetting and ignoring the red flags. Women need to demand more for themselves.
Exactly, she knew better but didn’t do better she willingly ignored all the red flags ignored her family n friends all because she wanted to be married n it cost her , her life
R.I.P. Lauren Charles. 😔 🙏 Lauren Charles could've done all the proper investigative research on this guy and & sadly she could've faced the exact same fate. The demon that Lauren Charles married is evil & unfortunately no amount of background checks could hinder this demon from wreaking havoc in Lauren Charles' life. I grew up in the 1990s before the existence of the world wide web & obviously before the existence of dating websites & dating apps. Realistically, many women dating during the 1990s were sadly facing the same terrible fate of being *urdered as Lauren Charles did when these women met men at work, in the grocery store, at church or anywhere except the internet. Background checks are wonderful IF the background check itself features current & accurate info. Also, if a person is not convicted by a court of law in the U.S.A. of any crimes or their criminal offenses have been expunged from their criminal record, then the person won't have an actual criminal history & therefore their background check information will essentially be empty. All women & men - stay safe whether you communicate with people online or in-person. ❤
What she already knew was enough to walk away. What most investigating did she need to do? Full of lies from the beginning.
Please stop dating bums! 😮
- *Unfortunately, many black women WRONGLY believe their education or accomplishments give them the right to be dominant over the man.* - But the wife is supposed to RESPECT her husband and SUBMIT to her husband *regardless* of what degrees, accomplishments, or income she may have.
-- *You can NOT have both people trying to be the MAN of the house. That only produces anger, resentment, arguments, and verbally violent confrontations that can sometimes end in murder.*
@@VAIO294shut up
It's so sad a nice lady had to die from a user and no respect for him. I wish my wife would have met my birth mother but she passed away in 2010. I'm praying for her family and to him. Hope he gets what he deserves hellfire🔥🔥🔥
She didn't have to!!! She has a choice!!!
Evil, Jealous, NARCISST
May she REST IN GODS PEACE 🕊
I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again , ONLY date men greater than or equal to your success.
Never date down .. EVER
It doesn’t matter if she met him in person or online you still don’t have the right to take someone life rip 😢😢😢😢
Be content and at peace, leave these heathens, bandits and undesirables alone. Just be in peace. She was a whole lawyer and totally lost. Very sad... 😢
Ladies do a background check on these guys before you marry them RIP to the young lady 😔
Alot of desperate women out here willing to let just about anybody in their lives for stick
Ladies need to not ignore the red flags.
She had book sense but lacked common sense. Sad story tho RIP
You can't show somebody else love if you're being abused by them, because in that situation, you're not even loving yourself, so how can you give someone something you don't even have for yourself. No woman is safe if she is dealing with a male. It doesn't matter the situation.
-- *WOMEN - Unfortunately, many black women WRONGLY believe their education or accomplishments give them the right to be dominant over the man.* - But the wife is supposed to RESPECT her husband and SUBMIT to her husband *regardless* of what degrees or accomplishments she may have.
-- *You can NOT have both people trying to be the MAN of the house. That only produces anger, resentment, arguments, and verbally violent confrontations that can sometimes end in murder.*
---- These deadly outcomes we're seeing in these videos are very common when women rebel against GOD and refuse to obey His commands to Respect their husbands and Submit to their husbands.
It’s hard to leave you have to do it in silence and disappear change your phone number you don’t ever tell your abuser you’re leaving I’m a victim of domestic abuse it took me a whole to leave because I thought he will kill me if I did but I did it in silence🤐it’s just sad RIP beautiful queen😢
This man can go to hell for all I care
It was hard for her to leave him when he was living in HER house.
Truth be told this could happen to anyone of us, on or offline. Yes we can do our best to take precautions and background checks but even when you meet and marry and be with that person for years.. They can turn around and kill you when you try to leave. So many of these stories today. You can be poor or rich and the person you meet can be poor or rich and still kill you. No one is exempt. The only way to try and not risk yourself is to be single and celibate which I am but my condolences to her and all others who were looking for love and companionship. Be safe everyone and nothing wrong with love just do the best you can and take your time before being serious and before giving your body, your home address.
-- *WOMEN - Unfortunately, many black women WRONGLY believe their education or accomplishments give them the right to be dominant over the man.* - But the wife is supposed to RESPECT her husband and SUBMIT to her husband *regardless* of what degrees or accomplishments she may have.
-- *You can NOT have both people trying to be the MAN of the house. That only produces anger, resentment, arguments, and verbally violent confrontations that can sometimes end in murder.*
---- These deadly outcomes we're seeing in these videos are very common when women rebel against GOD and refuse to obey His commands to Respect their husbands and Submit to their husbands.
@@VAIO294Stop posting this abusive $h!t on here! No one cares!
Ima stay single..that’s horrible rip
- Be *celibate* as well.
She seemed like a beautiful person.
When he wouldn't allow her to meet his mom and she couldn't come to his house....Those would have been enough red flags for me. I don't really trust the online dating option. Prayers for her family and friends❤❤❤
Smh, these homeless-sexuals are loco. Condolences to that beautiful womans family
God bless you young lady. I am so sorry for you. You don't deserve you be gone away from this beautiful world. May you rest in peace.
All the red flags smh tragic
My Condolenes and prayers to this Beautiful Woman Family and Friends
When dating as well as in relationships, documemt EVERYTHING, just as govt agencies and businesses do. Treat your life as a business. If youre married, take out a life insuramce policy. Do background checks, but don't stop there. Photo and document his vehicle, adresses, get family member names and their addresses, does he have children? What are their names? Get his drivers license and SSN, place of work, his best friends contact info. You'll have to be your own private eye. May seem like too much, but when I ended up having to track down my ex fiancée, I had just about everything I needed.
Get that ccw too.
@@keivajones1865 absolutely! And don't be afraid to use it
-- *WOMEN - Unfortunately, many black women WRONGLY believe their education or accomplishments give them the right to be dominant over the man.* - But the wife is supposed to RESPECT her husband and SUBMIT to her husband *regardless* of what degrees or accomplishments she may have.
-- *You can NOT have both people trying to be the MAN of the house. That only produces anger, resentment, arguments, and verbally violent confrontations that can sometimes end in murder.*
---- These deadly outcomes we're seeing in these videos are very common when women rebel against GOD and refuse to obey His commands to Respect their husbands and Submit to their husbands.
What does it matter if you aren't going to act on the information you find out? There was no wool pulled over this woman's eyes.
@@gigilamoore2656 some will get it. Some won't
I blame society for making women feel there is something wrong with being single at a certain age! We get desperate and make stupid choices and ignore red flags all because of societies judgement!!!! We need to do what’s right for us not what others think are right for us!! Don’t ignore the red flags please x
When you see red flags, end the whole relationship. Don’t even develop a friendship with them. Very sad😢
She found all this out and still married him?!
She was a True Desperado for a Man Sad AsF 🏃🏽♀️💨💨
In this world is best to be street smart and book smart too....can't just be one...or else this world will make u it's breakfasts...Case in point...Tragic Tragic
Marrying down as usual. Yikes!
I’m scared of black men. I’m single for life!
I'm scared of black women and I have to stay away from y'all cuz y'all push men to do this. This is starting to become very common. So what are y'all black women doing wrong?
@@torrenmcintyre4386 - Exactly!
-- *WOMEN - Unfortunately, many black women WRONGLY believe their education or accomplishments give them the right to be dominant over the man.* - But the wife is supposed to RESPECT her husband and SUBMIT to her husband *regardless* of what degrees or accomplishments she may have.
-- *You can NOT have both people trying to be the MAN of the house. That only produces anger, resentment, arguments, and verbally violent confrontations that can sometimes end in murder.*
---- These deadly outcomes we're seeing in these videos are very common when women rebel against GOD and refuse to obey His commands to Respect their husbands and Submit to their husbands.
Pick better
Got pick better I guess race is irrelevant
I mean, no friends at the wedding, vacant lot for a house, cheating, no job, hidden children....what else do you need
He fit what 😮😢 how traumatized she must have been smh oh my!!!!
He is such a weak man and I hope he suffers everyday! RIP Lauren ❤
This is a very tragic crime and if you have to sleep with a knife under your pillow, it is time for you to leave until your abuser leaves the house! My condolences to Lauren's family! There are a lot of dangerous predators on dating apps! It is better to use a dating service that vets the people who use it! This young woman was "sleeping with the enemy!" 😨😰
What a beautiful person, inside & out!
Condolences to her family. 🙏🏾