Why Do You Hate Sisters?
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What Ustadh Gabriel said is right-His deep concern for us Muslim women is to be appreciated MashAllah-we are raising the next generation and we can’t mess up-we need to get our priorities right and live keeping Akhirah in focus-then everything will fall into place Insha’Allah,
Jaza’kAllah khairan 👍🏻👍🏻
Exactly
I worked and spent a lot of time with him in Abu Dhabi. I’ve always seen him treat all the women in his life and the women at our job worth respect and honor. I ask the sisters to not be quick to react. Maybe your brother or father was afraid to tell you the truth and now you’re mad at hearing it from him. May Allah guide us all and guide us to jennah.
"Women at out Job"?? LMAO 🤣you just contradicted yourself! This man is against women in work field like men so why would he treat them with respect? Instead he should tell them they will be burning in hell for working!
As a straight female I 100% agree with you, brother Gabriel. Jazakalaheir May Allah reward you !
Waiyaak, Jazak Allahu khair for supporting the dawah
Well said Ustadh! May Allah SWT help keep you and your Dawah going. Ameen
Completely agreed brother
Spoke the truth. Barakallahu feek. Jazakallahu khayr.
I am a women I agree with my brother Gabriel 1million percent my Allah guide us and guide the Muslim woman
This video reminded me of that song that goes "oh girls just wanna have fun"
Right! It’s literally so sad! What boggles me the most is that he said “women are trying to become like men” and then he continues to mention “they laugh loud like gangsters and disrespecting the elders” and I’m trying to think is that a manly trait? Is that what men are supposed to do?
👍👍👍🔥yes this.
Thos behaviour your talking about is like this world wide. Even in poor countries where the men work. The bad akhlaq is just due to lack of iman and not fearing Allah.
Most women would love to stay home and be responsible for the household only. Unfortunately, the system is built so that we have to take on more in order to afford living.
If a woman is forced to take on earning in addition to her other responsibilities, she may start resenting her husband and feel as though she may be better off supporting herself.
She loses the respect for her husband and this leads to marital problems.
Taking care of the household especially with multiple children is a full time job on its own. If you have a husband who only works and doesn’t want to help out at home when the wife is working too, it will lead to marital conflict.
Nonsense. Most marriages I know where the woman thinks she is better than the man and behaves disloyally are all women who get more than enough from their husbands. My ex was like that too. She had every financial freedom and could go almost anywhere. And that's exactly what the problem was. You women just need a set of rules under which you live and an authority that controls your chaos, otherwise you won't be happy
@@MrOsmanu This is what I’m seeing in the West. You probably live somewhere else or are an exception to the rule.
I do agree that many women will take you for granted if you treat them too well. We think we somehow deserve better and don’t appreciate what we have. Once the age catches up to us, we wake up lonely, regretting passing or ruining the good options we had.
@@MrOsmanu You women?! 😅
What about Khadija r.a.? She was the one supporting the Prophet s.a.a.w.s. financially while he was establishing his prophethood. Do you have any comment on that? Thanks.
Be patient brothers
Assalamualaikum brother gabriel . I live in Malaysia and in this country divorce rate has been increasing rapidly over the last few years and now we are witnessing higher number of unmarried men and women in this country due to inflation.
MASHALLAH!!! Great video!! I agree with you brother 100%👍👍👍iam a sister!!🤲🧕🤩
I agree with everything he said
And as a woman i hate the weak man the dayyoth the one who's not jealous on his maharem ...i totally believe in the qwamah but i also believe it takes a good religious man to be qayyem
May Allah guide all women and men of the ummah
I have a question my sisters and mother fight not a lot but sometimes they resolve quickly. Which dua could I recite to resolve it quickly
Try to advise your sisters to not be undutiful to your mother, and to be kind and diplomatic, otherwise they would be sinful. This probably comes from unchecked anger, so when your sisters become angry, you should advise them to seek refuge in Allah from Shaytan the accursed “audhu billahi min alshaytan al rajeem”. You can also make dua to Allah, for your sisters and mother to get along, and to guide you all.
Allah knows best.
Thank You
Be a good brother to them.
We as women hate that and struggling with it ! Any tips about how can the one of us change the sisters around her ( at school 18 , 17 ,16 years old influenced girls)
If you older, have islamic knowledge be s mentor for them, do some community work similar to what Br Gabriel has set up. He set up the muslim Alpha male academy. Do something similar for girls, where girls are taught the true gender roles of islam, how to be feminine, reverse engineer the brain washing of the west. Your job is to convey the message, Allah is the one that guides and changes people. But its great to see women acknowledge where they have gone wrong as oppose to simply getting triggered by what was said. If an advice can bring you closer to Allah, run with it, own it, no matter how bitter or hurtful it was to swallow at first.
@@ik5441 what a great advice and reminder! Bark allahu fikum, Br gabriel really taking a huge responsibility and Allah used him in fatal and sensitive issues this umma undergoing it ! And we have to have knowledge about our religion our mission and our duties and do what we can toward this issues , again jazakumallah khayr for responding and the advice.
May Allah allow us all to accept the religion 100% the way it is supposed to be accepted and worship Allah the way He expects us to worship Him. Ameen.
Ameen
don't waste your time explaining to them ..they just used to social media simps worshiping them ..they think all man like that
What kinda pants is that brotha eeeee
I have seen two cases
1) seen old grandma's who was not so muslim
2) even some feminine girl can indulge in inappropriate act
Gabriel you are very intelligent and right but remember not all women are secular American
i dont think he hates women at all tbh, yes there are some men that call themslves scholars that are literally just abusive to their wives and see them as objects but i think gabriel is just right and logical w what he has to comment on women
Who, for example? Can you mention who these scholars are?
@@JEAGERlSTwouldn't that be slandering and backbiting?
You could have shortened it
A bear doesnt love a raabit
It takes what it wants from it and moves to another rabbit
As a bear is stronger
Woen are weak physically
That's all is there to hate them
And imagine a rabbit showing attitude to a bear
and crying when the bear tears it apart
Or hurts it
same way i feel
I don't appreciate a weaker gend to show attitude to me
Point blank period
And if you treat them as scietific way
strong rule and weak obey
People will call you labels and it makes a stereotype
When intead of marrying we could just take them in animal context forcefully and in human context woo them and use them and then leave them
No marriage no obligations and definitely more than four
Six and it was awesome, but most of the others were not so cool with me dating so many others simultaneously… I never lied to anyone, I just never mentioned it until it was brought up organically or someone asked… This was my first time dating multiple people, I was just 23, and I didn’t know the rules or fully understand the ethics, I was just doing what felt natural and fun…
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This is why I prefer to stay single and want die being single . No women are worth of marriage today .
May Allah forgive you for that comment, because its not from islam to make this statement brother. Alot of good sisters are on this earth.
I feel you as a woman I also don’t think there are many good men left but you still gotta put your luck in and sometimes compromise your standards coz you will never be able to find “the perfect” someone you are looking for!!
This is not the correct attitude. I would recommend you reconsider this position.
bet you havnt even spoken to like 10, theres millions
also there is no 'the one', there could 1000s of women suitable for a person
it not good i found that in me most time stay away from women bs
many women become not accountable and entitlement through the roof
and just fytnah no deen just want this life
but at the end they our sisters we wish them khiar
I actually found the brother to be very fair in his videos. I'm surprised by his generalized response. Because we aren't all like that! It's not true.😳
He didn’t say women are all like that he said a lot of them are like that which is true especially nowadays
Women always say "All men", he's never said "All women"
He said the women who have been corrupted.
He's speaking about specific type of women
Those glasses don’t suit you brother 😄. Aviator glasses will look better on you 😊
Absolutely disagree you not being fair because I can say exactly the same thing about men. Not taking responsibility what do I do they supposed to do we're heading a difficult Era...you should reassess your thoughts! You've become very judgmental toward women may Allah shaw us the right path
Ameen
You didn’t listen till the end didn’t you ?
BarakAllahu feek my sister. Men, that is, the fathers are always to blame, and I have always said this, but that does not take responsibility away from the sisters. Jazak Allahu khair
@@alromaani WCKS brother, True that!
Wa Iyyaka
if a guy aint on point in catering for all her feelings, he is being emotionally abusive. fact or fiction?
As a women, I do agree with 50% of what brother Gabriel is saying here but something what I find most men ignore is that women grow up just like men do. The kind of girls/women he is describing seem to be the ones who may have very low quality men around her maybe non at all. It is like saying to men once a cheater always a cheater... the answer is no! Men change and grow up & will only change for one women. It is a similar concept for women. Women will be the best version of herself when she respects the man or men around her. She will be a reflection of him. May Allah guide us all.
If you agree with 50% of what he says then Alhumdulillah thats a true sign of an open and receptive mind. For some, peoples hearts have become hardened that hidaya, reason can not penetrate their hearts.
I would like to pose a few Q's for you to ponder over, whatever your answer maybe, just to help you self reflect and truly see if its only 50% you agree with or subcontiously a part of you rushed to the defence of your gender.
1) why do you feel has singled women out when he has a project called Alpha male academy which focuses on mentoring men to be men islamically? He obviously hasnt singled out women, acknowledges men have their flaws and has done one better, he is actively doing something for the community so men dont grow up to weak, and own their responsibilities towards women.
2) Why is the shortcomings or flaws of a woman directly linked to men? Unfortunately i hear this a lot from sisters, that they only did this that or the other because of a man. The absence of a father figure, sure can contribute towards how a person turns out it isn't the justification or the sole reason for the outcome. We have nobody to blame but ourselves. Nuh AS was a prophet, one would think he did everything to give his son the right upbringing. Would anyone blame him for his son going astray? Similarly Ibrahim AS was born into a home of idol worshipers, was his guidance and actions a direct reflection of his upbringing? A woman's actions are her own. Allah to nearest meaning tells us that we will be accountable for our own actions. A weak, bad or absent father could be a test. But your failure as a woman or man is your own. Unfortunately this could be a trait added to the list of what Br Gabriel hates about women, the inability to self reflect and or be accountable for her own actions. Its easy to blame men.
I hope those to questions alone make you a) realise Br Gabriel didnt single out or just hate on women. He is just and honest and he calls out men on their flaws too. b) i hope in future any mistakes and flaws women you ask what accountability do they take for it.
@ik5441 I don't believe the brother is hating on women/girls infact he mentions he has daughters, so I understand his point of view as a parent.
Also, not ignoring the fact that women should hold themselves accountable for their actions. I AGREE
My point is women grow up and mature. Infact, I would argue women mature and understand their nature and purpose sooner than most men.
We are living in very difficult times especially with the rise of social media garbage that these young women & men are consuming on a daily basis. It's like an infection spreading.
Yes, brother is educating young men via these courses. That is great 👍 but what about the girls?? How many women are out there doing these courses?
Because they are at home obeying their husbands, raising children and looking after the home.
Of course no woman will agree 100% with his message, not because it's wrong but because women are sensitive to criticism.
@@Othman1992on It could be wrong as well! He hasn't provided any evidence to his statements it was all a personal rant about what he "thinks" of women today! He probably lives in the west and hence is generalizing all women who live in Africa and Asia to behave as the western women which is quit hypocritical!
@@nami20622 It was obvious he was talking about certain types of women. He didn't say "all women". Come on now.
I think he needs serious help. Some serious mental problems
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Misogynism being a part of Islam is a popular misconception. Women aren't hated, it's only that they are regarded as broadly falling in the same category as cattle and slaves. Does not Islam call upon treating one's slaves, animals and wives good? Well then. As is often stated, the prophet never beat his wives or slaves. Well then, although there's no way of verifying that he didn't.
As cattle and slaves? Why are women in the same category and not men?
@@nami20622 The Quran speaks only of women as subject matter, it tells men how to deal with them, not unlike how to deal with cattle, slaves and in general subordinates, property.
In a hadith it is told that the prophet never beat his wives or slaves. Regardless whether this is true, it shows that women and slaves are in the same category.
@@m.de.villeparisis 🤣but you say as if its only women! You know that men are also slaves right? All humans are slaves to God! Show me the hadith or Quran verse which says women and slaves are the same category?
This guy gives off creepy vibes. But he has some good points.
"Creepy vibes"...very objective analysis...
@@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564
Not at all, it's my personal opinion.
Creepy vibes? Lmao
Wouldn't disagree
Agree with you, I think he has severe mental issues
😅😅😅 he seriously has problem with women!!! and he has very negative views on women , if some women are bad there are some men are bad and if some women are good also some men are good 😊 generalisation is the language of ignorant
Show me the timestamp in the video where he generalized all women, where are your proof that he has problem with the sisters, it's a sin if you cannot back your claims
Do you know that this man debated madhi tijanni when the later was pushing the fact that Muslim men should avoid single mothers and divorcees ? He defended them with Sutch passion, wallahi this man is nothing like you said, if anything when I heard him talk during the debate I could see how he had compassion for women, so why do you say that about him when he try to be fair by taking them accountable when needed. We cannot start calling g anyone who try to talk sense to the sisters a women haters, we will open our self to fitna like the westerners
@@sole008 women are like this , women are like that , women became this , women became that …. This isn’t generalisation !!? 😃
@@RedRose-cn8lnNot it’s not because it’s FACTS and logical TRUTH. There’s plenty of studies and research. Now you are showing one of the symptoms. No accountability but will stand up for your pathetic sisterhood. WHERE DID HE SAY ALL WOMEN? The default is Majority. Which is truth.
@@RedRose-cn8ln sister didn't you hear him holding men accountable as well? So it's fine only when it's men ? also he is not talking about all women he spent a lot of time describing the women he was refering too, basically modern western women, unless you identify as one of them the message wasn't directed towards you