We're moving forward with IVF | how we made this decision, what to expect, & how it works
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I just have to say… your going to be a mom… not an IVF mom but a mom. There is no difference no matter how you conceived the baby… drop the label! You’ll be an amazing mom when that day comes!
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I love this!! My aunt had her child by IVF and we never put a label. You will be a great mom Rachel 💕
Thank you for this comment❤
i’m an IVF baby and watching your videos makes me so emotional thinking about everything my mom went through to have me. thank you for being so vulnerable with this ♥️ praying for you
Me too!!
IVF should NOT be controversial, it’s a decision you make with your spouse and God. That’s it. 💖 and I’m so excited to watch your journey!! 🥰
As a Christian girl who has this 'infertility fear', I sincerely appreciate your vulnerability and transparency.
My daughter loves knowing she’s an IVF baby. She’s embraced that part of her life and will tell anyone that stands still long enough and listens.
Oh girl! I understand your pain completely! My husband and I have gone through two rounds of IUI, one round of IVF, three embryos transfers and all have failed. We are getting ready to do a 2nd round of IVF and the emotional toll it takes on you is a journey in itself. The only thing we can do is put our future family in God’s hands because it is all in His timing. Praying your journey is a success! Be blessed!
I’m a mama to a almost 6 month old babe through IVF. We went straight to IVF due to success rates compared to IUI. I share with anyone who is starting the process that just take it one step at a time. It is a ride.
Also a fellow a believer and we chose to do small batch fertilizations to try and not have “leftovers”. We had 14 eggs to work with but did not fertilize them all. We also chose not to do PGT testing. Our dr totally respected our desire to do things our way based on beliefs. We had a lot go right but also we didn’t get it all the first try.
Just know that so many people are cheering you on 💛
My friend did IVF and is now due at the end of September 💕 I’m so happy for her and I’m so grateful for modern medicine. I can’t wait to hear your success story! Wishing the absolute BEST for you! This is so exciting!! 😍 💕
As a Christian, I am fully behind you!! God put these amazing people that know how to do IVF on this world! We are behind you 100%!
Interesting, as a Christian have honestly looked into the process of IFV? Have you understood the moral and ethical implications in light of Christian beliefs?
💞Mornin’ Rachel!💞
I’ve been following your journey for the past year. I was infertile for 20 years before having my second baby. I had my son at 17 and my daughter at 37… and then hubby and I had 3 more kids after that. In my experience, my most fertile time was in my 40’s. (I have a video about my journey posted on my channel if you’re interested.) All that to say, that I hear you, feel you, I’m rooting for you but most importantly, I’m praying for you!! Hugs my friend. 💗
Nobody deserves to be judged especially in your position, Rachel. Going to pray for your ttc journey. I am now on my 4th trimester which is caring for my baby and this morning I reflected on Ephesians 3:20 (which was my first time reading the bible again because of all the newborn baby madness) - “Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us,” then you posted this video, I just feel like I have to let you know. Keep praying girl, lots of love from the Philippines ❤
I see you quoted Ephesians 3:20, so I would assume you are a Christian. We agree that God can do extremely amazing and incredible things due to his power. But I would ask you how the IFV process is morally and ethically compatible with your Christian view?
As a Muslim and a consistent viewer, I understand the importance of not being judged harshly for how you are going about your journey to your babies and especially by those of the same faith. The ttc community is here for you. I will continue to watch your journey and support you through the ups and downs of this process. ❤
You and AJ have already shown you will be amazing parents by being so thoughtful and resilient throughout this process. Wishing you the best of luck with the journey ahead ❤️
Thank you so much!
I'm a Muslim woman struggling to conceive
I totally agree with your views on ivf, embryos and whether or not to test
We've had a failed iui and 3 medicated cycles - just decided to take a break this year
Keep it to yourself because many people will just place their negative opinions on you - it can really weigh you down
Know that God hears you, He sees you and He is always with you!
He will guide your heart to that which is right - and with that you will come across many people who put you down .. be strong and all the best❤
Ah, Rachel. My heart aches for you and AJ. I’m praying earnestly for you as you embark on this new part of your TTC journey and I feel such a sense of the Lords presence when you are speaking about these details and bringing awareness. I admire the way you’ve confronted these excruciating questions while also trusting God. What a testimony! And what a beautiful picture of love for your future child, the fact that you’ve fought so hard for this. This child will feel so loved and desired!
Much love to you & thank you for the path you’ve paved for other Christian women who struggle with this aswell - many will be able to consider IVF informed and without shame!
Everytime I see your “a testimony of how I got pregnant” content (speaking life into this) I pray over you. We all look forward to celebrating the day you see those two lines and the amazing mom you’ll be… fighting for your child(ren) long before they were conceived. Praying for you ❤️
I'm proud of you for, a) being honest, b) deciding what's best for your family, c) bringing awareness. So many people are ashamed and scared, (which is completely valid), and it's really powerful for women to talk about this stuff!
A friend of mine had success with ivf and is now pregnant again naturally, took 6 years to happen naturally but it happened. This video was really informative and will really help others, it’s a really selfless thing you’re doing in sharing this private journey. Good luck with ivf and look after yourself throughout this process x
I myself had two failed frozen embryo transfers. It's not easy. Please read the book " it starts with the egg" . Currently 5 weeks pregnant naturally . Good luck mama, you got this !
I’ve heard the book before. What do you think helped you the most from the book?
@BeckyCantu The book is written by someone who also went through infertility. The author goes into detail about all the different factors that could be influencing fertility. It really is eye opening. I changed so much in my life from the stuff I put on my skin, my diet, even the pots and pans that I use. I always had an irregular cycle anywhere from 30-109 days long. I now have a regular cycle and now I'm pregnant. I'm still I'm shock. After 2 years and IVF and hysteroscopies and egg retrieval and blood work and genetic testing I just can't believe I'm finally pregnant.
By the way, Rachel I'm also I'm FL if you'd ever like to chat. I am 23 and a registered nurse. My husband is 27. It's always nice to speak with someone who has been in the same boat.
Pretty sure she has already read that book. She mentioned it in a previous video
@glencoco3142 I had no idea! Hopefully someone else struggling reads the book
Taylor R did a beautiful job of documenting her IVF journey here on UA-cam. I’m sure you’ve already seen it, but if not, please check it out.
You’re such an amazing person, Rachel. You deserve children and God will answer your prayers for them.
I’m so surprised people would judge someone’s IVF timeline-once you have the ache and longing to be a mother, one negative pregnancy test or fifty is too long.
Excited for this next phase of your journey, Rachel! I hope this is the path to get your sweet babe in your arms. You and AJ are still in my prayers ❤️🙏🏼
Sending you & AJ prayers for successful IVF. May God keep you, protect you and guide you! All the best
Thank you so much for your vulnerability. I’m 26 and have PCOS, I’m not ready to have kids yet but I keep thinking that I should stop waiting because I’ve always thought I will have difficulty falling pregnant and I know I’m the same as you that when I’m ‘ready’ I will want it immediately. It’s just in my nature too.
You are so eloquent in this struggle and I pray that the first round of IVF is successful for you. ❤
Rachel I did ICSI 23 years ago. Had 2 embryos implanted and 1 took. My daughter is now 22. Good luck 💖
That’s amazing thank you for sharing 💜
Yes I agree no one really understands infertility until they go through it. It is seriously one of the hardest things to go through. And it feels SOOOO long. Every single cycle feels like forever and it’s such a roller coaster. Hoping and wondering that this cycle will be the one. Analyzing all the symptoms. Tracking and doing everything right. Then to just be let down again. It was the worst my mental health ever was
This is exciting! Thank you for sharing your story, So much success has been had with this process🙏🏻 looking forward to seeing the journey
Thank you so much!
You are a good Christian and this is just part of your journey in life right now. There's nothing wrong with doing IVF. Besides, it's your life and no one's business! You do what's right for you and A.J. Ignore strangers on the Internet.
Wishing you the best of luck!
So excited for you and your husband! Praying for a healthy and safe journey (and baby!!!)! God is with you and He is so good! xo
Bringing a baby into the world is hard enough, any way it happens, without worrying about the opinions of others, i cant imagine how hard it is to go through this journey in such a public light.
I dont understand people judging this journey- if you havent longed and prayed for a baby over and over, if you havent walked this journey- you dont get a say!!!! Ugh, people. 😒
Rachel, you are an incredible mom already, and it will be so worth it when you hold your baby. I am genuinally praying for you often. You got this!!!
Praying for you Rachel through this whole journey! You’ll be an amazing mom!!❤️
I’m a Christian and while it was “easy” for me to conceive pregnancy was terrible. I had so many complications, lots of miscarriages and had to take weekly shots while pregnant and my middle child was 3/4 months early. I am thankful God gave drs wisdom and science and know God was also with me. I think you are right where God wants you to be!!!
So incredibly proud of your openness with this journey! This is between you and AJ, no one else. You are going to be amazing parents and it doesn’t matter how that happens, just that it does. You’ve got this!!!
I don’t consider myself a religious person, but your devotion to your faith is awe inspiring. I struggled to get pregnant for ten months, and that felt like an eternity. I cannot imagine the strength and courage it takes for you to share your journey with us on a consistent basis. Thank you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable as there are so many women battling infertility and having you as an advocate makes every woman dealing with this, feel seen. If you want to keep certain aspects of your IVF journey private, please don’t feel inclined to share with us. Whether it’s on UA-cam or your podcast. There’s nothing wrong with keeping certain aspects private for only you and AJ. Sending so much love and baby dust to you Rachel!! 💕
Rachel and AJ,
I am so sorry that this journey has been so painful and confusing so far. I’ve wept during your heartfelt videos and I hope soon to weep with joy from good news from you, too. I do not have children nor have I tried to conceive, but my heart breaks for some of the stigmas, trauma, judgement, and suffering at the hands of society that you have endured. I have autoimmune illnesses and can relate to the cruelness of those who would rather judge than walk beside you with grace. You are both so strong and so powerful both as a couple and as individuals. I may not share your faith, but I always encourage people to dwell and thrive in their spiritual convictions. I hope you find peace as you enter this next leg of the journey. Keep your chins pointed up to the sun and don’t give up.
I tried IVF this year, and it's so difficult to explain. I think you did really well and I hope everything goes well for you!
how was the experience for you?
Just found you on YT! You came up on my feed, so thankful for that!! Almost 3 yrs on my TTC journey, and this video hit hard because it’s exactly how I feel right now!! ❤❤❤ baby dust to everyone 🫶🏼🫶🏼
We just did ICSI- my egg retrieval was 10 days ago and I can’t WAIT to schedule our transfer ❤ I’m so thankful for science because without it many of us wouldn’t get the dream of being a mom!! Excited for you Rachel!
As someone who just had a baby, I completely understand the natural desire to want to start a family and have a child of your own. No one should judge your decision. I wish you nothing but the best in this journey. ❤️
TTC community memeber here and i approve your message. My husband and i are going to shady groove fertility next week. With 2 miscarriages on Christmas and his 40th b day, we have not been able to conceive since. So i appraise you for using your benefits and ill say if you can do it and not be in debt do it girl. God gave that man his job for a reason. You will be a mom in Jesus name. Good luck 😘
Thank you for sharing your journey. As a Christian going through my own fertility journey this is incredibly relatable. Its so nice to see that I am not alone in these thoughts and view points. I even started a new job about 2 years ago, (near the time we decided to start trying) and recently learned that I have progyny through them. Would love prayers for my husband and I as we navigate this journey. And will be praying for you as well.
good luck with your IVF journey!💗
Thank you!!
Only found your videos a few days ago and wow!!! We have been trying for over 2 years now and also about to start this journey, your not alone & sending you all the luck!
Thank you for explaining IVF. I actually never knew all of this - I just knew it was an “intense” way to get pregnant. This was very informative and helpful. Wishing you the best on this process ❤
P.S. science is wild & amazing! 🧪
I just want to say you look beautiful! The long hair looks so good on you 🤩Praying for you guys during this next chapter of your ttc journey 🙏🏽
Thank you for sharing! Continue to look to God for guidance in this journey. He will tell you what is right for you & AJ and your future family. Lifting you up in prayers. The moment you hear your baby cry it will all be worth it! No matter how he/she gets here, they are a gift and blessing from God.
As a christian, you may want to listen to Allie Beth Stuckey on Relatable. She has done several podcasts on that topic, including interviews.
Keep your children with an open hand. Trust God to guide you rather than telling Him what you're going to do. Learn everything you can and embrace the moral struggle of what IVF really is. I'm certain God is testing your resolve to follow and trust him. Praying for you and AJ.
You do you, don’t listen to the opinions of random strangers. 😊 My husband and I also were of the opinion that IUIs weren’t for us, the success rates aren’t a great fit for all. I’m 36 so didn’t want to delay even tho my amh is good. Crossing my fingers for a smooth journey for you both!
I'm a Christian, specifically a Baptist, and I don't judge you at all. My husband and I tried for a year and 7 months, suffered a miscarriage, we were going to seek iui or ivf but his insurance doesn't cover any of that so we couldn't do that. We did get pregnant naturally 7 months after our miscarriage though. I think you have to do whatever you can and I know your baby will be apart of the kingdom of God and that is never a bad thing!! Praying for you!
Just sending so much love to you Rachel and your husband🧡. I think it’s really brave to share this journey with us.
Dear Rachel I am praying for you and AJ. You both will be great parents. Praying also for your community to be graceful because cannot imagine going through what you are going and dealing with mean people. Praying for strength and patience during this rough season.
Thanks for sharing your journey. I went through IVF with my twin sister from start to finish and I can say it takes a lot of time, patience and determination. But it is sooo worth it. Starting early is great as you never know what the IVF timeline will end up being based on how each person's body reacts to all the meds. I am sending all my positive thoughts and wishes your way - you can do this!
Rachel you're so strong. I would never judge another woman for what she does with her body, including reproductive health decisions (I know many other Christians disagree but that is okay we all have different beliefs). Praying for you every step of the way.
I love your openness about infertility. I’m on iui cycle #1 and also struggle with infertility. The road is long and exhausting and people tell me all the time to “just relax and it’ll happen” but I agree with you when you said that’s not how your brain works because that’s not how mine works. I’m also a Christian and also had a gut feeling/fear on infertility and to actually be going through treatments is much tougher than I thought!! Good for you for moving forward with IVF… it’ll be a tough journey im sure but God will be with you through all of it! May He bless us both with baby #1 very soon!! 💕💕💕
God bless your journey, Rachel! Praying for a successfull IVF! people’s opinions should be the least of your worries. please dont be bothered by that and take care of your mental health. please continue to do whats best for your family. Lots of love!
Thank you so much for sharing Rachel! This was helpful for me to watch as we are going through IUIs and debating about IVF ourselves. If you ever do decide to share more about how you’re processing that in the context of Christian faith I would love that as this is what we are wrestling with but totally respect wanting to keep that private too ❤ You and AJ will be in my thoughts and in my prayers as you go through this process!
It is sad that you and your husband are having to struggle with TTC, but I am happy that you are going to try IVF. Is a bumpy road but I am sure you’ll will rise above it ❤
Rachel, you have been an inspiration to me as I have been struggling with unexplained infertility for 18 months and I'm approaching my first IUI cycle... we're the same age and you just feel very relatable and as a christian I truly value your opinion and your view on infertility ans the treatments that come along with it. Thankyou for breaking the stigma and thankyou from the bottom of my heart for sharing your journey with me. I'm excited to see you become a mom! Love you💖
With me and my husband having IVF as our next step in 7 years of infertility, I can’t wait to walk this journey with you ❤
Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us. I’m nearly three years into the TTC journey and there are SO many things you’ve said throughout your process that are very relatable. I’m sending you abundant love and peace as you continue to navigate your journey.
Rachel, I never comment but I wanted to leave some love for you and AJ. I really hope you become an IVF mom and, like you, I believe that God creates our path and our blessings as He sees fit. I'll light a 7-day candle every week for you and you motherhood for the next 8 weeks and I hope this brings you a little bit of strenghth 💖
you're so sweet
I am a Christian and also a Baby nurse (LDR/PP Nurse). You have absolutely no reason at all to feel ashamed or judged. God loves you, and all He’s doing now is just providing you with an opportunity to conceive another way. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. Babies are a miracle from God and nothing will ever change that ❤
Thank you for the informational portion of the video of IVF. I am proud of your boldness, resilience and overall trust in God. He is a good Father! You’re miracle is on its way!
Praying for you and wishing you and your husband all the best.❤
I’m having the same deductible issue with my IVF - my friend who’s a doctor actually made me see the silver lining is if/when we get pregnant next year, the hospital bill will basically be free! Good luck to you, know that you’re not alone ✨
Sending you so much love, light and positive vibes ✨ thank you for being so open and allowing us to be part of this journey 🩵
Beautifully and gracefully put. Way to stand your ground. Cheering you on, Rachel!!!
Hi Rachel. I found you quite a while ago when researching minimal living and have been watching ever since. I pray the Lord will bless you and AJ with a child. Remember, his timing is perfect. 🙏🏻❤️
Proud of you Rachel. I know this probably isn’t the easiest for you, but your UA-cam community is here to support you!
Sending you love and support as you move forward with IVF. ❤
Prayers for this next journey in your TTC story. 🤍🤍🤍
I am so thankful you share your faith.🙏 That is really ONE of the main draws for me to your channel. You seem to have an amazing family. You have to make the correct decision for your family. You have done a great job of explaining this subject. The sad thing about you tube/social media is the haters have access to you/your life. I have always felt a little creeped out by what the internet can bring into my home. Don’t let negative people question your choices.
Love you and your transparency Rachel. I have no idea why but i got teary eyed watching this, I truly see God’s hand in your life He’s got you🫶🏼
I've loved following your journey. Thank you for sharing. I did not experience infertility until after I used hormonal birth control after my 2nd child. It really threw everything off in my body. Its now been almost 3 years of trying for a baby. Praying you have a successful IVF journey. I think its definitely a great idea to take advantage of those benefits.
Me (27y) and my husband (32y) tried to conceive for 2 and a half years before finally having our first ever positive pregnancy test! We were ''diagnosed'' with unexplained infertility and had three inseminations before moving to IVF. I had 27 eggs retrieved, 22 mature, 16 fertilized with the traditional method and that cycle gave us our 5 untested 4AA embryos. I'm now lucky enough to be pregnant with our daughter, due on November 9, after our first embryo transfer.
I understand your decision to go for IVF and I don't think it's necessary to wait any longer or try anything else. :)
congratulations!!!!! :)
Your explanation was perfect and so informative, as a nurse and feel like I learned a lot from this! Y’all have sought the Lord and have been amazing examples, praying for y’all in this time 🤍
I hope this stops weighing you down because by sharing you are helping so many people and lifting weight from them 🙏🏻 thank you for everything you share so honestly
You've got this Rachel! Praying for great things to come in this next chapter!
Rachel you are amazing! I love watching all of your videos and have been watching for a long time! Do not let anyone’s opinions get in your way of this journey! It is your journey with AJ and no one else’s! Enjoy every part no matter how hard and we will all rejoice with you when you are finally the mother you deserve to me and we have all hoped you would be soon! You are going to be a mom how exciting!!! ❤❤❤
Faith is so personal and individual and the best person to know what God wants for YOUR life, is you. He speaks to each and everyone of us directly.
Thank you Rachel for sharing your story with us❤ praying for you and your family🙌🏻
Rach stay strong, positive and try to enjoy this journey, both the ups and downs, so that when you look back one day with your baby in your arms, you remember this challenging time with lots of love and gratitude. Don’t let anybody take that away from you!! ❤️❤️❤
Just came here to wish you luck with your IVF journey! It seems like you’re getting some negativity surrounding your decision, but keep doing what you’re doing. I think your perspective is so important here. I was raised catholic and understand the reasons Christians find IVF controversial. But I personally am in full support of your body, your choice and I believe this decision is between you and AJ and God and nobody else need to be involved here. So I wish you guys the best of luck with this new phase of the journey! You guys are gonna make great parents! (And can we just say how AMAZING it is to have fertility benefits?! It’s incredible that companies are starting to have them and that alone is reason enough to me to want to get going with this process) ❤
One of my best friends was an IVF baby, and she has a twin!! And then later her mom also naturally conceived another son as well. It’s not in your timing, but in Gods timing❤
It took 9 months to get my period back after birth control (10 years on it) . Never again will I take it. Not trying to get pregnant but if you are and in bc you might want to do it a year before
You are a very strong woman Rachel...Your faith in God will help you become a mom very soon...Wishing you all the best in your IVF journey!
Every choice you make is valid, and the availability of these options for you shows that God is on your side. I wish you the best of luck! Thank you for your vulnerability, you are empowering and comforting thousands by sharing your story
Honestly, I don't even think 17 months is too short of a time. You went through a whole lot of stress during this time and if it makes sense for your journey, it is best to go for the next phase.
I wish you luck, Rachel. May God give you what's best for you.
Rachael, God is with you and AJ ❤
God bless you both and I know God will give you favor in the process. God has you two ❤️
Sarah’s Laughter infertility podcast is an amazing resource. I encourage everyone and anyone to check out it podcast. It has been so helpful to me along my infertility journey. Rachel, thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. I am praying for you and your family, may God’s will be done.
Such a heart felt video 🫶🏼 you are so incredibly brave to share your story! Wishing you the best of luck on this next chapter 💛
You and AJ are so mature and strong and that is God working in you to prepare you for the decisions you have to make on this journey. You have the support of your family (it seems) so that's a bonus. Wishing you well. I understand eveything you've said.
Sending you lots of love, prayers and hope ❤❤❤ we’re rooting for you Rachel. Your journey is so inspiring as someone who may want to be an OBGYN
Absolutely love your honesty!I know that God has wonderful plans for both you and AJ ❤ Sending lots of love and prayers your way 💗
I loved how eloquently you discussed this. What you said is so true: it's easy for someone to say "I would never do XYX" when you've never been in that position or had to make that decision before. I'm sure this choice has brought up a lot of new feelings for you, particularly as a young Christian woman who yearns for children of her own, and I just want to say how much I appreciate your transparency on here.
18:49 - the reason you are afraid of being judged on this topic is because essentially they are coming after your would-be child. That shows right there you are already a great Mom and will not stand for someone criticizing your children (even before they are conceived!). Good for you! Stand strong, and delete commenting if you need to protect your mental health :)
Praying for you Rachel. I know God’s hand is on your life. One thing people can remember is that NOBODY can ruin God’s plan. This was such a vulnerable thing for you to share. If you know what God told you that’s all that matters. We’re called to obey Him alone. Much love and God bless you💞
Love you girl! So happy for you as you begin the process, and so thankful you share about your faith and how you went about deciding this. What a beautiful testimony! You got this ¨̮
I wish I would have seen these videos years ago! I love how you explaine everything! This is your journey and your life❤ I am praying for you and your husband ❤️🙏🏻
You’re gonna be a great mom 🤍 Praying for you to have the family you want, full of laughter with your sons and daughters :)
Thank you so much for expressing and educating women regarding TTC with infertility. I’m currently trying it’s been 5mo and I’m also all in so I completely understand what you mean. I pray that Gods will will be done. So thank you for this.