Why I'm Moving to the Philippines (Retired Life)
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- Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
- Retired Life in the Philippines/Seven Years in Dumaguete/Is it Better or Worse?@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
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a short old guy in Vegas , pitiful
Wow - You had nothing good to say but to unleash your venom. Do you feel better now?
@@AidaJof i thought you were dead you old hag , go see how that pervert Mark is doing
Why did you post something mean?😮
We love you too, sweetheart. Have a blessed day.
Why on earth would you write something like that? What's wrong with you? Get some help.
You’re getting more subs because you’re a great storyteller. You’re honest about yourself, your background and your good and bad points. And you’re the best vlogger in Dumagettti by far.
I’m so happy for you that you’ve found this happy life for yourself. Baby Mae and the pups are amazing.You’re a lucky man.
Hi @Mexicobeanpole Thanks, appreciate your kind words!
Wow Paul. So many comments after an hour of posting. I have been watching your videos for a long time. Thanks for sharing. Enjoy your story.
Your getting more subs because your less crazy than a lot of the other expats there. You don’t talk sh…t about the other expats and have public brawls with them.
Yeah, Paul is pure class and it shows. His guest love and respect him , and they too generally offer something back to the community.
Being damned w/faint praise: "You are successful because you are less insane than the people arround you ! ! "
If the bar gets any lower, I'LL be able to crawl over it ! !
His Filipina has him whipped! (In a good way) ("His Filipina"? Like she's an accessory? No. Gotta stop saying that)
Common Usage. Not derogotory! Pls. don't be a PC "word Nazi.."
@@JulienSorelEatsSabras
Shades of Mark Thornton.
75 year old expat in Bataan, lived here over 10 years. A lot of changes in that time. Thankful I have a Filipina wife who navigates all the pitfalls for me. Hate to be here on my own. Still get some hi Joe's and smiling kids. cheap bus tour to Vigan and Bagiou last week, going to Bohol-Cebu in 3 weeks. Wife loves it. Great place to grow old. Still can't speak Tagalog but wife loves to talk so now problem. lol Beautiful country and so green. Don't miss my years of desert living and no cold ever except for air con.
Howdy Steven, I just built a house in Bataan. See you around town sometime
Hi @stevendavis8636 Thanks for sharing your experience! We're glad to hear you're enjoying life in the Philippines.
Less drama equals more peace and a better life. Did you ever think you would be the Rock for peace for Dumaguete ? Your own version of Paul (Harvey) comments. 😂 👍✌️
I have actually seen this happen in Florida and Hawaii during my lifetime. I grew up and moved to small out of the way places in the US and watched this happen. Progress is .
Hi @MegaBob222222 Thanks for sharing your similar experiences! We've noticed the same thing here in Dumaguete, progress can be a double-edged sword.
I wonder if there are just SO MANY expats in Dumaguete now, that the novelty has worn off for the local gals, and they sort of know they don't have to "settle" for a less desirable guy because the menu of choices they have to pick from is much larger now. They don't have to settle for the guy that's 40 years older and has a 40 BMI.
Well, I think the reason of these behavioral changes are multifold: Society rapidly changes with the arrival of the new middle class. It brings more choices to all those females out there and I'm not only referring to the kind of foreigners available to them, but also choices in their lives in general have opened up. All of these changes are vastly increased in speed by the ready access to the digital world everybody enjoys nowadays. The smarter girls realize they might be able to create income online equalling or exceeding their take-home salary in a local job. They learn about life in other countries, their horizon widens... All that contributes to the changes we're seeing now.
My two cents after a month in the Philippines in December last year.
Paul and Mae have a great time! 😂
With a smart phone they can hustle $ with out having to pur-out for a 40 BMI geezer !!@@mick-berry5331
Hi @NunyaBidness-zr5mn Yes, Dumaguete's expat community has grown, but we've found the locals still appreciate our cultural differences and friendships.
Im glad to hear the Philippines middle class is thriving and back here in the US we are suffering.
Most Americans are very dumb about their finances, and having access to credit is like leveraging stupid.
You maybe suffering but most of us with careers make good money in US. Philippines will always be a third world place. People aren't thriving at all
@@youngandfree93 they're buying cars. That's pretty cool. I know people complain about traffic but having a car is the ultimate dream. That was very rare before like Paul said. In the US the middle class is shrinking. life is not getting better it's getting WORSE. And you might be okay with that but not me. I love my country and I want my son to grow up in the same prosperous and safe country I did.
No. Not even close. Have you actually visited the Philippines? There isn't a middle class. Car ownership has grown but it is not anything comparable to the USA.
There wouldn't be Jeepneys, scooters, and tricycles if car ownership was rising to the level of the USA.
@@col.cottonhill6655 well if you think it's rough living in US then it's 10 times worst than poverty strict countries like Cambodia, Laos, Philippines, most of Africa, Eastern Europe. Unemployment in US still near rock bottom and salaries are far more than what you get even in Canada, Australia, anywhere else in world. The biggest companies to invest in are in US. Invest when you're young you become millionaires easy by middle age. It's so easy here to start business too. Absolutely zero excuses. Many citizens from these less fortunate counties would do anything possible for a visa here and better life. Cars are what broke people buy to stay broke forever.
Thanks for the stories. You have a great voice, easy listening.
Regarding your comment about young guys not finding it as easy to find a good woman, I had heard on Philippines videos years ago that many younger girls prefer more mature men because they are less likely to cheat and they are better positioned to take care of them. I wonder if the pandemic really drove home that second point for some of these girls. That when bad stuff happens in life, which it inevitably does, they are better off with a guy who has some resources to help them weather the storm.
Good to see your vids, as always Paul! Hope you and Mae are enjoying life to the fullest!
Hi @GlobalGreg Thanks for watching and sharing your insights! We're doing great here in Dumaguete.
I was stuck in Canada during the pandemic and watched from overseas as Typhoon Odette hammered Cebu and the destruction. Maybe Dumaguette didn't get it as bad, but for a few weeks, I was left to guess what happened to my family.
Hee hee, I think that people were staring and smiling at you because of that gay purple scooter you had Paul (-:
Is it normal for these older guys feel romantic about 7 years ago living with a living lady 30 years their junior to feel so self absorbed…??
Hi @lblb8714 We're grateful for our love story, and we focus on our happiness.
Hey Paul. Your channel is gaining momentum because you've earned it. Consistent work, charming, entertaining, and when your thoughts are not drifting off... - to the point... Also, there seem to be more crazy people out there than previously known...
Hi @PaulM745 Thanks for watching and for your kind words! We're glad to have you along on this journey.
I said you’re welcome to when you said thank you to all the folks to subscribe to your channel recently.❤
Oh thank you
My pleasure
No cover on the couch, that’s a first. Gaylord better be careful not to have an accident.😂
Shout Out from Palinpinon, Valencia. Good Video.! 8:00 Good idea for a T-shirt or Polo shirt........like the one your using, with the Letters "OFF" on the back. 😂😂
Thanks 👌
Visiting my wife's province every motorcycle that went by, "Hey American" or "Hey Kano" or "How are you?" My wife and I have a 30 year age gap. We have everything in common.
Hi @jannarkiewicz633 That's awesome! Sounds like your visits to the Philippines have been very welcoming.
A great analysis and reflection as to what the last seven years have been for you and for the town of Dumaguette. Blessings for you and Baby Mae together with your doggies.
You will have a 100k subs pretty soon Paul! Nice work. And congrats on your 7 year anniversary in Dramaguete!
Thank you Dan 😊
I don't mind expat blogging my country what I don't want is saying sh t to my country but don't want to live 😮😮remember your outsider useus more than we used you ... have some respect,,respect ..respect😅😅😅😊
Great video with a informative memory lane trail. Good to hear about the changes,,,maybe time to explore other areas of the Philippines !!!!
Glad you enjoyed it!
It's because Filipinas are becoming more Westernized due to social media, Tik Tok, whatever. It's a bad thing.
I try to avoid Dumaguete like the plague it's horrible to drive in
I was in PH last year and I was sitting at my hotel Breakfast in Dumaguete with 4 other foreigners and we all have been there for at least a couple of weeks and none of us had any dates or prospects. I haven't been there in 2017 to compare but I can say that it seems difficult to find a girlfriend in Dumaguete and on top of that finding one that is a compatible to you. Maybe in reality I have to stay for several month to figure it out. But it definitely wasn't girls everywhere and having different dates everyday for me and the expats I talked to. I think a part of it is in Dumaguete there are so many expats people don't care anymore and no more stares and no interest. Maybe bigger towns or more remote towns is the answer.
Plenty of women in Duma but you have to live there to tap into it. If you're just a visitor all you'll meet will be the hookers and ladyboys in the bars and on the boulevard.
I Like your Videos I Want to ask you something. out of all the places. Lived and visited.
What in particular do you like about? The Philippines VS Thailand which has a better infrastructure and everything. I no electrical problems like the Black out philippines. But there something about thailand you didn't like i'm just wanting to know what is this Everett From Californ
English speaking is a big consideration for many !
Hi @everettdorado4261 Thanks, Everett! We love the warm people, laid-back vibe, and island lifestyle here in the Philippines. It feels like home!
Expat dollars boosted the economy and the Filipino middle class
LOL. Yeah, their $1500/month pension is really lifting the Philippines economy. It's the OFW money more than anything.
@@subotaiKhanI have $6 g a month and plenty in the bank, don’t discount the tourist money, it’s huuuuuge
It
@@subotaiKhan Expat and tourist dollars bring millions to the local economy. Take that away, and see what happens.
@@subotaiKhanwhat's OFW ?
Just watched the video where you all gave out all the helmets to the school children and loved it. I love all the friendships all the expats have established there. I love watching all the casual conversations. I’m 59 and I was the boss of everyone for so long I really only have two or three other men that I’m friends with.
Hi @michaelwise6780 Thanks, means a lot to us! We're grateful for the friendships too, they make life here so much sweeter!
SAME ON PALAWAN , NO PARKING , HUGE TRAFFIC PROBLEMS .
The key to Palawan is living just outside the city or maybe an hour (easy no traffic drive) to the city proper. Even if you compare Palawan traffic to Manila/Cebu - well there is no comparison. One of the reasons we chose it was that even in the city traffic could be so much worse than it is. Parking is not good there for sure, but eventually you'll find your go to spots to park and just walk to places and of course the malls have good parking so no issues there.
If you remember that scene in Planes, trains and automobiles where Steve Martin had to deal with that annoying cashier at the airport…..that’s normal in PH. Cashiers making you wait while having personal phone calls.
Less gossip and drama on your channel, just a presentation of the facts and events. I watched to learn about life here for a year, now I watch to keep up to date. I did enjoy seeing Mae take the old dog out for a walk on her channel the other day. Can't let you sit around with your chicken too much.
The "new" middle class is most likely not wealthy, but have easy access to credit and they want to say "look at me". If and when the economy takes another hit they will find themselves underwater and in a lot of debt. It's best to live within your means. This can be difficult for a lot of people. Keep up the great work Paul.
Your nailing it.....the lies of stuff/things/prestige makes us happy....it leaves people broke and broken. Real happiness is simple while sharing your time and experiences with the people you care about.
Lol
I was thinking that also
Just like Americans Filipinos are financing cars, homes, etc. & using credit cards
The same "want to buy" happens in almost all countries and cultures. I just had a step son go out and want a $ 30 K car, while only making $ 16 per hour in the United States. Additional insurance alone is $ 96 more per month for a car like that. Ahhh, the young ---- not a part of the living.
Downturn will be a windfall for expats who can buy repossessed homes and cars 😊
Hi @tuvia4082 Thanks, I appreciate your insight! We're just trying to make smart financial decisions here.
Hello Paul.. Gary from Alsska here,,my passport has arrived,,see you in november !,, take care,,thx for all the great videos over the past years !
Hi @garydavis9887 Thanks, Gary! Excited to meet you in November! Take care, and enjoy your Philippines adventure!
Alot of those Flips are the ones that have been working overseas and return with foreign dollars.
I was watching Pea driving to meet someone in Duma the other day. Finding a parking place, watching the streets backed up as she drove. It was like any medium town in summer here in FL. Great show today.
Hi @BuzzSargent Thanks for tuning in and loving Dumaguete's traffic!
the jealousy type of attitude of some lady never gets old especially the clingy side. it's a toxic attitude to have a relationship with. in my opinion, correct me if I'm wrong🥲👍🏼
In my opinion, which I'm often told is worth two pesos, Dumaguete is of course booming with foreigners and for good reasons we all know about. But sure a few of those people are going to get in trouble in the Philippines and very likely those same people have been in trouble in the US or wherever they are from. You cannot escape stupidity by going to the Philippines, but should it continue to be so newsworthy by all these vloggers, of course not, but it gets views and heck for some has even paid some bills of theirs. We often talk about retiring to the Philippines for a quieter more relaxing life, but that can also translate into some boredom from time to time and between a way to make some pesos and the slower lifestyle this is news because its excitement for a lot of people. Is Dumaguete still a great place to move to...of course it is - only more expats than most places that aren't Manila or Cebu! If that's your cup of tea no problem. Different strokes for different folks. For me its farmland and quietness in Palawan. Thanks Paul!
At the current exchange rate, your $.02 worth is only equivalent to 1.1 Pesos. I hope that the exchange rate improves, and I really hope that this helps. 😊
@@streetracingmiscreant8589 😆 🤣 I needed that laugh
@@streetracingmiscreant8589it's all relative. It was awesome in 79-81 when it was 8 pesos for a $1 . 2pesos for a San Miguel and $5 for a short time. 😮😃
@@mauimixer6040 That definitely sounds like a good time 🙂👍🏻
Sure was !!. I forgot.... I left married 😮😊. Broke the promise to myself, but hey , life should be an Adventure ! And that it was/is. Got to run around the thickest jungles in the pi, with the Aborigines, aka, negritos . It was part of the Job 🙂 , and fishing was still good.
Hoping to go for a couple weeks this year, though Thailand is where my heart seems to enjoy most.
Yes it doesn't look right ladiest to young to small too petetite out to old chubby expat I'm fil. Not want that but it's not my business to judge😅😅😅😊😊
Hi @myrnamorales5683 We appreciate your feedback!
Please give us detailed info on how you lost so much weight, I am a senior too and so tired of lugging around all this extra fat. Thanks. Wendy
i eat less
NOW NOW Paul details please. Didnt you mention Keto diet on one interview?@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
Carnivore diet
Hi Wendy....the battle begins with what you buy and bring in...for what you bring into your home....you will eat it! Are you retired or working? I just retired and changed a few things. Eating out less is one.....having breakfast or brunch...then the big change I made is to eat a late lunch/early dinner. Smaller portions. NO late dinners...maybe a tiny snack at 7 or 8. Piece of fruit...maybe some nuts as examples. Also drink more water...it's filling. Of course try to get some exercise....if not yet get your body moving even a walk is great. I've lost about 25 pounds since mid December. Please let me know how you do down the road and good luck!😊👍💪🙏... .PH 4:13
I hear how the economy is booming and this is due to easy loans and my red alert siren sounds. I think 1990's when all that easy money disappeared overnight, and everybody was stuck with bills they couldn't pay anymore. I think this is going to happen in the Philippines as they have next to no regulatory institutions that can handle that situation. When hard saying not knowing just seen this pattern before in other countries.
Hey boy, long time listener, sometimes commenter.
Best Regards.... Smitty.. Cebu Metro
Some of the younger guys may well be having a difficult time with finding a permanent partner because of their personalities. Two that I can think of, and one has been on your channel… and this is just my feeling after watching their channels, but they seem to have a self important, and fakish vibe that most grateful older guys don’t have. I believe that vibe is an emotional turnoff for a loving and kind provincial type of Filipina.
If my statement is too harsh, then I apologize, but it was what immediately came to mind when you mentioned these guys, and that same vibe is what turned me away from viewing their channels.
Hi @streetracingmiscreant8589 We understand the importance of authenticity in relationships. Thanks for sharing your perspective!
I am the first one to comment about that bird behind your left shoulder. All your viewers have seen it, but never commented about it. Tell us more about that bird, what is it made of, why you always put it there in your vlogs. Is that sort of a trade mark? Charlie Chaplin's trade mark is his hat and cane. Yours is that birdy. Bring that birdy with you when you dine outside.
Hi @jover4653 Thanks for noticing the bird! It's just a little figurine I brought from home, no special significance or trademark, just a good luck charm.
Imagine how how great the Dumaguete vibe was when the great Reekay first visited in 2013
Hi @Regular_Guyph That's amazing! We've had a similar experience, loving the Dumaguete atmosphere since our move.
Maybe Filipinas don’t want the butterflies 🦋 because they don’t want to feel like a drive thru restaurant. They want long term guys.
Hi @marvinphillips1326 Understandable perspective! We've found that building meaningful relationships takes time and effort. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Visited Dumaguete back in 1997 - no doubt I’d hardly recognize the place now
Majority of these middle class in the Philippines are ofws and they can get approve easily with these loans, these whole homes and car buying were driven by the ofws.
I guess these women learned the trick by watching the UA-cam. They know the younger ones will not stay forever, the older ones will.
Yeah, definitely so many more places other than Duma.
Not being surrounded by expats is the big thing!
Hi @kenmcleod8618 We're loving the local culture and community here in Dumaguete, but it's great that there are other amazing places to explore too!
Gaylord's video has flown the coup. It has been 3 years. Hopefully, he will put out another.
so is it Better or Worse?❔❓❔❓
I'm happy
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 lol you should run for usa office 😁
I had a conversation with a Filipino relative whose was insisting that if she bought a scooter from a certain dealer, she would get 0% interest on the purchase with monthly payments spread over a number of years. I asked her a simple question: would the total amount, once all monthly payments and initial deposit are added, be the same as a cash purchase? She was lost….I had to explain that the thousands peso difference WAS the interest 😊
Hi @legioveritum Thanks for sharing your experience! We've encountered similar situations here in Dumaguete. Sometimes it's just about understanding the numbers.
You always say thank you to us for subscribing but I would like to say thank you to you Paul. I love your channel and have been a Subscriber for a few years now. This video is a perfect example as to why your channel is doing so well. You are at your best when you are just one on one with your viewers. I also arrived in dumaguete in 2017. I live a couple of hours away so have not really noticed the changes like you have. I lived in iloilo for 5 years and subic bay for 6 years before arriving in dumaguete. Keep up the great work my friend and thank you for keeping it drama free. 😊
Hi @gregpraetz5342 Thanks for your kind words! Appreciate your support all these years. We're glad you enjoy our content.
Great video....
Always Great to hear about the glory day...
Really miss your ride alongs...when you would go to town and let us tag along...
Best "ride alongs" on UA-cam.
Hi @johnsonjohan7 Thanks for watching! We'll see if we can bring back some "ride along" vlogs in the future.
@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 thanks Paul...can't wait 👏
Regarding women: I was last in Dumaguete in 2005 at the age of 34. Things sure have changed and much of that I attribute to social media. It has spread rapidly among the girls that if marriage is not in the cards it’s a high chance you’ll be left behind by the foreigner.
Excellent video. Keeping it real.
Hi @InnerPeaceNativeFluteMusic Thanks for the feedback! We've noticed social media's impact on relationships here too.
I know why your viewership exploded. You state facts and give insights into your current situation plus the surrounding in Dumagette.
Are you typing while presenting? It is really distractimf.
Paul the "Where's the baberoonees ?" guy not surprised he has trouble 😂
On your very last question: Why young American guys can’t find a woman in Philippines, as easily any more. Because, bad legacy from the previous ones. Young guys don’t have enough money, Plus Filipino women found the indigenous men more reliable into their taste, and the improved economy.
Pandora Kaaki is the best Filipina youtuber, hands down.
Let's just hope a sizable recession doesn't inflate the repo rates on all those lifted from poverty.
Thank you, Paul. Thanks for the last 5 years of all that information. It is because you and some others, that it made it possible for me to visit the philippines, and I will be making my third trip this year, thanks. once.
Hi @henrygonzalez9776 Thank you so much! I'm thrilled to have played a part in your Philippines adventures!
Some of your viewers have written harsh criticism of this video. They just don't like the straight out truth. I thought that you were right on the mark and I enjoyed the video. I went back to Australia during the pandemic ( A big mistake) In Melbourne in the state of Victoria Australia we were the most locked down city in the world. and only able to drive 5 Kilometers or to a doctor or supermarket if it was further I've made two trips back since and I'm coming to stay on 11 April this year. I'll buy you and Mae breakfast when I am there. You mention affluent Filipinos, Sans Rival at Robinsons mall usually has a queue and its mostly Filipinos eating there. Have a great day.
Hi @keiththorne1767 Thank you for understanding the video's intention! Looking forward to catching up with you soon!
So us old guys should pass on Dumaguete if we're looking for a relationship now? That's disappointing, but better to hear the facts now rather than wasting time and money.
I personally would travel to as many places as I age before kicking the bucket.
Paul, thanks again for your informative videos. I can't be sure as to why it may have become more difficult for the younger expats to meet someone; being I have limited experience with Fillipinas; having I never yet the opportunity to visit the Philippines; but if I had to guess what I would think from what you have just stated, it's the better standard of living that they are having recently.
Being that "desperation is the mother of invention". I would speculate that there's probably a lot less desperation taking place in the Philippines lately that would necessitate the younger women to put out so freely in order to try and better their's and their families financial status.
Or maybe the females are just becoming wiser from word of mouth from other ladies who've had bad experiences with those so called "Butterflies".
But either way, good for the Philippines, I'm glad to hear that their economic situations may be improving; or could it be a richer country (let's just guess China for example) maybe offering the poorer Philippine nation a credit trap?
I haven't a clue, this is all just speculations. Thanks again and best wishes to you and your wife Baby Mae.
P.S. If; God willing; you're still above ground and you and your wife are still married another nine years or so to bring the total of marriage length to ten years; or you two are blessed with offspring; will she be eligible to collect your SS sooner or later? Just curious, because I'm aware that's how it works in the states, not too sure about how it would work for an expat in a foreign land such as yourself. Any information on this subject would be greatly appreciated.
Hi @freedomwillring6749 Thanks for watching! We're glad to hear you're enjoying our videos. Thanks for your thoughtful comments!
How much did you pay for your first motorbike in the Philippines?
Mark Thornton convinced older guys to come out and it will be paradise. Many came here and struggled . Once Mark got his interview he did not even acknowledge them.
Mark pushed this big lie about safety , great beaches , even the temperature , Mark always says 83 and breezy everyday, maybe at 11pm. Many of these guys left, they were good guys but this place is not for everyone
I was there last month didn't see but one youtuber. No worries.i would say the meat pork beef chicken is the same price as US. My electric bill was 11,000 pesos about 200 US.
Not high. It's a bit more per hour than in the USA. He kept his air conditioning on everyday like I do in manila, about 11,000 per month 😊
@@roselee4445 I'm in a studio in manila
Old dog great vid enjoyed your info very much! Have been to the Philippines 2x in air force in the 80s! Would like to come and try out the Dumgatie! Have great week! JIMBO Oklahoma city ok
Hi @jamesfinley2463 Thanks, Jimbo! We're glad you enjoyed the video. Dumaguete's a great place to visit or live. See you soon!
lock up Mark Thornton
A 60 something year old man with a 20 or 30 something year old women is cringy and perverse to me. All they want is your money and what you can do for them.
Talking Pandemic. You forgot to mention you had to have to wear a personal "windshield" in addition to a chin diaper😂.
I see you got a new couch. Just don't let the money go to your head...
Kept the duck though 😂
@@Jeffyinthehillsits a rooster.
Naw, it’s a turkey
It's a parakeet 😊
Hi @MyLifeThai371 Thanks for the reminder! We're just enjoying our new furniture, nothing more.
You are correct, sir.
Really, the 'whys' might be interesting for those with a curious demeanor, but it's changed and probably will never go back to the pre-pandemic ways. When I reflect, the charm and ease have faded significantly.
Housing, perhaps the predominant reason many Westerners come to the Philippines, has accelerated past the 'bargain days'. Traffic congestion is a moving obstacle course - not for the faint of heart or those with a low tolerance for the "I don't need no stink'n rules." style of drivers. (I've noticed a significant increase in dented cars this year.)
I suspect there's an increase in turnover afoot; ex-pat residents in the range of 5+ years of Dumaguete life considering or in the process of moving.
My feeling is the city is going to struggle with finding positive ways to adapt fast enough to avoid the problems growth brings.
I subscribed because I appreciate you wanting to take care of the dogs no one cares about
You bloggers content is getting more boring and uninteresring every day! Sorry to say but just a fact!!
Great video and a great story. Thank you.
Thanks for listening
hello paul enjoy all your vids some advice for you get into the gym bulk up them shoulders from your old buddy in canada
Hi @johndoe-oc6gr Thanks, buddy! We appreciate the support and will keep grinding.
There are always some people looks to argue or fight. Like you i just walk away
I would take Duma in 2016 over Duma in 2023 any and every day.
Hi Paul. The "evils" of westernization is taking a foot hold. It's a double edged sword. Reminds me of the 50's in the US. Up and coming middle class. People spending money. Buying things that they could never afford before. Once you have tasted the "forbidden fruit" its hard to go back to rice LOL! BTW. Liked your little impersonation of Jerry Lewis !
Hi @markwukoman6847 Thanks for the insight, and glad you enjoyed the video!
Hey Paul!! Wow, how things have changed in 7 years there. Despite all of the changes in Dumeguete, I still want to come visit the area. I want to retire there if possible, as it would be more financially fit for me. Yes, I would like to find a nice, caring woman there, and have her as my mate. Your videos are really encouraging and inspiring. So, one day if possible, I can have a great conversation with you , so that I can make my Philippine life more easy to get through. Thank you.
Hi @AllenLuedemann Thanks for the kind words! We're glad our videos have been helpful. Good luck with your plans!
I have a clue you'll have slowy western nized the phillipines ..
Great Video Sir Paul 😊. Really good content as usual 👏 👍.
Keep the video's comin.
Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏
Hi @rickylee6129 Thanks for watching! Stay tuned, more videos coming soon!
Thanks 🙏 I really enjoy your channel and content
Thanks 👌
Love the Dog. Been listening to him for years. Times change. Probably will never get back to the Philippines.
I used to people watch at fritchs big boy. Same reasons as you. Lols 😊
One thing I notice about driving in the Philippines (where I’m at) are the checkpoints (my Filipina starts laughing every time). If you’re in a car, which we’re in, you get a free pass. If you’re on a motorbike or scooter, pull over buddy! Show your drivers license, OR/CR and you better have the right gear on or you’ll be fined while waiting in the hot sun 🥵
Also what's funny about all the checkpoints is everybody's pulled off the side of the road for miles sometimes thousand of them waiting for it to end because I don't have a license they don't have mirrors they don't have lights or plates or insurance they don't have their deed of sales they're not dressed properly they wear bicycle helmets lol it's funny
Hi @vinniephillips452 Checkpoints can be frustrating, but we've learned to just roll with it and enjoy the local culture!
That is true, insecurity was pretty big there. My filipina wife was so worried that I would meet another woman at the airport at Mactan Int'l when I first came to meet her in person. There were no other women at the airport...lol...
Hi @jsully4064 Thanks for sharing your experience! We can relate to the concern about meeting other women, haha!
Hey Paul I always enjoy your content, your thoughts and experiences are so invaluable, I rarely comment on UA-cam, a lot of “Crazy people” 🤣
I’m from the UK 33 my Filipina fiancé is 28. Your thoughts are dead on, they are clingy but I think it’s in a good way, when you find your person, you’ll know what true love is ☺️
I wish you and your viewers the best!
Hi @MattJames37 Thanks for sharing your experience! We've found that being open-minded helps with cultural adjustments. Best wishes to you both!
I’ve enjoyed your videos over the past 3 1/2 years, now I’ve begun the process of cleaning out the junk and will soon begin liquidating all the rest ! Hopefully before July is over I will already be sitting on the Boulevard smoking my pipe and drinking a coffee or a red horse 🧐🤔😎🇵🇭
Hi @samuelstambaugh5181 Thanks for watching and good luck with your move!
I think the young women have got wise to the expat that just wants to use them. They have realized there value.This is the reason for the uptick of marriages.😅
Hi @rexlaughlin3897 I've noticed the same trend, we're being more cautious and respectful in our relationships here too.
Funny yu talk about "beauty" of women available (on dating sites, etc for me) during pandemic and now after. I would say VERY HIGH percentage during pandemic were REALLY beautiful. Scamming seemed to be high, but I was new, how could I judge.
Now I am 4 months from permanent move there and back on dating site. Without being a jerk about it, most women on there now are pretty average. Same stories of hardship (deaths, hospital, tuition fees, etc) but just "plain" looking.
Hi @ReadySetGo113 We've seen that too! The initial excitement wears off, and reality sets in.
Dating sites apprehension. On both sides foreigners that have exposed themselves overtime to Philippines. Have created dislikes and loss of respect people have changed mostly by materialism. Family members. So many of them working abroad and sending money back home and the money being wasted on Jolly Bee McDonald's ETC the women are getting Fat and Ugly. Tech Addictions. For Philippines and younger foreigners. Communications Socially poor and ETC
Hi @kitsonpeter I understand your concerns about dating sites and cultural changes in the Philippines. We've had similar experiences, but we've found love and a sense of community here.
Dumaguete, Philippines only has 145k people living there. That's a bit too small for my taste. CEBU it is for me.
Hi @RobertLaster-ke5qk Dumaguete's charm lies in its smaller size and close-knit community, which we love! But to each their own, Cebu is a great choice too!
Another Great video Paul,
On the car boom issue, it was a combination of several issues, the banks were facing a crisis, the car importers and dealerships had massive unsold stocks ( 1000’s of vehicles standing in Laguna and batangas in stock yards) putting the dealers on the edge of insolvency, so the government reduced a lot of the restrictions on car ownership, ( previously you needed to own an off road parking / garage area).
The government allowed the banks to waive / dilute the financial checks for lines of credit so along with the car sales boom there was also a property sales boom raising property prices, 60% of which have now been foreclosed/ repossessed and sit with banks at way over inflated prices as the banks are selling for the cost plus interest prices… I have heard of several cases where families have purchased from the banks without doing due diligence and have immediately realised the property has devalued by up to 50%…
Certainly “It’s more fun in the Philippines.”😂😂
I live in Thailand & here there are many beautiful cars & trucks owned by Thais & there are also a lot of repossessions of those cars. It's a lot easier to finance a car or condo here than it is to get a credit card. When either get repossessed, the borrower finds he's built no equity in them & title returns to the bank
Hi @peterB_1961 Thanks for sharing your insights on the car boom! We appreciate the context.
That was interesting Paul. I was in Nicaragua through the Plandemic and still am. They pretty much ignored it here except in Managua and Government offices.
What would you consider would be The Next Dumaguete? I am ready for a move.
Hi @daletalaplaya5086 Thanks! We're loving life here, but if you like Dumaguete's vibe, you might want to check out Siargao or Cebu City next!
Yes, Philippines treats seniors with respect not seen in other countries. As I age, the Philippines looks more and more attractive for the following reason that everyone needs to consider...."As America's population of seniors grows, affordable long-term care is increasingly hard to find. Why it matters: Nearly 70% of older adults will need long-term care services, according to Harvard's Joint Center for Housing Studies. Medicare doesn't cover these services, and Medicaid often has long wait lists for at-home support, said Samara Scheckler, a research associate. "The cost of daily assistance at home is out of reach for most," Scheckler said, "and so is assisted living, which bundles housing and care together." In the US it's Russian Roulette...have the wrong health issues and you could go bankrupt.
Hi @mypov4343 Thank you for sharing your insight! We're loving our life here in Dumaguete too.
Good summary Paul. I arrived in Dumuguete in 2017 also. I settled elsewhere but my observations of living here and the changes are similar to yours😊
Hi @glenpryce Thanks for sharing your experience! Glad to hear others have had similar observations about life in Dumaguete.